Emotional Steve Aoki: Life is short, love what you do
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 21 ก.ย. 2021
- DJ and musician Steve Aoki candidly reflects on the sacrifices necessary to stay at the top of his industry. Aoki - who has performed at least 250 shows per year for 15 years - says his current schedule doesn’t allow for a family or children, but he wants to have kids eventually. He refers to his experiences working a large crowd as “the ultimate high” and gets introspective recalling emotions he felt earlier this year when performing back in his hometown of Newport Beach, California. Aoki remembers his best friend, who passed away in 2020 and encourages viewers to embrace every moment spent with those who matter.
Aoki goes into more detail within his 2019 memoir “Blue: The Color of Noise,” which is available on Amazon - tinyurl.com/yktbww9v.
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Damn Aoki a real one 💯
real enos
No Will he's not
He's just a cry baby
Ppfffffftt lol! Guys the biggest fake dj ever.
I respect him but I also see why he’s so emotional. Resentment sucks. Death sucks. Life isn’t so great these days if you really think about it. Cherish your love ones people. Every time!
The older you get, the faster it goes. That's actually scary.
Life on earth is short indeed. Great interview.
Yes it does .....
It’s unbelievable how fast time goes by , Recently Turned 50 and it’s Ridiculous How Time Flies
Yeah, but Prince didn't celebrate birthdays, he said Celebrate my Death Day. I'm probably the only one who did. If you knew what was on the Other Side, you wouldn't think this life is so great, even ignoring the wars, famine, corruption & suffering!!
@@Buzzode My husband just died at 56. I miss him terribly, but he was suffering & had DNR on his door, they practically kill you after that.
I'm suffering here, but I know he's at peace now. It's so much better on the Other Side, people wouldn't cling to life if they knew. ❤️🌍✌️♾️
Respect to Steve for being so open and vulnerable. Seems like a great guy
For reals man ,Steve is such a great human being of course we are strangers but I feel like a connection even through a phone. Sounds weird but I can feel his energy
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Yes life is easy when your dad owns Benny hanna
Mommy and daddy banked rolled this no talent hack till he was accepted... But those in the know, know he's still a hack but Amerifart normies don't know any better.
@@taccntb4345 No one loved you growing up, did they? It's okay buddy.
"There's no grand moment. They are all little moments." Damn bro
For real. That hit me like a punch of enlightenment. Every little moment counts. Every little moment is worthy of appreciation.
Damn I didn’t realize how down to the earth Steve is… lots of respect.
Success is how you feel about yourself... that's heavy facts
now that's being vulnerable and that's being badass
Steve Aoki doesn't seem happy! And most aren't - proof that money and fame don't bring you happiness that it's truly from within! He put it all out there. Brave of him!
You think people without money are happy?
@@jaywong3097 is this a rhetorical question?!
I mean money is a necessity it's the password you're going to go that determines whether you're going to get married or you're going to do what you love and usually whenever you do what you love it's a solo Journey. So he's accepting the fact that whatever he's going to do with his DJ life. And I get that because some people are not ready for a relationship and they want to focus on The Courier and sometimes love happens then happens if not then it's not really a obligation to have it
@@RedHeadThriller10 your need money to survive obviously but don't thank having a lot of money automatically equals happiness it's that simple.
Once again, it's all about finding your balance..
And anything in excess never comes without a cost.
Looks like Avicii's passing has a huge impact on his outlook on life
His father's death as well. Also he was friends with Chester Bennington.
Michael Theanne
Is that who he was referring to by his best friend? I thought he died more than a year ago. That shit hit me hard too, Avicii was definitely a decent human being. So many celebs dying all good ones too it’s hard to remember which one was when it’s sad.
@@datazndood I don't think so. Could have been his manager or something. He said his manager passed away I think. But he had another interview wher e he said that's why he started working out I can't remember where I saw it
Is he talking about erick morillo maybe
I've never seen Steve Aoki this much sad... Bro Aoki I just wanna say you do what you love... Your the Motivation and Inspiration for me....
Damn. Authenticity is THE MOST VALUABLE thing in the world. So incredibly impactful. Thank you.
he is fkcn clown
The word impactful, was never used in the 90s. It must be something that kills nuerons. Why is impactful suddenly out their like the words, toxic, bully, viral, and under rated?
