what scares me is that a lot of people have dreams like becoming rich, getting a good job, getting into a nice college but not everyone achieves these dreams, and i'm scared i'm gonna be one of them
That's why you need better goals like 'being happy, being stable, being fulfilled' because if you dont become rich but find something else that also gives you a happy life you still win, and on the other side you could get a great job be a millionaire get into your dream school and be miserable there. Or even defining specifically what "rich" looks like to you and the worth you find in nice college, good job.
Exactly, I am one of those people who have a lot a ambition and self determination but unfortunately i can’t change my current environment, following dreams requires betting on my own future, being alone also sucks you need to be very lucky to have a financially secure family back home and good networking system which are hard to come by.
it's so amazing how honest and unfiltered you are, even in front of a camera. you don't pretend like everything has been easy for you and don't cut out those things that are considered "embarrassing" online. please never stop making these type of real videos !! you are helping a lot of people
So I'm hitting my mid-30's and I'm probably your oldest fan here in terms of age (lol!), but I really appreciate these honest videos. I've felt behind in life ever since I made the difficult to drop out of the private college I attended for my bachelor's. Ever since then, I've wondered if my life would have been better if I just dealt with my anxiety, stress, and depression (I just wasn't enjoying what I was studying and I felt LOST) and finished all 4 years. I only survived 1.5 years of college before I decided to move back home and seek help. I am now back in school for nursing and am about to work for a school district. Folks, it gets better. If you feel behind now, you will reach your goals eventually. Just takes time.
I don‘t know if it helps, but my experience was the „opposite“: I started a masters degree and draged throught it; took me 2.5 years to work/finish on my thesis althought theoretically it was an easy topic. In the endphase (over 6 months) it made me consider to un4life daily… I despised to put effort into it… not being sure for whom or what I’m doing it for… and I was already in therapy for over 4 years because of anxiety and depression. So, you never know how your life goes or how those events will affect you. Afterwards I can‘t get rid of the feeling if I traumatised myself. I pushed throught something because I was to vain to drop out, to admit that I hadn‘t finished. I hope, it gives you a perspective that if you stayed in college it does not mean it would have been better 💛 just my two cents, I hope I'm not minimizing your experience with my comment 🫶
@@TheWhiteermineThank you for your comment. It means a lot. I still live with some regret that I wish I had pursued my bachelor’s degree instead of dropping out after my first year. It gets better, over time. I learn to accept the results as it is. And I truly hope things are better for you. It’s quite a feat to pursue your master’s degree. You powered through it. You’re strong. Even now. I wish you well, okay? Your kindness means a lot. 😊❤
Realizing you're a late bloomer can feel like discovering a hidden strength within yourself. It’s a reminder that growth doesn’t follow a set timeline, and beauty emerges at its own pace. While others may have blossomed earlier, there’s a unique richness in unfolding later, you come to appreciate the journey, develop resilience, and gain a deeper understanding of who you truly are. It’s like a flower that blooms after a long winter, offering something rare and special to the world. There’s no rush in life; your time to flourish is perfect just as it is.
9:50 oh Via when you started to say how you felt about yourself, it made me tear up. I think younger Via would be so proud and happy to see how far you have come❤
Needed this so bad!!!! As someone who is taking gap year, i feel like i am not doing best thing right now seeing how my friend are already starting their college life. Thank you for this video Via, you are the best big sister💗
OMG sameee!! 😭 sometimes when I see my friends stress for their assignment and stuff I do concern about their wellbeing but also kinda make me sad that I'm not like them, (deep down kinda envy tho). But now I'm trying my best, to look at it with a better view. Ofc that negative feelings comes here and there but mostly I'm quite optimistic Like now I have all the time I need to really think about what path I want to go, explore, and take baby steps to a better me. Anyway I'm just so happy to find you with the same struggle!! Hope you're doing well 😆
@@boraboo7889 Yes I can understand how you feel, seeing our friends worry about classes , assignments makes me feel like i am not doing enough but its alright cause i still have time and i can do better slowly. So let's do our best on choosing our path now!!!!!!!! I wish you the best for your upcoming days💗
omg!! i’m taking a gap year too and it really made me sad seeing my friends enjoy their college life but i have slowly started to accepting that it was the best choice for me and i’m grateful. plus it’s never, ever too late to purse higher education when the time is right.
Sammmeeeee, I'm also taking a gap year. I was scared, still am. I kinda failed my SAT and now I'm scared since my gap year will be worthless since tge purpose of it was to get into a good school. but these vids keep me going. We are gonna do this together.
I can't leave my a sian household because I'm not financially stable yet , all my friends left and started a new life meanwhile I'm here in the house being called a los3r all day long ..... please God i can't tolerate these energy vampires anymore .. You are such a big sister and our styles are very similar , i needed this , thank you so much for all your efforts for us ❤❤
There are better days ahead of you, their opinion dont matter u know my family thinks the same but i dont let that affect me. Just keep focusing on your career, move out if u really need to and try different hobbies for your mental health🎉
‘life is not a race’ is advice not everyone can afford. Being in your 20s with no other privilege but to fail, life feels like a race. A race against time and fleeting opportunities. If we can’t survive this now, who knows when, or if, it will come back. For some of us, life is not something we can just pause to breathe and try again. Some of us, out of breath, will try again and again because we cannot afford to fail. We don’t have much choice. We don’t have a backup plan because we are already the backup.
Agree this person doesn't seem to know what it's actually like to be behind in life, it's wasting years and mistakes that cost and that's your life things you can't get back, it's not blissfuly enjoying some slow life.
i will say it’s been a really rough few weeks with a lot of these thoughts and feelings. so it’s nice to hear that so many people feel similar cause i’ve been feeling so isolated
I genuinely thank you for making this video as I have been feeling a bit like I am falling behind, even the few friends i have are getting into relationships, they already know what they want to do in life, they all look and dress so beautiful and that makes me feel like an outsider sometimes. I am glad im not the only one
I'm proud of you! There is no mandated place that anyone needs to be in life. The only thing that we need to do as humans is wake up every morning. If you want something, you will get to it, trust me! Right now, though, you are important and loved and, what's more- Exactly where you need to be ♡
Via…as someone who’s much older I would just like to say tt you’re so mature and wise for your age. Even at my age you still are a huge inspiration and motivation to me. I’m so grateful to have found you online and thank you for just existing, always supporting you girl 🥰💪🏻💖
girl... weird how this video just came at the right time. for reference I'm 25. And I feel like our 20s are a very weird and difficult to navigate time, specially since everyone seems to be on a different timeline, which makes comparison so easy and so damaging at the same time, comparison is the thief of joy after all. I relate to you in a lot of ways, particularly in that introspective way of pondering over things and kind of parenting myself into a better and happier version of myself. Recently, I've been struggling a lot with accepting the fact that I just feel things very deeply and intensely, and it seems like it all hits me at once. I'm still a late bloomer romantic relationship wise and despite me knowing that if it hasn't happened yet then there's a reason, it's really hard to get out of my own way and focus on other aspects of my life. thank you for the video Via 💙 Hope you're doing well! To fulfilling unrealized potential ⭐
Seeing Via go through her ups and downs in these journal entries and watching her become so much more confident than before is such a pleasure. Especially because I have gotten that confidence myself compared to when I was in middle school and high school. It's super nice knowing were all making progress haha.
