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Our Journey Through Uncoupling & Our Growth in the Process with Andrew Simpson | 9
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 8 ก.ค. 2023
- This week on This Tantric Life, my former partner of 8.5 years joins me...
Andrew Simpson and I explore the ultimatum he gave me in our relationship...
The journey we've had since our conscious uncoupling in 2021...
And how we continue to support each other through growth even post-breakup. Discover the intricacies inside our relationship and uncoupling, oh and to find out why we cried together before filming this episode 😭
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TIMESTAMPS:
0:00 Intro
4:22 Life After Our Breakup & How We Stayed Friends
13:10 Dating Other People
27:03 Becoming Who We Wanted Each Other To Be
35:58 Masculine Space Holding & Meeting the Magic of the Feminine
42:38 Why We Cried Before This Podcast
51:56 What is the Divine Masculine
54:32 Tension in Our Relationship Dynamics
1:09:53 Releasing Blame and Projection
1:17:50 Giving Men the Permission to Feel
1:26:22 Finding Self Compassion
1:35:20 Stop Running Away & Reaching for Happiness
1:38:54 How We Supported Each Other
1:51:20 We Wanted the Best For Each Other
1:56:20 Practice for Integration
2:04:30 Conclusion
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This is so incredibly honest and mature. And thank you for modeling (& discussing) the whole process, and the coexisting love and pain.
Thank you for opening your hearts so fully ❤ and allowing others (like me! 😊) to witness a respectful, conscious and rare transformation of an intimate love relationship into friendship and deep kinship. Truly inspiring!
@karingrand8978 thank you for your support and lovely comment. It means so much to be received in this way. Glad you feel inspired.❤
~ Layla's love and support team
This is a tremendous dynamic exchange... but it also reveals the complex impacts of historical trauma, insecurity, ongoing co-dependency, and the role of the ego. Thank you.
Gosh, you two...no words...ahhh! U help bridge the gaps many of us have where we can't find words for all that is union amd individual journeying. This isn't easy. Thank you so fukn much!!!!! It's lovely amd uplifting to witness.
@carolinasoulshine8949 thank you. It isn't easy and finding the words can help with moving forward. So appreciate you are part of our community.
~ Layla's love and support team
The vulnerability it takes to overview an intimate 7year relationship, thank you for your courageous service
This is so insightful and beautiful
@anon6727 thank you so much. ❤️
The depth, the centerdness in the Essence Self - feels so lonely and it is so miraculous, it brings about such miracles. Thank you for reminding me of that/this.
You probably WERE enough to be able to sense the road ahead, and keep movign forward. The elegance of Presence within One's Heart. Is what one needs to keep.
You guys are so sweet and look so great, after everything. Thank you for modeling this for the world♥️
I really can’t express how beautiful this video is! ❤
This is amazing and SO timely as I just had some heartfelt conversations with my children's father. It's been 2 years since we finally set ourselves free, and while it was a conscious uncoupling on my part, it had been jarring for him. We are finally at a place where we can have an honest conversation, and there was a lot reflected in your story that I was like "holy crap, that's so much like my experience with my ex." I hope he does listen to this/watch it later. I told him it would be healing given where we are taking our co-parenting relationship/friendship. I'm hooked. Officially loving this podcast and subscribed to your newsletter too. You rock!
@carlybonderud thank you for the lovely comment and sharing your experience. So glad to hear you love the podcast and how it mirrored your own journey. It means so much to be received in this way. So much love to all in your journey of co-parenting and relationship. Your courage and gentle power shine through your words. ❤
i cried so much , so many beautiful moments in this. thank you
His voice is so soft, and Layla's is turned up so loud~~ 🙏🏽 I can't listen bcs I have to turn up just to hear him, and then my ears blow up when her voice comes in so much louder 🙏🏽 it makes my dog jump!
Best of all to you guys, and thank you for your work!
@freshstrt3140 thank you for the feedback. ❤️
~ Layla's love and support team
Gosh I would love to see this transition into uncoupling be a blooming of a conscious REconnection.
