I was laughing my ass off when Iyanla was reading the crap out of Tamar and the rest at the dinner table. This dragging was long overdue, Tamar finally met someone that is not going to cater to her attitude and crap.
Those grown women are still the girls in that room when their parents announced their divorce. It's like they stopped emotional development at that point and began survival mode. Sad mom was too prideful to acknowledge her role.
We all still has a hurt little girl or little boy inside. EVERY single person. It is something that needs to be addressed. Many of us don't and carry the hurts deep into adulthood. It is important to dig I'm deep and heal your inner child. I started with a meditation on youtube. I'm in my 30's. It is important to heal those hurts.
NOT ON HER WATCH!!!!! I use that for my grand kids now. Not on my watch you will not be doing that. They look at me crazy I be cracking up but they understand when granny playing or not!!! THANK YOU IYANLA.
I am not going to apologize for this but Evelyn is responsible for the result of what we are seeing today. Toni is the oldest but honestly and truly she doesn’t want to have anything to do with it. Toni didn’t want to do the show from the beginning period. Tamar is childish and has been able to get away with so Much.. And Tamar is not the black sheep of the family.. Tracy is
Yeah toni felt like she was doing them a favor by signing up for the show so they could also be in the lime light. And since they have supported her all this while now the messiness it has created.
Tracy is the black sheep because she goes against the established family norms (she’s the only one still married, she honors her commitments) while Tamar is a billboard and ultimate manifestation for the family dysfunction
And there it is. Everybody always saying "they pick on Tamar", They just jealous ". I been watching the Braxtons from the beginning and Tamar has always been what they said. She's a brat and she's disrespectful. She can dish it all day and night. The minute she get a taste of her own medicine she instantly becomes the victim. Good Job Iyanla.
EXACTLY! Can't stand the Tamar's and K Michelle's of the world. Both have a big mouth and sense of entitlement and they need a serious reality check.Tamar has always been the common denominator on this show from the start.
They indeed pick on Tamar, they have been indeed being jealous of her since the second season of the show, especially Towanda, because they never believed that Tamar and her huff, puff, her neck rolling and all her antics will make her the most popular on the show. People started watching the show because of Toni, but they keep watching it mostly because of Tamar. So don’t get ourself twisted‼️🤨 They will crucify Tamar whatever she said or does, like everyone in this family who love to pick on Tamar, because it easier for them to do, since they always say that If our family is dysfunctional it’s because of Tamar‼️ Tamar is the syndrome of this dysfunctional family, with so much deep and ugly secrets that everyone failed to see it. They all have been learning to keep their family problems on the inside, while Tamar cary their ugliest secret, she also the one who revealed their dynamic and dysfunctional relationship. Even worst Tamar said that she was been sexually assaulted, with family members on both sides more than once, so now I understand better why she did act the way she does. I also observed that most of the time when Tamar wanted to speak her truth they shut her down, and not allowing her to talk openly what she deeply feels. She grew in a family which she learned to keep her mouth shut, her childhood’s secret make it even more unbearable for her, because she cary it all those years. For her sanity she needs to let this out, and seek for help by herself without her family.
It's all about the paycheck for appearances! As far as I'm concerned....Mrs.E sold her soul to the devil by throwing her daughters under the bus...although they're already in the publics eye! Smdh...the things people do for money! 💰
Sorry guys, it's a 2 part episode on Braxton Family Values soooo of course we have to wait until next week to get the rest of the story as BFV tells it. I'll def do one as sooooon as I see it💖♊
They all created the monster in Tamar. They have tip toed around her and allowed her to treat them with disrespect. A few seasons ago, Towanda tried to call out Tamar on her mess and Towanda was viewed as a hater and jealous of Tamar. Now look where we are... disgusted with the whole family!!!
Yes and also Towanda already knows how Iyanla works because if y'all can think back Iyanla had a show called Starting Over and the 1st season Towanda was on there that's why she's more humbled then the rest of them.
I agree. When everyone was calling Towanda jealous I always thought no, we’ve watched her and the other two sisters get mistreated by Tamar for seasons. So she finally stood up and said she wasn’t going to take it anymore. And now she and Tamar don’t have a good relationship anymore. Tamar can’t take anyone telling her about herself.
oh wow ... tamar with all that neck rolling and pursing of lips ... very disrespectful but i dont blame her ... she learnt it from miss evelyn who is also making faces and doesn't want to be there ... i am glad we are all seeing this because Tamar tweeted that iyanla was the wrong one yet it is obvious what is happening here ....
I totally agree. Iyanla was spot on when she said: your behavior does not match your message. Tamar's behavior was so off! At some point, she needs to grow up!
the entire family condoned tamar's "extra" behavior until it became "the norm" for her, TOO ingrained in her to change or for tamar to see her way is grating on almost everyone.
I watched this a couple days ago, and was very grateful for your editing skills and willingness to let the story do all of the talking. I came back because I am waiting on Part 2 like a Black Friday sale!
Yesss. "They inherited that from their dad." Uh, no. Communication skills are LEARNED, not "inherited." And I can guarantee they didn't learn all their bad habits from one parent. Communication is a two-way street. No ownership whatsoever. My mom is the same way & it's infuriating.
Zephyr Standifer, it gets on my nerves too. I've heard people say so many times "he/she wasn't raised that way" BUT you ALLOW he/she to behave in that way. So you may not have raised them to be that way technically but you allowed it.
I loved that. Made me really think about that statement. You definitely see that in life. She's a gifted lady. I like listening to her when I need some clarity in my own life
It was way over due for Tamar to be checked by someone. Because she's annoying af. Tracie have a reason to feel the way she's feeling because they treat her like a step sister.
Tamar has been glorified by fans for her craziness and lack of respect for others.. it's almost like she take pleasure in being insensitive to her sister's because it makes her feel/or appear to be better than them.. and I knew this show was creating a Monster out of her (that's the problem with them).. she likes being "up here" and Traci, Towanda, and Trina.. "yall are down there".. Tamar is disrespectful..
Good point. I was thinking similar earlier like....THE FANS of Braxton Family Values literally made Tamar a superstar. I think we all thought she was waaaay younger than she was but then we saw she made some bomb ass music. Now....we r seeing her in a different light. She's attacked people I personally know with lies...people I've watched...with lies...she confused or it's a case of I'm too old to change so over personification of what you already were doin....mmmm it's sad
GeMini The Queen Tamar has been spoiled in the entire history of this show.. when Wendy William's did there first season reunion show.. Tamar learned that the public loved her bold personality.. and she amped it up for the next season.. Tamars career officially took off.. fans were excited to see her win.. but with that extra attention.. it put a super mega charged battery in her back and she started really shitting on her sisters... A Mess.. and they sitting all around and can't say anything to her.. she is just about ready to take that humble seat (and put her ass in it).. Tamar is Tamar down fall.. you will see it..
Tamar Victim Braxton is rude AF !! Acting like a clown and talking to a woman that can very well be her mother. I hope Ms E pop her annoying behind in the next episode. Because she is OVER .... DOING..... IT !!
Miss Evelyn is a narcissist. She use her ex husband infidelity as a response for her current bitterness towards any form of tolerance. She believes that she's perfect and blameless and a victim. Tamara behaves like her. Shallow AF!
So, this proves the double standard theory then. If you can honestly fix your words to explain foolishness displayed by the father then I guess Mrs. Evelyn should just pretend that that level of betrayal doesn't affect her. Unresolved issues spill over in the heart and up and through the mouth and behavior. She didn't have proper support to overcome this betrayal so yes out of hurt and pain unintentionally she raised her daughters from the broken pieces she was left to gather. S
So, this proves the double standard theory then. If you can honestly fix your words to explain foolishness displayed by the father then I guess Mrs. Evelyn should just pretend that that level of betrayal doesn't affect her. Unresolved issues spill over in the heart and up and through the mouth and behavior. She didn't have proper support to overcome this betrayal so yes out of hurt and pain unintentionally she raised her daughters from the broken pieces she was left to gather.
Yes, but notice that this man moved on while he was yet still married. You can't possibly be serious with this rant about how he moved on. He was still in the covenant of marriage.
I know her whole mind set is all messed up. She was not going in with an open mind. She needs to grow up. That's why she feels like the session didn't work. It's all about her.
@packleaer87 I have known many people who were molested worse than her…and even they don't act like that. I'm talking being bloodied I won't get too graphic but they don't act like that.
I believe time I was set up she is always on time doesn't make sense from Breakfast to come in in the afternoon though but obviously time I had something to say and obviously she didn't want to let her know about it
Yes and no. Evelyn is TIRED. She is getting older and didnt even know why she was there. Theyve tried all types of therapy before and yet the daughters dont learn anything. Its not the parents, its the DAUGHTERS--mainly anyway
i always see these types of comments and i just want to say that when youve been yhrough a trauma that youve never moved on from you sort of mentally stay in the place and age of when it happened.....not to mention they are all immature....some more passive aggressive than the others.....Tamar is the baby of the sisters and it is clear theyve always treated her this way. even the parents.....they are all stuck in time. im not sure what time but they are living mentally somewhere in the past....
Telling a LIE, living a LIE,are two different things!Why Curse! And Bless GOD, in the same sentence! STOP, playing Church!! They traded their Dignity , for fame and money ! They need to stop ALL the drama ! Acting in church and acting in life!!!!!!
The problems with the Braxtons are: #4 All 5 of them inherited Ms. E’s bitterness #3 Ms. E is either unaware or in denial about that #2 All of the women including Ms. E feel abandoned by Braxton Sr #1 They keep trying to work out their family issues on TV - which completely goes against the “Covered Wagon” value that they listed. Also, the fact that they keep referring to a 40yr old divorcée as a baby is a bigggg problem and the reason Tamar acts the way she does. They’ve been enabling her attitude since childhood
@@tdaniahenderson5015 right. Toni is one of the 1st producers. I notice how she portrays herself. I have been saying that for years. I have always been a fan of her music. But she just comes across as too good or flawless. It's weird.