omg Via, you don't know how important your videos are to me. Whenever I feel like I’m not doing my best, there's always one of your videos to lift me up and truly brighten my days. I never write comments, but with you, I had to. Thank you for being the big sister I never had, for making me happy, for helping me realize that I can achieve anything I set my mind to, for making me feel understood, and for helping me love myself a little more with all your words and lovely advice. I don’t know if you’ll ever read this, but really, thank you for being you!! ily
As someone who has been struggling with my self-image and what I am doing with my life, it makes me feel so seen and inspires me to know someone who is so similar to me can change for the better. Looking back at your first video to now it literally made me sob at how much you've grown. keep inspiring others via we are all so proud of u!!!
I normally don't comment, but that part at 12:53 made tear up, and i just wanted to thank you because thanks to your videos i can tell myself more often "yes i can do that" even though it's still very hard to believe, i feel like im improving a little bit, and not just believing that i am destined to be a failure, it helps a lot more than you think, ty
i'm gonna turn 18 in a week and i feel like i wasted all my life doing nothing.. i seriously don't know what to do i'm always at home just bedrotting😭 people my age have a life and are achieving their goals meanwhile i don't even have anything i wanna do in life so i always wonder what my purpose in life is and if i'll ever get somewhere.. it's so depressing and i used to imagine myself as a whole new person at this age but i'm the exact same teenager i was years ago bro i'm getting nowhere in life it's embarassing. i hope i'll be a late bloomer too one day lmao but anyways i always watch your videos and they're comforting to me !! i relate to you on alot of things and it makes me feel less alone.. thank u for being who u are via
this is where i was until like last year when i started writing books, learning guitar and putting songs on spotify, and spending less time online to “convert” my bedrotting into a creative bedrot instead of scrolling bedrot lol. i even tried to learn how to draw, reading more, etc. i think if you have something that makes you feel like you have “purpose” while not necessarily being monetary or difficult, it can help you realize that your life isn’t worthless!❤
when i was your age i also compared myself to others who were already good at things i also wanted to do and felt like it’s too late for me which only demoralised me away from doing those things…NOW(at 26) I wish someone would have shaken that bullshit thinking out of me, beat me tf up or smg…because I was literally at the point where I could’ve started ANYTHING from 0 (even sports that ppl start super young because i still could’ve become really good in a few years and i really wasn’t planning on going to the olympics anyway…like I met smn who started playing a sport at uni and now compete pretty high up) SO my point is WAKE UP!!! close your eyes and imagine you are 30 and have wasted your 20s pretty much bed rotting and then REALIZE you are 18!! your comment makes me low key angry just because you have no idea how much I WISH I could go to sleep and wake up back in my bed summer after high school, knowing I can create literally ANY life I want for myself. Because now I feel the opposite, I feel like I went to sleep and woke up 8 years later, or like something possessed me and lived my life for me, badly. I hope this comment is the exorcism you need..that it shakes you like I needed to be shaken🤧
i hope you realize how young you are and trust me life hasn’t even started yet. im in my early 20s and sometimes i go and cry at therapy bc i feel like my life is already over and i did nothing compared to others but my therapist always tells me that life doesn’t even start until you’re 30 and its ok to feel lost, you don’t have to know everything at this age ❤️🩹
Via hearing talk abt this gives me hope..that things do get better..and you're words did make a difference..to me in the end..never stop being yourself
Thank you via for this video, I instantly clicked on this video because the title hit so hard. I constantly feel behind, most of it is because I don't completely believe in myself and the rest is fear, fear of the unknown, fear of failure, it's alot. I want to accomplish so much but Im constantly second guessing myself, and procrastinating so many different kinds of things, and feelings of plain laziness. I want to get better as a person but also someone that can satisfy me and be someone that I'm proud of.
being in the last year of middle school and going thru some rough times just like you when you where in school and now watching this...I must admit, your videos are therapy to me ❤ thank you so much...
You have no idea how helpful you are. We have different lives, different budget, race, age, place:)), but your vulnerability makes me feel better. I have huge anxiety, social anxiety, I'm fighting with kinda depression, I'm not good financially rn, my life is a mess, I'm trying to be confident and trust myself and its so helpful to see that you have struggles to but tou keep going and you're not isolated yourself bcs you are scared. I tent to isolate myself, bcs I had a rough childhood, I grew up in a violent environment and I am so stressed living and things like this. Since I found your channel, it's like I'm having a little bit of hope that I will live my life as I want. I am happy seeing you grow. Thank you for your comfort videos.
I recently got the advice/thought on being succesfull is listening to the people who say: wake up at 5 am, do a run, get yourself a smoothie, work hard. Those bro’s and girls who say it works for them. I responded to my friend saying: i have seen and heard that advice, and I stopped listening to it. It doesnt work for me. It isnt what I need. I know I need to make routines and help my future self to reach my goals. I need to prepare, knowing I could feel unmotivated the next day. 😮yeah. I know. And Via really hit the needle on the head with this video. Realising what you need and can do instead of what others say externally is what makes happiness. What makes you ‘succeed’. Thank you Via!! ❤❤❤❤
"I love how grounded and realistic your advice is. It’s refreshing to watch content that not only motivates but also empowers with practical tools and insights."
hi Via, I appreciate your videos because I often think I am behind but I often recheck myself like everyone has their own path. Therefore I am happy that you speak on these relatable content.
I love the fact that you just are so genuine when talking about this kind of topic, I appreciate it so much and I absolutely adore you. You are both comforting and an inspiration 🤍 Thank you big sis Via
oh my gosh this is actually the best way to describe how i feel im not even that old but theres this one girl ive known for 3ish years and literally every year ive known her i feel like shes always been one step ahead, but part of me also feels like even though im one year behind her in like everything else, i also have one year of maturity from when i was "not cool" or whatever idk if that makes sense but this is a really great vid !!
