Living Alone Diaries: How I Am Coping With Loneliness Post Divorce (watch this if you feel lonely)
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 21 ก.ค. 2024
- In this video I am sharing how I am coping with loneliness post divorce. I got super sick so I also had to navigate taking care of myself for the first time which sucked and brought up a lot of sad emotions. I am doing better and just took a solo trip for the first time so that video will be up soon! I genuinely love making these videos and we WILL have fun together this fall/winter! My hope for these videos is that it helps you feel less lonely and like you have a friend with you! Much love to you!
About me:
I was married at 18 years old and am going through the process of divorce at 21. Thank you for watching my journey.
IG/TikTok: @laurenemilyjuarez
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At least you have a cat, I come home to pure silence, today it was so deafening I had a meltdown. Thank you for your vulnerability ❤️
I appreciate you watching thank you!! I am so glad I have Bilbo!
I found you and this video today after searching "living alone after a breakup". I really understand how you're feeling. I've lived with my ex since I was 19. We have been together 13 years. I have never lived alone. I always thought I was so comfortable in my own company but the idea of being completely alone terrifies me. This is my first video I've watched of you and I'm excited to watch more to see how you're coping because I feel so hopeless right now.
Thank you for sharing this. It's helping me a lot.
Wow. Oh my goodness. This is such a sweet and genuine comment, I’m so grateful you’re here and like the videos so far!! I know you Can do this. It’s going to be incredibly hard at times but you are so strong and will discover so many amazing things about yourself!! ♥️ praying for you and your new adventure!!
My story is identical to yours. 19 when we met, together 13 years and he asked for a divorce 6 weeks ago. Im absolutely terrified at what is to come next. I hope you are doing well and few months later. ❤
I was always someone who felt I needed someone to keep me company and after moving abroad I have learned to love spending time with myself and my thoughts. You learn so much more about yourself and are able to connect with your inner being. I love that you’re documenting these visual diaries, you will be able to look back on these videos and see how far you’ve come as well as help others heal that may be feeling the same🫶🏽
@Sam Fournier Can we connect? I love this. I just moved abroad and I am in that space of feeling I need someone. But I am working on being comfortable with my own company.
For two years I have been FAKING life! I keep busy from sun up to sun down, but I have NEVER stopped missing …
I was in a committed relationship for nearly 35 years! I don’t think that I will ever get better.
I’m so sorry to hear this. I highly encourage you to seek freedom from this in Jesus. He came to our earth to free us from our burdens. He wants us to cast our worries, fears, and anxieties on him so that we may live life to the fullest. He wants joy and peace for us. God is not scary, he is our friend and we WANTS to talk to you and have a relationship with you and help you! I highly encourage listening to Transformation Church or Saved not Soft podcast! ♥️I’m praying for you friend
i feel your pain b
Two things stuck out to me in this video. First you were saying how lonely you'll feel in the winter - I know its easier said than believing but remember God is always with you. That being said secondly, I really thought hard about the part you said about families or couples you see and the decisions they've made. I'm married and have a baby and there are days I still feel lonely since my husband works and I care for my son most of the time. It's intentional decisions made to go out and do things but just because you see a couple together doesn't mean they don't feel lonely. Sending you love and prayers - your videos are really making a difference in my life. I'm also from Ohio too so it feels like talking to a friend. 💞
This video gave me a little smile and some hope. I genuinely was on the verge of tears, and truthfully it happens to me a lot more than I care to admit as a man. I'm rooting for you to master this stage of Life. Just as you said I wouldn't wish those feeling upon anyone. You are more amazing than you realize, and no one out there can fulfill and love yourself better than you can.
You are so kind, thank you for watching and for leaving such a heartfelt comment
I think my biggest issue is just wanting someone to talk to at times. Like good convos. Or wanting someone to share my triumphs and joys with. The hard times can be hard but I find that nobody to share these joys with is even harder. (Even just on a friend level).
I guess as far as going out alone, I enjoy it. I’ve been around so many toxic and annoying and pushy or selfish people that I was feeling relieved that I didn’t have anyone pestering me or dragging me into places and activities that I didn’t even enjoy or being negative or not having to worry that the other person wants to leave early or whatever.
And I’ve also been surrounded by people I couldn’t relate to or connect with and have felt more alone surrounded by them than when I was by myself. One of my fave things personally tho is going on thrift store “treasure hunts.”
idk if you will get the chance to see this but i am currently going through a divorce - one that didn't want to happen. and i am just sitting in bed sick with a cold and thought to myself, "there has to be someone out there who feels what i feel too. like, i can't be the only one with this pain." as soon as i clicked on your video, you shared the same hurt that i have and it brought me to tears. i'm not even a minute into your video but just had to say thank you for being vulnerable. being sick single and alone is hard but i'm glad i'm not the only one that feels this way.
OMG AND YOU READ THE BIBLE. i'm subscribing
It is a weird feeling after being with someone for so long. I found myself being incredibly anti social this winter, which was odd because I definitely wanted to be around people but also didn't at the same time. It was a strange conflict I ran into.
Dear Sister, i feel your the feelings in your soul. Praying for sisters like you, me and the countless others, praying they find strength and comfort....
