Hi Paul! After spending a whole month in Thailand last November, I've noticed that I've become a person that I like more. I'm a more patient, more trusting, and more tolerant person. I was not like this before leaving for Thailand. Living in the States, you're always on the defensive due to tension caused by increasing crime, racism, fear of terrorism, religious intolerance, Karen-ism, divisive political party affiliations, abortion issues, feminism, mass shootings, illegal immigration issues, issues with sexual orientation, the disparity between the wealthy and poor...etc. The list goes on and on! Our news channels are highly biased, depending on which channel you watch, CNN or FOX NEWS! Speaking of mass shootings, last May during Memorial Day weekend, I was involved in a mass shooter scare at my local mall in Southern California! I was at a retail store inside the mall when I noticed everyone running in a panic out the mall exit. I was told by an employee that there was a report of a shooter inside the mall and we all had to hide in the back storeroom. While hiding and in fear for my life, I solidified my plan of moving to Thailand in a few years! Later, it turned out to be a false alarm but this was the NEW NORMAL in the US. Our divisive government will never pass any sensible gun laws to prevent gun violence in the US, and these incidents will just get worse with time. I know there was a shooter at Siam Paragon recently but an incident like this is rare in Thailand, whereas, shootings in the US are common occurrences. I am now desensitized to mass shootings in the US because they have become so common. Anyway, I agree with you 1000% and I am looking forward to my return in October 2024!
You are absolutely speaking my language I am now visiting family in the US for the holidays and the stress is nuts The news, fear, war, anger, conspiracy, crime , politics .. I’m over it! Get me back to Thailand please haha
Hey Paul, if you and your girl friend ever want to visit Koh Lanta one day I would like to invite you to come stay with us at "the Anchor" on our courtesy as many days as you want. We are pets friendly except in bed room. This is not for commercial purpose, just for a gesture of friendship. Search for our name on google maps.
I'm from NYC I was in Thailand December 2023 and visited Bangkok then places in the north and south. My mental health was so much better whilst I was in Thailand. My favorite place was chiang Mai. The food is amazing. I was able to eat fruits every single day etc.
everything YOU SAY about living in USA is 100% true. i lived in USA for 70 years and being asian we were victims of numerous crime and thief. as a boy i got total of 10 bikes stolen from me and my land stolen from me and worse my sister wS ATTACKED AND LATER DIED AND NO ONE HELD ACCOUNTABLE. SURE I GOT A GOOD JOB BUT THE QUALITY OF LIFE STAY HOME ALL DAY AFRAID OF BEING A VICTIM. SINCE I'M OVER 70 I CANNOT LEAVE usa.
I understand what you are saying about Thai women. I have been with a Thai woman for 5 years, we were married last year and have been married for 15 months. My wife, Mena, does take excellent care of me and I her. We built a house together in Eastern Thailand but we travel to beautiful beach town locations. Beach towns such as in Phuket, Koh Samui, Hua Hin, and Boracay a few hours away in the Philippines. Because we own our home and paid for it 100%, we only pay electricity, and water. So, we can save enough money to travel. I am a 100% disabled US Air Force Veteran, who retired from a long management history in healthcare. My wife is a University graduate who taught school before Covid shut her school down. She comes from a long line of farmers and her family’s farm and home is near to us. I love Thailand. Moreover, I feel safety is important and I never felt that safe in the USA. You realize I am sure, the political climate in the USA has begun to separate people in so many ways and seems to have intensified in recent years. I always feel safe in Thailand. I find the healthcare in Thailand is second to none. Being a Buddhist myself, I find Thais kind, respectful, happy, and very giving.
thailand is my end goal. I'm working on making money online as a fitness trainer and when i reach my training goals i will move to thailand and live the life i ever dreamed of! I've traveled to thailand 3 times now and i love it every time and i feel more at home there than here in california...
Keep focus and stay disciplined, EVERYDAY! you will get there! I did and now jump forth and back between Vietnam and Thailand. With an online income, i can work wherever theres internet. And i live very comfortably with 3000-5000$/month
everything YOU SAY about living in USA is 100% true. i lived in USA for 70 years and being asian we were victims of numerous crime and thief. as a boy i got total of 10 bikes stolen from me and my land stolen from me and worse my sister wS ATTACKED AND LATER DIED AND NO ONE HELD ACCOUNTABLE. SURE I GOT A GOOD JOB BUT THE QUALITY OF LIFE STAY HOME ALL DAY AFRAID OF BEING A VICTIM. SINCE I'M OVER 70 I CANNOT LEAVE usa.
I’m moving to Thailand next year as well for me the usa it’s too much unrest.Everyone is always arguing with one another and it’s so hard to build and establish real friendships and relationships in usa 🇺🇸.Like most people don’t even acknowledge each other at all there’s little to no respect anymore but I don’t hate the country I’m born and raised up in it’s just that for me Thailand will be a more suitable option I’m looking forward to Thailand 🇹🇭 😅.
Who has been in power in North America the last 4- 5 years ? All you need to know about tension, divisiveness , anti white racism even in government, it’s no wonder ppl are leaving chaos . %100 agree with Paul . Canada unfortunately is in the same boat as the US now .
I just got my passport recently and planning to visit bangkok in February. I'm excited to visit outside the united states for the first time. Eventaully I want to move somewhere in Asia coming from someone who was born and raised in the United States.
everything YOU SAY about living in USA is 100% true. i lived in USA for 70 years and being asian we were victims of numerous crime and thief. as a boy i got total of 10 bikes stolen from me and my land stolen from me and worse my sister wS ATTACKED AND LATER DIED AND NO ONE HELD ACCOUNTABLE. SURE I GOT A GOOD JOB BUT THE QUALITY OF LIFE STAY HOME ALL DAY AFRAID OF BEING A VICTIM. SINCE I'M OVER 70 I CANNOT LEAVE usa.
The best of you is a good temper, Paul. Thank you from a Thai heart for this reflection VDO. I'm happy to support if you need help in Thailand as far as I can.
I'm moving back to Cambodia for pretty much all the same reasons. I like your insights on the culture. I never saw anything in a Buddhist text about destroying non-believers or any saved vs unsaved kind of thing. It's like we're all in the same boat, so let's make the ride easier for all of us. The friendliness and lack of toxicity and political and social angst makes SE Asia so much nicer to live in than the west. I'm glad you're having a good life in Thailand!
@@Ned88Man as does Myanmar. Every religion can be twisted, but ya as someone that isn't religious at all, Buddhism seems the easiest to get on board with.
The narrative you just espoused has nothing to do with reality. Buddhists definitely have a saved vs unsaved distinction, and in that paradigm, the vast majority of souls will never be able to escape the cycle of suffering, only the very few enlightened Buddhas are able to escape out of the cycle and enter into nirvana. Also, the only religion that says to destroy unbelievers is Islam, which is not a mainstream religion in the US; to make that assertion against Christianity is plainly false and amounts to slander. Also, there are a lot of mean and dangerous people in SE Asia as well, and there is plenty of political angst, and even social angst with different ethnic groups fighting literal wars against one another. I get you're trying to paint a rosy picture for your potential future, but be realistic.
@@dr.j5642 When I say saved vs unsaved, I mean the Christian notion of either you're saved or you burn in hell. Continuing the cycle isn't quite the same thing. There are plenty of passages in the Bible about destroying unbelievers, especially in Deuteronomy. The political angst I refer to is people constantly bickering over politics which doesn't happen because it's not really allowed. While it's an unfortunate situation, it still results in a less toxic political culture in public Khmer society than exists in America. As a foreigner, I know I have the privilege of being shielded from the bulk of political situations in Cambodia, however, the distinction remains.
I fully agree with all points in your video. Personally, I think that you should also mention that learning a bit of Thai is a must in order not to live in a parallel world. Even as a swiss citizen, I feel much safer in Bangkok than in Zurich. Of course, besides the traffic and the pollution. Greetings from Bang Rak.