I needed this , it's astonishing how your journal entries literally spark into my life when I mostly need them . ur words are truly of wisdom , and every time , literally every. single. time . I wath one of these , I end up in tears , a smile , and a lighter soul and heart . thank you so much via , for being the long lost voice and person that lights up my way and mind
watching your videos is comforting to me because it serves as a reminder that I am not alone…. Although we all know that the problems we are experiencing definitely applies to most other people, it’s sometimes difficult to accept it when you don’t see other people actually talking about it… which is why I’m super grateful to you just sharing your honest thoughts here 🥺❤
Thank you so much, Ive wasted a lot of time doing nothing while girls under 18 are doing magic and achieving big things that i might reach when I'm in my 20s later, it hurts a lot i seriously wanted to cry when you were about to. You get it, that's why i want to thank you.
Via i love you smm like youre such a biggg inspiration to my life and you just make me want to change in life like ive developed A LOT the past year since i was watching you i feel like i set my goals straight and that im allowed to not know what to do with my future
I genuinely like your videos so much. They’re like really personal and I don’t necessarily understand everything you say but there’s always those few things that just hit me so deep. And YES they’re SO OBVIOUS but people really don’t understand how NOT OBVIOUS they’ve been for a lot of us for a large part of our lives. I grew up gay and feminine in a very conservative country. I’ve basically 50 50 my way through life to try and appeal to everyone. It’s weird because I have extremely loving parents. But I always say the love you receive is not necessarily the love you need. Anyways my point is that I developed a crazy anxiety disorder plus my self esteem was literally like non existent. I remember watching your videos in early 2023 which was my freshman year of college. It’s so crazy to think how much has changed since then. The things you said were so validating but they didn’t exactly change anything overnight. It’s that they were like stored in my subconscious and gradually made it into my conscious through new experiences, ultimately changing my behavior and my outlook. You’re so brave for putting your experiences out there. I know there’s always those annoying people who need to police everything that you say and do their best to like invalidate these experiences. I just want you to know that your videos ARE helpful. Talking about your experiences , OUR experiences is helpful .
What i love most about Via, is that she’s literally the voice in the back of my head. You always say what I want to hear the most! Thank you again!! ☺️
via, your videos are so special and help me and everyone else in the comments so much, as you can see of course haha. but really, i relate to you so much and i feel like we are the same person, the only difference being i'm 18 a few years behind. and these videos are not only helping your younger self but so many other people like me who are also younger, and hearing your lovely words and advice is so helpful and i'm so thankful you make these videos because they really help remind me of the important things and serve as a guide for me in life because i think i really struggle to put things into action and get overwhelmed with all my thoughts and problems by myself. so thank you, via. ilysm 💛
Those words you said really really makes me feel more better and positive.I'm always feel bad when someone compliment my body and my ability of everything.I realize I just need to be myself and don't care about everyone.life and emotion could be more better and happier. Thanks via ~
I really don’t know how in the world u get it you just get it what i feel like these past few months have been soo draining and just feeling of empty not knowing what to do where to start you are just stuck and seeing your videos makes me feel like you know what you are doing just know that i love you and i am proud of you ❤️
This resonates with me so much, I never went to anyone else’s houses until I was 7th grade, and as well as getting my first Instagram in 8th grade. You truly heal the inner part of myself, middle school has been tough. Thank you Via. ❤️❤️❤️
sadly this is how i feel as a young teenager, but hearing you talk about this helps me so much! Thank you Via it truly is so helpful to hear this. hopefully it all works out for me like it is for you. I love you so much Via thank you!❤
" ... I genuinely think that my younger self if she sees me, she would think I'm pretty cool... But the sad thing is she probably thinks that she couldn't be like me ... but the sad thing is that i'm her." Wow, this really puts finally getting over your fear to be better into perspective 😢
I love this kind of videos, i never comment but this is exactly what i needed right now, i am in a phase where i feel alone, sometimes i enjoy it, but other times it feels like pure loneliness, so thank you Via ❤
And I've always been so grateful for choosing you as my fav yt influencer, Via. I've always thanked God for putting you on my algorithm, live long and prosper
Oh my gosh our stories are so similar, I'm 20 years old right now i choose to study something im scared to study but ik im still not fully being myself (im studying film, but my true passion is music. Tho obviouslyi still love film. Im just scared of pursuing music), im working and trying my best to be more confident in myself. Still figuring out who i am. I have almost no life experience so everything is scary. I feel less bad knowing that so much of us experience being a late bloomer.
Why are you studying film if it's not what you want to do?.. film is not at all a stable or high earning degree, you'd really be getting a lot more out of studying something you actually enjoy if you're not choosing your degree for income or stability.
via thank you so much for this video, i really needed it and i wasn't even aware of it. i've been following you for a while and honestly i love you and your content sm, your soul and your presence are just so comforting i can't explain it 🫂 i've felt/stil feel behind in life in so many ways for many reasons, thinking i was the only one, but realizing that you've been there and so many others too makes me feel a bit relieved because now i fully believe i can do it
i'm not even gonna lie this video brought me to tears :( i started watching your videos near the end of middle school where i reached a low point and part of me wishes i was able to listen to your story earlier, now i'm in my junior year of highschool living in a new country & city truly the internet big sis i needed (as a big sis myself), thank you so so much for making these videos not just for your younger self, but for my younger self, and many other younger selves on the internet
I've been watching your videos since the very first one came out. Life flows like a river, turning from side to side, bumping into pebbles and holes. Thank you. Thank you for reminding me with your warm words, just like the sun, that it's okay to fall, it's normal to feel bad, it's okay to get lost and find yourself again. Thanks, Via. Let your life sparkle with happiness like a ray of sunshine in the water🧡
I needed this therapy session with you. The way you explain people like flowers and how they bloom in different environments is amazing. I was genuinely crying at the end of the video thinking that's me talking to me (you know what I mean). Thank you for existing. Love you always 💝
thank you so much for this- it fills me with reassurance and hope for the future. I hope everyone here has more strength to live their lives to the fullest and achieve their dreams!
Your videos always help me a lot. You always say that these are what wish you could tell your younger self and maybe that's why it always helps us, your younger audience. Your channel is literally my comfort channel, I sometimes just go back to watch some of your old videos whenever I feel anxious or overwhelmed.
OMG, I feel this so much, and to know that it's you making this video kind of makes it even more special, because I feel like the way you explain things always make me relate so much. I'm 19 and starting to actually use Instagram stories now, because I've always felt like it wasn't really for me, and the simple action of just having a presence online felt like being vulnerable. Also, I want to start to actually get into doing my make-up or just dressing up a bit more and your videos are really helping me get motivation to work on myself. Anyways, as always your videos arrive when I need them, you're incredible Via ❤❤.
