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  • @jubilee
    @jubilee  5 ปีที่แล้ว +6196

    We love hearing from you!! Share your answers to the 7 questions in the comments below!
    love y'all! #livedeeper.

    • @KORIGAN1
      @KORIGAN1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Oh yeah !

    • @isobel2674
      @isobel2674 5 ปีที่แล้ว +97

      I would have loved if you had included someone with more socially conservative views than these women, to ignite a broader conversation!

    • @francocamacho12
      @francocamacho12 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I have never seen so many bots in a comment section.

    • @puzzleplay9753
      @puzzleplay9753 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Denim girl knows what's up

    • @casualp8562
      @casualp8562 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Nice video. A video on men would be interesting.

  • @artemissrijan473
    @artemissrijan473 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9082

    0:55 "I changed my tire multiple times" may look like bragging, but "That shows that I'm not a great driver" spun it off into a beautiful joke!

    • @Anam.Fatima19
      @Anam.Fatima19 5 ปีที่แล้ว +210

      Yeah! Super humble!

    • @artemissrijan473
      @artemissrijan473 5 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      OMG I never imagined to get so many likes. Thank you so much guys!

    • @briannabermudez7259
      @briannabermudez7259 5 ปีที่แล้ว +143

      I went to school with her and she's honestly so nice and sweet!!

    • @artemissrijan473
      @artemissrijan473 5 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      @@briannabermudez7259 Nice to hear that people like her didn't change their habits since childhood...

    • @artemissrijan473
      @artemissrijan473 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@athenawindyy966 omg thanks

  • @ItstheGodinme_
    @ItstheGodinme_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +43894

    "YOU CAN RAISE WOMEN UP WITHOUT PUSHING MEN DOWN." That's what I've been saying all this time. This woman is really smart.

    • @benbloom1fan295
      @benbloom1fan295 5 ปีที่แล้ว +606

      Noelle Redmond I read that as peach and was very confused for like 2 minuets

    • @dwigt8751
      @dwigt8751 5 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      Denki Elric bruh 😂😂😂😂

    • @Daria-Morgendorffer
      @Daria-Morgendorffer 5 ปีที่แล้ว +634

      It's sad that common sense is considered smart now

    • @carly3638
      @carly3638 5 ปีที่แล้ว +429

      that same girl in the beginning of the video was saying that todays extreme feminism where men are put down is good....

    • @AddBowIfGirl
      @AddBowIfGirl 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Damion Palmer
      *woman
      She’s a woman.

  • @whatsupworld7816
    @whatsupworld7816 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7874

    whenever i watch these i’m always thinking “damn if i was there i would say...” lmao i can’t help it

    • @Kox-tq9eh
      @Kox-tq9eh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +162

      Then think about saying it and then how are you going to defend your statement.This way of thinking on these videos could improve you.

    • @6xmaaaa
      @6xmaaaa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      Just say it out loud. I was talking to the mirror. 😫

    • @whatsupworld7816
      @whatsupworld7816 3 ปีที่แล้ว +114

      @@6xmaaaa no fr i would pause every once in a while and go off at my reflection lmao

    • @ActivelyCursed
      @ActivelyCursed 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@whatsupworld7816 ikr

    • @vixytina
      @vixytina 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      omg you should def make your channel in your thoughts abt these topics, i would probs watch tbh

  • @mpccurrent
    @mpccurrent 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9599

    totally unrelated but I feel like this room is really cold. Everyone has big jackets on and it just looks very drafty.

    • @m0istl0la97
      @m0istl0la97 3 ปีที่แล้ว +391

      Yup.And the cement floor makes it look like its outside

    • @bella6009
      @bella6009 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      My guess is like 40° and that not cold to me thou since I live where it's cold lol

    • @mpccurrent
      @mpccurrent 3 ปีที่แล้ว +276

      @Enri Playz No? she can wear however much makeup she wants.

    • @joeschmoe7866
      @joeschmoe7866 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @Enri Playz yeah its gross

    • @rushiwonders
      @rushiwonders 3 ปีที่แล้ว +161

      @@joeschmoe7866 ..... I’m guessing you haven’t listened to ANY of the points made in the video. Just remember, woman wear makeup for THEM not others, or the public eye. If she feels confident, has a healthy lifestyle then there should be by no means you feeling okay to even agree to that statement.

  • @kelseybolling549
    @kelseybolling549 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12233

    When the girl in the red jacket said that she had changed her tires multiple times they all clapped for her 😂👏👏

    • @christinasimonetti5649
      @christinasimonetti5649 5 ปีที่แล้ว +496

      I feel like that was such a sexist question.. I watched the “Do all men think the same” and they weren’t asked anything like “I know how to change a diaper” or “I know how to cook a nice meal”

    • @twilson3133
      @twilson3133 5 ปีที่แล้ว +272

      Christina Simonetti “sexist question” 🤣🤣🤣 I swear you feminist always have to bring sexism into things. GROW UP!!!

    • @Juan-pb6xy
      @Juan-pb6xy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +237

      Christina Simonetti because everyone should know how to cook a meal and maybe a diaper. Not everyone knows how to change a tire.

    • @linusb59
      @linusb59 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Nova but everyone should lol

    • @jimmybuckets8313
      @jimmybuckets8313 5 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      Christina Simonetti aw sweetie is offended, poor baby

  • @lucylunser2023
    @lucylunser2023 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11332

    I love how respectful they are. Most people in these videos just argue.

    • @mostlysilent3778
      @mostlysilent3778 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      *Mostly_Silent HIGHLY liked this*

    • @CoasterRoaster
      @CoasterRoaster 5 ปีที่แล้ว +166

      It's cause they're women, and women are typically more polite and organized.

    • @rennycepeda6576
      @rennycepeda6576 5 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      The Coaster Roaster Generalization

    • @KeanuOR
      @KeanuOR 5 ปีที่แล้ว +163

      @@CoasterRoaster Ironically sexist.
      Edit: A few of my comments have been deleted for being sexist? (Not by me)

    • @CoasterRoaster
      @CoasterRoaster 5 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      @@KeanuOR it's not sexist, it's just biological

  • @junglejimmithy7884
    @junglejimmithy7884 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7103

    Respect to the black girl that stood up for herself alone almost every time.

    • @swallalalisa3045
      @swallalalisa3045 3 ปีที่แล้ว +597

      Yes I liked her too just except the abortion one

    • @sarahkhoja2561
      @sarahkhoja2561 3 ปีที่แล้ว +529

      @@swallalalisa3045 I dont agree with her BUT everyone has a unique way of thinking and that is just her belief. 😊

    • @faux4780
      @faux4780 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      @@sarahkhoja2561 why not tho? if adoptions a choice that saves your career / years and the kids life, isn't it fairer on you and the kid overall? (apart from exceptions like results of rape, etc.)

    • @sarahkhoja2561
      @sarahkhoja2561 3 ปีที่แล้ว +174

      @@faux4780 Its the mamas choice. I mean when you go to the grocery store do you dictate what strangers buy and pick up? No, you dont. Same way you and no one else should dictate a mothers choice to do what she wants with her own body. No one should have the right to dictate someone elses choices which is why I am for the pro choice movement. I mean isnt that why we live in America? To have our own choices and freedoms? What's the point if your not allowed to make decisions for your own body?

    • @faux4780
      @faux4780 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      @@sarahkhoja2561 your equating lives to groceries, and your not a mother if your baby died by your choice, your just a woman, the choice is raising it or giving it away, thats the choice for your life, deciding whether your in a position to sacrifice career / have the maturity should be enough, yeah its your body but its their life... your infringing on its freedom to live by not just having it then giving up for adoption if you cant handle a baby rn in your life, not very american tbh

  • @Greyy66
    @Greyy66 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2276

    Seriously tho
    The girl with the denim jacket is extremely educated and understands the real meaning of feminism 👏

    • @bgebre4031
      @bgebre4031 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      i loved her

    • @nadyanugraha284
      @nadyanugraha284 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@nanochad2979 in saying that tho women are less likely to be employed due to ‘benefits’ like maternity leaves. While I understand the logic behind that, such as the employer would like their company to be as productive as possible, it’s still an unfair situation. It takes two to be pregnant and only one faces the consequences, career-wise.

    • @sarahrogers7630
      @sarahrogers7630 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@nanochad2979 middle eastern countries have extremely sexist views. Women lack many rights there. For ex, You can’t even open a bank account without a mans permission. But even then, in a country such as the US, where we all have the same rights basically, it’s not rlly abt that. It’s abt equal treatment and equal value between both genders. Because worldwide women are seen with less value then men. As a result of the patriarchy. And every women no matter where from has the fear of sexual assault because there’s always predators.

    • @invisiblevoice7820
      @invisiblevoice7820 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Egalitarianism left the chat.

    • @criune
      @criune 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@nanochad2979 Do you think industrialization is a significant factor of its own? Lol. If you want to talk modern society, and ignore the rest of the world, maybe look up the recent Activision Blizzard lawsuit. I think it would be much harder for you to name an equivalent multi-billion company run by women that has a work culture of oppressing men.

  • @emmie_girl9917
    @emmie_girl9917 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14673

    MeToo isn’t about women, it’s about ANYONE who has been sexually harassed or raped. There are men in the movement as well.

