Nonsense words(My mom is into meditation🙏) [Hello Counselor Sub : ENG,THA / 2018.01.22]
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I think her concern goes much deeper, it seems like she has an inner conflict and just wants to open up conversation with her mom but her mom is only helping her in a way that she wants. She is not paying attention to what her daughter is really trying to say. It's sad but I've seen this type of issue with many people.
Whenever I heard her mom’s voice, I think that she’s crying 😂
Right? I think she is but the meditation is stopping her 😂
I agree
I think she's just nervous speaking in front of everyone. I k know that happens to me. When I try speaking in front of a class or a group, my voice gets all shaky, and I sound like I'm about to cry.
@@mingan3781 same. I also sound like crying when im nervous
I feel so bad for both the mom and the daughter. The mom meditates to run away from her problems and is unable to communicate with her daughter. But she must have been suffering a lot to be that obsessed with meditation. I hope that she is free from any domestic abuse and that she is finding help for herself too
This is what I also thought!!also in Asian culture it's super important to be a "good mother" so the mothers are really stressed sometimes bcuz Everything a kid does people will always blame the mother for the kid's bad deeds!!! This society is so critical.
Meditation helps you face reality peacefully, not escape it. The mom is not really meditating, she's using the concept to hide herself. Seems she's in great emotional & mental pain...to the point she can't be bothered by her children. This is sad.
Imagine hearing those tracks everyday for hours 😓
I think behind that pretty and angelic smile, there is a true and dark secret/past that she wanna forget by distracting herself by using meditation.
I hope she throw that meditation 'cause right now,she basically separate herself from reality.
When the sone was talking she just smiled and sat straight, barely blinking the whole time. But I think what the problem is, is that with meditation she can only focus on one thing. She ends up pushing her problems to the back of her mind and decides to deal with them later. When she thinks about her dad she gets mad and meditates, when she's mad at her husband she doesn't want to fight so she meditates. I feel like she's not meditating because she likes it, but instead because that is the only way she knows how to run away from her problems and hide from them
Like drugs. Damn, that's really insightful
meditating is about controlling oneself and to accept ourselves. its not to run away, its to solve inner conflicts
The problem is that she isn't trying to check herself with a psychologist or even psychiatrist. She was abused when she was young and she is obviously pushing her random anger on her husband. I feel bad on one hand for her but on the other hand, you can't just ignore your kids , get mad at your husband or just avoid reality.
She seems young so it looks like she wanted to have a husband In a young age to get away from her father but she never resolved her problems from her past .
I know it will sound bad, but she is mostly to be blamed. Yes, she was abused, but she should had tried to fix it when she was young instead of running away of it.
"Problems will always follow when you don't fix them"
Meditation is what psychologists recommend for mental health issues like anxiety and insomnia and depression, so when the daughter complained to her mother about not being able to sleep and being stressed, meditation is probably the best thing to do, but it might be a bit over the top in the mother's case.
The thing with mindfulness practice is that you become unrelatable.
Well, when you're having problems, you don't really wanna know what's the best solution, unless you ask for it yourself. She wanted her mom, a companion to listen, comfort and sympathize with her. Sometimes you just need someone to listen to you
The problem with the mom is that she says she’s meditating to have a happy family with her daughter and husband but I don’t see that when she talks to her daughter..let me give u an example, the daughter comes to her mom to talk but her mom just tells to get out because she’s meditating how do u tell her that and then say oh I’m doing that for a healthy and better family..meditating may help but talking about it also helps too u need to solve ur problem and face but instead ur running away from them.
The issue isn't the meditating. The daughter's issue is that the mom isn't being present for her daughter and listening to her concerns. The fact that someone else is suffering more, while it may be true, isn't the way to address someone's needs. You need to focus on the issue at hand for that person, even if it's just by listening and hugging that person. People want someone to empathize with them, not belittle their problems.
The mother's issue is that she has suffered a lot and has not addressed those issues, her feelings about them and how they affected her. Instead of using meditation as a helpful tool that it can be to live life well, she is using it to escape which is why she needs to do it so often. She only feels joy when meditating when in reality she should be using the mindset and techniques she learns from meditation to be present in her own life and the life of her children. Healing will take time and I truly hope both the mother and the daughter heal but I wish the mother would understand that life doesn't stop for you to heal and come back 100%. I hope she can try to be more present with her children even as she is healign herself.
