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- PART 1: The Henry family is in crisis. Father Dwight is a serial cheater struggling with addiction, while mother Thelisha is an emotionally unavailable woman who seems numb to (or unaware of) the frequency of her husband’s infidelities. Throughout their dysfunctional relationship, both Dwight and Thelisha have sought support and comfort from their two daughters, Avanté and Lakesha. Will Iyanla be able to change this family dynamic? (Original air date: October 8, 2016) // Don’t miss the two-hour premiere of “Iyanla: Fix My Life,” on Saturday, October 31 at 9/8c on OWN. For more on #FIXMYLIFE, visit WatchOWN.tv/Iyanla
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I conducted an update that aired in January of this year that aired on OWN’s IFML. However to all those who haven’t seen the episode and are interested in an update...my children are doing well, I am happily divorced (Thelisha Glover) and dating. I am currently in med school to become a Physician Assistant (Morehouse School of Medicine) and me and my children are healing together from the wounds of our past. To those who are in toxic relationships, there is hope and a way of escape. You must have faith in God, believe in yourself, get the help needed to escape, and most of all DO THE WORK! Prayers and blessings unto you all.
I am so happy for you!!!!! God bless you and your family. Beautiful update. 🤍
Yes ma’am I’m so happy for you.
Watching you go through all that pain really touched me deeply. You are so beautiful, I felt like crying looking at the hurt in your eyes.I am so angry you were treated so badly by a man you trusted to have your best interest at heart. Honestly hun, he never deserved you. I know you grieved for a very long time but know you are a queen, a real man will cherish you not destroy you. Keep sweet and thank you for giving so many of us women hope that there is light at the end of the tunnel.
I am so happy for you. You and your girls deserve the world ❤️
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
The moment that man lay on that couch like it's his house, I knew he was about to get on my nerves 🙄
Like a spoiled child.
Right! I was like “sitcho azz up!” 😂 😂 😂
Exactly
He was out of order when he walked through the door. You could tell he was going to be "manipulative ".
Yeeees he irritated my soul
She is a prime example of people holding you back. She divorced him and now she's doing AMAZING! Sis is attending Morehouse SCHOOL OF MEDICINE!!! What he doing? Probably still cheating lol. I'm so proud of her!
Are you serious? That is incredible!
Omg I love that for her!!! Yeesss!! 😍
where she at I'm interested
@@hahnspetty5596 you can look for her on Instagram but her page is private.
@@hahnspetty5596 ⁹
I knew her healing started once she walked away from that car ...That was the walk to freedom girl I'm so proud of you
Same. "If you want help" those were power golden words
"I don't do well with masculine aggression. It's disrespectful." Periodt.
FACTS
I thought they were at his home when the son stepped in... I probably would have one punched his @ss to sleep....
😂 big dude, skinny arms, and close quarters🥊
Right! He was so disrespectful I can only imagine how he treated his wife and children all those years.
This..
That's because you have a Jezebel spirit.
This man is the true definition of a narcissist.. Gaslighting and blaming his behavior on everyone else. When he can't manipulate: he'll ghost you.
That part!!! ☝🏾
Preach🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Too Real!!! 👏🏿👏🏿
YEEEEEEEESSSSSS!!!! 👏👏👏👏👏
Exactly. Manipulation is their game. They want to be the center of attention. They throw tantrums like toddlers.
I love it when a man is so disrespectful his wife but as soon as a real man steps up to him he acts like a little punk that he is
Exactly
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👌
I was ready to jump through the screen and put hands on him myself. He acted like the coward he is when Iyanla's son stepped in.
@TheBestFighter It's best to resolve issues without resulting in violence. Putting your hands on someone does not make you strong.
@TheBestFighter That's true, I agree with you
I love how iyanla, continually expressed how she DIDN'T like his AGRESSIVE behavior. As a surviver of DV, seeing her do that made me feel her POSITIVE POWER she has
Garbage. Women love aggressive men.
@@karabomothupi9759 you’re sick
@@IraRochaa You know you want me
@@karabomothupi9759 you’re a reject aren’t you...?
