How to Correct a mistake without Hurting Others Feelings?| Buddhism In English

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  • @ms.beverly3905
    @ms.beverly3905 2 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    I am a Christian since birth, but honestly Buddhist teaching gives me comfort, wisdom and Inner Peace. I Meditate and it cures my deppression, hatred in my heart, jelousy, greed among many others, thanks to this kind of video, it gives us since of direction in this very chaotic world...

    • @krudoh9610
      @krudoh9610 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Did Buddhist believe in Jesus Christ

    • @csflower
      @csflower 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@krudoh9610 I believe Buddha, Moses and Jesus are best friends in the Heavenly realm. Their being born and living among us teaching us Truth has been a part of God’s overall plan to teach every nation. You read the Torah, the New Testament and Buddha teachings they are all the same - religion can separate us and makes us judgmental, or proud, but the core beliefs are the same. We all serve the The One God who created us all when we serve one another.

    • @mariabejaranomonge2183
      @mariabejaranomonge2183 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just the same! 🙏

    • @myratravin9588
      @myratravin9588 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You can be a Buddhist and a Christian. I am. ❤️

    • @Mootown-lz6uh
      @Mootown-lz6uh หลายเดือนก่อน

      Couldn't agree more!!

  • @anomakahawandala6816
    @anomakahawandala6816 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Show a mistake,
    1. In the proper time (when in calm mind)
    2. In private ( not in public)
    3. Truthfull things to the correct person (correct accusation) using kind & gentle words
    4. In a benificial way (praise his good qualities & show the mistake)
    5. Speak with a compassionate heart

  • @dollym.8095
    @dollym.8095 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    1. Talk privately when telling the person. Speak to the person who did the mistake directly
    2. Speak gentle and kind words when explaining mistakes. No harsh or rude words
    3. Speak in the right time, not when they are angry, sad etc
    4. Give value to his profession but you are doing the mistake and they harmful efects of it
    5. Speak of loving kindness

  • @evelin9708
    @evelin9708 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am realy getting changed with your encourangment please keep it up

  • @SarayHDanh
    @SarayHDanh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Sadhu Sadhu Sadhu
    Thank Buddha, and
    Thank You!

  • @pradnyajadhav4437
    @pradnyajadhav4437 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Namo buddhay 🙏🙏🙏🌹💐🌹💐🌹 vandami bhanteji 🙏🙏🙏🌹💐🌹💐🌹🙏🇮🇳🙏🇱🇰🙏🌹

  • @radhasen.animalwelfare.5644
    @radhasen.animalwelfare.5644 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Subscribed with happiness..
    Buddhism is truly what religion should be - a peaceful, disciplined, thought provoking way of life.
    So much wisdom in Buddhism.
    And unlike other religions such as Islam, Christianity which uses their texts as a matter of convenience and to control...
    Buddhism is so tolerant, teaches non violence, respect for all forms of life, tranquility and the deeper meaning of life.
    Its the most peaceful religion with a live and let live attitude.
    Though I was born a hindu on my father's death anniversary, I did the buddhist prayer.

  • @nisargan9535
    @nisargan9535 2 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    How to make peace with our own mistakes! Please do video in this

    • @Samir-kz8gb
      @Samir-kz8gb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes

    • @lydiakombrink349
      @lydiakombrink349 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Samir-kz8gb wat is de naam van deze fijne man?

  • @Sollozo1053
    @Sollozo1053 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Wisdom is with us. Try to realize that.❤

  • @M.Ojha9435
    @M.Ojha9435 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you
    Namo Buddhaya

  • @rellisamajam4941
    @rellisamajam4941 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Namo buddhaya..🙏🙏🙏💐💐💐💐

  • @factas7196
    @factas7196 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Our kindness and love is the most powerful weapon in our life 🧬namo bhuddhay

  • @renatobarajasm.3388
    @renatobarajasm.3388 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    What a lovely person! 😍

    • @kushymathai9821
      @kushymathai9821 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes he is his words are so precious 👍👍

  • @jenifatavares8761
    @jenifatavares8761 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Great are your teachings n very beautifully explained...from Goa.

  • @herawijaya9709
    @herawijaya9709 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Anumodhana Bhante🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @AstonishingRolex1718
    @AstonishingRolex1718 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is mind blowing. Love from TN (India)

  • @navakirandandu6107
    @navakirandandu6107 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great solution sir namo budhaya

  • @upekhapeiris4159
    @upekhapeiris4159 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Namo buddhaya...Theruwan saranai...

