One Thing to End Self Sabotage | Alleah Friedrichs | TEDxGainesville
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 14 พ.ค. 2024
- There is one small thing most people do that keeps them stuck. And there is one small thing you can do to change it... and it's free! Watch while Alleah shares how she learned about this powerful move that changed her life, her business, and her finances from dissatisfaction and debt to joy and abundance! In 2013, after obtaining her MBA and working in clean technology, Alleah started Bliss Wine Imports - a company specializing in organic wine. Alleah’s strategy was to dismiss everything she learned while studying business and instead intentionally manage her thoughts and emotions as a way to foster inspired action. After successfully growing her company, in 2017 Alleah started teaching the process to rewire the brain, thoughts and emotions. Today she spends her time teaching her students how to manage emotions and change historical belief systems as a strategy to change their lives. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx
"I'm curious" - what a magnificent, empowering phrase! Alleah has the ability to distill thousands of hours of inspirational TH-cam videos into one simple and doable shift… so happy she finally got her TEDTalk! she deserves a worldwide audience… And people deserve to hear what she has to say
Thank you love!
“When we can change how we feel without anything else changing, everything can then change” sooo good!!!
that's it my love!
Positive vibrations operate on a higher frequency, I like her introspection on this subject. We don't have to learn to manifest, we already do it NOW, including self-sabotage, even though unconsciously, and if we spent more time thinking about what we're thinking about and re-route those thought channels that we've wired ourselves with new ones through awareness and inspired action, and you'll be surprised how much power we really have to change anything you want with discipline and consistency.
Absolutely. I still am in awe and get surprised at how this all works!
Fascinating to hear some of the neuroscience behind this. Great job Alleah!
There is so much more too!
Brilliant! The idea of being curious instead of confused or lost and imagining "how you will feel" once you achieve what you are moved to do has been life changing for me. Thank you Alleah!
YW!!!!
I am forever grateful I ran into your videos. Been catering to everything and everyone neglecting myself. Am extremely curious and excited on the baby-steps to my true happiness. Thank you!!! You ROCK!!!!
This is FANTASTIC...yes it is your time!!!
Wow! What a great message- we can CHOOSE the way we think about the things we think about. Curiosity as the portal to feeling better. Love it! Love it!!
Exactly!!!
Amazing story! I love that the tool you give to change everything is so simple, WOW!!
It's just a tiny but powerful example of what micro shifting can do!
I’m a creative person and I also experience the negative thoughts that stunt going for my dreams. Getting “curious” shifts me into openness and playfulness and joy! That’s what I want in my life: growing with joy! Thank you and well done, Alleah!
yes exactly!!!!! the shift is so easy, palpable and always works... immediate relief and ideas flow soon after!
Our mind is so powerful, thanks for reminding us about this fact! It's so important to landscape our thoughts.
absolutely... i love that "landscape our thoughts"
Changing "I don't know" to "I'm curious" is such a huge brain shift. Thanks so much for the reminder, Alleah! Hoping you get more recognition for your work in this field!
Thank you! This is just the beginning.
I’m a huge fan of anything Alleah. This TedX Talk is no exception. Love her simple and authentic approach to finding your best energies. Thank you, Alleah.
Thank you Eric! It's my pleasure of course.
“I’m curious what that would look like” is such a powerful energy shifter for me. Thank you!
It's a really powerful shift and start!!! Glad the message resonated!
Law of attraction in action! Love it! Such a powerful message✨💪🏼
Thank you!
Alleah performed this talk so well. Her whole body seems to be into it. Very inspiring.
Be curious: watch it!
Thank you for the feedback! It's exciting to share.
Wonderful testimony of how someone can come back from panic attacks to a life of wonder again!
yes!
Love this! “I’m curious” opens a window to let the breeze in. “I don’t know” slams the window shut and closes the shades!
Alleah's talk was inspiring and thought-provoking. Her concept that curiosity is life-changing resonated deeply as someone who practices conscious manifestation. Curiosity opens our minds to new possibilities and empowers co-creating our reality.
When approached with genuine curiosity instead of assumptions, we open to receiving insights and synchronicities that can shift our trajectory. I loved how Alleah encouraged getting curious about our curiosities - those sparks are messages from our higher selves, nudging us toward our authentic path.
By staying curious and following intuitive nudges, we manifest lives overflowing with purpose and passion. Curiosity is one of the most powerful tools for conscious creation. Thank you Alleah for this brilliant perspective!
Thank you Marcus for those beautiful words. I love how this stuff really resonates deeply with so many people. It's beautiful.
