If I had a dollar for every time I’ve been called arrogant, I’d have enough money to think about a whole bunch of business ideas but never execute on them 😂
Oh admit it, you never actually need those dollars to think of those business ideas. Chances are, they're also partly a reason to your arrogance cause you subconsciously know your brilliant mind is rife with untapped business ideas already. Nope, you won't have a hard time thinking them just as you don't have a hard time breathing but executing them is another matter entirely, dollar or no 😉
It's not arrogance when you're right and you acknowledge it. I tell my INTP when he's right and when he's not because he deserves to be recognized. Well, I will tell him when he's wrong if it ever happens 😂 -INFJ (hopelessly devoted to my XNTP's.
When I was a kid, people used to ask me random questions out of curiosity (mostly about scientific phenomenon). I would say something like, "I don't know, but I would guess..." and explain my hypothesis. But I started noticing that no matter how carefully I prefaced my conjecture, people acted as if my answer were gospel truth. I suddenly realized that people would believe almost anything I said without verifying or even doubting. And all of a sudden I felt an *immense* burden on my shoulders... to make sure everything I said was as accurate as possible because no one else was going to do the research to double-check my answer. If you go into any kind of medical field, you will literally have lives in your hands depending on your knowledge. That power you have becomes greater, and thus so too does the responsibility you have to wield your word wisely. I often try to instill this sense of responsibility for accuracy in others, but I'm usually met with defensiveness and resistance and accusations that I'm being too strictly principled and insistence that most conversations are "not a big deal." They say "you know what I mean!" to which I say, "Say what you mean (and mean what you say)" -- otherwise your word means nothing and without that, you have nothing. It's hard for me to imagine being any other way. The rare moments where I've repeated something matter-of-factly and been proven wrong, I was horribly embarrassed. I actually legitimately have a hard time believing the inaccuracy problem persists into adulthood for most INTPs, but perhaps it depends on how small (and thick) your "bubble" is. ❇️
Omg the first week of third grade the teacher used to ask the class multiple choice questions and you would raise your hand when she said the option that you thought was correct. Once the other students realized I was “the smart one” a lot of them would wait to see when I raised my hand before raising theirs. I remember how much more pressure that put on me to be right and it kept me from just guessing. Then one day when I answered incorrectly, it caused us all to get it wrong... it was so painful 😣 But there was one student that rose his hand against my answer... I gained so much respect for him but also he became my instant nemesis 🤣
It took me some time, (quite some time), to realise that people often WERE following the advice I gave because, in some cases, to me, their actions did not look like they were following my advice - either they had interpreted what I said in a way I had not foreseen was possible or, at times, I had just missed that this is what they were doing. What you said about research is true though, (as I have found myself(, because, even when prefaced with something like, "I am no expert, but it looks to me like... ," many people still have a greater tendency to take the information blindly and run with it. And the consequences are potentially... well, terrible.
I got bored not being mentally stimulated so I'd just make stuff up to see what people would believe I got pretty good at lying lol but really the only time I fact check is when I'm interested in a story and I'm fact checking that's how I learned about the Milwaukee protocol
That sucks. I was extremely dishonest up till a few years ago. Now I'm ruthlessly honest and get super pissed when I see dishonesty in others, and don't care how important they are or how much influence they have, I can have a fit if someone is constantly lying to me, especially if it's them trying to manipulate me. As an infp, if someone tries manipulating me with Fi or Fe hero, good f***ing luck. I will rip their mask off in front of everyone.
Genuinely, thank you. All this time I've been stuck in this loop of thinking I'm unintelligent and then being bitter for being taken advantage of by other people. This has given me the confidence and motivation to research everything even more than I already did and not openly reject other people's perspectives or opinions in subtle arrogance. What a change in thought! This was truly invaluable advice.
INTP here. This spoke to me very deeply. You are doing a huge service for everyone on here. I’m proof. Thank you so much. It’s time for me to get back out there. The world needs me.
"Insanely stupid kind of binging that INTPs end up doing" Oops. That's what I'm doing right now. I better get back to studying for my two math tests tomorrow . . .
As an INTP who went to university and graduated with a degree in electrical engineering, I don't think it is a good idea to encourage INTPs to not attend college. While there may be things wrong with American college, it is one of the few things I can point to and unequivocally say that it has helped define my success in life. I have a strong career, I was able to attract an amazing ENTJ fiancé, and I was able to get over many of my bad habits including perpetual laziness and lack of social interactions. Telling all the INTPs watching this video to not worry about going to university may just be giving them one more excuse to not better their lives. And INTPs do not need more excuses to be lazy, we are plenty good at that on our own. The reality is that for the best jobs and most successful careers in America, you need to have a college degree. Yes, there are plenty of good jobs you could list that you don't need a degree. And of course there are exceptions like Mark Zuckerberg who did not even graduate. But if I did not go to college, I would probably still be at home wasting away in my parents basement playing video games all day. I was not about to invent the next Facebook. So please rethink this approach you take with other INTPs. College may not be for everyone, but for many it is life defining.
@@malindaeckert2300 I was fortunate enough to have had supportive parent's who sent me to a private high school with an engineering program. Through this, I was exposed to Electrical Engineering. There was nothing else in life I really wanted to be and the financial stability of an engineering degree really attracted me to the field. I ended up tinkering with and really enjoying electronics and computers going through the program. And when a university came to my high school and highlighted their highly paid internship programs (with major companies) as a way to help pay for college, it sealed the deal. I owe a lot to the hand I was dealt in life. I feel lucky to have had that early opportunity or else I have no idea where I would be today.
I don't understand his logic there either. Most of the people I know who didn't go to college are scraping by, mainly because they're relying on temp services for work. College should be encouraged, as long as the student knows to stay away from a degree in liberal arts.
Although what you said is entirely right, i'm not sure if this only applies to me however, when I hear Chase talk on this I didn't think i'm being told to not go to College or University but rather to embrace your ability to learn whatever you want on your own because as an INTP you have the natural tools to do so. An example could be an Electrical Engineer by career which you went to school for but a backyard mechanic by way of youtube video's and other research. This ability is then enhanced when helping somebody else such as helping a friend develop an APP when you initially had no idea how, you would figure it out. Or becoming a Dietitian by way of helping somebody with a smaller type health issue. By helping you also gain focus, self confidence, and more knowledge and to some other comments on here, this is a bit of its own reward when not receiving as much recognition as you'd like.
@@forkymental5154 I didn’t understand either. The thing is you Don't have to take every word from him as the universal truth. Everyone has differenf situation. Its better to understand your own situation and come up to the right solution of your particular problem. But, i would suggest INTP's to learn alone and go to University to earn a degree but not to learn. You should go to University for degree but to learn you should self study and relay on your own intelligence.
Late 20's INTP man here, thank you. The term "covert contract" describes the attitude I have sometimes encountered with Chinese culture, in which reciprocity for any help is assumed, and not to reciprocate is to damage your reputation. If you aren't prepared to reciprocate, you have to forcefully prevent the other person from giving you the help they are offering, leading to the ubiquitous struggles over who pays the bill at restaurants.
What I love about Chases videos is that you can learn about your own type in almost all of his videos even if he doesn’t necessarily zoom-in into your own type! It’s incredibly interesting, especially the cog. transition series. It’s all so connected, and truly enjoyable to learn about. Keep it up! -an entj
After seeing the difference between an INTJ and an INTP it's clear that I'm an INTP. I will say that I think my fashion style is pretty fantastic. I feel I've always had a good fashion style thanks to my mother. Over the years I've really evolved it into my own.
It is interesting the type of martyrs that ENTPs and INTPs are in stories and also fairly common in real-life INTPs tend to be white martyrs and ENTPs tend to be red martyrs or in other words INTPs bear life (suffering) and ENTPs bear death.
The INTP's being guilted is so true. My last ex actually bullied and guilted me a couple times into having sex when I wasn't in the mood/dead tired from work. Me, a 5'11" 170lb man, being bullied by a tiny 5 foot 95lb lil asian woman 😂. The relationship lasted like 6 months and I was miserable! I was so dedicated to a lil monster lol
I appreciated all the advice but I did not hear a lot about cognitive transitions. In a lot of the earlier episodes regarding the cognitive transitions I was so interested in how the types transitioned to the 4 sides of their minds. The ENTJ episode was great, the INFJ episode was great and I literally did watch every single one up unto this point which made me very excited for months on end to hear this lecture but when I heard this I had to listen to it twice just to make sure I was properly focused and still came to the same conclusion. So I am going to overcome my Fe inferior and say I was disappointed. Not because the advice wasn't good but because it didn't seem like it was about the cognitive transitions. Don't get me wrong I love CS Joseph's content and I will even go so far to say I like this video because there is a lot of truth in it. I can resonate with a lot of this stuff and one big thing I took away was that I need to ask for things in return so as not to be manipulated but this wasn't what I expected.
