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ความคิดเห็น • 629

  • @deepikaskitchenbeauty7258
    @deepikaskitchenbeauty7258 4 ปีที่แล้ว +863

    I and my my bf were in relation for 9yrs and now with parents acceptance we are going to marry....even though recent days i was suffering from rheumatoid arthritis he gave me the same love which he gave me before 9yrs...i feel i am lucky to have him in my life

    • @loveleenkaur3693
      @loveleenkaur3693 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Congratulations. Welcome to the next level😜

    • @sushman4918
      @sushman4918 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Congratulations

    • @lovingjuhi8416
      @lovingjuhi8416 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Great yrr that's so sweet!!! I just want my relationship to be like yours ❤ I wish you guys all the luck and happiness

    • @deepikaskitchenbeauty7258
      @deepikaskitchenbeauty7258 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thanks for everyone.... thanks a lot.....it means a lot to me...

    • @lovingjuhi8416
      @lovingjuhi8416 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😊❤❤

  • @hamidaazmi107
    @hamidaazmi107 4 ปีที่แล้ว +248

    So surprise to knw ..same story faced in my life! 6 yrs relationship..cast problem..momas boy..I ws almost in depression..face dark phase in my life ..Now I have moved on .. leading my life happily !

    • @godblessyou2091
      @godblessyou2091 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Stay strong 🤗🤗

    • @musicplay733
      @musicplay733 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Happy to Hear!!

    • @istudy3622
      @istudy3622 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Caste exits in Muslim society??? Strange!!!

    • @bharu9224
      @bharu9224 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too i too have same story, now I moved on

    • @rimplevirk6316
      @rimplevirk6316 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Guys am facing the same problem .. Caste problem...They will never say yes for our relationship wt should I do ?😢

  • @dr.gamruta3347
    @dr.gamruta3347 4 ปีที่แล้ว +307

    Iphone... If he is really crying ask him to cry infront of his parents and confess your love...i feel this is a drama... If a person is soo badly in need of something he would have confessed your love earlier...

    • @varshayadav6902
      @varshayadav6902 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Very true....it seems to be drama...he is playing with girls emotions

    • @shebangart4418
      @shebangart4418 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@varshayadav6902 exactly. Playing with emotions while being always aware that they will only marry the girl of their parents choice. He is doing that so that the girl doesnt curse him but sympathise him.
      But yeah...the law of karma settles everything.

    • @kirandeshmne6165
      @kirandeshmne6165 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@shebangart4418 ...so true. In my case the guy did just that! He put up the crying act, that to in a public place, so that I sympathize. And guess what before doing that he actually told that "please don't curse me". And I dint even realize why would he say such a thing...

    • @shebangart4418
      @shebangart4418 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @play & Listen PARENTS ARE PARENTS. WHY LINKING EVERYTHING TO PARENTS? WHY CANT SHE THINK OF HERSELF AND MOVE ON. AND WHBY LIVING IN THAT BOX THAT NO ONE CAN LOVE LIKE PARENTS, THAT PARENTS ARE REAL LOVERS? DO YOU KNOW HER PARENTS? IF ONE GUY DOES THAT IT DOESNOT MEAN THAT TGE GUY WHO IS MADE FOR HER WILL NOT GIVE HER REAL LOVE

    • @persislilliyoose7452
      @persislilliyoose7452 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly

  • @ibrahimm2012
    @ibrahimm2012 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Just a friendly advice to young people the moment you feel the relationship is getting serious just talk it out the hard questions like cast, religion, marriage, parents acceptance all that it’s better then speculating when it’s too late and you have invested a lot.

    • @satviasm3328
      @satviasm3328 ปีที่แล้ว

      True as currently all situations must meet

  • @reginiabhag2213
    @reginiabhag2213 4 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    This is so true....im married for 13 years with a mamas boy...never ever can he say...mom stop she ' s my wife behave properly...never ever in all the f... years!!

    • @rhine3461
      @rhine3461 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Stay strong sister!

    • @shebangart4418
      @shebangart4418 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      That is really bad. I get weekly clients, especially indian ladies, regarding this topic. It is mostly culturescape thinking in indian family. Cleans also your karma and do forgive him.
      I made many videos on this topic.
      You may watch them on my channel and use the shared information to improve your life.
      Those mammas boys behave mostly like trophys in front of their wife but cant even stand for their wife or girlfriend.
      After all that the wife stays nothing else than AN ADJUSTMENT.

    • @TanuSharma-il5iw
      @TanuSharma-il5iw 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      This just made me recall all the bad memories i had in my very short marriage. I was fine with my husband being close to his mother, i was just not fine with him distancing me for his mother. In just two months i was showed my place and i always felt like the other woman in his life, his mother being his first wife. I just couldn't take it and walked out of it.

    • @herman2096
      @herman2096 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@TanuSharma-il5iw As a man, I appreciate what you did. I have noticed this in a lot for Indian men. I respect my parents, but once I'm married, my dedication will be towards my wife and building my future with her. I will still keep an eye to make sure my parents are good, but thats about it.

