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Women Discuss Decentering Men From Their Lives PT2
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Women Discuss Decentering Men From Their Lives PT1
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#decentermen #moderndating #relationships #blackwomenoftiktok Women dicuss decentering men from their lives.

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  • @lv67890
    @lv67890 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Please notice: when you stop hanging in their every word, you suddenly gain their respect. It’s because they don’t respect care. They see it as a signal that you are beneath them. Disregarding then suddenly makes you smart - in their eyes. It’s so wild.

  • @GoWithDaFlowMo
    @GoWithDaFlowMo 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Those people saying that about Margot didn't even think about the fact she choose to play Barbie to disarm the whole women are just pretty dolls nonsense... In fact, she's a really intelligent and talented woman... But again they make it all about how she looks... I give up, stupid ain't fixable..... 🥴🤣😂

  • @trjberg
    @trjberg 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    If you want to "decenter men", why posting videos like this? A lot of energy and time wasted on men. Btw, it would be interesting to view these women when they +40...

  • @user-zj1kz6mh6g
    @user-zj1kz6mh6g 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    being nice becasue ppl are scray =/= centeralized on men

  • @hiddeninplainsite1875
    @hiddeninplainsite1875 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sooooo...is this the response to MGTOW (Men Who Go Their Own Way) eg WGTOW (Women Who Go Their Own Way)? Hmm 🤔

  • @boonaabiyyaa2107
    @boonaabiyyaa2107 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Looks like these 304s are taking a break from twerking. Just marry yourself until the streets start calling. Good riddance!!

  • @peonydove9683
    @peonydove9683 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    More videos?

  • @lesegomatshediso3444
    @lesegomatshediso3444 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The first lady talked how Men tend to have relationshipss with corpses is so true, everytime i hear of someone who worked at a mortuary and had a "relationship" with the deceased its always a male (most of the time)

  • @sweetnaomi56
    @sweetnaomi56 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yep

  • @aidanabila143
    @aidanabila143 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Everyone around keep saying that something is wrong with me because I don’t want to get married and don’t want to have children. They say I am pretending to be happy when I sincerely happy as I am. This vid put me at ease. There is nothing wrong with me. 😊

  • @belifuna
    @belifuna หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m glad this is available because learned this the hard way 😅

  • @123minko
    @123minko หลายเดือนก่อน

    These videos kind of centering dem! 😊

  • @lelz0394
    @lelz0394 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I feel like its so hard, all tv shows all comedians everything was about men, you never related to the women.

  • @lelz0394
    @lelz0394 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Do men try so hard to find their perfect special most compqtible partner? You are complete yourself!

  • @vladsandu9713
    @vladsandu9713 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Be more selfish and use men for money. That's the whole modern woman philosophy. And we're supposed to find a wife out of these.

  • @OmniLoved
    @OmniLoved หลายเดือนก่อน

    NEVER center a man, you’ll ALWAYS regret doing so. But you know what you’ll NEVER regret, prioritizing yourself, loving yourself, being obsessed with yourself ect

  • @BrieLani
    @BrieLani หลายเดือนก่อน

    I pray more women come to this realization

  • @dragonflymagictarot
    @dragonflymagictarot หลายเดือนก่อน

    Remember Stepford Wives Exactly if you’re not authentic with yourself then you’ll always resonate with bs suitors. The best way to become authentic (as I have understood for myself) is to be alone for enough time that you truly know yourself. And other peoples opinions are just projections 👍🏼✨ The collective is done ❤️🙏🏼🧘🏻‍♀️🧘🏻‍♀️ 15:13 💯 Can someone tag JLO? I love her but she needs this 🧘🏻‍♀️

  • @esmeralda6111
    @esmeralda6111 หลายเดือนก่อน

    In my country/ culture we never centered men so sometimes it is hard to understand for me about this decentering. But I understand to ignore them, exclude. It’s a good idea.