    • @Username-d5z
      @Username-d5z 4 ปีที่แล้ว +470

      @@omarelmasri9939 that is not what femminsm stands for, they're not feminists. Feminists can be men or women but if they say that they don't represent feminism. Ive heard men say stuff like that to other men. its not the femminsm its ignorance don't let them make you hate women and femminsm. And that is the exact reason im a feminist so that men wouldn't feel weak because of sexual assault and women wouldn't feel like sluts

    • @ayeyo5097
      @ayeyo5097 4 ปีที่แล้ว +146

      Pomegranate Omar wow, sorry to hear that:( hope you're doing all right now.

    • @emmie_girl9917
      @emmie_girl9917 4 ปีที่แล้ว +241

      Pomegranate Omar I’m very sorry that happened to you. You’re not weak. And what really makes me mad is that if a man touches a woman without consent then ppl will get super mad at him and call him a rapist but if a woman touches a man without consent ppl say that the men should be happy a women wants him and enjoy it. And if the guy tries to stop the woman uses his hands then ppl call him an abuser. Men can’t win with this and it pisses me off. No means no, doesn’t matter what gender it is. Also you were very young and it makes me very sad to hear that. They weren’t feminists, I don’t even think there is a word to describe those “feminist”. Even tho I’m a girl it pains me to see other women do this to men and use the fact that they are women to get what they want even if the guy doesn’t want it. I’m still very sorry for what happen and I hope you’re doing well.

    • @omarelmasri9939
      @omarelmasri9939 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Aye Yo
      Thank you, i am 😊

    • @omarelmasri9939
      @omarelmasri9939 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      emmie_girl
      Thank u ❤️❤️

  • @LordAlvastar
    @LordAlvastar 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14022

    Oh man a conservative housewife would have been an interesting addition to this.

    • @cm5394
      @cm5394 4 ปีที่แล้ว +868

      Dihydrogen Monoxide it’s unfortunate that you feel that way. There’s nothing wrong with being either of those things

    • @kalejaruiz
      @kalejaruiz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +429

      Totally! We need all points of view.

    • @CourtneyDixonDesigns
      @CourtneyDixonDesigns 4 ปีที่แล้ว +376

      A conservative housewife would have chosen not to participate.

    • @Jackholiday1025
      @Jackholiday1025 4 ปีที่แล้ว +345

      Conservative women are actually really feminist in a way when it comes to gender roles. They are more likely to shoot guns, hunt and do more stereotypical masculine things.

    • @ty_hens
      @ty_hens 4 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      If anything, they'd have more of a reason to be a feminist. You think they always love being at home, and existing to raise kids. Nah. You just misconstrue the word conservative

  • @gretaosullivan4841
    @gretaosullivan4841 3 ปีที่แล้ว +375

    i feel like this is one of the first videos where we havent collectively decided to hate on someone in the comments.

    • @Eseerrowez
      @Eseerrowez 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      it got flipped, there is a collective love for someone.

    • @FirstLast-nz9vo
      @FirstLast-nz9vo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Cause it’s women dummy

    • @FirstLast-nz9vo
      @FirstLast-nz9vo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Go look at the men’s version of this video

    • @manilak4415
      @manilak4415 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@FirstLast-nz9vo cause that guy was actually insane. He was blatantly misogynistic.

  • @reveriieful
    @reveriieful 3 ปีที่แล้ว +620

    That girl with the glasses and the grey coat and black hair is so gorgeous

    • @user-fu2mt1vz9h
      @user-fu2mt1vz9h 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      @@mementomori1749 how was it racially motivated...

    • @user-fu2mt1vz9h
      @user-fu2mt1vz9h 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      @@mementomori1749 you’re not making any sense at all lmao

    • @user-fu2mt1vz9h
      @user-fu2mt1vz9h 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      @@mementomori1749 she never mentioned her skin color

    • @user-fu2mt1vz9h
      @user-fu2mt1vz9h 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      @@mementomori1749 What’s wrong with saying a specific woman is beautiful?? You’re making this into something it’s not. Obviously the woman’s beauty stood out to her

    • @user-fu2mt1vz9h
      @user-fu2mt1vz9h 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      @@mementomori1749 there was another black woman in that room too lol

  • @DarlingGlitch
    @DarlingGlitch 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2281

    I love how in this episode of Jubilee there was absolutely no hostility, everyone was respectful and they let the other person finish. They fed off of each other’s ideas and it was a true treat to see

    • @JolinHard
      @JolinHard 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Sam Salsa That shows how dishonest they are. None of them had the courage to be their real self. They purposely avoided conflict.

    • @repothenon2706
      @repothenon2706 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      For the first time is women’s history

    • @Andrew-on3vc
      @Andrew-on3vc 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Jubilee probably picked somewhat similar women. Since they didn't have that big of differences.

    • @sleepyidiot2010
      @sleepyidiot2010 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Honestly, I was going to comment this too. I think a big reason is that women are taught to be kind, courteous, and to have manners. Seeing how all these women treated each other was very heartwarming. (:

    • @geojelly9830
      @geojelly9830 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I know right. I was scared of watching this one cause i was afraid of them being a bunch of social justice warrior feminists. But i was surprised in a good way. Good episode, made me rethink my positions on certain topics

  • @Imortallyfueled65
    @Imortallyfueled65 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11907

    They should do one with kids that way we can see the innocence in their decisions

    • @dianab1008
      @dianab1008 5 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      I LOVE THIS!!!!!!!!!

    • @remnants_s9275
      @remnants_s9275 5 ปีที่แล้ว +271

      Are you talking about kids below the age of 7 or above the age of 7? Kids above 7 are literally the most not pure thing ever in my region of New York. I'm a child myself, so I know this as a fact, we aren't pure angels like people describe kids as. If you're talking about below 7 though, it works I guess.

    • @gabrieltarikhomar1447
      @gabrieltarikhomar1447 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@remnants_s9275 ur a child?

    • @remnants_s9275
      @remnants_s9275 5 ปีที่แล้ว +129

      @@gabrieltarikhomar1447 Being under the age of 18 counts as that, so yeah. I'm in the same generation you guys are talking about. Like it's really funny how you people take them as pure angels, but then it gets annoying.

    • @fatimaassaf258
      @fatimaassaf258 5 ปีที่แล้ว +106

      @@remnants_s9275 I agree , I'm only 11 years old and nobody is pure where I live.

  • @aliciatulloch4850
    @aliciatulloch4850 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3523

    Can we do do all gen z think the same
    That’s would be hilarious

    • @suacemanaquiatan9380
      @suacemanaquiatan9380 3 ปีที่แล้ว +160

      We'd probably pose random memes that we can't even understand/comprehend.

    • @aliciatulloch4850
      @aliciatulloch4850 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      @@suacemanaquiatan9380 yep that is why it would be hilarious

    • @HannahTuttle
      @HannahTuttle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      That would be so funnyyyyy I volunteer to participate

    • @aliciatulloch4850
      @aliciatulloch4850 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@HannahTuttle same here

    • @hydroid7273
      @hydroid7273 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @David Winehouse wtf are you on about

  • @Jonra1
    @Jonra1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +991

    "You can raise women up without pushing men down" -> Followed by her approving of something that completely contradicts her previous statement.

    • @vinith8669
      @vinith8669 3 ปีที่แล้ว +105

      You also came from a "curb your ..." video ?

    • @tachyonic900
      @tachyonic900 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      😂

    • @laster3753
      @laster3753 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@vinith8669 I saw the curb vid after this one, but it's so true tho.

    • @jolkm8133
      @jolkm8133 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@vinith8669 I did

    • @cri6766
      @cri6766 3 ปีที่แล้ว +128

      For anyone that's confused. The short hair girl in red said "you can raise women up without pushing men down" but when they had to choose between disagree or agree to "i believe the world would be better if it were run by women" (bringing men down) she choose to agree which is contradicted to what she said previously.

  • @erikschiller7210
    @erikschiller7210 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25167

    The girl with the denim jacket is one of the few feminists that actual hold the original values from first wave feminism.

    • @schnitzelberry
      @schnitzelberry 4 ปีที่แล้ว +621

      I agree! Except Susan B. Anthony (founder of the Feminist Movement) was Pro Life. But besides that, I think she was spot on.

    • @martharigby
      @martharigby 4 ปีที่แล้ว +113

      Interesting! I didn't know that. Will do some googling later...

    • @aquaman6166
      @aquaman6166 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1242

      I dont think shes one of the few. I think most feminists, myself included would agree with her. Unfortunately the feminists that we see most often are the really extremist radical feminists because they are the loudest. A lot of people are feminists, but you wouldnt know because they're not loud about it.

    • @schnitzelberry
      @schnitzelberry 4 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      @@aquaman6166
      True.

    • @bestrafung2754
      @bestrafung2754 4 ปีที่แล้ว +113

      First and second wave. Third and fourth wave feminism are just terrible.

  • @moist.biscuit
    @moist.biscuit 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20596

    "Every woman should be feminist"
    Everyone : agrees
    Denim girl : well that's not feminist
    Everyone : *surprised pikachu face*

    • @sea3530
      @sea3530 4 ปีที่แล้ว +981

      big brain time

    • @myhobbylol
      @myhobbylol 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1577

      ikr that's what i said! same thing with woman should run the world. feminism is about equality!

    • @keunnii9354
      @keunnii9354 4 ปีที่แล้ว +138

      @@myhobbylol but what she said is true

    • @Haneen-wt5nf
      @Haneen-wt5nf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +250

      I think people realized the truth in that and learned from that. I don't think they were necessarily shocked.