Ummmm...when Traci said, "I feel disrespected," I do not recall Traci saying, "I feel disrespected by Tamar." Why must Tamar turn everything about her!
@@looknbakatu I've had that discussion with someone else in another post. They seem to think it was Towanda that said it, because of the fall out from the strike and the non-invite to the christening, I tend to believe it may have been Towanda because, Traci & Tamar was not speaking to each other before all this. Remember when Traci went to Tamar's movie set and Tamar rode right by her? Than the business about Tamar getting Traci off tour? That was the last time they said two words to each other. Nevertheless, whoever said it, that's just out of bounces. This is family! I know family don't always get alone, but dang, really! That right there means you have no feelings towards this person, that is your sister, your blood!
While I don’t think Tamar behaved herself well in this episode (and I am a BIG Tamartian), I also have a feeling that this is what she means about how production chops and screws the editing to paint a certain picture of her. I have a feeling that she was talking about something totally different but coincidentally her wording matched what Traci said in a different scene so they put it together as if they were talking about the same thing.
How does Tamar neck not hurt? I rolled my neck at my mom once in my whole life. She very sternly explained to me how that behavior was beneath me as a young lady & she wouldn't have it in her house. Then went into detail about where my neck would end up, if I dared to roll it again.... 🤦🏽♀️ WELP! Needless to say I've NEVER rolled it again! Lmao 🤣🤣🤣
My mom thought I rolled my eyes at her when I was rubbing them and I can safely say that I nearly died and neck rolling is not even on my attempt list.
Ms. Evelyn really reminds me of my own mother. You cannot openly express any negative feelings, because she takes it as a personal attack on her parenting. I hope the Braxtons are someday able to find inner peace. They deserve it, they just don't know it yet.
Absolutely one if not the most beautiful woman ive seen.. Id give anything to look like her... Her skin is so smooth and beautiful and i love her personality too.
...but what happened to Trina??? She aged into somebody’s old ass looking grandma. And Traci needs to get the rest of her face done. Where are her lips? In her neck? Looking like Aretha’s corpse. Ms Evelyn looking more and more like mama Tina Knowles. Iyanla needs to stop saying _Beloved_ we get it... she hustling for Oprah on the 20 year anniversary of that movie... but baby she was a flip floppy hot mess of a movie. _Beloved_ has to be one of the worst cinematic attempts in history. It is said that movie only set black people back at least 70 years. Shame on you Oprah the organ trafficker in russian that secretly spells negro backwards. #illuminati
Tracy kept asserting that the "elephant in the room" and "it" references "dont bother her", but clearly her face showed that it does indeed bother her. Whether she's wrong or not, I hate to see a person in such obvious pain.😟
@@GeMiniTheQueen hell yes and I don't even like to bring religion into it, but for her to be the woman she is and she feels that she has not allowed anything is crazy
They need individual counseling starting with ms E and ex husband. She needs closure and he needs to ask for forgiveness and really mean it. He hurt her and he doesn't feel bad about it.
@@Indigobliss377 ...She hasnt gotten past it because the deepness of his adultered betrayal went from tears to hate. It blows me when folk hurt you they feel time is up on your forgiveness. Not to mention, He married the woman who assisted in the cheating within their marriage. So its a hell of lot easier to be civil without disgust when its someone new, but that situation I see clearly why she's forever bitter towards him. She's moved on, she date others. What her adult daughters need to respect is her boundaries and stop pushing collective gatherings, and accept where there mother is without boundage in their life. When and if Ms Evelyn decides to see Braxton as not a cause and effect in her life, be it never, is perfectly fine.
💥💥💥💥💥Boom! And you know it. Tamar’s attitude stinks. She hate traci so much it’s crazy. I cringe watching her ass, every time the camera spun around it was on her plastic surgery carved ass nose up in the air.
He stays out of it He's said. He grew up with his siblings who were full of drama and he could sneak away and go to a quiet place. Dudes probably a bit traumatised tbh
Deflection all the way around. The family still has their mom and dad. How can they continue to take each other for granted by not talking themselves? SMH
Damn!!! A mess. Tamar is a 40 year old who acts like she's 4, Evelyn is still pissed Michael left her and the girls are stuck with her and haven't moved on. I feel for Tracy. Kudos to Iyanla for trying. Did Iyanla say they have vexed my spirit?! 🤣
NO 1 EVER! confronted tamar on her shit, it had to have started when she was younger, this behavior & attitude is INGRAINED in her, the Family let her "get away" with SO much, it's normal to her, she's ALWAYS! behaved this way, it's not just behind closed doors any more, BFV's has made it public! how people act in private is how they act in public!
Her behavior def started as a child. I use to always wonder, why they excused her antics & called her "the baby", like she was in her mid-late 30's, now 40's, and she still out here acting out. Her behavior with Iyanla was sad. She looked like a 3 year old child that needed to go potty. I am glad Toni at least mentioned Tamar's inability to communicate, & inability to communicate without making those UGLY ASS facial expressions.
Tamar with the head rolling, eye popping , neck snapping antics continues to look like a damn fool. Is there any wonder that her marriage & her time on the Real didn't last? A simple, attention seeking juvenile in a woman's body. And clearly, Mother Evelyn is in denial about her part in the behavior of these grown women. Yes, they must all take responsibility in some form but it is crystal clear in the attitude in Ms.Evelyn that she will take no responsibility in the root cause of their adult behavior.
@@Machenziethemodel I agree, the abrupt getting up and leaving the room from conflict, defensive and stand-offish behavior, stems from anger and confusion from traumatic abuse as a child. If you noticed she began to experience some anxiety, and PROBABLY has anxiety more often than not...she knows if she remained in that room to continue, Ayanla would bring those demons to the surface. It's a very scary thing to face those demons ESPECIALLY when you are surrounded by the very people who you expected protection from. It's not their fault, but this is the mind of some who have gone through this type of trauma. The brain has a way of compartmentalizing... it WILL shut and suppress certain traumas down... if too hard to handle... and when it surfaces all types of behavior follows. She must begin to heal and face EVERY demon suppressed; she must walk through the fire, and stay there awhile to heal; it's not fun it's very hard. She needs to walk back to meet her true self because the reward is great and worth every burn. I know from experience.
Easy answer: Being an obese man with low self-esteem, who needed the validation from being with any woman... Tamar found a sucker, who’s bank accounts she could be attached to, and not have to have sex with. And a marriage emerged.
Lies Tamar told on Wendy's couch of deceit!!! "Your behavior diminishes your message. You can't do what I do!!! I TELL THE TRUTH!!! The Spirit of Chaos & Confusion is attached to the Braxton Family" Iyanla told the TRUTH & it's obvious who can & cannot accept, take it or even handle it! Wow!!! Now I am disappointed!!! That's the ultimate truth!!!!
This shit has me dying laughing!!!! The immaturity, why she get lost at the end trying to leave? Hahahaja. I'm literally crying. Tamar with the head nibbling and then brushed her hair....this is a mess!!!
Tamar's "animated" behavior is a result of not being able to verbally communicate her thoughts and opinions clearly. It's definitely something that started in her childhood: in school, church, and likely at home. She can't say what she really wants to say and uses facial expressions and body language to convey her thoughts. When she does share her thoughts, it's short, simple statements that are blurted out of frustration and uses her body language to say what she really means. The parents definitely play a role in all of this. Allowing children to bicker, fight, and cause emotional pain while acting like it's not their fault was hard to watch. They certainly haven't resolved their own issues which have allowed the children to mimic their behaviors. This was an excellent synopsis.
They will crucify Tamar whatever she said or does, like everyone in this family who love to pick on Tamar, because it easier for them to do, since they always say that If our family is dysfunctional it’s because of Tamar‼️ Tamar is the syndrome of this dysfunctional family, with so much deep and ugly secrets that everyone failed to see it. They all have been learning to keep their family problems on the inside, while Tamar cary their ugliest secret, she also the one who revealed their dynamic and dysfunctional relationship. Even worst Tamar said that she was been sexually assaulted, with family members on both sides more than once, so now I understand better why she did act the way she does. I also observed that most of the time when Tamar wanted to speak her truth they shut her down, and not allowing her to talk openly what she deeply feels. She grew in a family which she learned to keep her mouth shut, her childhood’s secret make it even more unbearable for her, because she cary it all those years. For her sanity she needs to let this out, and seek for help by herself without her family.
I dont see how Tamar can call Iyanla a fraud and defame her when Iyanla tried to help. Tamar is out of line by being hours late and was nonchalant about it until Iyanla called her out. Tamar needs to grow up. Iyanla was totally right "Your behavior diminishes the validity of your message"
Jackie Welch iyanla brought her being molested as a child and Tamar wasn’t ready to open that womb back up and she feels that Iyanla took it to far and it wasn’t her place to bring that back up when she didn’t want to talk about it
@Antwön right cuz that was never mentioned in either episode so that was BS she just wanted to put out a false reason for her behavior im so glad her mother was there to check her
Imani Floyd if she didnt want to talk about it, then she doesn't need to go to therapy. Their purpose is to get to the root of your problems and overcome them. Nobody was forced they went on her own so they should've stayed home if they didnt want healing
Jackie Welch Iyanla is NOT a therapist first off... second off it’s VERY inappropriate to blast that in front of everyone. She could’ve took Tamar to the side and asked if she wanted to talk about it with the family. She took that choice away and that’s wrong on so many levels. Iyanla was very unprofessional for that and she knows it. And she is very condescending at times. When she was doing that whole “I love you” stuff with her hand and shit I was ready to slap the fuck outta her for Tamar. That was outta order outta line and very disrespectful
Iyanla needs to dedicate an entire season to these people. So many skeletons and stories of hurt and lies that they will never be honest about. They will never fully evolve and heal because they dont want to admit they behave this way because of Ms. E. She has these grown women emotionally stuck
wilsonf15 soooooo true and Toni is about to marry a man that’s probably on the same emotional level as she is and that’s scary because Ms. E loves him which means their negative energy matches 😞
Ms Hill this is a statement for myself 🤦🏽♀️ my man always says to me that sometimes I’m right but the way I deliver the message is wrong so it makes ME look like the bad person smh Deep
@@deenadz6806 Well keep working at it. Its good that you can see yourself because a lot of folks are unaware of their dysfunction. I have my moments too like any ordinary person.
