You taught me this long ago. They dont' love - they are only with Objects and gain pleasure from their performance in how it fools their "toys" . Sadism is their hidden trait, but in public, a decorated BoyScout, well adored by their Fans; never friends - just Fans
Beautiful topic. The occupation of a dominatrix is so little understood and spoken of especially from a professional point of view. You are 100% right in your details.
Being good looking with symmetrical features & copying contemporary fashion in order to appear generically attractive to the opposite sex is not an excuse to behave like a rapist, however many people pleasing, submissive, enabling females like yourself (I presume) exist out there to validate their behaviour, allowing them to move from one to the other like toads hopping from one lilypad to another across the pond like expendible objects to be trodden on & used without accountability. Just because you have skills in flattering, doesn't mean you will receive anything back..
He has his house covered with his photography of young models in lingerie. I asked if he wanted me to wear sexy lingerie, and he said no. Can you explain this?
A talking human dildo - Wow!! They are something else! That is a lot of info right there..😯😯 I also find that a lot of couples very often look alike. (If you look you really see it!) So, in that regard I also wonder if any of this need to feel Irresistable & having sex with theirself plays a part into incest with their own children - because they would look like them??!!
I've heard in your channel that covert borderlines are a type of narcissist and that they show characteristics of the whole cluster B. Is there any overlap between the covert borderline and the grandiose narcissist? If so, could the same person act in bed as a narcissist (passionate collaboration) and a psychopath (coercion)? This topic is quite complex and difficult for me, but fascinating. Thank you for this conversation.
I suspect my partner to be a narcissist but he wants me to dominate him. I am not particularly into it but I try for his own sake. Anytime I refuse politely he says I’m being unreasonable . He loves controlling me but in the bedroom he wants me to control him. Do you know why that would be?
I think that he is controlling the situation by telling you to be in control. He is still in command. That's my interpretation, and I think they say it in the video.
What do you call a psychopath that constantly ruins sex by constantly asking how good he is, and then asking who was better? And is retroactive jealousy ocd a real thing?
Great job explaining the distinctions. Mental illness is such a cesspool.
we just begin to understand the human mind. self compassion is key to change
You taught me this long ago. They dont' love - they are only with Objects and gain pleasure from their performance in how it fools their "toys" . Sadism is their hidden trait, but in public, a decorated BoyScout, well adored by their Fans; never friends - just Fans
I watch a lot of cluster b/personality type content. Your ability to explain & unpack any type of enquiry is 2nd to none (imo). A pleasure ✌️😎
💯 .. and lets also not forget Richard Grannon
Thanks to both of you 🎉❤
Thank you so much. It helped a lot. I think i almost totally understood.
That was so hilarious. “The flower would be secondary…” It was also one of the reason about downsizing..
Beautiful topic. The occupation of a dominatrix is so little understood and spoken of especially from a professional point of view. You are 100% right in your details.
Especially your "performance art" comment. Nail on the head.
Amaizing insight.
Prof. Vaknin. So they dont feel attraction to the partner? They just measure attractivnes of others but don't feel it?
They are attracted to the way the partner is attracted to them. They are attracted to themselves via the partner’s gaze.
The one I met ,our first sexual experience she said straight away,that my pupil's were dilated.
Greetings to all the narcissists watching this. You sexy beast, you're especially irresistible today, devastatingly handsome.
Being good looking with symmetrical features & copying contemporary fashion in order to appear generically attractive to the opposite sex is not an excuse to behave like a rapist, however many people pleasing, submissive, enabling females like yourself (I presume) exist out there to validate their behaviour, allowing them to move from one to the other like toads hopping from one lilypad to another across the pond like expendible objects to be trodden on & used without accountability. Just because you have skills in flattering, doesn't mean you will receive anything back..
And everyone's had a piece of it before.
He has his house covered with his photography of young models in lingerie. I asked if he wanted me to wear sexy lingerie, and he said no. Can you explain this?
@samvaknin-g3n Sincere apology but what are these numbers referring to? I can't find numbers on your videos.
A talking human dildo - Wow!! They are something else! That is a lot of info right there..😯😯 I also find that a lot of couples very often look alike. (If you look you really see it!)
So, in that regard I also wonder if any of this need to feel Irresistable & having sex with theirself plays a part into incest with their own children - because they would look like them??!!
Dennis has entered the Chat
I've heard in your channel that covert borderlines are a type of narcissist and that they show characteristics of the whole cluster B. Is there any overlap between the covert borderline and the grandiose narcissist? If so, could the same person act in bed as a narcissist (passionate collaboration) and a psychopath (coercion)? This topic is quite complex and difficult for me, but fascinating. Thank you for this conversation.
Watch the covert borderline playlist.
I suspect my partner to be a narcissist but he wants me to dominate him. I am not particularly into it but I try for his own sake. Anytime I refuse politely he says I’m being unreasonable . He loves controlling me but in the bedroom he wants me to control him. Do you know why that would be?
I think that he is controlling the situation by telling you to be in control. He is still in command. That's my interpretation, and I think they say it in the video.
What do you call a psychopath that constantly ruins sex by constantly asking how good he is, and then asking who was better? And is retroactive jealousy ocd a real thing?
Competitiveness, not retroactive jealousy.
Would psychopaths be drawn to the bdsm community?
Yes.
Heres My comment.
Music not the bling.
Can someone switch between these two.polaritirs if they are bi polar?
Bipolar is a mood disorder. No connection.
I wondered where he went! 😮