She Stopped Texting…Now What?
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What do you do when a girl leaves you on read? Do you wait for her to text back, wonder what to text her to get a response, or do you play victim and blame her for your frustration? If so, then stop all that right now. Here is all you need to do when a girl doesn't text you back.
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Thank you for the video I'm actually a Lesbian who is into girls I had that happened to me a couple of times in the video but guess what I had better things to do especially working in a Hospital and even play video games if she doesn't wanna date me or being in a relationship with me it's her loss and sucks to be her
Question. The whole abundance argument I get, but this can also be very distracting and time consuming.
Hey Tripp, my current issue is I do have a women with high interest in me, but I don't reciprocate their interest because I lack physical attraction towards them.
As my grandfather used to say....”women are like busses.....another one will be along in a few minutes”. Move on!
That's the perfect analogy bro 😎👍
That's a really rough one when only one bus per year rolls by.
oh trust me she texting somebody lol. Don't be a simp
Best way to do is move on, let it be! Let her come to you at her own time meanwhile we should focus bettering our lives and how to make the world a better place.
Remember there is always a good one than her. Drop one save one.
Yup. There are always women out there who's going to be interested in you and not ghost you. Focus on meeting and approaching those women (remember it's a numbers game) and stop focusing on the ghoster.
@@lolfirepoisonftl yes, millions of unattractive women out there who are easily to get. But high quality, attractive women are super rare, and as such, there is naturally a scarcity of them. If you dump a woman, you can not know how long it will take to find another one or if you can ever find one again.
@@ProfWho-ut5he fuck em then just stay single.
I needed to hear this today. Almost messaged someone who hasn't responded to my last message for 3 weeks (even though she's the one who reached out to me first). It would have been a mistake. Thanks for the reminder, man!
She probably found someone else. Don't sweat, move on.
Any update?
Like others have said, you have to move on if you find yourself in this situation. Yes, it sucks because you were likely interested in her but she's likely not interested in you if she's not replying for days. Focus on meeting another women rather than focusing on how to get the ghoster to respond back.
That’s true bro , but one thing I fr don’t get is she reacts to everything I post like with hearts related to relationship posts and when I post something not funny she comments laughing emojis but leaves me on delivered like wtf☠️ she usually hmu tho so what do I do in this case ?
@@vxrcxtti2x219 She's either playing games or wants attention. Stop texting her.
@@redvisitor9432 it’s games bro but also wants attention, imma stop talking to her and the future decides whether she want me or nah
It’s actually happen to me today !!! So it’s really useful to give us this tips thanks
Ghosted after a few dates, but still orbiting. I’ll be honest, it’s rather difficult being abundant in a pandemic
It's definitely difficult, especially if you didn't already have a large social circle or an abundance of options to begin with before the pandemic. This pandemic will eventually end though so keep your head up, keep working on making yourself more attractive, and you'll be ready to kill it with abundance once things gradually return to normal.
@@lolfirepoisonftl spot on, mate. Axed the dating apps for now and trying to make better use of this time. Best of luck to you as well
@@hilo9921 Right on! Thanks and same to you.
@@FleetAdmiral833 Great to hear! Keep up the good work!
Thank you Tripp for speaking up about this topic 'cuz I need it to be better in dating. I used to date one woman at one time as it looked as gentleman and not acting as a playboy. (Sorry for my bad English) but since then i have slowly learn that I have to train myself to have abundance mentality and scarcity. Right now I'm doing cardio to lose weight and weight exercise so that it can improve my physical look. I have been also contacted a few women and suddenly they went silent. After a few lessons that I've learnt before to have a "i dont care" attitude towards that kind of women, I'm slowly gain confident to face that situation. Thank you for the inspirational video.
Try HIIT exercises, look it up if you don't know. It will help you lose weight faster than just cardio
Brilliant video, I need to make sure I watch this ALOT
"Abundance" of anything doesn't really work in COVID.
How do you think its still spreading 😜
@@Darryl147 HAHAHAHAHA
I have an abundance of everything COVID is bs
@@Coolproducts44 And it took you nine months later to come to that well rooted and factual statement? What a genius you must be.
Best advice Best video I have watched so far on youTube. Thank You.
I am in a Wheelchair Tripp, having an abundance of women to date for people like us simply isn't possible.
We're lucky to even find one girl to date.