Wow!!! You speak very highly of Thailand. I do agree with the fact (pretty sure it's provable) that it is safer than the US overall. The food is also tasty without cutting your life short by a decade if you eat authentic Thai and avoid constantly eating coconut oil, stir-fries, and obvious chunks animal fat. Surprisingly, for a small country slightly smaller than Texas and France, Thailand's geography is more than adequately diverse. There's mountains up north, central plains and swamp land, plateau flatlands and mountains to the northeast, and prestine beaches 'til your hearts content to the south. Cultural differences are also very distinct between regions if you have keen eyes and ears. It is reflected in language tonations and speed of speech, different wordings, beliefs and behaviors, and foods. Probably one of the best part of Thailand is its central location in S.E. Asia. Traveling to surrounding S.E. Asian countries, and even China is cheap and easy (plane and soon bullet train). Honestly, when I was doing my college degree in Texas, I didn't expect Thailand (or S.E. Asia) to come this far in development. However, when my Vietnamese friend asked me whether I was going to take up a job in Texas after I finished my degree through an internship program like he did, I said no because I thought I'd be happier living long-term back home. I don't regret it, although I must admit alot of differences require quite a bit of adjustment, which sometimes is not too comfortable (especially if you've gotten use to the ways in the West already). Anyway, Thailand and I believe most of S.E. Asia is the gem of Asia in terms of value living and I have absolutely no regrets about my life here. So I totally understand where you're coming from. Keep the vids coming and glad you're enjoying life in Bangkok too 😁😁.
Some Farangs have developed a bad attitude about the Thai women they meet in the tourist areas. They to seem to extrapolate onto all Thai women their negativity they have about freelancers and for-profit girlfriends The above is a very distorted perspective as most Thai- Buddhists women are loving and caring to their man. That’s not always easy to find in the USA.
everything YOU SAY about living in USA is 100% true. i lived in USA for 70 years and being asian we were victims of numerous crime and thief. as a boy i got total of 10 bikes stolen from me and my land stolen from me and worse my sister wS ATTACKED AND LATER DIED AND NO ONE HELD ACCOUNTABLE. SURE I GOT A GOOD JOB BUT THE QUALITY OF LIFE STAY HOME ALL DAY AFRAID OF BEING A VICTIM. SINCE I'M OVER 70 I CANNOT LEAVE usa.
Love the food...really really do. I see myself living in Bangkok ASAP. You present culture, food, people, and amenities in such a clear and simple way. Love this channel.
I can definitely confirm every point and I have been living in Sukhumvit Area Phra Khanong for 5 years. I love this city and these people. The serenity of the people rubs off on me and there is always a temple to meditate nearby. I originally come from Hamburg in Germany.
Broke down and cried with longing to be there when you were talking about how peaceful it is socially. That was beautiful how you opened up and told us what we already know and experience but might not be able to articulate. I have subscribed!
I am impressed that you can communicate with the locals. Agree with everything you said but just to let you most crimes are related to drugs. Most criminals have history of drug use in Thailand!
Living in Thailand, It is super cheap for foreigners. Especially those from the 1st world country. As A Thai, I currently, live on less than $600 per month in Bangkok.
$600 sick. How much do u pay for rent? I guess if you have 6k baht rent, 2k baht for utilities/internet , 7k baht for food, you still have 5k baht left for transportation etc.
Hi Paul great video thankyou. I live in Melbourhe with my Thai wife and 7 yo son. Im retired and want to get away from these angry people here. Road rage etc is out of control. You made so much sense when you said how relaxed you are now. I totally understand. Cheers mate Brendon
I wish i could find remote work. I would legit be down to do almost anything so I could leave california. Ive wanted to move to Thailand for years now. Just turned 30 and I dont want my life to be wasted any more. Living here is crushing
you can teach english in Thailand and the pay is fine to put down your roots and then you can start any business, remote teaching students who want to learn english can be done as well...good luck
@@jamestucker4800 No , you don't have to have a bachelor degree to teach English. Some language schools will hire you as long as you are a native speaker.
Thank you for sharing. My brother moved to Thailand and married a beautiful Thai girl and they are happy. She doesn’t work, cook, clean, or doing anything around the house. The most important is they are happy.
She doesn’t do anything around the house? Your brother had a lazy wife unless you mean she doesn’t work but she does cook clean or do anything around the house
As a Thai, I am mostly sure that the majority of Thai women like to do somethings around the house unless she is really very lazy by nature or her man is rich.
I’m watching this from San Francisco Paul…..and my husband and I enjoy your channel! Your views of Thailand and its culture is very positive! Love your feedback on rent & food. We plan on moving to Thailand sometime next year and gosh, we wish we were your age😊 Thanks for posting this video 🙏🏼
Your video is on point 100%. We are two mid 50s couple who have been slow travelling SE Asia since Covid and LOVE Bangkok. I am in Koh Samui right now and will be back in Bangkok end of Jan. We want to move temp for a year to Bangkok.
These videos always talk about cost of living, but never talk about what they do for work. If you’re an entrepreneur, that’s the only way you can “live like a king” out there, because the average person will end up on the street
I really enjoyed your video and agree with everything you said when comparing "the West" - I'm from the UK and looking forward to living overseas in a calmer, warmer, cleaner, more affordable environment one day myself.
Im new to your Channel I found you from watching the interview with Forrest Lee good interview by the way. Your pretty much spot on about the states, sad what its become. I like what your saying about the culture in Thailand good vibs, ive never been but plan to visit. Much enjoyed the video.
Congrats Paul . U have found a great peaceful balance in a Easy Going country. Moreso with a balanced supportive partner. Keep it up and enjoy peacefully. All the best .
Air quality in Bangkok has been so brutal lately. I admire anyone that is willing to breathe that in for the rest of their life. I do love Thailand as well but could never live in Bangkok long term.
lol. How true. Yes, Thailand is roughly 50% cheaper but he didn't say anything about wages. First, you can't work except for remote work and there is the timezone differences. I guess, if you are financially secured or have an online business then it's not a problem. Also, the food is cheaper because the quality is lower. Who wants to eat hot noodle soup in a plastic bowl? The leached chemicals can't be good for you. The cheapest ingredients are used like vegetable/seed oils.
To be more accurate, I’d say for a 1 bedroom condo to rent in BKK will be $800-$1000 a month. Of course a 34sq meter studio condo would be 509 baht. A lot of factors to consider when renting a place. Be sure it’s walking distance to the BTS and the complex doesn’t rent out to short term renters on holiday ( Airbnb) . And my grocery bill is half of what it would be in the States . I worked in Thailand for 15 years, now retired four years in a quiet province city which is a lot cheaper and peaceful than Bangkok.
Love this comparison video brotha! I’m from Southern California and everything you said was 100% accurate! You know I would love to see a comparison from Thailand and the Philipines from your experience. Not sure if you ever been to Philipines or if you’d ever go visit there but that would be an awesome video!
From what I heard and see, Philippines and Thailand are equally beautiful but Thailand is more peaceful with way less crimes. The advantage of Philippines are their friendly people and most speak English.
I've been to Thailand for the first time lately, I agree with everything you said about Thai culture and women. I'm from Australia and we are not as bad as the U.S but we are heading that Way in some aspects.
I'm moving to Bangkok this fall and it feels unreal. Been in Thailand 2 times before and goddamn I love love BKK, and I've been around southern and eastern Thailand.
Hey Paul, so inspiring watching your videos. Takes a lot of courage to pack up your stuff and leave the states to live overseas. One question. When you left USA and moved to Thailand, where did you stay before you found the condo that you wanted to live in? I’ve been seriously considering about moving to bkk ever since I’ve been binge watching your videos on yt. Thanks! 🎉
That's because no matter how American accent you are carrying, you will still be considered an outsider in the US. In Thailand you blend in as asian man. A sense of where you belong and safty.
You’re absolutely right , oriental people in the USA gets bullied more than other races that is why he moved to Thailand because he’s asian and blend into Thais easily.🤣
🤣That's not how America is like at all. Asians are the best educated, highest paid and least discriminated race in the US. For example 2nd generation Asian Americans typically live anywhere they want - even the most elitist WASP neighborhoods have Asian Americans living there whereas other minorities are kept out. None of my American friends I grew up with would ever treat me as an "outsider". You would only really be treated that way if you have a heavy foreign accent. What you describe is more the experience of an Asian person who was raised in Asia but moved to the US as an adult, not an Asian American born and raised in America. Also, being Asian looking meaning nothing in Asia once you open your mouth and speak with an American accent - automatically you will be rejected as a local.
Can totally agree. Had the same feeling. Me and the misses sold our house, left our jobs and moved to Asia. Just traveling for now but first 2 months were in Thailand. Life is so much better out here. It completely changed me. I was always agitated and cranky back in Western Europe. My eyes opened. We weren't sure if we would stay long term. But after 2 months we made the descision to start working online and generate income and just stay here.
Ah I miss having a pug dog. Agree with you about the motorbike point on being pretty dangerous, I've personally seen a lot of motorbike accidents here in bkk and I never use them anymore, not worth it
as a 28 y.o ABC from NYC i lived there for 1.5yrs i absolutely love bangkok. I also lived in seoul for 1.5 yrs. shanghai for 1 Cities in asia are built different
Great job! You articulated the differences between the US and Thailand so well. I trained with the Thai military in Cobra Gold '95. Bangkok just amazed me back then. When I tell people that I plan to retire overseas they just look at me so strangely. Most of them have never left their hometowns.