Mom and Dad's toxic relationship trickled down to the children. Toni is still acting distance by appearing profesaional, Tawanda, Tracy and Trina are living in the shadows of Tamar and Toni's success. And Tamar is constantly fighting for attention even with and behavior.
Coco T I wish I could like this comment 1000 times. Nothing but the truth. I’ve always said this. “Mommy” never says anything when it comes to these girls behavior toward one another. This is definitely learned behavior. There was a time when Ms. E didn’t speak or sit in the same room with “Daddy” and claimed not to be bitter. They have a massive amount of work to do!
Very disappointing seeing ms. Evelyn being so standoffish and in denial. She basically blamed her ex for everything bad that has happened to the family, she conveniently took credit for all the good.
Someone Anonymous I agree to a certain extent, he was a grown man, an amicable divorce would suffice. But to cheat for years with a woman your wife called her close friend and then leave his family no contact for years ? I believe if they ended things on a mature level then this could’ve been avoided
Yeah, it seemed like every time Mr. Braxton spoke Ms. E ...kept with the side eye or rolling of the eyes..She's still very bitter...Iyanla even felt that.
Bruh her best friend is screwing and sleeping with her ex husband. But your right she needs to start working on growing up from this shi*. However how you gonna fix your crap when every two seconds one of your kids acting like the fresh out the world with another one. They all need to find the word GROWTH. Not everything someone says needs to be responded to or spoken about or overthought.
And the sisters wonder why Tamar act the way she do CAUSE THEY ALLOW IT!! Cause at that table grown or not my momma would've back handed my ass if i acted like a 16 year old and im 40!!
2 years ago and your comment makes sense now. She actually confessed that she has mental health issues, just last month in an interview with TAMRON HALL .
Tamar had me 😂😂😂 the whole time. Why sis was clucking like a duck while bouncing up and down sitting in the chair thou. 😂😂😂 (In the words of Joseline) I CANNOT
The shit is actually not funny like bitch u 40+ and acting like this like WTF is u teaching your son, to throw tantrums, make them ugly ass faces, roll ya neck and snap ya head around just to get your way or what u want or get a point across when shit don't go your way...oh Vince should be fucking glad this bitch filed for a divorce. If I was a guy and Tamar was the last woman on earth for me to date I'd be gay or stay single before I deal with her immature childish overly grown bitter MISERABLE ass.
Tamar will miss opportunities because of her inability to take responsibility for her ridiculous antics.. she lacks self control over her emotions and she is a horrible listener as it pertains to her inappropriate attitude and behavior.. I believe she is a great person but this show has played into her diva like foolishness.. I'm disappointed in her
You said that just right! This is so inappropriate. Tamar has real talent and has the chance to really be great and not just be known for her immature behaviour. This type of bad attitude can not keep good things around you(including a job and proper relationships with people). I'm sure Vince has/had his bad behaviour in their marriage but I truly believe that if Tamar continues with this type of behaviour, nobody will give her the chance to show how good she can be in whatever relationships(platonic and romantic) she may have going forward.
I don't know! I get it, yes, they all grown, but who sowed the seeds! Momma & Daddy! I'm not liking Ms. E. at all! Didn't she say she will support her children in all that they do, but she's not on board with this🤨
C Rod, ms. evelyn see's this as a REFLECTION on her that her daughters have these issues, she's STILL! bitter about the break-up of her marriage, she hasn't moved on emotionally, but she's NOT going to admit it.
@@looknbakatu I hear you, loud and clear. Ms. E. will never progress because she won't let go of the past. She is extremely bitter and that has been eating away at her for all these years.
Say what you want about Iyanla’s tactics, but she always tries to get to the root of the cause. In all seriousness Tamar is a class a narcissist or suffers from a form of mental illness. Evelyn and Daddy Braxton played a big part in the family’s dysfunction together and separately.
I don't think she's a narcissist as she seems empathetic, but I believe she's been deeply traumatized and is stuck at the age that the trauma took place.
I love how she handled Tamar finally someone got her together. She is seriously childish I agree with Momma E these people pushing 40 and acting like they 12.
@myss oge Ms. E ain't innocent though; she the problem too. Like Tawanda said to Tamar's response "roota to the toota" a.k.a "daddy on down." - Ms. E the neck.
keezy kashmere they probably did but that’s no excuse. These women are of age and have traveled and experienced the world. They should know how to be professionally respectful to each other at the very minimum. The parents are now senior citizens living their best life. They’re not even the same “parents” anymore.
It's not only Tamar. Toni also dishonors and disrespects their family. They show up when they want. They treat the others like they are more important. Their time is more valuable. And I love Toni, but the truth is the truth.
Thank you!! I was just going to write something similar. Traci was left in the dust - now when she continues filming bc its her job and how she supports her family, they are mad.
For me after years of watching the show. There's a weird jealousy within the sisters. I feel like everyone in some way is trying to one up each other except Toni bc she's the established "queen" per say. But I think especially with Tamar, if its not about her she's not interested. I've seen if her other sisters have good news or are doing big things she's almost never genuinely happy for them. Also if they're going through a tough patch she has a way of belittling their situation to how its affecting her, when it doesn't correlate.
LaChelle K it happened as soon as Tamar’s success started taking off and she was the breakout star. I think it affected the other sisters and also gave Tamar a bit of a big head. I think doing the show has caused s riff between them.
When Toni said that's she feels said that Tamar has to be animated to be heard ,it makes her sad u can see Tamara expression . Toni hit the nail on the head. Tamar Was flustered.
Redeemed Harshsw How about yourself and your spirit‼️ It’s god who revealed you that‼️ Do you know that when you are in sexual relationship outside marriage, watching porno movies, doing masturbation will bring demon and evil spirit in you, many years without knowing it or its manifestation⁉️ Only God Yahweh can reveal it to you, so I think you should focus on your very own spirit and spiritual life before playing T.D Jake on someone spirit‼️ They will crucify Tamar whatever she said or does, like everyone in this family who love to pick on Tamar, because it easier for them to do, since they always say that If our family is dysfunctional it’s because of Tamar‼️ Tamar is the syndrome of this dysfunctional family, with so much deep and ugly secrets that everyone failed to see it. They all have been learning to keep their family problems on the inside, while Tamar cary their ugliest secret, she also the one who revealed their dynamic and dysfunctional relationship. Even worst Tamar said that she was been sexually assaulted, with family members on both sides more than once, so now I understand better why she did act the way she does. I also observed that most of the time when Tamar wanted to speak her truth they shut her down, and not allowing her to talk openly what she deeply feels. She grew in a family which she learned to keep her mouth shut, her childhood’s secret make it even more unbearable for her, because she cary it all those years. For her sanity she needs to let this out, and seek for help by herself without her family.
Baby let me tell you something, If Tamar was my grandmothers child at that table acting like a 5yr old while Iyanla was talking, she would have been on that floor after one back hand to the face......My grandma didn't play that. This is what happens when the parents don't discipline their children.....THEY GROW UP AND STILL ACT LIKE CHILDREN....They didn't listen to Bishop TD Jakes so they definitely aint listening to Iyanla.....They in their 40s, grow up and communicate!!!!! #AMess
This has Nothing to do with her parents and Everything to do with Tamar ( This is a choice/her choice ) To act the way she acted...I have three grown children and my mom had five...I'm the oldest and I know from what my parents taught us and how my siblings acted out...That they clearly made a choice...We need to Stop blaming parents for their kids/teens/grown kids behavior... We all have a choice in how we want to act or how we want the world to see us or perceive us...Period.*
I don't understand why they even agreed to sit and talk to Iyanla. T.D. Jakes couldn't help the dysfunctional behavior of the Braxtons. Evelyn seats there like she's innocent talking about the girls must have gotten their behavior from their father. She doesn't own up to anything. She claims she doesn't know why she's there. No wonder Tamar act the why she does. Tamar on the other hand is a hot mess. She talks too much, she talks over people, she's, rude and doesn't listen. She will walk out while you are talking if she thinks the conversation is aimed at her. No one will tell the real truth when a question is ask of them so, I don't understand why they felt that Iyanla can fix their life. No one can fix their life but them. They need to speak up and tell their truth and keep it moving and stop being closed mouth. Life is too short to keep stirring up things that should have been resolved a long time ago.
I was laughing my ass off when Iyanla was reading the crap out of Tamar and the rest at the dinner table. This dragging was long overdue, Tamar finally met someone that is not going to cater to her attitude and crap.
Ms. Iyanla told her to have several seats. LOL
André A And that’s why she really thinks Iyanla is the devil.
I don't even believe Tamar realized it was her Iyanla was talking about until towards the end.
I died when Miss Iyanla said “How you get outta here” 💀
She rolled that neck but she sure did sit that ass back down!