To ignore a woman like he’s suggesting here is never gonna work if you want a good relationship, it may work with a insecure toxic person but not a high value woman, so forget this shit!
What if you find a wheelchair woman? Wish you the best.
Great advice tripp, you'r my big brother which I've never had ! ❤️
Yeah I just screwed up and texted back after no communication for a while. Dumb move. Wish this video was out sooner. But I do agree and need to look at it the same. It sucks for her and stop moving so slow. I was the guy one woman man but that's not working. I know what I need to do now. Thanks Tripp. Always remember it's her loss and you'll never slip up like I did.
Sometimes the hardest thing to do is nothing.
Very informative, thanks.
I profesuly admire you trip, when i started watching your videos i become a confident & alpha man..
Really man your are good coach in dating & love life...
There is not a ‘one size fits all’ answer to this. This advice doesn’t include getting the conversation going and the ball rolling again, or taking control of the ball. It’s just, ‘if she doesn’t reply, leave her in the dust’, ‘sucks for her’.
Then, it might be months or years before you meet someone else to date. Men, this advice here is merely an option. Stop overthinking it. Just do what you please.
For quite some time I use this simple sentece when something like this happens: "Eh, she loses". It's so good to tell myself that I should not care.
It happen to me today i meet this girl on tinder and we start texting for a couple weeks it was going great until she suddently stops replying. She read my messages but didn't reply. I been wondering what did i do wrong.
If she ghosts you ..you ghost her
I love these kind of videos...where it is evident what we need to do ..but we still need someone who can tell us that why we need to do it precisely with reasons.
Haha, it's true.
Goodmorning, great start ✅
100% in agreement with your statement not to play the victim. This in contrast to most channels that in an indirect way mainly promote it, presenting women as the cause of men misfortunes. If you want to become a high value man has to do more with your qualities as man and nothing to do with identifying faults in women which at the end is useless in your purpose.
On the other hand I differ in regards to making woman disappear which in a way show you being reactive which you don't promote. In a negative, just go on with your life. What better way to show you own your life than having female witnesses around. Let them see that.
@trippadvice Do I delete them when they stop responding ?
Is there a situation where they are testing you to show a high level of interest in return and chase a bit? I obviously still think that not chasing is the best option here, cos fuck these games. But I've recently had a situation with a girl who kept saying how keen she was for our next date, that she had a nice bottle of wine on stand-by, that she wanted to see me. I then said "OK how about Friday"... then nothing, no response for 5 days now... I was maybe acting a little distant in the week prior to this because she's been acting really strange recently so just stepped back a bit...
Now what?
Now you move on and forget she ever existed.
How do you make your clients go out of their comfort zone and talk to women. I have a friend who alway chiken out at the last second. I want to know what to say that make him go and start talking
you get a chick with high interest and she double or triple texts you. and then somehow it went down to silence. what’s best is to just pull back (don’t text) if you send a text that left you on read. save face and move on, sucks? sure does! but save the embarrassment for yourself because women with high interest will message you first! focus on you, be with you and do the things that will make you happy!
thats why i also dont really like to have female friends because that takes time away from a girl who i will put time in for something more than just a friend...that and it takes away from living life
It's a paradox ain't it Tripp? I've noticed that the more involved I got with multiple women the better confidence level I've had and got great encounters than the latter of focusing on one girl which is basically a myth to be honest till you find a great gal.
Ong bro, recently got out of my comfort texting and approaching girls to get my game up and I can say I’ve definitely improved but I gotta long way to go still
Ignoring a woman has never worked to attract her, unless she’s toxic...then she’ll come running when you ignore her.
Dam foreal? All that no contact talk is bs?
Yup, it is. A woman that is stable n confident in herself will simply say “C ya” n you’ll be left there with a long nose. If you want to keep her interested then pull back a bit n message her say once a week or even once every second week, but every time you message her it should make her laugh bc that triggers dopamine which makes her after a while actually either be waiting for to get your message or she’ll try herself to get them more often. That’s a good start.