Changing how we feel before anything changes in reality! Yep that is exactly how it works! Brilliant talk! Being curious feels so much better than being discouraged or depressed or overwhelmed. Grateful that you got curious. Now it's my turn!! 😄
Awesome!!!! Yesssss let me know how it goes!
I love so much this talk! ❤ It inspires, invites, motivates, intrigues. It presents a solution to a common mistake in a simple way, yet so effective. 🎉❤🔥🌹
I will never ever forget the day (or where we were 🌴🇫🇯) when you first told me about your idea to start a wine importation business. You were so excited and you had such incredible plans. And look where you are now! Such an inspiration 🌟
I follow Alleah on TikTok and am constantly inspired by her. To hear her talk about her journey in more detail makes me feel even more connected to her! She’s an incredible force of energy and I firmly believe in the exercises she gifts us with to improve our own lives. Alleah, you rock!
Course correcting! So important to know we can always do this, but it takes awareness and the unending desire to reach your goal and faith that you can.
I love that we have the power to change our lives by changing our thoughts, by moving from fear and doubt into curiosity. It feels truly doable!
Yes .... this stuff is so powerful. And this small shift is such a great start.
“I’m curious” is such a quick way to shift into more positive thinking and get out of the scarcity mindset. Thank you for sharing this, Alleah!
absolutely!
I've been working with Alleah for the last six months, and she's just as dynamic in person and long-term! Her techniques have helped me move forward with ease and flow in areas I found challenging before.
Thanks Kate for the lovely words - it's been wonderful being on your journey with you!
I’ve watched this video 3 times! Shifting your mindset from “I don’t know” to “I’m curious” seems like such an empowering mind shift for finally obtaining a successful and fulfilling life. I’m curious, Alleah and can’t wait to begin my journey to a better life.
When I was in high school one of my football coaches lived by the statement “your mind should be like a sponge” I enjoyed hearing your take on how to harness that curiosity for positive outcomes. Nice job
Thanks Jeff...
I AM CURIOUS - sooo powerful! Got goosebumps listening to the opening story. Totally can relate.
Hehehehe glad you loved the story.
I am inspired to look at the things in my business that have me stuck and to get curious about them... Thank you, Alleah.
Absolutely! I had a client recently who was really "not sure" how to grow her business without having to do ALL THE WORK and effort it took to get to it's current level of success.... but she flexed being curious about it for a few days strongly, was able to stop saying "how will I ever..." and within a month or two a beautiful growth path presented itself. This isn't quick magic...but it always works.
Alleah is a one-off. Inspiring talk about an approach that nobody else thought about.
"I realized I had been focusing in the mechanics of growing a wine business.... which is very different than focusing on establishing wealth and ease in my life."
Wow, serious perspective shift as someone who is starting a business 🤯
I can instantly feel the energy change when I switch my thoughts from worry/doubt/not knowing to curiosity! So powerful!
It is so powerful! Thank you for the nice words!
Love this! Thanks Alleah! Inspiring, powerful and definitely life changing!
Your welcome, thank you for being here on this journey with me!
To be able to allow yourself to be curious and free think opens my thoughts each morning. Love the curiosity mantra.
such a good practice!!!
So inspiring and motivating- had to listen to it twice. A feel good talk that makes you smile the whole time.
So gladddddd the message resonated
This has me so inspired! My mind is blown! I actually have the power to change my life?? The mind is so powerful! Can’t wait 🙌🏼
YESSSSS
Alleah’s energy is contagious! Such a powerful message relayed so simply that anyone can use it. Everyone needs to hear this!
Thank you! So glad you found it helpful!
This was so perfectly timed for me! I've been waiting for inspired action for my next career and getting curious is so much better than feeling a time pressure! Oddly enough, something caught my eye this morning!!!! Love this TedX!!!!!
YES! this is precisely how this works...it's crazy and ideas come pretty quick
My life will feel how I choose to perceive it! I love that last line. If you can change how you're feeling without changing anything else!! It's like true alchemy.
exactly!
Such an incredible, powerful and true message. Please continue to spread this message. ❤
100% you know I will
@@LawofAttractionwithAlleah definitely did ❤️
"I don't know" This is removed from my vocabulary in my head. So simple and so powerful. I was at this amazing talk to experience live. Watching it again brought back all of the positive emotions from the months of coaching and group sessions in her Flow coaching program. I am reminded of how much Alleah has positively impacted my life and those I live and work with. I am forever grateful for her dedication to the nuances of her energy work and her willingness to share it with whoever it resonates with. If you are watching this for the first time, it is not by accident. Make this practice your full time job and YOU will have the tools to positively change your life forever!
Alleah always gives 100% with her positive, life-affirming words.