Hi Paul, im from the UK. Back in Feb 2022, i visited Thailand for the first time and it changed my life . I'm retired and living full time with my Thai girlfriend. As i said I'm from the UK and its very expensive to live there everything is going through the roof. While in Thailand its very cheap to live.I planned everything before coming over and sticking to my plan so i can enjoy my life over here. Thailand is a full package apart from the weather 😊😅😂😂😂😮😮⁹
I agree with everything that you say. I live in La and love the weather with no humidity and hate the rest . I think that’s probably why I couldn’t live in Thailand . Parts of San Diego are safe , friendly, and clean but yes very expensive. Luckily I have rental properties but trust me Thailand is appealing. Enjoy btw It is humid there right ?
@@Big_E_247 Wow. It says February and November are less humid . Maybe one day I’ll try those months i was going down to playa del Carmen in Mexico every winter , even rented a yearly studio that just sat 8 months of the year but last season it was unbearable and I stopped going . I think it’s getting more humid all over . Anyway I enjoy your videos . Thanks
Just found your channel. Great video! I've been to Bangkok and other places and Thailand and agree with everything in your video. One issue I run into - how do you stay long-term in Thailand with the recent visa run lockdowns since you're less than 50 yo? I want to retire early but I'm not old enough to qualify for their retirement visa, and I don't really want to be working teaching English (unless I can do it for 10 hours a week max).
An English friend of mine used to travel to neighbouring countries like Laos, Cambodia, etc., every six months to get another six-month tourist visa stamped on his way back at the border. He did that for more than ten years.
I recently came back and I was only there for two weeks. I lost weight my skin cleared up. My joints weren’t hurting as much. I was able to get my teeth done as in deep cleaning x-rays, extensive cleanings, fillings and filings for less than 150 bucks. I was able to afford all the good foods and luxuries that I wouldn’t be able to really enjoy as much living in New York. I stamp everything he’s saying and I’m truly considering this in a few years from now.
Paul, i agree 100% with your philosophy regarding men and women! The west is very toxic. I laugh at the cute facial expressions your girlfriend makes whenever you talk about her and Thai women 😂 The women and the low cost of luxury living are the two primary reasons I’ll be visiting Thailand next week.
Extending my passport for 10 years and I’m ready to go! Sold everything I own but my car, which will be sold when the passport comes back. Who knows maybe I’ll see you down there?
I moved to work remotely out of Colombia and I felt the same way! Subscribed just because of how well you expressed everything my man. This makes me want to visit Thailand so bad!
This is my first visit to this channel. I really like the straightforward presentation. I have been visiting Bangkok since before and after the pandemic. 18 months ago I met my Thai-Buddhist lady and for the first time in my adult life, I feel really happy and at peace with myself and the world. Buddhism philosophy has allowed me to be a better version of myself. That’s not always the case with American Farang women. It seems like in the USA, sex is part of American women’s reward-punishment syndrome. I love Thailand and Thai people. One thing I have learned about Thai women in general: if you take care of them, your Thai lady will take care of you. I plan to retire this coming year in Bangkok and we are looking for a condo on Sukhumvit between terminal 21 and Soi 7. We really like that type of condo which you and your lady share. I was curious if any of the high rise condos include a health club and other amenities. I plan to watch more of your videos in the future. Thank you for the positive perspective of thailand 🙏🏽🇹🇭
Finally I'm in Bangkok. I arrived yesterday... Thanks to your videos it helped me a lot... I'm korean american too... Hope to see you in person... cheers
I live in NY City and have been to Thailand many times. I visit Thailand twice a year and stay as long as my visa will allow each time. I couldn’t agree with you more about Thailand. NYC and the U.S. has become a nightmare. Everyday I’m trying to think of ways to get out and move to Thailand. Everything you mentioned in this video about NY is true, the costs, the competitively mean people, the street crime, the taxes and government - for a start - it is a horrible place to live. Don’t get me wrong, there was I time when I wished I had five lives to do all the great things I wanted to do in NY, but no more. There’s a saying I’ve heard awhile ago and the longer I live, the more true it is… _“In Thailand you are free, except to criticize the king; in America, you can criticize the president all you want, but you are not free to do anything else.”_ By now I know both places enough to know how true this has become. Americans don’t know it yet, but they are the frog in the boiling water. They proclaim their “freedom” left, right, & center, but they are not free. I love Thailand. I love the kind people, I love the great food, I love the arts & culture, I love the morality, and I love the aesthetic. I only hope to someday let the wonderful Thai people know how lucky they really are.
95 F in December in Bangkok is a no go for me for not only Bangkok but most of southeast Asia--I like four distinct seasons although by late Winter and late Summer, I can't wait to jump into Spring and Fall. But to each their own. About women... I earn enough in America for my wife to sit home and cook, clean, laundry etc. It is not huge chores. In return, I take care of the often very tiring yard work and earn enough for us to live a comfortable middle-class life. There is less tension in the house now that she stopped working almost two years ago--she was always tired. She is very glad to be a house-wife and, while if she goes back to work it would be fine if she chooses to, it is fine right now as long as this arrangement goes on. When we go out and other women ask and she tells her situation they envy her. A woman and a man in their natural or preferred setting. Nothing wrong with that.
It's kind of a pity that TH-camrs - and I've watched dozens of videos broadly identical to this one - seem unable to embrace the place they're now living without shitting all over where they are from. There are approximately 300,000 Thai nationals who have chosen to make the United States home and raise their families there. Perhaps they didn't get the memo on all the reasons Thailand is utopia and "The West" 🙄 sucks balls, perhaps they're all mentally ill or maybe, just maybe, there's a bit more nuance to this than you'll typically find in these sorts of videos. I'm from Scotland but have chosen to make Asia my home for the past 20 years. Specifically Hong Kong and actually much as I love visiting Thailand I'm glad I chose to make a life here not there. But anyway I digress, the point I'd make is that I am happy I chose to make life here but I don't hate Scotland or think it is a bad place to live. I still love where I'm originally from and my brother has never left Edinburgh and has made a fantastic life for himself there Maybe America is a uniquely terrible place ( although net migration figures don't seem to bare that out ) or maybe people perhaps have an overly negative view of it and perhaps an overly romanticised view of Thailand, especially if they've only recently moved there. Especially those who don't speak the language. I mean at least one thing I feel you could say in favour of America, although I guess you won't, is that you can make a video about how much America sucks and title it "why you'll never go back" and obviously there's zero issue there should you there change your mind. Make a viral video about all the reasons Thailand sucks and why you'd never go back, if that was to get picked up and amplified by local media then it's probably best you don't🙄😬.
I think you’re being to critical, this is TH-cam and more importantly just my opinion. Of course I won’t talk for others (especially Thai people). And For sure I am biased and critical of USA and overly romantical of Thailand. Perhaps I can make some more nuanced videos about Thailand vs USA (like pros and cons).
@@iPaulLeeMaybe I am being too critical, but if you look at the other comments they are overwhelming positive/ agreeing with every word you said, so hopefully there's still room for someone who maybe doesn't in terms of this particular video at least. However I've subscribed so obviously there's other content you've put out I've enjoyed, for example I thought your interview with Chinni was really good as you asked frankly a lot of blunt questions that others would probably dance around and I found the answers really refreshing in being equally direct and honest. And anyway it's not so much that I didn't enjoy this video as much as I have a different perspective maybe. I'm quite a lot lot older than you ( I'm 51) and actually in addition to my 20 plus years in HK ( it's 22 actually this year) I was seconded with my first company ( I started my own company after that ) to both mainland China ( Shanghai) and Bangkok in the early 2000's. 18 months in China and almost 3 years in Thailand. I loved both but Thailand was my favourite. But then I lived in a complete expat bubble at the time, I was 29, single and being paid in HKD ( so USD effectively given the peg) had a 2500 sq foot apartment to myself, a live in maid, club memberships and for a while I even had a friggin driver. So it wasn't real life and of course I had a completely hedonistic lifestyle when I wasn't working. If I tried that now I'd be dead in a month I think😂. I retired in Hong Kong last year at 50. Apparently you're not supposed to do that, certainly not here, and other friends of mine who retired after decades in HK have moved to Thailand or Malaysia mostly. Something I might do too, or we might stay here forever ( my missus is Canadian Chinese but HK born) . Anyway she's a lot younger than me and still working in IB so not in the near future. Ok I've just told you my life story which you didn't ask for sorry 😂
He clearly stated that he was comparing New York City to Bangkok at the beginning of the video. Both are very large modern cities with around 10 million residents. I can't really imagine a much better comparison to make. From my limited experience with New York City, I can see the benefits he is describing in his video to a person who desires this type of big metropolitan lifestyle. If there is anything to criticize, perhaps it would be the title of the video. I have no idea how you think he is actually comparing "America" and "Thailand" if you watched the video.