Ikr I’ve watched these episodes over and over again and I must be honest and say that I have to find a episode and watch it when im feeling low battling depression going through all the hurt that I feel quite frequently to get myself bacc grounded, I know that I should seek therapy with the things going on inside of my head but until I can be brave for the inner little girl inside of me who harbors all of these different emotions good bad and indifferent I must say watching these episodes do help me, I wish that I could meet her one day her energy her spirit is electrifying her wisdom and knowledge her intellect and the way she carries herself the way she speaks even her tone is very comforting it draws you to her and makes you feel like you can open up idk her outside of this show and I know that ppl are ppl all over the world but I will just say that you can tell that she is anointed and has a special calling on her spirit on her soul and for what she’s allowed us the viewers to watch and consume I just wanted to say that I’m so grateful for that I can go on and on but I truly do thank God for using her as a vessel to help ppl of all different walks of life, SO IN CLOSING ID LIKE TO SAY THANK YOU MRS IYANLA FOR YOUR SERVICE FOR ALL THAT YOU HAVE DONE AND CONTINUE TO DO YOU ARE TRULY A BLESSING TO SO MANY BROKEN AND HURT PPL ALL OVER THE WORLD‼️‼️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏😢😢 MAY GOD CONTINUE TO KEEP YOU SAFE AND MAY YOU OBTAINED EVERYTHING IN LIFE THAT YOUR HEART DESIRES ABUNDANTLY💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙
He probably picks fights just to go out and leave to cheat...
Yep 💯
Absolutely!
Correct😂🤣😂
Exactly right
Well he not supposed to be cheating and also I'm 100%, he is cheating
I've no doubt what that boy is doing
“Trusting ppl is not good for me.” Usually spoken by a person that can’t be trusted. Like himself.
Yessss 👏🏾
💯🎯
Exactly
Yup projection!
Yes my ex husband 😂
Iyanla’s son: “I’M THAT” YES! Dwight turned into a little boy real quick.
Exactly he didn’t want his butt whoooped
REALLL QUICK!
Like iyanla said this can happen in the world. Someone will whoop u azz being disrespectful.
😂😂😂 facts
Coz he is a coward
yooo WHO ELSE LIT TF UP when iyanlas son stepped in to protect her. WHOOO gave me the chills! Thats a man right there!!!
Replayed it like 5 times
Shut up
Most males would especially the ones with a good relationship with the mother....
@@karabomothupi9759 what’s wrong with that she said
@@mb4635 nothing Chile, trolls are going to troll
The fact that he back downed when a man came in the picture SPEAKS VOLUMES.
Yes.. that's how these men are. Especially narcissistic men. They only have strength for women.
@@abigailsimpson5904 "strength". It's a predatory move. They're weak and pathetic and go after those they think are easiest. Like a lion picking off the the baby animal in the group. I feel bad for his kids, hopefully the other child that doesn't live with him is shielded from his antics and grows up to be a good man. Cause he certainly isn't.
@@alexdolye9717 it's very sad trust me. She moved on though. She divorced him and completed medical school or something of the sort.
No its because its not one of those fight shows
@@crossyroad2494 I'm speaking of his tone and agression...those things disappeared when a male stepped to him.
When Iyanla said, "I ain't sending you home tonight, I'm sending you and your girls to a hotel so that you can eat pizza and watch movies." That's it right there...Life goes on. Ain't no need to worry about that narcissist
People need a break to think...some people don’t want you to have clarity. Some of us are soo beautiful and talented
Right!
Narcissist are the devil in flesh
@@sharondavis3535 thisssss
@@sexyblackjag they show up as such but they're unwell. Narcissistic personality disorder is a mental illness. One of the most difficult to treat. Most self medicate and are also addicts. Not justifying their behaviour or toxicity. Just noting their behavior is related to an illness. One they'll likely live and die with.
One that makes their lives horribly miserable and they project that outward.
Ms. Iyanla’s son was ready to pull Dwight’s muffin cap back, Blue! 🙌🏾🙌🏾😂😂
Don’t jump up in my mom’s face while I’m around. Anybody can get it. 💯
🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂 that part!
I hollered when the yellow shirt popped up👀👀👀Dwight said "I'm not about that", but Queen Iyanla's son was about this and that!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
knuck if you buck
Yes, this man defended his mother like a lion
That man's energy is GROSS. From the first minute he sat down, I knew he was the problem. She should have left him in 1997.
😂😂😂
When Iyanla’s son jumped in... she had that...”Das ma baby!” Look on her face. I was proud... he ain’t even my son.. 🤣
Right!?! Me too! I loved that!