    • @blueberrycupcake6999
      @blueberrycupcake6999 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Life's Good you sound sorted

  • @dilarabarlaskar307
    @dilarabarlaskar307 4 ปีที่แล้ว +218

    Loved ur video😍.. I and my boyfriend had 6 years of relationship and finally we got married this year after many obstacles it's been 9 months only...and it's true that we have to make adjustments.. sometimes when I m not able to go upto my in-laws expectations then my husband handles the situation very wonderfully..m so proud to be his wife..

    • @SmileWithPrachi
      @SmileWithPrachi  4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Thanks for sharing your story. :)

    • @pahadigirl852
      @pahadigirl852 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Dilara. I know it s very personal matter. But may I know way you have gone thru in your journey of being one? Bcz even I m struggling. We have been in serious relationship for almost 10 years. And my father is not ready yet..Bcz he is south indian and I m north indian. How you convinced your parents? Wat was your story?

    • @dilarabarlaskar307
      @dilarabarlaskar307 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@SmileWithPrachi ur reply made my day..Thank u for replying😊💕

    • @sequinlover3392
      @sequinlover3392 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Pahadi girl stick on to your boyfriend never leave his side never compromise

    • @SonaRajgor
      @SonaRajgor 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nice to know that

  • @racheldmello4881
    @racheldmello4881 4 ปีที่แล้ว +294

    Prachi di, ur advice to IPhone was literally so beneficial.

    • @ankitahota6382
      @ankitahota6382 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Sorry, but i kinda suspect if u re IPhone.

    • @racheldmello4881
      @racheldmello4881 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@ankitahota6382 nope dear.. Juz that her advice for iphone was relatable to my case

    • @ankitahota6382
      @ankitahota6382 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@racheldmello4881 ok.. My bad☺☺ I m so sorry.

    • @racheldmello4881
      @racheldmello4881 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@ankitahota6382 not a prblm, its ok😊

    • @bitastahar7872
      @bitastahar7872 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly

  • @dr.radhikacharjanalam948
    @dr.radhikacharjanalam948 4 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    i am suffering from this condition (i phone) n i married with him...now my life has become hell...his parents are typical middleclass...i am working proffesional dentist...n my husband never said anything to them.....big big big mistake ...same 6 yrs relationship i had....n now i have a baby too....miss i phone just leave him....moved on....plzz its a request...i m trying to save you n prachi tell me the solution of my problem

    • @desidivaofficial4168
      @desidivaofficial4168 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Even I am having the same issue

    • @ayushirai3384
      @ayushirai3384 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      File a divorce!!!

    • @dr.m9810
      @dr.m9810 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Being a medico ..plz dont consider urself as a super good housewife all the times ...coz itz ok to be open about how depressed u feel and how controlled u feel with the behaviour of ur husband and inlaws ok ...they took u for granted and so is the behaviour ...
      If once they come to know that u value urself too apart from them ...then they would know that u can be tough to deal with and not to be taken for granted ...now that u have a kid ...its hightime to be urself doc ....tc
      And am sorry if my words hurt u in anyway ...as i am in the same proffession ...and same age too i jus told u what i think can make ur situation better ...tc doctor ...

    • @purnimasankhyan2710
      @purnimasankhyan2710 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same issue is with me ... M upset

    • @sg3918
      @sg3918 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ayushirai3384 shouldn't use that word lightly. the scenario doesn't explain much in detail.

  • @SubhraSubhadarsini
    @SubhraSubhadarsini 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I am genuinely so proud of you oneplus 😊 it's good that you asked her this question. I see a
    friend suffering through the same. And being unable to speak about it. This would be so helpful for her. 😊

  • @richaverma5423
    @richaverma5423 4 ปีที่แล้ว +145

    As of now I have watched almost all the videos of "Smile with Prachi"...but still couldn't find words to thank you...no words are enough to express our gratefulness towards you...May this series continues for years and years...Lots of love and respect to you ❤️

  • @lopamishra9
    @lopamishra9 4 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    I've seen most of the people becoming very idealistic while advicing. But you're different, you're damn practical mahn. You're amazing.💕💯

  • @bratatibanerjee4877
    @bratatibanerjee4877 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I was 20 when I started listening to you. N still when I don't feel good I come to u.
    Ps. I'm 25now yet come to u

  • @khushboosrivastav823
    @khushboosrivastav823 4 ปีที่แล้ว +269

    U look like Radhika Apte

  • @sulagnna
    @sulagnna 4 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    Sorry for iphone , she has been with a typical 'chalu ladka'.. Who thinks romancing anyone is ok but marriage should be within community.. I guess his parents also know that their boy is romancing outside but would definitely marry within community. Yes preeti is right about venting out your anger or that will damage u emotionally but do it fast and move on you have already wasted six years. Certain things about Indian men doesn't seem to change 😛 LOL.