" . . . Your behavior diminishes the validity of your message. You don't get to dishonor me 55 times." I'ma have to use that! 💯
Me too!! I wrote that 1 down lol😬
@@Y2_KatieO LOL Right
Touché I’m going to have to use this too
didn't that stop tamar in her tracks! shut her down real quick!
Yessss!!!
Those grown women are still the girls in that room when their parents announced their divorce. It's like they stopped emotional development at that point and began survival mode. Sad mom was too prideful to acknowledge her role.
I totally agree
They haven't left that room and I hope they get to some day.
Chyna White yassss omg ! You are truly right
We all still has a hurt little girl or little boy inside. EVERY single person. It is something that needs to be addressed. Many of us don't and carry the hurts deep into adulthood. It is important to dig I'm deep and heal your inner child. I started with a meditation on youtube. I'm in my 30's. It is important to heal those hurts.
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The brother is never involved, I don’t blame him.
What? They have a brother? Had no clue
Keep It Cute just like Rob Kardashian 😂
B.L. Simpson Yes Michael Conrad jr. Braxton
Keep It Cute Sometimes you have to love your family from a distance
@@kimgedits I never thought of it like that, But Yes they are THE Black Kartrashins.😏
Ms. Iyanla aint having the foolishness!
GiBi2016 !
No she is not putting up with their BS at all
NOT ON HER WATCH!!!!! I use that for my grand kids now. Not on my watch you will not be doing that. They look at me crazy I be cracking up but they understand when granny playing or not!!! THANK YOU IYANLA.
She had my stomach in a knot. NOW THIS LOOKS LIKE REALITY TV.
:)
All of Brooklyn came out
No ma'am. Ms. V. does not do foolishness. She is real! Tamar better have several. Ms. V. will lay it on her.
I am not going to apologize for this but Evelyn is responsible for the result of what we are seeing today. Toni is the oldest but honestly and truly she doesn’t want to have anything to do with it. Toni didn’t want to do the show from the beginning period. Tamar is childish and has been able to get away with so Much.. And Tamar is not the black sheep of the family.. Tracy is
Yeah toni felt like she was doing them a favor by signing up for the show so they could also be in the lime light. And since they have supported her all this while now the messiness it has created.
Yes Tracy definitely is
Yup 💯 that was my observation too
Tracy is the black sheep because she goes against the established family norms (she’s the only one still married, she honors her commitments) while Tamar is a billboard and ultimate manifestation for the family dysfunction
Thank you. Yes Tracy is the black sheep.
I wonder if tamars neck ever gets tired😂
😂😂😂
FACTS
why she wobble her bald headed ass like that tho smh ol' mr potato-head lookin' ass damn near 40 too smh
I guess it is well trained 🤣🤣🤣
This made me laugh😂😂🤣🤣🤣😭😭
they need iyanla ..joyce meyer...bishop jakes..joel osteen.
and madea
Michael Todd and Steven Furtick, and a dash of Steve Harvey too😂😂😂
Don't forget Jesus
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LMAO
Hahahaha well said
TONI IS DROP DEAD GORGEOUS......she's the oldest but she's the prettiest
Nielsen Makaba not only is she drop dead gorgeous but her maturity makes her even more sexy
Everytime I see her I'm like "woah"
To know birdman is kiss and having sex with her physically makes me sick i honestly can’t look at her the same because of it 😂
They all are beautiful in their own way
@@JaheimsStrugglingHairline I can't either, She's disgusting sorry not sorry.
And there it is. Everybody always saying "they pick on Tamar", They just jealous ". I been watching the Braxtons from the beginning and Tamar has always been what they said. She's a brat and she's disrespectful. She can dish it all day and night. The minute she get a taste of her own medicine she instantly becomes the victim. Good Job Iyanla.
Same. Im over here liking all the similar statements ab tamar bc this episode done irritated me so MECH!
Amen!!
Agreed
EXACTLY! Can't stand the Tamar's and K Michelle's of the world. Both have a big mouth and sense of entitlement and they need a serious reality check.Tamar has always been the common denominator on this show from the start.
They indeed pick on Tamar, they have been indeed being jealous of her since the second season of the show, especially Towanda, because they never believed that Tamar and her huff, puff, her neck rolling and all her antics will make her the most popular on the show.
People started watching the show because of Toni, but they keep watching it mostly because of Tamar.
So don’t get ourself twisted‼️🤨
They will crucify Tamar whatever she said or does, like everyone in this family who love to pick on Tamar, because it easier for them to do, since they always say that If our family is dysfunctional it’s because of Tamar‼️
Tamar is the syndrome of this dysfunctional family, with so much deep and ugly secrets that everyone failed to see it.
They all have been learning to keep their family problems on the inside, while Tamar cary their ugliest secret, she also the one who revealed their dynamic and dysfunctional relationship.
Even worst Tamar said that she was been sexually assaulted, with family members on both sides more than once, so now I understand better why she did act the way she does.
I also observed that most of the time when Tamar wanted to speak her truth they shut her down, and not allowing her to talk openly what she deeply feels.
She grew in a family which she learned to keep her mouth shut, her childhood’s secret make it even more unbearable for her, because she cary it all those years.
For her sanity she needs to let this out, and seek for help by herself without her family.
Why is Tamar doing all them hair flips with no hair 🙄
Miranda Sims 💀💀💀
She need to stop.
BALD HEAD ASS.
Miranda Sims girl you crazy 😂😂
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She forgot she was BALDHEADED
When someone else points out the hurt you pretend you don't feel... it's overwhelming....😖😖😢
I can relate. I'm always hiding my feelings and my hurt
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Hell no rather I would spit it out right away and get back my revenge instant ##DONTPLAY##
Facts!
Iyannla's ending speech followed with "How you get outta here?" Wow very powerful.
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Is it me or do Toni always act like she don't know what's going on and always confused 🤔
Stephanie Smith because she knows Exactly what's going on 😎
Stephanie Smith Toni acts like Shaunie
Stephanie Smith lmao yes
I think toni is just TIRED! of ALL of this.
Yep she pretend like she don't know
Another thing Ms. E. had no problem going on every talk show talking about her daughters business but with Iyanla she's quiet.
Coincidence? I think not. 💯
Right!
Exactly 🧐🧐
Exactly!!! Now she's hush mouth...smh
It's all about the paycheck for appearances! As far as I'm concerned....Mrs.E sold her soul to the devil by throwing her daughters under the bus...although they're already in the publics eye! Smdh...the things people do for money! 💰
Their mother doesn’t take ownership of anything she has done
Like Tamar
I think it’s difficult for people to accept responsibility or take ownership when they weren’t doing something intentionally or consciously
@@janedoe7895 it may be difficult but it can be done
Like Tamar.
Neither does the dad tbh... Both of them are to blame in this
Sorry guys, it's a 2 part episode on Braxton Family Values soooo of course we have to wait until next week to get the rest of the story as BFV tells it. I'll def do one as sooooon as I see it💖♊
Thanks for the update.
Thank you 💖 x
GeMini The Queen thank you can’t wait
I'm excited to see how it goes down as well! Lol I'm on it!
You did an awesome job on this vid 👏 Thank you
They all created the monster in Tamar. They have tip toed around her and allowed her to treat them with disrespect. A few seasons ago, Towanda tried to call out Tamar on her mess and Towanda was viewed as a hater and jealous of Tamar. Now look where we are... disgusted with the whole family!!!
Exactly
Yes and also Towanda already knows how Iyanla works because if y'all can think back Iyanla had a show called Starting Over and the 1st season Towanda was on there that's why she's more humbled then the rest of them.
@@shanice8078Wow! You're right, I forgot about that show! Now I understand why Towanda asked for Iyanla's help!!!
Yes
I agree. When everyone was calling Towanda jealous I always thought no, we’ve watched her and the other two sisters get mistreated by Tamar for seasons. So she finally stood up and said she wasn’t going to take it anymore. And now she and Tamar don’t have a good relationship anymore. Tamar can’t take anyone telling her about herself.
oh wow ... tamar with all that neck rolling and pursing of lips ... very disrespectful but i dont blame her ... she learnt it from miss evelyn who is also making faces and doesn't want to be there ... i am glad we are all seeing this because Tamar tweeted that iyanla was the wrong one yet it is obvious what is happening here ....
I totally agree. Iyanla was spot on when she said: your behavior does not match your message. Tamar's behavior was so off! At some point, she needs to grow up!
@@margotpittman567
Wow!! I saw that too in Evelyn. Tamar has Always been a Spoiled Imature/Disrespectful Tart!!!
the entire family condoned tamar's "extra" behavior until it became "the norm" for her, TOO ingrained in her to change or for tamar to see her way is grating on almost everyone.
@@tstyles9690, Amen and Amen again! This family will never heal until the mother drops her pride. Isn't she supposed to be a life coach?
alim3611 100000% FACTS
I watched this a couple days ago, and was very grateful for your editing skills and willingness to let the story do all of the talking. I came back because I am waiting on Part 2 like a Black Friday sale!
@@GeMiniTheQueen Try FrostWire
@@vampress18 i put it up yesterday. Go check it out. It's crazy
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It gets on my mf nerves when parents don't get how THEY played a part in their kids life YET they're quick to say "I raised you to be..." Ugh
Zephyr Standifer Makes me physically sick!!!!
I know I couldn't be the only one blaming their parents for this MESS.
Zephyr Standifer i
Yesss. "They inherited that from their dad." Uh, no. Communication skills are LEARNED, not "inherited." And I can guarantee they didn't learn all their bad habits from one parent. Communication is a two-way street. No ownership whatsoever. My mom is the same way & it's infuriating.