I've lived in three American states, and having been to three areas in Thailand, including Bangkok, I agree 100% with everything you said. ESPECIALLY about the food and the women, both of which are the best in the world. ❤
Love your style...Direct yet accepting of others. I'm glad to see you found some happiness and it seems other folks commenting did too. BTW, you rocking the Thai language bro. You know you doing ok when the Thai aunties don't break into English to help you out
Thailand is old news , and has been since before covid. Everything is dazzling when you're brand new , but living there long term is NOT the best investment for many reasons that you'll have to find out on your own . The most important thing to acknowledge is, that no matter who you are or how much money you spend, Thais would rather you NOT emigrate there . Thailand is ultra nationalistic and their laws cement that fact . You will hear many "opinions" from expats that live in denial for their own selfish reasons.
Bottom line, Thailand is still a military dictatorship rife with corruption. Their government also changes their immigration/visa rules multiple times every year.
Nobody is willing to admit it, but the reason why there's significantly less crime in Asia compared to the USA is because there are fewer black people. All the crimes you're referencing; the shoplifting, the pushing of elders into train tracks, the violent protests. We all see the videos. We're not blind.
Also, malls are still huge in Asia for the same reason, as well as the absence of a cutthroat landlord class jacking up the rents. In the Divided States, malls got mauled to death.
Don’t worry guys, you’ll be back after 5/6 years or even sooner. I have met many of you like that in Thailand, Philippines and many other countries. Good luck.
We built a pretty big house in the Phils. and I can live like a queen there with my pensions b/c I worked here for 30 years in the gov't. but I will not go back to live there. Three things I don't like, hot weather, healthcare and inconveniences. The one I like is Japan b/c they have a similar weather like here in Northeast.
"Everything is much more affordable" is the theme of the video but it simply isn't true. If you have children, take a look at anything child related, including education, toys etc. If you want to buy electronics or cars the prices are higher. Depending on your lifestyle, the price per square foot that you pay for a home in Thailand is higher than a lot of communities in the US. People making Japan/Thailand content tend to be OK with
Taking my early retirement at 62 and plan to live in Thailand. I can't afford Hawaii anymore and you are so right about the USA right now...Hopefully, me and hubby, can relax and enjoy our next chapter.
new subscriber here. we were in Thailand in December and we loved it. will go back for sure and in the future want to live there in the winter. now we live in America things are bad at the moment
I am Thai. Born there but grew up abroad, mainly the US. Moved back for a few years in my teens and hated how backward Thailand was, pre-internet, BTS, metro, Netflix, etc. Poverty and run down dusty streets…hated living there. Moved away and now visit as a tourist and LOVE the new Thailand. Everything is way cheaper and more delicious than the US. But the infrastructure and orderliness is different. In leaving the US, the cons would be the extreme heat, humidity, pollution, noise, congestion, traffic chaos, litter, disorder…but the pros are also plenty. Laid back, friendlier people (in general), low cost of living for luxury standards, great food, beautiful beaches and tourist destinations, modern rail and subways, no need to fear being knifed or pushed in front of trains, no racism (but there is colorism amongst Thais themselves), Thai style Karens are different than in the US, way way fewer carjackings and shoplifting…the list is long for both pros and cons. However, without enough money, even this cheap luxury lifestyle is not doable. Minimum $2k a month will let you live quite well even in Bangkok. It depends on what I want to give up to move there and retire. The whole month I was there, I sweat my way thru Thailand running for the nearest AC room and braved the heat to enjoy the beautiful tourist sites. Could I handle it every day for the pros? Who knows until I actually do it. Many Thai friends want out and many expat Farangs want in.
Was in Bangkok for a week (first time) in Nov. 2023. In fascinatingly odd ways (for an NYC-native!), it felt like 'home'. Safe, lovely, nice attitude. However, I wonder about Bangkok sinking/flooding, and art/music/alt-culture (as a musician/artist). Next time I will focus on that 'more' and try to connect with the artist community. ps - The MOCA (IMO) was FANTASTIC!!! Definitely worth checking out. 🙂
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Bruh Nah 2000 rent with 4 roomates that had to be a near house sized apartment right XD?
Yes this is a well made video, you got me thinking !!!!
So sad American Dream is dead Trump 2024
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Hi Paul! After spending a whole month in Thailand last November, I've noticed that I've become a person that I like more. I'm a more patient, more trusting, and more tolerant person. I was not like this before leaving for Thailand. Living in the States, you're always on the defensive due to tension caused by increasing crime, racism, fear of terrorism, religious intolerance, Karen-ism, divisive political party affiliations, abortion issues, feminism, mass shootings, illegal immigration issues, issues with sexual orientation, the disparity between the wealthy and poor...etc. The list goes on and on! Our news channels are highly biased, depending on which channel you watch, CNN or FOX NEWS! Speaking of mass shootings, last May during Memorial Day weekend, I was involved in a mass shooter scare at my local mall in Southern California! I was at a retail store inside the mall when I noticed everyone running in a panic out the mall exit. I was told by an employee that there was a report of a shooter inside the mall and we all had to hide in the back storeroom. While hiding and in fear for my life, I solidified my plan of moving to Thailand in a few years! Later, it turned out to be a false alarm but this was the NEW NORMAL in the US. Our divisive government will never pass any sensible gun laws to prevent gun violence in the US, and these incidents will just get worse with time. I know there was a shooter at Siam Paragon recently but an incident like this is rare in Thailand, whereas, shootings in the US are common occurrences. I am now desensitized to mass shootings in the US because they have become so common. Anyway, I agree with you 1000% and I am looking forward to my return in October 2024!
Thats why people like andrew tate is popular over there. Sadly they need him lol/
100%. Well said.
You are absolutely speaking my language
I am now visiting family in the US for the holidays and the stress is nuts
The news, fear, war, anger, conspiracy, crime , politics .. I’m over it!
Get me back to Thailand please haha
Hey Paul, if you and your girl friend ever want to visit Koh Lanta one day I would like to invite you to come stay with us at "the Anchor" on our courtesy as many days as you want. We are pets friendly except in bed room. This is not for commercial purpose, just for a gesture of friendship. Search for our name on google maps.
Pity the local Thai people though. With more and more foreigners who came in with a lot more money, they are being phased out of the housing market. 😔
I'm from NYC I was in Thailand December 2023 and visited Bangkok then places in the north and south. My mental health was so much better whilst I was in Thailand. My favorite place was chiang Mai. The food is amazing. I was able to eat fruits every single day etc.
Alot of that may be to also eating healthier foods. We don't realize it, but eating healthier really does make a difference mentally.
the same I from morocco and for me thailand the best place in asia and we can say in the world
everything YOU SAY about living in USA is 100% true. i lived in USA for 70 years and being asian we were victims of numerous crime and thief. as a boy i got total of 10 bikes stolen from me and my land stolen from me and worse my sister wS ATTACKED AND LATER DIED AND NO ONE HELD ACCOUNTABLE. SURE I GOT A GOOD JOB BUT THE QUALITY OF LIFE STAY HOME ALL DAY AFRAID OF BEING A VICTIM. SINCE I'M OVER 70 I CANNOT LEAVE usa.
Your body need the fruit😌
What area is that 😊
I understand what you are saying about Thai women. I have been with a Thai woman for 5 years, we were married last year and have been married for 15 months. My wife, Mena, does take excellent care of me and I her. We built a house together in Eastern Thailand but we travel to beautiful beach town locations. Beach towns such as in Phuket, Koh Samui, Hua Hin, and Boracay a few hours away in the Philippines. Because we own our home and paid for it 100%, we only pay electricity, and water. So, we can save enough money to travel. I am a 100% disabled US Air Force Veteran, who retired from a long management history in healthcare. My wife is a University graduate who taught school before Covid shut her school down. She comes from a long line of farmers and her family’s farm and home is near to us. I love Thailand.
Moreover, I feel safety is important and I never felt that safe in the USA. You realize I am sure, the political climate in the USA has begun to separate people in so many ways and seems to have intensified in recent years. I always feel safe in Thailand. I find the healthcare in Thailand is second to none. Being a Buddhist myself, I find Thais kind, respectful, happy, and very giving.
thailand is my end goal. I'm working on making money online as a fitness trainer and when i reach my training goals i will move to thailand and live the life i ever dreamed of! I've traveled to thailand 3 times now and i love it every time and i feel more at home there than here in california...
