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Took the words right out of my mouth. Talking about your sexuality and sexual experiences all the time is boring and kind of shows how 1 dimentional someone is. I can't imagine living life an the core of my personality is essentially talking about ramming/getting rammed.
No, as often happens with women reporters flirting with say Brad Pitt in an interview, this kid wanted to be provocative with Hardy, and bumped up against a guy who does not play word games…reporter was a neophyte,
Hardy interrupting the dude's answer with a "thank you" was so sweet of him, literally saved the reporter from a core memory of infinite cringe. Edit: to all the smooth brained people replying, the reporter was about to stupidly explain why he asked a stupid question. Tom Hardy interrupting him was what saved the reporter from doing that. The reporter was already experiencing critical levels of embarrassment himself. And, thinking it not enough, he was about to double down into dangerous levels of second hand embarrassment. Mr. Hardy saved not only the reporter that day, but everyone else who would ever watch this video. A true hero.
In a world where white actors are not allowed (any more) to play black characters, it is an entirely legitimate question for a gay writer from a gay outlet to ask an actor playing a gay character what lived experience he brings to the role. The uppity way Tom Hardy dismisses the question, and the flustered inarticulacy of the reporter don't help the situation, but it was a LEGITIMATE question.
@@kitsworlda straight or bi person playing a gay man is NOT the same as black face or white people taking on roles of indigenous peoples and other POC. He's an actor, this person asked a question and wasn't expecting him to respond by asserting his personal boundaries and clearly showing his discomfort with the question. He doesn't owe anyone an explanation of his sexuality, let's not drag people out of the closet by putting them on the spot like this. You don't know his sexuality.
@@kitsworldand he didn't ask what lived experience he brings to the role. He asked if Tom thought it was hard for celebrities to talk about their sexuality. Baiting someone into coming out of the closet or sharing private information, is not a win for the LGBTQ+ community. People have a choice to voice their sexuality or not, POC are attacked everyday for being anything but white, that's not the fucking same, Sincerely a queer af POC
@@DanikaCirice First, please don't presume to tell me what I know or don't know. That's rude. Secondly, I wasn't saying Hardy had to answer the question. I was merely saying that he behaved as if the question was impertinent, when in fact it was a legitimate question, totally pertinent. I say again, in a world where actors are only allowed to play their own race, it is a DOUBLE STANDARD to not expect the same where sexuality or gender identity is concerned. Lived experience is lived experience. Why shouldn't a person from a certain community be questioning an actor about what lived experience the bring to the role? I was highlighting a double standard, and a whole lot of keyboard warriors attacking a gay person for asking an entirely pertinent question. HOWEVER, as a racial minority AND a gay person, AND a disabled person, I feel that ACTORS should be allowed to play ANY character, regardless of race, sex, gender, sexuality, or disability. Because it is ACTING! However, I also support the right of person from any community to question the actor about what they bring to the role. And NO actor should treat a representative of a community they have recently portrayed with the CONTEMPT and DISDAIN that Hardy showed. I was merely saying it was a relevant question and deserved a more polite response like, "I prefer not to discuss my sexuality in public, but I promise I did my research, and members of the gay community helped me prepare for the role". Would that have been so hard?!
@@dabasilyou’re literally the type of person this individual is talking about. Why do you care what other people do if it doesn’t affect you? I don’t give a shit if people are non-binary and the world would be a better place if everybody thought that way.
@@samcotten2485neither of you knows this person any better than anyone else on the internet. Members of the community DO cause more issues than normal people just trying to mind their own business. The people on the opposite side of it like the man above are far rarer than the dummies who act like everyone should treat their mental illness as the prime concern.
@@Matt..SI don’t mean to be rude but are you purposefully acting dense or do you actually think you’re a victim here? The reason they told you to go to a gay bar is cause you were essentially complaining that a guy you bought beers for is straight in a regular bar ( the vast majority of society isn’t gay ). They gave you a practical solution which is go to a gay bar so you won’t have to have that problem and you somehow found a way to make yourself a victim. That isn’t segregation it’s a common sense solution. If you want to go to regular bars don’t complain that the dudes there are straight then cause as I said most people are straight.
That was the perfect response. He was respectful, civil, and courteous yet still politely pointed out how ludicrous that question was to that guy. Well done!
My brain goes: >Sexuality is kinda privacy. >Asking a question about someone's privacy is usually rude. >That person is rude. My mouth: This person sounds like a twitter person
@@ReginaTrans_Nobody cares. He’s an actor. I care about his work on film, not whether or not he likes dick or vagina. Go outside and touch grass. You’ll very quickly learn how little people care about your sexual preferences
Who wouldn't be pissed with such a question? That's personal question of someone shoving their noses into somebody elses buisness. The interview was there to talk about the movie, and what the actors needed to go through to get into character. Not about someone's sexuality rofl.
What a gentleman, instead of telling the kid his comment was stupid, he very graciously and intelligently walked the kid through why his question was stupid, even said thank you afterwards like a G
it reminded me (mostly the comments) of a question posed to Morgan Freeman about racism, his response? "just stop talking about it" most simple and sensible answer to the question of solving racism.
Black people would still be in chains to this day if the solution to solving problems was to ignore they exist and not talk about them lol. The first step to solving a problem is acknowledging it exists and talking about it to raise awareness. Morgan Freeman is a cool guy and all but that was a very stupid response. I don't know why people are so scared to talk about these things or are uncomfortable to talk about things that are a normal part of life. I don't know why Tom Hardy was tweaking over a simple question. If asked that I'd just be like "I'm straight" and move on.