Tbh her mom looks scary, almost robotic.
I don't think so
I used to think meditation is stupid but I changed my mind after it helped me to gain more confidence and avoid harmful people.
어머니가 너무 상처가많으셔서 아예 명상속에 살고싶으신거 같아요 너무 슬프네요 ㅜㅜ
i meditate too to calm myself and to recorgnise myself. meditating isnt bad. dont even compare it to drugs because drugs actually make u run away from reality, but meditating helps you to understand and accept reality. she's just more content, no more enhanced sadness nor happiness, just content.
exactly
but if you neglect the people around you and your responsabilities just to meditate for +10h it becomes an addiction so it will be as bad as drugs ....
i think she's just meditating because she wants to convince herself she's doing something to help her family
Can the writer of introductions teach me his ways, his writing woes me :0
Watching this makes me so sad. Meditation don't have to and should never have to interfer with normal living. It's a tool to help live a better life, not an escape.
And to those people that don't understand what meditation is, don't make fun of it. Learn about it, does not matter if it's not for you. What matter is you learn a new thing after reading about it.
I really like how jun try to comfort the girl. He really kind to young people.
저도 명상하지만 명상이 회피성이 되면 안된다는것입니다. 더 행복해져야 한다는 과한생각은 집착입니다 나중엔 행복해져야 한다는 그생각때문에 힘들어지는 시기가 올거에요 지금 현재의 삶에 감사하면서 딸과 대화를 하면서 지금 내상황을 개선하는게 더 좋을것같아요
Maybe she should just listen to subliminals with headphones at night instead
Too bad they didn't have this concern when Haon was on, since he would have a unique perspective as a young person who loves meditation and has said it helped him deal with a lot of negative things/emotions.
I understand the girl's concern, and I also sympathize with her. But at the same time im not exactly sure if its really appropriate for the audience/counclers to be laughing. It may not help them very much because they dont need it. I understand that 10 hours a day is WAY too much and that she should at least greet her daughter when she comes home, but if its making a difference and improving her family's relationship there is no need for her to stop.
Edit: Looking at all the comments I also noticed that she seemed to be running away from her problems. Its obvious that they need family counceling or just to try and talk it out. Though i really do think the mother is an absolute sweetheart, she has to stop faking her smile.
my dad did meditate too everyday, but he only do it about for 15 minutes but twice a day
Everything must be done in moderation. And please listen to a better meditation soundtrack. A good meditation should make one feel recharged and relaxed afterwards so that he/she can better manage his/her issues. Not to self deceive and pretend the problems doesn’t exist. Meditation does not make problems disappear magically, we still have to get rid of the problems ourselves.
I like their show but I didn’t like the part they made fun of the meditation just because they are not used to it... people don’t just go into such deeper obsession with meditation...
Agree
Agreed
Honestly I find this calm and peaceful. Meditation is a good thing.
Her mom doing good job actually with medication
Maybe maditating can be done for one hour. . . I think it is too much for 10hrs. . .
I am doing it now, listening to hello counselor with earphones, when my family members are fighting 😂 laughing at my own trauma feels good 😂😂
I need that weightloss meditation track 😂😂😂
Honestly I don't think that this is that great of a concern compared to other issues shown on this show. Her mother is feeling more love and compassionate towards her family, and has stopped fighting with her husband which was a great stressor in the girl's life, and now she just needs to start coming back and fulfill her role as a mom until her kids are more self-reliant. They didn't react this way to the mom who was reading romance novels all the time everyday, and this is meditation which actually helps with stress. I feel like they only reacted in this way because of prejudice, and their comments about it being a "pseudo-religion" kind of made me uncomfortable (and to the audience I think too, because they didn't laugh or really react when one of the guest counselors said that).
Why is that a bad thing.. Let the woman do whatever she wants it helps with anxiety, depression, and is therapeutic..
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I thought the title said ( my mom is into medication)....
i relate a lot to the daughter
i had to drop school because of anxiety and panic attacks too
it sucks so much, i hope she gets better soon
I don’t think the mom is normal because she don’t seems to be feeling bad for the kids, she just keep smiling from the starts of the show till the end🙄🙄
어머님이 말이 안통하시네!!!