C.S. Joseph appreciate the free content with very valuable info but there was barely anything on ENTJ side nothing new heard on ESFJ side not much mentioned on ISFP side relative to earlier lectures in the season talking about the 4 sides the info we’re looking for is what are the cognitive transitions of INTPs that should be in the video called “what are cognitive transitions for INTPs” not some other season.
I really resonate with this comment because I watched this video hoping to understand how an INTP can use their subconscious the ESFJ and their unconscious ENTJ...
To INTP’s, reading books by Nassim Taleb will help. Books such as The Black Swan (talks about the problem of induction, will improve your Ne) and Antifragile (talks about how failure/stress is helpful in a person since we are organic, non-static beings; will improve Si child, will help you take courage but explains (gives you reasons) in a very INTP fashion). These are books under the category of Philosophy, Business, and Economics. As an INTP, I am lucky to have read these in my early 20’s as it greatly improves one’s maturity. Thanks Chase.
As an INTP, this is why I love helping people - you get to learn more while helping them (thus creating interest), and everyone feels better for that Fe satisfaction. Better for society as a whole if our mission is to help people do things that we are good at!
Ding ding ding. As an intp, I just recently figured this out. Being smart is good, being smart and using it to help/serve others, is far more rewarding.
I am a grown man and almost cried listening to this. You gave me words to describe my problems. I feel "comfortable" watching life pass me by because I don't feel respected by anyone including myself. But you gave me hope for the future. I want to be in a leader or advisor role and support other people. About covert contracts: My previous relationship (with an INFP) was a complete lie. She had been evicted and I let her stay at my place. She confessed her love to me and I pretended to love her back, because I couldn't bear to tell her the truth, plus she was suicidal so I pitied her. I was passive-aggressive throughout the "relationship" and it was horrible for us both. About manipulation: Yes, we can be easily guilted, but we are also good at turning the submissive role into martyrdom and make others feel guilty in return. Letting someone disrespect us just to gain ammunition to hit them back later. It's shitty, but it comes from feeling too guilty to set boundaries. About feeling dumb: Never trust an INTP who says they feel dumb, run away. It's concealed arrogance. "We both know I am smarter than you, so if I don't live up to my standards, then you certainly don't". About hero myths: Analyzing my childhood fantasies, they looked like action movies, but I imagined a supporting role for myself. Not the hero with the sword, but the "elder" who gives the sword to the hero. About Malthusianism: I went through this phase at age 12, I felt the world was overburdened by people who didn't understand or appreciate me. About healthy Fe: I feel the most happy when I play with children, or lead social activities at work, etc. I turn into an ESFJ but less rigid.
Chase, without the incredible amount of work and heart you put into what you do, I would not have the vocabulary nor the opportunities to engage with anyone on these topics, and I need that very much. Thank you. Best wishes.
I've watched every single cognitive transitions video. Granted I only got the motivation to do it when I suspected people I've met are that type and I got curious about them.
Hey, 17year-old female INTP here, I have a question for you Joseph. You say we should state our expectations on getting recognition for the help we provide. Personally, I don't always ask for something in return when I help someone, but I have realized I do become bitter (especially to members of my family) when I realize I haven't or aren't getting the respect and love I need, when my advice hit a wall and I eventually feel like talking to them is just a waste of time since my thoughts don't matter anyways. How can you ask someone to respect you without sounding like you see yourself as superior? Isn't the fact that you are asking in the first place a proof that you are not humble? Also I really enjoy and wish I could help people in a daily basis (that's one of the reasons I want to study psychology) but in the environment I am currently in, I am quite isolated. The only people I could try and help are my own parents but my fear of the intense emotions that will come with doing such a thing keeps me completely paralyzed. And so I am stuck in my own little world, my comfort zone. Sorry for the long comment, you might not even be able to answer my rambling, but I'll just finish saying that I came to your channel to finally try and learn how people work and I think your lectures (even while you sometimes go off topic) have really helped me have a better understanding both of myself and other types. Thank you for the effort you put into your work, really. Last thing, I would really love to watch a video on the stages that INTPs go though to get from immaturity to maturity, I believe I am still quite an immature INTP I would love to learn what my potential could be and how I actually can get there.
Hey, almost 36 yr old INTP here. So I'd like to give some insight from what I have seen, hope that is okay. I don't think that advice per se to family and or friends should have any reward, ever. I mean, those are just thoughts. Everybody has thoughts and advice (other types even more I'd say, you know the more chatty ones by default). Now if you are being disconsidered always for the advice you are giving, but you see that others' is not reaching deaf ears then I would say to step up and yes state how you feel and how that response makes you feel and all. If you do that, you might discover some reasons that you could not think of. But if you don't do that then 100% you will regret it but will be too caught in the apathetic circle to come back out. Now, let me tell you what I did in high school. Besides my Ti hero existant by that time I had gone through severe trauma as well in earlier years so I was a cuckoo (I might still be). So perfect recipe of outsider, outcast, weirdo, not seen, wanting people around but just lacking skills on how to do it, paired with severe social anxiety. So what I did was once not being true to myself and wearing all sticky too bright colours belly out clothes plus heavy makeup every day(it was the early 2000s lol) and second since in 9th grade I came out 1st in thr English championship (I lived in Romania) 90% of the class asked me to revise and correct their English homeworks. We werr an English bilingual class, so we had English every day, a very good but extremely tough teacher so there you go. And I did that all the time in all the breaks in high school. I did not eat, hardly went out to the yard. And why? To be seen. To fit in somehow. To make them see that hello I am here too. You invite for a walk/bday party/etx the person next to you (who is even not doind anything for you, talks about you behind your back etc) but you don't invite me, ever. So yea that is what happened, my classmates making plans all the time just a few centimeters away from me, while me correcting their homeworks and never ever included me, they even forgot to greet me in the hallways. I was ashamed to say hello I am here. Also that hello I like doing this for you guys but I'd like some giving back at times. Basic stuff like you include me from time to time. Me not stating what I need in exchange for my services was a big mistake. Of course then I knew nothing and was afraid of breathing even so yea. But that unfortunately shaped me in a way that I know that could have been you know..other..more optimized from a social perspective. Also stop saying you dont need people in case you say it, even mentally. Yes all INTPs reading this please stop saying that. You know that is a big lie, maybe the biggest one you have been telling yourself. You need people like air. You need them to be needed, to give but to feel needed for that. I have been lying to myself most of my life and it is not cool. Time passes, the skills go undeveloped, I hardly have any idea how to make it happen now and not totally freak out in the process. Now where advice should come for a price: in professional services or where you are going in way deeper and need to find a solution that is custom made for example. The latter in the family/friends world.
@@lexyh-p8r thank you for sharing. I went through a similar phase of feeling completely outcasted and unseen in pre high school and ended up slowly dropping most of my friends because I felt I wasn't heard in the situation. I did manage to finally get over that super difficult phase all on my own, but as you said, since we do really need people it did take much more time than it should had ever taken. When I wrote that question yesterday to tell you the truth I was rambling a but cause I hadn't realized what is the core problem for me rn. But a few hours ago I just had an epiphany about the whole family thing, so I'm quite positive that during my next talk with my psychologist I'm going to do the most progress I've ever made in understanding what is happening. Thank you for opening your heart and sharing your experience, it's really heartwarming to see that there are people that have gone through similar situations and have managed to overcome them. I hope you have a nice day!
The real reason why INTPs talk about overpopulation is because it makes them feel altruistic for not wanting kids or not being ready to take on the responsibility of bringing a new life into the world. 😅
An INTP who is like myself aware of a single contradictary fact wouldn't be talking about that though. From a transhumanist standpoint we have no idea how much technology will accelarate in 40 or 50 years so it's too early to tell if overpopulation would even be a problem.
Heather Bryant, I disagree - it's cute reasoning, but I still disagree. The reason why people, (INTPs included), talk about overpopulation of the world is because it is a logical extension of the fact that there are limited resources, there is limited suitable space to live in and because the environment that we presently rely upon for food, water and breathable air, (amongst other things), is in an equilibrium that allows the population to obtain these necessities relatively freely. It is perceivable that if the population continues to increase, (which it will unless something changes), that at some point there will no longer be an equilibrium which is likely to be catastrophic for any population still reliant upon the environment for these resources. At which point a lot of the life on the planet will die. It is also perceivable that the human race will discover a method of circumventing such an outcome. However, in the past, (as far as we know), this has not happened on this planet and presently we are more reliant on our environment than most people appear to want to think about. It is also perceivable that despite environmental disaster that some percentage of the population will survive, (this has happened in the past), and the human race will be set to start again, 'wondering like children,' as Plato heard Socrates and his visitor discuss.