THΞ ΛΧΥΞΗΗΘ Clowns dont cry. perhaps an American geisha princess.
Damn this really hit home. I’ve always gotten the things I wanted but it never made me happy long term. Now I work hard, focus on experiences with people and try not to worry about the stuff someone else has that I don’t. Have ZERO regrets. The phrase I live by now is “short term satisfaction leads to long term struggle, while short term struggle will lead to long term satisfaction.”
This reminds me kinda of Schoolboy Q loosing Mac Miller and many other artists. Looks like a hell of a life for us people who aren't famous in general, but we should think about how much people do sacrifice for this kind of life...missing their families, etc. Success, for me, is character. Success is being the best person you can to yourself, others around you and the environment in general. People who think success is measured by a number still need to work on their characters.
I've never seen Aoki this vulnerable. His energy is always at maximum. I remember he caked me at a festival and without doubt it was one of the greatest day's of my life.
@@professorfinesser4015 tf is wrong with u bruh
@@professorfinesser4015 i feel sorry for you bro... u must be going through some hard shit if you saying stuff like that. so sorry to hear that
@@ishansharma6890 Bruh.. isnt your last name a hindu surname? He ain't even get the correct ethnic group ..
@@Rust_Rust_Rust what does that have to do with anything? Lmaoo tf
@@REALDEALFLEXSEAL Its like saying all white people love fried chicken. Like okay not only are you racist you got the wrong race
Being in my 50's now I totally get what he feels. Life is very short and it is so hard losing anyone you care for and love. I cherish the days I have and try to make the best out of them when time permits. I may be older, but if I'm physically and mentally able to do what I want with who I want, I/we do, and so should everyone else viewing this clip and reading this post.
Life is short , appreciate every day you have . I might not be around my parents but I call them everyday because I know one day they’re gonna be gone . Made me appreciate him more and everything life has to offer enjoy it .
Respect Steve!
Silver spoon
Even with all his money he is still Human , be kind to one and others Life is Short.
Know nothing about this guy, but he seems very genuine. Speaking of getting high, wait till you have your first kid. Nothing more powerful in this world.
true that. having your first child must be a rush of gratitude, joy, and power in responsibility. have yet to have one. but raising kids in the way you want is a true gift to be caring compassionate human beings
Having a family of your own is another "high" which he hasn't felt yet. Not a bad idea to reduce the number of shows. He wouldn't regret it considering his age.
is that so many gay men get married to have kids and pretend not to be gross out by the women they are in bed with?
@@eduardochavacano explain yourself. I'm confused.
@@eduardochavacano having a family of your own meaning it can be a group of friends or coworkers as your family too. Not everyone can have a family unfortunately but you can make your own :)
Wow man, no one gets as authentic interviews like Graham does.. this made me get emotional
Honestly It’s too much, he’s uncomfortable, he doesn’t want to answer these questions
Mike5000 None of real fans want to see him in 700 club or some reporter trying to be the Barbara Walters of the Gay online universe.
Thank you for watching!
"There's no grand moment. They are all little moments." man.. that's soo true.
Life is short going fast” yes you right I always tell my son and my daughter “ they never appreciate me like single parents I telling all the time enjoy every moment ... I’m sorry about you friend he is better place 🙏🌷
I felt the same when my father passed away this year. Unfortunately, we will all realize this truth.
Lost my husband suddenly and tragically two years ago then my mother last year. Life is fragile .
I’m so sorry for your losses and can empathize😢 My mom died suddenly last month. It was shocking. Sending you much love 💗 and healing ❤️🩹
This is scary to read what the hell. How are you guys dealing with this? How do I prepare
@@iheartjbgccb I don’t think there’s a way to prepare for sudden or unexpected losses. It can be managed. My suggestion is to spend as much quality time with the ones you love the most and to let go of resentments if you currently fee conflict with them 💗🌷
@@midnightcat6116 appreciate the advice ❤
@@iheartjbgccb unfortunately as a society we are not ever prepared . Death is the only thing guaranteed in this life . Having two huge losses within two years … is inconceivable. I am only 36 and I wonder how I will be able to deal the rest of my life with the pain.