    • @rudy8409
      @rudy8409 4 ปีที่แล้ว +188

      @@myhobbylol i dont fully agree that feminism is about equality anymore. maybe early feminism is about that but not modern feminism or radical feminism. i say this because if you ask a large group of people if they support equality between the sexes, pretty much all of them would agree. but if you then ask them if they support feminism then it would be very divided. to me this suggests that there is something to feminism which is currently not aligning to this postulated definition. maybe, by definition, this is what feminism is however there is a very large proportion of feminists who dont truly embody this definition and so the describing oneself as a feminist has become tarnished. im not trying to attack feminism or anything like that, its just my subjective observation about its current state.

  • @maialowthorpe9804
    @maialowthorpe9804 3 ปีที่แล้ว +470

    the thing with the “would you raise a boy/girl differently” is that it’s equity not equality. equality is everything being exactly the same but equity is it being how it needs to be to better suit the individual. if i had a son i would teach him to be respectful of everyone, but to not let anybody tell him it’s okay to harm/upset women just because of gender. just like i would teach a girl it’s not okay to be rude to boys. but i would also teach her it’s not okay to bully girls for looks. it depends how you look at the situation.

    • @koalakrys2761
      @koalakrys2761 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Yeah, that's how I see it.
      Equality is treating every gender exactly the same (Which is actually extremely unhelpful because depending on your gender, you WILL have different needs and experiences in this world)
      Equity is making sure you're doing your best to accommodate all genders so that they're all at the same level.
      Like a very hypothetical example of Equality vs Equity would be making sure all your kids have access to tampons- except your son doesn't need tampons so it wouldn't make sense, so you should be giving all the tampons to your daughter instead of your son. Or making sure all your kids have binders- except your son and daughter have no need for them while your gender non conforming child does, so you give THEM all the binders.

    • @calltyshon
      @calltyshon 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tarasuzanne7867 but i think it's a loaded question. Because they are expected to go either 1 way or the other, left or right. The personcwho went towards the right would be no better than the person who went towards the left. What is important is how they explained the reason they moved in that direction slightly. It's not like a few of them moved all the way towards the right. Then that would be extreme and clearly a feminist.

    • @-SimonRiley
      @-SimonRiley 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I totally agree. If you form a group of people who support every religion and do not discriminate against any one and consider one above other. Including Christians, Muslims, Hindus, Jewish everyone. Say one day you call everyone for dinner and as you are an organisation which supports every religion equally you can't serve everyone PORK on their plate. I mean that's equality that's what you are supposed to do that's what your motto is right? But you just can't do that. You sometimes think of equity because equality doesn't work everywhere.

    • @KD400_
      @KD400_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      If u have a son who's big like mike Tyson then chances r that he will not listen to u raging hormones aggression and competition will eventually be in his head girls on the other hand do not have this so they should be taught differently

    • @BuyJiafeiyassifiedpr0ducts
      @BuyJiafeiyassifiedpr0ducts ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How would that be different for a male child and a female one?? Everyone should be taught not to take advantage of anyone else sexually, that is pretty obvious. Also girls not being rude to boys? What? So you would let the other way exist?

  • @sayakamaizono2050
    @sayakamaizono2050 3 ปีที่แล้ว +377

    Can we just appreciate how civil they are being?

    • @tgauff6625
      @tgauff6625 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      11037

    • @ritam4926
      @ritam4926 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Because they're all feminists. Some extreme and some not. Now if they'll put couple of women with conservative view in the same room, the situation would be slightly different 😁

    • @natalieinthe_wild
      @natalieinthe_wild 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Off topic but i love your sayaka pfp

    • @georgiad4939
      @georgiad4939 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I know, I think this is the first spectrum video where I liked everybody 😂

    • @nomoremary4098
      @nomoremary4098 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ritam4926 Black girl with glasses, she's not.

  • @markalexander3659
    @markalexander3659 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5461

    "YOU CAN RAISE WOMEN UP WITHOUT PUSHING MEN DOWN" - TOTALLY AGREE. Feminism is supposed to be about men and women being EQUAL, not claiming women are "better" because that's just as bad.

    • @taylorowens13
      @taylorowens13 4 ปีที่แล้ว +129

      Mark Alexander. Feminism used to be great. I miss the old feminism where we women, wanted to be treated and seen equal to men. But when the men got threatened and laughed at us we retaliated. Then we became just as bad as them. It’s pretty sad actually

    • @markalexander3659
      @markalexander3659 4 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      @@upscaleavenue You must be deaf then. It's been talked and complained about by pretty much everyone for MANY decades! In fact it's talked about WAY more than women claiming to be "better" than men.

    • @WomenofHighValue
      @WomenofHighValue 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      Women are better - in some areas. And men are better - in some areas.
      We’re not equal in every area.

    • @harishsingh5491
      @harishsingh5491 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @Upscale Avenue...okay so according to you a boy/man living right now should be blamed for actions and thoughts that happened in the past? Even a boy who was born just 10 to 16 years ago? coz the repercussions of such strong extreme feminism is going to be tolerated by him not by the actual people who had those thoughts in the past.

    • @WomenofHighValue
      @WomenofHighValue 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Harish Singh guys need to recognize that they are the solution to this problem. They have to understand that it is men’s fault society is where it’s at - but we men can change it. We need women’s help though, but it’s our responsibility

  • @hereliesmyreputation2559
    @hereliesmyreputation2559 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15975

    True feminism: uplifting men and women without putting either down.

    • @safaabdus8364
      @safaabdus8364 5 ปีที่แล้ว +366

      Isnt that just good people?

    • @cyclonemt
      @cyclonemt 5 ปีที่แล้ว +236

      This is a lie. All ideologies will claim that they are for the betterment of men and women. You have to look at what the ideology claims is the solution and evaluate whether it is true or false. Most forms of feminism today seek to blurry the distinctions between men and women and in so doing they actually harm men and women, because when you deny differences it makes working with the strengths and weaknesses of each gender more difficult.

    • @coldteamzx6411
      @coldteamzx6411 5 ปีที่แล้ว +307

      @@cyclonemt they say women and men are the same yet they want women to run the world .

    • @rolandixor
      @rolandixor 5 ปีที่แล้ว +127

      That's a myth.
      What you're referring to is called "egalitarianism."

    • @wheeler5382
      @wheeler5382 4 ปีที่แล้ว +123

      then it shouldnt be called "feminism" idk how you can empower both sexes with a word feminine in it.

  • @lilymm35
    @lilymm35 3 ปีที่แล้ว +567

    I feel like the American definition of ‘flirting’ is really different to the European one. All the examples they gave were commenting ‘you are beautiful/look nice’ or catcalling.
    Flirting to me is like a dance, it’s not necessarily what is said, but how it’s said, certain looks or smiles, it’s a build up of chemistry and tension.

    • @verryberryman7655
      @verryberryman7655 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      That should be what it is but in America we are pretty... anti-social? Idk what to call it but we just grow up expecting those to only really be said by family or those close to you and anyone else who says it is interested in u.

    • @lilymm35
      @lilymm35 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      @@verryberryman7655 yeah, that’s the same in Europe. Someone who’s a stranger saying ‘you’re beautiful’ kind of as an opener or out of the blue would be considered.... a bit much? Like quite full on.
      Good flirting (in my book) would be say asking you a couple of questions, getting a bit of back and forth chat going, making a few jokes, maybe a bit of teasing - none of that has to be based around comments on how the person looks. I love it when strangers flirt like that with me and am not offended at al! It’s like just testing the water to see if there is chemistry.

    • @meriadocbrandybock3332
      @meriadocbrandybock3332 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@lilymm35 agreed.
      I was irritated by her description as well

    • @lukasfrans1532
      @lukasfrans1532 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeeeeessss

    • @jazcatarina
      @jazcatarina 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It would be nice if more men actually really flirted, held a conversation, danced and finessed their way around women.

  • @spicy_ctrlo7132
    @spicy_ctrlo7132 3 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    Changing a tire should be taught in driver’s Ed

    • @Saltesheep
      @Saltesheep 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      it is bud

    • @spicy_ctrlo7132
      @spicy_ctrlo7132 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@Saltesheep not where I’m from , we had to teach ourselves ..

    • @Saltesheep
      @Saltesheep 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@spicy_ctrlo7132 yeah, maybe watch a youtube video

    • @spicy_ctrlo7132
      @spicy_ctrlo7132 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Saltesheep lmao I taught myself on a highway I’m just saying it should be taught in school just like a lot of other stuff

    • @nermervillarreal2691
      @nermervillarreal2691 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I disagree, you could learn that by yourself. Many resources available today to help anyone.

  • @FRISHR
    @FRISHR 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10979

    If I were to give an example on equality is this:
    Man = 3 + 1 = 4
    Woman = 2 + 2 = 4
    Men and women are equal and should be equal, but we are not identical.

