Family wants answers after 14-year-old dies in deadly Glendale crash

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 5 ธ.ค. 2024
  • Police said the crash happened on Grand Avenue near 53rd Avenue on May 25.

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  • @oldhickory4686
    @oldhickory4686 ปีที่แล้ว +190

    May God comfort this family.

    • @PaolaPerez-lc1nx
      @PaolaPerez-lc1nx ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Amén 🙏🏼🥺

    • @jinhok7543
      @jinhok7543 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      There is no god. Men created god, god didn't create men

    • @Alv3600
      @Alv3600 ปีที่แล้ว

      ⁠@@jinhok7543 God created all

    • @becca318
      @becca318 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Amen! ❤🙏

    • @mm2starrs
      @mm2starrs ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jinhok7543 girls created guys and u said there’s no god yet u say men created god? make sense

  • @itz_vintagesunset6405
    @itz_vintagesunset6405 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    My deepest condolences go out to Julian’s family, I’m so so so sorry for you’re loss, this is why I thank god every single day that I’m alive, I’ve already lost my grandfather, I can’t imagine losing another one of my family members, I hope Mel is doing alright, R.I.P Julius, we will forever keep you in our hearts 🕊️💔

    • @Virgo_3000
      @Virgo_3000 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      But is the car ok

    • @itz_vintagesunset6405
      @itz_vintagesunset6405 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Dimez lol ….idk, and I honestly don’t care abt the car, what I care about his Melanie and Julian’s family healing from their loss of Julius, losing someone you are so close to is the most difficult and heartbreaking thing to go through, it’s like losing a piece of you, I’m just praying that Melanie and Julian will heal soon, and be able to go back to their normal lives. ❤️

    • @garou9144
      @garou9144 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So you cared more for them but not the one who passed away…yikes

    • @itz_vintagesunset6405
      @itz_vintagesunset6405 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Garou Don’t twist my words, ofc I care abt Julius, it’s so hard losing someone you love, you feel like a piece of you is gone, Julius was a bright and goofy kid, he was so young, his family and friends are seriously heartbroken 💔 I’ll be praying for them.

    • @fiver2543
      @fiver2543 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@garou9144it’s like you’re purposely misunderstanding

  • @kenleighmn
    @kenleighmn ปีที่แล้ว +31

    prayers to julius, mel, and julian.

  • @jazmin.chavez__
    @jazmin.chavez__ ปีที่แล้ว +46

    the crash was heavy, julian looks terribly hurt, I hope everyone is doing okay and hope they recover, rest in peace julius 🕊️🤍

  • @felixramirez6898
    @felixramirez6898 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    To the family , I`m so sorry for Your loss .

  • @izacon9435
    @izacon9435 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    imagine the burden his brother will forever feel that is something no one should have to live with

    • @D3MANE
      @D3MANE ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Should of thought about that before speeding

    • @Valerie_XX0
      @Valerie_XX0 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      ​@@D3MANE he wasn't speeding. It was the trucks fault, you don't know what happened. And he explains what happened.

    • @Junior-rt6xr
      @Junior-rt6xr ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Valerie_XX0 but they weren't using seatbelts tells you all about this family they probably weren't even born here be offended but it's the truth. many people come over illegally and don't know the laws when driving because they're not supposed to be legally.

  • @melarie205
    @melarie205 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    life is so scary man. to think they were just going for a fun drive and all of a sudden their whole life turns upside down. rip julius🥺

  • @xcoxic3259
    @xcoxic3259 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    Whoever did this you will be found and I hope the guilt consumes you ! You took somebody’s life a 14 year old at that , who’s life was still just beginning, you monster. My prayers go out to the family who has to deal with this extremely difficult loss😢❤and everybody who was in the car when the accident occurred.

    • @shdow8222
      @shdow8222 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      And thats the excuse for him going 110MPH+

    • @xcoxic3259
      @xcoxic3259 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@shdow8222he wasn’t somebody ran into them you sound dumb .

    • @xcoxic3259
      @xcoxic3259 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@swerve6321hope ur laughing when something like this happens to u

    • @itz_vintagesunset6405
      @itz_vintagesunset6405 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @shdow8222 it doesn’t matter, what matters is that Julius has passed away at 14 years old, and his family is in deep pain, don’t be so judgmental, just pray for the family, okay?