Zephyr Standifer, it gets on my nerves too. I've heard people say so many times "he/she wasn't raised that way" BUT you ALLOW he/she to behave in that way. So you may not have raised them to be that way technically but you allowed it.
My God how childish is Tamar? I'm the youngest of my family and I don't behave like that! Iyanla tell they ass like it is!
"Your behaviour diminishes the validity of your message"
Very powerful indeed
She is right af.
You gotta walk the walk and not talk the talk.
I loved that. Made me really think about that statement. You definitely see that in life. She's a gifted lady. I like listening to her when I need some clarity in my own life
Noah was a very good behaving citizens yet still his message about the flood fell on deaf ears.
It was way over due for Tamar to be checked by someone. Because she's annoying af. Tracie have a reason to feel the way she's feeling because they treat her like a step sister.
They really do
Everytime there's a camera Tamar start's to audition and it's really getting old at this time.
@@omadjourney yup I totally agree
They do treat her that way coz she gets along with the father, when all the rest are still salty at him.
@@kashiko321 right it's called forgiveness
Tamar has been glorified by fans for her craziness and lack of respect for others.. it's almost like she take pleasure in being insensitive to her sister's because it makes her feel/or appear to be better than them.. and I knew this show was creating a Monster out of her (that's the problem with them).. she likes being "up here" and Traci, Towanda, and Trina.. "yall are down there".. Tamar is disrespectful..
Good point. I was thinking similar earlier like....THE FANS of Braxton Family Values literally made Tamar a superstar. I think we all thought she was waaaay younger than she was but then we saw she made some bomb ass music. Now....we r seeing her in a different light. She's attacked people I personally know with lies...people I've watched...with lies...she confused or it's a case of I'm too old to change so over personification of what you already were doin....mmmm it's sad
GeMini The Queen Tamar has been spoiled in the entire history of this show.. when Wendy William's did there first season reunion show.. Tamar learned that the public loved her bold personality.. and she amped it up for the next season.. Tamars career officially took off.. fans were excited to see her win.. but with that extra attention.. it put a super mega charged battery in her back and she started really shitting on her sisters... A Mess.. and they sitting all around and can't say anything to her.. she is just about ready to take that humble seat (and put her ass in it).. Tamar is Tamar down fall.. you will see it..
@@moniquecovermepretty1558 the whole truth! Tell em
Tamar Victim Braxton is rude AF !! Acting like a clown and talking to a woman that can very well be her mother. I hope Ms E pop her annoying behind in the next episode. Because she is OVER .... DOING..... IT !!
@@HunniChile72 💀😭😂
Their Mom is so irritating. She don't want to fix or resolve anything and don't want to take blame for anything.
kkain123 yes
Miss Evelyn is a narcissist. She use her ex husband infidelity as a response for her current bitterness towards any form of tolerance. She believes that she's perfect and blameless and a victim. Tamara behaves like her. Shallow AF!
Youre right. And she has more control over them and power in their dysfunction.
She is full of herself and the root of all the problems.
kkain123 its not her fault all these women are grown !!!!
Iyanla is so on point it's scary
I really thought Toni was the youngest of the sisters lol, she looks damn good.
I thought so too
Mother not ready to be hit with that reality stick its hard for a women to take responsibility for her hand in the destruction of this family
Well Mrs. Evelyn was NOT a single parent. Her husband cheated and broke up this family. Why the hell is all of this on the mom.
Thats what u got from my statement did we watch the same clip cause i saw women that wanted no parts of responsibility period ok
So, this proves the double standard theory then. If you can honestly fix your words to explain foolishness displayed by the father then I guess Mrs. Evelyn should just pretend that that level of betrayal doesn't affect her. Unresolved issues spill over in the heart and up and through the mouth and behavior. She didn't have proper support to overcome this betrayal so yes out of hurt and pain unintentionally she raised her daughters from the broken pieces she was left to gather. S
So, this proves the double standard theory then. If you can honestly fix your words to explain foolishness displayed by the father then I guess Mrs. Evelyn should just pretend that that level of betrayal doesn't affect her. Unresolved issues spill over in the heart and up and through the mouth and behavior. She didn't have proper support to overcome this betrayal so yes out of hurt and pain unintentionally she raised her daughters from the broken pieces she was left to gather.
Yes, but notice that this man moved on while he was yet still married. You can't possibly be serious with this rant about how he moved on. He was still in the covenant of marriage.
Good Lord, my 2yr old toddler shows more maturity than Tamar.
I know her whole mind set is all messed up. She was not going in with an open mind. She needs to grow up. That's why she feels like the session didn't work. It's all about her.
You why she acts like that? Something devastating happened to her as a little girl. I've heard that she was touched in her "no-no's"
Truth
Shiiiiiit SO DOES MY 7yr old GrandBaby🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
@packleaer87 I have known many people who were molested worse than her…and even they don't act like that. I'm talking being bloodied I won't get too graphic but they don't act like that.
Tamar is incredibly disrespectful
kagiso lenoge ke dumelana le wena. Metlholo! Miracles!
kagiso lenoge: Yes she is
Wa tella o kgona ke clappa straight
Iyanla is so powerful lord she has a special gift she’s an omega dominant without the need of violence and soothing
Do you mean Sigma?
I thought for sure Tamar's head was just gonna roll right off her neck onto the floor.....maybe next week🤔
Kiesha Cole lmao
I believe time I was set up she is always on time doesn't make sense from Breakfast to come in in the afternoon though but obviously time I had something to say and obviously she didn't want to let her know about it
Me too! Hell, it already looked like a kid’s size bowling ball
Ms. LA lol
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Whoever doing tracy hair n makeup she needs to keep them
Roberta Turner right?! She looks GOODT
Holy Shit. I was thinking the same thing. She looks great.
Exactly! Trina especially looks like she's doing her own hair and makeup! Look cheap and regular!
It's the season of Traci !!! And the sisters don't like it !
Tell dat
Ms. Evelyn's behavior was despicable. She knows her part in the dysfunction so she didn't want to commit to staying and airing it all out.
Some people don't like to relive the same thing unfortunately with the same results. Ms. E age bracket also is the reason she doesn't like therapy.
Ms E is holding on to her anger
Didn’t Ms. Evelyn have a therapy/counseling office or whatever?
Kwintessential2 She hasn’t gotten over the divorce; therefore, her children haven’t either.
Yes and no. Evelyn is TIRED. She is getting older and didnt even know why she was there. Theyve tried all types of therapy before and yet the daughters dont learn anything. Its not the parents, its the DAUGHTERS--mainly anyway
I really love Trina,Toni,and tracy because of Their transparency. They seem like the most willing out of all of them
This video was so well done. Thank you. Tamar is so childish it's embarrassing.
Truly. She is a grown woman acting like a school girl. She is so irritating and will never heal with that attitude
Tamar truly needs to grow up.
i always see these types of comments and i just want to say that when youve been yhrough a trauma that youve never moved on from you sort of mentally stay in the place and age of when it happened.....not to mention they are all immature....some more passive aggressive than the others.....Tamar is the baby of the sisters and it is clear theyve always treated her this way. even the parents.....they are all stuck in time. im not sure what time but they are living mentally somewhere in the past....
Telling a LIE, living a LIE,are two different things!Why Curse! And Bless GOD, in the same sentence! STOP, playing Church!! They traded their Dignity , for fame and money ! They need to stop ALL the drama ! Acting in church and acting in life!!!!!!
etsout Yess! I'm glad she's not related to me. So embarrassing I'm embarrassed as is cause she's African-American like me.....Damn!
The problems with the Braxtons are:
#4 All 5 of them inherited Ms. E’s bitterness
#3 Ms. E is either unaware or in denial about that
#2 All of the women including Ms. E feel abandoned by Braxton Sr
#1 They keep trying to work out their family issues on TV - which completely goes against the “Covered Wagon” value that they listed.
Also, the fact that they keep referring to a 40yr old divorcée as a baby is a bigggg problem and the reason Tamar acts the way she does. They’ve been enabling her attitude since childhood
Ms E is like some of my friends. Will act oblivious to things because it's uncomfortable
As much as I hate to blame the mom it's her.
Say that sis!!!!
This first one you started with is so wrong. All of them are NOT like their mother so stop spreading lies.
Trollies not lies. Just my opinion from what I deserve watching all six seasons of the show
The whole family has SEVERE issues and tamar will NEVER EVER own her part in any of her sh##.
Never with her messy ass!
Sheila Smith Is she a Pisces?
Sounds like my mother
Yes she's a pisces, Pisces always play victim
Sheila Smith just like her momma.
When iyanla raises her voice just know it's a wrap 👀
“What happens in this house stays in this house”
*goes on reality tv show*
The irony of it all...SMH
millerny10 remind you they are producing the shows so they show us what makes us watch the show they still keeping secrets
@@tdaniahenderson5015 right. Toni is one of the 1st producers. I notice how she portrays herself. I have been saying that for years. I have always been a fan of her music. But she just comes across as too good or flawless. It's weird.
Right
Exactly what my parents said...But I didn't listen I told everything...
Ummmm...when Traci said, "I feel disrespected," I do not recall Traci saying, "I feel disrespected by Tamar." Why must Tamar turn everything about her!
C Rod exactly! That was such a telling moment.
I think tamar was the 1 who said traci was dead to her.
@@looknbakatu I've had that discussion with someone else in another post. They seem to think it was Towanda that said it, because of the fall out from the strike and the non-invite to the christening, I tend to believe it may have been Towanda because, Traci & Tamar was not speaking to each other before all this. Remember when Traci went to Tamar's movie set and Tamar rode right by her? Than the business about Tamar getting Traci off tour? That was the last time they said two words to each other. Nevertheless, whoever said it, that's just out of bounces. This is family! I know family don't always get alone, but dang, really! That right there means you have no feelings towards this person, that is your sister, your blood!
