The need for human connection and why it starts with ourselves | Molly Carroll | TEDxManhattanBeach
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 20 ม.ค. 2020
- Molly Carroll shares staggering suicide and loneliness trends, making a plea for deeper human connection. "Our brains are wired to reach out and interact," she says. In her poignant talk, Molly shares how human connection lowers anxiety, depression, and suicide ideation, and how improving our connection with ourselves helps us better connect with others. Molly Carroll is a licensed therapist and professional coach who holds a master’s degree in Counseling Psychology. Molly is an expert in her field with over 25 years of experience in education and mental health. She is a non-fiction writer, educator, and founder and director of the social-emotional curriculum Flourish.
In 2015, Molly published an artistic self-help journal Cracking Open. Two years later she published her second book about around trusting and following your intuition, Trust Within: Letting Intuition Lead.
Molly is also a successful public speaker for corporations such as Apple, Delta Dental, Lifesize and LinkedIn, and no stranger to the TEDx stage. She conducts popular retreats throughout the United States, Mexico and Costa Rica. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx
The problem with being open with people when you feel down and sad, is naturally people only want to be around positivity, so that pushes people away, because no one wants to be around someone carrying the weight of the world on their shoulders. So people like me end up feeling so isolated.
Your right
Most people aren't sad cause they're lonely, they're lonely cause they are sad
They say we can control ourselves
Idk about that
DEAR FELLOW HUMAN, DOES THIS BOOK HELP YOU, Or can you make some time to listen to Matt.11v28 Him teaching you? which has transfomed Dv David Wood? Michael Franzese...
The biiiig problem for me is that when I'm sad, I don't want people to see my sad side, so I don't talk to them at all😂😂😂 And then our relationships become veryyy😬
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I agree with you about the isolation. We can connect with ourselves. We can become masters of that and turn to the person next to us and they don't want to connect. And that's that. This woman is talking about being with people who are willing to connect with her, but what about those of us that don't have friends and family, who have connected to ourselves - what do we do? There's never an answer for that.
Ms Carroll has practiced one of the greatest ways to be close in relationship to others-allowing herself to become vulnerable in front of others. How often in real-time do therapists become isolated to their own personal feelings when listening all day to the hurts and shortcomings of their clients. We Must Be Real!
Omg that was so beautiful i am overwhelmed with so much emotion after watching that. Vulnerability. That’s what it takes. I just realized it. Vulnerability to show ourselves wether we want to or not. That’s how connection happens! Wow.. that was beautiful I’m so happy I watched it. Ps. I feel most connected when I feel seen, heard & understood 🥺
Made me f***ing cry by the end... Loved this talk!
When I tried to open up I feel like being judged
Great Talk. Thank you. Inspiring and moving!
Thank you. Really. Deeply important, inspirating, meaningful.
Thank you soooo much for this this helped sooo much!!!!!
Such a deep and moving talk. I'm happy I uncovered this video. Actually TH-cam didn't recommend it. I found it while searching for videos about how to connect to people.
Imagine that! Big tech doesn’t recommend the videos that make us better humans
Happy new years
Therapist aren’t the only people to connect with. We need more peer support, educated peer support is effective.
Human connection sounds great but where do I find them?
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i like this so much i am feel bad for myshelf because she is so pretty telling the truth in your inside my heart lol
I'm motivated by the transformative essence of this material. A book with like content spurred growth and significant changes. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint
First one
Jeremy Griffith's book " The human Condition" saus that "the selfless love genecself destructs".. How does it do that & what is the cause?
He says that selfish yet this same selfless love of a mother towards her young child ( which has not yet changed the world, ("all you need is love"), teaches, ( indocrinates) & passes on her selfish - selfless-love gene to her ofspring"; what statistical percentage is that? We know this is not the case because, there is a large %age of the world where this is not the case & they have has a great many years to display the survival of the most perfectly loving. WHAT LEVEL of selfish, selfless love towards your child must you become, from understanding what you need in your weakness, to cause your children to be perfect pacemakers???
How long will it take the world to see their error, from reading this book & be saved from violence? Didnt many people try this with singing about love, & displaying suffering, to cause you to think& stop your violence? From where do you get the peace to control your tired angry attitude towards your growing toddler & tired angry husband, ....from this book??
Does this explain why/ how the disciples of Jesus displayed selfless love, to their deaths, so that the listening women would change their ways ( Matt.21v32+) & devote their lives to their children who has already become violence & abortion supporters? But will cause then to want to listen, this book? PLEASE LISTEN TO Dr. Gary Parker, & Dr. James Tour.
why do we need human connection ?
This is life
Good question, would you like to take the honor of isolating yourself from human connection in search of the answer to this question? Provided every day is written down on a journal on how you're feeling, thinking, doing, etc
Im not sure if there is an objective truth to the answer, one may say to love, to feel, to live, to not die, to not be alone, to talk to someone, to be in silence with someone, to discuss with someone, to feel someone, to express yourself to someone, to accept someone, you get it. The list can go on but is there a main answer that sums up everything? Or the answer varies with the individual you're interacting with and or feels the need to offer you a response
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Just get a dog
8 years and 3 relationships later, my dog loves me more than ever. Haha. Pure love. Or love for food, idk which to be honest haha