  • @maglopez1558
    @maglopez1558 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Condolences to his family 🙏🏽

  • @JocelynFerman-p1y
    @JocelynFerman-p1y ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Rip julius🙏 and i hope Melanie and Julian are ok

  • @dinerocochino5296
    @dinerocochino5296 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Why would they look for answers if it was the drivers fault for speeding

    • @Kaeandclay
      @Kaeandclay ปีที่แล้ว

      Because the driver drove off anyways, after killing a person.. dumb and rude comment of you.

    • @claradenisse1111
      @claradenisse1111 ปีที่แล้ว

      Did you not listen? You're so ignorant, a white truck hit them

    • @danielhze9
      @danielhze9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not even confirmed

    • @Usernameunonown
      @Usernameunonown ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He wasn’t speeding 😂

    • @reasons..
      @reasons.. ปีที่แล้ว +4

      U don't know what really happened u just heard stuff off tiktok

  • @brittanylightbourn8896
    @brittanylightbourn8896 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’m so sorry for y’all loss

  • @heygusgus
    @heygusgus ปีที่แล้ว +50

    “He wasn’t racing” and the children didn’t have seatbelts on??
    Hope wearing seatbelts and driving like a normal human doesn’t seem so “lame” now to these kids.

    • @withthemoon0
      @withthemoon0 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      never understood what was so lame abt not wearing seatbelts smh i always make sure i have mine on cause you never know

    • @Junior-kc7mp
      @Junior-kc7mp ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Kinda sus because the News lady said he going to pick up a friend then he says he was going to boxing practice 🤔

    • @kennaluvschu
      @kennaluvschu ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@Junior-kc7mp the story is messed up somewhere. i heard on tiktok that they had that friend WITH them during the crash, that 4 people were injured- not just julian, julius & melanie. there was a 4th person in that car…

    • @Junior-kc7mp
      @Junior-kc7mp ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@kennaluvschu right 3 injured 1 killed like YALL telling me that it’s not sus

    • @donarthiazi2443
      @donarthiazi2443 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@Junior-kc7mp
      Meh.... whatever 🥱

  • @derpterpss
    @derpterpss ปีที่แล้ว +13

    That wreck is from going 45 and getting cut off by a truck??? Yea… right….

    • @melarie205
      @melarie205 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      i think theyre trying to avoid him going to jail

    • @alyssa_leon2132
      @alyssa_leon2132 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      plus how did the truck hit him when the truck was turning left…? he said they were serving into the right lane the avoid the truck, it’s not making sense to me especially on that road where they crashed

    • @Mrluv2step
      @Mrluv2step ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bro rest up to him condolence to his peoples but bra let’s keep it real dis story make no sense😭

  • @JocelynFerman-p1y
    @JocelynFerman-p1y ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Rip julius🙏 and i hope Melanie and Julian are ok i hope she wakes up:(

    • @Healingwithstaar
      @Healingwithstaar ปีที่แล้ว +1

      she already woke up she’s just dealing with injures

    • @JocelynFerman-p1y
      @JocelynFerman-p1y ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Healingwithstaar when did she wake up

    • @niya6052
      @niya6052 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@Jocelyn Ferman I think like a couple days after the accident. Her cousin posted that she had woken up.

    • @JocelynFerman-p1y
      @JocelynFerman-p1y ปีที่แล้ว

      @@niya6052 ohhh ok ty

  • @andyleo8418
    @andyleo8418 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Should not let a teen drive other teens around. Recipe for disaster.

  • @angelamaravilla5235
    @angelamaravilla5235 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I dont get it so he was turning right and the truck was turning left?? So then how did they get hit if theres no way they were even near each other?

  • @aaliyah2031
    @aaliyah2031 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Praying for his family hope there ok🙏🏽

  • @iamalexatapia
    @iamalexatapia ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Rest in peace Julius 🙏🏼🕊️

  • @FittinToGet
    @FittinToGet ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Did the parents look at the car and do they understand physics?

  • @Beingserious_ur_retart3d
    @Beingserious_ur_retart3d ปีที่แล้ว +4

    First they got freaking linked then got hated on and now this ... its sad how it had to happen to them

  • @movingforwardfco1587
    @movingforwardfco1587 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    In today's times with all the camera on stop lights, gas stations, restaurants, car dealer ships and so on. With a city of this size and all the traffic no one saw anything? Come on. Get the description of this out there. If they did it once they will do it again. God bless the family. Karma will always come to knock on their door.