The idea that everyone has different environments they grow best in is so true! All througout Highschool and Middle school I used to be so harsh on myself because I wasn't as good at making friends, socialising, etc, as the others were. But I've been in University for about five weeks now and I have made more progress than I have made in the previous years together. Being in a different place, away from the town that traumatised me, and having to be more independant did wonders for my confidence. And even now, I know I haven't reached my full potential yet, but I believe I will. Because if I can battle the one thing I always struggled with, I can do so much more! So, to anyone who sees this, and feels as if they can never grow, never get closer to their goal no matter how much they try: perhaps you're just not in the right place now. Maybe now you're stuck in survival mode and won't know it unless you get out. Perhaps it's something else. But one day you will find a place where the environment is ideal for you to bloom, and you will bloom into something beautiful. I believe in you, dear stranger. You can do wonderful things. And thank you Via for making this video! Even when I have realised these things very recently, it was a great way to reflect on my growth! Your videos have helped me a lot with believing in myself.
Thank you for this video Via ❤!! I feel like I really needed to hear this because I’m someone who’s a late bloomer as well and ever since I started college, there are days that I felt depressive and always got worried that I’m falling behind everyone else. I’m also someone who hates comparing themselves to others but I always have those thoughts and it makes me sad for myself that I do that. Right now I’m taking time off school and it really hits me more when I think about falling behind a lot of the time but with your words, it helps me realize that it’s okay ❤.
Via, you have no idea how much I need a message like this, I've been feeling like a late bloomer since I changed careers. I really needed this video. 💗🌷
hi Via! Just wanna' let you know that your videos are some of my comfort watches especially when life becomes a little too overwhelming. This one in particular is so relatable as someone who's a late (laaaaaate) bloomer myself.
This is probably my favorite video of yours, and i wish if you could do similar ones in the future, it makes me feel valid and seen especially from someone who actually gets what it means because they went through it.
thank you so much for this! I always ended up feeling terrible for being behind others so I deleted most of my social media accounts T_T thanks again for reminding me that it's okay to be this way and that even if my hard work is slower than others, I'll bloom too
I never usually comment but I am genuinely so proud of how far you've come. its been a while since your videos popped on my feed but I can literally hear the difference in your confidence just by listen to your voice and how you express yourself. Just know you are a true BADDIE! you're brave af and have stuck to the things you wanted to change/improve and for that I applaud you!
Even though im super late to watching this im still just going to say how grateful i am for this video and also just you. I’m struggling so hard with my self confidence and i just have the biggest fear that i am the biggest failure and that i have no future and its really really hard but no matter what your videos always help me see things differently and you always give me hope even if its the smallest bit of it. Honestly if it wasn’t for your videos i dont know where i would be right now so just thank you for ‘being here’ for me when it feels hopeless and thank you for making me feel seen as i have no one around me who truly gets it like you do. Your videos have truly saved me. ❤❤❤
It's like you read my mind with the release of this video. As someone who is applying to college at the moment, these thoughts of comparison have really been weighing down on me. It's good to remind myself that I am not alone in this experience and that I have accomplished more than I give myself credit for. All the best for you
I literally found it just when I needed this kind of video. I was so sad after taking a drop year before college coz all my other friends had started but now I feel a lot better after hearing you!❤
thank you via, you have no idea, the entire vid hit the heart, i'm somehow just a little further in the way than the younger self but you're telling me what future probably wants me to hear and that helps a lot, and yes things do get better if you allow god to show you what better means in his way not in society's way... i hope we all bloom gracefully
ily via, I see u like the older sister I never had (im only 2 years younger than you lmao). Your words really help me to change my negative perspective of life and myself
I’m a late bloomer as In I’m 21 and still haven’t been able to go to college, all of my friends are already graduating, and they still call me a failure since I’m getting “old”, I actually don’t mind going to college at 22or23 or etc, but their words make it looks like that it’s a bad thing, and your video helps so much, I love you 姐姐🎀🐰
I’m a senior in high school and I know that’s pretty young to some people but it feels like I’m so late to figuring out what I want especially because I’ve just been surviving for most of childhood and now that I’m finally in a better place, it feels like I’ve been left in the dust. Anyways, thank you Via for the awesome advice as always ❤️
This makes me feel less alone. Sometimes it’s easy to feel judged by others who didn’t have the same experience and sort of make negative assumptions about you as a result. I didn’t start living for myself until I turned 20. It doesn’t seem like a lot but my whole adolescence was wasted imo. Thank you for posting this Via❤
Via thanks for everything . I always comare myself with my clasmates like they r achieving their goals faster than me but i understood that we will also bloom one day
what scares me is that a lot of people have dreams like becoming rich, getting a good job, getting into a nice college but not everyone achieves these dreams, and i'm scared i'm gonna be one of them
That's why you need better goals like 'being happy, being stable, being fulfilled' because if you dont become rich but find something else that also gives you a happy life you still win, and on the other side you could get a great job be a millionaire get into your dream school and be miserable there. Or even defining specifically what "rich" looks like to you and the worth you find in nice college, good job.
Exactly
That’s what I’m worried about as well. It’s only a few select full that actually become rich.
But yet again, people get rich and people are still not aware of them, not knowing they exist.
Exactly, I am one of those people who have a lot a ambition and self determination but unfortunately i can’t change my current environment, following dreams requires betting on my own future, being alone also sucks you need to be very lucky to have a financially secure family back home and good networking system which are hard to come by.
Your honestly such a big sister
REAL.
She’s the same age as me but yeah lol
FRRRRR
it's so amazing how honest and unfiltered you are, even in front of a camera. you don't pretend like everything has been easy for you and don't cut out those things that are considered "embarrassing" online. please never stop making these type of real videos !! you are helping a lot of people
So I'm hitting my mid-30's and I'm probably your oldest fan here in terms of age (lol!), but I really appreciate these honest videos. I've felt behind in life ever since I made the difficult to drop out of the private college I attended for my bachelor's. Ever since then, I've wondered if my life would have been better if I just dealt with my anxiety, stress, and depression (I just wasn't enjoying what I was studying and I felt LOST) and finished all 4 years. I only survived 1.5 years of college before I decided to move back home and seek help. I am now back in school for nursing and am about to work for a school district. Folks, it gets better. If you feel behind now, you will reach your goals eventually. Just takes time.