    • @MudhaffarAdhwa
      @MudhaffarAdhwa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +521

      Damn, nice one

    • @stefanymaes
      @stefanymaes 4 ปีที่แล้ว +407

      nice analogy

    • @CB-im3oh
      @CB-im3oh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +139

      FRISHR I must say I don't really agree. I would say everyone is very different and you should be proud of that. Even the differences between men and women. They are not the same! they aren't equal (have different traits by nature, on average better at some things, worse at others) BUT!! Everyone should be TREATED EQUALLY! :)

    • @nezgishnene2843
      @nezgishnene2843 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Chris Boom No not everyone should be treated equally, you act different to people even if you don’t realise and you do that because it just feels right to you. Some people don’t deserve to be treated the same as others, in my eyes you should always be given as many as logical (in your situation) chances for sure, BUT it ends somewhere and that’s the moment you are treated differently AND fair at the same time! I agree that everyone should get equal chances and opportunities, not exactly treated the same! This is just my opinion tho

    • @CB-im3oh
      @CB-im3oh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Nergis BLINK I very much agree with you. Of course it is very natural to treat everyone according to what feels natural to you on an individual level. I was more talking about if you don‘t know the person. You should then give them the same treatment without any pre-existing bias and give them the same chance you give everyone regardless of age, gender and race etc :)

  • @sofiafilardo4834
    @sofiafilardo4834 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6265

    Blonde woman with Jean jacket was really smart. She is an extremely reasonable person.

    • @descartes7708
      @descartes7708 5 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      Yeah i agree with her on everything 😂😂

    • @cassbrewster
      @cassbrewster 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Yeah, she actually was

    • @easypeasylemonsour
      @easypeasylemonsour 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      She looks a lot like Kate McKinnon

    • @ashleylozano1214
      @ashleylozano1214 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Elton John Is A Proud Lesbian yes I agree 100%

    • @Gabe-alicious
      @Gabe-alicious 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Caitlyn jenner is a MANMAN What?

  • @pipquixnostalgia6626
    @pipquixnostalgia6626 3 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    THE LADY IN THE JEAN JACKET IS MY NEW FAVORITE PERSON

  • @sofiasurmay4749
    @sofiasurmay4749 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    The dark haired with gray and black outfit woman is gorgeous. I love her style

  • @kassespinosa
    @kassespinosa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5683

    the girl in the blue denim jacket literally has said exactly what i was thinking for every question

    • @XBoxwolf
      @XBoxwolf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      We need more women like you.

    • @palomoarredondo2323
      @palomoarredondo2323 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      :^|

    • @Omehatl
      @Omehatl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      I am a man but I thought exactly the same way as her too

    • @MarMar-mo1ru
      @MarMar-mo1ru 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Well I disagree with some of her opinions like abortion

    • @YeTism
      @YeTism 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Jonathan Hubbard-Shaw ok simp

  • @Jt665
    @Jt665 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2219

    I think there’s a difference between being polite when flirting/complementing someone. And being aggressive towards women

    • @pnut3844able
      @pnut3844able 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Yes. Also women can be aggressive towards men but do they ever get a sexual harrassment situation? Nope. Double standards. Feminism is a joke

    • @Jt665
      @Jt665 3 ปีที่แล้ว +119

      @@pnut3844able women do get charged and arrested for sexual harassment. A feminist is someone you believes in women’s rights and equality, lots of women do get away with these things, but it does not mean feminism is a joke.

    • @mementomori1749
      @mementomori1749 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@Jt665 that's ridiculous, go look at tiktok to view some legit sexual harassment. Look at the stats and tell me if women are given equal jail time that men are given for the same crime. Tell that to our justice system

    • @TigerOstrich
      @TigerOstrich 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      @@pnut3844able They were talking about women and catcalling, somehow you made it all about men, as lots of men do in order to devaluate women's experience.

    • @minipeeny9475
      @minipeeny9475 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      handsome: polite
      ugly: aggressive
      pretty much

  • @mylanasheridan04
    @mylanasheridan04 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    This is the first spectrum video that I've seen where it just felt like a conversation and yes each woman had different views and beliefs, but no one was super abrasive, constantly interrupted or was rude. I rly enjoyed it!

    • @serpentine8124
      @serpentine8124 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      same, as a guy I find this videos fascinating to see different perspectives. Feel like this sort of conversation rather than arguments when discussing different views and beliefs is far more likely to actually change minds.

  • @AshGeo
    @AshGeo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +205

    It takes immense courage to stand for your beliefs especially when you know that the audience disagrees with you. Props to the black girl 👏

    • @Ashley-km4qi
      @Ashley-km4qi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      You’re praising someone who doesn’t think a women should have the choice to her own body? Sorry but if it was someone else that was pro choice, the comments would be slandering them.

    • @eliben4066
      @eliben4066 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@Ashley-km4qi Has it ever crossed your mind, that for pro life, it’s not always about the woman, sometimes it’s about the child? I don’t hold grudges against pro choice (if they aren’t aggressive activists), but you obviously do hate pro life. Try being a bit more open minded about other opinions, don’t twist people’s words around, it helps make the world less toxic

    • @Ashley-km4qi
      @Ashley-km4qi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@eliben4066 So in other words, it’s not about the fetus or “child”, as they are not even a human yet, it’s about the woman. You can’t argue with what science has already proved about abortion.

    • @jakeotonali4871
      @jakeotonali4871 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@Ashley-km4qi if I may ask, what exactly determines if you’re human or not? What I learned from my embryology class is that humans have very unique dna. It’s what separates us from animals and plants. A human female and a human male procreating then creates a human baby, correct? If it’s not human yet, then what is it and when does it become human? What is it before it becomes human?

    • @theawesome1rjc
      @theawesome1rjc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Ashley-km4qi Absolutely heartless

  • @JohnSmith-dr5zn
    @JohnSmith-dr5zn 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8372

    Denim jacket girl is the perfect example of a feminist, I swear

    • @yourname5510
      @yourname5510 5 ปีที่แล้ว +218

      I thought so too, i wish someday we all gonna be that raisonnable 😍

    • @ness5730
      @ness5730 5 ปีที่แล้ว +127

      John Smith I like how we are referring to her as the denim jacket girl, I think that’s so funny!

    • @themoderngamer3335
      @themoderngamer3335 5 ปีที่แล้ว +257

      yeah, she was okay though. not a toxic feminist

    • @JohnSmith-dr5zn
      @JohnSmith-dr5zn 5 ปีที่แล้ว +346

      The modern gamer 33 most feminists are completely ok and not toxic bruh

    • @tlamax7769
      @tlamax7769 5 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      She's empowered.

  • @kagisosegami2104
    @kagisosegami2104 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2789

    Q: should all woman be feminist
    Denim jacket lady : telling us what to do is anti feminist
    audience : touché 🧐

    • @angelasaes
      @angelasaes 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I think there is and there will always be a misconception on what feminism is.
      When I think about feminism, it is not necessarily being a radical protester, it is at least someone who acknowledges women have come a long way to have equal opportunities as men.
      Just like asking a non white person to not be racist, why would you be against your own rights?

    • @elisahernandez6613
      @elisahernandez6613 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I actually didn't like that response bc feminism is bout having the same opportunities a men and being able to choose the life we want to live. If you believe that we should have the things mention above you are feminist, even if you don't label yourself as that.
      I think every woman should be feminist because the other option implies you don't want women to have opportunities and rights

    • @guokfdukknbgjk9416
      @guokfdukknbgjk9416 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I dont get it , what did she mean?

    • @noodle8674
      @noodle8674 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@guokfdukknbgjk9416 she means that telling a woman what to do or believe is anti feminist. Feminism stands for the support of women, no matter what they choose to do or believe. Therefore, saying that every woman should be a feminist is actually not feminist

    • @ohword9541
      @ohword9541 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@elisahernandez6613 See that's the thing, you are out here making a woman'a choice for her when it's not your life or your mind, it's hers and we all need to respect that.

  • @auruba.zoya73
    @auruba.zoya73 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    i was so happy that the hijabi woman pointed out that adoption isn't accepted in every culture, because for example, islam doesn't allow adoption. Islam allows sponsoring orphans where you fund their housing, education etc. but the kid doesnt belong to you. And the rewards of sponsoring an orphan is sky high. And i know adoption is very prevalent in western societies, so it doesn't readily occur to you that it's actually not common everywhere. So I love the representation as a Muslim!

  • @daanielhan
    @daanielhan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    “We can raise women up without pushing men down” but isn’t she the same person who said that “women need to go a little bit extreme in order to meet in the middle?” Like how does one correlate to another?

    • @catzcatzcatzcatz
      @catzcatzcatzcatz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Being a feminist is not dragging men down to our level but raising women up to the same level that men are on. Being extreme about it means fighting harder, not doing the opposite..

    • @drewharbour3200
      @drewharbour3200 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@catzcatzcatzcatz we're already on the same level

    • @JS-pn4tj
      @JS-pn4tj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Daniel Han Feminist logic

    • @JobHuntingAbroad
      @JobHuntingAbroad 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It just means you have to push harder to get what you need in life, dragging men down is not the objective of feminism.

    • @JobHuntingAbroad
      @JobHuntingAbroad 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@JS-pn4tj male logic also ..need to meet in the middle. Is it so awful for you? You don't want your Mum to be treated with equality??

  • @flooredfitness
    @flooredfitness 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4452

    I love how respectful each of the women were whether they agreed or disagreed with each other.

    • @atomiswave2
      @atomiswave2 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      They were all the same level of respectability

    • @darkpandalord3844
      @darkpandalord3844 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      +victoria marie, respect is a rare site these days.