    • @PY-vh6in
      @PY-vh6in 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Sulagna Ray Seriously, he’s a loser! He’s unnecessarily putting the blame on his parents!

    • @miliaurora1038
      @miliaurora1038 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sulagna Ray 'Certain things about Metropolitan men' they have always been like that and are still like that.... I am from a small town...our relationships are different. Men don't behave like that here at least.

    • @anujdimple
      @anujdimple 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Indian ldke kabhi bhi nhi badle skte... Unko only sex se mtlb h... Kmaal ki baat to ye h ki sabhi girls ko ye pta hota h.... Fir bhi unke trap m fas jati h...

    • @anujdimple
      @anujdimple 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Dibya Mahapatra ji nhi 90% ldkiya bekuf nhi ho skti

    • @anujdimple
      @anujdimple 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Dibya Mahapatra shi kha aapne kch girls.... M aisi ldkiyo ko kafi praise krta hoo...

  • @bhalsodnirva104
    @bhalsodnirva104 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Dii u made me grown up.. I used to get frustrated but now atleast i can think.

  • @srishtisoni4768
    @srishtisoni4768 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    12yrs of relationship and i am very happy.. soon going to marry dis yr...

  • @sathyak327
    @sathyak327 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Most of the questions are about mamas boy in arrange marriage😂😂😂😂😂

  • @HarneetOberoi
    @HarneetOberoi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    How can you speak so perfectly without any retakes 🙈 But all you said in the video...very practical and honest!

  • @drsataparnaadhikari8053
    @drsataparnaadhikari8053 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    There's not a single way I find to thank u..lots of love n wishes

  • @papolugeetanath7503
    @papolugeetanath7503 4 ปีที่แล้ว +222

    Take my advice prachi di you should start an NGO.

  • @seemasingh-ye3kp
    @seemasingh-ye3kp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    For the iphone case:
    1. What if he is genuinely in love with her but also love his parents even more?
    2. Maybe earlier he thought he would be able to summon up his courage at the right time but now he can't?
    3. And what if he actually tells his parents but then they make the situation even worse for both of them, and he also can't leave his parents?
    4. And will the girl actually be able to be happy after leaving him?
    5. They definitely love each other, so is it possible for her to be this way this innocently with anyone else (or even for him)? And is it okay to say all these negative things for the boy?
    I am just trying to visualise the situation with a more real point of view, because blaming the boy, callimg him 'chaalu', asking the girl to vent out and move on happily, all this sounds really nice but sometimes doesn't seem real. Hoping to get a non-biased answer.
    By the way, your advice was good too, and I like your videos.

  • @prajaktadeshmukh3836
    @prajaktadeshmukh3836 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I really liked the way you are replying ppl by keeping in mind the societal senario (something that is missing nowadays). Keep it up with your wisdom and straightforwardness :)

  • @ramansathya5194
    @ramansathya5194 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I just come across your video now, I'm depressed with my boyfriend...we we're in 7 years of relationship...now he is saying he don't like me . I crying daily, but he enjoying there...I feel alone...he is ditching me...

    • @bunnysvlogs8409
      @bunnysvlogs8409 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Why are you sitting and crying .... You better leave him.... Teach him a lesson and then free your selves from this shit.... You deserve a btr like than feeling broken for that guy who make sure u cry every day.

    • @ramansathya5194
      @ramansathya5194 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@bunnysvlogs8409 💖 thank you for your reply..
      I'm trying hard to come out, but some on the other I struck with memories...

    • @bunnysvlogs8409
      @bunnysvlogs8409 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ramansathya5194 there will be a point where u will get over it ... But u can never evwr forget those memories .. its just that they will stop impacting you after some time

    • @ramansathya5194
      @ramansathya5194 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@bunnysvlogs8409 waiting for that day for past 8 months .

    • @HarneetOberoi
      @HarneetOberoi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Raman Sathya Hey ! I know how it feels to see your boyfriend not like you anymore. You can literally feel your heart breaking everyday. I understand. But you will HAVE to see the positive side. I know 7 years is a long time. But at least NOW you know how he feels about you. Raman sometimes it’s not the person you miss it’s memories that haunt you. But trust me girl. You are strong. If you really want you can get over him. All it will take is TIME. And it will heal everything. Career and making your self a better person should be your motto and priority now. All the best you will rise and shine.

  • @pragyamandal6220
    @pragyamandal6220 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Right timing and right topic. Di thanks love you ❤️

  • @laxmiprasannapatha7156
    @laxmiprasannapatha7156 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Prachi di, you are such an inspiration for all the new generations.!

  • @Zoeee93
    @Zoeee93 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    How do u even understand these things. I loved ur answer. Boys like the bf of iPhone don't deserve any girl's trust and love.. I was also in a relationship for 4 years and the boy did the same thing to me n he was not even crying n was not even sorry.. He used to make promises of marriage n future all the time n broke up with me over text... He didn't even respect me to breakup in person. I expressed my anger through texts. Everybody told me that I should have kept quite but m so happy to hear from u I didnt do anything wrong . U r very true about the thing that it will impact u and people around u.. I started venting my anger out on other people n even on myself.. This is very necessary to tell the person what u feel.