Thank you and good luck ❤❤❤❤ lot of love
@@myriamtouil3347Same to you! 😊 ❤
I don‘t know if it helps, but my experience was the „opposite“: I started a masters degree and draged throught it; took me 2.5 years to work/finish on my thesis althought theoretically it was an easy topic. In the endphase (over 6 months) it made me consider to un4life daily… I despised to put effort into it… not being sure for whom or what I’m doing it for… and I was already in therapy for over 4 years because of anxiety and depression. So, you never know how your life goes or how those events will affect you. Afterwards I can‘t get rid of the feeling if I traumatised myself. I pushed throught something because I was to vain to drop out, to admit that I hadn‘t finished. I hope, it gives you a perspective that if you stayed in college it does not mean it would have been better 💛 just my two cents, I hope I'm not minimizing your experience with my comment 🫶
@@TheWhiteermineThank you for your comment. It means a lot. I still live with some regret that I wish I had pursued my bachelor’s degree instead of dropping out after my first year. It gets better, over time. I learn to accept the results as it is. And I truly hope things are better for you. It’s quite a feat to pursue your master’s degree. You powered through it. You’re strong. Even now. I wish you well, okay? Your kindness means a lot. 😊❤
Also mid 30's fan here! Getting my law degree next year. It's never too late! ❤
Realizing you're a late bloomer can feel like discovering a hidden strength within yourself. It’s a reminder that growth doesn’t follow a set timeline, and beauty emerges at its own pace. While others may have blossomed earlier, there’s a unique richness in unfolding later, you come to appreciate the journey, develop resilience, and gain a deeper understanding of who you truly are. It’s like a flower that blooms after a long winter, offering something rare and special to the world. There’s no rush in life; your time to flourish is perfect just as it is.
this is soo much like my older sis giving me a therapy session after a mental breakdown! I love u via
9:50 oh Via when you started to say how you felt about yourself, it made me tear up. I think younger Via would be so proud and happy to see how far you have come❤
Needed this so bad!!!! As someone who is taking gap year, i feel like i am not doing best thing right now seeing how my friend are already starting their college life. Thank you for this video Via, you are the best big sister💗
OMG sameee!! 😭 sometimes when I see my friends stress for their assignment and stuff I do concern about their wellbeing but also kinda make me sad that I'm not like them, (deep down kinda envy tho). But now I'm trying my best, to look at it with a better view. Ofc that negative feelings comes here and there but mostly I'm quite optimistic
Like now I have all the time I need to really think about what path I want to go, explore, and take baby steps to a better me.
Anyway I'm just so happy to find you with the same struggle!! Hope you're doing well 😆
@@boraboo7889 Yes I can understand how you feel, seeing our friends worry about classes , assignments makes me feel like i am not doing enough but its alright cause i still have time and i can do better slowly. So let's do our best on choosing our path now!!!!!!!! I wish you the best for your upcoming days💗
omg!! i’m taking a gap year too and it really made me sad seeing my friends enjoy their college life but i have slowly started to accepting that it was the best choice for me and i’m grateful. plus it’s never, ever too late to purse higher education when the time is right.
Sammmeeeee, I'm also taking a gap year. I was scared, still am. I kinda failed my SAT and now I'm scared since my gap year will be worthless since tge purpose of it was to get into a good school. but these vids keep me going. We are gonna do this together.
@@luvuglow4449 totally. We're gonna make it through, all of us. You too girl. I'm rooting for you😁😁😁
I can't leave my a sian household because I'm not financially stable yet , all my friends left and started a new life meanwhile I'm here in the house being called a los3r all day long ..... please God i can't tolerate these energy vampires anymore ..
You are such a big sister and our styles are very similar , i needed this , thank you so much for all your efforts for us ❤❤
There are better days ahead of you, their opinion dont matter u know my family thinks the same but i dont let that affect me. Just keep focusing on your career, move out if u really need to and try different hobbies for your mental health🎉
I'm literally in this situation rn, you got this girl
13:13 "we all bloom differently, we're all different flowers" i love this so much 🥹 it's so comforting
‘life is not a race’ is advice not everyone can afford. Being in your 20s with no other privilege but to fail, life feels like a race. A race against time and fleeting opportunities. If we can’t survive this now, who knows when, or if, it will come back. For some of us, life is not something we can just pause to breathe and try again. Some of us, out of breath, will try again and again because we cannot afford to fail. We don’t have much choice. We don’t have a backup plan because we are already the backup.
Agree this person doesn't seem to know what it's actually like to be behind in life, it's wasting years and mistakes that cost and that's your life things you can't get back, it's not blissfuly enjoying some slow life.
i will say it’s been a really rough few weeks with a lot of these thoughts and feelings. so it’s nice to hear that so many people feel similar cause i’ve been feeling so isolated
Same!!!
I genuinely thank you for making this video as I have been feeling a bit like I am falling behind, even the few friends i have are getting into relationships, they already know what they want to do in life, they all look and dress so beautiful and that makes me feel like an outsider sometimes.
I am glad im not the only one
I'm proud of you!
There is no mandated place that anyone needs to be in life. The only thing that we need to do as humans is wake up every morning. If you want something, you will get to it, trust me! Right now, though, you are important and loved and, what's more- Exactly where you need to be ♡
@@honeymelkteathank you for this, it made me feel a bit better of where i am in life, i hope you have a wonderful day
The more I watch your videos the more I realize. You're the kind of mother I needed as a kid seriously.
I agree!
Via…as someone who’s much older I would just like to say tt you’re so mature and wise for your age. Even at my age you still are a huge inspiration and motivation to me. I’m so grateful to have found you online and thank you for just existing, always supporting you girl 🥰💪🏻💖
girl... weird how this video just came at the right time. for reference I'm 25. And I feel like our 20s are a very weird and difficult to navigate time, specially since everyone seems to be on a different timeline, which makes comparison so easy and so damaging at the same time, comparison is the thief of joy after all. I relate to you in a lot of ways, particularly in that introspective way of pondering over things and kind of parenting myself into a better and happier version of myself. Recently, I've been struggling a lot with accepting the fact that I just feel things very deeply and intensely, and it seems like it all hits me at once. I'm still a late bloomer romantic relationship wise and despite me knowing that if it hasn't happened yet then there's a reason, it's really hard to get out of my own way and focus on other aspects of my life. thank you for the video Via 💙 Hope you're doing well! To fulfilling unrealized potential ⭐
Seeing Via go through her ups and downs in these journal entries and watching her become so much more confident than before is such a pleasure. Especially because I have gotten that confidence myself compared to when I was in middle school and high school. It's super nice knowing were all making progress haha.
omg Via, you don't know how important your videos are to me. Whenever I feel like I’m not doing my best, there's always one of your videos to lift me up and truly brighten my days. I never write comments, but with you, I had to. Thank you for being the big sister I never had, for making me happy, for helping me realize that I can achieve anything I set my mind to, for making me feel understood, and for helping me love myself a little more with all your words and lovely advice. I don’t know if you’ll ever read this, but really, thank you for being you!! ily
As someone who has been struggling with my self-image and what I am doing with my life, it makes me feel so seen and inspires me to know someone who is so similar to me can change for the better. Looking back at your first video to now it literally made me sob at how much you've grown.
keep inspiring others via we are all so proud of u!!!