    • @miguelmuniz5528
      @miguelmuniz5528 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I love how poorly educated they are I want to show them why they're wrong about most of their views in this video

    • @indianvloggerfromassam
      @indianvloggerfromassam 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@miguelmuniz5528 why don't you share with us what they're wrong about

    • @maiidaze
      @maiidaze 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤️❤️❤️

  • @ingevanderross5154
    @ingevanderross5154 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3376

    there is a difference between flirting and harassment..

    • @katethekitkat8826
      @katethekitkat8826 5 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      Nobody said there wasn't 🙄

    • @crstph
      @crstph 5 ปีที่แล้ว +180

      & men don't seem to know what it is. better to just stop letting men flirt with strangers until they can figure it out

    • @tobe4real
      @tobe4real 5 ปีที่แล้ว +137

      Well some men need to figure out what that is. Women constantly get flirted with and when they don’t reciprocate they’ll be harassed for their number, followed, threatened. It’s madness. This has happened to me and multiple friends

    • @ohfortheloveofguacamole6803
      @ohfortheloveofguacamole6803 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      +Inge Van Der Ross Agreed...I thought that the responses to that were kinda weird...the question was about flirting, not cat-calling/harassment. I would imagine many of those women would have had a different answer if the question was location specific. It was such a vague question that it leaves too much room for someone to misunderstand.

    • @snkybrki
      @snkybrki 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@crstph You might want to phrase that differently....

  • @amalkavautrin6653
    @amalkavautrin6653 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    The blond girl with the jean jacket is really what I mean when I sag I'm a feminist she's really smart. The young black lady too even if I don't agree with her about abortion (I'm pro choice) It's surprising than this time I loved everyone in this video they are all really mature and just discuss about their opinion politely. I just think that it would be really interesting to see more different age ranges 😁

    • @Natalaie
      @Natalaie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeees i am like 70% this blonde nas 30 % this girl with glasses and this with red lipstick 💜

  • @nam5723
    @nam5723 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Who is here after "curb you feminism" video

  • @londonlouise9797
    @londonlouise9797 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7562

    The woman in the denim is so confident in her beliefs, I feel like feminists nowadays are conforming to what the media says feminists should be, while she's just true to herself, and can then influence other people positively, instead of forcing her beliefs on people.

    • @londonlouise9797
      @londonlouise9797 4 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      @Bia L what do you mean?

    • @angelasaes
      @angelasaes 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I assume that you are a person of color based on your profile picture (sorry if I'm wrong) but do you think a POC shouldn't be against racism?
      Not necessarily an extremist but to support what they are mainly fighting for

    • @londonlouise9797
      @londonlouise9797 4 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      @@angelasaes I don't understand what you're asking me. But yes, I am a black female, and I think black people should be against racism.

    • @angelasaes
      @angelasaes 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@londonlouise9797 I think for feminism it should be the same.
      Just knowing our gender has been oppressed for years and support the movement that gave us more freedom

    • @londonlouise9797
      @londonlouise9797 4 ปีที่แล้ว +106

      @@angelasaes I'm saying that women nowadays are following the media's definition of feminism, instead of thinking about the original purpose of the movement. Some feminists have become extremists, and for some it's no longer about equality, but about women taking power and replacing men.Some feminists force their beliefs on others, and become hostile, which then takes support away from feminism, and makes women compete with each other to be "correct" in their beliefs. I agree with what you're saying, and I feel like there are aspects of the movement that have changed in ways I don't necessarily agree with.

  • @Loveamandapatrice
    @Loveamandapatrice 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3403

    Not all children get the luxury of being adopted. Especially into loving , supportive homes.

    • @zaradavis3578
      @zaradavis3578 5 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      This.

    • @laural4739
      @laural4739 5 ปีที่แล้ว +112

      Ok so because these children weren’t chosen they shouldn’t have life. Would you go up to a child in foster care and think it would have been better if they were aborted? If you think yes then that’s your opinion and I respect it but I personally don’t agree.

    • @Loveamandapatrice
      @Loveamandapatrice 5 ปีที่แล้ว +125

      * screams * I said what I said because a lot of people use the excuse that babies can be adopted as opposed to abortion. The fact is that not all (I would even even argue that most) children have the luxury of being adopted into loving supportive homes. So putting a blanket statement making it appear to be absolute is extremely misleading. I didn’t once say or imply or believe that children in foster homes would have been better off aborted. BUT what I do believe is that no one should be able tell anyone what’s best for their life if they were to become pregnant.

    • @olivernice7361
      @olivernice7361 5 ปีที่แล้ว +147

      @@laural4739 I was in foster care for 17 years (my entire life) and I KNOW that if I was aborted I would not have known, but my mother's life would have been much better if she was not forced into having me and then putting me into foster care. The experiences I had in foster care were traumatic (severe sexual abuse/rape and emotional abuse) and the system did not support me during those times and then when my foster parents kicked me out at 17, I had NO support. I am now 23 and I am struggling to pick up the pieces of my life and I now have no living biological family and no longer have foster parents in my life. I am struggling so, so much and I am all I have. I inherited illnesses from my mother, I have PTSD from my childhood abuse, I can not work and I am struggling to study. I KNOW I am a burden on the system and although I am grateful for my life, I know there are many others like me. And I know the pressure it puts on society. And I know how hard my mother struggled being faced with the reality of having to give birth to a child she did not want. I often believe I am the exception when it comes to foster kids being swallowed by the system and turning into nothing because I do not want to be a statistic, but my GOD the obstacles I have had to overcome don't seem worth it for all the damage that the forced birth of me caused. There are MANY reasons why someone can not have a child and many more reasons why someone would not be ok with putting a child into foster care.

    • @michaelubarri847
      @michaelubarri847 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@Loveamandapatrice That's the thing it's not their life it's their son or daughter's life and they don't have the right to choose whether their son or daughter has the right to live.

  • @yousmellysmellydogoof8513
    @yousmellysmellydogoof8513 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    This actually was a good video, they were respectful and weren't having a screaming match yet they disagreed. Plus they weren't pushing anyone down.

  • @manyaamukund2038
    @manyaamukund2038 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    1:02 When she said she changed her tire multiple times and they all clapped my heart went: 😭😭🥺
    It may not be a HUGE achievement but they were so sweet.

  • @toxicdermyillunary4103
    @toxicdermyillunary4103 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4915

    damn, this is the most healthy feminism I've ever seen and listen to.

    • @toxicdermyillunary4103
      @toxicdermyillunary4103 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      ​@@samuelprince7895 so that's why left-wing demonstration mostly full of hearsay, stupidity, ignorance, wrath, hate speech, and accusation. there are most of the time boys among them. I see where you are going.

    • @loredelamore
      @loredelamore 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Feminism is toxic.

    • @pyroshayniac1090
      @pyroshayniac1090 4 ปีที่แล้ว +105

      @@toxicdermyillunary4103 You were being so nice and tolerant, then you had to go and muck it up.

    • @toxicdermyillunary4103
      @toxicdermyillunary4103 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@pyroshayniac1090 I think I am as tolerant as you toward male (boys) so it goes both ways tbf

    • @kayla4551
      @kayla4551 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@toxicdermyillunary4103 terms like male and female are very mean please try to not use them

  • @jagan9235
    @jagan9235 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5710

    I’m a man & I don’t know how to change a tire .

    • @biberflub
      @biberflub 4 ปีที่แล้ว +405

      Jerry L. Bruh 😂 I’m a girl and I don’t know how to braid my own hair

    • @Katie-iv7rh
      @Katie-iv7rh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      p 3vedi
      I don’t even know how to plat 😭😂

    • @youwouldnotbelieveyoureyes6829
      @youwouldnotbelieveyoureyes6829 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      I’m pretty sure my dad and brother don’t either 😂

    • @determined919
      @determined919 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      That's not vegan

    • @V3loCiTy123
      @V3loCiTy123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@Katie-iv7rh I'm a guy and I know how to do that :D Super proud of myself for it :P

  • @genevieverose1234
    @genevieverose1234 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    "in a lot of cultures adoption is not ok" uh in those same cultures then neither would abortion...

    • @Spiqaro
      @Spiqaro 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I didn't know adoption wasn't okay, that's weird.

    • @aliquidgaming1068
      @aliquidgaming1068 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      In those same cultures neither would pre martial sex. But all of a sudden after the act is done she remembers her cultures beliefs and values and wants to uphold them

    • @synth-_-5093
      @synth-_-5093 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Spiqaro in Islam adoption isnt allowed, but taking care of a child is if that makes sense. So they are not allowed to share the same name but taking care of them is a very positive and nice thing to do

    • @synth-_-5093
      @synth-_-5093 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She said she was pro life but she doesnt want the government to restrict her options

    • @tia2676
      @tia2676 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It was pro birth. Pro life is not a real thing.

  • @chiros1234
    @chiros1234 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    3:15 Men won't meet you in the middle. Men won't meet you at all.

  • @kirstyemerson1570
    @kirstyemerson1570 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2108

    The girl in the denim is what I mean when I say I’m a feminist

    • @cassidygard
      @cassidygard 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      I see you Kirsty ❤️

    • @fangirlinneverland6335
      @fangirlinneverland6335 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@cassidygard wait wait wait are you denim jacket girl in the video or I'm just unnecessary confused?

    • @Laura-hn3tf
      @Laura-hn3tf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      fangirl in neverland I think she is

    • @sophiabeebeeboo4579
      @sophiabeebeeboo4579 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      👏🏽👏🏽♥️♥️yaaasss

    • @shimmerviolet5312
      @shimmerviolet5312 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@cassidygard is that u jacket girl?