Thank you for this
My god you guys!!! I cannot tell you how potent this is for me! It's so valuable reflecting on my own relationship hearing what you share. Going through similar patterns. You both are such rich examples for the queen and the king, my whole being was longing to see someting like this. Thank you so much for sharing all this so honestly. WOW!
What a special connection and beautiful souls
This is so beautiful and heart opening, inspiring. I love how you both burst into laughter many times, especially right after really “serious” difficult parts 🫶🏼
you know working with other people, who have trauma, being in their support, that's a lot of sadness, or putting out a video about your own sadness brings out viewer's sadness, and how to protect oneself from it and still be able to interact with people in your own life from your truth = the one that has been healed for a long time now.
You guys are AMAZING. what an inspiration, seriously
It is so healing for me to listen to you. It maybe sounds crazy but I feel like you have the healthy talks with each other I wish I could have with the last person I was with, but I know we will never talk again. So I feel like I still can somehow have this trough you. Thank you
@manolaya3225 thank you so much for this vulnerable share. So glad the discussion resonates so deeply.
~Layla's love and support team
i totally resonated with what you shared Layla at abut 50minutes in about a longing to be met emotionally. Deeply. There is something about a man holding space and being a provider on many levels, however the deep emotional desire for connection is real. This is true for me in my own relationship. Thank you for your Podcast :)
How do I show up to your events? How can I be a part of the community? Where are you located? And thank you so much for all you do it’s been extremely helpful.❤
I feel this exchange deeply and thank you for showing what’s possible and putting words to how my heart feels with a recent breakup. ♥️🙏♥️
@lizlandeen thank you and much love in support of your heart and reclaiming after recent breakup. It isn't easy. ♥
~ Layla's love and support team
Thank you for this openhearted conversation. When I listen to you I feel quite a bit of pressure and constriction with all these concepts about men and woman and how one or the other should be like and how the other should be. I wonder why all these concepts, what do they serve for, why they seem to be needed for you?
@susannesteinhusen7876 thank you for your comment and question. Sometimes it's about putting words to things that are difficult to explore in relationship and modeling, sharing their process.
~ Layla's love and support team
@susannesteinhusen7876 thank you for the comment and question. Sometimes it's about finding the words as a way to move forward, modeling/exploring what it is to be in relationship. ❤️
~ Layla's love and support team
I don't understand how you didn't get back together. That is why I am unable to stay in deep contact with my ex. Especially when you realize what you could have done differently.
@isabelleschiltz it isn't easy and every path is different. Sending so much nourishing energy in support of healing and reclaiming. ❤
~ Layla's love and support team
@isabelleschiltz it isn't easy. Sending so much nourishing energy in support of healing. ❤️
Thank you so much
As co creators with 8 years of experience, and deep well wishing for each other, it seems a series of 8 more 8 year stints would be a good thing and get you pre-e-e-tty close to nirvana.
I agree, tho Im not agreeable in that way, yours seems like a successful relationship.
My from childhood wish was to be friends and then lovers stay together forever.
Then I saw in astrology, that Pluto in Libra has that. So it is not neccessary for everyone.
It seems safe, even for self-mastery. Discerning your material to be processed and transformed from the other's.
I think I have also been successful in one night stands, unburduned with the other's past.
Well a position of pluto in signs is just one aspect in one's astro-chart. ;p Astrology is not something I hold on to. Because of the uniquness of each situation.
But I have learned a lot from psychological astrology, and spiritual astrology = growing from what has been given, leveling up, transforming the lower emotional energies into spiritual virtues and values.
Waiting ❤
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God, the polyamory things that are going on in your community sound quite complicated and intense 😂 Love the new Layla style, celebrate the new Andrew style and his misery on IG ❤🎉
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Man is a cold and warm hearted. If u use man in any way sharp and life honey. That ain’t working. Once it’s done we are done. I have the deepest wound. But I do love her but I know I can’t be with her.
That’s way king is king.
I reply my comments
We are still cool but once it’s gone it is for good of both. That’s the psychology of a man.
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Interesting .. In Columbia same girl in room at workshop NOT RANDOM !!! Good on you leaving hut. Love - disconnecting from your own heart. Ah fathers death year _ significant. initiation time for the masculine