I normally don't comment, but that part at 12:53 made tear up, and i just wanted to thank you because thanks to your videos i can tell myself more often "yes i can do that" even though it's still very hard to believe, i feel like im improving a little bit, and not just believing that i am destined to be a failure, it helps a lot more than you think, ty
Literally same!!!!
i'm gonna turn 18 in a week and i feel like i wasted all my life doing nothing.. i seriously don't know what to do i'm always at home just bedrotting😭 people my age have a life and are achieving their goals meanwhile i don't even have anything i wanna do in life so i always wonder what my purpose in life is and if i'll ever get somewhere.. it's so depressing and i used to imagine myself as a whole new person at this age but i'm the exact same teenager i was years ago bro i'm getting nowhere in life it's embarassing. i hope i'll be a late bloomer too one day lmao but anyways i always watch your videos and they're comforting to me !! i relate to you on alot of things and it makes me feel less alone.. thank u for being who u are via
this is where i was until like last year when i started writing books, learning guitar and putting songs on spotify, and spending less time online to “convert” my bedrotting into a creative bedrot instead of scrolling bedrot lol. i even tried to learn how to draw, reading more, etc. i think if you have something that makes you feel like you have “purpose” while not necessarily being monetary or difficult, it can help you realize that your life isn’t worthless!❤
@@nuclearclarity3778 thank you❤ i need to stop being lazy and find productive things to do just like you did!!
when i was your age i also compared myself to others who were already good at things i also wanted to do and felt like it’s too late for me which only demoralised me away from doing those things…NOW(at 26) I wish someone would have shaken that bullshit thinking out of me, beat me tf up or smg…because I was literally at the point where I could’ve started ANYTHING from 0 (even sports that ppl start super young because i still could’ve become really good in a few years and i really wasn’t planning on going to the olympics anyway…like I met smn who started playing a sport at uni and now compete pretty high up)
SO my point is WAKE UP!!! close your eyes and imagine you are 30 and have wasted your 20s pretty much bed rotting and then REALIZE you are 18!! your comment makes me low key angry just because you have no idea how much I WISH I could go to sleep and wake up back in my bed summer after high school, knowing I can create literally ANY life I want for myself. Because now I feel the opposite, I feel like I went to sleep and woke up 8 years later, or like something possessed me and lived my life for me, badly.
I hope this comment is the exorcism you need..that it shakes you like I needed to be shaken🤧
@@nuclearclarity3778 I hope to be like you in the future
i hope you realize how young you are and trust me life hasn’t even started yet. im in my early 20s and sometimes i go and cry at therapy bc i feel like my life is already over and i did nothing compared to others but my therapist always tells me that life doesn’t even start until you’re 30 and its ok to feel lost, you don’t have to know everything at this age ❤️🩹
Via hearing talk abt this gives me hope..that things do get better..and you're words did make a difference..to me in the end..never stop being yourself
Thank you via for this video, I instantly clicked on this video because the title hit so hard. I constantly feel behind, most of it is because I don't completely believe in myself and the rest is fear, fear of the unknown, fear of failure, it's alot. I want to accomplish so much but Im constantly second guessing myself, and procrastinating so many different kinds of things, and feelings of plain laziness. I want to get better as a person but also someone that can satisfy me and be someone that I'm proud of.
being in the last year of middle school and going thru some rough times just like you when you where in school and now watching this...I must admit, your videos are therapy to me ❤ thank you so much...
You have no idea how helpful you are. We have different lives, different budget, race, age, place:)), but your vulnerability makes me feel better. I have huge anxiety, social anxiety, I'm fighting with kinda depression, I'm not good financially rn, my life is a mess, I'm trying to be confident and trust myself and its so helpful to see that you have struggles to but tou keep going and you're not isolated yourself bcs you are scared. I tent to isolate myself, bcs I had a rough childhood, I grew up in a violent environment and I am so stressed living and things like this.
Since I found your channel, it's like I'm having a little bit of hope that I will live my life as I want.
I am happy seeing you grow. Thank you for your comfort videos.
I recently got the advice/thought on being succesfull is listening to the people who say: wake up at 5 am, do a run, get yourself a smoothie, work hard. Those bro’s and girls who say it works for them. I responded to my friend saying: i have seen and heard that advice, and I stopped listening to it. It doesnt work for me. It isnt what I need. I know I need to make routines and help my future self to reach my goals. I need to prepare, knowing I could feel unmotivated the next day. 😮yeah. I know. And Via really hit the needle on the head with this video. Realising what you need and can do instead of what others say externally is what makes happiness. What makes you ‘succeed’. Thank you Via!! ❤❤❤❤
"I love how grounded and realistic your advice is. It’s refreshing to watch content that not only motivates but also empowers with practical tools and insights."
hi Via, I appreciate your videos because I often think I am behind but I often recheck myself like everyone has their own path. Therefore I am happy that you speak on these relatable content.
I love the fact that you just are so genuine when talking about this kind of topic, I appreciate it so much and I absolutely adore you. You are both comforting and an inspiration 🤍
Thank you big sis Via
The way you talk and everything you talk about is so relatable, Via. You always say something I need to hear, thank you ❤
oh my gosh this is actually the best way to describe how i feel
im not even that old but theres this one girl ive known for 3ish years and literally every year ive known her i feel like shes always been one step ahead, but part of me also feels like even though im one year behind her in like everything else, i also have one year of maturity from when i was "not cool" or whatever
idk if that makes sense but this is a really great vid !!
I needed this , it's astonishing how your journal entries literally spark into my life when I mostly need them .
ur words are truly of wisdom , and every time , literally every. single. time . I wath one of these , I end up in tears , a smile , and a lighter soul and heart .
thank you so much via , for being the long lost voice and person that lights up my way and mind
watching your videos is comforting to me because it serves as a reminder that I am not alone…. Although we all know that the problems we are experiencing definitely applies to most other people, it’s sometimes difficult to accept it when you don’t see other people actually talking about it… which is why I’m super grateful to you just sharing your honest thoughts here 🥺❤
Thank you so much, Ive wasted a lot of time doing nothing while girls under 18 are doing magic and achieving big things that i might reach when I'm in my 20s later, it hurts a lot i seriously wanted to cry when you were about to. You get it, that's why i want to thank you.