Same!!! 💯
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Brooklyn Nyc in the house, didn't even know he stays on set with her!👏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏾
YES!!!!
I could never cheat on my wife in a million years. She means too damn much to me.
How can you compare yourself to a boy?
Speak on it
Amen brotha
His a boy Jamil dont compare yourself. Continue to love your queen sir, she loves you dearly too.
A REAL MAN , that’s doesn’t need Xtra marital affairs and Brags on how much she means to Him 👑Take Notes Men & Woman .. that DONT respect Loyalty
His posturing in the beginning was completely child like.
I'd sayyyyyy... About 4 years old!
He’s the definition of a man child
Exactly he shrank into a pure child. Not sitting up like a man. Leaning and slumps over nonchalantly
💯
Unbelievable
When he said "you a life coach now?" to Iyanla I laughed. It's called fix your life- that's what she does!
He's manipulative and will try anything.
And he called her!
The wife is gorgeous...she deserves so much better.
SOOO MUCH BETTER
actually Ms. Johnson.. she deserves what she has. She is as much the problem as he is. The only difference is.. this show is about saving the women.. not the men. She knew he was what he is long ago. It could be argued that.. if it wasn't for her inaction, he would have learned the things he needed to learn to move forward in his manhood.. a long long time ago. It could be argued that her apathy is just as toxic as his substance abuse and emotional manipulation.
@@4us2grow 👍👍👍 Yes women are fighters l just hate seeing one waste years fighting for the wrong man to try and keep her family together this man is a complete a****** and he didn't even try to pretend for the cameras he embarrassed his whole family 🙏🙏🙏 Going off on Mrs Vanzant 🤐
Exactly
As soon as she heard about the other women he had a child wit that the red flag for her to pack her bags along with the kids and left
This man body language is wearing me out. He is sitting there worse then a child.
My child is autistic and he doesn't even act like that.
not surprised. This man is a giant baby
I was looking for someone to mention that lol
I said the same thing! Smh like sit up!
That’s the first thing I noticed. It’s so off putting.
21:17 When Iyanla’s son said “IM THAT THO!” I felt it!! A good man defending his mother who is being disrespected by another man. YESSIR INFORM HIM!
YES1
I felt that in my soul. I love knowing she has that back up. She deserves to be protected.
I felt that in my SOUL
EXACTLY!! As soon as they showed that he was her son, I shouted out "I know that's right" and "Son come through now"...so glad he was there 🙌🏾
Yessssssssssss! Loved it! Her son was letting him know!
He didnt know her son was on set though lmao sent him right back to his car
LOL!
LOL "Right back to his car." 😂😂😂😂
Yeah but, Damn, Everything had him running to his car.
😂
I'm 60 seconds in and see what the problem is. This buffoon never grew up and is a child who has an excuse for every asinine thing he's ever done. Time for this beautiful lady to move on.
Hit the nail right on the head! The “buffoon” part SENT me! 😂😂😂
Girl what....u ain't never lied😂. Not even 60 seconds in I knew he was the problem. His whole demeanor
@@brittanyjackson38 This man is a G I A N T baby. Whew, Lord!
Yessss way too gorgeous to be on the arm of this fool smh
😂😂😂 Hilarious but sad! SMH
The way Iyanla called out his toxic masculinity phew, she don't waste no time! LOL
Rapid response, wow.
With respect, I really don't agree with that term toxic masculinity. To be masculine is not toxic. The behaviour of the individual that is exhibiting negative or toxic behaviour is toxic whether you are a man or woman. We need to stop buying into this term.
@Andrea Mackintosh I’m so over this anti man “men are trash” rhetoric. Women can be/are trash too. If toxic masculinity is a thing, toxic feminism needs to be too. I’ve met some terrible “feminists”
@@SynterraSteen toxic masculinity is simply a man using his stature, strength etc(natural God given traits) to intimidate/manipulate a woman. And it is a thing , I would know as a woman that survived a marriage filled with mental/emotional/physical abuse. I have a problem when people flip a man’s issue and says “women r this and that too”, ignorant to the fact that God has given the man the divine role as the “HEAD”. If the boss is acting a dang fool, you can expect the workers to do the same.
