10 Things U Need To Discuss Before U Marry 'The One'

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  • @samakshgupta947
    @samakshgupta947 7 ปีที่แล้ว +208

    Error 404: “THE ONE” not found😂

    • @aishvaryatiwari5414
      @aishvaryatiwari5414 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Error 404: what kinda name is Samaksh? Wasn't it apparent when the baby was 'in front of' ?
      ( Pls don't take it otherwise 😋)

  • @youcancanyou
    @youcancanyou 7 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    Most important thing you forgot, fan/ac/cooler setting at night. My dad feels way too cold and my mom wants a cool room. Theyve been trying to adjust with each other on this since past 30 years. Its kinda cute.

  • @shoneetsinnie995
    @shoneetsinnie995 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    1) Food Habits (veg, non veg, etc.)
    2) Finances (Income, investments, etc.)
    3) Bedtime
    4) Kids
    5) Health (personal/genetic issues)
    6) Career plans
    7) Toilet manners
    8) Religious beliefs/background
    9) What do you watch on Netflix
    10) Living Arrangements

    • @a.m.thomas9366
      @a.m.thomas9366 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you for saving us 12 precious minutes, my friend.

  • @aditikulkarni4891
    @aditikulkarni4891 7 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Toilet etiquette is soooo important! I realised that only after getting married

    • @doyouwatchanime58
      @doyouwatchanime58 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Means... what you observe odd,after marriage

    • @sadhunar8872
      @sadhunar8872 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes aditi. Same here. Guys don't even pour water after using washroom. After taking bath bathroom fully foam and slippery. Too worst I saw evr in my life. Parents b etiqutte nhi sakthe aur 30 saal maaried insaan ko b bachchan h bolthe h worst part

  • @Buzzorial
    @Buzzorial 7 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    Great video! I am prepared. Now get me 'The one'.

    • @juhiaroma
      @juhiaroma 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Buzzorial 😂😂😂

    • @sashaviegas5221
      @sashaviegas5221 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Buzzorial omg 😂

    • @elsypoothara
      @elsypoothara 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Buzzorial 😂

    • @viola736
      @viola736 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Buzzorial hi! I recently started my own channel and I would really appreciate it if you could check it out! th-cam.com/video/wAtfHADGh-Q/w-d-xo.html

    • @Buzzorial
      @Buzzorial 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Canne Subhadra yes sure ❤️

  • @payalupase
    @payalupase 7 ปีที่แล้ว +272

    I am 18, I don't know why I am even watching this video. 😂

    • @sachinkr8878
      @sachinkr8878 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      warlike tiger yup 😂

    • @viola736
      @viola736 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Payal Upase hi! I recently started my own channel and I would really appreciate it if you could check it out! th-cam.com/video/wAtfHADGh-Q/w-d-xo.html

    • @tanishquasingh7791
      @tanishquasingh7791 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Payal Upase guess what, im 16

    • @chandarbelani5960
      @chandarbelani5960 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Payal Upase Hahahha funny lol

    • @seddhidesai
      @seddhidesai 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I m 19 😅😅

  • @rathineha82
    @rathineha82 7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Very relevant video especially in this day and age !! A lot of people lie about these things,after marriage they are in for a surprise 😢

  • @Shelifestylenima
    @Shelifestylenima 7 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    These topics looks very casual like 'we know it' and these are often ignored but they are really important... Thanks Sherry and Vaibhav ❤

  • @AmalaJoshi
    @AmalaJoshi 7 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    The finance stuff is really important. On a more morbid and serious note, it often happens that one person dies and the other person is left to deal with contacting and dealing with creditors or banks when they knew nothing about the other person's finances; when they are already dealing with such a monumental loss

  • @devanshisanghavi2560
    @devanshisanghavi2560 7 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Intimacy is also a point
    U need to discuss it
    Plus if joint family thts also discussion point
    Love the rest all points😊❤️

    • @pikachu5647
      @pikachu5647 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      aahahahha, only discussing intimacy is a crime, it needs to be practiced before marriage, this might sound cringy to "pure souls"
      btw i am talking about love marriage here, can't say how to deal with this stuff in an arrange marriage.

  • @k1985ization
    @k1985ization 7 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    Nice stuff !! I feel living arranged vs nuclear also needs to be discussed. I mean many girls today do not feel comfortable moving to the guy's house, or living in the same floor with parents.. And these issues become real big since in India it is mostly expected, also guys (a lot, not all ) get pissed with the idea of nuclear and feel that the girl wants to tear the family apart 🤔 I know it sounds dramatic, but a lot of people go through this. And I feel it's an imp issue now since the generation is changed, girls are more educated , independent and hold a strong view point unlike before where we were taught "sasural hi tumhara ghar hai " kind of crap.