  • @annieblanchard4569
    @annieblanchard4569 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6896

    This is one of the healthiest, most well-balanced, respectful spectrum episodes I’ve ever seen.

    • @absolutelynot524
      @absolutelynot524 3 ปีที่แล้ว +99

      it has got to me my favorite yet, so clever and made me question some of my beliefs instead of just agreeing or disagreeing with them.

    • @ladydavinci9914
      @ladydavinci9914 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      I thought they were all lovely and respectful, and it was refreshing to watch.

    • @catttyun
      @catttyun 3 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      And you know why? w o m e n

    • @masonhenderson6547
      @masonhenderson6547 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@catttyun sexist lad

    • @luciehdrt8940
      @luciehdrt8940 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@catttyun I was about to say the same thing

  • @Alichousan
    @Alichousan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Bringing people up without bringing others down. That's what life should be about!

  • @firstylasty9417
    @firstylasty9417 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    "Every woman should be a feminist" is a trick question. That really wasn't fair. The word "should" is sneaky. A better phrasing would be "There's no reason for a woman NOT to be a feminist."

    • @Spiqaro
      @Spiqaro 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      "Feminist" has become a trick phrase. Do we mean a feminist who truly believes in equality such as those of the 1920's suffragists? Or are we talking about the 2010's feminists who hate men, but then lie and say that it's still all about equality?

    • @firstylasty9417
      @firstylasty9417 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Spiqaro You are defining "2010 feminism" on behalf of women, and there is a term for that. This is a ploy that young boys on the internet and redpills use to gaslight one another into demonizing feminism. I literally know *no women* and *no feminists* who hate men. And I know a f*-ton of women.
      All the feminists I encounter are *humanists* -- with compassion being the underlying thread. There's a bizarre misconception online that being pro-women necessitates being anti-men, and it does not.
      Also, the amount of issues that women suffer (typically at the hands of men) is *staggering.* I understand that men have issues, too. But women are, by and large, the victims. Of unspeakably violent, terrible things. *Let's take a moment to acknowledge that.*

    • @Spiqaro
      @Spiqaro 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@firstylasty9417 Why did my comment offend you? If we are to be equals, then 1920's feminism applies and is perfectly fine. However, as soon as we go into trying to talk about how men commit more harm against women and the like, then it causes antagonism and a belief in victimhood. It's exactly the sort of thing that has started to occur within these last 10 years.

    • @Spiqaro
      @Spiqaro 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@coltj5907 That's too bad. Anyways, how was your day?

    • @coltj5907
      @coltj5907 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Spiqaro it was alright, job applications, work. How are you doing?

  • @ayslinnbuchholz9373
    @ayslinnbuchholz9373 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4274

    Foster care and adoption is not the dumping ground for your unwanted babies.

  • @skinnybuddha8988
    @skinnybuddha8988 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    "We need to go to extremes so women can gain power" "we can't push men down to bring women up" pick a side

    • @royalaza
      @royalaza 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She means women need to be extreme to get on the same level, nothing about how we need to put down men

    • @ennealv
      @ennealv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think she changed her mind after what the blonde girl in the denim jacket said

  • @BasedKashmiri06
    @BasedKashmiri06 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This hijabi saying the most haram things ever

  • @akiraandrews5630
    @akiraandrews5630 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8701

    Can’t wait till younger Gen-Z get asked these questions

    • @zerere_
      @zerere_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +367

      I wanna be there lol

    • @thankyouforbeingafriend9632
      @thankyouforbeingafriend9632 4 ปีที่แล้ว +267

      Anna Pagnin idk gen-z is crazy 😳

    • @johnmegatroj9795
      @johnmegatroj9795 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Anna Pagnin nah they gonna be weird

    • @emmyxoxo7686
      @emmyxoxo7686 4 ปีที่แล้ว +325

      they’re gonna be so political and add weird memes in it at the same time.

    • @andrea-il8yu
      @andrea-il8yu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      i would love to do this but i am 12 and i feel like they probably wouldn't let me but i basically agree with all of them

  • @EricChamplin
    @EricChamplin 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1824

    If only everyone could be this respectful toward each other no matter if they agreed or disagreed with each other.

    • @gram8121
      @gram8121 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes

    • @fallon7422
      @fallon7422 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      A lot of people respond to different opinions with disrespect no matter what. Unfortunately respect and shared opinion are not inverse relationships.

    • @cassidygard
      @cassidygard 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      🙏🙏🙏

    • @aminag9200
      @aminag9200 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I wish

    • @majmelon
      @majmelon 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      If only humans could comprehend the meaning of respect, if 2 people have a different opinion nowadays, we have war.

  • @gigaslime3627
    @gigaslime3627 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The girl with the red jacket said that we don't need to push people down to go up then few moments later she started to push men down that's big brain

  • @linusjoschua8427
    @linusjoschua8427 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    The women with the jeansjacket is speaking straight facts

  • @riceandbeans5546
    @riceandbeans5546 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7043

    That woman with the glasses was a little nervous throughout the video but I don't know why cuz she's literally like a freakin' genius.

    • @chelseaxoxo784
      @chelseaxoxo784 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Spewkkk🔥🔥

    • @darkangel4994
      @darkangel4994 4 ปีที่แล้ว +600

      absolutely! except for her stance on abortion i completely agreed with her on everything

    • @myra8912
      @myra8912 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      @@darkangel4994 yes exactly my view

    • @erindanko3900
      @erindanko3900 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Dark Angel i definitely understood the views within her stance though!!

    • @bayleewoolard5514
      @bayleewoolard5514 4 ปีที่แล้ว +134

      Dark Angel yeah I hate when people bring up adoption but don’t do anything to fix the system

  • @melanieflannery5418
    @melanieflannery5418 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1191

    For the flirting question, well for me it really depends. There’s a difference between someone telling me I’m beautiful and someone saying “damn your hot.”

    • @bakugokatsuki908
      @bakugokatsuki908 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Damn you're hot

    • @fairyjuggalo8368
      @fairyjuggalo8368 4 ปีที่แล้ว +165

      @@bakugokatsuki908 damn, you're not :)

    • @bakugokatsuki908
      @bakugokatsuki908 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@fairyjuggalo8368 Ok virgin

    • @fairyjuggalo8368
      @fairyjuggalo8368 4 ปีที่แล้ว +163

      @@bakugokatsuki908 do you seriously want a 13 year old to lose her virginity-

    • @etheralflowers3631
      @etheralflowers3631 4 ปีที่แล้ว +107

      @@fairyjuggalo8368 Lmao, the way the didn't reply

  • @arianna6069
    @arianna6069 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    i just want equality dude

    • @arianna6069
      @arianna6069 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tarasuzanne7867 we can still work for it and try to make the world a better place.

    • @arianna6069
      @arianna6069 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tarasuzanne7867 i understand what you're saying, and that's why i'm not rly agreeing with the women in this video but to get equality there has to be inequality first. just like in all the BLM movements, we focused on empowering black voices so that they can be more equal. we weren't focusing on everyone's voices though (the "All Lives Matter" thing) because that would further the inequality and oppression.

  • @hellfireentertainment2355
    @hellfireentertainment2355 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    The female with the grey over coat, especially being from New York, is very like wow

  • @lee-xq3ij
    @lee-xq3ij 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2730

    As a man who was taken advantage of by a woman, we should teach women AND men, that they should respect peoples. Bodies

    • @dizzycarrillo51
      @dizzycarrillo51 4 ปีที่แล้ว +156

      Thank you!! I agree 100% Plenty of times back in college I witnessed women "climb onto the drunk mans lap". It isn't just men who are guilty of these sorts of things.

    • @ErraticConduct
      @ErraticConduct 4 ปีที่แล้ว +208

      As a woman who was assaulted by another woman, you don't know how awful those gender stereotypes truly are until you are finally revealing the pain you live with to others, and it isn't that you aren't believed, but because you were assaulted by a woman, you should be able to get over that easily because that's not as traumatic for you as if a man assaulted you, right? :(

    • @rashamohammed8544
      @rashamohammed8544 4 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      @@ErraticConduct I hope your feeling better. And I agree, sexual harassment and rape either by a man or woman should be treated the same. They both cause so much emotional pain I can never imagine. No one deserves to be hurt that way

    • @melanieflannery5418
      @melanieflannery5418 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Yes, we should absolutely teach men and women. The thing is, most women are taken advantage of by men, I guess that’s why people think that only women are taken advantage of.

    • @ludanoob1856
      @ludanoob1856 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      True!!

  • @quart_knee
    @quart_knee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10242

    The lady that laughed so hard when she said “telling a women to do something is actually anti-feminist” god i died 😂
    The girl in the denim is killing it.

    • @RamMohammadJosephKaur
      @RamMohammadJosephKaur 3 ปีที่แล้ว +215

      yeah she was the best

    • @oliviagrace6914
      @oliviagrace6914 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      * God

    • @ok-gs5wc
      @ok-gs5wc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +107

      @@oliviagrace6914 why does god need to be capitalized

    • @johnpaul4743
      @johnpaul4743 3 ปีที่แล้ว +93

      @@ok-gs5wc for respect

    • @thrashhh4457
      @thrashhh4457 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      @@ok-gs5wc idk man maybe because God created u?

  • @JarinCOD
    @JarinCOD 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    A Muslim wanting their children raised the same is really cute.