  • @sreyasichanda1250
    @sreyasichanda1250 4 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    Correct advice for iPhone. One who can't stand for u now, he ll never do it in future.

  • @vandanasingh5022
    @vandanasingh5022 4 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    Y so less subcribers ....she deserve lot more...the contend she delivers lot of ppl need to hear that

    • @MrAmrajt
      @MrAmrajt 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is 2nd channel of prachi.. Probably started recently... Hope it grows..

    • @satyambharti5555
      @satyambharti5555 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      But samjh me nahi aati na english sbko

    • @vin6584
      @vin6584 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      She got millions in her other account

    • @mandiraghosh7227
      @mandiraghosh7227 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Your wish is slowly getting fullfilled.

    • @user-gp5zm7ij6z
      @user-gp5zm7ij6z 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      How to reach out to her?

  • @asaiasai4821
    @asaiasai4821 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Great n fabulous.... 👏👏👏👏👏seriously wen a guy can't stand to get u he will never be a good person.

  • @afreenibrahim1739
    @afreenibrahim1739 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Ur channel name is to be "Girls solutions" hona chahiye which is vry helpful for evry single girl in dis society right nw

  • @melita1707
    @melita1707 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Hey Prachi.. the examples you gave for the “first” question had actually happened in my life ...and am glad to know to there are people with similar point of view..very well advised!

  • @SonaRajgor
    @SonaRajgor 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Every girl should watch this before get marriage 💝

  • @kuhelikaajaybiswas1381
    @kuhelikaajaybiswas1381 4 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    I m in relationship with my boyfriend it's been a year we are datig each other. He informed his family about his relationship. We r going to marry me officially on next year. I hope my relationship aftr marriage works out gud.

  • @KAhandle
    @KAhandle 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Your advices are on point. The first one 💯 and your stand for homosexuals. You have gained a subscriber dear.
    You seem to be the best friend to have long and meaningful conversations with ❤️
    Wish I had a friend like you.

  • @aishwaryam9050
    @aishwaryam9050 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hi iPhone! I have been in a similar situation as you mentioned in your letter. This guy broke up with me for this exact same reason. I am telling you this kind of Heartbreak will be there for some time. But you will move on as time goes on. Stay Strong. I told this to my Mom as I am very frank with her. My mom gave me the same advice as Prachi did. How can you be happy with a guy who cannot take a stand for you? No matter what never go back to him. Imagine this, if you were in his position. Wouldn't you have taken a stand for him if your family was against this marriage? You would right? Because you loved him. Why couldn't he take a stand then? I am telling you no matter how much you loved him. You will never be happy with him. Moving on is a decision. I did. So, can you.
    Hi Prachi. Your advice was spot on. I wish I could see this earlier. Because I never could vent my anger on him. I couldn't do that. Yes, you are right. All of my relationships really affected that time. Especially the one with my Mom. Nevertheless. Thank you. I will remember this advice for Life.

  • @Elizabeth-zd1or
    @Elizabeth-zd1or 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I can see your are unique in many ways! Simplicity and more thoughtful. I feel this is the right place to place my ears on... thank you personally

  • @parveenparvin667
    @parveenparvin667 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I wanted these words to listen when I was 20.. at that time I was dependent on my parents... I was right and they were wrong... but just bcz I was dependent I had to face so much of harshness from them...

  • @raghavakumar6013
    @raghavakumar6013 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I like how u advise and explaining y it is. U deserve 👏👏👏. I salute you to helping lot of people.

  • @sunakshibahgla7645
    @sunakshibahgla7645 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    At 7:10, you talked about a guy being muma's boy. How can a girl judge the guy in case of arrange marriage. Because this is not acceptable to any girl and also she would like know this early( before marriage) so that if guy turns out to be Muma's boy or father's boy also if he is scared to take his independent decision boldly , she would have an option to terminate this relationship.
    Please reply as soon as possible bec even my parents are looking a guy for me and this thing haunts me alot.

    • @sathyak327
      @sathyak327 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂damn true!!!!

    • @aiswarya7682
      @aiswarya7682 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same doubt

    • @gotohell5749
      @gotohell5749 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      M facing the same situation bt i toh directly ask the guy wat will u do if in future koi argue ya misundrstaing hojae mere n tmhare parents me.. u jst have to listen to his ans carefullly.. if u r mature enough u cn judge him by his ans.. i mean agr wo mumma’s boy hai toh wo already defend karne lagega apne parents ko ya gussa hojaega bt if he is a sensible prsn wo kch mature ans dega like dono side ki baat sununga ya dono ko snjhaunga typs

  • @manoteja8618
    @manoteja8618 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi prachi... Sincerely respect all your words...Here she said they are in serious relashionship...If they had physical relationship that guy should marry her and the girl should get serious on him and make him strong...It is clear cheating from boy's end ...How can he leave her after 6 long years...How can that girl get over it and choose another guy so easily ...the boy don't have any right to use her ...What's ur opinion Prachi on this ???