Thank you Donna!
Yes!! "I'm curious" has already changed me at my core, and I've been following Alleah for only a couple months. So grateful to have stumbled upon her very real, very attainable, and yet very empowering messages; just when I needed it most. So good to see her on the TEDx stage! Go Alleah!!
The shift in energy that comes with curiosity opens so many possibilities. Such a powerful message. And Alleah communicates it beautifully
Thank you!!!
Thank you for the reminder! Normally my husband isn’t nearly as excited for motivational TH-cam videos as me, but this one may finally get him with the “when you want to start a business, you get a business.” Thank you thank you!
I watch all of Alleah's videos on TikTok as well. She is a game changer. Thank you Alleah!!!
Your welcome and thanks for being in my circle!
Oh how my heart went out to her when she said it was her falling apart not the building
Not focusing on how to get the results you want is pretty standard in Law Of Attraction, but being curious gives it more energy and takes it to the next level. Can’t wait to see how this works!
It's crazy how powerful our minds are and what they do to our life.
This was exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you Alleah for your honesty, sharing your experience and for relaying it in a way that is understandable and relatable. “When we can change how we feel without anything else changing everything else can then change” truly resonates with me and I feel so inspired after watching this!
fantastic!!! let's gooo!!!
Comparing the thought pathways to railroad tracks was very effective, that will stay with me. The closing remark was fantastic : "When we can change how we feel without anything else changing, everything can then change." I feel like there's still hope for me after hearing this and I'm 55 years old!
that is a GREAT age to get into this stuff! you got it!
‘Im curious’ is my new guiding phrase. So much talk in this area feels disconnected from my everyday. This is a heartfelt way to do the work by first making it believable! And it feels good!👍
Boom! Yes.... believable and feeling good is key....and curiosity almost always works to unlock us!
“I’m curious…” Powerful! Thank you Alleah!
I love the idea of taking a negative thought that isn't serving you and making a small shift into something that is believable and feels better. Curiosity always feels better than doubt or uncertainty! Great talk!
it's all about the small shifts! the big ones often aren't believable and therefor don't work
Alleah is the best at helping you learn to manifest. After working with her, my energy level has doubled.
“I’m curious” is part of my morning routine. 👍 Thanks!
LOVE THIS TOM!
Changing how we look at things can reframe the mind. Alleah is so inspiring and authentic. Her message had never been so important. Keep it going Alleah! I loved getting to know you and love watching your journey to help others. Congrats!
Thanks Bonnie!!!
I love what you said - when you start a business - that's all you get - A business!! Focusing on our thoughts and intentionally being curious gets us to that life of flow of abundance!! Great job of taking us on this journey!!
Yes lol... that's it!
Yayyy!!! What a powerful woman! ALLEAH! She is the best coach who has helped me transform energy and quality of life!❤🎉
Heyyyyyy Maria! Thanks so much...working with you has been the best
Very inspiring, thank you Alleah!
“Be curious, feel better, take inspired action.” Writing that on my mirror.
Liked and shared.
yessssss!!!! write that up there!
Alleah just makes sense to me. I love the simplicity of this message!
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I love the simplicity, but the feeling that goes with “I’m curious”, is world changing!
Awareness is really what prompts change. You’re fortunate to have had that awareness. Thought processing tip are like golden nuggets! Thank you!!
Alleah speaks from her own experience which is very inspirational. We all hold the power to change our lives by simply changing our thoughts to being curious rather than not knowing. Saying "I don't know" will not help you manifest what you want in your life!
Such a strong message! Changing our lives by changing our thoughts!! Great lesson!
It's true!!! Did you feel the shift with the curiosity exercise?
A great reminder and powerful examples: trade uncertainty for curiosity. A great TEDx!
thank you!!!!
Wonderful message and wonderfully delivered. Love how you’ve found your path into ease and abundance and let us participate and learn!!
Thank you so much :)
Excellent! I love that you include time frames - it helps me maintain my patience and focus.
YESSSS lol no quick magic.... but it really speeds up when you make the energy alignment a PRIORITY every day... it can get quick...not overnight.... but it's impressive
What you describe is most certainly an effective approach to changing one's life for the better! Outlook and outcomes are very tightly coupled and your message boils this down to something that is clear and focused. Great job Alleah!
Thanks so much! I'm so glad you feel it's effective!
WOW ease of curiosity allows you to feel better with less resistance and the power of LOA begins!❤
yes!!!! let's gooooo!
Fantastic Alleah! I love the journey you took us on, that leads to the power of curiosity changing our lives!