Damn. I got a song with this dude. Never met him, but we're indirect collegues. Always loved his music and his overall character. Cool guy.
Gotta respect a human being who knows how to be a real human and don’t act unstoppable or cocky. Gotta count your blessings 💯
Thank you Steve I needed that. I lost my best friend to suicide 4 years ago. Not sure where last 4 years went I was in a real hole. Gave up my passions and isolated. I'm very grateful for what I do have now and that is a huge success for me.
Was lucky enough to catch Steve's shirt at a festival this summer will treasure it forever
It's not about the money. Its about how time spent and moments with friends, family and loved ones are valued.
Money is nice to have, and having resources creates a different experience depending on the amount.
I bet most people can't even go deeper than what Steve Aoki has reached in his mind. Thanks for sharing.
Happiness - having alignment within yourself
What a genuine person.
Seeing him cry is what is making me believe in myself and the intensity of my dreams
Met Steve in Vegas walking through MGM. Such a humble, fun loving, relatable guy.
I love you Steve, you made me start crying before you started crying. Your passion and dedication is unreal
This made me think of Steve is a whole new light. Just didn’t know he’d be so vulnerable.
Music means love forever !!!
“I’ll sleep when I’m dead “on Netflix is a must see documentary of Aoki!!!💥💥💥
Thank you! I’m gonna watch it
@@ABG1020 my pleasure!
@@nicolehall2177 is it horror movie?
@@prettyme3150 umm no, it’s a docu.
@@prettyme3150 I’ll sleep when I’m dead does sound like it could be though 🤣
I appreciate his vulnerability and honesty and wisdom. Bless you brother.
never been a fan but this guy seems so nice and gentle, his soul is so pure and he really suffers in his life. it is clear that money means nothing much to him. he has money because he does what he likes not because he does music for money. and in the end he is still alone. what a sad story from someone with such a pure heart
I know Steve and he is a "solid guy"!!!! He is by far the best DJ on the scene...HANDS DOWN!!
Hope you’re doing okay Steve and anyone else who is reading this x
Damn what a humble human being. Life is definitely short. I feel everyone eventually comes to that realization.
Also shout out to Graham B. Your gift of reaching people is amazing really learned alot watching your show. Think I'll grab my clubs or paint brush and get back after it.
Finally someone being a real human being!💚
I've never heard his music but for some reason I think this guy is a honest human person and he's dedicated to his work fully. That's why he is successful.
Steve Aoki literally said what was on my mind. Glad to know they are like me.
This guy seems like such a genuine beautiful person.
Time for inner priority work? Non-stop drive, & needing the high, all sounds like trying to outrun that obvious inner pain. Health issues will start showing up next. "No", and "it's enough", are great words! A need for constant high is the same as drugs, and won't be needed to outrun the pain when addressed. Wishing him well.
you could be right but there's nothing wrong with chasing highs in life, especially if they're natural. the feeling after exercise or a jog or the feeling after a great accomplishment or being in the moment or high surfers or skateboarders deep in their passion, (as for a sober entertainer as this case) is an incredible joy. not same as chasing drugs, which is more for escaping reality. performing live is an embrace of reality, but i would tell steve to have children soon, even if he cannot always be there we must remember our goal of bringing new life into this planet.
Such an inspiration! I want to make drinking smoothies, water, & tea cool within the music scene !
3 of my closest/best friends didn't live past the age of 26... I still miss them everyday and it is coming up on almost 12 years. The only assurance I have is knowing that I will see them again in eternity. Love those around you and cherish that time with them. Life is short but it doesn't end here. I tell myself that daily and focus on the promises/purpose Christ still has for me. Great interview!
Steve has a beautiful soul
Love s seeing more men like Steve getting in touch with their emotional side. Men need that release too. Emotional intelligence and wisdom rocks! :)
Graham keeping composure, asking questions, and letting them talk. aoki giving 100% to this interview.
Aoki gives no fucks, no filter, tells us how he feels for real! respect
" when that moment is gone is gone [ live everyday is like your last day ] " - S.A.