  • @guywithcoolusername..
    @guywithcoolusername.. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    *why you ppl don't like mumma's boy? If he can manage both side then also he's bad for you or being a mumma's boy is bad. I don't understand dude why this world is being so mean*

    • @ni3070
      @ni3070 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mama's Boy is adorable......but no independent thinking is problem I guess

  • @harshitasrivastava8896
    @harshitasrivastava8896 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Actually In our relationship there is difference of 10 years...but we loved each other...and ya...we are in long relationship....
    So... what should I do...prachi di... please reply

  • @nivedithaduggirala2704
    @nivedithaduggirala2704 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    All the words spoken by you are very sweet, true, accurate, informative, reasonable and very informative to each and every individual and very mature..Very impressive and nice of you prachi!!

  • @Radhaaaaaaaaaa
    @Radhaaaaaaaaaa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Prachi... i Heard your first letter.. Its actually my story Too.. He also sacred to tell his parents about me.. And engaged with other girl... I was thought of that other girl also that she may be dreaming about future ...I'm tried the same things like to move on.. For two months.. now its getting really very hard for me to forget him... I'm depressed... Now I want him in my life... should i take one chance to convince him and his family?

    • @lipismitapandey8986
      @lipismitapandey8986 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      A fucking no yr..... Handle yourself .....You can only save yourself ...no other can do it for you.... Keep the sweet memories with you .... Feel the life which is searching for the happy you...

    • @amisha3848
      @amisha3848 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      May be yes...

    • @Radhaaaaaaaaaa
      @Radhaaaaaaaaaa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Like you can see my last comment was posted on 10 months ago... see someone replied me here and again came here to read that my own comment.... ❤️ so i feel to share where i am now...!
      I never went to him or tried to convince him & i literally forced myself to move on. Its been complete year the day we separated..He didn't tried for our marriage.. some caste issues plus i m suffering from chronical disorder Epilepsy.. from past 8 year..so this was second reason... Third one was Background.. He was from rich family.. His Nature was very good .. I will not say he is bad just bcoz he left me.. No..!
      He got married...after his marriage.. finally i found a doctor who can treat me... Now I'm living my normal life like other with help of tablet twice a day.. I'm cured but my life is dependent on medication.. Then i left my hometown and shifted to another.. town... See... I was waiting for this days... That independence of my life... I never went alone anywhere from decade.. I have started my own life once again. I will say god gave me second chance.. second life... ❤️ He's happy in his life.. I'm happy in my life... we had so beautiful memories.. he said me one thing.. Never waste your life in If's and But's.!
      So whoever reading this hope my journey help you. I wish whoever going through painful nights and days i wish they heal faster.. Just be patient and trust the process! ❤️💪 Time has good policy - "This time will pass"

    • @amisha3848
      @amisha3848 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Take care 🌹♥️

    • @user-vb6zf1om5t
      @user-vb6zf1om5t 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Radhaaaaaaaaaa he knew all the things right, epilepsy, caste, all,
      So if there are no ifs and but means no turning back, so why he did that?
      Came in relationship in first place

  • @danisonice.
    @danisonice. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    youre the best , i love and respect you so much
    also 17:05 really had me smiling and a bit emo

  • @spurbliss
    @spurbliss 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ur right Prachi..this is my practical experience we were together for 10 years n finally we wanted to marry but he his parents against but in this whole process of making them accept me n my parents experienced hell and pain ! But we married with everyone's precence but even today he cannot say a word to them n every thing that happns it's blamed on me because they can't be told.. so pls girls don't suffer like this u have much better out there!!

  • @divyayadav9369
    @divyayadav9369 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You are explaining the wrong girl a smart girl Won't wait 6 years to have this conversation and to read his mind there are always red flags!

    • @aasthaghimire2269
      @aasthaghimire2269 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ikr!!! Why do girls miss those red flags!

    • @divyayadav9369
      @divyayadav9369 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@aasthaghimire2269 because they are blinded by love. Heart and head should go hand in hand.

  • @sabashaikh2410
    @sabashaikh2410 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Amazing amazing amazing amazing amazing amazing amazing amazing. JUST AMAZING. WORTH WATCHING

  • @sumanrawat8543
    @sumanrawat8543 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Prachi you are very very good at making understand the complex things and issues very easily. Good work keep it up.

  • @manasac3102
    @manasac3102 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Your advices are getting better with time!🙂

  • @apurvasharma6739
    @apurvasharma6739 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Love you a lot di ! And love how straight forward ur thought and opinions are ❤😊

  • @arpitabanerjee3420
    @arpitabanerjee3420 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    5.05 sec u said reality things. Parents made first rules on me and in future in laws does..every time.