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I love listening to Alleah she helps me to re-set my thought process into a much more productive process. I am very grateful and am looking forward to more curious adventures.
Pefect plan!
Everything can change. Because of your TikToks I am not obsessed with changing my mindset. Thank you!
nice!!!!
The body expresses what the mind suppresses. Beautiful
ah haaa... yes
Love it! Being curious is such a great advice. It’s so powerful and get’s me out of my “ Don’t know what/how”-thinking!
Yes! My 4year old now catches me sometimes if I say "I don't know where your toy is" lololol
Inspired action!! my new favorite phrase! I love the message that she presents, and the reminder that we have to change our thoughts before our circumstances change! A very well spoken TEDtalk!!
Thank you!!!
That was great! Just what I needed to hear! I'm starting on my own business but I've been saying those exact words! I want to help others but I don't know how! It's changing today to "I will help others and I am being guided by my higher beings to do so perfectly!"❤ thank you!
EXACTLY!!!! Do this as much as you can and you will start to get idea...give yourself a few months to percolate this energy and let things start to unfold!
Change Your Thinking Change Your Life... Great Talk Alleah..Thanks for sharing your authentic self.
absolutely.
I loved the classes I took with you.
What I learned is a tattoo, so to speak, in my brain of that constant ease of shift in my thoughts.
Changed my life story with you was just the beginning. ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉 Congrats on your tedx talk. Loved it, love you.😊
Choosing curiosity is one of the most valuable concepts I’ve learned from you. Love this! Thank you for sharing your wisdom 🦉
And I’ll add my second favorite concept I’ve learned from you is that of the micro shift. I cannot tell you how often I think of you as I embrace a micro shift! Every positive change, no matter how small, shifts us towards our goals.
@@CrystalLifeBlessings exactly!!!!!! so happy that you are quickly absorbing this stuff... well done! you are ready and doing it!!!
This is great, Alleah! Can definitely feel the energy shift when I try this!
sweet! yeah it works for me every time lol
Yes, I'm leaning into my curiosity about my goals & dreams. And yes, life changes when you are a master of your own emotions. Well said ❤
soooo good.
So simple, yet the best things usually are!
Thank you! It all really is simple
Aleah really explains the power of thought and intention to really open your life to all possibilities
So on point Alleah! Thank you for your authenticity and sage guidance 🙏🏻❤️
Your welcome and thank you for being here with me!
This TEDx is fantastic. Learning we can change how we think and how it can change life and how we feel is amazing. I'm starting today!
Thank you Alleah! I AM CURIOUS! ❤
hehehhe awesome and me too!
Changing my thought pattern from I don't know to curiosity is life-changing. Thank you for sharing your wisdom.
absolutely!
I absolutely loved your talk Alleah! I was engaged the entire time and it was the perfect thing to listen to right in this moment! It’s been amazing to witness you from afar as we did this TEDx journey… And I’m so incredibly excited with how you nailed it! In fact I’m going to sit with your action step further today as it’s exactly what I’ve been contemplating😍😍😍
Amazing! The journey has been incredible! Yes curiosity is best left to simmer a bit. :)
Wow !!! Is what came to mind after listening to this! Very empowering and definitely something I will start doing. “I am curious” I can see how this phrase shifts the perspective and opens up endless possibilities. Love it ♥️🌟
Oh I love the reframe she gives around the 6:50 mark. My go to for replacing "I don't know" was "I'm excited to find out" but that's a really good one too!
What an amazing Ted Talk! Love it! And I can definitely relate to the idea of "inspired action" feeling so much easier/natural/freeing than the alternative.
yessssssss!!!!!
You are glowing and so energized up there. It looks GREAT on you! This is SO SO EXCITING❤
thank you!
Alleah!!! Thank you for this and for Everything you do!!! Your teaching and is so powerful and yet your message is profound and simple! Wonderful!
So glad you loved it Art!
Thank you for sharing this work - it’s pretty incredible. You’re awesome, Alleah!
Thank you love!
I love this Alleah! You're my inspiration! Thank you!
100%
"I’m curious” Thank you for sharing this, Alleah!
Well done Alleah
I was a speech major in college and my biggest fear was losing my audience
You did a Great Job speaking
altering your voice inflection and body language and kept my attention the whole time
I already know your message so I thought I would contribute something else
This was so inspiring! I'm feeling excited to add "I'm curious..." to my internal vocab and see how things change for me. I'm so happy to have recently found you and I'm grateful for all that I've learned so far, thank you!
Perfect pland and I'm glad you found me too! Welcome!
Alleah, this is it…when we can change how we feel, without anything changing, everything can then change. ❤ I practice this everyday, some days easier than others 😂.