  • @janicevazz
    @janicevazz 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The way Vaibhav looks at Sherry is so cute 😻

  • @GAG_j
    @GAG_j 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Ive been finding out that a lot of our generation (late 20s) folks dont want to have kids, and sadly, a lot of people realise this AFTER marriage.

  • @j.j500
    @j.j500 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    1 food
    2 finances
    3 sleeping time
    4 kids
    5 health
    6 careers
    7 toilet etiquette
    8 religion and ritualls
    9 what u watch
    10 living arrangement .day today things
    ...now go and impimement .

  • @ms_lav_ram
    @ms_lav_ram 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Love this video, you two are clearly very realistic and in love xx

  • @shrutijoshi4666
    @shrutijoshi4666 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This was very useful
    M getting married in six months
    Love u guys

  • @sanahification
    @sanahification 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Most appropriate video💯💯 especially when you are planning to get married. At the age of 24-25 especially

  • @nehajadhav3467
    @nehajadhav3467 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Even my husband sleeps at 10 😂😂 and I don't let him sleep till 12.. so relatable u guys

  • @nosheenraja2890
    @nosheenraja2890 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Alot of love from Pakistan I really love you guys I think u r the best TH-camr couple for me love to see you for once in life may Allah sweet protect you both from all evil eyes Ameen lot's of lovexxx

  • @rheavaishnav
    @rheavaishnav 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Good one :) pretty must hit the nail on the head! Most ppl shy away from discussing most of these things!
    I made a written list of questions and make my husband make a written list too when we were dating and discussed them and trust me how much ever you discuss it's not fool proof 😂 but it does sort out most things!

  • @saileeghorpade395
    @saileeghorpade395 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Ohh god i get so scared when i get to know that so much things goes in marriage 😅

  • @rinkalanjara1529
    @rinkalanjara1529 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    1. Food habits , cooking
    2.finances
    3. Life style
    4. Bed time
    5.about kids
    6.about any issues
    7.careers
    8.toilet etiquette
    9. Religious beliefs
    10.netflix
    11.living arrangements

  • @nidhisom3483
    @nidhisom3483 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Loved it! It's great that you guys thought about making such a video

  • @WhatTheUmair
    @WhatTheUmair 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I don't usually comment on YT videos (it might be my 3rd or 4th comment till date) but I absolutely and absolutely loved the video. Immense cute and thoughtful as well at the same time. Loved the couple 😊👍🏻

  • @deoyaniratnaparkhi4219
    @deoyaniratnaparkhi4219 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Heyyy u guyss are soo awesome... nd cutest couple... love u guysss

  • @akanksha_
    @akanksha_ 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Shared it with "the one"!
    Good topic❤

  • @simranprajapati9765
    @simranprajapati9765 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Loved it!❤❤❤ very helpful and both of u r so adorable!!😘❤❤❤😭 and the other person does not deserve a kid😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @viola736
      @viola736 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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  • @sararoy123456
    @sararoy123456 7 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    What exactly happened between 4.25 to 4.30
    He got irritated

  • @karishmasingh5342
    @karishmasingh5342 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love your camaraderie! It's so much fun and you can see the friendship n respect between you'll. You make it seem so easy peasy, relaxed and healthy.

  • @shirlinedias5894
    @shirlinedias5894 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    You should've discussed which side of the bed you take and how much space !

  • @ila326
    @ila326 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This was very nice. Some other things could what the other person's family is like. For example if the girl is from a modern family and the guy comes from a conservative one, it could cause issues later. The girl might not be allowed to wear certain things after marriage or work or be expected to bear children soon after marriage, etc.

  • @gailpereira5746
    @gailpereira5746 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    "it can really irk you" (gives sly looks 😂)

  • @MsAshwathi
    @MsAshwathi 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Guys I loved it. And it's absolutely necessary to know these things at an earlier stage as u mentioned. Mine is also a 2state marriage and I guess these things play an important role in your marriage life. 🙂👍🏻good one guys. Love you both a lot 😘😘😘

  • @priteshvartak1616
    @priteshvartak1616 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Excellent video and very informative.

  • @shwetadubey5232
    @shwetadubey5232 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very practical ... Love this chemistry haha

  • @AnuSharma-nc8wr
    @AnuSharma-nc8wr 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice. There is difference in the prakriti of you both and that is complementary, but we should respect the healthy habits of the partner like timely sleep, healthy food, sustainable living etc. Once in a while in very necessary things can be adjusted and compromised but despite being in a relationship every have has individual mind, body and soul. For a healthy marriage a healthy freedom is important.