  • @arpannandy7717
    @arpannandy7717 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I was in a relationship with a 1.5 older girl. She is getting married next year to someone else. We live in 2 different cities. on the day of breakup, after talking for a while when i asked, "why don't you ever tell ur mom what we do have in between us?", She said that her mom doesn't know anything about our relationship n mom understands that whoever she chooses, ex will agree to marry him. I didn't have any words for this. But also i didn't want to loose any of my dignity so i backed off. I don't understand why she never took a stand form me. If she would have agreed i eould have made worlds possible, but she chose to decline. I am broken, n trying to move on, but i dont know how to do this. She meant d world to me😥

    • @limesr6464
      @limesr6464 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Give time to yourself.... Right person at the right moment will meet you.... In the meantime try to find your true personality , work on negatives and positives of your personality.. Good luck make a good life... God bless you

    • @arpannandy7717
      @arpannandy7717 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@limesr6464 thank u so much. If u ever need a friend, plz reach out to me

    • @rao433
      @rao433 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Arpan delete all the things that make you remember your ex. Remember she is an ex for a reason. When you don't find anyone who can love you; love yourself. Don't watch sad/serious stuff. Get running every morning. Meet new people. Don't judge anyone. And yes keep smiling!!!

    • @arpannandy7717
      @arpannandy7717 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@rao433 yes. Thanks. I will try my absolute best

  • @ssdvids2890
    @ssdvids2890 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is so real. Topics like these really need to be discussed and you have absolutely done a great job Prachi Di. You nailed it. The best video with practical content in it. Keep up the good work. Love love❤😘

  • @kanchanbharti1083
    @kanchanbharti1083 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    U r a star dear...lots of love n respect for u..

  • @simranraman9907
    @simranraman9907 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    this is not even a question, the guy is emotionally torturing you and using you by emotionally manipulating you. if he loves he would stand up but he has no backbone. On one side he is dating you and on the other he is marrying someone else.

  • @talkitout4953
    @talkitout4953 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I have been following u from very long... But have to say ur counseling... U r a champ.... Love you

  • @anushkatewari8694
    @anushkatewari8694 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi prachi, same case with me, i stopped talking to a lot of my friends because they were calling the lgbtq community a faux.

  • @ashakumaran1774
    @ashakumaran1774 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Prachi, ur advice is very mature and practical and real. Keep helping. God bless u.

  • @mayakumari8282
    @mayakumari8282 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    U r so mature and u r looking so pretty

  • @shruti97777
    @shruti97777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Keep it up.. I m also going through tough times but u gave me the strength to face it...

  • @maycherrie
    @maycherrie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Iphone i am having same situation as yours.. and for prachi advice was really in point and very true

  • @vrushalibane7990
    @vrushalibane7990 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Prachi u r so mature, honest, helpful & intelligent . Love u sis ❤️

  • @divyaa6675
    @divyaa6675 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    perfect advice to iphone!!srsly.... your awesome! prachi di💖

  • @ramakrishnamaram8439
    @ramakrishnamaram8439 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Here is not my opinion it's my story
    The mentioned first story here happened in my life exactly in reverse . She was relative I had crush on her since my 6th standard but I never said to her because of family relations was not good then at last in degree second year I expressed my feeling's she accepted it really happiest person I was then later I told it to my mom she said one thing ' she was not like that who stands for her decision"she can't obey her parents but I trust her after when she was in last semester her parents showed few matches she rejected those I said please tell in your home also but she resisted I don't once their family come to my home casually my mom told whatever happens, they asked me why did you do this I said I loved her , I want to approach after get the job ,they asked her what was your decision , she didn't spoke any one word and sit like statue our parents are on conversation,, after one month Iher parents given me invitation of her marriage
    Then onwards I wish she would not appear to me I know that I can't hold my anger may be I will slap her or more else
    Due to this bitter experience I am not able to trust any other girl even I hated the thought of relationship called love decided to remain isolate
    If you boy/girl not a issue your not able to stand on your decision please don't create hope to other on you . It's more than killing one.

  • @addycool444
    @addycool444 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can't believe it's prachi I saw in roadies

  • @reincarnatedprincess
    @reincarnatedprincess 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    You have spent "only 6 years" instead of 60 glorious upcoming years. Stop talking to him. Block. Just change locations. Out of sight out of mind. Run! Sprint!!
    Don't vent out your anger. It's risky. He will again somehow convince you into a hopeless situation and use you to his physical benefit. Just leave. Let him figure out, Wonder for years!!! Do not give him a closure.
    Revenge is best served when cold so cheer up no matter what and settle down first career-wise then get married to a successful man. Be happy - that is the best lesson to the loser and as for you, you deserve it!!! Deserve to be Happy!!!
    Trust me - Men love confident women! So venting out anger/crying only show your weakness. Just turn back and go unreachable. He will come after you like the dog he is. IF he loves you he knows how to find you out, he will go distances to get your closure and do everything to make you happy. Trust me guys really are programmed to hunt us down. In a good way I mean. But if he doesn't come after you know you have "learnt from experience" and he was never worth it.
    Do it. It's a Win win situation. Be happy. Stay blessed. Lots of love and light👍🏻❤️
    Also consider adopting a dog or a cat. They are better beings to shower our love on plus an incredible support system. They return our love unconditionally!!! Soon he will be history and you will be stronger emotionally and be a more confident person.

