🔴 CRITICISM: better to do it than to harbor it

Every day life brings us hassles, which often depend on the behavior of others: the neighbor uses the brush cutter on Sunday morning at seven; in the company meeting we were rudely silenced by the boss; a colleague tells us some gossip about us, but he asks us not to tell those directly involved; the waiter brings us the pizza that looks like a piece of coal; someone tries to get ahead of us when we're queuing, and we could make an endless list of similar annoyances.
There are various ways of dealing with these moments and, every day, each of us behaves according to his spontaneity: there are those who always remain silent and simply harbor a grudge; those who collect these inconveniences like supermarket stamps and then, once the card has been filled, redeem the prize by letting off steam and being on the wrong side; there are those who attack immediately, throwing arrows like an enraged Jupiter.
There are few people who manage to make a criticism in an unassailable manner, limiting the arguments to the fact itself and avoiding attacking the person in his entirety.
Today let's see together one of the countless nuances on the topic: criticism not expressed at the right time, which leads some to become sticker collectors, as I mentioned in the introduction, and which is a dimension that I often encounter in people who look to me for a coach to improve.