@Love Jones completely agree. Being masculine or feminine should not be linked with the word toxic. It's purely the behaviour of the individual that should be considered as toxic behaviour. People really need to break down the meaning of words. This guys in this series clearly exhibits emotional abuse, manipulation, deception (among other things) towards his family. I would say the same thing if the roles were reversed in this situation.
This guy is everything our Mothers warned us about men. He is everything I hate about controlling men.
And that's because he's not a real man but a boy
everything
U so right, and she betta run for the hills if he can't be fixed ,and i really doubt he can be. He is a complete narcissist manipulative for sure, and on top of that he is on drugs and drinking. That life of hell wont end until she leaves him, and she need to leave without him knowing til she is safe somewhere. He reminds me of my own father whom was very aggressive with women. I appreciate Iyanla interrupting the pattern, and trying to wake up this woman. God bless her because it's obvious he has installed fear in the household while he does whatever he wants while his wife and daughters suffer internally.
@Rochelle carmel 💯 you right!! She should of been left.
“Right now he’s being manipulative. He’s making YOU WRONG.” I felt that!
Iyanlas’ son was about to rock his world and fold him like a church program. Don’t roll up on moms like that, quick and permanent death.
When he popped up i said yeesssssssssssssssss you better act up son he not bout to respect her in front of you
Lol! Not like a church program though 😂
@@songspassion that took me out lmao 🤣 😂 😆
More like a CHINESE fan! 🤣
😂😂😂💯
That woman is so broken , she has no tears left . It’s so sad .
She is DRAINED
Yes so true
@laurence Mackey I agree, too young to be even thinking about marrying someone, should be focusing on a career or passion fr
I agree
@@10062898 yep she’s cut off numb drained
This is a whole TYLER PERRY MOVIE 🍿
The moment she said “ I want out “ , the start of a new life and a great script
😁
her update at the top of the comments are awesome.. and yes she is starting a beautiful life
If this is truly a Perry movie that means a light skinned man in a bad wig is right around the corner
"I'm not that, brah"....
"I AM that though - this is my mom, son..."
Not only is he aggressive, he is disrespectful AF!!!!
@chaneliswell89 Wilson ... she can do better by herself. I hope she realizes that.
@chaneliswell89 Wilson I literally laughed out loud at your comment. Took me off guard. 😂😂😂
It’s the coke
And gross af
Iyanla’s son rolled up and he started singing another tune. That man was ready to knock the coke outta his system for him.
Lmaoooo 🤣🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀
Smoke🌬🌬🌬
And I love seeing it! 👏🏽👏🏽
Not the coke, but the son was on go!
Her son wanted all the smoke.
It really be the ugliest dudes with the most audacity. Women DO BETTER. Stop letting these fools take you for a ride
Yessss!!
PURE AUDACITY!!!!....Uuuughhhhhh, so unattractive 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
Right!
Facts🙌🏾🙌🏾
Ugly and fat I'm like wtf she has a cute face she could've done better.
I was so proud of Thelisha when she walked away from the car and didn't let Dwight manipulate her. 23:40
Yes!!!!!!!!!! That part made me PROUD!!!
She never should've went. Iyanla told her what it was but it's good that she went back.
its easier to make Iyanla his enemy than for him to face his faults. This man is a master manipulator.
Yep he's a narcissist and have some deep issues he refuse to talk about it.
Exactly
Exactly!!!!
Yup from the time he came in
This guy is a sorry excuse for a man but a master manipulator he is not....when a person knows their worth...
i once had the privilege of meeting iyanla at the Mall of AMerica!! she hugged me in her bosoms' and i felt more in those 10 seconds then i ever have my whole life. them are healing hands
Lololll
I envy you! ❤
That's beautiful to hear
Awww man! What a privilege! I’m sure if I ever met her and she hugged me I would probably start crying.
Coffee with Cassie same lol
"Back up off my momsss, son " straight Brooklyn 🤣🤣
Better know it! We were yelling 'Shoop' by Salt 'n Pepa, in Damon's honor!! every time we seen that protective scene!
YES!!
I’m that ♥️
Ayeeeeee! Back up off my momma son!!!!!!
Flatbush, Brooklyn style.
I like how Iyanla express’ herself. I don’t do well with masculine aggression. It’s wonderfully said.
Iyanla is from Brownsville, Brooklyn. Her son is about that life, he protected his mom.