Via i love you smm like youre such a biggg inspiration to my life and you just make me want to change in life like ive developed A LOT the past year since i was watching you i feel like i set my goals straight and that im allowed to not know what to do with my future
I genuinely like your videos so much. They’re like really personal and I don’t necessarily understand everything you say but there’s always those few things that just hit me so deep. And YES they’re SO OBVIOUS but people really don’t understand how NOT OBVIOUS they’ve been for a lot of us for a large part of our lives. I grew up gay and feminine in a very conservative country. I’ve basically 50 50 my way through life to try and appeal to everyone. It’s weird because I have extremely loving parents. But I always say the love you receive is not necessarily the love you need. Anyways my point is that I developed a crazy anxiety disorder plus my self esteem was literally like non existent. I remember watching your videos in early 2023 which was my freshman year of college. It’s so crazy to think how much has changed since then. The things you said were so validating but they didn’t exactly change anything overnight. It’s that they were like stored in my subconscious and gradually made it into my conscious through new experiences, ultimately changing my behavior and my outlook. You’re so brave for putting your experiences out there. I know there’s always those annoying people who need to police everything that you say and do their best to like invalidate these experiences. I just want you to know that your videos ARE helpful. Talking about your experiences , OUR experiences is helpful .
What i love most about Via, is that she’s literally the voice in the back of my head. You always say what I want to hear the most! Thank you again!! ☺️
your sit-down videos are meant to be watched and rewatched fr. thank you for these
via, your videos are so special and help me and everyone else in the comments so much, as you can see of course haha. but really, i relate to you so much and i feel like we are the same person, the only difference being i'm 18 a few years behind. and these videos are not only helping your younger self but so many other people like me who are also younger, and hearing your lovely words and advice is so helpful and i'm so thankful you make these videos because they really help remind me of the important things and serve as a guide for me in life because i think i really struggle to put things into action and get overwhelmed with all my thoughts and problems by myself. so thank you, via. ilysm 💛
Your videos are literally my therapy it’s the only thing keeping me sane atm 🙈💕
Those words you said really really makes me feel more better and positive.I'm always feel bad when someone compliment my body and my ability of everything.I realize I just need to be myself and don't care about everyone.life and emotion could be more better and happier.
Thanks via ~
I really don’t know how in the world u get it you just get it what i feel like these past few months have been soo draining and just feeling of empty not knowing what to do where to start you are just stuck and seeing your videos makes me feel like you know what you are doing just know that i love you and i am proud of you ❤️
This resonates with me so much, I never went to anyone else’s houses until I was 7th grade, and as well as getting my first Instagram in 8th grade. You truly heal the inner part of myself, middle school has been tough. Thank you Via. ❤️❤️❤️
sadly this is how i feel as a young teenager, but hearing you talk about this helps me so much! Thank you Via it truly is so helpful to hear this. hopefully it all works out for me like it is for you. I love you so much Via thank you!❤
You are such a comfort youtuber, i love you (platonically ofc not weirdly)
I'm happy we're getting more journal entries again. This is like therapy for me ❤
It's crazy how much I try to push myself and do the things I want to do ever since I've watched Via's vids💗 she is my motivation
" ... I genuinely think that my younger self if she sees me, she would think I'm pretty cool... But the sad thing is she probably thinks that she couldn't be like me ... but the sad thing is that i'm her." Wow, this really puts finally getting over your fear to be better into perspective 😢
Your videos always come at the perfect times
I love this kind of videos, i never comment but this is exactly what i needed right now, i am in a phase where i feel alone, sometimes i enjoy it, but other times it feels like pure loneliness, so thank you Via ❤
we all bloom differently, we are all different flowers really hit me
your content is so comforting. I am very grateful for your existence!!!
And I've always been so grateful for choosing you as my fav yt influencer, Via. I've always thanked God for putting you on my algorithm, live long and prosper
Oh my gosh our stories are so similar, I'm 20 years old right now i choose to study something im scared to study but ik im still not fully being myself (im studying film, but my true passion is music. Tho obviouslyi still love film. Im just scared of pursuing music), im working and trying my best to be more confident in myself. Still figuring out who i am. I have almost no life experience so everything is scary. I feel less bad knowing that so much of us experience being a late bloomer.
Why are you studying film if it's not what you want to do?.. film is not at all a stable or high earning degree, you'd really be getting a lot more out of studying something you actually enjoy if you're not choosing your degree for income or stability.
i really really appreciate your videos
via thank you so much for this video, i really needed it and i wasn't even aware of it. i've been following you for a while and honestly i love you and your content sm, your soul and your presence are just so comforting i can't explain it 🫂 i've felt/stil feel behind in life in so many ways for many reasons, thinking i was the only one, but realizing that you've been there and so many others too makes me feel a bit relieved because now i fully believe i can do it
i'm not even gonna lie this video brought me to tears :(
i started watching your videos near the end of middle school where i reached a low point and part of me wishes i was able to listen to your story earlier, now i'm in my junior year of highschool living in a new country & city
truly the internet big sis i needed (as a big sis myself), thank you so so much for making these videos not just for your younger self, but for my younger self, and many other younger selves on the internet
that sounds so cool omg- i'm so proud of youuu
I've been watching your videos since the very first one came out. Life flows like a river, turning from side to side, bumping into pebbles and holes.
Thank you. Thank you for reminding me with your warm words, just like the sun, that it's okay to fall, it's normal to feel bad, it's okay to get lost and find yourself again. Thanks, Via.
Let your life sparkle with happiness like a ray of sunshine in the water🧡
I needed this therapy session with you. The way you explain people like flowers and how they bloom in different environments is amazing. I was genuinely crying at the end of the video thinking that's me talking to me (you know what I mean).
Thank you for existing.
Love you always 💝
thank you so much for this- it fills me with reassurance and hope for the future. I hope everyone here has more strength to live their lives to the fullest and achieve their dreams!
Your videos always help me a lot. You always say that these are what wish you could tell your younger self and maybe that's why it always helps us, your younger audience. Your channel is literally my comfort channel, I sometimes just go back to watch some of your old videos whenever I feel anxious or overwhelmed.