@@ReblazeGaming somebodies sexuality isn't everyone's business i've never enslaved or know anyone that has ? nobody is enslaving anyone today, although it still exists in some countries less civilised than the west go there to those places where your voice may be needed. today meaning keeping things alive talking about bad subjects that aren't there anymore or are less of an issue in today's society
It wasn’t a random question. In the movie he plays as a gay man. Ronnie Kray. and well the guy asking the question is from an LGBTQ magazine so it only would make sense he would ask a question about celebrities and their sexuality and if it’s hard for them to talk about it in public. Cause he wondering if a straight man was playing as a gay man. Tom Hardy just didn’t feel like answering the question and the guy didn’t push on it either. I bet you only thing sexuality is weaponized when it’s about the LGBTQ but if it’s Cosmopolitan and Playboy I bet you don’t care then.
@@bewareofsasquatchsexuality is something personal. It's not important whether people find it easy to talk about it in public, because they don't need to talk about it in public. If they choose to, they might talk about it, otherwise they may not. It is a very stupid and pointless question, and badly phrased as well. It is precisely the type of question asked by people who don't feel comfortable about their own sexuality.
more people really need to learn that just because someone is a public figure, it does not mean they owe you anything about their personal life, including things like their sexuality. if people want to talk about it, they will, but there is really no need to ask. to an extent i do understand where some people are coming from when they ask things like that, a lot of people want to be able to feel like they can relate to the people they admire, but its still no reason to try and poke about in their personal business
I agree, it's not relevant to his acting or career, and is really nobody else's business. It's almost like asking, "What's your credit card number, expiry date, security code, PIN, etc. etc.?"
Well said. It's one of those things that's casually and gradually gone away in the last 20 years especially. Hardy did a good job of getting to the root of the question, and made the distinction that it's not "hard to talk about," but just not anyone's business.
@@shanefolanno he’s not. People should only talk about their own sexuality when they feel so , he can talk about it when he wants to, and here he clearly looks more annoyed by the interviewer , so he has a right to reject the question. Also ,he DID answer the question “ No I don’t think it’s difficult for celebrities to express their sexuality ”.
Handled like a true gentleman. For example he chose to ask "What on earth are you on about?" whereas he could have worded it like "What the hell are you on about?" Subtle difference I know but noticeable nonetheless.
@@insaniam_convertunt_scientiam Hardy brought it on himself though by saying it in the 1st place and then gaslit the reporter . I am shocked by all the support Hardy is getting on here.
thats a problem with today's society people put wayy too much accent on their online lives and forget about their real one. These are not real-world problems everybody struggles with these are just dumbass topics off sites like twitter and tik tok
there is a difference between lgbt ( not even care about the lunatics others « letters ») and the militant.The problem, in the media, its always the militant who scream…make the difference
Ultimately the questioner wasn't really on about Tom opening up about his sexuality, but inquiring about the general theme of being transparent towards the media about sexuality. It isn't rude to ask such a question, and Tom has no obligations of answering if he doesn't want to.
Sexuality doesn't need to be someone's defining feature, it's degrading for everyone. If the first thing that comes to mind is "oh that's the gay person" or "oh that's the straight guy" then we're forgetting about all the other good features that humans can have and valuing someone's sexuality instead. He handled this question perfectly.
That’s fine, but just remember that an LGBT person talking about their wife, husband, boyfriend or girlfriend is no different than a straight person taking about the same thing. No difference AT ALL!
@@robsemail I don't see straight people celebrating in the streets that they love the other sex nor teach young kids about it in school like lgbtq people. It has become more of an attention thing nowdays than sexuality freedom at this point. Having a sexual preference or fetish in bed doesn't make you special and it's not a personality trait.
@@robsemail neither does the alphabet people..... Now they're just a bunch of groomers.... I can accept people loving someone their own sex or wanting to be accepted but not the clownish rally parade with kids etc if someone does that to my kids I'll make sure I put a lead on their head and go to prison not having a single ounce of regret
And this, my friends, is the lgbt planet: you have a star in front of you, an opportunity to ask him about movies, art, performing... but you ask him if he rather sleep with girls or boys. Great answer mr Hardy
LGBT people didn't invent parasocial relationships and celebrity culture, blaming it on us, despite the interviwewer being gay, is weird and misses the point of your own comment.
@@lethargy764 No you still don't get it. Fans being interested in celebs personal lives is nothing new and wasn't created by lgbt people. People obsess over who a celeb is dating, their hobbies, favourite things, their whole life story, scandals, personal struggles, legal issues hell they even want to know what they eat for breakfast, lunch and dinner lol. So no, lgbt people aren't the only group of people who would ask a question like that. It's part of the bigger celeb obsessed culture that's existed for as long as we've had celebrities.
Dude if not sexuality, weird fans have been obsessed with who actors are dating since forever. Nothing to do with 'the lgbt planet' whatever that means
Great response Tom. It is absolutely nobody’s business to ask that question of anyone. You are such a gentleman the way you answered that question/statement?!
@@francescocerasuolo4064Let me guess, you probably think people such as Joe Rogan, Russell Brand, and anyone who disagrees with you on any subject, is a conservative. Am I right?
For a lot of young people it serves as a beacon of safety and public normalisation to have several high profile and beloved people share that previously ostracising trait. Might seem unecessary and attention whoring today, but damn, Neil Patrick Harris being gay, while being "absolutely normal" and an icon of masculinity, or other, [especially manly] men coming out as gay to show that they are just normal guys next door, not flamboyant or special... that is what paved the way to universal acceptance in the West.
It's not about sexuality though. It's about using state violence to abuse others for their gain. First the state extorts from people and claims it's protection. Then the state ends up controlling all sorts of things through said violence, claiming protections and supports are needed. Then these creeps claim victimhood to get control of some of that violence.
It's also just a really weird way to phrase a question. "Do you find it hard for celebrities to talk about their sexuality?" Taken at face value, he's asking that when Tom Hardy speaks to other celebrities, they have a hard time talking about their sexuality. But that's clearly not what he is trying to ask. He meant: "do you have a hard time talking to random people like me about your sexuality?"