  • @SheilaTrueLove
    @SheilaTrueLove หลายเดือนก่อน

    More and more women are choosing to be SINGLE, and more and more women are joining the 4B Movement. There are several reasons why more and more women are joining this movement: (Be Bold, Be Brave, Be Brilliant, Be Single)...1. Women are becoming more financially independent, educated, and self-sufficient, making them LESS RELIANT on men for support. 2. Traditional gender roles and expectations are evolving, allowing women to REDEFINE what it means to be SINGLE and SUCCESSFUL. 3. More women are choosing to LIVE ALONE, enjoying the FREEDOM and AUTONOMY that comes with it. 4. Women are prioritizing SELF-CARE, personal development, and their own HAPPINESS over societal pressure to CONFORM to traditional relationship norms. 5. The 4B Movement provides a SUPPORTIVE COMMUNITY where women can connect, SHARE EXPERIENCES, and celebrate their SINGLENESS. 6. Women are pushing back against the STIGMA often associated with being SINGLE. They are embracing their CHOICE rather than seeing it as being a FAILURE. 7. With increased access to education, careers, and travel, women have more CHOICES and OPPORTUNITIES than ever before and they are taking advantage of this. 8. Lastly, women are recognizing that HAPPINESS and FULFILLMENT come from WITHIN, and that being SINGLE can be a source of JOY, PEACE, CONTENTMENT and FREEDOM. To sum it up...Women are just reclaiming their POWER, and challenging societies norms. It's a CELEBRATION of SELF-LOVE, SELF-EMPOWERMENT, and the FREEDOM to CHOOSE their own PATH in LIFE.

  • @amandasunshine2
    @amandasunshine2 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    "Your boos mean nothing to me, I see what makes you cheer" 😂

  • @Avocadocat-qo2tb
    @Avocadocat-qo2tb 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I just don’t see how or why being married or being treated like t a disabled child to be a women

  • @frogkisser
    @frogkisser 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh Lordy, I subbed...lol Gen X here, men have always been an accessory, ya, not what defines your happiness, unless it's shoes you love...lol Ridiculous that anyone would put these dudes above themselves...lol

  • @BlazeOfGlory742
    @BlazeOfGlory742 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Centering men? We don’t give a damn😂😂😂😂 so keep TikTok babbling 😂😂😂😂

  • @BlazeOfGlory742
    @BlazeOfGlory742 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If ya broke just admit it ladies DRIZZLE DRIZZLE 🌧️🌧️😂😂

  • @BlazeOfGlory742
    @BlazeOfGlory742 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Buy plenty of cat food and boxed wine ladies cause your dull and bitter selves are gonna need it and have fun with that 4B BS 😂😂😂😂 #Dopes 🐈🍷

  • @juliekswanson
    @juliekswanson 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Men are so full of hatred. When you make yourself available to them, you are setting yourself up for exploitation. Dating app culture fueled their entitlement.

  • @arbabe3389
    @arbabe3389 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I would love to see more content from this channel

  • @katebabyboy3665
    @katebabyboy3665 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    4:58 like wtf is decentralize men, i thought women were free, like how y'all let this happen

  • @katebabyboy3665
    @katebabyboy3665 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    3:34 y'all always like the guys that treat you bad, y'all like that choke me shit, becos that's what a man should be. Then when a man becomes that you run and cry on the Internet, y'all need to get your priorities straight.

  • @katebabyboy3665
    @katebabyboy3665 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Men don't even do this shit I wonder were they getting this ideas from. We move around and nobody compliments and we still feel very fly, y'all now talking about how you shouldn't need men's comments, and I agree but then again no one cares. Always the weird looking ones that talk this shit.

  • @KFrost-fx7dt
    @KFrost-fx7dt 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow Tiktok is a trip. Some of these women seem legit brain damaged by the way they talk, and one if them is literally telling people to go out and commit crimes. You're not making us look good, ladies!

  • @electron-Volt
    @electron-Volt 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    D is abundant and low-value. This is a quote from the Female Dating Strategy handbook, which I recommend everybody read!

  • @luiscruces1578
    @luiscruces1578 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Jesus Christ y’all are sick. Red pill of the women’s movement.

  • @andvip6360
    @andvip6360 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Por favor hagan este tipo de videos traducidos en español

  • @alinas.6701
    @alinas.6701 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Have been saying it all for years, fuck the male gaze

  • @someusername4129
    @someusername4129 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I wish this movement had been around in my 20s. I had decentered men since highschool and it was pretty lonely in terms of finding community with other people who were not focused solely on finding relationships. I was also shamed constantly for not pursuing relationships and it felt very much like people were treating me as a defective individual or pathetic. I havent regreted following this and building my life full and vibrant for myself. Only now have i chosen to occasionally let men into my life but they are immediately removed as soon as they take any ounce of peace from me.