Same thing I said! Traci didn’t even say a name and she made it about her. She did something to Traci
While I don’t think Tamar behaved herself well in this episode (and I am a BIG Tamartian), I also have a feeling that this is what she means about how production chops and screws the editing to paint a certain picture of her. I have a feeling that she was talking about something totally different but coincidentally her wording matched what Traci said in a different scene so they put it together as if they were talking about the same thing.
How does Tamar neck not hurt?
I rolled my neck at my mom once in my whole life. She very sternly explained to me how that behavior was beneath me as a young lady & she wouldn't have it in her house. Then went into detail about where my neck would end up, if I dared to roll it again.... 🤦🏽♀️ WELP! Needless to say I've NEVER rolled it again! Lmao 🤣🤣🤣
Lol your mom was absolutely right and is a great mother for telling you to correct that behavior
I was thinking the same thing.
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My mom thought I rolled my eyes at her when I was rubbing them and I can safely say that I nearly died and neck rolling is not even on my attempt list.
Ms. Evelyn really reminds me of my own mother. You cannot openly express any negative feelings, because she takes it as a personal attack on her parenting.
I hope the Braxtons are someday able to find inner peace. They deserve it, they just don't know it yet.
Dang Toni is still very beautiful.
Absolutely one if not the most beautiful woman ive seen.. Id give anything to look like her... Her skin is so smooth and beautiful and i love her personality too.
Yes, she is absolutely stunning!!!
Lirrulewon I was looking at her the entire time like damn sis!
...but what happened to Trina??? She aged into somebody’s old ass looking grandma.
And Traci needs to get the rest of her face done. Where are her lips? In her neck? Looking like Aretha’s corpse.
Ms Evelyn looking more and more like mama Tina Knowles.
Iyanla needs to stop saying _Beloved_ we get it... she hustling for Oprah on the 20 year anniversary of that movie... but baby she was a flip floppy hot mess of a movie. _Beloved_ has to be one of the worst cinematic attempts in history. It is said that movie only set black people back at least 70 years.
Shame on you Oprah the organ trafficker in russian that secretly spells negro backwards.
#illuminati
Tracy kept asserting that the "elephant in the room" and "it" references "dont bother her", but clearly her face showed that it does indeed bother her. Whether she's wrong or not, I hate to see a person in such obvious pain.😟
Me too
Right
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I need to know what a God Ms. E is praying to because it can't be the one I know
She flipped all the way didn't she.
@@GeMiniTheQueen hell yes and I don't even like to bring religion into it, but for her to be the woman she is and she feels that she has not allowed anything is crazy
There's so many layers to this....lots of secrets...stuff and stuff
Miss E ... is nice nasty and unfortunately its rubbed on to her children
It ain’t
They need individual counseling starting with ms E and ex husband. She needs closure and he needs to ask for forgiveness and really mean it. He hurt her and he doesn't feel bad about it.
He has hurt her! Yes, however he is not responsible for her pain. She is still choosing to linger that on. He has moved on why hasn't she??
@@Indigobliss377 ...She hasnt gotten past it because the deepness of his adultered betrayal went from tears to hate. It blows me when folk hurt you they feel time is up on your forgiveness. Not to mention, He married the woman who assisted in the cheating within their marriage. So its a hell of lot easier to be civil without disgust when its someone new, but that situation I see clearly why she's forever bitter towards him. She's moved on, she date others. What her adult daughters need to respect is her boundaries and stop pushing collective gatherings, and accept where there mother is without boundage in their life. When and if Ms Evelyn decides to see Braxton as not a cause and effect in her life, be it never, is perfectly fine.
LaDy Wilkins 👌🏾💯
*oh. OH! OH!!! SO **_THIS_** IS WHY TAMAR GOT FIRED FROM THE REAL. No respect for anyone else's TIME. Better believe it*
Yup
Pretty much...😒😒😒 this is the reason in behind the disappated marriage...😒😒😒 its truly sickening
💥💥💥💥💥Boom! And you know it. Tamar’s attitude stinks. She hate traci so much it’s crazy. I cringe watching her ass, every time the camera spun around it was on her plastic surgery carved ass nose up in the air.
@@Babysista tamar?
What's really sad is Vince was a producer for the show and got her the job but not even her tight strings could get her to keep it.
I bet the brother could tell some stories and that's why he's hardly shown.
I agree. I would love to hear his perspective.
He stays out of it He's said. He grew up with his siblings who were full of drama and he could sneak away and go to a quiet place. Dudes probably a bit traumatised tbh
That's why the Brother stay away!!! Its too much for him
I NEVER knew they had a brother until this comment 😫😫
🤔I was wondering about him myself.
WAIT ✋! Did Tamar pull out a brush and start brushing her head like she was Chicago from poetic Justice?
Beautiful Asme Best comment ever. 😂
@@katrina8998 😂😂😂 I just couldn't take her serious after that lol
😂😂🤣🤣🤣
@J Diamond 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Lmbooo
This child took off her hat and brushed her scalp. My goodness. 🙄🙄
Sharice Johnson Lmao that cracked me up. I can’t take it 🤣
😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
💀💀💀💀💀💀💀 I’m so dead
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These comments got me crying! 😂😂😂 but Tamar needs to grow the F up! I’m glad she got called out on her b.s
It's about time somebody did and she got the right one to do it
Deflection all the way around. The family still has their mom and dad. How can they continue to take each other for granted by not talking themselves? SMH
This Family is gone,,👧👩👹👽👱👵
ilrock right 🤣🤣🤣🤣
coquis408 exactly
Damn!!! A mess. Tamar is a 40 year old who acts like she's 4, Evelyn is still pissed Michael left her and the girls are stuck with her and haven't moved on. I feel for Tracy. Kudos to Iyanla for trying. Did Iyanla say they have vexed my spirit?! 🤣
They are a royal mess
you hit it right on the nose
i was shocked at tamar behavior
I had no idea that Tamar was in her forties she doesn't act like an adult I was totally shocked GET HELP BABY LORD KNOWS YOU NEED IT
NO 1 EVER! confronted tamar on her shit, it had to have started when she was younger, this behavior & attitude is INGRAINED in her, the Family let her "get away" with SO much, it's normal to her, she's ALWAYS! behaved this way, it's not just behind closed doors any more, BFV's has made it public! how people act in private is how they act in public!
looknbakatu exactly! 💯 they let her get away with acting like that way too damn long .
Her behavior def started as a child. I use to always wonder, why they excused her antics & called her "the baby", like she was in her mid-late 30's, now 40's, and she still out here acting out. Her behavior with Iyanla was sad. She looked like a 3 year old child that needed to go potty. I am glad Toni at least mentioned Tamar's inability to communicate, & inability to communicate without making those UGLY ASS facial expressions.
looknbakatu it comes from her sexual abuse as a child
Tamar with the head rolling, eye popping , neck snapping antics continues to look like a damn fool. Is there any wonder that her marriage & her time on the Real didn't last? A simple, attention seeking juvenile in a woman's body. And clearly, Mother Evelyn is in denial about her part in the behavior of these grown women. Yes, they must all take responsibility in some form but it is crystal clear in the attitude in Ms.Evelyn that she will take no responsibility in the root cause of their adult behavior.
@@Machenziethemodel I agree, the abrupt getting up and leaving the room from conflict, defensive and stand-offish behavior, stems from anger and confusion from traumatic abuse as a child. If you noticed she began to experience some anxiety, and PROBABLY has anxiety more often than not...she knows if she remained in that room to continue, Ayanla would bring those demons to the surface. It's a very scary thing to face those demons ESPECIALLY when you are surrounded by the very people who you expected protection from. It's not their fault, but this is the mind of some who have gone through this type of trauma. The brain has a way of compartmentalizing... it WILL shut and suppress certain traumas down... if too hard to handle... and when it surfaces all types of behavior follows. She must begin to heal and face EVERY demon suppressed; she must walk through the fire, and stay there awhile to heal; it's not fun it's very hard. She needs to walk back to meet her true self because the reward is great and worth every burn. I know from experience.
☝️💡Also I want to point out that the red outfit Evelyn has on was for her ex-husband....the “statement” was for him, no one else.
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I can’t with Tamar
Neither can I...she's a mess
Kimberly Mathis and I think the world is starting to see why the rest of the sisters act the way they do towards her
I feel like all of them got issue I also feel like they leave Traci out of a lot things I no that hurt it still dose
Why Iyanla say "How do I get out of here?" LOL!!!!
Yesss, had me rollin!
Took me all the way out 😂😂
RIIIIIIIIGHT...
Ms. Iyanla was not wit DA SHYTZ on THAT DAY! 😂
mammogram9 I was laughing so hard and thats not the first time she said that either.😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I was thinking the same😂😂😂. Is she not familiar or was so upset she got lost. Omg
I always felt so sad about Traci. They treated her like an outcast and then when she reacted always blamed her. 😕
Tamar is too full of herself. Her attitude makes me wonder how Vince even married her
Ive always wondered that lol
Bc Tamar is a broken insecure woman.......controlling men can smell women like Tamar from across the sea!!
I'm trying to figure that out too. Shes a whole fucking mess!
Easy answer:
Being an obese man with low self-esteem, who needed the validation from being with any woman...
Tamar found a sucker, who’s bank accounts she could be attached to, and not have to have sex with.
And a marriage emerged.
Mama Megan
he was fat
Lies Tamar told on Wendy's couch of deceit!!! "Your behavior diminishes your message. You can't do what I do!!! I TELL THE TRUTH!!! The Spirit of Chaos & Confusion is attached to the Braxton Family" Iyanla told the TRUTH & it's obvious who can & cannot accept, take it or even handle it! Wow!!! Now I am disappointed!!! That's the ultimate truth!!!!