  • @suethai7359
    @suethai7359 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Namobudhaya thank you so much Ajan🙏🙏🙏

  • @bhavanasriram2148
    @bhavanasriram2148 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank you sir 🙏🙏🙏
    Nammo buddhaya 🙏
    By watching videos I have been motivated ,inspired thankyou sir 🙏

    • @kushymathai9821
      @kushymathai9821 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      My name is Kushy Mathai live in USA.i really learn a lots of knowledgable informations.you know his name.i want thank him with his precious name.👍👍

  • @matarasriyani9256
    @matarasriyani9256 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Namo buddhaya! Theruwan saranai.!🙏🙏🙏

  • @bhumitaudeshi9660
    @bhumitaudeshi9660 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Namo buddhay
    🌻🌺

  • @sasikumarthiyagarajah521
    @sasikumarthiyagarajah521 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thanks again for the good lesson 🙏

  • @savitanaiken9620
    @savitanaiken9620 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you very much . Your videos are excellent, whole day I keep on listening to your videos. Now waiting for your next video.....

  • @dinalibhagya1570
    @dinalibhagya1570 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    i started watching this early in the morning and after that this made my whole day and also in future..always be grateful for these words uttered by this thero..Namo Budhhaya

  • @pemlhamulepcha2815
    @pemlhamulepcha2815 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Thank you for such a good lesson.. ❣️

  • @karenng848
    @karenng848 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Love listening to your talking and giving your kind advice. They are awesome.🙏🙏🙏

  • @shashanidhanujika6415
    @shashanidhanujika6415 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Namo Bhuddhaya🙏🌸

  • @shalinibhagat3282
    @shalinibhagat3282 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Namo buddhay and Vandami Bhante it’s awesome to hear the words of wisdom.

  • @marciadesouza3314
    @marciadesouza3314 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You have taught us something really very nice on how to correct people's mistakes. I just want to say to you in today's world 🌎 people in the first place, should know how to address other people. Can you please talk something about "ANGRY PEOPLE" telling them how control their tempers and how to respect others. I would Love to hear that. 🙏🙌🙏. Thank-you!👏👋👏

  • @fx.nugraha9586
    @fx.nugraha9586 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Namyo buddha🙏

  • @jocelynpinatang2665
    @jocelynpinatang2665 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    it always give peace and wisdom..on how to deal with others..big thank you..

  • @preethimunna894
    @preethimunna894 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Namo Buddhaya🦋❤️❤️❤️❤️🦋

  • @habibi9223
    @habibi9223 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Namo buddhay...!🍁
    bhante can you please teach us 32 parts of body meditation...

  • @astheticshorts5602
    @astheticshorts5602 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you. Namo Buddhaya🙏

  • @vanisekharjayasriharsha
    @vanisekharjayasriharsha 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    ☸️ Namo ☸️ Buddhaya ☸️

  • @neciforaleis3090
    @neciforaleis3090 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I feel.blessed having these teachings to experience great peace within me.I feel great having you brother who continually shares to all how to live peacefully in different dimensions in life.YOU are perfectly sent to us to reflect ,realize and renew ourselves to a higher level.of being a good person.Thank you and I subscribe to your page in series.

  • @olivermatias2349
    @olivermatias2349 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    ❤️👌💯thank you! 😊😚🙏

  • @geethasandran9543
    @geethasandran9543 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Something is connecting with all your topic

  • @shrutijoshi553
    @shrutijoshi553 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Well explained venerable 🙏

  • @lakshmicv9696
    @lakshmicv9696 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    what a talk! like to hear again & again. All the msgs are mind blowing. I became very quite n soft. Thank you.

  • @tikagurung9338
    @tikagurung9338 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    🙏🙏🙏☸️💐💐💐Wandana BhanteJiu Hajur Sadhu Sadhu Sadhu Bhawatu Sabba Manglam!!!

  • @reborn4450
    @reborn4450 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for your kind wisdom. I have to say that I watched this video all too late. As I made all of these mistakes with my former boss. I brought up my former bosses mistakes while there were other bosses around. I didn't realize this made the boss look bad. And I regret it but I cannot go back and fix anything because I have already left the job on an unpleasant note. I really wish I knew all of this before. Now I feel really bad. Now I see why the boss thought I was looking for trouble when in actuality, those were not my intentions. I was trying to prove why I was making mistakes because I didn't know better. But now I know better.

  • @mariabejaranomonge2183
    @mariabejaranomonge2183 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks! You are the kindness and compassion in person. 🙏🤗✨✨✨✨

  • @erwinmoon9449
    @erwinmoon9449 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you for the enlightenment.