Keep focus and stay disciplined, EVERYDAY! you will get there! I did and now jump forth and back between Vietnam and Thailand. With an online income, i can work wherever theres internet. And i live very comfortably with 3000-5000$/month
How do you plan on dealing with the visa requirements?
everything YOU SAY about living in USA is 100% true. i lived in USA for 70 years and being asian we were victims of numerous crime and thief. as a boy i got total of 10 bikes stolen from me and my land stolen from me and worse my sister wS ATTACKED AND LATER DIED AND NO ONE HELD ACCOUNTABLE. SURE I GOT A GOOD JOB BUT THE QUALITY OF LIFE STAY HOME ALL DAY AFRAID OF BEING A VICTIM. SINCE I'M OVER 70 I CANNOT LEAVE usa.
5:15 The dad playing with his adorable toddler in your background….soooo sweet!❤👼💕
I’m moving to Thailand next year as well for me the usa it’s too much unrest.Everyone is always arguing with one another and it’s so hard to build and establish real friendships and relationships in usa 🇺🇸.Like most people don’t even acknowledge each other at all there’s little to no respect anymore but I don’t hate the country I’m born and raised up in it’s just that for me Thailand will be a more suitable option I’m looking forward to Thailand 🇹🇭 😅.
The Divided States was founded entirely by the kind of people that vote with their feet, looking for a better life, and so it will end.
Yes, I know that has to be my next move!!
Who has been in power in North America the last 4- 5 years ? All you need to know about tension, divisiveness , anti white racism even in government, it’s no wonder ppl are leaving chaos . %100 agree with Paul . Canada unfortunately is in the same boat as the US now .
How are you working out the Visa part to be able to stay long term?
If you are talking about US politics then you haven’t seen Thai politics
I've noticed also that you've tried to learn Thai, which is something many expats don't even bother to do. Kudos to you.
I just got my passport recently and planning to visit bangkok in February. I'm excited to visit outside the united states for the first time. Eventaully I want to move somewhere in Asia coming from someone who was born and raised in the United States.
Thank you, Paul
That's the exact reasons I will be moving to Thailand next year. 🙏🇹🇭
I'm Thais living in NY and I can confirmed that you are 100% right 👍. Our culture is the most peaceful. Enjoy our wonderful country
You don't want all the western expats turning Thailand into western arrogance. Step back and think about it
It's everywhere in South East Asia the same, if they believe in Buddhism. Everywhere has really nice helpful people's.
everything YOU SAY about living in USA is 100% true. i lived in USA for 70 years and being asian we were victims of numerous crime and thief. as a boy i got total of 10 bikes stolen from me and my land stolen from me and worse my sister wS ATTACKED AND LATER DIED AND NO ONE HELD ACCOUNTABLE. SURE I GOT A GOOD JOB BUT THE QUALITY OF LIFE STAY HOME ALL DAY AFRAID OF BEING A VICTIM. SINCE I'M OVER 70 I CANNOT LEAVE usa.
The best of you is a good temper, Paul. Thank you from a Thai heart for this reflection VDO. I'm happy to support if you need help in Thailand as far as I can.
I'm moving back to Cambodia for pretty much all the same reasons. I like your insights on the culture. I never saw anything in a Buddhist text about destroying non-believers or any saved vs unsaved kind of thing. It's like we're all in the same boat, so let's make the ride easier for all of us. The friendliness and lack of toxicity and political and social angst makes SE Asia so much nicer to live in than the west. I'm glad you're having a good life in Thailand!
Thailand certainly has political angst…
@@Ned88Man as does Myanmar. Every religion can be twisted, but ya as someone that isn't religious at all, Buddhism seems the easiest to get on board with.
The narrative you just espoused has nothing to do with reality. Buddhists definitely have a saved vs unsaved distinction, and in that paradigm, the vast majority of souls will never be able to escape the cycle of suffering, only the very few enlightened Buddhas are able to escape out of the cycle and enter into nirvana. Also, the only religion that says to destroy unbelievers is Islam, which is not a mainstream religion in the US; to make that assertion against Christianity is plainly false and amounts to slander.
Also, there are a lot of mean and dangerous people in SE Asia as well, and there is plenty of political angst, and even social angst with different ethnic groups fighting literal wars against one another. I get you're trying to paint a rosy picture for your potential future, but be realistic.
yes, this 100%@@dr.j5642
@@dr.j5642 When I say saved vs unsaved, I mean the Christian notion of either you're saved or you burn in hell. Continuing the cycle isn't quite the same thing. There are plenty of passages in the Bible about destroying unbelievers, especially in Deuteronomy.
The political angst I refer to is people constantly bickering over politics which doesn't happen because it's not really allowed. While it's an unfortunate situation, it still results in a less toxic political culture in public Khmer society than exists in America. As a foreigner, I know I have the privilege of being shielded from the bulk of political situations in Cambodia, however, the distinction remains.
I fully agree with all points in your video. Personally, I think that you should also mention that learning a bit of Thai is a must in order not to live in a parallel world. Even as a swiss citizen, I feel much safer in Bangkok than in Zurich. Of course, besides the traffic and the pollution.
Greetings from Bang Rak.
Wow!!! You speak very highly of Thailand. I do agree with the fact (pretty sure it's provable) that it is safer than the US overall. The food is also tasty without cutting your life short by a decade if you eat authentic Thai and avoid constantly eating coconut oil, stir-fries, and obvious chunks animal fat. Surprisingly, for a small country slightly smaller than Texas and France, Thailand's geography is more than adequately diverse. There's mountains up north, central plains and swamp land, plateau flatlands and mountains to the northeast, and prestine beaches 'til your hearts content to the south. Cultural differences are also very distinct between regions if you have keen eyes and ears. It is reflected in language tonations and speed of speech, different wordings, beliefs and behaviors, and foods. Probably one of the best part of Thailand is its central location in S.E. Asia. Traveling to surrounding S.E. Asian countries, and even China is cheap and easy (plane and soon bullet train). Honestly, when I was doing my college degree in Texas, I didn't expect Thailand (or S.E. Asia) to come this far in development. However, when my Vietnamese friend asked me whether I was going to take up a job in Texas after I finished my degree through an internship program like he did, I said no because I thought I'd be happier living long-term back home. I don't regret it, although I must admit alot of differences require quite a bit of adjustment, which sometimes is not too comfortable (especially if you've gotten use to the ways in the West already). Anyway, Thailand and I believe most of S.E. Asia is the gem of Asia in terms of value living and I have absolutely no regrets about my life here. So I totally understand where you're coming from. Keep the vids coming and glad you're enjoying life in Bangkok too 😁😁.
Some Farangs have developed a bad attitude about the Thai women they meet in the tourist areas.
They to seem to extrapolate onto all Thai women their negativity they have about freelancers and for-profit girlfriends
The above is a very distorted perspective as most Thai- Buddhists women are loving and caring to their man.
That’s not always easy to find in the USA.
everything YOU SAY about living in USA is 100% true. i lived in USA for 70 years and being asian we were victims of numerous crime and thief. as a boy i got total of 10 bikes stolen from me and my land stolen from me and worse my sister wS ATTACKED AND LATER DIED AND NO ONE HELD ACCOUNTABLE. SURE I GOT A GOOD JOB BUT THE QUALITY OF LIFE STAY HOME ALL DAY AFRAID OF BEING A VICTIM. SINCE I'M OVER 70 I CANNOT LEAVE usa.
It is not safer
Love the food...really really do. I see myself living in Bangkok ASAP. You present culture, food, people, and amenities in such a clear and simple way. Love this channel.
Thank you’
What about all then lady boys in Thailand? Especially all those lady boys in Bangkok ?
@iPaulLee
Paul how about English? Can I speak English or do I need to know Tai. Can I use Google translate ?
I can definitely confirm every point and I have been living in Sukhumvit Area Phra Khanong for 5 years. I love this city and these people. The serenity of the people rubs off on me and there is always a temple to meditate nearby. I originally come from Hamburg in Germany.
Welches Visum hast du um dort 5 Jahre zu leben....ich möchte ungern Heiraten und Rentner bin ich auch noch nicht ...😂
Ich habe mir ein 20 Jahre Elite Visum geholt, als es noch 1 Mio. Baht gekostet hat. Jetzt leider 5 Mio. @@lets-do-this
Elite Visum für 20 Jahre... Kostet leider jetzt 5 Mio. Baht, ich habe das Visum für 1 Mio. bekommen@@lets-do-this
Hey that's lovely to hear! What do you do for a living there?