  • @Calihoodjournal4
    @Calihoodjournal4 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This kids older bro a cheater , player , and lies about racing killing his lil bro , witnesses don’t lie

  • @Ariesayshiii
    @Ariesayshiii ปีที่แล้ว +1

    prayers going out to Julian’s family 🩶🙏🏼

  • @ripgbe
    @ripgbe ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Who goes 120 to boxing practice

    • @gaelgarcia1077
      @gaelgarcia1077 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      And then it switched up to “picking up a friend” lmao on the way to the plug

  • @AnisaRivera-mq5km
    @AnisaRivera-mq5km ปีที่แล้ว +4

    hope they recover soon

  • @Brekstahkid
    @Brekstahkid ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My condolences

  • @carrietorres4964
    @carrietorres4964 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Literally walking distance from my house 😢 RIP handsome 💙

  • @evecornell7785
    @evecornell7785 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😢 praying for you guys 🙏💯

  • @cooperparts
    @cooperparts ปีที่แล้ว +3

    New cars are not safe at 45 mph and you get killed something don’t add up

  • @Unknown-qo8wh
    @Unknown-qo8wh ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This is why you don't speed smh

  • @lovesara2209
    @lovesara2209 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This is hard may he rest easy 😢poor dude the bro that was driving i hope he gets help my lil cousen was 16 accidently shot by his even younger bro whom was 12 playing in his dads room with dads gun when it went off shooting my 16 year old cousin in chest as he was walking twards his dads room too check on his lil bro he crawled too living room where he died his lil bro now 27 his in streets on drugs and he never forgave himself for what he did 😢

  • @leechjim8023
    @leechjim8023 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Were,nt they wearing seatbelts?!!

    • @albertomendoza4428
      @albertomendoza4428 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Nope

    • @Guth10
      @Guth10 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@albertomendoza4428should’ve wore that seatbelt

    • @donarthiazi2443
      @donarthiazi2443 ปีที่แล้ว

      Imbecile. Well, now a dead Imbecile 😵‍💫

    • @adriana16062_
      @adriana16062_ ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Guth10u act like seatbelts are gonna protect 3 skinny kids from a truck crashing into them gtfo ur weird

  • @alexismontalvo5099
    @alexismontalvo5099 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Think the answers is he was speeding and was intoxicated

    • @stephglams
      @stephglams ปีที่แล้ว +9

      lies!

    • @whensocietychanged
      @whensocietychanged ปีที่แล้ว +26

      So because he’s a teen you assume he was intoxicated and speeding???? not all teens are like that stop assuming smh🤦‍♀️

    • @s6ntana
      @s6ntana ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@whensocietychanged witnesses were even saying he was speeding he ws acting crazy w his new car 🤦🏽‍♂️

    • @makenziavila2925
      @makenziavila2925 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      "police say impairment was not a factor." why dont you listen

    • @donarthiazi2443
      @donarthiazi2443 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@s6ntana
      Yeah it's pretty clear these idiots were drinking and speeding.... and not wearing their seatbelts.
      Oh well ⚰

  • @glo5217
    @glo5217 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    things can change so fast.

  • @had7076
    @had7076 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    LLJ💔 rest easy

  • @Korthyte
    @Korthyte ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Damn this hurts

  • @12creamy_tips
    @12creamy_tips ปีที่แล้ว +1

    May julius rest in peace 💕🙏🕊💐🙁

  • @__i.heart.myself
    @__i.heart.myself ปีที่แล้ว

    ....bro I feel so bad for the family and his gf...like they're my favorite couple on tt...bro I wish I could hug them rn

  • @pimiralii
    @pimiralii ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This story is all over tiktok so sad

  • @BrandonSanchez-bc7cz
    @BrandonSanchez-bc7cz ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What abt Mel is she okay glad that y’all okay R.I.P Julius😢

  • @vanessacazares2615
    @vanessacazares2615 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Is there any license plate reader in the area ?

  • @lovrjada
    @lovrjada ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Stop speeding and stop not wearing seatbelts !

  • @Sleewpyiii
    @Sleewpyiii ปีที่แล้ว +1

    OMg this is a lot for him and his gf his brother just and someone is out there leaking inappropriate videos of him and his gf. They don’t this as kids I know they going through it right now

  • @jasurmom3981
    @jasurmom3981 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    rip Julius 🙏

  • @laurakyplain2413
    @laurakyplain2413 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    16 year old drivers??