Ne & Si types usually get put in poor circumstances, which leads to poor epigenetics; to me at least that's a more important issue, I have other Ne & Si users tell me mistruths to have kids, and that is even worse in my humble Fi-child opinion.
Chase roasting INTPs. I'm like, "Should I be mad or anything? The man's roasting INTPs and here I am just nodding and thinking, am I really like that?" Edit. On the bitterness part... damn. Hit me so hard.
Yes. I've been destroyed by bitter abusive crusaders who were in turn abused by someone else. Please don't be that person who takes their pain out on innocent people who actually have good intentions. The pain you guys inflict is permanently destructive and not in a good way.
@@felixthecat2786 you do realize that you can be destroyed only if you let it? So unless you were a child you cannot say that someone else destroyed you. You standing on firm grounds is your responsibility. So please revisit that.
Alexandra Nánai-Hutton we can be really mean sometimes. I said things to others in the past that I regret. All because I was butthurt. INTPs usually know the pressure points of others, where it hurts most. The amount of damage I caused to that person was just too much and caused a trauma. Instead of accepting and letting go, I wanted revenge.
These cognitive transition videos are amazing. Like an open letter to all the 16 types. It would be interesting to see a “Cognitive Transitions Part 2” now that you have learned more about cognitive origin and temple wheels. Cheers!
Seriously you are amazingly informative and insightfully detailed! I’m going through one of my longest rock bottom I think in my life; your tough love and strait forward approach ignited a long overdue feeling of interest and drive. I’ve been lacking motivation, passion and been stuck in indifference for an eternity it feels 🙄 I am sure I’m speaking for many, you are so greatly appreciated and a priceless contribution to the collective!
I know i have complained a lot about you rambling or going off on tangets but now i want to thank you for it. They provide me with the essential time i need to process the useful information and helps me understand and remember better. your lecture help me become the person i should be. I will forever be grateful❤
INTP - I really like the lecture, especially the harsh truths! As well, I have noticed that when I do things for myself, I can get lost in details and tangled in the webs of my thoughts, but whenever I help others, I feel a lot better, understand things more clearly, and flourish in ways which were previously unimaginable to me. I have poured myself into people in the wrong way for a long time, and never learned about boundaries until the past few years. It's so shocking to see how different things can be when self-awareness dawns.
Honestly alot of this development you talk about is really helped by getting into customer based work and getting used to interacting with people they always say on different websites for intps not to get into this type of work but I did and it has helped me immensely social skills need to be developed for us introverted types.
The problem with helping people is that many people don't even want to be helped, so we are kind of confused in that way, cuz we don't know how to approach them. Or better to say, it's hard for us to recognize what is that that those peope need. I've been hurt many times by trying to help others in this way, so I just retreat
@@NamedMyTaco hahaha! That will be a little unusual for me being a chick but I'll like, bring a beer to pretend to drink and I dunno.. something heavy to lift while I watch 😅 oh man I crack myself up
@@MagikForTheMAsses Totally do that lol! Just feed into. Sit with your legs open, drink a beer, pump some iron and be awed by the Geopolitical consequences of some teens gaining their independence and fighting for the freedom of Mars!
I wish I knew these valuable information when I was a kid. Man, this video is like slapping my face at the same time from side to side!!😂 Thank you for pointing out these valuable information, now we can easily learn them through a systematic approach, if not which we'll have to learn through the hard way.
I'm watching this lecture because two of my closest friends are INTP's, as you've said on INFJ videos is that our purpose is to make others better than ourselves. so I'm at trying to create my NP wolf pack. Your videos are pretty much spot on when I run the findings by them and they inform me that I'm pretty much right. 😊👌
Thank you for another great lecture. I really appreciate your channel and what you're trying to accomplish. Almost every negative aspect you covered in this video I admit to having when I was a teen up to mid-20s - call it my 'lost decade'. The remedies you suggest make a great deal of sense. We're very prone to self-apathy (and self-loathing), and I've found developing boundaries with others, as you've detailed in the Fe part of this lecture, is a must. Turning immature Si comfort-addiction into commitment to self-discipline has also greatly helped me recently. I see you're focusing on the gateway functions for these lectures, although each function has potential to identify immaturities to be fixed. No More Mr Nice Guy by Robert Glover was a great read too - heard about it on one of your other lectures. Sound quality was good all the way through; nice shot of the waterfall too. :)
Finally. I tried to type someone,and I was really seeing the Ti but being a Te user the Ti appeared to me as hella irrational so I ended up trying to type him for like two years or so because I thought that Ti hero is in no way shape or form irrational.
@@ryanbrowne6651 definitely agree on the overthinking thing. Ti overthinking tends to move past the practicality-real world likelihood of something, and gets so glued to the "shoulds" of things, drives me nuts, because I'm over here Te-ing like, but its NOT that way, so.. forget about how it should be, because this is how it _IS_ ...lol
I have never understood how someone could not verify, if I don't know something with 100% it feels like my whole brain becomes jello and I need to fix that ASAP
I feel so called out by this video. But I need to hear this stuff. I'm an INTP who has been mistyping himself as an INTJ for years. I only recently had an aha moment where everything clicked in my mind that I'm an INTP. One thing I will say, is that every ITNP should become familiar with Jordan Peterson. Peterson is the figure that kicked my ass out of apathy mode and inspired me to take responsibility for my own goddamn life. Peterson is the savior of the broken the beaten and the damned (Props if you get both references). In the past 4 years I have done more with my life than the previous 28 combined, I was so limited by my own echo chamber of self-perception. Once an INTP gets that kick in the ass, we become a force of nature.
Wow you were on point with this one. I got to the point of being so afraid of being called out by people saying that I was actually dumb and just acting intelligent that I started speaking and acting like someone who doesn't put thought into their words/actions. I literally became afraid of intelligence itself yet I sought it out in ppl. Brb gotta work on that now lol
I don't limit videos to my type. I'm an INTP, but as I meet other types I have a framework to hang these concepts on. I have a great female friend that's an ESFJ, an ex-wife that's ISFJ, an ISFP gf, an INFP coworker and INFP and INFJ barista friends that discuss MBTI with me weekly. Knowing yourself is only half the battle in communication.
That belief in what others say about us, in my experience, comes from us valuing what others believe in. I've been in that loop for most of my life--dispossesed. But then I've also been on the opposite end of the spectrum where I see everyone else as stupid.
Man, I was about to comment on the invalidity on the ENTJ and how theyre like the rapiest of all the types, until I remembered one of my ENTJ friends saw a girl, listened to her convo, deduced she was in a dance club, and found her dance club and her @ in about 5-10 minutes! That was the weirdest thing I've ever experienced in my life (of course, he had no ill intentions). Crazy shit happens with ENTJs, I tell ya.
To contradict you on 3:10 I am here an ENFJ, learning about INTP and perhaps other types next after I absorb enough information that I can use in real life. It's been very helpful so thank you so much!
This was like, the most personally attacking/offensive thing I’ve ever watched but absolutely 100% true god damn lol. Probably the most important advice I’ve ever gotten from a TH-cam video
I appreciate you calling me out. Truth hurts, but a bunch in here I needed to hear. I only realized I was smart in this last year, just always thought everyone around me was a dumbass. I found that JKD lacked an emphasis on footwork, and was one of the few styles that worked better for smaller and quicker people. I have trained to fight for over 30 years, and one of the biggest things I have seen is that the style and school only go so far. The real success is from the individual, not the style. I know you read these periodically, check out the channel Hard 2 Hurt, Mike is on point and then some
I'm wondering if a person can change his/her personality type over the years or you'll stay the same for the rest of your life? I hear so many people say they change bc of nature/nurture and some say you dont, you're probably just mistyped?
Hi sorry I’m late! No your type never changes your maturity and how you access the other 3 sides of your mind does change and therefore how your type behaves and comes across
Te users come to the wrong conclusions because their Ti is weak. But what's the point of strong Ti if your input of Te is terrible? I see this in INFJs all the time. High Ti and shitty conclusions due to lack of Te. Garbage in garbage out. Te users can atleast detect high Ti users and use their logic for verification. It's hard to say who is actually more ignorant Te or Ti, but Ti is by far more arrogant. That's why I often say to my ESTP brother that he is the dumbest smart person I know.
It is amongst one of my greatest honors to be burned by this video. Great stuff, I've been waiting for this video for months. People have always gotten strangely mad at me for helping my husband achieve his dreams instead of being a #independantwomanwhodontneednoman, so I'm glad to know that this is actually a good thing for me (as long as I'm not getting screwed over of course).