  • @taniamondal7402
    @taniamondal7402 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your suggestions were so practical and helpful.. i just loved this video.. many people will be benefited from this video for sure and congratulations to you for that....

  • @sabinayasmin3302
    @sabinayasmin3302 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hello mam, Your suggestions are so helpful and logical like a psychiatrist . Your advices are so clear. Thank you for helping such a way. I must say you r so intelligent,logical,strong and also u r so beautiful.

  • @Kamna_Jha
    @Kamna_Jha 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Oh God, Prachi what an observation .. What great perception you took us through. lots of respect 💕

  • @misakiayuzawa4402
    @misakiayuzawa4402 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I get pressures of marriage from outside people.

  • @rimzhim_v
    @rimzhim_v 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very honest and mature advise. Its good to know your honest thought. Agree with you.

  • @gokilaselvaraj7653
    @gokilaselvaraj7653 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hi Oneplus,,
    I can understand ur problems,,, Once upon a time i also had a feeling that how can a boy or girl have a sexual attraction with same gender only.. disgusting like that,,, but now i can understand them and know the reason too... its all a hormonal imbalance in their body,, if they don't like also nothing can be done...So some people will accept it with full heart( like u, proud of u) and some will take a decision to end their life( because for the society but that is very bad actually,, life is to compete with all challenge,whom they are to decide their life) and most of the people will hide this under their family pressure and get married to opposite gender due to which they will spoil their life and their partner life also
    But in this small age u have a clear thought that it is not a mental disorder,,, am very happy for you dear,, but as prachi said until u become independent u cant do anything...definitely u need a financial support. Here is a solution for you... take this as my suggestion. First u complete ur studies, get a job, become independent and then take ur own decision(tell ur parents about this and make them understand this) if they not understanding then u can live ur independent life.. some day in future they will understand about ur feelings for sure. Last but not least,, after u become independent u can create awareness on this in and around ur place so that people who don"t have a guts to reveal this in front of this society may be benefited...

    • @gokilaselvaraj7653
      @gokilaselvaraj7653 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/yG9qvIk8zPQ/w-d-xo.html ,,, Feeling happy and Inspiring us

    • @aishwaryamohite6147
      @aishwaryamohite6147 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Everything you said is right, i Just need to educate you with one thing. That there is no hormonal "imbalance" everything is alright with them. Its just the way they are.

    • @gokilaselvaraj7653
      @gokilaselvaraj7653 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aishwarya Mohite ,, Ohh but I have studied like that and heard an interview of doctor also,, anyway it is related to science not anything...it's a normal condition,,,

    • @Journey_into_now
      @Journey_into_now 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Really!!
      You are dealing with real psychological issues here and using science as an argument here.
      I don't care about the morality of being gay or straight, however i don't believe into something blindly be it religion or science.
      And yeah being 19 yrs old is big enough for a person to live independently without the support of parents.
      I know parents can sometimes be real pain in neck, but they are coming from the place of concern.
      This is all they have been taught from their parents...so everyone is just passing the buck.
      But the guy needs to rise up and be brave enough to face the situation.
      In order to integrate all the personalities the first thing he needs to do is stop lying/hiding. only then the mind will be peaceful.
      And once the mind is peaceful, a person can handle any situation.
      I am always open to the suggestions and learnings so please feel free to reply.
      Thanks.

    • @aishwaryamohite6147
      @aishwaryamohite6147 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Journey_into_now im sorry you got me wrong. I meant, when someone says something is imbalanced in our body that means that something is wrong with us which is not the case. Its not about science. I just didn't want people to think that its a imbalance or something is wrong. Because due to that people might think that if it is hormonal imbalance it can be treated. That is why i cleared the fact. Nothing else.

  • @dr.unknown3874
    @dr.unknown3874 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    U r one of the most ideal youtubers I've ever seen. 💐

  • @advaqsasiddique
    @advaqsasiddique 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    U are amzing just loved your "answers" ❤❤

  • @samyukthadevi8076
    @samyukthadevi8076 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    dear sister,
    your stunning thoughts and words help me build my mind to accept the truth.
    thank you so much.

  • @shamigovenkar849
    @shamigovenkar849 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Prachi... I have a friend who thinks in arrange marriage she will have to adjust, compromise and she will always have to keep her head down n listen. Can you make a video which tells any individual especially girls what their rights are and on what things they should not adjust? Basically a motivating video which will make her stand for herself n know her rights

    • @rcultrainstinct3975
      @rcultrainstinct3975 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      oh so its either her way or the high way ? total BS.