@@DR-ex7yu i am working as programmer for german companies
Broke down and cried with longing to be there when you were talking about how peaceful it is socially. That was beautiful how you opened up and told us what we already know and experience but might not be able to articulate. I have subscribed!
peaceful relatively. Overall It's nice, not only Bangkok, also in Chiang Mai, HuaHin etc. The rural area is very peaceful.
Your videos are getting better and better. Keep up the great work Paul. Damn, I miss the food in Thailand. 😢
Thank you!
I am impressed that you can communicate with the locals. Agree with everything you said but just to let you most crimes are related to drugs. Most criminals have history of drug use in Thailand!
Living in Thailand, It is super cheap for foreigners. Especially those from the 1st world country. As A Thai, I currently, live on less than $600 per month in Bangkok.
คนชั้นกลางทั้งสิ้น เพราะ รายได้ไม่เพียงพอกับรายจ่ายและคุณภาพชีวิตทางจิตใจก็สู้เมืองไทยไม่ได้ในเกือบทุกเรื่อง ยกเว้นคนที่มีรายได้สูงมากที่ไม่มีผลกระทบ คนมีบ้านต้องเสียภาษีด้วย คนจึงเปลี่ยนมานอนในรถบ้าน
$600 sick. How much do u pay for rent? I guess if you have 6k baht rent, 2k baht for utilities/internet , 7k baht for food, you still have 5k baht left for transportation etc.
How is that possible???😮
@@BigJack273 Well, more than half of Thai citizens doing it. So...what do you think!
Really, what's your secret to living on $600 per month?
wonderful we will be there again at the end of January I am so excited
Hi Paul great video thankyou. I live in Melbourhe with my Thai wife and 7 yo son. Im retired and want to get away from these angry people here. Road rage etc is out of control. You made so much sense when you said how relaxed you are now. I totally understand. Cheers mate Brendon
I've seen a few expat YTers, and yours is a story I relate to and wish to emulate. Keep posting!
Thank you! Will do!
I wish i could find remote work. I would legit be down to do almost anything so I could leave california. Ive wanted to move to Thailand for years now. Just turned 30 and I dont want my life to be wasted any more. Living here is crushing
you can teach english in Thailand and the pay is fine to put down your roots and then you can start any business, remote teaching students who want to learn english can be done as well...good luck
@@lavista4u he would need to have at least a Bachelors to teach English
@@jamestucker4800 No , you don't have to have a bachelor degree to teach English. Some language schools will hire you as long as you are a native speaker.
@@tirakarn Yeah, if you're happy being paid SIGNIFICANTLY less by poorer quality schools.
Damn bro it sucks because I know how things are in Cali rn
Thank you for sharing. My brother moved to Thailand and married a beautiful Thai girl and they are happy. She doesn’t work, cook, clean, or doing anything around the house. The most important is they are happy.
Agreed!
She doesn’t do anything around the house? Your brother had a lazy wife unless you mean she doesn’t work but she does cook clean or do anything around the house
As a Thai, I am mostly sure that the majority of Thai women like to do somethings around the house unless she is really very lazy by nature or her man is rich.
Love your positive energy and attitude, Paul 😊
I’m watching this from San Francisco Paul…..and my husband and I enjoy your channel! Your views of Thailand and its culture is very positive! Love your feedback on rent & food. We plan on moving to Thailand sometime next year and gosh, we wish we were your age😊 Thanks for posting this video 🙏🏼
Glad you enjoyed it!
I'm in SF and agree
Your video is on point 100%. We are two mid 50s couple who have been slow travelling SE Asia since Covid and LOVE Bangkok. I am in Koh Samui right now and will be back in Bangkok end of Jan. We want to move temp for a year to Bangkok.
These videos always talk about cost of living, but never talk about what they do for work. If you’re an entrepreneur, that’s the only way you can “live like a king” out there, because the average person will end up on the street
Then you should find a way to work remotely.
You simply answered your own question.
I really enjoyed your video and agree with everything you said when comparing "the West" - I'm from the UK and looking forward to living overseas in a calmer, warmer, cleaner, more affordable environment one day myself.
same
Im new to your Channel I found you from watching the interview with Forrest Lee good interview by the way.
Your pretty much spot on about the states, sad what its become.
I like what your saying about the culture in Thailand good vibs, ive never been but plan to visit.
Much enjoyed the video.
Paul, I love your views on things and your demeanour, like you, I also used to live in the US but now living in Asia and loving it.
Congrats Paul . U have found a great peaceful balance in a Easy Going country. Moreso with a balanced supportive partner. Keep it up and enjoy peacefully. All the best .
Condo living in Thailand is some of the best in the world!
i don't know why or how, but your video is so wholesome bro! You're gonna blow up for sure if you keep it up tbh
Air quality in Bangkok has been so brutal lately. I admire anyone that is willing to breathe that in for the rest of their life. I do love Thailand as well but could never live in Bangkok long term.
I like Pattaya and Hua Hin
Just returned from Thailand last week. The terrible air quality is the elephant in the living room. It sucked Loved Thailand. Clean air is not there.
@@robertprice836 go near water in Pattaya, Hua Hin.
lol. How true. Yes, Thailand is roughly 50% cheaper but he didn't say anything about wages. First, you can't work except for remote work and there is the timezone differences. I guess, if you are financially secured or have an online business then it's not a problem. Also, the food is cheaper because the quality is lower. Who wants to eat hot noodle soup in a plastic bowl? The leached chemicals can't be good for you. The cheapest ingredients are used like vegetable/seed oils.
I like that @@thealanshow25
To be more accurate, I’d say for a 1 bedroom condo to rent in BKK will be $800-$1000 a month. Of course a 34sq meter studio condo would be 509 baht. A lot of factors to consider when renting a place. Be sure it’s walking distance to the BTS and the complex doesn’t rent out to short term renters on holiday ( Airbnb) . And my grocery bill is half of what it would be in the States . I worked in Thailand for 15 years, now retired four years in a quiet province city which is a lot cheaper and peaceful than Bangkok.
Love this comparison video brotha! I’m from Southern California and everything you said was 100% accurate! You know I would love to see a comparison from Thailand and the Philipines from your experience. Not sure if you ever been to Philipines or if you’d ever go visit there but that would be an awesome video!
From what I heard and see, Philippines and Thailand are equally beautiful but Thailand is more peaceful with way less crimes. The advantage of Philippines are their friendly people and most speak English.
I've been to Thailand for the first time lately, I agree with everything you said about Thai culture and women. I'm from Australia and we are not as bad as the U.S but we are heading that Way in some aspects.
Nothing bad in the US except poor sections of cities and towns
@Tony-lm5zs you prob don't travel enough in the states then from what you're saying
I'm moving to Bangkok this fall and it feels unreal.
Been in Thailand 2 times before and goddamn I love love BKK, and I've been around southern and eastern Thailand.
Hey Paul, so inspiring watching your videos. Takes a lot of courage to pack up your stuff and leave the states to live overseas. One question. When you left USA and moved to Thailand, where did you stay before you found the condo that you wanted to live in? I’ve been seriously considering about moving to bkk ever since I’ve been binge watching your videos on yt. Thanks! 🎉
Me and most other expats here just rented on Airbnb in a few different places until eventually settling on a favorite neighborhood/condo
Your travel vlogs evoke a sense of nostalgia for places I've never been.
Thank you man! Means a lot
That's because no matter how American accent you are carrying, you will still be considered an outsider in the US. In Thailand you blend in as asian man. A sense of where you belong and safty.
This is absolutely true. I'm half Asian with a perfect Nebraskan accent. I've never been accepted in the US. Anywhere in SE Asia, I'm cool.
You’re absolutely right , oriental people in the USA gets bullied more than other races that is why he moved to Thailand because he’s asian and blend into Thais easily.🤣
🤣That's not how America is like at all. Asians are the best educated, highest paid and least discriminated race in the US. For example 2nd generation Asian Americans typically live anywhere they want - even the most elitist WASP neighborhoods have Asian Americans living there whereas other minorities are kept out. None of my American friends I grew up with would ever treat me as an "outsider". You would only really be treated that way if you have a heavy foreign accent. What you describe is more the experience of an Asian person who was raised in Asia but moved to the US as an adult, not an Asian American born and raised in America. Also, being Asian looking meaning nothing in Asia once you open your mouth and speak with an American accent - automatically you will be rejected as a local.