Yes.I personally think that usain bolt is an intp, although I might be wrong.I have an intp acquaintance with the black belt and also an intp friend extremely good at volleyball.
I've done mixed martial arts for years and found that my Ti can understand the theory quite fast, and also my Ne can be creative with what I decide to do. And as you say, we can be quite resilient with our Si
Why not? My best friend is an ENTP, he's a personal trainer, martial artist and is generally involved and skilled in that area. I've trained with him, and I can learn it fast (i'm an INTP). The only problem is I get bored when there's nothing to improve that I find interesting. so I liked very specific things about physical activities -- those that have endless potential, and I have a feeling that I can always improve them. The problem starts when I see it as repetitive boring crap. I guess I should also mention I know one INTP personal trainer. So I think the only problem is interest, if you can find a specific physical activity interesting, then there's nothing there to stop you except other nonMBTI specific barriers.
I think if the INTP learns to transition upon demand. INTPs place thought before movement in their natural state, which makes every move deliberate, and thus delayed compared to those who move on instinct, in order for an INTP to reach this level of instinctual reaction speed the INTP would need to transition over to ESFJ for movement or ENTJ for a much better Se. INTPs are great Martial Artists in our head.
Similarly, INFPs need to verify their feelings "am I right to feel this way and judge that person ? " My ENTJ mom always tells me what she believe is true and never cared for my 'lala land' At first I was enraged, cocky, victimising myself, self pitying, wishing I was born inJapan (hahahaha ouf look at this silliness) But then I wanted to adabt, I was so done with not being able to endure mom's critisism ! That's when it clicked Mom have always been right, if I was just mature enough to listen then I'd have realized that MUCH sooner
Watching you years ago talking about covert contracts really helped me. I realized I was guilty of making covert contracts all the time with my wife (and everyone). Sometimes I thought they were even obvious but she didnt. I have since always tried to make my desired outcome known. It has helped. However most of the other negatives you talk about for intps havent been issues with me for many years. But damned covert contracts man, getting better but they creep up everywhere. Somethines ikk start feeling idk anger or resentment or something and trace the feeling back to some damned make believe contract. Even when I realize it and most of the resentment fades it doesnt all fade.
I just recently realized something. I thought my mom was ENFJ, but I realized she is ESFJ. How did I make this mistake? When she puts something in her head she is a force of nature " and believe me I'm not exaggerating " she will and did move mountains. So I thought: a well Ni parent, makes sense, until I realized that she did this things because it was her duty and it was necessary for the loved ones in her life. The realization is : Si is just as powerful as Ni, so that is what we should practice. Duty and discipline, what is your cross through life? And I don't think you chose it, cose be honest with yourself, you know what it is, life pushed it on you. Take it, and go. What do you see that others don't, and you understand is paramount. This is your cross. And yes she is Initiating Movement, Crusader ( will die if you pin her to bed and craves to move like crazy and doesn't care how many times will take, always Initiating, Tons of covert contracts, think of all before self and everything should be fair , and Will talk your face off that I think about it, and in a informative way too.)
So we should give up on our own dreams and focus on helping others succeed at their own dreams. It sounds counter-productive for INTP's. If we don't dont respect ourselves or our own goals and dreams how could we ever support someone else with the full effect? idk just something to think about.
INFJ here trying to understand INTPs because I'm very drawn to their logic and rationale, and I feel (said no INTP ever xD) there's a lot to understand about them as they tend to be very misunderstood and under appreciated. Anyway, all of your videos are so informative and have helped me loads understanding INTPs. I think you're an ENTP and I love the way you explain things (getting passionate, it's riveting), I also get some laughs out of your sense of humour hehe.
he is either talking of himself or INTJs, but is bullshit because brilliance is relative to a certain ability, no one beats INTPs ability to solve problems per example
I just noticed a couple of things. Even though I am still new to typing, I seem to pick up on the subconscious elements of those close to me (family) just as much (if not more) than the ego, especially for INTPs. Is this the case for most people? There also seems to be some similarity between Si child and Se inferior. Si seems to draw from one's own experience, while Se inferior seems to draw on the experiences (or performance) of others to improve one's performance -- not sure if that is the same for Se child. BTW, take care of yourself.
Being INTP, I watched other type personalities too, when I see comments and realise no one is interested in other but about themselves, that's where your knowledge gets limited, and you become ignorant and narcissist. I love to know how others feel, wanna understand their mind too. Isn't it interesting?
Much talk in the vid about right and accurate. Right and accurate change based on the circumstances, needs, energy of the moment. I can roll with it. Can anyone else?.
Yeah, I have some of the problems, The binging is a huge problem to me although the "people pleaser and nice guy" is not. But I think that's a problem altogether because since a child I was instilled with the belief that I had nothing to offer to help anyone, so I don't think I've ever actually started developing my Fe well.
Do INTPs perceive their own introverted thinking through the introverted lens of their introverted sensing? Is that how it works? And do they perceive their Fe or just other people’s “feelings” or ethics through the extraverted lens of their extraverted intuition? If this is the case then that opens up a whole new level to this stuff that I haven’t quite thought of yet.
dude you are doing gods work here helps alot to guys like me thanks alot dude keep up the good fight this world is ugly as fuck but we can make it a little prettier
Hoodie - you're even dressed INTP for this one.
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Good one!
Am INTP
Wow... I love my hoodie!!!
Glad he’s not wearing glasses too!
If I had a dollar for every time I’ve been called arrogant, I’d have enough money to think about a whole bunch of business ideas but never execute on them 😂
Oh admit it, you never actually need those dollars to think of those business ideas. Chances are, they're also partly a reason to your arrogance cause you subconsciously know your brilliant mind is rife with untapped business ideas already. Nope, you won't have a hard time thinking them just as you don't have a hard time breathing but executing them is another matter entirely, dollar or no 😉
It's not arrogance when you're right and you acknowledge it. I tell my INTP when he's right and when he's not because he deserves to be recognized. Well, I will tell him when he's wrong if it ever happens 😂
-INFJ (hopelessly devoted to my XNTP's.
When I was a kid, people used to ask me random questions out of curiosity (mostly about scientific phenomenon). I would say something like, "I don't know, but I would guess..." and explain my hypothesis. But I started noticing that no matter how carefully I prefaced my conjecture, people acted as if my answer were gospel truth. I suddenly realized that people would believe almost anything I said without verifying or even doubting. And all of a sudden I felt an *immense* burden on my shoulders... to make sure everything I said was as accurate as possible because no one else was going to do the research to double-check my answer. If you go into any kind of medical field, you will literally have lives in your hands depending on your knowledge. That power you have becomes greater, and thus so too does the responsibility you have to wield your word wisely. I often try to instill this sense of responsibility for accuracy in others, but I'm usually met with defensiveness and resistance and accusations that I'm being too strictly principled and insistence that most conversations are "not a big deal." They say "you know what I mean!" to which I say, "Say what you mean (and mean what you say)" -- otherwise your word means nothing and without that, you have nothing. It's hard for me to imagine being any other way. The rare moments where I've repeated something matter-of-factly and been proven wrong, I was horribly embarrassed. I actually legitimately have a hard time believing the inaccuracy problem persists into adulthood for most INTPs, but perhaps it depends on how small (and thick) your "bubble" is. ❇️
Omg the first week of third grade the teacher used to ask the class multiple choice questions and you would raise your hand when she said the option that you thought was correct. Once the other students realized I was “the smart one” a lot of them would wait to see when I raised my hand before raising theirs. I remember how much more pressure that put on me to be right and it kept me from just guessing. Then one day when I answered incorrectly, it caused us all to get it wrong... it was so painful 😣 But there was one student that rose his hand against my answer... I gained so much respect for him but also he became my instant nemesis 🤣
It took me some time, (quite some time), to realise that people often WERE following the advice I gave because, in some cases, to me, their actions did not look like they were following my advice - either they had interpreted what I said in a way I had not foreseen was possible or, at times, I had just missed that this is what they were doing.
What you said about research is true though, (as I have found myself(, because, even when prefaced with something like, "I am no expert, but it looks to me like... ," many people still have a greater tendency to take the information blindly and run with it. And the consequences are potentially... well, terrible.
I got bored not being mentally stimulated so I'd just make stuff up to see what people would believe I got pretty good at lying lol but really the only time I fact check is when I'm interested in a story and I'm fact checking that's how I learned about the Milwaukee protocol
i did/do this same thing!!
That sucks. I was extremely dishonest up till a few years ago. Now I'm ruthlessly honest and get super pissed when I see dishonesty in others, and don't care how important they are or how much influence they have, I can have a fit if someone is constantly lying to me, especially if it's them trying to manipulate me. As an infp, if someone tries manipulating me with Fi or Fe hero, good f***ing luck. I will rip their mask off in front of everyone.