  • @inspired4780
    @inspired4780 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Omg..the same happened..i knew him for 6 years, we got married but now things are getting ugly. Going to file a divorce soon. My husband never supported me.☹

    • @Riyaayaa
      @Riyaayaa 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Stay strong!

    • @inspired4780
      @inspired4780 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Riyaayaa 💌 thanks dear🤗

  • @ritambhara38
    @ritambhara38 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Like both of your responses.

  • @mrsafsarali3493
    @mrsafsarali3493 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I really loved ur vdo...ua thoughts ua point of views...nd some points i love the way u make people undrstand....keep going

  • @anushamishra2938
    @anushamishra2938 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Di I loved this guy...I thought he did too...I shared with him my dark past and he still accepted me...I thought he really loved me...But after 5 months he broke up with me on my birthday...And when I investigated I got to know that he already has a girlfriend for 3 years....I don't know di what to do😢😢😢...I still love him....😢😢

  • @mayuripatil7080
    @mayuripatil7080 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you so much diii you are my life saver🙏... I got my ans from this video thank you so much dii... Now iam out of confusion and I know what to do .. thanks alot dii

  • @aishwaryadokhale8784
    @aishwaryadokhale8784 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hello prachi....i have rather different condition....i have been in relationship from last 3 years....v have same religion same cast bt my parents expectations are like so much big.... even though he has good income bt still they going to reject them.....he is so generous that he understands every condition of my parents.....i don't know how to convince parents for this....v can't imagine our future without being together......m parents forcefully wants me say yes for their choice....i really don't understand how to convince them.....i know our parents do lots of things for us n they juz want secure life of their child.....n he has all those things.... please prachi help me out here.... really need your advice...

  • @JayantiMainali
    @JayantiMainali 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    In love with how beautifully you explained it all. Love you @Prachi ❤

  • @roshnisingh7317
    @roshnisingh7317 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    My bf has guts to say n quite serious about the relationship but he's kind of mom's boy what should i do? Marry him or not?

    • @roshnisingh7317
      @roshnisingh7317 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @uzma aman thnks dear😊

    • @mohormukherjee4707
      @mohormukherjee4707 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Marry if you feel you're compatible with him.

    • @kavyashree9307
      @kavyashree9307 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Marry him if he stands by u. And give equal priorities to u as well as his mother. This is because being a girl is very different. You have to care them and u have to stand by all. So if he really stands by u and makes his mom also understand what you are it’s really great. Go ahead ! Don’t try to adjust but try to understand with ur life. Happy living. Hope I told something informative

    • @thebrowngirl5259
      @thebrowngirl5259 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am in the same situation, he told his parents about Me and he wants to get married to me nd all that. but he's kind of Mumma's Boy, his Parents are his top most priorty. what should i do ? Marry him or Not ?

    • @somewhere_29
      @somewhere_29 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thebrowngirl5259 no nonooooooo

  • @nilamathari7836
    @nilamathari7836 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very honest suggestions mam .great !

  • @sarikarana9584
    @sarikarana9584 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wow you are a goddess to me 😙 I loved your advice on iPhone case

  • @navyaholla5451
    @navyaholla5451 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi dear my decision is I will do my work , be independent and truthful and respect both in law and husband if he is mom boy or not,wife has to make own time for her and own hobby,they r second Life part,if they good they look like daughter, otherwise not,think differently that how to improve in girls life and make good hobby and if he is mom boy let it be if girls r strong this is small matters , it's my view,nice video

  • @angelz5322
    @angelz5322 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    God bless you Prachi...you are doing such a good work providing such great advices..so that girls are much more aware before getting married to such guys

  • @BEASTGAMING-uy3ev
    @BEASTGAMING-uy3ev 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    you are just next level... hats off... ❤️

  • @wellenjeje
    @wellenjeje 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Preach sis preach!

  • @sagek7949
    @sagek7949 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Girls and boys l please gauge the possibility of marriage before you fall in love with them. ( assuming you have plans of marriage )

  • @littleworld5543
    @littleworld5543 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are awesome , love the way you talk and explain, and it's all sooo true ...

  • @soumitakar4373
    @soumitakar4373 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Di, your every point is too much important for every girl ❤️
    Thank u so much , love u😘

  • @vaishnavidevi7625
    @vaishnavidevi7625 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I loved this video alotttt..i watched this channel for the first time..

  • @prakritisharma4110
    @prakritisharma4110 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey!!! Prachi.. I dont know if i should say this or not but i almost have same mindset and thought process like you.. Its great to observe your views😇

  • @kanchan4809
    @kanchan4809 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love you so much...u r such an inspiration😘..though i am not follow you regularly...coz hv to give my time to studies for my career... I hv already wasted too much of percious time with my so called friends..nd i not blaming them but if they were really my friends thn y they ditched....nd still i know tht i was so true with them...but its ok ...this is life no one cn control it.......once again u r the best😇😇😇😇😇

  • @sam_block
    @sam_block 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Plz do more video advice like this on relationships

  • @aditiaher7
    @aditiaher7 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are so sorted out! Best Advice! 😘