@@waudicas It makes sense, I’m doing no contact right now and I feel like she just said to hell with me and moved on. But thanks for the Free game
@@waudicas finally somebody who sees that this video is a nonsense
@@Percy_P Many times men shit first, but because they never see it, they focus on what is happening at the moment ... I date a Guy for 3 month... Then he start breadcrumbing me.. And if he feel im trying to move on, he send a little message with heart and i fall again... Then one Day with all the advice on youtu video, à started working on myself and move on... He thought it was a joke but now 1year and month without a Hi... In the bigining, it was to punish him, by the way i stop loving him, then start seeing hes insecurity, that old Guy 17 âge gap(cause i really like matured Guy) .... He was insecure, try to turn me into he crazy world, cause he never understand how happy, positive and beautifull soul i am... He would ask me "why you love yourself that much". Then he started breadcrumbing me to make me feel insecure. But i didn't wait so long to move on... As soon as i started feeling bad, i knew something was wrong, and with coaches confirmations, i clear him from my life. Cause i deserv better. Im a good person, in and out, beautifull and young. In fact many times you men caused this
but in where I live (Vietnam), girls don’t think like that, almost 90% of them won’t move on with you if she knows you’re dating multiple women
Change where u live bro.
Thank you bro❤
She did this as a power struggle. In the beginning of us seeing each other I applied push and pull she started chasing and wanting my attention. She then try to flip the script over Instagram seeing if I chase
Very good advice..move on fast...
I've _been_ moving on bro. I've been moving on.
Been on 3 great dates, slept together twice and where getting on like a house on fire. Recently she’s been taking ages to text back and when she did it was short and blunt. Finally I replied to her message last night and she read it this morning with no reply. I’m not going to message her again unless she messages me. If she doesn’t then it’s cool, I did really like her but I’m not short of offers 😂
We don't have time for "friend" type 🤣🤣
If he started acting distant first and doesn't value her then she has every right to stop responding
Abundance mindset
The things that's eating me right now is that this girl showed a supper high level of interest and then she stopped all of a sudden, so frustrating man
same thing happened to me
i stopped texting because after days and weeks of texting you never invited me on a date ..
Also.. bad advices.. moving too slow is better than having multiple at once because man that hurts when they find out
My advice would be too either wait a day for her to text back apologise if not simple just move on
My ex girl broke one of my 10 commandments which was "Thou Shall Not Leave Me On Read". Her punishment, I stopped contacting her and moved on with my life with another woman.
What if you like dating one at a time bc it’s a lot for you bc of your anxiety disorder and social anxiety
just have options on the back burner
Stop thinking of her , and move on. Once you start dating and find that someone special, it like it never happened.
Hey tripp, what If I try to take a break after being needy and she texts me after 2 days asking if im okay? What do I do
Respond a day later. She your gf though?
@@TrippAdvice ight thanks man, no she's not she's my friend but I like her more than that and i want her to do too thats when i saw ur channel and i really loved ur vids man tysm
@@poppy1541 update?
@@JackNatti :( still nothing to good im focusing on myself rn trying to forget her it helps tbh i dont over think anymore but i still do love her :/
Damn, timely video for me. Needed to hear that. Can I blame the pandemic though? Lol, only been meeting women these days through dating apps
Dating apps are nothing but a sea of ‘left on read.’ Sooner or later, it’s just a ghost town.
@@joesandstrom4111 yep. You’re right. And I learned that the hard way. Oh well
The more I see the more I rage 😡 I feel really really angry now !
I can't hear this anymore.. There IS A SCARCITY of attractive women. And this has nothing, I repeat, nothing to do with your own value and attractiveness. It is not the problem to get women interested, the problem is finding attractive, available women worth getting interested. I can't find them. I know so many high quality men who have this problem. Good women are a scarcity ;they are rare..and the few that are there are usually (always) taken.
Move.
@@TrippAdvice I have commitments here, so that is not an option.
I’m with you on this. It’s arrogant to assume that abundance in women is readily available to anyone or everyone. Abundance in life is fine, but it’s completely different than an abundance of women at your fingertips to date. Sure, you can approach dating from a ‘plenty of fish in the sea’, ‘take it or leave it’ attitude, but it doesn’t bear much fruit or help to break down any barriers. We’re in a ‘left on read’, ‘chase me’, ‘grass is always greener’ culture.
I’m starting to tire of the coaches that speak like there’s something wrong with their audience / potential clients to be dating only one woman at a time. Or... none at all. Very unsympathetic.
The rest of the advice is fine, however.
Move!?
‘Pack up your life, your career, skip town, leave your friends behind, and move...’ is kind of crap advice and a throw away reply. That can’t be real talk that you give paying clients.
Move to another city, only to discover the same scarcity of women to date? Meanwhile, the perfect woman moves to the city you just left... c’mon!