  • @grivlergilliver7340
    @grivlergilliver7340 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bless your hearts.

  • @kimmyclaso9449
    @kimmyclaso9449 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hey guys I'm so confused did Mel boyfriend die or Mel boyfriend's brother die?

    • @melarie205
      @melarie205 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      brother and hes her ex now

  • @sillylilsisi
    @sillylilsisi 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    im so sorry for juli, his brother, his family, n meli, this is a warning to buckle ur seatbelts.

  • @352naee
    @352naee ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Im a big fan of them.

  • @Sd.aracely
    @Sd.aracely ปีที่แล้ว

    R.i.p juluis

  • @sillylilsisi
    @sillylilsisi 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    you see it’s y’all’s carelessness that causes these situations!! yall r heartless! oh bless that kind soul julis n his family n brother, n meli jus…buckle y’all seatbelts pls 😭🙏🏽

  • @petefroehling8704
    @petefroehling8704 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    heavitos are awful drivers

  • @GudJonnyCakes
    @GudJonnyCakes ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My condolences to the family but he should have been realistic the NBA is a brotherhood they literally pick who they want to be on the team and unless you're in basketball camps by the time you're five years old up until you're eighteen you'll never be in the NBA

    • @mwuahahahahaa
      @mwuahahahahaa ปีที่แล้ว

      Shut up

    • @itz_vintagesunset6405
      @itz_vintagesunset6405 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That’s what Julius was trying to do though, he knew he had to be 18 to play in the NBA but until then, he wanted to get better at basketball, so never say that he couldn’t ever be in the NBA.

  • @whiteobama1396
    @whiteobama1396 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    no seatbelt...😔

  • @synthWizkid
    @synthWizkid ปีที่แล้ว

    Wear your seat belts kids

  • @AlmightyMauMau
    @AlmightyMauMau ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Let’s guess the Amigo…I mean reckless driver 🤬

  • @snowery2980
    @snowery2980 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    smoking that pack

    • @ruffles9261
      @ruffles9261 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Crazy😭💀

    • @seleahlevario2980
      @seleahlevario2980 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      That’s not even funny wth

    • @sillylilsisi
      @sillylilsisi 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      y’all r heartless people 😭

    • @sillylilsisi
      @sillylilsisi 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      you see it’s y’all’s carelessness that causes these situations!!

  • @dinerocochino5296
    @dinerocochino5296 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Speeding

  • @abb13333
    @abb13333 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    what about caca girl how is she?

    • @jazmin.chavez__
      @jazmin.chavez__ ปีที่แล้ว +2

      the video said she’s still fighting for her life, but honestly i hope she’s okay ❤️

    • @niya6052
      @niya6052 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Her cousin posted that she had woke up last week

  • @AaronSmith-ed6lf
    @AaronSmith-ed6lf ปีที่แล้ว

    🙏❤

  • @the_grassy_noel
    @the_grassy_noel ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😭💔🙏🏻

  • @nya.7569
    @nya.7569 ปีที่แล้ว

    omfg.

  • @hyphydan
    @hyphydan ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Si cuema cuh

  • @Mrluv2step
    @Mrluv2step ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Story skr8 bullshi.

  • @_DB.COOPER
    @_DB.COOPER ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Keep voting democrat! Smh…

    • @FTA.2703
      @FTA.2703 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      What does this have to do with the video? Quickly 🎤

    • @niya6052
      @niya6052 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bro what

    • @mvyli
      @mvyli ปีที่แล้ว

      wtf ts gon do

    • @_DB.COOPER
      @_DB.COOPER ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@FTA.2703 lawlessness is not only created but it’s enhanced by democrats. Glad I could help.

    • @_DB.COOPER
      @_DB.COOPER ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Littlelili346 I swear you are way to obsessed with people who are obsessed with politics!

  • @DanielSilva-m2h
    @DanielSilva-m2h ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg i saw. That car it look the sameee

  • @carlos29gonzalez.72
    @carlos29gonzalez.72 ปีที่แล้ว

    😢😥🥺🤦🏽‍♂️😓

  • @aaliyah2031
    @aaliyah2031 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Rip🙏🏽🙏🏽🤍

  • @s6uth
    @s6uth ปีที่แล้ว

    Dam

  • @a.bcdefghijklmnopqrtuvwxyz
    @a.bcdefghijklmnopqrtuvwxyz ปีที่แล้ว +1

    it’s the boys fault

    • @itz_vintagesunset6405
      @itz_vintagesunset6405 ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s nobody’s fault, it’s the driver’s fault for hitting Julian’s car and took off, Julius was killed in that crash, the guy in the white car is a murderer.