The INXPs must utilize their Si child to cope with being the last in line for type specific videos
Yes, it's been killing me
Yes🙂
Hahaha!! Omg so true and we’re the ones wanting them the most
I used it... By watching old videos about my type 😄
Genuinely, thank you. All this time I've been stuck in this loop of thinking I'm unintelligent and then being bitter for being taken advantage of by other people. This has given me the confidence and motivation to research everything even more than I already did and not openly reject other people's perspectives or opinions in subtle arrogance. What a change in thought! This was truly invaluable advice.
INTP here. This spoke to me very deeply. You are doing a huge service for everyone on here. I’m proof. Thank you so much. It’s time for me to get back out there. The world needs me.
"Insanely stupid kind of binging that INTPs end up doing"
Oops. That's what I'm doing right now. I better get back to studying for my two math tests tomorrow . . .
As an INTP who went to university and graduated with a degree in electrical engineering, I don't think it is a good idea to encourage INTPs to not attend college. While there may be things wrong with American college, it is one of the few things I can point to and unequivocally say that it has helped define my success in life. I have a strong career, I was able to attract an amazing ENTJ fiancé, and I was able to get over many of my bad habits including perpetual laziness and lack of social interactions. Telling all the INTPs watching this video to not worry about going to university may just be giving them one more excuse to not better their lives. And INTPs do not need more excuses to be lazy, we are plenty good at that on our own.
The reality is that for the best jobs and most successful careers in America, you need to have a college degree. Yes, there are plenty of good jobs you could list that you don't need a degree. And of course there are exceptions like Mark Zuckerberg who did not even graduate. But if I did not go to college, I would probably still be at home wasting away in my parents basement playing video games all day. I was not about to invent the next Facebook. So please rethink this approach you take with other INTPs. College may not be for everyone, but for many it is life defining.
what was your motivation to go to college. How did you decide that?
@@malindaeckert2300 I was fortunate enough to have had supportive parent's who sent me to a private high school with an engineering program. Through this, I was exposed to Electrical Engineering. There was nothing else in life I really wanted to be and the financial stability of an engineering degree really attracted me to the field. I ended up tinkering with and really enjoying electronics and computers going through the program. And when a university came to my high school and highlighted their highly paid internship programs (with major companies) as a way to help pay for college, it sealed the deal.
I owe a lot to the hand I was dealt in life. I feel lucky to have had that early opportunity or else I have no idea where I would be today.
I don't understand his logic there either. Most of the people I know who didn't go to college are scraping by, mainly because they're relying on temp services for work. College should be encouraged, as long as the student knows to stay away from a degree in liberal arts.
Although what you said is entirely right, i'm not sure if this only applies to me however, when I hear Chase talk on this I didn't think i'm being told to not go to College or University but rather to embrace your ability to learn whatever you want on your own because as an INTP you have the natural tools to do so. An example could be an Electrical Engineer by career which you went to school for but a backyard mechanic by way of youtube video's and other research. This ability is then enhanced when helping somebody else such as helping a friend develop an APP when you initially had no idea how, you would figure it out. Or becoming a Dietitian by way of helping somebody with a smaller type health issue. By helping you also gain focus, self confidence, and more knowledge and to some other comments on here, this is a bit of its own reward when not receiving as much recognition as you'd like.
@@forkymental5154 I didn’t understand either. The thing is you Don't have to take every word from him as the universal truth. Everyone has differenf situation. Its better to understand your own situation and come up to the right solution of your particular problem.
But, i would suggest INTP's to learn alone and go to University to earn a degree but not to learn. You should go to University for degree but to learn you should self study and relay on your own intelligence.
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Late 20's INTP man here, thank you. The term "covert contract" describes the attitude I have sometimes encountered with Chinese culture, in which reciprocity for any help is assumed, and not to reciprocate is to damage your reputation. If you aren't prepared to reciprocate, you have to forcefully prevent the other person from giving you the help they are offering, leading to the ubiquitous struggles over who pays the bill at restaurants.
What I love about Chases videos is that you can learn about your own type in almost all of his videos even if he doesn’t necessarily zoom-in into your own type! It’s incredibly interesting, especially the cog. transition series. It’s all so connected, and truly enjoyable to learn about. Keep it up! -an entj
After seeing the difference between an INTJ and an INTP it's clear that I'm an INTP. I will say that I think my fashion style is pretty fantastic. I feel I've always had a good fashion style thanks to my mother. Over the years I've really evolved it into my own.
It is interesting the type of martyrs that ENTPs and INTPs are in stories and also fairly common in real-life INTPs tend to be white martyrs and ENTPs tend to be red martyrs or in other words INTPs bear life (suffering) and ENTPs bear death.
The INTP's being guilted is so true. My last ex actually bullied and guilted me a couple times into having sex when I wasn't in the mood/dead tired from work. Me, a 5'11" 170lb man, being bullied by a tiny 5 foot 95lb lil asian woman 😂. The relationship lasted like 6 months and I was miserable! I was so dedicated to a lil monster lol
I appreciated all the advice but I did not hear a lot about cognitive transitions. In a lot of the earlier episodes regarding the cognitive transitions I was so interested in how the types transitioned to the 4 sides of their minds. The ENTJ episode was great, the INFJ episode was great and I literally did watch every single one up unto this point which made me very excited for months on end to hear this lecture but when I heard this I had to listen to it twice just to make sure I was properly focused and still came to the same conclusion. So I am going to overcome my Fe inferior and say I was disappointed. Not because the advice wasn't good but because it didn't seem like it was about the cognitive transitions.
Don't get me wrong I love CS Joseph's content and I will even go so far to say I like this video because there is a lot of truth in it. I can resonate with a lot of this stuff and one big thing I took away was that I need to ask for things in return so as not to be manipulated but this wasn't what I expected.
Yup actually same here.
To get more info on what you are looking for its in Season 19.
C.S. Joseph appreciate the free content with very valuable info but there was barely anything on ENTJ side nothing new heard on ESFJ side not much mentioned on ISFP side relative to earlier lectures in the season talking about the 4 sides the info we’re looking for is what are the cognitive transitions of INTPs that should be in the video called “what are cognitive transitions for INTPs” not some other season.
I really resonate with this comment because I watched this video hoping to understand how an INTP can use their subconscious the ESFJ and their unconscious ENTJ...
I really feel like you drifted from the title a lot...
Infj blocked me cause I wouldn't stop giving her advice
To INTP’s, reading books by Nassim Taleb will help. Books such as The Black Swan (talks about the problem of induction, will improve your Ne) and Antifragile (talks about how failure/stress is helpful in a person since we are organic, non-static beings; will improve Si child, will help you take courage but explains (gives you reasons) in a very INTP fashion). These are books under the category of Philosophy, Business, and Economics. As an INTP, I am lucky to have read these in my early 20’s as it greatly improves one’s maturity. Thanks Chase.
Also munger speeches
How is life John. Still thriving?
As an INTP, this is why I love helping people - you get to learn more while helping them (thus creating interest), and everyone feels better for that Fe satisfaction. Better for society as a whole if our mission is to help people do things that we are good at!
Ding ding ding.
As an intp, I just recently figured this out. Being smart is good, being smart and using it to help/serve others, is far more rewarding.
In my community everyone says "I helped you and you're still complaining ? Are you even serious ?! "
I OFFICIALLY INVITE ALL INTPs TO MY COUNTRY
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I am a grown man and almost cried listening to this. You gave me words to describe my problems. I feel "comfortable" watching life pass me by because I don't feel respected by anyone including myself. But you gave me hope for the future. I want to be in a leader or advisor role and support other people.
About covert contracts: My previous relationship (with an INFP) was a complete lie. She had been evicted and I let her stay at my place. She confessed her love to me and I pretended to love her back, because I couldn't bear to tell her the truth, plus she was suicidal so I pitied her. I was passive-aggressive throughout the "relationship" and it was horrible for us both.
About manipulation: Yes, we can be easily guilted, but we are also good at turning the submissive role into martyrdom and make others feel guilty in return. Letting someone disrespect us just to gain ammunition to hit them back later. It's shitty, but it comes from feeling too guilty to set boundaries.
About feeling dumb: Never trust an INTP who says they feel dumb, run away. It's concealed arrogance. "We both know I am smarter than you, so if I don't live up to my standards, then you certainly don't".
About hero myths: Analyzing my childhood fantasies, they looked like action movies, but I imagined a supporting role for myself. Not the hero with the sword, but the "elder" who gives the sword to the hero.
About Malthusianism: I went through this phase at age 12, I felt the world was overburdened by people who didn't understand or appreciate me.