  • @Dilarapixel
    @Dilarapixel 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    23:35

  • @user-it5ub8gq6e
    @user-it5ub8gq6e 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Men are upset with the movie Barbi are you kidding me it’s a movie about a DOLL GUYS IT NOT REAL

  • @user-it5ub8gq6e
    @user-it5ub8gq6e 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Let’s make men incels again

  • @ericbritton8146
    @ericbritton8146 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    As the man (Gen 1:26-28), a husband (Gen 2:21-25) and a father (Gen 3:16), the minister of God (Rom 13), teacher (Eph 4) and one of the survivors who was bullied in school, this is perfectly fine. Most everywhere I am in public, eyeballs with or without wearing their "Blues Brothers" glasses are hypnotized by their phone screens "Oggy and the Cockroaches - Jack's Nephew", "Cell" (2016) and "It's Our World by Steve Cutts and Yann Tiersen", the alcoholic beverages "Gil Scott-Heron - The Bottle (Official Version)", the smokes "Goofy - No Smoking" (1951) or the vapes and oftentimes a combination of 2 or more of the mentioned (multitasking) all day, every day, which is backwards. Sing it "Linda Jones - Hypnotized". Backwards + Backwards will never = Forward. I am directly in front of them, but they can not see me. I have been T-boned while cycling by a vehicle with blacked out windows, including the windshield aka a coffin on wheels, "The Car" (1977) and "Christine" (1983). I have been hit in the stomach by their non-cellphone holding fist and I have been walked into by George A. Romero's Zombies. I told my wife, I never thought I would become the invisible man. I am the invisible man here. Gen 3 is a "MONSTER" (2003).

  • @ericbritton8146
    @ericbritton8146 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    As the man (Gen 1:26-28), a husband (Gen 2:21-25) and a father (Gen 3:16), the minister of God (Rom 13), teacher (Eph 4) and one of the survivors who was bullied in school, this is perfectly fine. Most everywhere I am in public, eyeballs with or without wearing their "Blues Brothers" glasses are hypnotized by their phone screens "Oggy and the Cockroaches - Jack's Nephew", "Cell" (2016) and "It's Our World by Steve Cutts and Yann Tiersen", the alcoholic beverages "Gil Scott-Heron - The Bottle (Official Version)", the smokes "Goofy - No Smoking" (1951) or the vapes and oftentimes a combination of 2 or more of the mentioned (multitasking) all day, every day, which is backwards. Sing it "Linda Jones - Hypnotized". Backwards + Backwards will never = Forward. I am directly in front of them, but they can not see me. I have been T-boned while cycling by a vehicle with blacked out windows, including the windshield aka a coffin on wheels, "The Car" (1977) and "Christine" (1983). I have been hit in the stomach by their non-cellphone holding fist and I have been walked into by George A. Romero's Zombies. I told my wife, I never thought I would become the invisible man. I am the invisible man here. Gen 3 is a "MONSTER" (2003).

  • @safethamzagic7226
    @safethamzagic7226 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The 1st women dates narcissists

  • @manuelshaul9244
    @manuelshaul9244 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Why women sound and look like men now this crazy. All hard talk lol. They don't get it though. Shame in y'all

  • @johnathanabrams8434
    @johnathanabrams8434 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The first person in this videos great grand parents owned slaves.

  • @eb1042
    @eb1042 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    They already have the science for creating humans WITHOUT SPERM. FEMALE EGGS CAN FERTILIZE OTHER FEMALE EGGS. RESULT: ONLY XX CHROMOSOME CHILDREN

  • @starchildofthe90s7
    @starchildofthe90s7 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love lying to strangers highly recommend.

  • @starchildofthe90s7
    @starchildofthe90s7 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    They literally hate you. Its in them.

  • @marianeladaira2503
    @marianeladaira2503 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Do not forget that men aren't only the boys we date but our fathers, brothers, bosses, doormen, strangers, handymen, little boys too.

  • @beautyandbeyond000
    @beautyandbeyond000 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Men are going to disrespect you whether you are with them or not. As far as protection, get a dog and a f*rearm.