  • @chaitrashetty4714
    @chaitrashetty4714 7 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    How come vaibav not posting any video in vt-tv.....his videos were different n fun.....

    • @shazebsuhail8708
      @shazebsuhail8708 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      even i was thinking the same,miss vaibhavs video on vt-tv

    • @Simply_me132
      @Simply_me132 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Chaitra Shetty

  • @homechefmagic8311
    @homechefmagic8311 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Lifegoals is missing like travelling and many more

  • @user-cq8mf4jo4q
    @user-cq8mf4jo4q ปีที่แล้ว

    Had watched this 5 years ago, and wasn't relatable at all as I was single..
    I now remembered that I had seen somethjng like thjs and came back here now that I am getting married.
    Also, thanks for resuming videos you guys🥺

  • @snehajalan7239
    @snehajalan7239 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The most productive video on your channel 🤣 I enjoyed .it was productive as well as fun . You guys are couple goals. Always stay happy ☺️ sherry Plan a meet up in Mumbai if possible !

  • @taniabarot
    @taniabarot 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    great topics but this is easier said than done...you guys have a friendly and open relationship from the beginning so might find it easy to talk about this or anything under the sun with ur spouse.. but for some other ppl its not always possible to discuss all of these things in advance and have them sorted. also some of these topics can be really sensitive(health, finance, religion etc) for certain ppl especially if you are in a arrange marriage(or sometimes even love for that matter of fact) and still getting to know your partner...

  • @sanchianazareth4043
    @sanchianazareth4043 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I think this was a brilliant video ! 😍

  • @koelmagic
    @koelmagic 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing topic for a video!! Loved it and the tips too!!! 😀 ❤❤❤❤

  • @shradhamaheshwari793
    @shradhamaheshwari793 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love both of you! You complement each other so well! ❤️️

  • @amandadias7701
    @amandadias7701 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very informative video. Thank you both.

  • @simransachdev12
    @simransachdev12 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    You guys are so adorbale ♥

  • @gauravgaur47
    @gauravgaur47 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    u didn't included 'SEX' such a big thing that u missed totally..in modern world...it's one of the most imp thing ppl need to discuss about..

  • @Lasyapriya18022001
    @Lasyapriya18022001 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Guys !
    I love the 2 of you so much ! (actually I love Sherry more ;P). I remember when my sister was getting married, everyone told her that she should discuss general family expectations (of both families) with her husband, because apparently that's really important.
    XOXO

  • @ontheotheredge
    @ontheotheredge 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow! That was a fun discussion. Loved the video

  • @Limitless-Traveller
    @Limitless-Traveller 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very Useful video and i will surely discuss these 10 things with my partner. 😃👍

  • @TheScorpianDiary
    @TheScorpianDiary 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    i like the points mentioned here! very practical

  • @AnkitaMorePatil
    @AnkitaMorePatil 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    very informative ♥

  • @vishakha2406
    @vishakha2406 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    it's so nice to see you both together :D

  • @mymakeuptales
    @mymakeuptales 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm not getting married anytime soon! But this info is still useful 😁

  • @gayatriarde968
    @gayatriarde968 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for your guidance 😊

  • @samruddhipatil1469
    @samruddhipatil1469 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very helpful points.

  • @niyatis2529
    @niyatis2529 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Even I'm an early to bed and early to rise kind of person!! :)

  • @darshan3869
    @darshan3869 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You guys really missed the most important thing that is girls/boys previous relationships or if they are already involved in sexual things.. Yes it is very much important to discuss it before marriage only. I personally saw many problems among my friends circle or close people's regarding this issue.. Many people who wants to have virgin partners. So it is much important to be honest and discuss about this with boy/girl that are they ok with ur past relationships or not. And don't lie about ur pasts. Otherwise Things goes terribly wrong in such situations

  • @neilparekh580
    @neilparekh580 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Miss coupling!!

  • @mubahbape4008
    @mubahbape4008 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such a thoughtful video 👍🏻

  • @nikitagoenka2987
    @nikitagoenka2987 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    You guys are adorable together :)

  • @somyak4907
    @somyak4907 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Makes so much sense :)

  • @shainamarwaha6316
    @shainamarwaha6316 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I miss watching Vaibhav and Sherry together❤️. Why don’t you vlog with Vaibhav now. Coupling used to be my favourite channel ☹️.

  • @riddhiadvani5879
    @riddhiadvani5879 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very honest !so cool..you guys are very cute

  • @wilmization
    @wilmization 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sch logical and practical points...