About healthy Fe: I feel the most happy when I play with children, or lead social activities at work, etc. I turn into an ESFJ but less rigid.
The views in this video are beautiful. such a pleasure for my eyes.
Chase, without the incredible amount of work and heart you put into what you do, I would not have the vocabulary nor the opportunities to engage with anyone on these topics, and I need that very much. Thank you. Best wishes.
I've watched every single cognitive transitions video. Granted I only got the motivation to do it when I suspected people I've met are that type and I got curious about them.
INTP here thank you. You have changed my life.
Hey, 17year-old female INTP here, I have a question for you Joseph. You say we should state our expectations on getting recognition for the help we provide. Personally, I don't always ask for something in return when I help someone, but I have realized I do become bitter (especially to members of my family) when I realize I haven't or aren't getting the respect and love I need, when my advice hit a wall and I eventually feel like talking to them is just a waste of time since my thoughts don't matter anyways.
How can you ask someone to respect you without sounding like you see yourself as superior? Isn't the fact that you are asking in the first place a proof that you are not humble?
Also I really enjoy and wish I could help people in a daily basis (that's one of the reasons I want to study psychology) but in the environment I am currently in, I am quite isolated. The only people I could try and help are my own parents but my fear of the intense emotions that will come with doing such a thing keeps me completely paralyzed. And so I am stuck in my own little world, my comfort zone.
Sorry for the long comment, you might not even be able to answer my rambling, but I'll just finish saying that I came to your channel to finally try and learn how people work and I think your lectures (even while you sometimes go off topic) have really helped me have a better understanding both of myself and other types. Thank you for the effort you put into your work, really.
Last thing, I would really love to watch a video on the stages that INTPs go though to get from immaturity to maturity, I believe I am still quite an immature INTP I would love to learn what my potential could be and how I actually can get there.
Hey, almost 36 yr old INTP here. So I'd like to give some insight from what I have seen, hope that is okay. I don't think that advice per se to family and or friends should have any reward, ever. I mean, those are just thoughts. Everybody has thoughts and advice (other types even more I'd say, you know the more chatty ones by default). Now if you are being disconsidered always for the advice you are giving, but you see that others' is not reaching deaf ears then I would say to step up and yes state how you feel and how that response makes you feel and all. If you do that, you might discover some reasons that you could not think of. But if you don't do that then 100% you will regret it but will be too caught in the apathetic circle to come back out.
Now, let me tell you what I did in high school. Besides my Ti hero existant by that time I had gone through severe trauma as well in earlier years so I was a cuckoo (I might still be). So perfect recipe of outsider, outcast, weirdo, not seen, wanting people around but just lacking skills on how to do it, paired with severe social anxiety. So what I did was once not being true to myself and wearing all sticky too bright colours belly out clothes plus heavy makeup every day(it was the early 2000s lol) and second since in 9th grade I came out 1st in thr English championship (I lived in Romania) 90% of the class asked me to revise and correct their English homeworks. We werr an English bilingual class, so we had English every day, a very good but extremely tough teacher so there you go. And I did that all the time in all the breaks in high school. I did not eat, hardly went out to the yard. And why? To be seen. To fit in somehow. To make them see that hello I am here too. You invite for a walk/bday party/etx the person next to you (who is even not doind anything for you, talks about you behind your back etc) but you don't invite me, ever. So yea that is what happened, my classmates making plans all the time just a few centimeters away from me, while me correcting their homeworks and never ever included me, they even forgot to greet me in the hallways.
I was ashamed to say hello I am here. Also that hello I like doing this for you guys but I'd like some giving back at times. Basic stuff like you include me from time to time. Me not stating what I need in exchange for my services was a big mistake. Of course then I knew nothing and was afraid of breathing even so yea. But that unfortunately shaped me in a way that I know that could have been you know..other..more optimized from a social perspective.
Also stop saying you dont need people in case you say it, even mentally.
Yes all INTPs reading this please stop saying that. You know that is a big lie, maybe the biggest one you have been telling yourself. You need people like air. You need them to be needed, to give but to feel needed for that. I have been lying to myself most of my life and it is not cool. Time passes, the skills go undeveloped, I hardly have any idea how to make it happen now and not totally freak out in the process.
Now where advice should come for a price: in professional services or where you are going in way deeper and need to find a solution that is custom made for example. The latter in the family/friends world.
if oyu want recognition, you better ask for it. If you dont ask then its your own fault
Stages of immaturity to maturity is season 19 and that will be made available at a later date.
@@CSJoseph thank youuu
@@lexyh-p8r thank you for sharing. I went through a similar phase of feeling completely outcasted and unseen in pre high school and ended up slowly dropping most of my friends because I felt I wasn't heard in the situation. I did manage to finally get over that super difficult phase all on my own, but as you said, since we do really need people it did take much more time than it should had ever taken.
When I wrote that question yesterday to tell you the truth I was rambling a but cause I hadn't realized what is the core problem for me rn. But a few hours ago I just had an epiphany about the whole family thing, so I'm quite positive that during my next talk with my psychologist I'm going to do the most progress I've ever made in understanding what is happening.
Thank you for opening your heart and sharing your experience, it's really heartwarming to see that there are people that have gone through similar situations and have managed to overcome them. I hope you have a nice day!
The real reason why INTPs talk about overpopulation is because it makes them feel altruistic for not wanting kids or not being ready to take on the responsibility of bringing a new life into the world. 😅
An INTP who is like myself aware of a single contradictary fact wouldn't be talking about that though.
From a transhumanist standpoint we have no idea how much technology will accelarate in 40 or 50 years so it's too early to tell if overpopulation would even be a problem.
Yea this stereotype is quite hurtful. Especially for INTPs that have kids. That is a major lesson and they are missing out a lot by not having.
interesting
Heather Bryant,
I disagree - it's cute reasoning, but I still disagree. The reason why people, (INTPs included), talk about overpopulation of the world is because it is a logical extension of the fact that there are limited resources, there is limited suitable space to live in and because the environment that we presently rely upon for food, water and breathable air, (amongst other things), is in an equilibrium that allows the population to obtain these necessities relatively freely. It is perceivable that if the population continues to increase, (which it will unless something changes), that at some point there will no longer be an equilibrium which is likely to be catastrophic for any population still reliant upon the environment for these resources. At which point a lot of the life on the planet will die.
It is also perceivable that the human race will discover a method of circumventing such an outcome. However, in the past, (as far as we know), this has not happened on this planet and presently we are more reliant on our environment than most people appear to want to think about.
It is also perceivable that despite environmental disaster that some percentage of the population will survive, (this has happened in the past), and the human race will be set to start again, 'wondering like children,' as Plato heard Socrates and his visitor discuss.
Ne & Si types usually get put in poor circumstances, which leads to poor epigenetics; to me at least that's a more important issue, I have other Ne & Si users tell me mistruths to have kids, and that is even worse in my humble Fi-child opinion.
Chase roasting INTPs.
I'm like, "Should I be mad or anything? The man's roasting INTPs and here I am just nodding and thinking, am I really like that?"
Edit. On the bitterness part... damn. Hit me so hard.
Yes. I've been destroyed by bitter abusive crusaders who were in turn abused by someone else. Please don't be that person who takes their pain out on innocent people who actually have good intentions. The pain you guys inflict is permanently destructive and not in a good way.
@@felixthecat2786 you do realize that you can be destroyed only if you let it? So unless you were a child you cannot say that someone else destroyed you. You standing on firm grounds is your responsibility. So please revisit that.
Alexandra Nánai-Hutton we can be really mean sometimes. I said things to others in the past that I regret. All because I was butthurt. INTPs usually know the pressure points of others, where it hurts most. The amount of damage I caused to that person was just too much and caused a trauma. Instead of accepting and letting go, I wanted revenge.
You are not just at risk of being ignorant if you only watch the videos for your own type, you are Guaranteed to be.
These cognitive transition videos are amazing. Like an open letter to all the 16 types. It would be interesting to see a “Cognitive Transitions Part 2” now that you have learned more about cognitive origin and temple wheels. Cheers!
C.S Joseph: “I like walking in the rain” Also C.S Joseph: “I’ve been sick, very sick” I wonder why
Rain makes you sick? What kind of rain you got over there?
@@Welsh_Veteran_420_Z lmao walking in the rain especially when it’s cold makes you more susceptible to catching a cold.
@@Faith-lh9in That's actually a myth...
@@Welsh_Veteran_420_Z nope the myth is that rain makes you sick. Walking in the rain whilst it’s cold out weakens your immune system.
@@Faith-lh9in source? 🙂
This video just broke my binge cycle, and I actually cleaned my dungeon while listening.