Brooklyn in the house
Brooooooooklyn 😜💪🏽🤟🏽
All he did was sit in the couch and I knew everything about him!!
Preach!! Girl
Yoooooo 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 yes!
Exactly! Body language is everything.
Hes annoying and disgusting
😂😂🤣💀
The fact that when Iyanla asked what does Thelisha want, and Thelisha says "I want to heal" as opposed to "I wanna fix my marriage" is important! She's saying she wants to feel better FIRST! She (possibly unknowingly) is putting herself FIRST! That's important! Something inside her already knows that she is the priority, but just needs guidance.
Yes‼️💯❤
I agree with you
I agree
@OneLoveRSR I agree with what you are saying. I love how Iyanla held her hand and hugged her tightly when she said, "I don't want to do it alone". And, none of us should have to do it alone. We should all have at least one friend or relative and a caring therapist to help us heal. But, most all, Jesus is a Healer, Comforter, Provider, and Shelter in the time of stormy situations✝️
Yes someone said she got a divorce, took her maiden name back and is a physician assistant
"I wanna get out." The voice change! The clarity! The straightening of her head! I still have chills from the joy I feel for her breakthrough👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
I heard that. It was almost guttural. 😂
He's dangerous, all signs are there. Get out and don't look back.
Not that. He was led astray, he was alone for a long time. Maturity Wise.
@@headmaster6261 he’s abusive point blank period. He has no respect for woman and is quite hostile towards woman. He also does not know how to take accountability and would rather manipulate. Ain’t no lonely in this he is just a damn demon.
@@yukicross989 A woman made him like that.
I completely agree!!!
Yes!
The show wasn't even 5 minutes in before he started to act foolish.
Cocaine does that 😩
He's like a child who demands attention! Sickening!! Very controlling and demonic! 🤭
@@tyrarenae3486 right!
Ikr you felt that too!
A Whole Mess! Smh. He looked 10 on that couch.
She reads these people like a BOOK. Dangerous woman. It’s like watching national geography
🤣🤣🤣 spot on!
Frll
And, she does NOT miss
she's EDUCATED & LIFE EXPERIENCED!, BUT! some people have that "gift', she's VERY! intuitive!
@@memberperks674 Never. She's also Yoruba priestess; her connection to spirit is undeniable.
He walks away all the time but the world comes to an end when others walk away from him 💀💀
Iyanla's son stepping in made my heart and soul smile.
Chiiilee
Agreed!!!
I smiled so big. I wish the men in my family would step in and do just that with what I'm going through.
11111111111111111
Ok
O
Did he say trusting people is not good for him!? You literally cheated😭
Lmaooo
Lmaoooo i knew he was full of it from jump
Right and had a baby! Like gtfoh!!! He’s childish, he’s a liar and has no self control. I feel sorry for him. She can always leave and find better. him on the other hand, he’ll never change.
Him trying to set the tone but iyanla wasnt having it
Right! And then laid back on the couch like a bratty 9 year old. Whoo I can’t. 🙄
20:48 “Oh she’s your life coach now?!”... yes she’s literally a certified life coach, THATS WHY SHES THERE!! 😭💀
That's when I hollered! 🤣😭🤣😭
This dude is a piece of work fr
I CANNOTT😭😂
Haha dude is all over the place
😂
Husband: "I would love to see you turn and walk away from me because she call you, I would love to see it"...
Wife: Turns and walks away....
Husband: sileeeenceeee
That show me that he’s physical with her
@@christaldunaway1256 Agreed. He's clearly abusive and I'm sure in more ways than one.
She had so much power then
That took so much courage for her to walk away. It wasn’t as easy as it looked.
@@Coratime Oh I know it wasn't easy at all. Breaking free in fear from all of that abuse, control, manipulation, and chaos... Never easy...
Iyanla son’s saying “cuz I’m that though!” Standing up to that coward. Okayyy, sexy 😂 21:24
6yyyyju
Dwight's entire demeanor CHANGED as soon as Iyanla's son stepped in! That male aggression subsided QUICKLY! Smh
IKTR!!!
for real 😭😭😭 GOOD LOOKING OUT son
Yesss son!
I find that when you're pretty or kind-hearted, some people want to ruin you.