I'm in 😢. I have a new found respect for this guy.
Respect to this man. I understood him on many things he said.
Steve, you’re such an inspiration man. I feel like you do so often. Thanks for showing so many of us the way through your bravery and artwork
I play games with Steve multiple times in a week and I’ll tell you he’s such a good dude and as real as it gets.. definitely a good soul
What kind of games
@@johnw6468 Warzone
steve has always seemed like a very genuine and deep soul. being able to show your true emotions and feelings in such an open way with another person are just a couple of traits that prove he is such. much love to you all out there reading this. 💙
Hes a legend lose my mind is my favourite song of all time
Success is how you feel about yourself. Wow! this is so accurate!
Seems like some positives have come out of the complicated life of his dad. These are the kind of people I really respect.
I knew him from his collaboration with BTS he seems to be a nice guy sad to hear his side of the story, when he cried I just wanted to give him a hug I hope he find true happiness ❤️
Man one of my favorite Dj idols, and a great person to also he is a real human being.
Love you Steve Aoki! I will always support you homie.
So much raw wisdom and realness from Steve Aoki! No wonder that he is this successful!
I am Japanese away from my family. Life is short never know, you are 100 right same way with you. Recently, I lost my mom. I couldn't go my mom funeral. I was talking my mom 12 hours ago. And last week i lost very important friend in here. LIFE IS REALLY SHORT TO BE HIRT SOMEONE EVERYBODY SHOULD TELL PEOPLES .ALL WE SHOULD SHOW HOW MUCH YOU LOVE THEM.. thank you for upload beautiful story
This touches me on so many different levels. I'm a DJ and a graphic designer, and recently I've been animating for Dim Mak, Steve Aoki's label, and man, does their mantra get stuck in my head. "By Any Means Necessary". He really meant that. You can see it in those tears, you can feel it at his shows, the way he talks about it here. He's sort of what I want to be as an artist.
Right now, I use my designs and animations to get closer to the DJ's like him, and others, to share with them the art I make, with hopes that one day I can share those same stages as well.
I played a few shows, and even though there wasn't a lot of people, my realest friends were there, and I was making people dance, and laugh, and sing, and for those brief moments I felt the feeling Steve's talking about right here. That high, that bliss, it's like nothing else. And like he said, no other drug.
I know the feeling of them, but since I've been DJing more, and learning production, and doing all the art I do, I noticed I didn't need them anymore.
I found my passions. Music & art.
The 2 things I'm going to chase By Any Means Necessary for the rest of my life.
Because I love it, and I want to make the world feel that love too.
Bliss.
Good shit.
Much respect for you, Steve.
What a beautiful person.
wow he's amazing! His music on Sirius radio is so incredible!
I think what is important here is that he is a human being and he's cognizant of how lucky he is. Yes most of us would rather be in his position and he acknowledges that. However, he still feels pain and hurt.
Thank you for this.
man made me cry :/
Steve has such a genuine, sweet soul.
Another great interview, Steve is a Real one 🙏🏿
What a humble soul,❤u steve
So much respect, I feel his pain ❤️
love you steve thank you for the motivation
maaaaaaaaan mad respect for steve what a guy what a legend. just fvkcing real.
That was really beautiful.
That’s amazing just be who you are to the highest level
Aw what a cool guy. Connected to his emotions, love this guy.
I’m right their with him! Those emotions are raw & true!
Sending love to steve man i will heed every word of that advice at 25 years old.
Thank you Steve! Great reminders.
Respect and Real Talk brother
I love you Steve just keep on keeping on brotha, just know you have people that love you and look up to you.
beautiful wise words my friend
steve - u are my hero & my inspo. thank u 🙏🏽
Respect Steve Aoki.....life is an open highway....
Thanks Graham, always enjoyed your show.
Awesome and inspiring interview.
"success is how you feel about yourself"
and there it is.
beautiful, very touching - thanks stevie
wow literally bawled my eyes out its so true life is so precious we really cant take life and experiences for granted
Life is fast damn and people do go this is the truth gotta make time for those people who support you god bless
Steve I feel you on so many levels. It's all or nothing. Love all you have while you have the chance.