So you think a reporter asking the question in front of a dozen cameras is literally the same as "random people". I think you should rethink this. And think of yourself in the same spot.
@@ylmzll Yes, a reporter in front of a dozen cameras is a random person. I've rethought it. I'm now thinking of myself in the same spot, being a random person.
@@FlyingFox86 I am just trying to say that you are putting words in the reporters mouth by saying "what he meant is..." . That is it. That is why i tried to prove this. I ll try again: A reporter asking a question in a formal q&a is not the same as your common self talking to a random person on the street. Or whatever you mean by random people. And if you say random people is all of the people on earth, you are dumb.
"Do you find it difficult for celebrities to talk about their sexuality?" The question doesn't even make sense. The guy was clearly trying to ask "As a celebrity, do *you* find it difficult to talk about your sexuality?" but wasn't brave enough to be that direct.
Even then, why on earth would go on about asking celebrities their sexuality? If they say "no im not gay", do the gay reporters go home and cry about it?
The worst part about people who think like this is that they're honestly a dying sub culture in our society now. Tom's response is exactly how pretty much everyone feels about these topics now, its not even worth engaging with because you immediately realize you're interacting with someone whos head isnt screwed on right. The reason this is sad is because there is a very large demographic of kids who grew up inside this culture craze and they are now experiencing feelings of social exile. Most decades have a version of this type of extreme culture movement and the fall is really heavy.
I find it sadder that a few years ago no one really cared. You could be gay, straight, lesbian and etc.. and no one would give a damn, because it was considered normal. Like, you would be a weirdo if the first thind you'd do after seing gay people was : " oh my god gays, i love you guys, are y'all insecure " or " oh no gays, i hope you d1es and get healed ". But some activists were dumb enough, started to do more than they already had, and went into the extreme and the unimaginable. Which led to both political parties doing propagandas, that was spread over tiktok.. And now, over and over, you have LGBT's topics everywhere. Good or bad... At work, at home, at the tv, with friends. I just wish these people, both supporters or against it, would just stfu sometimes 😓
@@myu1419you explained it perfectly i always thought this but could never put it into words, i don’t get why being LGBT is advertised as like a trend now everywhere. real inclusion to me would be adding lgbt people into society without having to point it out and make it a big deal, in a normal nonjudgmental way like why does it have to be the plastered on everything now like it’s a big new discovery? in the entertainment industry it literally seems like it’s a requirement to promote it into everything that’s made now lol and bro tiktok is the definition of propaganda 😭
Yeah everything was simpler when it was just LGBs. They were cool by keeping a low profile and fitting in with normal society. It was those Ts&Qs weirdos who hijacked that movement and declared war on families
@@myu1419I think a lot of you don't realise that gay people are still getting shot in places such as America for their sexuality. I don't think this question was appropriate, it was none of anyone else's buissness, but members of the LGBTQ have always and still do face issues due to their sexuality.
@@user87255 probably because trans radical activists and so called queer or non binary are making so much fucking noise demanding human rights (which they have not been denied in the first place). A lot of LGB folks don't consider themselves part of a community with the QIA people and can see that all they are doing is setting themselves up for a massive fall
No? Not at all. People just wanna find people they identify with. Tom Hardy is a talented actor, nobody can take that away from him. The question was very poorly approached and awkward and he properly shut it down. But the reporter wasn't saying "if we find out you aren't gay we're boycotting," he was just curious.
@@Stanna44 the reporter was not gay, he was straight. The title is misleading. You do realize that straight men ask these type of question more often than homosexuals to emasculate other men.
The “Thank you” was purely because the “reporter” was about to continue his inane line of questioning, and Tom needed the reporter to know that he was done. And the reporter meekly complied.
Lol actually what he asked has nothing to do with Tom's sexuality. He was more asking if Tom thinks it's difficult for celebrities to speak openly about their sexuality. Which obviously is the case for alot of celebrities. There's alot of gay rappers in the industry who've yet to come out and still act like they all about the P but really they all about the D. That said tho, why tf would you ask someone such an irrelevant question that might I add has a really obvious answer🤦🏻♂️ I swear gay people always feel the need to bring sexuality into everthing🤦🏻♂️ no offense if you're gay and reading this but it's true sorry🤷🏻♂️
I'll never forget a birthday party where almost everyone was LGBT, a lesbian girl came up to me and said "You look like you're straight", I was like "because I am" and she went "Yeah, I thought so". She said nothing particularly agressive but I felt the implication was "You don't belong here" even though I was being respectful (and everybody was respectful to me). It's pretty fucked up to accept or exclude a person exclusively based on their sexuality. It just shouldn't matter. EDIT: Albeit I did mention I would never forget the moment, I want to explain I do not mean it in a hurtful or spiteful way. The moment will remain in my memory because it was surprising and I was offended then, but I have no anger towards her. Everyone has their own reasons for anything, and maybe I misinterpreted her. Either way, I harbor no hard feelings because ultimately none of us has any enemies.
Yeah I know how you feel. It sucks. As a bisexual woman I felt that in a room full of gays and lesbians. Even while dating a woman they just gave me a weird vibe like I don't belong
Is it hard to talk about your sexuality for anybody? No. Does anyone need to keep meddling in such affairs, though? No. Why some people don't understand these days that there is such a thing as people who like their privacy to be respected? You don't need to keep talking about your friends, your family, you home life or your sexuality if you don't want to. Just let people be. Props to Tom for getting this point across with such class.
I just don't understand why there's such a huge need to make everything about sexuality (by 'activists' and people who make their whole personality/career about their sexuality). Just let the man be. In the UK at least from my experience nobody cares about your sexuality, it's literally just 'ok cool' and moving on. As it should be.
You sound like tyrion. The scene about cersei finding his whore and all. It’s cool. “Why do you care who I fuck?” “Because a lannister always pays his debts.”
