Being a Girlfriend/Boyfriend and being a Wife/Husband are two amazing roles in a relationship, but they are exclusive from each other. There are certain things a man and woman should reserve for their marriage as marriage is a divine union like no other. Love & Respect should be a constant no matter what. There is nothing wrong with being a girlfriend/boyfriend, but there is something incredibly wrong with having expectations of a wife/husband, without making it OFFICIAL! I'm sure I'll ruffle a few feathers haha... but the distinction needs to be said. I'm just here to help ya'll not be disappointed, Peace & Blessings fam!👑
I've been with my husband for almost 32 years. We lost our oldest son 28 years ago. We lost everything a couple of times. God is so good. He gives us the strength to keep going. My husband and I enjoy your videos. You are a wonderful young man. Thank you for always giving us something to think about.
Enough respect to you Sealz Exactly to the point and on point Common sense plays a hudge role in one s mindset Your words and wisdom are so inspiring God bless you
This earned my subscription. Judge Toller, the second judge on Divorce Court, would be giving you maaaaaad kudos!!! I'm right there with her. Thank you for being traditional and for wanting the next generation to have clear guidelines and a strong foundation.
Such a poignant and necessary word💜 Now you have to do a video on the difference between boyfriend/girlfriend behaviors and husband/wife behaviors. It may seem obvious to some of us but I'm sure there are many that need some clarity.
So good. This is all to common even in Godly relationships, to many believers living as the world does having s*x before marriage will defile the marriage bed 🙏🏼
I agree it is separate and marriage is sacred. Boundaries are healthy here. I made the mistake when I young playing wifee. Today, I don’t like the term it just a setup for women to compromise.
Agreed. My boyfriend is my husband yet. He will not be responsible for me until we are married and vice versa. The dating scene these days is backward. Everyone wants spousal treatment with the commitment. No, sir. For those who use that stupid reasoning: "How will I know they're marriage material? " Easy, observe and get to know the person in their life as is. That'll tell you all you need to know.
Thank you so much Mr. Sealz. You are a blessing to this world. Keep up the amazing work. Your words of wisdom definitely have me thinking not only in terms of relationships but in terms of the uncompensated demands of my current career. Keep shining your light. Have a wonderful week.
No sex before marriage if you understand the sacredness of marriage. The Bible says no sex outside of marriage for a reason. First of all marriage is supposed to be a picture of our relationship to God. Secondly, ladies, you want your husband to know that on your wedding night, you're not comparing him to any other man. Also ladies, do yourself a favor and only date men who understand who you are right from the very first date. Tell him you want a MAN who is not comparing you to any other woman. Respect yourself and let him know you only want a MAN you can respect.
A lot of women feel as though they are fully taken care of if they are with their partner forever if unmarried, however, you need to make sure he is fully committed to you and not just wasting your time. If he's fully committed, he'll marry you. That way you can build your dynasty together. Thanks educating people
It should go both ways. As flattering as it is, women shouldn't treat their boyfriends like husbands and their husbands like boyfriends. Take on the responsibilities of the role WHEN YOU HAVE THE ROLE, not anytime before.
@@nathalian.7209Many years ago, persons married by promising to be committed to each other in a ceremony and there were no marriage licenses or certificates. There are many common-law marriages these days and no marriage certificates or licenses. So a "paper" is not really needed.
That is true..You have ppl teaching men and women thwy are already wives and husband's before they meet that person and that you don't start just when you get married it may not be a good match...we gotta be careful out here and im not sure if God recognizes bf gf either lol I guess internal values is what makes a person marry you the cooking cleaning etc is not necessarily wifely duties but the basics I guess it depends on perspectives
Thanks! This was perfectly said and really hard to hear. We forget especially when later in life and starting over that this becomes part of our cookie jar 🫙 less is always more and if you aren't sure silence shows us for sure.❤
Being a Girlfriend/Boyfriend and being a Wife/Husband are two amazing roles in a relationship, but they are exclusive from each other. There are certain things a man and woman should reserve for their marriage as marriage is a divine union like no other. Love & Respect should be a constant no matter what. There is nothing wrong with being a girlfriend/boyfriend, but there is something incredibly wrong with having expectations of a wife/husband, without making it OFFICIAL! I'm sure I'll ruffle a few feathers haha... but the distinction needs to be said. I'm just here to help ya'll not be disappointed, Peace & Blessings fam!👑
This is so true
❤ thank you for keeping us alert. Even the music such as " Wifey" by Next had gfs thinking & acting like wives only to be disappointed & replaced.
Sensibly, respect is given at the gate. It's a fair exchange between the two no matter the title. It's not expensive at all.
I feel this in my heart rn. I tell em all, I don't play, and they respect that. There can only be one, my only. ❤ Peace & Blessings y'all.
I've been with my husband for almost 32 years. We lost our oldest son 28 years ago. We lost everything a couple of times. God is so good. He gives us the strength to keep going. My husband and I enjoy your videos. You are a wonderful young man. Thank you for always giving us something to think about.