    • @a.bcdefghijklmnopqrtuvwxyz
      @a.bcdefghijklmnopqrtuvwxyz ปีที่แล้ว

      @@itz_vintagesunset6405 the brother is a murderer

    • @itz_vintagesunset6405
      @itz_vintagesunset6405 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@a.bcdefghijklmnopqrtuvwxyz Stop it, no he’s not, Julian loves his little brother, why would he ever do something to hurt him and his family!? Do you know how ignorant and stupid you sound? the guy who hit them and drove off is the real murderer.

    • @sillylilsisi
      @sillylilsisi 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@a.bcdefghijklmnopqrtuvwxyzHOW DARE U.

  • @a.a.a.8365
    @a.a.a.8365 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    🤔❔️

  • @ONEFREESTATEOFPALESTINE
    @ONEFREESTATEOFPALESTINE ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I remember back in the early 80s Blacks were not permitted in Glendale after dusk. How cool was that?

    • @rin7568
      @rin7568 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      theyre not black..

    • @joseegonzales553
      @joseegonzales553 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@rin7568 there still people of color

    • @bezhy
      @bezhy ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@joseegonzales553 color not being black 💀

    • @aaliyah9507
      @aaliyah9507 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@joseegonzales553 still not black smh always tryna involve black people

    • @glitter_world_tour1630
      @glitter_world_tour1630 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      wth

  • @lmediocregamerl
    @lmediocregamerl ปีที่แล้ว +18

    So basically, they weren't wearing seatbelts? Great job, parents.

    • @bezhy
      @bezhy ปีที่แล้ว +27

      how is that the parents fault 💀 thats all on him

    • @geoff9480
      @geoff9480 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@bezhy they let him drive unlicensed. Make that make sense

    • @ruffles9261
      @ruffles9261 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@bezhy real💀

    • @bezhy
      @bezhy ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@geoff9480 i was talking about the seatbelts when did i ever say that... 💀💀

    • @geoff9480
      @geoff9480 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@bezhy they wouldnt worry bout no seatbelts if the parents never let hb behind the wheel anyway

  • @ljs5757
    @ljs5757 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can't imagine the heartache his family is going through but simply seat belt seat belt seat belt seat belt seat belt seat belt drum it into your kids head maybe that kid would still be alive

  • @teresaesquivel2040
    @teresaesquivel2040 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I STEAL TAILGATES FOR THIS YOUNG MAN

  • @Beingserious_ur_retart3d
    @Beingserious_ur_retart3d ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I wish it was me and not them i hate my life

    • @a.bcdefghijklmnopqrtuvwxyz
      @a.bcdefghijklmnopqrtuvwxyz ปีที่แล้ว

      i don’t even know them

    • @Beingserious_ur_retart3d
      @Beingserious_ur_retart3d ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@a.bcdefghijklmnopqrtuvwxyz basically they got into a car crash i should've told her what was going to happen to her I knew this would happen so I blame my self

    • @mwuahahahahaa
      @mwuahahahahaa ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Beingserious_ur_retart3dyou dont know them😭😭 rhey were abusive to eachother

  • @pjj12345789
    @pjj12345789 ปีที่แล้ว

    Where were the tears at lady. Pretty fake to me.

  • @nya.7569
    @nya.7569 ปีที่แล้ว

    prayers for them.❤️❤️‍🩹 I got shocked when it happened.

  • @adamafam4412
    @adamafam4412 ปีที่แล้ว

    Explain in Fortnite terms?

  • @JocelynFerman-p1y
    @JocelynFerman-p1y ปีที่แล้ว +130

    Rip julius🙏 and i hope Melanie and Julian are ok i hope she wakes up:(

    • @claradenisse1111
      @claradenisse1111 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      She woke up a week ago and is recovering now

    • @koobie83
      @koobie83 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​​@@claradenisse1111 Late reply, but I was trying to find an answer to if she is okay. I am glad melanie is alright, I hope she recovers well. Is julian alright?

    • @claradenisse1111
      @claradenisse1111 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@koobie83 yeah and they parted ways with each other