Scarcity in dating is real and even more so is the scarcity of good women. The original poster is implying he’s tired of hearing the ‘date multiple women at the same time, like it’s easy and there’s something wrong if you don’t have multiple options at the same time’ pitch. You can be an amazing catch with an abundant life, and do all the right things, that doesn’t change the facts of scarcity in dating. Yes, approach it and view it from the stance that there are millions of women in the world, but that doesn’t mean you can just pick and choose. This isn’t fantasy world, it’s reality.
@@joesandstrom4111 great post. Thank you. I was accompaning several dating coaches last year, and despite them insisting that there is an endless supply of amazing women, when we went out together, surprisingly they could not show me any! And we did several days of day- and nightgame. Of course, if you like trashy, uneducated, or overweight and masculine women, you will find them everywhere. But attractive, feminine and kind women, those you want to share time and bed with, are rare and unfortunately (in my experience) always always always taken. So, saying that it is easy to date multiple women, that there are endless options, and spinning plates is the way to go, is simply misleading and not helpful at all. I have the feeling that most dating coaches, probably due to their pickup-scene experience, are unable to differentiate between women worth approaching and women to avoid. They fuck everything that comes their way. How can it be, for example, that many dating coaches make content how to date strippers?! Is that really the life goal of guys? I would not date a stripper even if someone would give me money for it. I think people lost the sense of quality and beauty in the world.
Yooo I have a question what the heck am I suppose to do when you take a girl on a date, everything goes flawless and she even tells you that the date was even more fun than she expected but 3 days later she tells you that we should keep it with one day and stops texting?!?!
She's probably not interested if she doesn't want to hang out anymore or stops texting. Can you go into more detail on the date? Did you get a kiss in or do any physical contact?
if that's what her respond you, don't reply back to her anymore, find another women more younger and beautiful than her, ditch her, it's not worth it to let her continue to suck up all of your energy
Consider it a blessing.
@@lolfirepoisonftl just some playful touches and a hug and the end wich was a real hug not just a “I want to leave” kinda hug
jesus man. this was scary timely ...thanks to the simulation overlords 😜
Am I the only one that thought (as a girl) that she was probably just getting a burger because all of us are always hungry?
Currently don’t care about this girl cuz she Always text me every 2 days even tho I’m not the initiating the convo , she usually hmu saying when I’m gonna see her but she play too much games .
are we talking to the same girl LMAO CUZ SAME
@@PunkRockSkater1128 probably 😳😂
Im at this point right now
Move on!
If it won’t open then it’s not your door.
cheers
She apologized for answering late and i told her she not obligated to....here i am today lol was that a dumb move of me?
My heroo
Worst time in history for this during a global pandemic.. all thats going to come of this is more mental health issues which in turn will make dating even worse should this all blow over. Hate to sound pessimistic but it doesn't look good.. Good advice though
what if you can't get multipul women? and your really into the girl who stopped texting for no reason?
Move on GUYS!
Many times men shit first, but because they never see it, they focus on what is happening at the moment ... I date a Guy for 3 month... Then he start breadcrumbing me.. And if he feel im trying to move on, he send a little message with heart and i fall again... Then one Day with all the advice on youtu video, à started working on myself and move on... He thought it was a joke but now 1year and month without a Hi... In the bigining, it was to punish him, by the way i stop loving him, then start seeing hes insecurity, that old Guy 17 âge gap(cause i really like matured Guy) .... He was insecure, try to turn me into he crazy world, cause he never understand how happy, positive and beautifull soul i am... He would ask me "why you love yourself that much". Then he started breadcrumbing me to make me feel insecure. But i didn't wait so long to move on... As soon as i started feeling bad, i knew something was wrong, and with coaches confirmations, i clear him from my life. Cause i deserv better. Im a good person, in and out, beautifull and young. In fact many times you men caused this
What if she blocks you while you are texting her. Can you show me what to do to get her back. I mean I made mistake while texting her, and I want to have a good conversation again because I like her. Please Bro reply.
If you’re blocked... umm, there’s nothing you can do. She has to change her own mind and unblock you. Unless you see her in person and resolve any negative emotion she may have.
This is worse than being ‘left on read’, the same advice applies: Learn from it, move on, and work on yourself. If you didn’t do anything to cause her to block you, she’s emotionally unstable and needs to work on herself.