And she has a new man... how? Her attitude stinks.
Tamar......please for once please just get over you! Geeeeesh!
I swear.....
Her and those head movements!!!! She cant keep still!!!! Wtf wrong with her???
Tamar has a lot of pride & cant nobody tell her a dog on thing, she’s the only one who can ever be RIGHT...bossy and needs to grow the hell up!!
Tamar inherited all her pettiness from her mom. I'm glad its finally on front street.
Tamar and the Mom need an Exorcism lol.
Wow, you did an excellent job at summarizing this episode. You gave all the juice and eliminated the fluff.
This shit has me dying laughing!!!! The immaturity, why she get lost at the end trying to leave? Hahahaja. I'm literally crying. Tamar with the head nibbling and then brushed her hair....this is a mess!!!
LJ Jordan brushing the hair was team too damn much and disrespectful shows she didnt really care everything is a joke to her
Brushing her skin...she’s a dumbass 🙄
She brushing her thoughts, not her hair
Why Tamar always got to look so cray with them faces... she really thinks it gets her points across!
Right...but Iyanla right...Your behavior diminishes your message!!
My world....All id wanna do is ignore you or help ya head go head and pop off
No, She's become a character and a shell of who she suppose to be.. She don't know how to stop she will self destruct in min
GeMini The Queen Exactly!!🤣
And she think she's SUPER CUTE
ATTENTION that's what she like's just stupid
Actually traci is the Black sheep
Victoria Williams Traci looks very Good! GOD bless her.
Victoria Williams no shes not... they labeled her as such... but shes really not... cause and effect
Victoria, I certainly agree with you. And Traci is also the closest to daddy...the object of Evelyn's anger / hatred.
This season
Hello!
Miss E says she communicates YET she don't even wanna be there to talk. And TAMAR is crazy 😅😅😅
Tamar's "animated" behavior is a result of not being able to verbally communicate her thoughts and opinions clearly. It's definitely something that started in her childhood: in school, church, and likely at home. She can't say what she really wants to say and uses facial expressions and body language to convey her thoughts. When she does share her thoughts, it's short, simple statements that are blurted out of frustration and uses her body language to say what she really means. The parents definitely play a role in all of this. Allowing children to bicker, fight, and cause emotional pain while acting like it's not their fault was hard to watch. They certainly haven't resolved their own issues which have allowed the children to mimic their behaviors. This was an excellent synopsis.
Say that again .
You are so right!
They will crucify Tamar whatever she said or does, like everyone in this family who love to pick on Tamar, because it easier for them to do, since they always say that If our family is dysfunctional it’s because of Tamar‼️
Tamar is the syndrome of this dysfunctional family, with so much deep and ugly secrets that everyone failed to see it.
They all have been learning to keep their family problems on the inside, while Tamar cary their ugliest secret, she also the one who revealed their dynamic and dysfunctional relationship.
Even worst Tamar said that she was been sexually assaulted, with family members on both sides more than once, so now I understand better why she did act the way she does.
I also observed that most of the time when Tamar wanted to speak her truth they shut her down, and not allowing her to talk openly what she deeply feels.
She grew in a family which she learned to keep her mouth shut, her childhood’s secret make it even more unbearable for her, because she cary it all those years.
For her sanity she needs to let this out, and seek for help by herself without her family.
I act in that way too, although not more than Tamar, and what you have typed down here is true.
Anything covered up doesn't get healed. What's the point in attempting to do therapy if you're not going to be a willing participant?
Shenice Says Right! Like literally, “why are you there”😒
I agree!!
I dont see how Tamar can call Iyanla a fraud and defame her when Iyanla tried to help. Tamar is out of line by being hours late and was nonchalant about it until Iyanla called her out. Tamar needs to grow up. Iyanla was totally right "Your behavior diminishes the validity of your message"
Jackie Welch iyanla brought her being molested as a child and Tamar wasn’t ready to open that womb back up and she feels that Iyanla took it to far and it wasn’t her place to bring that back up when she didn’t want to talk about it
@Antwön right cuz that was never mentioned in either episode so that was BS she just wanted to put out a false reason for her behavior im so glad her mother was there to check her
Antwön they edited it out and please don’t call me beloved. That’s very passive aggressive
Imani Floyd if she didnt want to talk about it, then she doesn't need to go to therapy. Their purpose is to get to the root of your problems and overcome them. Nobody was forced they went on her own so they should've stayed home if they didnt want healing
Jackie Welch Iyanla is NOT a therapist first off... second off it’s VERY inappropriate to blast that in front of everyone. She could’ve took Tamar to the side and asked if she wanted to talk about it with the family. She took that choice away and that’s wrong on so many levels. Iyanla was very unprofessional for that and she knows it. And she is very condescending at times. When she was doing that whole “I love you” stuff with her hand and shit I was ready to slap the fuck outta her for Tamar. That was outta order outta line and very disrespectful
I feel like I’m getting a free therapy lesson. I’m really self evaluating 😂
Iyanla needs to dedicate an entire season to these people. So many skeletons and stories of hurt and lies that they will never be honest about. They will never fully evolve and heal because they dont want to admit they behave this way because of Ms. E. She has these grown women emotionally stuck
wilsonf15 soooooo true and Toni is about to marry a man that’s probably on the same emotional level as she is and that’s scary because Ms. E loves him which means their negative energy matches 😞
I agree
"Your behavior diminishes your message"
MS Hill very impactful statement. Locking it in memory bank. Thanks for sharing!
A WORD!
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Ms Hill this is a statement for myself 🤦🏽♀️ my man always says to me that sometimes I’m right but the way I deliver the message is wrong so it makes ME look like the bad person smh
Deep
@@deenadz6806 Well keep working at it. Its good that you can see yourself because a lot of folks are unaware of their dysfunction. I have my moments too like any ordinary person.
Mom and Dad's toxic relationship trickled down to the children. Toni is still acting distance by appearing profesaional, Tawanda, Tracy and Trina are living in the shadows of Tamar and Toni's success. And Tamar is constantly fighting for attention even with and behavior.
Tamar does not have success....
You hit it right on the nail that’s what i was gonna say
Coco T I wish I could like this comment 1000 times. Nothing but the truth. I’ve always said this. “Mommy” never says anything when it comes to these girls behavior toward one another. This is definitely learned behavior. There was a time when Ms. E didn’t speak or sit in the same room with “Daddy” and claimed not to be bitter. They have a massive amount of work to do!
Well said!
Coco T Trina is successful, owns her own bar, and is on sister circle Trina was also the lead in the braxtons singing group.
Very disappointing seeing ms. Evelyn being so standoffish and in denial. She basically blamed her ex for everything bad that has happened to the family, she conveniently took credit for all the good.
Wesley Sosa he is to blame, there wouldn’t be this issue had he not stepped out of his marriage and left his family.
Stay and fight witg mim because its not where you want ro be is even more toxic. Divorce is not the end of a family the behaviors after usually are.
Someone Anonymous I agree to a certain extent, he was a grown man, an amicable divorce would suffice. But to cheat for years with a woman your wife called her close friend and then leave his family no contact for years ? I believe if they ended things on a mature level then this could’ve been avoided
Yeah, it seemed like every time Mr. Braxton spoke Ms. E ...kept with the side eye or rolling of the eyes..She's still very bitter...Iyanla even felt that.
She's still bitter, she wish Mr. Braxton never left her she's holding onto a lot of anger it really shows
Towanda walking up the steps into the house tho that sister has a BAWWWWDDDDDYYYYYYY fa DAYSSSSSSSS!!!
Tywanna Grice OMG. I was just thinking that. She looked AMAZING in that dress. 🙌🏾🙌🏾
Tywanna Grice she should glide with each step! Took her years for her natural grown woman shape! She’s loving it! Yesss UMBA
She was walking like she was on a runway
I was looking for this comment-she came allll the way through!!
I saw her too. Go on Towanda! 😂
Ms Evelyn really needs to let go of all that hurt form the divorce..
I agree, shes still bitter its not even funny! She has pride to admit...she taught her children to forgive but she hasnt
Yes. You are so right.
You ain't lying! ...she's ridiculous.
Thank you, I'm glad I'm not the only who sees this.
Bruh her best friend is screwing and sleeping with her ex husband. But your right she needs to start working on growing up from this shi*. However how you gonna fix your crap when every two seconds one of your kids acting like the fresh out the world with another one. They all need to find the word GROWTH. Not everything someone says needs to be responded to or spoken about or overthought.
And the sisters wonder why Tamar act the way she do CAUSE THEY ALLOW IT!! Cause at that table grown or not my momma would've back handed my ass if i acted like a 16 year old and im 40!!
Truth
That wasn't a 16 yr old tho. That was a 4 yr old girl right there. That shit was 😂😂😂 thou!
And I think that's the biggest problem the family placed each one into a stereotype when they were kids and now as adults they don't fit it anymore
Tywanna Grice girl my momma too on camera like oops oh I don’t GAF !!!
Tamar the same age as my mother my mother doesn't act like this but i like Tamar
I believe Tamar has bipolar disorder or some kind of undiagnosed mental health issue that needs to be addressed. Something just seems off..🤔
2 years ago and your comment makes sense now. She actually confessed that she has mental health issues, just last month in an interview with TAMRON HALL .
And you were right
@@sandilekhumalo6152 what was it, bipolar?