  • @Maltetren
    @Maltetren 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    “I have changed my tire multiple times”
    Group: *claps*

  • @bstorm123
    @bstorm123 5 ปีที่แล้ว +471

    Theres a difference between flirting and catcalling.

    • @Charlie092
      @Charlie092 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      They don't even know what flirting is

    • @aspenshel
      @aspenshel 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Catcalling is just disrespectful in my opinion 🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @leenguyen6056
      @leenguyen6056 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      aspen dean When it’s actually catcalling, but 95 percent of the time it is actually flirting

    • @aspenshel
      @aspenshel 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@leenguyen6056 what's your definition of flirting?

    • @ayarimeriam4497
      @ayarimeriam4497 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i think flirting needs two people if one isn't comfortable then it isn't flirting.

  • @cherrywillow3983
    @cherrywillow3983 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8308

    The blonde woman in denim (Cassidy?) offered a whole new perspective I’ve never thought about before. Like I’ve always supported the equality part of feminism, but her view on stressing that woman are more superior has the same potential to basically do the same thing as saying “men should rule the world”. Really made me think, thank you.

    • @jmeistur2879
      @jmeistur2879 5 ปีที่แล้ว +126

      Yeah right, Like She is real for sure. definitely opened my eyes.

    • @ScreamingManiac
      @ScreamingManiac 5 ปีที่แล้ว +198

      People say things like this all the time all that shows is you only listen when someone you already partially agree with is speaking

    • @mariotovar8285
      @mariotovar8285 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      @@ScreamingManiac Was about to say the same thing.

    • @user-ob1wr5is4f
      @user-ob1wr5is4f 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Hi, I didn’t get what she said can someone please explain ?

    • @kitvos2615
      @kitvos2615 5 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      Mayssem Mosbah, she was saying that it is very unequal to say that men or women specifically should rule the world.

  • @sp.skater4901
    @sp.skater4901 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Ok but there group hug at the end 🥺❤️

  • @tylerdavid1626
    @tylerdavid1626 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    y’all say boys and girl should be equal but when y’all step on the football field it will be a different story

  • @maddiewillie132
    @maddiewillie132 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3238

    This is definitely the most respectful, kind, and knowledgeable one of these videos I have seen yet. They were so respectful to each other’s beliefs.

    • @Sara-ti5cl
      @Sara-ti5cl 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      ikr. same with the pornstar one lol

    • @Sorest2
      @Sorest2 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Everytime someone said something: "I agree, but I don't agree"

    • @AnnaSwed
      @AnnaSwed 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sadly most women seem to rather agree with eachother for the sake of consensus than tell their real view of things.

    • @davidn4451
      @davidn4451 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They are all nice to each other in every one

    • @lenatv705
      @lenatv705 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Susanne Forsberg What

  • @Shelbeyhope
    @Shelbeyhope 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3908

    People are acting like this girl is the only sane feminist. She’s not, y’all just ignore the real ones because y’all would rather complain about the radical ones

    • @m.nelson666
      @m.nelson666 4 ปีที่แล้ว +299

      Actually I think the problem is that most of the time the media portrays the radical feminist which makes us believe that’s how they are when really they aren’t all like that! The radical ones are very irritating but the ones simply arguing for equality (Which I think we have) have very interesting points!

    • @TS-fh4ii
      @TS-fh4ii 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      M. Nelson because we are aware that the media is incredibly biased or only showing certain parts of a movement or ideology I think the responsibility is put on the consumers of media to critically analyze what they are being told and to find other sources of knowledge or experience with the group to form an opinion on them. I really disagree with “that’s the only side we are shown” because that means you know the opinions you have are not complete so it is now on you to go find the necessary information to make a complete opinion

    • @katiecastill0
      @katiecastill0 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      PERIODDDD

    • @miriamlovespetra3769
      @miriamlovespetra3769 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      the majority are radical

    • @mangozzz4487
      @mangozzz4487 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      It’s just like cops can’t have bad apples well feminist are full of bad apples

  • @kiaramarie8155
    @kiaramarie8155 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    It would be interesting to see where people stand if they were blindfolded when initially picking a side. I feel like there could be pressure when you see everyone going to a certain side

  • @brickspace8617
    @brickspace8617 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    A debate where nobody's screaming or insulting the other side. That's refreshing.

  • @justhere9481
    @justhere9481 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1187

    I really like the girl with the long grey coat and the girl with the denim jacket. They both had very good opinions on certain matters and they expressed themselves very well. Very happy with the group of people they chose for this.

    • @jiminlong7096
      @jiminlong7096 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      YES

    • @niyjanai1322
      @niyjanai1322 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      my thoughts exactly.

    • @UrMom-so6wv
      @UrMom-so6wv 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      1.1K likes but only 3 comments, just sad.

    • @a_lil_bit_shady
      @a_lil_bit_shady 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wait u like the girl who was against abortion?

    • @justhere9481
      @justhere9481 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@a_lil_bit_shady Yes? That’s what I said?

  • @ricardak1033
    @ricardak1033 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4700

    All of these women are so intelligent. I love how they express their opinions and talk so respectful to each other even when they do not agree.

    • @melonitastic
      @melonitastic 5 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      @Juliana Silva Actually, the question literally said 'EVERY woman SHOULD be a feminist'. That's not really the same as 'I want more women to be feminists'. Of course it was worded provocatively due to the nature of the video and they maybe just meant the latter, but I get how she came to her conclusion. If you were to go through with that statement, you would actually have to force some people.
      Also, the sentence they used implies that people should have a certain opinion solely based on their gender, when according to my personal definition of feminism (as there are different kinds of it), gender should just not be important at all and especially not the only reason for someone to do or think something.

    • @melonitastic
      @melonitastic 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @Juliana Silva Actually I think the last part of your comment is really interesting, because it kind of sounds like you're looking down on women, who do not consider themselves feminists/like you are mad at them? Do you believe they are undeserving of the rights they have, because they are not fighting for them themselves? Correct me if I misunderstood your tone, that's always really hard over the internet and English is not my native language.
      About your question: To me, the sentence 'Every woman should be a feminist' just implies that. As I have said in my comment, I think that statement is different from 'I want more women to be feminists', which is the phrasing you used. I also would like more women to be feminist, or at least not look down upon other feminists, so that the movement would be stronger. But the word choice 'all ... should be' just has a certain connotation to me. As I said: If we were to turn the world into one where that phrase is valid, meaning a world in which every woman would be a feminist, it would, as of right now, mean to force that role onto people, when in my head feminism is about not forcing roles onto people, as I said, based on gender.
      But I see how that could be interpreted as linguistic pettiness, which maybe isn't appropriate since I am not a native speaker.

    • @ivanna3111
      @ivanna3111 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not all

    • @aronbernardino
      @aronbernardino 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well one brought up the wage gap, which in fact doesn't exist. So maybe a little misinformed

    • @BrandonNinja
      @BrandonNinja 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not all of them right on.

  • @TA-ud5lf
    @TA-ud5lf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    All of them said great things, I liked how even if they disagreed they were still open minded

  • @JoelKellenProductions
    @JoelKellenProductions 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    10:14 "Some people think that Feminism is you have to bring people down to raise people up, but you don't have to do that."
    She just said a few minutes ago that women should run government so there wouldn't be any toxic masculinity. Pick one.

    • @ennealv
      @ennealv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I think she changed her mind after what the blonde girl in the denim jacket said

  • @mpho242
    @mpho242 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6279

    THE GIRL IN THE DENIM JACKET.
    that's it. that's all I wanted to say.

    • @cassidygard
      @cassidygard 4 ปีที่แล้ว +125

      ILYSM 🙏❤️

    • @joanneroshin1943
      @joanneroshin1943 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      @@cassidygard are you the girl in the denim?😂

    • @gibbon_person4685
      @gibbon_person4685 4 ปีที่แล้ว +99

      I did NOT like her

    • @zlatkakardaleva5738
      @zlatkakardaleva5738 4 ปีที่แล้ว +145

      The first feminist on the media I can wholeheartedly agree with for a long time now. She's just a gem.

    • @lennoxcatron8700
      @lennoxcatron8700 4 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      @@gibbon_person4685 why??

  • @josephsoto5989
    @josephsoto5989 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2770

    As a man, I learned a lot watching this

    • @Ken-xw1lm
      @Ken-xw1lm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Same

    • @wooof.
      @wooof. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      What kind of things did you learn? I'm so curious :)

    • @prernaesther6090
      @prernaesther6090 4 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      Honestly, this is a wrong place to learn anything. And I'm a woman.

    • @anoukf9455
      @anoukf9455 4 ปีที่แล้ว +186

      @@prernaesther6090 no it is a good place to learn about woman! Men can see woman's opinion!

    • @anoukf9455
      @anoukf9455 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Glad to hear that!! ❤️

  • @max-te8ib
    @max-te8ib 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    For this first time a veiled women disappointed me and that non veiled woman impressed me

  • @flappletunthefirst6342
    @flappletunthefirst6342 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    2:14 Shouldn’t that go both ways?!

  • @expiredmilk7324
    @expiredmilk7324 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4329

    I couldn't stop looking at the girl with glasses. She is absolutely stunning

    • @linloo111
      @linloo111 5 ปีที่แล้ว +116

      She was really pretty, right?

    • @privcraft_
      @privcraft_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      Wow that's very nice to say

    • @sleepless7867
      @sleepless7867 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Same!!