@@joesandstrom4111 She unblocked me because I Told my friend that this girl blocked me. They are friends and now I’m unblocked but I don’t know what to text to get her back maybe she wont add me on snap because we talked a lot on Snapchat . So if you can tell what to do you would help me a lot
@@klodigrezda2212 Win the lottery and then tell her. Women love that.
@@klodigrezda2212 Or, just try a ‘Hey!’ and save whatever dignity you have left. See if she responds and lead it into asking her on a date. To be honest, these are just 2 options, I’d say go with your gut.
@@joesandstrom4111 thanks bro
You mirror what she's doing. Don't go after her. Don't send any text message!!! I made few weeks ago an episode with the same topic.
Just delete and block her and move on.
thanks dude that's good advice
other guys: please like and subscribe my channel...
Tripp: strait to the point
Can you do one about dm
Celebrate!
what if you dont want to date many women?
Then you have to wait for the right one and hope it works out.
I don't know why❓ but this video gives me comfort.
Most of the time when a girl is pulling away is because the guy shows her his colors. Ghosting her etc. So don't complain when she stops texting.
Move on
I hate endless texting
same
But it's tough if you really liked one that you've been dating. Playing the polygamy game doesn't feel right. Maybe I'm beta :-)
bro, don't feel upset, the society today are always trying to turning us man into beta, become a alpha man needs a lot of practice, learn make yourself become your story's main charactor, not the women. I know it;s hard but to protect our energy and mental, we just have to be different with all the other beta men :)
@@michaelpf08 but good women are rare. You can be top alpha and still not be able to get laid at all. I know several top 0.1% guys (me included) who are in this situation
@@ProfWho-ut5he I feel you buddy, today's women just so entitled, we actually don't need them, we're chasing our dream instead of chasing them actually will make our life easier
@@michaelpf08 I mean like fuck we can all just die they can keep their arrogance and not populate anymore you get what I’m trying to say?
just go sigma
Yea but most of us dont have the option of dating a ton of women
True lmfaoo 😭😭😭
I keep hearing the 30 day no contact, but I don't believe in that cause if she wasn't interested 30 days ago, chances are she won't change 30 days later.
I checked out from dating apps and now I choose to cold approach. It opens up the flood gates for ghosting and superficial behavior. I don't have time to play Blues Clues to figure out what she wants. I'm not a mind reader, not a Jedi Knight, I can't read minds. Use your words!
From here on in, I won't even give my number unless they're interested. And I am thinking of a decree that they can only text me 3 times a day and after the third text, they can't send anymore til they call me!
What opens the floodgates?
@@colewon6172 dating apps
Dude dating a lot women requires them to actually text back in the first place so you can date them
If she wants to text she will text me. B she don't I don't care and I move on
Text someone else
take her friend
What's next? Drop her and find someone else
I haven't done coaching with Tripp but based on my understanding of Tripp's framework: The interest level and investment all of the women that you are dating would be judged using multiple criteria. Tripp would then perform a Multi-criteria evaluation with you and you'd decide what's next.
Not a fan of advice like this. It’s easy to let women drop off and move on with life, that advice is fine. However, sometimes it’s hard enough to find one woman to date. Content like this makes it seem like it’s easy to have multiple women on rotation and that’s just not realistic for many. Sure sometimes it happens, but for dating coaches to make it seem like there’s something wrong or weird (or it’s an excuse) to not have multiple women lined up at your command and you wouldn’t notice one dropping off, is a bit... I dunno... arrogant, maybe... and unsympathetic to a majority of the audience that the coach wishes to encourage. Many men who need ‘left on read’ advice, don’t have that luxury and just would like to have at least one woman to date. To communicate to the audience that this is strange, or abnormal, to not be dating multiple women at the same time, comes across as arrogant. It can be rather off-putting, to be honest.
“I don’t date lots of women.”
“Huh. That’s kind of strange. Why are you just going from one woman to one woman?”
I’ve got an answer for that... life.
I’ve got a 2 questions for Tripp... how many woman are you currently dating on rotation? Would you notice if one dropped off?
Never said it’s easy. But that’s the point you want to get to. Nope. I have a girlfriend. That’s the step after you are dating multiple women to filter which one is best for you.
Thank you, the narratives of these videos are lowkey harmful, especially to impressionable boys
very rational answer. I like it.
Woman who stop txting are those who finally realizes that it's enough for them to be taken for granted and enough of the men's immaturity.
This is the worst video ever