7:20 that man is so disrespectful and full of himself
I thought it was funny. The explanation given by the mom sounded like bull shit. You don't exhale your problems away with meditation. You obtain a calmer personality to deal with problems
Isn't the meditating still the mom avoiding her own issues? She meditates, then she doesn't speak to her children...so, maybe it's just avoidance and not the meditation helping at all? She may think meditating IS the thing that's helping her, but I'm concerned that the mother only thinks that it is. I think these tracks encouraged her to think a certain way, but it's subconscious. It's not actually resolving any issues they "previously" had. Therapy & talking in therapy would help the family. And the mother and daughter. Using meditation as a way to avoid and not reply to your children, isn't going to help. It's a concern to me.
Doing something too much is dangerous. It's okay to meditate 2-3 hours a day. But 10hrs? that's outrageous. Mother, you have a family and you should take care of them.
The radio sounds creepy XD
Not at all
I understand the concern of the daughter, n I think there should be a balance in everything. But I feel like the host and everyone in there doesnt seem to realize the effectiveness of meditation
Wasn’t this story like 3 weeks old
The mother comfort herself by meditating instead of comforting her daughter that suffer from depression and got drop out by school.. such a mother is the worst🤦🏼♀️👎🏻
18:55 - "you 가...." lol that's some cute, awkward-ass konglish.
i know this is really random, but why does the mom remind me of nct's johnny so much?
Well i do think it’s a serious problem. All of her mother’s saying or act seem to really similar with some people who got into false religion. She’s just escaping from all of her problems and thinking the meditation as her perfect resolution..who can say she’s not going to join some cults in future instead of freaking meditation?
20:44 😂😂😂 same lmfao
어머님이 혹시 마스터이 신가 ㅋㅋㅋ
17:35 he sounds like he has a Russian accent
Daebak !!!! I'm shocked by the fact that she was a senior in high school when she was 19...I was in my second year of college when I was 19 is the education system different in korea?
I don't think it's a concern
Y'all I'm early
Is she crying? Her voice sounds so trembling 😂
That is not original meditation
Problem will always there but this mom only make a new problem... If she found peace for herself but after that she have bad relationship with her daughter... so what kind of peace that she had? nonsen.
yeongja gets so much sh*t for her weight. and she just goes along with it ~sigh~
어머님 병원 치료가 …….
사.이.비. . .
명상 들을수록
거부감과 역겨움이
윽~~~
과유불급(Too much is as bad as too little.)
듣고있는데 왤케 목소리가 떨리시는거같지?
Why the mom voice like she's crying ?🤔
Aunty you can't run away from the realiti😧
I'm on depression either but i'm not running from realiti😧😧
She's not,, pls do research about meditation
doesnt it look like shes dissociating?
She's spending an awful lot of time disassociating, not meditating.
please call Choi Youngjae from GOT7 he has the best and positif advise for you guys. you will know and feel that world is beautiful is you spend time with him (actually so many people around him said that) so please he is such the most positif and hard working person. you should at least try to invite him and you will know that he is very very a great person alive and you will be want to know him more 😘🌸💕
ars choi ii
I'm sorry . So rude of me to say but I find a little annoying when I see this comment everywhere , every episode .... Can you stop spamming ?
Rose Jenny Im aware that people maybe find this annoying and spamming and ofc I want to stop if someone tell me that, but from channel itself not say anything? and my comment not rude or harm anyone, but thank you I'll think about this
Rose Jenny
I thought I was the only one 😂
I know youngjae is good. But commenting about that everytime everywhere is kinda.. idk what to say.. when I scroll down the comments and I found the first line of "pls call youngjae, etc" I think, oh, it's the same comment again, I ended up stop read the comments and watched other eps even if I want to know how ppl opinions about those concerns.
I agree he is. But maybe you should change your words rather than copying this "template" if you still want to spread your love for him, so people wouldn't think you're spamming and annoyed them.
Please keep supporting GOT7!! They're all amazing :)
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Her mum looks so pretty and young. Maybe her daughter should learn meditation too lmao
명상 명상 아 지겹겠다
그냥 명상만 하다가 정신이 좀 이상해진거네.. 저러다 남한테 강요하면 사이비종교로 가는거지.. 정신과 상담이 먼저다..
she must hate bts XD
Why did I think this?
No doubt she had fihgt a lot with her husband..she is tooo selfish..no cares about her people.
그냥 세뇌하기 같아요.
엄마가 사이비
딸이 철이없네 아는체 안했다고 사연은 아니제