🔴BETRAYAL: desire or want?

In my work as a coach I often come across betrayal, and I have heard many nuances of it.
I have heard clients complain about imagined and perhaps non-existent betrayals; others tell me about couple dynamics in which an emotional distancing on the part of the partner appears clear to me, but is not perceived by the person telling me about it; I listened to stories of subtle betrayals that had lasted for years, in the dimension of parallel life, and which were discovered overnight; others of repeated betrayals and always forgiven by the wounded partner, who states "Betraying me is stronger than him, but I love him too much to leave him".
I have often given up my role as a coach when I found myself faced with disabling emotional suffering, when I realized that I was faced with a discomfort that permeated every aspect of the betrayed person's life and I recommended psychotherapy courses.
However, I got an idea of the various nuances of betrayal, i.e. what pushes one or both partners to violate the loyalty pact, often not written or verbalized, but considered inviolable even by the traitor in question if he were to suffer it himself.
Betrayal is a very thorny topic, taking into account that the era in which we live, defined as "hypermodern", is pushing the Western world to follow its own desires, no longer its own cravings.
There is a substantial difference between these two terms, desire and cravings, often mistakenly understood as synonyms, and we start from here, because in my opinion the betrayal of the couple's pact, so frequent today, is also based on this nuance.
Good vision!