I'm just 15 via, I learned a lot of shit I always had in mind from u
OMG, I feel this so much, and to know that it's you making this video kind of makes it even more special, because I feel like the way you explain things always make me relate so much. I'm 19 and starting to actually use Instagram stories now, because I've always felt like it wasn't really for me, and the simple action of just having a presence online felt like being vulnerable. Also, I want to start to actually get into doing my make-up or just dressing up a bit more and your videos are really helping me get motivation to work on myself. Anyways, as always your videos arrive when I need them, you're incredible Via ❤❤.
The idea that everyone has different environments they grow best in is so true! All througout Highschool and Middle school I used to be so harsh on myself because I wasn't as good at making friends, socialising, etc, as the others were. But I've been in University for about five weeks now and I have made more progress than I have made in the previous years together. Being in a different place, away from the town that traumatised me, and having to be more independant did wonders for my confidence. And even now, I know I haven't reached my full potential yet, but I believe I will. Because if I can battle the one thing I always struggled with, I can do so much more!
So, to anyone who sees this, and feels as if they can never grow, never get closer to their goal no matter how much they try: perhaps you're just not in the right place now. Maybe now you're stuck in survival mode and won't know it unless you get out. Perhaps it's something else. But one day you will find a place where the environment is ideal for you to bloom, and you will bloom into something beautiful.
I believe in you, dear stranger. You can do wonderful things.
And thank you Via for making this video! Even when I have realised these things very recently, it was a great way to reflect on my growth! Your videos have helped me a lot with believing in myself.
No viaaa your really such a big sister, i love the advice u give even if i already know cuz it shows you care :)
Thank you for this video Via ❤!! I feel like I really needed to hear this because I’m someone who’s a late bloomer as well and ever since I started college, there are days that I felt depressive and always got worried that I’m falling behind everyone else. I’m also someone who hates comparing themselves to others but I always have those thoughts and it makes me sad for myself that I do that. Right now I’m taking time off school and it really hits me more when I think about falling behind a lot of the time but with your words, it helps me realize that it’s okay ❤.
Via, you have no idea how much I need a message like this, I've been feeling like a late bloomer since I changed careers. I really needed this video. 💗🌷
WAKEE UPPP!! Our queen posted!!!!!
luv your journal entries via
hi Via! Just wanna' let you know that your videos are some of my comfort watches especially when life becomes a little too overwhelming. This one in particular is so relatable as someone who's a late (laaaaaate) bloomer myself.
This is probably my favorite video of yours, and i wish if you could do similar ones in the future, it makes me feel valid and seen especially from someone who actually gets what it means because they went through it.
thank you so much for this! I always ended up feeling terrible for being behind others so I deleted most of my social media accounts T_T thanks again for reminding me that it's okay to be this way and that even if my hard work is slower than others, I'll bloom too
Thanks Via for this beautiful video.
I look forward to your videos so much! you're one of the youtubers I actually relate the most too;;
I never usually comment but I am genuinely so proud of how far you've come. its been a while since your videos popped on my feed but I can literally hear the difference in your confidence just by listen to your voice and how you express yourself. Just know you are a true BADDIE! you're brave af and have stuck to the things you wanted to change/improve and for that I applaud you!
no cuz sometimes life really does stress me out- so I feel like these videos help me believe in myself and motivate me a bit more💖thanks
I was literally searching through your youtube videos for your motivational videos!!this dropped off at the perfect time 🥹🫶
Even though im super late to watching this im still just going to say how grateful i am for this video and also just you. I’m struggling so hard with my self confidence and i just have the biggest fear that i am the biggest failure and that i have no future and its really really hard but no matter what your videos always help me see things differently and you always give me hope even if its the smallest bit of it. Honestly if it wasn’t for your videos i dont know where i would be right now so just thank you for ‘being here’ for me when it feels hopeless and thank you for making me feel seen as i have no one around me who truly gets it like you do. Your videos have truly saved me. ❤❤❤
It's like you read my mind with the release of this video. As someone who is applying to college at the moment, these thoughts of comparison have really been weighing down on me. It's good to remind myself that I am not alone in this experience and that I have accomplished more than I give myself credit for. All the best for you
I literally found it just when I needed this kind of video.
I was so sad after taking a drop year before college coz all my other friends had started but now I feel a lot better after hearing you!❤
Congrats on 600k Via! Your videos are soothing and calm. Much live to you ❤🎉😊
Via you are such an inspiration
Thank you Via, you are like my therapist ❤️❤️ I love your channel
You’re like the big sister I’ve never had. We all love you Via ❤❤
thank you via, you have no idea, the entire vid hit the heart, i'm somehow just a little further in the way than the younger self but you're telling me what future probably wants me to hear and that helps a lot, and yes things do get better if you allow god to show you what better means in his way not in society's way... i hope we all bloom gracefully
Yayyyy my fav girlyy just posted 🎀💌
congratulations via!! i just watched your vid last night you already reached 600k, yehey!! so happ for you your vid is my study buddy ^^
you're one of my biggest inspirations i'm so glad there's someone i can look up to while going through my own journey
ily via, I see u like the older sister I never had (im only 2 years younger than you lmao). Your words really help me to change my negative perspective of life and myself
I’m a late bloomer as In I’m 21 and still haven’t been able to go to college, all of my friends are already graduating, and they still call me a failure since I’m getting “old”, I actually don’t mind going to college at 22or23 or etc, but their words make it looks like that it’s a bad thing, and your video helps so much, I love you 姐姐🎀🐰
at 80 it will seem like such a silly thing to be called "behind" just 2-3 years
oh,via u dont know how much i needed this speech . my friends are in university and im still struggling with uni entrance exams and its devistating.
Thank you for being my therapist
I love your flower metaphor, it’s so beautiful and meaningful❤️
I’m a senior in high school and I know that’s pretty young to some people but it feels like I’m so late to figuring out what I want especially because I’ve just been surviving for most of childhood and now that I’m finally in a better place, it feels like I’ve been left in the dust. Anyways, thank you Via for the awesome advice as always ❤️
Cette nouvelle era de la chaîne, te va tellement bien 😍
Almost to 600k! Congratulations for passing through such a long milestone
This makes me feel less alone. Sometimes it’s easy to feel judged by others who didn’t have the same experience and sort of make negative assumptions about you as a result. I didn’t start living for myself until I turned 20. It doesn’t seem like a lot but my whole adolescence was wasted imo. Thank you for posting this Via❤
I really needed this video. THANK YOU VIA FOR SAVING US!
thank so you so so so much for making this video! i needed to hear this at this point of my life! love you!!!
i,m 28 and this is exactly what i needed to hear. thank you via
Via thanks for everything . I always comare myself with my clasmates like they r achieving their goals faster than me but i understood that we will also bloom one day