    • @ayrionnab8759
      @ayrionnab8759 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Erotic Tomato ArE yOu ThAt CoLoR bLiNd???

    • @conniewaye7437
      @conniewaye7437 5 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      She might not like that you just tried to flirt with her shes gonna get triggered

  • @MrEasiertolie
    @MrEasiertolie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +814

    Spectrum idea: Introverts and Extroverts

    • @lollmao3247
      @lollmao3247 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      No

    • @ruthjourney9390
      @ruthjourney9390 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Yes

    • @lollmao3247
      @lollmao3247 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Introverts r just gonna be like "I'm so weird ecks dee"

    • @branddavison1278
      @branddavison1278 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Introvert:neither agree nor disagree

    • @maypa4401
      @maypa4401 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Lol Lmao extroverts are annoying

  • @ly1295
    @ly1295 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The blonde woman in the denim jacket and the black woman with the glasses💯🐐

  • @hari0794
    @hari0794 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The woman in the denim jacket is what I aspire to be

  • @anna-mariatayeh9129
    @anna-mariatayeh9129 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1429

    10:15 i strongly agree with you. it is not about removing a man’s chair in a meeting, it’s about adding your own chair around the table.
    i hope it makes sense lol

    • @ayslanferrari8028
      @ayslanferrari8028 5 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      Yeah, it makes sense... But she didn't make sense when she said that feminism should be more extreme and put men down at 3:05 WTF.
      It's kinda contradictory, don't you think?

    • @XZsuperBoom
      @XZsuperBoom 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Ayslan Ferrari I was about to comment the same thing she literally contradicted herself using her own words 😂

    • @LilFireCrackerAnna
      @LilFireCrackerAnna 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @@ayslanferrari8028 I believe she meant extreme as in ultra passionate, not putting down men, but being dramatic in trying to pull women up :)

    • @kkb892
      @kkb892 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I think she just said that just to say that. Modern day feminism is really about putting men down to lift women up. Saying and doing are two different things

    • @katelynn117_
      @katelynn117_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      But why should that chair be added? Simply because a woman wants it there? Was she elected into that position? No? Then it shouldn't matter if it's a man or woman at that table, because they were voted in as a representative.

  • @sidneylasley3645
    @sidneylasley3645 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1282

    Everybody is talking about the girl in the denim jacket and I agree she is incredibly insightful and wise, but the girl in the grey jacket thing. Wow

    • @Sxjp
      @Sxjp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      @Dave Chapelle dude can you please not bring race into this?

    • @GFAprodite
      @GFAprodite 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I Liked The Person In The Yellow Jacket.

    • @nikhefe16
      @nikhefe16 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Sxjp Sadly, it's in everything in this country. It is the bedrock. So it wouldn't be farfetched to unearth the underpinning of conditioning. Especially towards black women.

    • @noel2039
      @noel2039 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dave Chapelle gurl what-

    • @noodle8674
      @noodle8674 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @Mailley Pierson I don't know where I technically stand on abortion. I believe it is murder and I would never have an abortion. That being said...banning abortion will solve literally nothing. Abortions will be done dangerously, which will result in girls and women being put at risk. I think we need more access to birth control and contraceptives, as well as more accountability for rapists and sex offenders

  • @kaero6136
    @kaero6136 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    i’ve never seen so much respect in a comment section it’s insane!!! the points and defenses made in this video are honestly v educational and incredibly these women are v strong

  • @biggesthaterontheinternet
    @biggesthaterontheinternet 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    9:15 she spoke nothing but facts this entire video, especially right here

  • @Aj00098
    @Aj00098 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4181

    When even one of these women has a different opinion than the other ones, they discuss it and ultimately understand the point of view and might even encourage it.
    How incredibly civilised. I love it

    • @absolutelynot524
      @absolutelynot524 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      agreed

    • @pnut3844able
      @pnut3844able 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      It's bc they're being recorded by a camera. People act more civil normally. Trust me if it weren't for that this would be a completely different kind of discussion.

    • @melliexcx
      @melliexcx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      @@pnut3844able have you watched this series? People disagree FREQUENTLY.

    • @sisisi16
      @sisisi16 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      @@pnut3844able no, I genuinely think that even if they weren't recorded, that wouldn't change much...

    • @akromabdurakhmonov5900
      @akromabdurakhmonov5900 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@pnut3844able You're right. You also have to take into account the format of this survey. They are supposed to just explain why they chose this or that option, not debate with each other.

  • @miznikki2u
    @miznikki2u 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1964

    It must be cold in that room cause they all have their jackets and sweaters on, hands in pockets.

    • @alexiannam.4013
      @alexiannam.4013 5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      10:28 “I need the warmth” clearly you’re right then!

    • @sleepypuppy29
      @sleepypuppy29 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Girls are always cold... 😂

    • @minumeyli
      @minumeyli 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      NCanseco not me lol I guess I’m special

    • @zzdesolatezz
      @zzdesolatezz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Women are just naturally colder then men apparently. My girl cooks me with the heat where we live and always seems to be cold. My dad did the same to my mother as well lol.

    • @zzdesolatezz
      @zzdesolatezz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@minumeyli yeah u are lol. Men be getting tortured because of it. It's part of a man's struggles to be with a cold women who frequently uses you as a body warmer. Not that I mind that part lol.

  • @Rain-ie3xm
    @Rain-ie3xm ปีที่แล้ว +1

    the group hug was so cute

  • @nayelimendez2259
    @nayelimendez2259 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Honestly the abortion question to me is just like, do you think everyone should have the accessibility to it. It doesn't mean you yourself would do it it just means you think everyone should have the choice yk?

  • @profile4856
    @profile4856 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1974

    The denim jacket girl and and long coat black woman were absolutely stunning and confident

    • @profile4856
      @profile4856 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Juliana Silva
      I think denim girls point was that forcing woman to be feminist would be telling them what to do and not letting them be independent which is what feminism is.
      And (my personal opinion) I don’t believe in the murder of a unborn life form without its voices or written consent therefore I agree with long coat girl
      Again, just y opinion

    • @jedkaro
      @jedkaro 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @Juliana Silva Let people have their own opinions. Just because you believe in those things, doesn't mean that everyone else has to. Me personally, I get the whole pro choice thing, and I guess I am pro choice, but at the same time the thought, that this fetus would be an actual person one day, upsets me. But I uderstand that women should be able to decide on their own, if they want to give birth. It's a controversial topic.

    • @leonardodavinny421
      @leonardodavinny421 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Juliana Silva You seem to have misunderstood what they meant

    • @AgroFro
      @AgroFro 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I mean they ight I guess

    • @eventplanner461
      @eventplanner461 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Juliana Silva She never said women shouldn't rule the world. The question asked if the world would be better with women ruling it. At the end of the day all of that is subjective. If you are a great leader by all means lead regardless of your sex. I believe that women with the qualifications to be leaders should be given the same chances as men. As for abortion we all are here today because we weren't aborted and were given the chance to live. You are here giving your opinions and views because you weren't cut out into pieces. Shouldn't that mean something? I can understand rape, premature age, and even health complications but to just terminate a child due to recklessness is not fair. The fetus/baby/however you wanna call it has it's own body too. It has it's own dna. And in alot of cases it fits if not most all of the criterias of a living organism so u can't say its dead or not living. And if u actually take the time to research what actually happens to babies when they're killed during later trimesters you'd understand where people are coming from.

  • @freyachandra1869
    @freyachandra1869 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1656

    Maybe a "do all millennials this the same" next?

    • @addiemorgiewicz6217
      @addiemorgiewicz6217 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      T.O.P yesssss!!! Definitely.

    • @Jennifer-vs4bw
      @Jennifer-vs4bw 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes please!

    • @Linmints
      @Linmints 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Bruh I read "do all minerals think the same" and I was so confused lmao

    • @tash5540
      @tash5540 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      In California absolutely. All have: 2 digit IQs, high estrogen levels, and a fair amount of soy.

    • @Yas-ei3st
      @Yas-ei3st 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @T.O.P yeah they should since older gen z are now adults so we might think completely differently from the younger gen z

  • @BubblingOnion
    @BubblingOnion 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The short hair girl was such a hypocrite lmao.

  • @santamills8638
    @santamills8638 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The girl with the hajib wants to raise boys and girls the same. You're boy will wear a hajib?

    • @Mxryqa
      @Mxryqa 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I mean you're clearly not educated enough to say something like that when you don't even know guys have hijab in Islam too.

    • @zimatiamera3389
      @zimatiamera3389 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tell me you're uneducated with telling me you're uneducated.

    • @BasedKashmiri06
      @BasedKashmiri06 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Mxryqa what did you actually just say? Elaborate please

    • @Mxryqa
      @Mxryqa 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@BasedKashmiri06 men have hijab in Islam. The difference between men's and women's hijab is the fact women also cover their hair. Hijab just means "curtain" as in covering yourself, so apart from the hair it's also not showing excess skin/tight fitted clothing (again this applies to both men and women). Also just to add the modesty should be shown in your actions as well as appearance. It's just common people assume hijab itself just means the hair covering part although it's much more than that.

    • @BasedKashmiri06
      @BasedKashmiri06 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Mxryqa hijab is the name of the garment women wear to cover their head. The parts that men or women have to cover is called Awrah and the clothes used to cover it is not called hijab necessarily, apart from the headscarf women wear.