  • @sreelakshmisuresh3425
    @sreelakshmisuresh3425 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks for being our guru

  • @jennifersmallwood
    @jennifersmallwood ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for this lecture 🙏🏻 I have written down all 5 points by hand and will pin them towards my fridge. I am usually a very kind and loving person but there is one person in my life, that hurts me so much with her words that it is very hard to follow your advise but I will work on this from now on. Buddha has been a great teacher and still is. Thank you for being there for us on this channel. 🙏🏻 Namaste. ❤

  • @suram4213
    @suram4213 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thankyou

  • @jyotibharti8449
    @jyotibharti8449 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Buddha's teaching give me peace whenever I watch. Thank you🙏

  • @tharukahettiarachchi687
    @tharukahettiarachchi687 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m a catholic since birth, but this teaching is helping me to over come depression.

    • @jenswohlgemuth6961
      @jenswohlgemuth6961 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thats awsome, good work! Many blessinnngs🙏☸✝❤
      Can also reccomend Ajahn Brahm his teachings are very helpfull, sincere and even relaxing. Helps me deal with stuff too.

  • @k.pathirana.8868
    @k.pathirana.8868 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🙏🌺🙏🌺🙏🌺. තෙරුවන් සරණයි. ඔබ වහන්සේට නමස්කාර වේවා. සාදු.සාදු.සාදු.

  • @alicenarengbam4088
    @alicenarengbam4088 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Quite correct Thanks

  • @BCJeewantha
    @BCJeewantha ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Namo Bhuddhay I am one of his dama students his indiveidual videos give me peace and solve my everyday problums😊

    • @BCJeewantha
      @BCJeewantha ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That is very true he does solve problums with his videos😂😅😊

  • @madhuri2551
    @madhuri2551 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you so much❤❤❤

  • @mounikabantu2383
    @mounikabantu2383 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    🙏🙏🙏 exactly sir but some people are like this to show mistakes around others... what will do... please show mistakes privately or personally... don't show mistakes around others please 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏and also first to know either that mistake or anything is correct or not to show before others please 🙏🙏🙏

  • @deepalitambe5008
    @deepalitambe5008 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Sadu 🌺🌺 Sadu 🌺🌺 Sadu 🌺🌺 Bhante 💐 Namo Buddhay 💐 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @teetrav
    @teetrav ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I used to be harsh on people that made mistakes until I realized that mistakes are what makes us human what makes us have humility what makes us more compassionate towards one another and the opportunity to correct it is even better

  • @slnaturerelax9364
    @slnaturerelax9364 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Namo buddhaya 🙏🙏🙏

  • @manishamotivates
    @manishamotivates 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Grateful!

    • @vambaligowda7535
      @vambaligowda7535 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Where are you from...looks are from Srilanka...I want to learn sinhalese language, how can I learn it...

  • @sivapalanmayuran3093
    @sivapalanmayuran3093 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @thearcherofjustice1492
    @thearcherofjustice1492 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This reminds me of how I used to deal with such a situation at my former hospital work : I did figure out instinctively that I had best wait for the proper time of the day or week to choose the perfect timing and tell my (hysterical natured but with sense of humor and in excellent mood on specific days to my woman boss 😂 and add a bit of Chocolate treat just before. It always worked ☺️

  • @yentenzangmo1953
    @yentenzangmo1953 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Watching from Bhutan 🙏💜

  • @nancyparena1685
    @nancyparena1685 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for sharing it's such a great lesson to learn what we need to do especially to our childrens to correct their wrong deeds❤️,🙏

  • @dec66.18
    @dec66.18 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    As always , great lesson Bhante.Thank you.

  • @rter1568
    @rter1568 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Namo buddhaya..!

  • @crystaldance5731
    @crystaldance5731 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What a wonderful teacher you are I so needed to see and hear this lesson right now I will take it on board and follow your advice nammobudyha sir ❤️😊🙏

  • @siskazikekana5819
    @siskazikekana5819 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are exceptional. Stay blessed

  • @yasmminkalpesi4605
    @yasmminkalpesi4605 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very nice. Thank you. Namo Buddhaya. 🙏🙏🙏🌹🌹🌹👍👍👍💐💐💐❤️❤️❤️

  • @jsuleman4595
    @jsuleman4595 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is true wisdom & kindness.
    Do we all not wish to be treated this way.
    Thank you.

  • @sridarmogar89
    @sridarmogar89 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you so much sir.