Tamar had me 😂😂😂 the whole time. Why sis was clucking like a duck while bouncing up and down sitting in the chair thou. 😂😂😂
(In the words of Joseline) I CANNOT
Like her neck bout to straight up break in half
😂😂😂😂😂
The shit is actually not funny like bitch u 40+ and acting like this like WTF is u teaching your son, to throw tantrums, make them ugly ass faces, roll ya neck and snap ya head around just to get your way or what u want or get a point across when shit don't go your way...oh Vince should be fucking glad this bitch filed for a divorce. If I was a guy and Tamar was the last woman on earth for me to date I'd be gay or stay single before I deal with her immature childish overly grown bitter MISERABLE ass.
Miss NewOrleans5 it's completely embracing.
Miss NewOrleans5 your comment has me crying laughing "...duck..."
Tamar will miss opportunities because of her inability to take responsibility for her ridiculous antics.. she lacks self control over her emotions and she is a horrible listener as it pertains to her inappropriate attitude and behavior.. I believe she is a great person but this show has played into her diva like foolishness.. I'm disappointed in her
Monique CoverMePretty155 Yes it makes me wonder why they fired her from the Real
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NO ONE hold Tamar accountable!!! At all!! She done went rougue
You said that just right! This is so inappropriate. Tamar has real talent and has the chance to really be great and not just be known for her immature behaviour. This type of bad attitude can not keep good things around you(including a job and proper relationships with people). I'm sure Vince has/had his bad behaviour in their marriage but I truly believe that if Tamar continues with this type of behaviour, nobody will give her the chance to show how good she can be in whatever relationships(platonic and romantic) she may have going forward.
You need to tell your face your numb bc you’re face is in pain. I felt that
A Thomas it was so real but I was in tears laughing because she was serious when she said it😂😂😂😂😂
Tamar needed to get checked. Just saying.
The brushing hair part😂
NO! disrespect, but WHY? did ms. evelyn even show up? she came in her "war" colors! (Iyanla's term). she's NOT! taking responsibility for anything!
I don't know! I get it, yes, they all grown, but who sowed the seeds! Momma & Daddy! I'm not liking Ms. E. at all! Didn't she say she will support her children in all that they do, but she's not on board with this🤨
C Rod, ms. evelyn see's this as a REFLECTION on her that her daughters have these issues, she's STILL! bitter about the break-up of her marriage, she hasn't moved on emotionally, but she's NOT going to admit it.
@@looknbakatu I hear you, loud and clear. Ms. E. will never progress because she won't let go of the past. She is extremely bitter and that has been eating away at her for all these years.
@@ZhanaZee 👏 agreed
ZhanaZee, SPEAK!
Tamar irritates tf out of me
Serenitie3 u r absolutely beautiful girl! (I’m fully straight no disrespect if u r gay)
Me too can’t take her at alllllll
She reminds me of someone I know in real life who thinks they are better then everybody.
Lol
I love her music but she can be ridiculous at times
Say what you want about Iyanla’s tactics, but she always tries to get to the root of the cause. In all seriousness Tamar is a class a narcissist or suffers from a form of mental illness. Evelyn and Daddy Braxton played a big part in the family’s dysfunction together and separately.
Absolutely!!
I don't think she's a narcissist as she seems empathetic, but I believe she's been deeply traumatized and is stuck at the age that the trauma took place.
I love how she handled Tamar finally someone got her together. She is seriously childish I agree with Momma E these people pushing 40 and acting like they 12.
They are late 40s
@@proph-od1bj Then that is worse
When Tamar started brushing her barely bald head i screamed. Tamar is a hot ass mess. 💀💀💀💀💀💀
Right. She is too much
Ayanna B that was funny.
I died !!!
Me tooo!!! I was dying...😂😂😂
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Ms. E said "these people are 40yrs old" 😂😂😂
Brittney Wolverton she right!!!! They’re old enough to be responsible for their own actions.
@@coxsonron "the fish stink from the head down"....their actions were learned from their parents "the head" of the family
@myss oge Ms. E ain't innocent though; she the problem too. Like Tawanda said to Tamar's response "roota to the toota" a.k.a "daddy on down." - Ms. E the neck.
keezy kashmere they probably did but that’s no excuse. These women are of age and have traveled and experienced the world. They should know how to be professionally respectful to each other at the very minimum. The parents are now senior citizens living their best life. They’re not even the same “parents” anymore.
Hell even worse Toni 50 - and still always looking around hollering she’s confused 😂🤦🏽♂️
It's not only Tamar. Toni also dishonors and disrespects their family. They show up when they want. They treat the others like they are more important. Their time is more valuable. And I love Toni, but the truth is the truth.
MissNocturnal09 Toni on a conference call, what happened. Nobody will blame her cause she has the money.
Makes you think....hmmm. why would Toni schedule a phone conference call during a much needed therapy session???
I agree!
Tru
Dont come for Toni
money cant buy happiness
That's 100% clear
Sooo they stopped talking to Traci when they got a deal, but when she went to work without speaking to them first, they are in their feelings??
Ronita Nelson
Right? A bunch of bullshit, ain’t it? And who spearheaded that?
Thank you!! I was just going to write something similar. Traci was left in the dust - now when she continues filming bc its her job and how she supports her family, they are mad.
Sounds like ratings to me.
Exactly...double standards
For me after years of watching the show. There's a weird jealousy within the sisters. I feel like everyone in some way is trying to one up each other except Toni bc she's the established "queen" per say. But I think especially with Tamar, if its not about her she's not interested. I've seen if her other sisters have good news or are doing big things she's almost never genuinely happy for them. Also if they're going through a tough patch she has a way of belittling their situation to how its affecting her, when it doesn't correlate.
LaChelle K not to bring astrology into it but that’s that negative side of Pisces energy. You are so right
I agree with you I mostly feel that Towanda has been jelous of Tamar for a very long time.Is like as if she doesn't want Tamar to suceed.
@@Kristiynah Dont put that on us, she's one person who does not represent all pisces.
@@melaninenriched7844 right
LaChelle K it happened as soon as Tamar’s success started taking off and she was the breakout star. I think it affected the other sisters and also gave Tamar a bit of a big head. I think doing the show has caused s riff between them.
When Toni said that's she feels said that Tamar has to be animated to be heard ,it makes her sad u can see Tamara expression . Toni hit the nail on the head. Tamar Was flustered.
"You need to tell your face" 😂😂😂
Tamar still didn't want to take blame for her part! NOTHING HAS CHANGED AND NOTHING WILL CHANGE! Wig or no wig, she is still irritating AF!
kkain123 THE WAY SHE IS ACTING LETS ME KNOW WHY SHE GOT FIRED FROM THE REAL
Wig or no wig the way I am crying right now 😹😹😹😹
Thank u. Yes
kkain123 yes and I was truly hoping to see some evolution . Perhaps this is the starting point
All that jerking and disrespectful in Tamar is evil spiritually. And they all know it.
Redeemed Harshsw How about yourself and your spirit‼️
It’s god who revealed you that‼️
Do you know that when you are in sexual relationship outside marriage, watching porno movies, doing masturbation will bring demon and evil spirit in you, many years without knowing it or its manifestation⁉️
Only God Yahweh can reveal it to you, so I think you should focus on your very own spirit and spiritual life before playing T.D Jake on someone spirit‼️
They will crucify Tamar whatever she said or does, like everyone in this family who love to pick on Tamar, because it easier for them to do, since they always say that If our family is dysfunctional it’s because of Tamar‼️
Tamar is the syndrome of this dysfunctional family, with so much deep and ugly secrets that everyone failed to see it.
They all have been learning to keep their family problems on the inside, while Tamar cary their ugliest secret, she also the one who revealed their dynamic and dysfunctional relationship.
Even worst Tamar said that she was been sexually assaulted, with family members on both sides more than once, so now I understand better why she did act the way she does.
I also observed that most of the time when Tamar wanted to speak her truth they shut her down, and not allowing her to talk openly what she deeply feels.
She grew in a family which she learned to keep her mouth shut, her childhood’s secret make it even more unbearable for her, because she cary it all those years.
For her sanity she needs to let this out, and seek for help by herself without her family.
Baby let me tell you something, If Tamar was my grandmothers child at that table acting like a 5yr old while Iyanla was talking, she would have been on that floor after one back hand to the face......My grandma didn't play that. This is what happens when the parents don't discipline their children.....THEY GROW UP AND STILL ACT LIKE CHILDREN....They didn't listen to Bishop TD Jakes so they definitely aint listening to Iyanla.....They in their 40s, grow up and communicate!!!!! #AMess
Xavier Valentino 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
This has Nothing to do with her parents and Everything to do with Tamar ( This is a choice/her choice ) To act the way she acted...I have three grown children and my mom had five...I'm the oldest and I know from what my parents taught us and how my siblings acted out...That they clearly made a choice...We need to Stop blaming parents for their kids/teens/grown kids behavior... We all have a choice in how we want to act or how we want the world to see us or perceive us...Period.*
You are 100% true
Xavier Valentino and that's why Iyanla didn't pay her no attention bad behavior gets no attention or Rewards
So true. They are like kids. Tamar has a issue.
I don't understand why they even agreed to sit and talk to Iyanla. T.D. Jakes couldn't help the dysfunctional behavior of the Braxtons. Evelyn seats there like she's innocent talking about the girls must have gotten their behavior from their father. She doesn't own up to anything. She claims she doesn't know why she's there. No wonder Tamar act the why she does. Tamar on the other hand is a hot mess. She talks too much, she talks over people, she's, rude and doesn't listen. She will walk out while you are talking if she thinks the conversation is aimed at her. No one will tell the real truth when a question is ask of them so, I don't understand why they felt that Iyanla can fix their life. No one can fix their life but them. They need to speak up and tell their truth and keep it moving and stop being closed mouth. Life is too short to keep stirring up things that should have been resolved a long time ago.