Uh, he's sitting there to answer questions, if he didn't want to answer question he shouldn't be there. That's like getting offended if someone asks 'what's your favourite colour'.
When i was very much in the closet i always thought that basing your identity on your sexual preferences was weird. Now that I'm out of the closet, i still think basing your identity on your sexual preferences is weird. There are a lot of people in my life and most of them think I'm straight. Why, because my preference is my business and no one needs to know that.
I wish most in that community felt the same way. Its nobody's business. Confident people who are comfortable in their own skin don't need to push a social agenda or belittle others who have a different worldview. I find pride creepy because it's sexuality topics pushed on kids well before the age of puberty.
You get it bro, thanks for being a normal person. Theres way too many people who just front with that info in public, as if they WANT everyone to categorize people by sexuality...
@@robmichael8136It’s impressive that you people regurgitate this trash all the time you should actually try informing yourself on the subject before speaking on it(TH-cam doesn’t count)
Bruh I mean first I guess if they don't wanna talk about it they don't have, but why you so pressed? Also "bigoted attempt to out someone..." no one believes or says that, you really just made up a random ass strawman.
Technically that question was sexual harassment in the workplace and could have led to a person being fired, and even sued for damages, for asking a worker about their sexuality, or to comment on sexuality, in a work environment..
If your sexuality is why you're hated and persecuted, why shouldn't people be confident in themselves about it? Telling gay people to just shut up and keep quiet about themselves is the exact reason why so many people are loud about it.
Wish we'd all watch this; no joke, this simple response, "Why," puts us back into the reality that we live in a world where we've more to our existence and experience than what we do with our weenies, butts and vaginas. Glad this clip is still out there. Makes me smile when he politely decimates such a bating, feckless question.
Jeez why are you so mad? It was a really simple question. Also it seemed like Hardys response proved itself wrong. He said he wasnt uncomfortable talking about sexuality and then he demonstrated being uncomfortable talking about it
@@heythere9371 nope, he said he wasnt uncomfortable talking about sexuality and then he demonstratet how stupid that guy was for asking such a nonsense question.
It's a rude question to ask because 1) you're putting someone on the spot in front of multiple people when you might not be comfortable answering that question and 2) it really is no one's business. If someone wants to talk about their sexual orientation, it should be by their own choosing, not anyone elses. He could have asked something like "Did you gain any new perspectives from this role of what living life as a bisexual man in London in the '50s and '60s was like?" Anything that connected with why they were all there to begin with: Talking about the movie.
What's your date of birth, place of birth, and mother's maiden name? Oh, and your first pet's name? ... also nobody else's business and not relevant to the film, Legend.
Why should anyone have to discuss their sexuality with strangers? What has society become? For a while, someone had the wacky idea that we should be able to make our own choices in life. Now, it seems like we can make choices, but only if we're willing to broadcast those choices. Mind your business.
Great response! Why on earth are celebrities expected to discuss their sexuality with anyone at all? Especially the media! It is absolutely no one’s business.
@@chuusenberg519 I was giving examples of personal questions, and unless you're in a relationship with someone, friendship or otherwise, it's none of anyone's concern. What someone does in their private life is their business.
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It’s so powerful that everyone realised that he’s gay. 😂
@@amycurtis535so u judging him now lol
@@amycurtis535when did he say he was gay?
@@amycurtis535What does it matter?
Man from Twitter enters the real world and learns actual humans don't base every facet of their lives around their sexuality.
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So true
Tumblr, actually
Took the words right out of my mouth. Talking about your sexuality and sexual experiences all the time is boring and kind of shows how 1 dimentional someone is. I can't imagine living life an the core of my personality is essentially talking about ramming/getting rammed.
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This is what happens when someone who is obsessed with sexuality meets someone who is literally just a normal person.
That’s lgbt ppl for u. Their obsessed with sexuality. I honestly think that they enjoy it wen ppl are homophobic x
Exactly
Hatdy isbgay 😂
Exactly,Tom was probably dying to say something alot less camera friendly.😐
No, as often happens with women reporters flirting with say Brad Pitt in an interview, this kid wanted to be provocative with Hardy, and bumped up against a guy who does not play word games…reporter was a neophyte,
Hardy interrupting the dude's answer with a "thank you" was so sweet of him, literally saved the reporter from a core memory of infinite cringe.
Edit: to all the smooth brained people replying, the reporter was about to stupidly explain why he asked a stupid question. Tom Hardy interrupting him was what saved the reporter from doing that. The reporter was already experiencing critical levels of embarrassment himself. And, thinking it not enough, he was about to double down into dangerous levels of second hand embarrassment. Mr. Hardy saved not only the reporter that day, but everyone else who would ever watch this video. A true hero.
no he didn't, he fucken drove the reporter straight into cringe memory hell and burned that shit deep within his soul
Huh? That was cringe asf 😂
Thank you
It is very disrespectful to interrupt people
This is the cringiest thing ever mate.
@@visin8984person asking was already dug deep, at least this "thank you" cut anything that could've dragged more
I love how he said "thank you" but everyone knew what he actually meant
Next , lol
Yes, exactly. He meant buy Bitcoin, right?
@@firstnamelastname8217 he meant "You , bouncer , take out the trash"
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He wanted a proper shootout, like general Custer
So you have a lifetime opportunity to ask a world famous actor a question, and that’s the question you choose? Well done!
You're underestimating stupid people with no jobs or actual goals.
😂😂
What else do you expect from gay activists
Seriously! “Hi, I’m Tristen! Are you gay?” Totally smooth.
'But twitter and reddit said i was cool'
"Why?" Is usually the best response to completely inappropriate questions.
Powerful reply
In a world where white actors are not allowed (any more) to play black characters, it is an entirely legitimate question for a gay writer from a gay outlet to ask an actor playing a gay character what lived experience he brings to the role. The uppity way Tom Hardy dismisses the question, and the flustered inarticulacy of the reporter don't help the situation, but it was a LEGITIMATE question.