Seriously you are amazingly informative and insightfully detailed! I’m going through one of my longest rock bottom I think in my life; your tough love and strait forward approach ignited a long overdue feeling of interest and drive. I’ve been lacking motivation, passion and been stuck in indifference for an eternity it feels 🙄 I am sure I’m speaking for many, you are so greatly appreciated and a priceless contribution to the collective!
You are most welcome, don’t give up
I know i have complained a lot about you rambling or going off on tangets but now i want to thank you for it. They provide me with the essential time i need to process the useful information and helps me understand and remember better. your lecture help me become the person i should be. I will forever be grateful❤
Been waiting on this one!
Me too
Yeah, was talking with someone not a week ago, that I'm waiting for this episode.
INTP Squad unite
AMin Hakim we have a squad? Why not a gaggle
INTP - I really like the lecture, especially the harsh truths! As well, I have noticed that when I do things for myself, I can get lost in details and tangled in the webs of my thoughts, but whenever I help others, I feel a lot better, understand things more clearly, and flourish in ways which were previously unimaginable to me. I have poured myself into people in the wrong way for a long time, and never learned about boundaries until the past few years. It's so shocking to see how different things can be when self-awareness dawns.
Honestly alot of this development you talk about is really helped by getting into customer based work and getting used to interacting with people they always say on different websites for intps not to get into this type of work but I did and it has helped me immensely social skills need to be developed for us introverted types.
The problem with helping people is that many people don't even want to be helped, so we are kind of confused in that way, cuz we don't know how to approach them. Or better to say, it's hard for us to recognize what is that that those peope need. I've been hurt many times by trying to help others in this way, so I just retreat
Toonami was the dopest back in the day. Now I'm gonna go binge on this gundam orphan blood or whatever lol
Iron blooded orphans?
Right after you binge these videos haha
It's very good. Prepare yourself for a lot of manly, bro feelings.
@@NamedMyTaco hahaha! That will be a little unusual for me being a chick but I'll like, bring a beer to pretend to drink and I dunno.. something heavy to lift while I watch 😅 oh man I crack myself up
@@MagikForTheMAsses Totally do that lol! Just feed into. Sit with your legs open, drink a beer, pump some iron and be awed by the Geopolitical consequences of some teens gaining their independence and fighting for the freedom of Mars!
I wish I knew these valuable information when I was a kid. Man, this video is like slapping my face at the same time from side to side!!😂
Thank you for pointing out these valuable information, now we can easily learn them through a systematic approach, if not which we'll have to learn through the hard way.
I'm watching this lecture because two of my closest friends are INTP's, as you've said on INFJ videos is that our purpose is to make others better than ourselves. so I'm at trying to create my NP wolf pack.
Your videos are pretty much spot on when I run the findings by them and they inform me that I'm pretty much right. 😊👌
Have to listen to this a 100 times. A precious video. You're a genius.
Thank you for another great lecture. I really appreciate your channel and what you're trying to accomplish.
Almost every negative aspect you covered in this video I admit to having when I was a teen up to mid-20s - call it my 'lost decade'.
The remedies you suggest make a great deal of sense. We're very prone to self-apathy (and self-loathing), and I've found developing boundaries with others, as you've detailed in the Fe part of this lecture, is a must.
Turning immature Si comfort-addiction into commitment to self-discipline has also greatly helped me recently. I see you're focusing on the gateway functions for these lectures, although each function has potential to identify immaturities to be fixed.
No More Mr Nice Guy by Robert Glover was a great read too - heard about it on one of your other lectures.
Sound quality was good all the way through; nice shot of the waterfall too. :)
Finally. I tried to type someone,and I was really seeing the Ti but being a Te user the Ti appeared to me as hella irrational so I ended up trying to type him for like two years or so because I thought that Ti hero is in no way shape or form irrational.
I suspect with Ti hero INTPs tend to overthink things and so appear quite irrational to others
@@ryanbrowne6651 definitely agree on the overthinking thing. Ti overthinking tends to move past the practicality-real world likelihood of something, and gets so glued to the "shoulds" of things, drives me nuts, because I'm over here Te-ing like, but its NOT that way, so.. forget about how it should be, because this is how it _IS_ ...lol
I have never understood how someone could not verify, if I don't know something with 100% it feels like my whole brain becomes jello and I need to fix that ASAP
I feel so called out by this video. But I need to hear this stuff. I'm an INTP who has been mistyping himself as an INTJ for years. I only recently had an aha moment where everything clicked in my mind that I'm an INTP. One thing I will say, is that every ITNP should become familiar with Jordan Peterson. Peterson is the figure that kicked my ass out of apathy mode and inspired me to take responsibility for my own goddamn life. Peterson is the savior of the broken the beaten and the damned (Props if you get both references). In the past 4 years I have done more with my life than the previous 28 combined, I was so limited by my own echo chamber of self-perception. Once an INTP gets that kick in the ass, we become a force of nature.
Great lecture. I also loved the self critisism on typing people!
Wow you were on point with this one. I got to the point of being so afraid of being called out by people saying that I was actually dumb and just acting intelligent that I started speaking and acting like someone who doesn't put thought into their words/actions. I literally became afraid of intelligence itself yet I sought it out in ppl. Brb gotta work on that now lol
Shit, dude I’m an INTP & can confirm this is on point
This is valuable, like an honest brother dropping down truth to NTP siblings.
I don't limit videos to my type. I'm an INTP, but as I meet other types I have a framework to hang these concepts on. I have a great female friend that's an ESFJ, an ex-wife that's ISFJ, an ISFP gf, an INFP coworker and INFP and INFJ barista friends that discuss MBTI with me weekly. Knowing yourself is only half the battle in communication.
NOT CUTE!!!! WE ARE NOT CUTE!!! 😂😂😂 lmao!
Omg this! Cute and adorable... its always the adorable word *sigh*
....i get called gentle alot
YES THIS STOP CALLING INTPS CUTE, WE JUST LOVE CUDDLES (not speaking for everybody ofc) BUT WE AINT CUTE.
I am an INTP with 11 children. I do binge as you describe.
This channel is amazing! I am consuming the videos like popcorn! Thank you 💚💛💜
Hopefully it stays that way. I eventually trigger everyone haha
@@CSJoseph well truth does not trigger me. ✌🏼I treat knowledgeable people with respect even more if they are trying to educate humans. Thank you. 😘
Wanted this video for so long. Thanks Joseph, just listening through it and you got some very good points!
Nowadays Chase is merely DOPEamine addicted.
Sorry, I had to
i laughed.
Crazy views where you're at. What a treat!
Why do people think all intp's wear hoodies and things like that ? I'm an intp and I wear suits and overcoats all the time
That belief in what others say about us, in my experience, comes from us valuing what others believe in.
I've been in that loop for most of my life--dispossesed. But then I've also been on the opposite end of the spectrum where I see everyone else as stupid.
Man, I was about to comment on the invalidity on the ENTJ and how theyre like the rapiest of all the types, until I remembered one of my ENTJ friends saw a girl, listened to her convo, deduced she was in a dance club, and found her dance club and her @ in about 5-10 minutes! That was the weirdest thing I've ever experienced in my life (of course, he had no ill intentions). Crazy shit happens with ENTJs, I tell ya.
To contradict you on 3:10 I am here an ENFJ, learning about INTP and perhaps other types next after I absorb enough information that I can use in real life. It's been very helpful so thank you so much!
It's amazing how you do these lectures off the top of your dome. That's stylezzz. An INTP friend of mine says that alot "Stylezzz"
This was like, the most personally attacking/offensive thing I’ve ever watched but absolutely 100% true god damn lol. Probably the most important advice I’ve ever gotten from a TH-cam video
Don’t be gluttonous
INTP... currently binging C.S.Joseph...
I'm gonna stop now... When the video ends 😅
... Bad Demon, stop it 😬
Well, this hit hard. I feel like I don't even know where to start to fix all these shortcomings. I expect I shall be rewatching this multiple times.
I appreciate you calling me out. Truth hurts, but a bunch in here I needed to hear. I only realized I was smart in this last year, just always thought everyone around me was a dumbass. I found that JKD lacked an emphasis on footwork, and was one of the few styles that worked better for smaller and quicker people. I have trained to fight for over 30 years, and one of the biggest things I have seen is that the style and school only go so far. The real success is from the individual, not the style. I know you read these periodically, check out the channel Hard 2 Hurt, Mike is on point and then some
Can someone explain 21:30 "just because it's not your fault, doesn't mean it's not your responsibility."? To what degree?
I'm wondering if a person can change his/her personality type over the years or you'll stay the same for the rest of your life?
I hear so many people say they change bc of nature/nurture and some say you dont, you're probably just mistyped?