Its really comforting to know that there are other people going through things like me. Thank you for sharing, hope life treats you well
I’m glad to know this helped you in your journey!! You’re not alone!!!🤍
I’m so glad I discovered your channel! I’m also learning how to live alone and I really struggle at times. All of my friends have moved away since I graduated college. I feel like there’s so many things I should know how to do but I just don’t. I recently had to isolate because I got Covid and your content made me feel less lonely. Thank you for making these videos!
Oh I’m so glad to hear these videos are helpful!!! You are 100% not alone! Stay as long as you need ☕️I have a new video coming out soon!
Lauren…not yet. It’s not your time (not at this time of your video). You are/were still healing. Family, conquering loneliness, releasing suppressed anger…this will all become easier to manage and it will allow you to feel less crazy. I know, I had the same journey many years ago. Many Blessings 🌻
I totally understand you and the feelings you explain.❤ I am also after a divorce and it is not easy to beat alone the worst days and the deep lonely moments. It is also not easy to to live together with a disrespect of some people.
I’m so glad you are making TH-cam videos again!! Yes, take us with you for all the fall things 🥰
So excited to spend the fall and winter with you! 🍂 ❄️
Omg the wee steps onto the bed for your cat ❤
Heheh they help him so much!
Im glad that you were brave enough to share your vulnerabilities on here. Im in the process of a divorce & my husband left the house 5-6 days ago. I have children & struggle to take them to do things alone. You accomplished your goal. I feel less lonely tonight & slightly inspired to live life- alone or not.
Tracy. The weight that this single comment hold. Thank you for sharing this with me and for letting me know that my content has helped you… that truly brings me to tears 🤍I appreciate you so much. You are absolutely not alone.
Thank you for your videos and for sharing your feelings so openly.... , it is really helping me through my divorce because you can't always share about those feelings with family and friends
I’m so glad that you found this video. You ARE NOT ALONE ♥️♥️♥️
love your videos going thru very dark times. crazy how most of us want somebody to be with
you'll find your person one day
Hello Lauren, thank you for this video!
I know I am a man and probably you don't have many men watching this but I am divorced and have been separated from my wife for the last 3 years.
I am very lonely I still have my kids which I get every weekend but I get you and I understand this feeling it is very good to be able to be comfortable with being alone.
I think this is very important and many people jump straight into another relationship.
Subscribed!
Hi Paul. Wow. This really means a lot to me that you watched my video and we’re able to connect to the way I feel. It’s very hard. I am so sorry to hear about you and your wife separating. It’s helpful to know I’m not the only one going through this. Thank you again for watching and for sharing apart of your story! I share more about what I am going through over on Instagram (linked in the description) if you are curious!
@@LaurenJuarez Wow what a fast reply must be the time! Haha.
You are very cute, if I may add, it must of been some work setting the camera up then going back and getting it!
@@paulhunter_ haha it really is a lot of work but I absolutely love it! It’s so much fun and it makes me so glad knowing other people feel less lonely because of watching these videos so I’m happy to do it hehe!
@@LaurenJuarez That's great to hear Lauren! You deserve so many more subscribers but you've earnt the ones you have now.
I've just finally started my channel last month, very new and life has been busy but it's so exciting to make content!
I am so glad with your content. I am currently experiencing this thing and it scares me so much, but because of this video it kind of tells me that it's okay. I'll be okay...Just like you I also feel lonely but happy but sad I don't know mixed emotions seeing complete families with the parents and children.like how did they do that? I mean they're lucky❣️❣️
but I'll try to be okay on my own now😌 ...
Maybe someday I'll meet someone who will choose me, but first I need to choose my self.
Thank you, I could use this inspiration
Hey girl, do you mind sharing what camera you use ?? The quality of this video was so amazing. Sending love from PA 🫶🏽💕
Hey Ariel!! I just use the back camera of my iPhone 12! My most recent video I was using my canon g7x mark 2!
hi lovely! wondering where you bought the cute sleeping set you’re wearing in the beginning of the video? x
The loneliness is very hard i am very thankful for my dog mack it definitely takes time to over
Ugh..Im feeling the fall and winter thing so much...We HAVE to learn how to give ourselves the warmth and cozy love.
Yes yes!!!♥️♥️♥️
Nice video 👍🏾🔥
Personally, I avoid being so isolated in public. It's not safe. #nohate
Thank you
I'm going through this now, aged 29. First divorce papers came through today :( How are you coping now a year and a half later?
What book were you reading at the 20 minute mark? 💕
Ooo good question! I’m linking it here! I also talked about it in my recent Q&A! amzn.to/3XOHEDg
As a man , i just recently seperated from my wife. Im lonely as well.
i love your content SO much, it gives me pure joy seeing you living life by yourself (because i’ve been feeling lonely lately so it’s helping me a lot 🫶🏼🤍)
This is the best comment I could receive. Wow. I am so glad to hear this helped you feel less lonely!!! You can do this! ♥️♥️
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Don't go hiking alone in the forest especially as a woman.
I am always safe by letting family know where I am going, having my location on for my family, and bringing self defense tools for myself.
As someone who is coming out of narcissistic abuse from someone I was in a relationship ship with for three years this hits home so hard. With three little kiddies to look after and also feeling all these types of things and learning to be alone your videos are bringing me so much comfort and weirdly enough, don’t make me feel so alone anymore. Thankyou 🤍
I am currently trying to figure out how to leave my narcissistic husband . Married 13 years. It kills me when I think of how much it will hurt him. I’m very much an empath . I have to keep reminding myself, even when it’s good....how much he’s hurt me .