@@kitsworlda straight or bi person playing a gay man is NOT the same as black face or white people taking on roles of indigenous peoples and other POC. He's an actor, this person asked a question and wasn't expecting him to respond by asserting his personal boundaries and clearly showing his discomfort with the question. He doesn't owe anyone an explanation of his sexuality, let's not drag people out of the closet by putting them on the spot like this. You don't know his sexuality.
@@kitsworldand he didn't ask what lived experience he brings to the role. He asked if Tom thought it was hard for celebrities to talk about their sexuality. Baiting someone into coming out of the closet or sharing private information, is not a win for the LGBTQ+ community. People have a choice to voice their sexuality or not, POC are attacked everyday for being anything but white, that's not the fucking same,
Sincerely a queer af POC
@@DanikaCirice First, please don't presume to tell me what I know or don't know. That's rude. Secondly, I wasn't saying Hardy had to answer the question. I was merely saying that he behaved as if the question was impertinent, when in fact it was a legitimate question, totally pertinent. I say again, in a world where actors are only allowed to play their own race, it is a DOUBLE STANDARD to not expect the same where sexuality or gender identity is concerned. Lived experience is lived experience. Why shouldn't a person from a certain community be questioning an actor about what lived experience the bring to the role? I was highlighting a double standard, and a whole lot of keyboard warriors attacking a gay person for asking an entirely pertinent question. HOWEVER, as a racial minority AND a gay person, AND a disabled person, I feel that ACTORS should be allowed to play ANY character, regardless of race, sex, gender, sexuality, or disability. Because it is ACTING! However, I also support the right of person from any community to question the actor about what they bring to the role. And NO actor should treat a representative of a community they have recently portrayed with the CONTEMPT and DISDAIN that Hardy showed. I was merely saying it was a relevant question and deserved a more polite response like, "I prefer not to discuss my sexuality in public, but I promise I did my research, and members of the gay community helped me prepare for the role". Would that have been so hard?!
The way Tom Hardy is scratching himself makes him ever more powerful and terrifyingly serious in this little confrontation
I thought it looked like he was tossing himself off lol
If the rest of the world reacted this way to people obsessing over sexuality and gender identity I feel like we'd be a lot better off.
Thanks to a certain people we have more than a she/he. How the times have changed for the worse
@@dabasilyou’re literally the type of person this individual is talking about. Why do you care what other people do if it doesn’t affect you? I don’t give a shit if people are non-binary and the world would be a better place if everybody thought that way.
@@samcotten2485100% thank you for saying that
@@samcotten2485neither of you knows this person any better than anyone else on the internet. Members of the community DO cause more issues than normal people just trying to mind their own business. The people on the opposite side of it like the man above are far rarer than the dummies who act like everyone should treat their mental illness as the prime concern.
The issue is obsessing over OTHER people's sexuality and gender identity.
Don't worry about how other folks live their lives.
If it seems weird to walk up to a guy and ask him: "what's your sexuality" then its probably good idea not to ask.
@@Matt..S
Well... there's bars where you won't have to worry about that. Additionally... you could have made a friend.
@@Matt..Sif you went to a regular bar that’s kinda on you. There’s bars tailored specifically to gay guys
I get you bro. I think it's fair to ask if you have a reason for it. Not just because you're curious.
@@Matt..SBut he could be a friend, no?
@@Matt..SI don’t mean to be rude but are you purposefully acting dense or do you actually think you’re a victim here?
The reason they told you to go to a gay bar is cause you were essentially complaining that a guy you bought beers for is straight in a regular bar ( the vast majority of society isn’t gay ). They gave you a practical solution which is go to a gay bar so you won’t have to have that problem and you somehow found a way to make yourself a victim. That isn’t segregation it’s a common sense solution.
If you want to go to regular bars don’t complain that the dudes there are straight then cause as I said most people are straight.
That was the perfect response. He was respectful, civil, and courteous yet still politely pointed out how ludicrous that question was to that guy. Well done!
My brain goes:
>Sexuality is kinda privacy.
>Asking a question about someone's privacy is usually rude.
>That person is rude.
My mouth:
This person sounds like a twitter person
Both are acceptable
You can tell he was extremely pissed at the question, but still handled it with class.
he did say he has had s.ex with men ona magazine
@@ReginaTrans_What does that even have to do with anything lmao
@@ReginaTrans_ Are you that reporter m8 ?
@@ReginaTrans_Nobody cares. He’s an actor. I care about his work on film, not whether or not he likes dick or vagina. Go outside and touch grass. You’ll very quickly learn how little people care about your sexual preferences
Who wouldn't be pissed with such a question? That's personal question of someone shoving their noses into somebody elses buisness. The interview was there to talk about the movie, and what the actors needed to go through to get into character. Not about someone's sexuality rofl.
What a gentleman, instead of telling the kid his comment was stupid, he very graciously and intelligently walked the kid through why his question was stupid, even said thank you afterwards like a G
Okaaay....
Absolutely fantastic
@@KvViVR566 Sarcastic? What's not clear dopey?
He walked him to the door
@@KvViVR566yayyyyy!!!!
it reminded me (mostly the comments) of a question posed to Morgan Freeman about racism, his response?
"just stop talking about it"
most simple and sensible answer to the question of solving racism.
Black people would still be in chains to this day if the solution to solving problems was to ignore they exist and not talk about them lol. The first step to solving a problem is acknowledging it exists and talking about it to raise awareness. Morgan Freeman is a cool guy and all but that was a very stupid response.
I don't know why people are so scared to talk about these things or are uncomfortable to talk about things that are a normal part of life. I don't know why Tom Hardy was tweaking over a simple question. If asked that I'd just be like "I'm straight" and move on.