Or they could already be pretty and broken and they still will try there way to crush you men do that to
Amen
So true
Y’all don’t know how badly I needed to read this
True
This dude really came up in there laying back on that sofa like it was his house.
I think it was more like ... A "very small" and afraid person doing all he could -- which is to behave like a 5 year old
🤣🤣
I honestly forgot it wasnt their house until your comment lol he made it look like he was the big man of the castle and it was his house lol
Ew
I must be really stoned because Iyanla seems like a goddess of wisdom right now. Seriously, like she was an angel brought to earth to help create more peace. Now i have the munchies.
Iyanla's son wanted ALL THE SMOKE, and Dwight wasn't ready for that!
We were just yelling at how noble and sexy Damon is!! BK, Baby!!
That’s what cowards do he stepped to the women but men is a differnt story
@@baileywilder2964 HE'S TOTALLY A COWARD...I CAN TELL BY HIM SAYING TO HER "I WANT TO SEE YOU WALK AWAY FROM THIS CAR", THAT HE HAS BEEN VERBALLY AND PHYSICALLY ABUSIVE TO HER AND THE FISTY DAUGHTER.
Right...
Men narcs are powerless infront of real men lols
Iyanla is such a classy queen. She handled that cowardly bully wonderfully.
His body language towards Iyanla was very aggressive. I am so glad her sons were there to protect her against this hostility.
Qqeqqeqq
His body language said it all at the beginning, the way he sat on that couch swaying his legs while talking to Iyanla showed his character already.
"Hold on take a breath. Let me tell you what I don't do. I don't do well with masculine aggression".. yes
. QUEEN
❤💯💯💯💯💯❤
We love a legit queen
I shouted when she said I WANT OUT!...She had a witness!
Yes!!!
@@worldpeace0266 t
You are good experience to athese
I teared up when she said it!!!
@Ateya Rich Yes!!! I loved it when she said, "I want out". This sister is waking up and ready to receive inner-healing for herself so she can be happy and be there for her children.
He is losing his mind about his wife not answering him.. This joker is crazy as hell!!!
Narcissist
..... once they lose control over you.. hell breaks loose
Insane insane. Even in front of people and cameras.
Malignant narcissist at its finest
He's a narcassist and a sociopath
Did his mama or his daddy not keep that ego in check. I’d slap the silly out of my son if he acted that way, grown or not.
Iyanla is so amazing for still seeing a hurt little boy inside of him, while the rest of us see someone who isn't worth any time or effort. She really is an angel.
Right?! 😍
No amount of money in the world could make me tolerate this type of disrespect, she’s setting a bad example for her daughters!
HE is a bad example for his daughters
Wrong.
She is trauma bonded to this individual, from emotional abuse
To where she isn't operating as an emotionally healthy person would
Abused people are NOT OK mentally.
I wish people would get that
TRUTH
Girl bye. Don’t talk unless you’re in her shoes. Have a seat
I'm glad u wouldn't. Well I'm more then glad. We all have our own personal battles and as a woman I'm glad this isn't one of yours.
So is Damon Vanzant single 👀coz him stepping up for his mother that way was very attractive 😅😂
VERY! He was giving me all kinds of Brooklyn King teas and I am her to sip! 😍😍😍
@@facesbynalumali7475 and that tea is hot❤❤
Stevee Laya ... like a large mug of Earl Grey, no milk. I’m English lool 🤣🇬🇧
Ok do it wasn't just me that was turned on by that I had to see that again
Oh so that’s what it was
"Afforded me to have a son outside my marriage". He actually thinks it is a privilege because he brought home a son? He never even acknowledged and apologize for the hurt he caused her. 😭😭😢. We must no longer invest the best years of our lives with men who want a victim not a partner.
When he said that crap, I think my neck broke, looking at the screen....Like did he just say THATTTT
Afforded!, as if the presence of the male chromosomes boosts your 401K. How ignorant?
He said that as an underhanded comment to his wife. To make her feel less than for not having a son for him...it's disgusting and vile... This guy is not a man, just a little immature boy...
To be honest, I think I and hope it’s just his lack of mastery of the English language. I always remember that magic Johnson said he “achieved the HIV virus”. Always found that funny.
Clearly he didnt know what the word "afforded" meant🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
What Iyanla says: "Okay, take a breath."