Hi sorry I’m late! No your type never changes your maturity and how you access the other 3 sides of your mind does change and therefore how your type behaves and comes across
Te users come to the wrong conclusions because their Ti is weak. But what's the point of strong Ti if your input of Te is terrible? I see this in INFJs all the time. High Ti and shitty conclusions due to lack of Te. Garbage in garbage out. Te users can atleast detect high Ti users and use their logic for verification.
It's hard to say who is actually more ignorant Te or Ti, but Ti is by far more arrogant. That's why I often say to my ESTP brother that he is the dumbest smart person I know.
It is amongst one of my greatest honors to be burned by this video. Great stuff, I've been waiting for this video for months. People have always gotten strangely mad at me for helping my husband achieve his dreams instead of being a #independantwomanwhodontneednoman, so I'm glad to know that this is actually a good thing for me (as long as I'm not getting screwed over of course).
I just saw an advert where a guy claimed he absorbed information from a book by touching it...wtelf!
What websites have you been surfin?
jk
37:55 "I hope nobody calls me so the lecture doesn't become a waste" don't pick up the phone. Problem solved.
Can INTPs get athletic? I mean like good in martial arts? Because technically Si child can get very strong, thats why i ask.))
Indeed they can. I think there is a basketball player who's an INTP. I just can't really recall, sorry.
Yes.I personally think that usain bolt is an intp, although I might be wrong.I have an intp acquaintance with the black belt and also an intp friend extremely good at volleyball.
I've done mixed martial arts for years and found that my Ti can understand the theory quite fast, and also my Ne can be creative with what I decide to do. And as you say, we can be quite resilient with our Si
Why not? My best friend is an ENTP, he's a personal trainer, martial artist and is generally involved and skilled in that area. I've trained with him, and I can learn it fast (i'm an INTP). The only problem is I get bored when there's nothing to improve that I find interesting. so I liked very specific things about physical activities -- those that have endless potential, and I have a feeling that I can always improve them. The problem starts when I see it as repetitive boring crap. I guess I should also mention I know one INTP personal trainer.
So I think the only problem is interest, if you can find a specific physical activity interesting, then there's nothing there to stop you except other nonMBTI specific barriers.
I think if the INTP learns to transition upon demand. INTPs place thought before movement in their natural state, which makes every move deliberate, and thus delayed compared to those who move on instinct, in order for an INTP to reach this level of instinctual reaction speed the INTP would need to transition over to ESFJ for movement or ENTJ for a much better Se. INTPs are great Martial Artists in our head.
1:03:39 sometimes u have to sit back and watch the world burn chase.
24:00 I think people confuse population density with overpopulation
Similarly, INFPs need to verify their feelings "am I right to feel this way and judge that person ? "
My ENTJ mom always tells me what she believe is true and never cared for my 'lala land'
At first I was enraged, cocky, victimising myself, self pitying, wishing I was born inJapan (hahahaha ouf look at this silliness)
But then I wanted to adabt, I was so done with not being able to endure mom's critisism ! That's when it clicked
Mom have always been right, if I was just mature enough to listen then I'd have realized that MUCH sooner
Watching you years ago talking about covert contracts really helped me. I realized I was guilty of making covert contracts all the time with my wife (and everyone). Sometimes I thought they were even obvious but she didnt. I have since always tried to make my desired outcome known. It has helped.
However most of the other negatives you talk about for intps havent been issues with me for many years. But damned covert contracts man, getting better but they creep up everywhere. Somethines ikk start feeling idk anger or resentment or something and trace the feeling back to some damned make believe contract. Even when I realize it and most of the resentment fades it doesnt all fade.
Am I the only one who wishes to have Chase's eyelashes,just me? OK..
Well, you could try getting them from the shower drain... but ugh... Sicko! LOL J/K!
No, his lips
@@Hawkido 😂🤦
@@new123zxc and i'm self counscious as an entj for my comment 😢.Also naaah.. I have better lips😐 :)
I know right 😂😂
Yay finally!
I know!! I've been dying for this too. And it's so long: gratifying 😁
Intp deserve some more love CS Joseph
Keep it up! :)
wow I'm 3 years late, 2 minutes in, the rain and wind comments are just killing me XD. golden content as always.
preferred cognitive style = differential analysis. What is this situation supposed to look like? vs What is evidently missing?
I just recently realized something. I thought my mom was ENFJ, but I realized she is ESFJ. How did I make this mistake? When she puts something in her head she is a force of nature " and believe me I'm not exaggerating " she will and did move mountains. So I thought: a well Ni parent, makes sense, until I realized that she did this things because it was her duty and it was necessary for the loved ones in her life. The realization is : Si is just as powerful as Ni, so that is what we should practice. Duty and discipline, what is your cross through life? And I don't think you chose it, cose be honest with yourself, you know what it is, life pushed it on you. Take it, and go. What do you see that others don't, and you understand is paramount. This is your cross. And yes she is Initiating Movement, Crusader ( will die if you pin her to bed and craves to move like crazy and doesn't care how many times will take, always Initiating, Tons of covert contracts, think of all before self and everything should be fair , and Will talk your face off that I think about it, and in a informative way too.)
So we should give up on our own dreams and focus on helping others succeed at their own dreams. It sounds counter-productive for INTP's. If we don't dont respect ourselves or our own goals and dreams how could we ever support someone else with the full effect? idk just something to think about.
I think he means our dreams should include helping people. You should watch season 6, no way he would tell us to prioritize others above ourselves
INFJ here trying to understand INTPs because I'm very drawn to their logic and rationale, and I feel (said no INTP ever xD) there's a lot to understand about them as they tend to be very misunderstood and under appreciated.
Anyway, all of your videos are so informative and have helped me loads understanding INTPs.
I think you're an ENTP and I love the way you explain things (getting passionate, it's riveting), I also get some laughs out of your sense of humour hehe.
Which type is the most brilliant if INTP is second ?
I have the same question
He maintains that the INFP is the most brilliant he goes into detail about this in the how fo INTPs compare to INFPs lecture.
@@failedbooli6028 but ive also herd him say infj so i wanna make sure
he is either talking of himself or INTJs, but is bullshit because brilliance is relative to a certain ability, no one beats INTPs ability to solve problems per example
@@failedbooli6028 infp? lol
Male INTP here. Very easy to guilt into sex, just saying...
I shower fairly regularly - FYI.
I really mean it.
xD
I just noticed a couple of things. Even though I am still new to typing, I seem to pick up on the subconscious elements of those close to me (family) just as much (if not more) than the ego, especially for INTPs. Is this the case for most people?
There also seems to be some similarity between Si child and Se inferior. Si seems to draw from one's own experience, while Se inferior seems to draw on the experiences (or performance) of others to improve one's performance -- not sure if that is the same for Se child.
BTW, take care of yourself.
Thanks, Chase, for your honesty and for your informative video
Being INTP, I watched other type personalities too, when I see comments and realise no one is interested in other but about themselves, that's where your knowledge gets limited, and you become ignorant and narcissist.
I love to know how others feel, wanna understand their mind too. Isn't it interesting?
Much talk in the vid about right and accurate. Right and accurate change based on the circumstances, needs, energy of the moment. I can roll with it. Can anyone else?.
Only an intp would be considerate enough to move even though I’m sure the wedding couldn’t see him.
I like how 90% of what is said to INTPs is criticism.
Insert offended comment
I am rewatching these videos, with a different level of maturity. Thankyou Teacher
Coach, his name is Coach "The Chesse" Super Joseph. Write it on the forehead for the next one.
Good video 👍 More videos difference between INTP Men and women? How they look different, childhood, lifestyle, partner choice,etc?
Bloody hell, I should really become a more mature person.
Yeah, I have some of the problems, The binging is a huge problem to me although the "people pleaser and nice guy" is not. But I think that's a problem altogether because since a child I was instilled with the belief that I had nothing to offer to help anyone, so I don't think I've ever actually started developing my Fe well.
How I always feel after listening to any C. S. Joseph lecture...
Do INTPs perceive their own introverted thinking through the introverted lens of their introverted sensing? Is that how it works? And do they perceive their Fe or just other people’s “feelings” or ethics through the extraverted lens of their extraverted intuition? If this is the case then that opens up a whole new level to this stuff that I haven’t quite thought of yet.
@ 27:50 "the second most brilliant of all the types..." You mean FIRST most brilliant type?
With all these covert contracts how as an INTP man could get dates with women who genuinely care?
dude you are doing gods work here helps alot to guys like me thanks alot dude
keep up the good fight
this world is ugly as fuck but we can make it a little prettier
I'm the bloke that actually takes the time to verify SPIRITUAL BELIEFS... Thats why I DO NOT HOLD THEM.
I ain't afraid of no ghosts.