scorpio is a very transformative sign, for better or for worse! I've never met a scorpio that hasn't had some profound affect on me. Much love from a Pisces :)
I never thought of it that way and yet I spent several years of my life overgiving to someone. I wish I would have come to my senses sooner than I did but better late than never. I will probably watch this from time to time as a healthy reminder for myself. Thank you for this. ❤
Thank you for opening my eyes, my parents especially my mother would act the way you describe and I have always felt that it did more harm to our relationship than anything but couldn’t translate it to words. Thank you again for putting words on what I have felt for years now.
This is a great video. Thank you. The only thing that I would add is that sometimes it's not immediately evident that someone is a taker. Someone can subtly siphon your energy over time without you realizing it. You're getting something out of it, but not nearly as much as the energy siphoner. A certain percentage of people will invest minimally for the maximal amount of return. However, that is not everyone. Thanks for discussing this topic. It's important.
Hi I wanted to thank you. I recently been watching some of your videos and they really got me thinking. I quit my job at end of last year because it was soul crushing and made me feel like I was over giving not mentally but also physically (I was also working somewhere with too many men, am a young black women btw. So there were many times I felt uncomfortable ) since I quit that job I’ve been feeling guilty because its a minimum wage full time job and at time I felt like I had suck it up and keep making money and ignore my feelings. Recently I got part time job and now I’am focusing on what resonates with me. Since watching your videos I don’t feel guilty anymore I know there is something better out there for me. Thank you 💓
I’m glad the algorithm brought me your channel this morning. You’re a lefty, you draw, and you said your life revolves around the number 13. So many similarities…stay beautiful 💙.
Im grateful i was drawn to you as well. Your message is powerful and profound and also timely. Ive been reflecting how i am done with people pleasing as it was ingrained in me but also part of my make-up as a healer and earth angel. I worked corporate for a while and now im a massage therapist. In the subject of people pleasing i also came to the realization that i am also done doing this as a therapist because its a lot of fukn work and it can wear me out.. so i am learning to work less and no longer overgive. Many times ive done this and they left a shitty tip anyways 😅 so the joke's on me. Im done stealing from myself. Ive healed a lot and know my worth and value and now im tackling my professional life to stop the people pleasing nonsense! Thank you!!❤
In your screenshot, Your colors 0:13 are so beautiful! Your serenity comes through and you look like a painting! Wonderful video! 💗 Everything you have said is absolutely valid!
Thank you for this invaluable lesson, Wan Lin! ♥I'm inspired to focus on investing in myself rather than constantly overgiving to others. Your insights truly resonate with me! ♥
@LaPrincesseDesBeaux-Arts I'm very new to your TH-cam Channel. Love your green hair by the way. 😊 I have Autism Spectrum Disorders and I'm too much of a nice guy over giving to other people. Your 100% correct that over giving is stealing from yourself. 😥
Overgiving can lead to burnout and neglecting your own needs, which ultimately affects your well-being
Can confirm and the damage can be far more severe than you might imagine. A warning to all, take this concept very seriously ❤️
The situation reminded me of that nurse in a kdrama called "Daily dose of Sunshine"
"When you're over giving, you're not a walled garden." Spot on. This helped me a lot. Thank you.
scorpio is a very transformative sign, for better or for worse! I've never met a scorpio that hasn't had some profound affect on me. Much love from a Pisces :)
I never thought of it that way and yet I spent several years of my life overgiving to someone. I wish I would have come to my senses sooner than I did but better late than never. I will probably watch this from time to time as a healthy reminder for myself. Thank you for this. ❤
Huh she's Scorpio, makes a lot of sense 🦂
Thank you for opening my eyes, my parents especially my mother would act the way you describe and I have always felt that it did more harm to our relationship than anything but couldn’t translate it to words. Thank you again for putting words on what I have felt for years now.
Sending you my good wishes Dear 💖✨🌷
This is a great video. Thank you. The only thing that I would add is that sometimes it's not immediately evident that someone is a taker. Someone can subtly siphon your energy over time without you realizing it. You're getting something out of it, but not nearly as much as the energy siphoner. A certain percentage of people will invest minimally for the maximal amount of return. However, that is not everyone. Thanks for discussing this topic. It's important.
Hi I wanted to thank you. I recently been watching some of your videos and they really got me thinking. I quit my job at end of last year because it was soul crushing and made me feel like I was over giving not mentally but also physically (I was also working somewhere with too many men, am a young black women btw. So there were many times I felt uncomfortable ) since I quit that job I’ve been feeling guilty because its a minimum wage full time job and at time I felt like I had suck it up and keep making money and ignore my feelings. Recently I got part time job and now I’am focusing on what resonates with me. Since watching your videos I don’t feel guilty anymore I know there is something better out there for me. Thank you 💓
I am so proud of you and happy to heae you are doing, feeling better lovely--Trust yourself and know you can have all the goodness you deserve 💖✨🌷
@@la_princesse_des_beauxarts
I hope you and family are safe and doing well again thank you so much for the wise words.💕💓
I’m glad the algorithm brought me your channel this morning. You’re a lefty, you draw, and you said your life revolves around the number 13. So many similarities…stay beautiful 💙.
♥️🎸💖🌷💋
Im grateful i was drawn to you as well. Your message is powerful and profound and also timely. Ive been reflecting how i am done with people pleasing as it was ingrained in me but also part of my make-up as a healer and earth angel. I worked corporate for a while and now im a massage therapist. In the subject of people pleasing i also came to the realization that i am also done doing this as a therapist because its a lot of fukn work and it can wear me out.. so i am learning to work less and no longer overgive. Many times ive done this and they left a shitty tip anyways 😅 so the joke's on me. Im done stealing from myself. Ive healed a lot and know my worth and value and now im tackling my professional life to stop the people pleasing nonsense! Thank you!!❤
This video came to me just in the RIGHT moment✨
Yeah, i like this... its like you have to ask everyone what do you like?
Excellent video! I’m currently experiencing this.
In your screenshot, Your colors 0:13 are so beautiful! Your serenity comes through and you look like a painting! Wonderful video! 💗 Everything you have said is absolutely valid!
Thank you for this invaluable lesson, Wan Lin! ♥I'm inspired to focus on investing in myself rather than constantly overgiving to others. Your insights truly resonate with me! ♥
I'm so glad this was helpful for you 💖✨🌷
Don't forget that video on how God test us lol. I'm looking out for that. I am so interested on your perspective.
Thanks a lot for such a great video
You're welcome dear ✨🌷
How cute, I snuggle with my pillows at night too! I own 2 euro pillows & want a silk shirt too.
Fantastic vid you really channeled in alot of things I hadn't considered!
We need to build our walled gardens.
Thank you 💖🌠😽
Hello 👋🏻 I’m a new subscriber and I absolutely love your energy! I hope I get the chance to meet you in person one day. ❤ You’re so precious!
@LaPrincesseDesBeaux-Arts
I'm very new to your TH-cam Channel. Love your green hair by the way. 😊 I have Autism Spectrum Disorders and I'm too much of a nice guy over giving to other people. Your 100% correct that over giving is stealing from yourself. 😥
Take care Mr. Turtle ✨🐢🎸
This video is true over giving is stealing from yourself, thanks for the video
I used to be like this then I started stealing from people 😂
Not cute not funny :)
the vibes are vibing, the wisdom is wisdoming ✨🪞