Can totally agree. Had the same feeling. Me and the misses sold our house, left our jobs and moved to Asia. Just traveling for now but first 2 months were in Thailand. Life is so much better out here. It completely changed me. I was always agitated and cranky back in Western Europe. My eyes opened. We weren't sure if we would stay long term. But after 2 months we made the descision to start working online and generate income and just stay here.
Ah I miss having a pug dog. Agree with you about the motorbike point on being pretty dangerous, I've personally seen a lot of motorbike accidents here in bkk and I never use them anymore, not worth it
Hi Paul,
Just found your channel, thinking of moving over mid-next year. Definitely going to check out more of your content !
as a 28 y.o ABC from NYC i lived there for 1.5yrs i absolutely love bangkok.
I also lived in seoul for 1.5 yrs. shanghai for 1
Cities in asia are built different
There is no comparison 😂
What did u prefer, bangkok or seoul? Because bangkok is a lot cheaper but the girls are so hot in seoul lol
@@skillfuldabest honestly prefered seoul, korea does get kinda cold in the weather and visa is much stricter though
You spoke very well Paul and its nice to see true values being respected and cherished. Nothing wrong with that. Well done and enjoy your life.
Many of us who live in the west (Canada & USA) we dream of moving abroad, away from all the BS, high cost of living, crime, mass shooting etc
Great job! You articulated the differences between the US and Thailand so well. I trained with the Thai military in Cobra Gold '95. Bangkok just amazed me back then. When I tell people that I plan to retire overseas they just look at me so strangely. Most of them have never left their hometowns.
I would choose Thailand over the United States on any day. All I need do is learn Thai for a deeper interaction with the people.
Next life ,you will be born here Thailand
Thai is one of the most difficult languages you will ever try to learn. I think Chinese would be easier.
@@Big_E_247 No meter how difficult the Thai language is to learn, I will learn it. I love the Thai people that much.
Hi Paul, im from the UK. Back in Feb 2022, i visited Thailand for the first time and it changed my life .
I'm retired and living full time with my Thai girlfriend.
As i said I'm from the UK and its very expensive to live there everything is going through the roof.
While in Thailand its very cheap to live.I planned everything before coming over and sticking to my plan so i can enjoy my life over here.
Thailand is a full package apart from the weather 😊😅😂😂😂😮😮⁹
Your video quality getting better by the week!
Thanks for noticing my efforts!
I also moved from USA to Thailand. Started off in Queens, NYC. Ended up in Chiang Mai.
I agree with everything that you say. I live in La and love the weather with no humidity and hate the rest . I think that’s probably why I couldn’t live in Thailand . Parts of San Diego are safe , friendly, and clean but yes very expensive. Luckily I have rental properties but trust me Thailand is appealing. Enjoy btw It is humid there right ?
Hah yes. It's humid AF. Its like a sauna.
@@Big_E_247 Wow. It says February and November are less humid . Maybe one day I’ll try those months i was going down to playa del Carmen in Mexico every winter , even rented a yearly studio that just sat 8 months of the year but last season it was unbearable and I stopped going . I think it’s getting more humid all over . Anyway I enjoy your videos . Thanks
Great information. And you are so right about the divisiveness here in America.
Just found your channel. Great video! I've been to Bangkok and other places and Thailand and agree with everything in your video. One issue I run into - how do you stay long-term in Thailand with the recent visa run lockdowns since you're less than 50 yo? I want to retire early but I'm not old enough to qualify for their retirement visa, and I don't really want to be working teaching English (unless I can do it for 10 hours a week max).
I had the same question. Which visa does he have?
An English friend of mine used to travel to neighbouring countries like Laos, Cambodia, etc., every six months to get another six-month tourist visa stamped on his way back at the border. He did that for more than ten years.
I recently came back and I was only there for two weeks. I lost weight my skin cleared up. My joints weren’t hurting as much. I was able to get my teeth done as in deep cleaning x-rays, extensive cleanings, fillings and filings for less than 150 bucks. I was able to afford all the good foods and luxuries that I wouldn’t be able to really enjoy as much living in New York. I stamp everything he’s saying and I’m truly considering this in a few years from now.
This video was fine until the sexism
Paul - thanks for all of your very informative videos.
Paul, i agree 100% with your philosophy regarding men and women! The west is very toxic. I laugh at the cute facial expressions your girlfriend makes whenever you talk about her and Thai women 😂 The women and the low cost of luxury living are the two primary reasons I’ll be visiting Thailand next week.
Extending my passport for 10 years and I’m ready to go! Sold everything I own but my car, which will be sold when the passport comes back. Who knows maybe I’ll see you down there?
I’ve never seen a city in the States that even comes close to Bangkok.
I moved to work remotely out of Colombia and I felt the same way! Subscribed just because of how well you expressed everything my man. This makes me want to visit Thailand so bad!
Do you have passive income? How do you earn money in Thailand?
This is my first visit to this channel.
I really like the straightforward presentation.
I have been visiting Bangkok since before and after the pandemic.
18 months ago I met my Thai-Buddhist lady and for the first time in my adult life,
I feel really happy and at peace with myself and the world.
Buddhism philosophy has allowed me to be a better version of myself.
That’s not always the case with American Farang women.
It seems like in the USA, sex is part of American women’s reward-punishment syndrome.
I love Thailand and Thai people.
One thing I have learned about Thai women in general: if you take care of them, your Thai lady will take care of you.
I plan to retire this coming year in Bangkok and we are looking for a condo on Sukhumvit between terminal 21 and Soi 7.
We really like that type of condo which you and your lady share.
I was curious if any of the high rise condos include a health club and other amenities.
I plan to watch more of your videos in the future.
Thank you for the positive perspective of thailand 🙏🏽🇹🇭
You missed the boat bro, #1 reason to live there is the action.
Finally I'm in Bangkok. I arrived yesterday... Thanks to your videos it helped me a lot... I'm korean american too... Hope to see you in person... cheers
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I live in NY City and have been to Thailand many times. I visit Thailand twice a year and stay as long as my visa will allow each time. I couldn’t agree with you more about Thailand. NYC and the U.S. has become a nightmare. Everyday I’m trying to think of ways to get out and move to Thailand. Everything you mentioned in this video about NY is true, the costs, the competitively mean people, the street crime, the taxes and government - for a start - it is a horrible place to live. Don’t get me wrong, there was I time when I wished I had five lives to do all the great things I wanted to do in NY, but no more.
There’s a saying I’ve heard awhile ago and the longer I live, the more true it is…
_“In Thailand you are free, except to criticize the king; in America, you can criticize the president all you want, but you are not free to do anything else.”_
By now I know both places enough to know how true this has become. Americans don’t know it yet, but they are the frog in the boiling water. They proclaim their “freedom” left, right, & center, but they are not free.
I love Thailand. I love the kind people, I love the great food, I love the arts & culture, I love the morality, and I love the aesthetic. I only hope to someday let the wonderful Thai people know how lucky they really are.
In 2 years you will make a video titled why I left Thailand !!!!!😂😂😂 Hopefully it wont be clickbait .
95 F in December in Bangkok is a no go for me for not only Bangkok but most of southeast Asia--I like four distinct seasons although by late Winter and late Summer, I can't wait to jump into Spring and Fall. But to each their own. About women... I earn enough in America for my wife to sit home and cook, clean, laundry etc. It is not huge chores. In return, I take care of the often very tiring yard work and earn enough for us to live a comfortable middle-class life. There is less tension in the house now that she stopped working almost two years ago--she was always tired. She is very glad to be a house-wife and, while if she goes back to work it would be fine if she chooses to, it is fine right now as long as this arrangement goes on. When we go out and other women ask and she tells her situation they envy her. A woman and a man in their natural or preferred setting. Nothing wrong with that.
All big American cities are undesireable places to live. Most Americans have a better quality of life in suburbs.
yep, didn't used to be that way....and doesn't have to be......but it is what it is
I get by on around 200 or less in Sukhothai with my Thai wife.
I love Thailand it's a wonderful place.
It's kind of a pity that TH-camrs - and I've watched dozens of videos broadly identical to this one - seem unable to embrace the place they're now living without shitting all over where they are from.
There are approximately 300,000 Thai nationals who have chosen to make the United States home and raise their families there. Perhaps they didn't get the memo on all the reasons Thailand is utopia and "The West" 🙄 sucks balls, perhaps they're all mentally ill or maybe, just maybe, there's a bit more nuance to this than you'll typically find in these sorts of videos.