  • @avab6228
    @avab6228 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    You both are super adorable... :) Keep vlogging

  • @anoushkas3553
    @anoushkas3553 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loved it

  • @mahek36
    @mahek36 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Liked it as always

  • @jasleenkaur5986
    @jasleenkaur5986 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    M gonna show ds video to my feancy before getting married 👰 😂😘

  • @Namaste.happiness
    @Namaste.happiness 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video!!!

  • @happyheart1111
    @happyheart1111 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is there a perfect match?

  • @herdiaryofdiscovery2387
    @herdiaryofdiscovery2387 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    very usefull !

  • @shekhark8446
    @shekhark8446 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi guys!!

  • @DrVamsikrishna
    @DrVamsikrishna 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Somuch gyaan :) i dint realise the importance of it

  • @chandarbelani5960
    @chandarbelani5960 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm getting a feeling the boy wants to discuss but he's shy to say things on TV.. and this video isn't much information TBH.. there are plenty of things y'all haven't said..

  • @kc0369
    @kc0369 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please make more videos like this :)

  • @Rituvija296
    @Rituvija296 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanx a lot ...I always thought of making a list but never did...but only investments/ income and toilet manner is left........but how to start

  • @amarvpatil
    @amarvpatil 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love Jane the virgin !!!

  • @mohinipathare5154
    @mohinipathare5154 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    There is somebody behind the wall..😨

  • @Prasantadas721
    @Prasantadas721 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    super !!

  • @ity.sharma
    @ity.sharma 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such a cute couple

  • @silvershree
    @silvershree 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey .. I don't know my comment will reach u Or not but here it is... I am trying to find life partner on matrimonial site and found one match and we are talking (that's 1st step). So i need help pls make video about how to check if the partner is fake or real.. Of course I am having issue😂. Tell u want... I don't know questions to ask him.. So that I know he is working in particular company and he is really have his house. Most importantly how to know his financial details.. If he is having loans and how he plans his finance . His planing about finance is very imp to me. I feel I am ok with what ever salary he has.. But other stuff like if he has sold some property and having some issues with bank.. Those kind of stuff. Looking forward.. Pls pls make video. Love you guys 😊😘

  • @apoorvamodgil8164
    @apoorvamodgil8164 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Married for 2 years....😊stilll watching this video 😬😁😬😁

  • @shabanaanjum8485
    @shabanaanjum8485 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sherry you look so beautiful ❤️

  • @shrutidhapodkar6956
    @shrutidhapodkar6956 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    who cooks everyday VT or SS?

  • @dhananjaymajhi2877
    @dhananjaymajhi2877 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bahebav n Sherry ,i will marry by end of this year ,but i have a question.....Can be we able to manage long distance relationship smoothly????

  • @utkarshraj6558
    @utkarshraj6558 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    No one take year off work as there is very less time ...

  • @vishalzambare5978
    @vishalzambare5978 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    What do these guys for living??

  • @manlat2239
    @manlat2239 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    sherry.. is that a tag popping out in between Ur dress and belt?? just curious 😂😂

    • @amishavathare549
      @amishavathare549 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Manla Konyak naaa...its just the belt...

  • @shivanipatel7046
    @shivanipatel7046 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Should i ask him how much you earn? Can anyone tell me in brief what exactly i have to discuss in finance? Its a most important thing and I don’t know a proper way to ask 🙄 p.s i m meeting him tomorrow 🙈

  • @annapurnak116
    @annapurnak116 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mere fiance ke gharwale saare mujse baat karte hai but wahi ek baat nahi karta ☹️

  • @zverhsjs5440
    @zverhsjs5440 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    so much of "ya"

  • @noureennazir6963
    @noureennazir6963 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I agree with your points but why’s the guy in the video irritated ? He’s rude too.

  • @maverickmaven7168
    @maverickmaven7168 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    All are good but will the other partner open up so true too good to be true??? Playing dead

  • @mayachavda1497
    @mayachavda1497 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mam your husband is in bollywood?

  • @yashvirsingh4872
    @yashvirsingh4872 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Matlb shadi k liye bhi ek interview 😂 gajab jindgi me kuch bcha hi nahi.
    Aise khtarnak video dekhne k baad shadi karne ka mood hi nahi hoga.... Etna gyan koi kaise soch sakta hai 👏👏😂

  • @aishwaryadeogade8371
    @aishwaryadeogade8371 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    sherry is breathing soooo "visibly"... just a thing i noticed and can't unseen....

  • @mommickey4121
    @mommickey4121 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yayyy

  • @ruchiraagarwal5355
    @ruchiraagarwal5355 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    5:31 😊😊😊

  • @umaiyakhan5504
    @umaiyakhan5504 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Plz Do Mad Libs challenge in ur next video !!