What she really means: Get yourself self together before I get you together😅🗣
She’s so good at telling folks off.
Update: I looked up Thelisha on social media. Looks like she divorced him, as she goes by Thelisha Glover now, which I’m assuming is her maiden name. (If they did divorce, I’m glad. Never thought I would be so happy for a dissolution of someone else’s marriage, but oh boy, that marriage was so incredibly unhealthy and toxic.) And it looks like she’s currently in medical school to become a Physician Assistant, which is incredible! I pray that Thelisha is healing and I pray that she has a happy and more fulfilling life.
Thanks for the info. So good to hear she left buffoon.
Wow !!!!! That's awesome. He is not a man or a husband.
I went to look as well. It looks as if she already is physician assistant. She graduated in 2019. She looks way happier! If you look through her pictures, she is stunning compared to how numb she looks in this video.
I'm glad she moved on from him. He's the biggest gaslighter and manipulator I've ever seen
Thank Goodness....
This guy is a punk. Notice that he doesn't mind stepping to a female, but when a real man steps to him, he backs down. If he doesn't change, I hope she divorces this guy.
She did divorce him.
He definitely has hit a woman before, he can’t control is anger
A lot of so called men do that!!
She divorced him like the Queen she is
No more time for change he was cheating on this woman for 20 plus years it’s over!
This would have been a wrap when he flopped down and slouched his big behind on that sofa.
I was thinking the same thing! "Boyyy you better sit straight"
Right? He told me all I need to know about him.
😂😂😂😀😀
@@kashataylor6430 Iyanla see him for who he is a mile away.
No person who has pride in themselves would even hold their body like that in a conversation with a stranger. Such an odd man!
I’m glad the son stepped in. Sometimes you need someone to step in and give that person the same energy
When Iyanla’s son stepped in and checked Dwight for getting in his mother’s face, my heart swelled! I love seeing black men protect and defend black women!!!
@Jane Doe angry and violent ? Is that how you’re describing black women ?
@Jane Doe whatever Karen 🙄
@@blackdiary4109 yes most of them
@Jane Doe “your people” oh so you just feel insecure about your own so you have to watch show where black women are “clowning themselves” to feel better? I understand now.☺️ I’m sorry you’re feeling that way and hopefully you’ll be able to find peace without any negativity about others women
@@hiitsme3039 yes I see. Thank you for your answer. I hope I’ll find you under another black women video.
21:14 as a black man this moment made me smile. Our women need this energy. True protection and opposition to the men amongst us who behave like this toward the women in our community. Lol damon said what he said. "I'm that"
He ain't want that NYC smoke 💪🏾👊🏾😂😂😂😂.
He mad about not answering the phone and he leaves for days and not answering. Grow up sir!
When Ivanya's son came to her rescue....I got chills!
I love how Iyanla son stepped in and let him know and defended his mother
I’m dat!!!!
🙌🏾🙌🏾😎😎😎
Wait
“I love him, but I’m not in love with him anymore” the most realest statement I’ve felt.
True.
Love is a feeling, he doesn't respect her
Exactly the same words I use to describe my feelings for my husband. We're separated now cos I've grown out of the manipulation
When Iyanla's son was going to give him that act right he folded like a deck of cards!!
Facts 😂
Yesss!😂😂He understood him completely!
When he said I'm that...I took a deep breath 😆 🤣
I’ve never seen her son do that, so you know there was more they did not show for him to step in.
Quickly he did, sons don't play about Moms😅
This man came back to control the show at the end, like I get to decide when I come back and you will accept me! Iyanla was like I ain't ya wife, see ya tomorrow lol
The way he changed his disrespectful behavior towards Ms.Iyanla when her sons stepped in and he saw she's truly loved and protected. He saw what a woman being loved and protected looks like...wow❤
He KILLED me at “I gave my life to God in ‘88” OKAY Ni- .... whewwww I almost got blocked off TH-cam 😤
No baby. I got 'cho back. I woulda petitioned youtube on your behalf.
Hahahaha
Girl! I swear 😂
Lmboooooo
😂😂😂,
When that wife was strong enough to walk away from that vehicle - I clapped for her! I sincerely hope she kept that same energy!
There divorced now .
He started crying and walked out only 8 minutes in, I hope she leaves this man
“I want to get out” The way I cheered for her when she said that!!