@@ReblazeGaming in todays society
@@MegaBspark huh?
@@ReblazeGaming somebodies sexuality isn't everyone's business
i've never enslaved or know anyone that has ?
nobody is enslaving anyone today, although it still exists in some countries less civilised than the west
go there to those places where your voice may be needed.
today meaning keeping things alive talking about bad subjects that aren't there anymore or are less of an issue in today's society
@@MegaBspark tfw racism is only slavery and nothing else apparently?
america's education system is a crime against humanity
The same people who argue about not labelling things… somehow want to label them the most…
“What are you on about?” The most British response possible
Agree 😂
Yes America - always remember our Tom is a Brit :)
We're very proud of that line. 🤣🤣
Yep, we communicate clearly. At least if you listen.
Or “what’s this, then?” 😂
'What on earth are you on about?' Excellently handled. Sick of people trying to weaponize sexual preference.
Absolutely.
It's an orientation, not a preference.
They are asking for an ally, coz they don't know theirs. Typical Liberals.
It wasn’t a random question. In the movie he plays as a gay man. Ronnie Kray. and well the guy asking the question is from an LGBTQ magazine so it only would make sense he would ask a question about celebrities and their sexuality and if it’s hard for them to talk about it in public. Cause he wondering if a straight man was playing as a gay man. Tom Hardy just didn’t feel like answering the question and the guy didn’t push on it either. I bet you only thing sexuality is weaponized when it’s about the LGBTQ but if it’s Cosmopolitan and Playboy I bet you don’t care then.
@@bewareofsasquatchsexuality is something personal. It's not important whether people find it easy to talk about it in public, because they don't need to talk about it in public. If they choose to, they might talk about it, otherwise they may not. It is a very stupid and pointless question, and badly phrased as well.
It is precisely the type of question asked by people who don't feel comfortable about their own sexuality.
more people really need to learn that just because someone is a public figure, it does not mean they owe you anything about their personal life, including things like their sexuality. if people want to talk about it, they will, but there is really no need to ask. to an extent i do understand where some people are coming from when they ask things like that, a lot of people want to be able to feel like they can relate to the people they admire, but its still no reason to try and poke about in their personal business
I agree, it's not relevant to his acting or career, and is really nobody else's business.
It's almost like asking, "What's your credit card number, expiry date, security code, PIN, etc. etc.?"
Well said. It's one of those things that's casually and gradually gone away in the last 20 years especially. Hardy did a good job of getting to the root of the question, and made the distinction that it's not "hard to talk about," but just not anyone's business.
Hardy did talk about it though in previous interviews openly and addressed it openly so his response here is hypocritical.
@@shanefolanno he’s not. People should only talk about their own sexuality when they feel so , he can talk about it when he wants to, and here he clearly looks more annoyed by the interviewer , so he has a right to reject the question. Also ,he DID answer the question “ No I don’t think it’s difficult for celebrities to express their sexuality ”.
@@titusdanielum no it hasn't gone away
The fact that his delivery was so softly spoken made it much less intense, but still able to assert
The look he made while the guy was asking the initial question is priceless. You can see the "wtf does this have to do with anything" in his eyes
" not another queer wishing I was queer 😂
No it's not priceless, it's the same look that has been used billions of times, everybody has two eyeballs
@@FiveDORRAcry weak dog 🎻
@@stixzadinia8584 have a bath hippy
@99pchickennchips that's racist against pirates ☠️
Tom's face, "What on earth are you on about? Why? Thankyou"...has me close to death every time 😂🤣💀 Pure gold!
He says so much more with that thank you than he could if he had cursed out the interviewer for prying into private affairs.
😂powerful and precise, still very respectful
"What is blud waffling about?"
Handled like a true gentleman. For example he chose to ask "What on earth are you on about?" whereas he could have worded it like "What the hell are you on about?" Subtle difference I know but noticeable nonetheless.
@@insaniam_convertunt_scientiam Hardy brought it on himself though by saying it in the 1st place and then gaslit the reporter . I am shocked by all the support Hardy is getting on here.
When someone obsessed with social media learns, in the real world, we don't base our lives on our sexuality.
thats a problem with today's society people put wayy too much accent on their online lives and forget about their real one. These are not real-world problems everybody struggles with these are just dumbass topics off sites like twitter and tik tok
@@agmonblynkos sexuality is a very real world thing lmao
We base our lives on heterosexuality. What kind of world do you live in?
I bet he would’ve asked about politics next not realising we don’t talk about those things in real life.
How to say “STFU” without saying “STFU”
Just stern enough to get the point across and not insult the guy. Great response.
Have to be honest I got second-hand insult from watching that. I think it was one of the most politely constructed insult by a celebrity
@@seankeegan8285 Yeah, imho it was certainly an insult, just formulated politely and eloquently =D
You misspelled “gay”
Lies again? Manpower Office
nah he definitely insulted him by humiliating him in a public forum. kid deserved it though.
I love how hard he worked to make his question sound important.
Gotta give him that, at least
That hard work was a complete waste of time! He should have made better life decisions.
Social Justice Warriors always do.
They feel the need to justify their existence.
Added to the inspiration playlist!! Thanks Tom and uploaders.
The “thank you” at the end is legendary. Basically the British way of saying F off. 😂
He handled that so well. Why would someone even ask that in a room full of people? So disrespectful and rude. It's no one's business anyway.
lgbtq community. Thats why.
there is a difference between lgbt ( not even care about the lunatics others « letters ») and the militant.The problem, in the media, its always the militant who scream…make the difference
Because if you're lgbtageq then you can do whatever you want and if someone disagrees then they're automatically homophobic
@@urdnotwrex6969Ah ok, that explained everything.
Ultimately the questioner wasn't really on about Tom opening up about his sexuality, but inquiring about the general theme of being transparent towards the media about sexuality. It isn't rude to ask such a question, and Tom has no obligations of answering if he doesn't want to.
