Women Discuss Decentering Men From Their Lives PT2
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 9 ก.ย. 2023
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Women discuss decentering men from their lives.
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I also find it creepy they were only nice and fun when we were kids/teens. As a fully grown woman, they act like we are just disgusting to them...
The first chick gotta good point
I had no idea how many women never focus on themselves and their hobbies and their hopes and dreams. To me, it was always common sense to be selfish in that sense. This is GREAT how so many more women are waking up.
It’s crazy how when a woman says she is content and happy while being single and childless, men simply cannot fathom that. Like they think that there’s no way a woman is happy without a draining man and 5 energy sucking kids 😭
I’m a gay guy but I still find these videos so comforting and helpful. I hate how much male validation controlled my self worth, I’m really happy people are speaking on this😭
The Asian woman around 6 + mins - she was spot on! Wow. Distracting myself from making career decisions by entertaining men who I know are emotionally unavailable.
I think the issue is idolizing marriage and motherhood. It may happen or not, and your worth is not determined by it.
Gosh all of this, had I learned this at 23, I'd be suppppper rich by now, literally wasted so much energy on men. Now at 43, divorced, single and childfree I'm literally living my best life. Nothing wrong with be in a relationship, but ladies please choose, approve and love yourself first ❤❤
The gagg is they want to mess you up later in life too smh…
"Mens' sexual desire is abundant and of low-value". Running away with that one!
I'm 45.
Look how women from all backgrounds reunite to talk about our common experiences. Men have tried to divide us for so long so that we couldn’t realize that it’s a worldwide issue amongst them
Some men have a sick fetish for ruining women's lives and robbing them of their youth and beauty and then abandoning them. I agree with the first young lady in the video. DO NOT BE IN A RUSH TO GET A MAN. Wait. Make yourself the priority, learn who you are and what you like and don't like. Put your happiness and your mental health 1st.
They want slaves, not wives! Im single and childfree! Can not describe how happy i am!
First girl is 100%. I followed that philosophy myself. Met the man of my fucking dreams while living my best life abroad in South Korea. We've been married 7 years and PLEASE HEAR ME: THE CHERRY ON TOP OF AN ALREADY FULL LIFE IS DEEPLY MOVING LIFE CHANGING LOVE THAT LEVELS UP EVERYTHING ABOUT YOU. IT IS A BEST FRIEND YOU DIDNT KNOW VOULD EXIST. IT IS WORTH HOLDING OUT FOR. DONT LET THESE BOYS IN YOUR YOUNGER YEARS WASTE YOUR TIME. RAISE YOUR STANDARDS THROUGH THE STRATOSPHERE!
Growing up, my neighborhood had problems and I watched far too many girls I knew deal with the aftermath of things that went horribly wrong. Out of fear and frustration I avoided boys and it just became a lifestyle. I’ve dated here and there, but never let things get physical because that’s when men start overstepping bounds.
I truly don’t feel safe around men. I’ve decentered them since I was around 23-25!
So I decentered and there wasn't a word for it at the time but each guy I was dating got worse and worse so I just stopped. And now I can never go back. I see the red flags so clearly now even before there's any time spent together. It's hard feeling all that peace knowing your life is going to be more stressful now. Unless he can make my life better than what it is now, I'm not dating.
Cheers to all women,childfree, single,moms , married, single moms lets include everyone in this movement, even moms and married women can hugely benefit from this message.
I'm tired of trying to figure out if a man wants to love me or use me?