💯
Amen
So many women can’t do it
You can tell he’s physically abusive. Iyanla called him manipulative and he switched. Instantly. Every time he got mad he looked like he was gonna hit one of them or wanted to.
Damon Vanzant, God bless you! That's how you protect Black women
Yes!!
Yup
Kudos to her son. Standing in. I think Dwight was shocked that he did step in, because he is not used to people doing that.
"She's just sitting there ignoring me like doggone this is her best friend!"....I'm SCREAMING! He was hot when his wife was listening to Iyanla over his tantrum. LMAO!
He clowneddddd🤣
Said well...over his tantrum
@@Lovelyasher l
The wife on this episode is such a stunningly beautiful woman I wonder if she realizes that 🤯
Probably not then she was so worn down but now she's doing 100x better she left him and is dating again and she's still beautiful 🥰
I was thinking the same. Absolutely beautiful
She does now!!
@@suchafknladyyy I was gonna say the same thing but happy to hear she's doing much better ♥️
@@nycgirltee yes ma'am I love to see a glow up 🙏🏾🥰
Dominate/toxic masculinity runs rapid in the black community. Ladies, when you see a man like this, RUN!
Toxic masculinity is thus defined by adherence to traditional male gender roles that consequently stigmatize and limit the emotions boys and men may comfortably express while elevating other emotions such as anger.
@@centellvasilopoulos This man doesn't have that. He is just a lunatic
Women are dominant in the black community and men like him come from female-led homes.
@@centellvasilopoulos “Toxic masculinity “ is a concept of Feminist Theory, which came from radical feminism, not even mainstream. It’s not a diagnostic term, stop throwing it around at men. It stereotypes traditionalists.
@@dondemarco9092 are you a man?
I love how Iyana is still able to remain calm and not let his behavior take over
Mr Dwight: "I came back to fix my life"
Iyanla: "NOT TODAY"
Everybody; 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
LOL 💀💀💀💀💀
💯
🤣🤣🤣😩
I've watched that part at least 3 times😂😂🤣😩
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
As a man, this hurt my soul. From this guys body language to his demeanor and the way he addresses his wife is baffling! Stepping to his wife and Iyanla as if they were dudes in the streets shows that he has no respect for women and is nothing but a coward. bc you KNOW that he would not step to a man the same as he stepped up to those women. To find out he was ordained as a minister is just gob smacking. This is not the way a man of God acts. I wanted to just reach in and take his wife and daughters some place safe. Recognize abusive behavior when you see it.
they left.
This is what these false prophet as pastors do. When men like this come in the church and pretend they gave their life to Christ, because they come in the church with a job or a pension, and they can pay tithes. And that's what it's all about the money to the pastors and not a new heart. So very sad
@@tjwillis6617 Hi, unfortunately true.
False prophet is the word.This kind of individual can ruin the image of Christians and the Church.
The fact that he was ordained is not surprising at all to me.
And smoking crack!
The chills I got when I saw the numbness one of the daughters had. That’s scary
He’s controlling and manipulative. Ladies, if your man acts like this in any way, please know this isn’t love. This is abuse. He thinks he owns her.
Sadly, she let him “own” her. I feel so sorry for her, him and the daughters. This is so tough to watch. Aww. My heart goes out
And he needs help. To heal from his past so it won't affect his behavior with his family.
“Mr. Dwight, go home and take a nap.” I cannot 😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I read this comment right when she said it😭😭😭😭
😭😭😂😂😂😂
“She just sitting up here ignoring me like that’s her best fren” 😩🤣🤣🤣 Good for your behind, I hope she continues to ignore you...you deserve to see how it feels.
😭😭😂
Lmao I knew I wasn’t the only one who laughed at that
She updated above, she's doing great, divorced him and is *glowing*!!
Iyanla looks like she gives the best hugs. I wish I could receive one of her hugs...
Me Too❤
Women, ESPECIALLY MARRIED women, please remember : you can’t raise a man!
Omg girl the days (I do have days where I just hate men) I will hear that song from K. Michelle and waiste of time from snow the product
I learnt this the hard way.
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@Victoria Akoms wrong, its not the mother's job but the father's. A woman is not a man. She can take care of him but cannot teach him to be a real man. Similarly, fathers cannot teach girls how to be feminine women.
@@thematrix3663 that's so right!