I'm from Scotland but have chosen to make Asia my home for the past 20 years. Specifically Hong Kong and actually much as I love visiting Thailand I'm glad I chose to make a life here not there. But anyway I digress, the point I'd make is that I am happy I chose to make life here but I don't hate Scotland or think it is a bad place to live. I still love where I'm originally from and my brother has never left Edinburgh and has made a fantastic life for himself there
Maybe America is a uniquely terrible place ( although net migration figures don't seem to bare that out ) or maybe people perhaps have an overly negative view of it and perhaps an overly romanticised view of Thailand, especially if they've only recently moved there. Especially those who don't speak the language.
I mean at least one thing I feel you could say in favour of America, although I guess you won't, is that you can make a video about how much America sucks and title it "why you'll never go back" and obviously there's zero issue there should you there change your mind.
Make a viral video about all the reasons Thailand sucks and why you'd never go back, if that was to get picked up and amplified by local media then it's probably best you don't🙄😬.
I think you’re being to critical, this is TH-cam and more importantly just my opinion. Of course I won’t talk for others (especially Thai people). And For sure I am biased and critical of USA and overly romantical of Thailand. Perhaps I can make some more nuanced videos about Thailand vs USA (like pros and cons).
@@iPaulLeeMaybe I am being too critical, but if you look at the other comments they are overwhelming positive/ agreeing with every word you said, so hopefully there's still room for someone who maybe doesn't in terms of this particular video at least.
However I've subscribed so obviously there's other content you've put out I've enjoyed, for example I thought your interview with Chinni was really good as you asked frankly a lot of blunt questions that others would probably dance around and I found the answers really refreshing in being equally direct and honest.
And anyway it's not so much that I didn't enjoy this video as much as I have a different perspective maybe.
I'm quite a lot lot older than you ( I'm 51) and actually in addition to my 20 plus years in HK ( it's 22 actually this year) I was seconded with my first company ( I started my own company after that ) to both mainland China ( Shanghai) and Bangkok in the early 2000's. 18 months in China and almost 3 years in Thailand.
I loved both but Thailand was my favourite. But then I lived in a complete expat bubble at the time, I was 29, single and being paid in HKD ( so USD effectively given the peg) had a 2500 sq foot apartment to myself, a live in maid, club memberships and for a while I even had a friggin driver. So it wasn't real life and of course I had a completely hedonistic lifestyle when I wasn't working. If I tried that now I'd be dead in a month I think😂.
I retired in Hong Kong last year at 50. Apparently you're not supposed to do that, certainly not here, and other friends of mine who retired after decades in HK have moved to Thailand or Malaysia mostly.
Something I might do too, or we might stay here forever ( my missus is Canadian Chinese but HK born) . Anyway she's a lot younger than me and still working in IB so not in the near future.
Ok I've just told you my life story which you didn't ask for sorry 😂
America made you. Stop bad mouthing your country. Same thing for Forrest.
You'll find out later.
Thanks for sharing haha
He clearly stated that he was comparing New York City to Bangkok at the beginning of the video. Both are very large modern cities with around 10 million residents. I can't really imagine a much better comparison to make. From my limited experience with New York City, I can see the benefits he is describing in his video to a person who desires this type of big metropolitan lifestyle. If there is anything to criticize, perhaps it would be the title of the video. I have no idea how you think he is actually comparing "America" and "Thailand" if you watched the video.
I've lived in three American states, and having been to three areas in Thailand, including Bangkok, I agree 100% with everything you said. ESPECIALLY about the food and the women, both of which are the best in the world. ❤
stop making videos like this! you are going to attract too many outsiders and raise the cost of living for those that already made this move!!!
Love your style...Direct yet accepting of others. I'm glad to see you found some happiness and it seems other folks commenting did too. BTW, you rocking the Thai language bro. You know you doing ok when the Thai aunties don't break into English to help you out
Thailand is old news , and has been since before covid. Everything is dazzling when you're brand new , but living there long term is NOT the best investment for many reasons that you'll have to find out on your own . The most important thing to acknowledge is, that no matter who you are or how much money you spend, Thais would rather you NOT emigrate there . Thailand is ultra nationalistic and their laws cement that fact . You will hear many "opinions" from expats that live in denial for their own selfish reasons.
So where do you think is the best investment long term?
Thailand isn't for everyone. Life is short, so go where you are wanted.
@iPaulLee Vietnam 🇻🇳 motivated, educated etc.
Bottom line, Thailand is still a military dictatorship rife with corruption. Their government also changes their immigration/visa rules multiple times every year.
Pretty cool hearing you use Thai when ordering food. Too many guys move there and dont make the effort to learn the language or culture.
Nobody is willing to admit it, but the reason why there's significantly less crime in Asia compared to the USA is because there are fewer black people.
All the crimes you're referencing; the shoplifting, the pushing of elders into train tracks, the violent protests. We all see the videos. We're not blind.
Also, malls are still huge in Asia for the same reason, as well as the absence of a cutthroat landlord class jacking up the rents. In the Divided States, malls got mauled to death.
Everyone will ADMIT it, but not OPENLY. This guy is not gonna OPENLY say that cause he's smart.
So nice❤l love thailand...a beautiful country with the best people
Thanks!
I love your videos. I’m thinking of retiring in Thailand. I fell in love with Bangkok on my visit.
Don’t worry guys, you’ll be back after 5/6 years or even sooner. I have met many of you like that in Thailand, Philippines and many other countries. Good luck.
We built a pretty big house in the Phils. and I can live like a queen there with my pensions b/c I worked here for 30 years in the gov't. but I will not go back to live there. Three things I don't like, hot weather, healthcare and inconveniences. The one I like is Japan b/c they have a similar weather like here in Northeast.
ive been here 11 years. British born and raised. I live in the rice field areas, about 2 hours out of Bangkok. its even cheaper here mate.
Good video thank you for being upfront and give your honest simple opinion.
Great video I love your channel,every time I watch I want to move to Thailand 👍🏿
Make sure you visit a few times before moving there!
"Everything is much more affordable" is the theme of the video but it simply isn't true. If you have children, take a look at anything child related, including education, toys etc. If you want to buy electronics or cars the prices are higher. Depending on your lifestyle, the price per square foot that you pay for a home in Thailand is higher than a lot of communities in the US. People making Japan/Thailand content tend to be OK with
7:10 I agree 💯 with you. LIfe is already too complicated and I don't want anymore trouble.
Thailand is one in the top list of the countries I wanna visit! Now i feel like I have to visit Thailand soon! 🥰
Excellent the apartments and street food, I was shocked when you started talking their language when buying the soup!! 😵
Taking my early retirement at 62 and plan to live in Thailand. I can't afford Hawaii anymore and you are so right about the USA right now...Hopefully, me and hubby, can relax and enjoy our next chapter.
new subscriber here. we were in Thailand in December and we loved it. will go back for sure and in the future want to live there in the winter. now we live in America things are bad at the moment
Just depends on how you're getting your income. If you have to work there for income, I'm sure the cost of living is tough also.
4:05 get the blue water that under urs that says "ph" not the purple top... the blue top
I am Thai. Born there but grew up abroad, mainly the US. Moved back for a few years in my teens and hated how backward Thailand was, pre-internet, BTS, metro, Netflix, etc. Poverty and run down dusty streets…hated living there. Moved away and now visit as a tourist and LOVE the new Thailand. Everything is way cheaper and more delicious than the US. But the infrastructure and orderliness is different. In leaving the US, the cons would be the extreme heat, humidity, pollution, noise, congestion, traffic chaos, litter, disorder…but the pros are also plenty. Laid back, friendlier people (in general), low cost of living for luxury standards, great food, beautiful beaches and tourist destinations, modern rail and subways, no need to fear being knifed or pushed in front of trains, no racism (but there is colorism amongst Thais themselves), Thai style Karens are different than in the US, way way fewer carjackings and shoplifting…the list is long for both pros and cons. However, without enough money, even this cheap luxury lifestyle is not doable. Minimum $2k a month will let you live quite well even in Bangkok. It depends on what I want to give up to move there and retire. The whole month I was there, I sweat my way thru Thailand running for the nearest AC room and braved the heat to enjoy the beautiful tourist sites. Could I handle it every day for the pros? Who knows until I actually do it. Many Thai friends want out and many expat Farangs want in.
Love this great work!! Inspiring I’m a have to re do mine now properly - why I left the UK!!
Was in Bangkok for a week (first time) in Nov. 2023. In fascinatingly odd ways (for an NYC-native!), it felt like 'home'. Safe, lovely, nice attitude. However, I wonder about Bangkok sinking/flooding, and art/music/alt-culture (as a musician/artist). Next time I will focus on that 'more' and try to connect with the artist community. ps - The MOCA (IMO) was FANTASTIC!!! Definitely worth checking out. 🙂