Sexuality doesn't need to be someone's defining feature, it's degrading for everyone. If the first thing that comes to mind is "oh that's the gay person" or "oh that's the straight guy" then we're forgetting about all the other good features that humans can have and valuing someone's sexuality instead. He handled this question perfectly.
That’s fine, but just remember that an LGBT person talking about their wife, husband, boyfriend or girlfriend is no different than a straight person taking about the same thing. No difference AT ALL!
@@robsemail I don't see straight people celebrating in the streets that they love the other sex nor teach young kids about it in school like lgbtq people.
It has become more of an attention thing nowdays than sexuality freedom at this point.
Having a sexual preference or fetish in bed doesn't make you special and it's not a personality trait.
@@pampi7471 straight people never needed to march in the streets for equal rights. Try thinking.
@@robsemail neither does the alphabet people..... Now they're just a bunch of groomers.... I can accept people loving someone their own sex or wanting to be accepted but not the clownish rally parade with kids etc if someone does that to my kids I'll make sure I put a lead on their head and go to prison not having a single ounce of regret
@@robsemailNeither do gay or trans ppl. Theres no rights theyre missing if anything the laws coddle them and make even criticisms a hate crime.
That "Thank You" at the end roughly translates to "Fuck You".
And this, my friends, is the lgbt planet: you have a star in front of you, an opportunity to ask him about movies, art, performing... but you ask him if he rather sleep with girls or boys. Great answer mr Hardy
its one guy dont base and entire species of him
LGBT people didn't invent parasocial relationships and celebrity culture, blaming it on us, despite the interviwewer being gay, is weird and misses the point of your own comment.
@@RomeroRomeral wrong, lgbt are the only group of people that would ask a question like that cause they NEED to feel represented
@@lethargy764 No you still don't get it. Fans being interested in celebs personal lives is nothing new and wasn't created by lgbt people. People obsess over who a celeb is dating, their hobbies, favourite things, their whole life story, scandals, personal struggles, legal issues hell they even want to know what they eat for breakfast, lunch and dinner lol. So no, lgbt people aren't the only group of people who would ask a question like that. It's part of the bigger celeb obsessed culture that's existed for as long as we've had celebrities.
Dude if not sexuality, weird fans have been obsessed with who actors are dating since forever. Nothing to do with 'the lgbt planet' whatever that means
That "thank you" was like mercy killing a burning man. Could've let him squirm, but instead ended it quickly.
Dude would've 100% doubled down once again after the "why?"
Nicely put
His punishment must be more severe.
Like Jon Snow with Mance Rayder
He broke him easier than Batman's back.
Broke Back Mountain more like
@@forestsunset9617i see what you did there😂😂😂
@@forestsunset9617 Starring the other TDK Trilogy villain
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🎉
"DID YOU JUST ASSUME GENDER!!!"
Great response Tom. It is absolutely nobody’s business to ask that question of anyone. You are such a gentleman the way you answered that question/statement?!
Those photos of him will live on forever.
I can't believe anyone who is overly concerned with the (legal) sex lives of strangers is very healthy.
@Narslimmusno mentally stable conservative
@@francescocerasuolo4064 only someone with a low IQ would see conservative as the opposite of activist.
@@francescocerasuolo4064good one. Which group has higher suicide rate
I'll wait. I know which side I'd rather be on
Sexual depravity is central to LGBTQ. Nothing else matters to them.
@@francescocerasuolo4064Let me guess, you probably think people such as Joe Rogan, Russell Brand, and anyone who disagrees with you on any subject, is a conservative. Am I right?
when your whole life is about sexuality, and then you find out that people do not care.
For a lot of young people it serves as a beacon of safety and public normalisation to have several high profile and beloved people share that previously ostracising trait. Might seem unecessary and attention whoring today, but damn, Neil Patrick Harris being gay, while being "absolutely normal" and an icon of masculinity, or other, [especially manly] men coming out as gay to show that they are just normal guys next door, not flamboyant or special... that is what paved the way to universal acceptance in the West.
unfortunately people still care, majority of the world still wants people dead for being gay
When your whole life is about what makes your peepee hard lmaoooo
@@Matt..Swhat on earth are you on about
It's not about sexuality though. It's about using state violence to abuse others for their gain. First the state extorts from people and claims it's protection. Then the state ends up controlling all sorts of things through said violence, claiming protections and supports are needed. Then these creeps claim victimhood to get control of some of that violence.
It's also just a really weird way to phrase a question. "Do you find it hard for celebrities to talk about their sexuality?"
Taken at face value, he's asking that when Tom Hardy speaks to other celebrities, they have a hard time talking about their sexuality. But that's clearly not what he is trying to ask. He meant: "do you have a hard time talking to random people like me about your sexuality?"
So you think a reporter asking the question in front of a dozen cameras is literally the same as "random people". I think you should rethink this. And think of yourself in the same spot.
@@ylmzll Yes, a reporter in front of a dozen cameras is a random person. I've rethought it.
I'm now thinking of myself in the same spot, being a random person.
@@FlyingFox86 You might lack braincells mate
@@FlyingFox86 I am just trying to say that you are putting words in the reporters mouth by saying "what he meant is..." . That is it. That is why i tried to prove this. I ll try again: A reporter asking a question in a formal q&a is not the same as your common self talking to a random person on the street. Or whatever you mean by random people. And if you say random people is all of the people on earth, you are dumb.
I couldn't imagine asking that and feeling all the stares around you from people who are either mocking you or are uncomfortable around you.
Reporter thinks he's living in a Twitter thread.
That’s what happens when you live your life on the internet and not in real life
Twitter "thread" . That didn't last long innit
"Do you find it difficult for celebrities to talk about their sexuality?" The question doesn't even make sense. The guy was clearly trying to ask "As a celebrity, do *you* find it difficult to talk about your sexuality?" but wasn't brave enough to be that direct.