  • @shatveekareddy3497
    @shatveekareddy3497 ปีที่แล้ว

    today this teaching gave big awareness ,this teaching saved my friendship , thanks a lot ,Namo buddhaya

  • @lambenyengir9673
    @lambenyengir9673 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wish you always be healthy n happy

  • @SarahBlaylock-u8g
    @SarahBlaylock-u8g ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for this message. YOU ARE SUCH A WONDERFUL PERSON.😊😊

  • @akshatsinha6991
    @akshatsinha6991 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great.

  • @anomakahawandala6816
    @anomakahawandala6816 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    බොහෝම පින් ස්වාමීනි .

  • @idukkatuamma6003
    @idukkatuamma6003 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    🙏🙏🙏Thank you

  • @jamisedenari2449
    @jamisedenari2449 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Some people dont understand nice words.

  • @doctorbuddha3023
    @doctorbuddha3023 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Jai Bhim Namo Buddhay

  • @themiserykid
    @themiserykid ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sadly, I dropped out of college and never returned after being humiliated by a professor because I didn't understand the lesson fast enough. He is so right, it damaged my personality. I was so crushed in front of my peers, I left school and still have a phobia of classroom setting to this day! I actually started my own business to avoid college and having to be taught anything I couldn't teach myself, sigh.

    • @Rita-Flora
      @Rita-Flora ปีที่แล้ว

      Io venni umiliato da un professore universitario davanti a tutta la classe e quindi me ne andai.
      Non potevo fare diversamente. Ancora oggi non rieco a dimenticare quanto mi accadde 45 anni fa!

  • @shaguftasheikh5337
    @shaguftasheikh5337 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What a wonderful a sweet and wonderful way of correcting people, to keep moving forward, without offending. Thank you. 💐❤️💐❤️🙏🙏11:42

  • @virginiacosta1998
    @virginiacosta1998 ปีที่แล้ว

    feel immensely grateful for the messages you convey. With all the knowledge, all the reflection and wisdom that are already part of my daily life. Thanks a thousand!!!🙏🙏💯👏👏💐🤩🇧🇷

  • @abdullaheusufzai4149
    @abdullaheusufzai4149 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why a brilliant and wise approach …thank you!!

  • @katylloyd1616
    @katylloyd1616 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just really royally messed up by speaking harshly with someone I was angry with. I immediately felt bad and apologised but I know I have done wrong and want to do better in the future. Thank you for this video

  • @anushak4408
    @anushak4408 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    When we did a mistake and we knew that is a big mistake how to resolve it and if we lose trust in us by doing this mistake how to gain that trust again. ?

  • @dawnmyatmyint4885
    @dawnmyatmyint4885 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sadhu Sadhu Sadhu 🙏🙏🙏Thank you Bhante for your teaching ofBuddha's saying. I Realize five ways of `How to correct a mistake without hurting other's feeling '.🌹🙏

  • @lazzodan9915
    @lazzodan9915 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you soo sooooo soooo much

  • @chathuriniyapa691
    @chathuriniyapa691 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    ❤️🙏

  • @lizahgondwe4489
    @lizahgondwe4489 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great teaching and I'm learning from each presentation. Thank you

  • @morungzkanz3665
    @morungzkanz3665 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Wanna meet you in real life my Guru

  • @HH-80
    @HH-80 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for sharing your valuable words and please never stop 🙏🏻

  • @nadz5182
    @nadz5182 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    🌸🙏

  • @ratnabahadurgurung9850
    @ratnabahadurgurung9850 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Namo Buddhaya.

  • @solomon9756
    @solomon9756 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really like your work, kindly I would like to know are you in Thailand?

    • @jokercults4511
      @jokercults4511 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Not this monk has sinhala name, means from Sri Lanka..

  • @flowergirl7260
    @flowergirl7260 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thank you.

  • @jawaharpawar1425
    @jawaharpawar1425 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Pujaneey bhanteji trivar panchyang parnam namo Buddha namo dhammay namo sanghay Sadhu Sadhu Sadhu

  • @enymlang3095
    @enymlang3095 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for your great job, and of course for your kind words 🙏

  • @Light-jc3fj
    @Light-jc3fj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    And if they become angry after you've shown them their mistake in private? Sometimes, if someone is abusive, you need to stand up to them.

  • @dr.rachnaarora4498
    @dr.rachnaarora4498 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    🙏🙏

  • @crystaldance5731
    @crystaldance5731 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wonderful lesson thankyou 😊❤️

  • @sudhakarreddypolam2432
    @sudhakarreddypolam2432 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    🛕🙏NAMO BUDDHAYA 🙏🙏NAMO NARAYANA 🙏🛕