I think the reason why this has happened in the first place, is many men are no longer courting women to prepare for marriage
Real
I was used mightily. I repent, I changed, I will do better. Thank you Sealz!❤
True story, believe him ladies
I agree , women should understand this and adopt the same mindset towards this concept.
Enough respect to you Sealz
Exactly to the point and on point
Common sense plays a hudge role in one s mindset
Your words and wisdom are so inspiring
God bless you
This earned my subscription. Judge Toller, the second judge on Divorce Court, would be giving you maaaaaad kudos!!! I'm right there with her. Thank you for being traditional and for wanting the next generation to have clear guidelines and a strong foundation.
Hit the nail on the head...I agreed with you 1000 %❤
I respect you as a Brother Sir. The sincerity, humility, and Truth from this is honorable unto Man and God. Be Blessed All!
Yes, you were getting used in that position. Thanks for this video, women as well need to hear and understand this. 👏🏾👏🏾
Such a poignant and necessary word💜 Now you have to do a video on the difference between boyfriend/girlfriend behaviors and husband/wife behaviors. It may seem obvious to some of us but I'm sure there are many that need some clarity.
That's wise. I like that 💯. Sealz the man. Thank you.
What I enjoy the most about your videos is the fact that you speak on topics most peole do no. Very different and I like it.
This means a lot, thank you 👑
MUCH needed wisdom for romantic relationships AND for career! Thank you for making it plain! ❤🙏🏾
So good. This is all to common even in Godly relationships, to many believers living as the world does having s*x before marriage will defile the marriage bed 🙏🏼
I agree it is separate and marriage is sacred. Boundaries are healthy here. I made the mistake when I young playing wifee. Today, I don’t like the term it just a setup for women to compromise.
Thank you Sealz👏
Thank you for creating this content. It has been like cultivating and watering my mind. Continue to speak boldly King!
You are a true good wise man, when you speak the way you do, this helps to open better mind sets 👍
Good subject to talk upon, because we need to know and stay into what is and not
This was SO good, and needed to be said. Thanks Sealz 😮💨🙌🏾
Agreed. My boyfriend is my husband yet. He will not be responsible for me until we are married and vice versa. The dating scene these days is backward. Everyone wants spousal treatment with the commitment. No, sir.
For those who use that stupid reasoning: "How will I know they're marriage material? " Easy, observe and get to know the person in their life as is. That'll tell you all you need to know.
Appreciate your sharing this
Blessings and peace🎉😅
Another real video, definitely re evaluating my friendship/relationship
We do believe you on this one! Thank you.
Indeed.
Thank you so much Mr. Sealz. You are a blessing to this world. Keep up the amazing work. Your words of wisdom definitely have me thinking not only in terms of relationships but in terms of the uncompensated demands of my current career. Keep shining your light. Have a wonderful week.
Agreed
This was Good! Loved it! I appreciate you Sealz!💜
I like this very true 💯
No sex before marriage if you understand the sacredness of marriage. The Bible says no sex outside of marriage for a reason. First of all marriage is supposed to be a picture of our relationship to God. Secondly, ladies, you want your husband to know that on your wedding night, you're not comparing him to any other man. Also ladies, do yourself a favor and only date men who understand who you are right from the very first date. Tell him you want a MAN who is not comparing you to any other woman. Respect yourself and let him know you only want a MAN you can respect.
Thank you , so true
Hoping that you are the perfect example
A lot of women feel as though they are fully taken care of if they are with their partner forever if unmarried, however, you need to make sure he is fully committed to you and not just wasting your time. If he's fully committed, he'll marry you. That way you can build your dynasty together. Thanks educating people
If she's your gf and he becomes better but still moves on and wife's the one who wasn't there uplifting him.then what time has been wasted both ways
It should go both ways. As flattering as it is, women shouldn't treat their boyfriends like husbands and their husbands like boyfriends. Take on the responsibilities of the role WHEN YOU HAVE THE ROLE, not anytime before.
Sealz, can you make a video what roles is different from being a gf and a wife please
Can you do a video on girlfriend vs wife and boyfriend vs husband traits/behaviors?
true facts
i prefer to be wife
Marriage is a sacred union in spirit not a paper work and law to show to yr fellow humans ..don’t mix the two .
The paper is needed !!!!
@@nathalian.7209Many years ago, persons married by promising to be committed to each other in a ceremony and there were no marriage licenses or certificates. There are many common-law marriages these days and no marriage certificates or licenses. So a "paper" is not really needed.
@@cherylscott8576 if it works for you do it ...
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That is true..You have ppl teaching men and women thwy are already wives and husband's before they meet that person and that you don't start just when you get married it may not be a good match...we gotta be careful out here and im not sure if God recognizes bf gf either lol I guess internal values is what makes a person marry you the cooking cleaning etc is not necessarily wifely duties but the basics I guess it depends on perspectives
No siglan
Why don’t they marry their girlfriends?? Especially the Christian men.
Thanks! This was perfectly said and really hard to hear. We forget especially when later in life and starting over that this becomes part of our cookie jar 🫙 less is always more and if you aren't sure silence shows us for sure.❤
So true Lynnesha, you said nothing but the truth. I truly appreciate your generosity as well, thank you 👑