You and I must be the only ones to notice that wording. It made no sense.
nah, I think you guys are fishing in empty waters because it was pretty obvious.
@@Bloodhoven That's why I said 'clearly'.
Even then, why on earth would go on about asking celebrities their sexuality? If they say "no im not gay", do the gay reporters go home and cry about it?
@@royliber3824They already did their own digging, do you remember that interview? Just needed him to confirm it for them. 100% confident lmao
This entire planet better get their priorities together.
The worst part about people who think like this is that they're honestly a dying sub culture in our society now. Tom's response is exactly how pretty much everyone feels about these topics now, its not even worth engaging with because you immediately realize you're interacting with someone whos head isnt screwed on right. The reason this is sad is because there is a very large demographic of kids who grew up inside this culture craze and they are now experiencing feelings of social exile. Most decades have a version of this type of extreme culture movement and the fall is really heavy.
I find it sadder that a few years ago no one really cared. You could be gay, straight, lesbian and etc.. and no one would give a damn, because it was considered normal. Like, you would be a weirdo if the first thind you'd do after seing gay people was : " oh my god gays, i love you guys, are y'all insecure " or " oh no gays, i hope you d1es and get healed ".
But some activists were dumb enough, started to do more than they already had, and went into the extreme and the unimaginable.
Which led to both political parties doing propagandas, that was spread over tiktok..
And now, over and over, you have LGBT's topics everywhere. Good or bad... At work, at home, at the tv, with friends.
I just wish these people, both supporters or against it, would just stfu sometimes 😓
@@myu1419you explained it perfectly i always thought this but could never put it into words, i don’t get why being LGBT is advertised as like a trend now everywhere. real inclusion to me would be adding lgbt people into society without having to point it out and make it a big deal, in a normal nonjudgmental way like why does it have to be the plastered on everything now like it’s a big new discovery? in the entertainment industry it literally seems like it’s a requirement to promote it into everything that’s made now lol and bro tiktok is the definition of propaganda 😭
Yeah everything was simpler when it was just LGBs. They were cool by keeping a low profile and fitting in with normal society. It was those Ts&Qs weirdos who hijacked that movement and declared war on families
@@myu1419I think a lot of you don't realise that gay people are still getting shot in places such as America for their sexuality. I don't think this question was appropriate, it was none of anyone else's buissness, but members of the LGBTQ have always and still do face issues due to their sexuality.
@@user87255 probably because trans radical activists and so called queer or non binary are making so much fucking noise demanding human rights (which they have not been denied in the first place). A lot of LGB folks don't consider themselves part of a community with the QIA people and can see that all they are doing is setting themselves up for a massive fall
We live in a world where someone's sexuality is valued over them and their talents
No, it's just an identity topic, that doesn't really need to be one -unless it's caused discrimination behind the scenes
where?
No? Not at all. People just wanna find people they identify with. Tom Hardy is a talented actor, nobody can take that away from him. The question was very poorly approached and awkward and he properly shut it down. But the reporter wasn't saying "if we find out you aren't gay we're boycotting," he was just curious.
A very flawed and cynical assessment of the reality.
Homos love talking about it
Imagine you can ask Tom Hardy a question and this is what you come up with
The activist is gay, so gay, It’s his whole personality. It is the only question he can think of
@@Stanna44is this the psycho that fights Pierce all the time?
Kid was probably raised to believe sexuality is a personality trait and has college professors telling him that too.
@@Stanna44 the reporter was not gay, he was straight. The title is misleading. You do realize that straight men ask these type of question more often than homosexuals to emasculate other men.
"because if you're not of the lgbtqia you are not worth having a conversation with" You are dirty. Unwashed. Not worth a moment of their time.
Tom hardy is the most underrated actor ever
Wow, good for him. That’s such a personal question to ask at a celebrity Q&A.
The “Thank you” was purely because the “reporter” was about to continue his inane line of questioning, and Tom needed the reporter to know that he was done. And the reporter meekly complied.
yeah I know, I watched the video
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Most convoluted way of saying 'Hi Tom, are you gay, and if so, will you date me?', ever.
These people are sick..
Dude is a straight. Misleading title. He was trying to emasculate him just like all of you do to gay men.
Lol actually what he asked has nothing to do with Tom's sexuality. He was more asking if Tom thinks it's difficult for celebrities to speak openly about their sexuality. Which obviously is the case for alot of celebrities. There's alot of gay rappers in the industry who've yet to come out and still act like they all about the P but really they all about the D.
That said tho, why tf would you ask someone such an irrelevant question that might I add has a really obvious answer🤦🏻♂️ I swear gay people always feel the need to bring sexuality into everthing🤦🏻♂️ no offense if you're gay and reading this but it's true sorry🤷🏻♂️
As an English, Hardy is probably thinking, “what a wanker”!
Why? Because too many people can’t mind their own business, and also have trouble understanding that actors aren’t the characters they play.
You do realize humans are curious right?
“Why?? Thank you!!” Absolute class mate!! The way to answer a stupid question!!😂😂😂😂
I'll never forget a birthday party where almost everyone was LGBT, a lesbian girl came up to me and said "You look like you're straight", I was like "because I am" and she went "Yeah, I thought so". She said nothing particularly agressive but I felt the implication was "You don't belong here" even though I was being respectful (and everybody was respectful to me).
It's pretty fucked up to accept or exclude a person exclusively based on their sexuality. It just shouldn't matter.
EDIT: Albeit I did mention I would never forget the moment, I want to explain I do not mean it in a hurtful or spiteful way. The moment will remain in my memory because it was surprising and I was offended then, but I have no anger towards her. Everyone has their own reasons for anything, and maybe I misinterpreted her. Either way, I harbor no hard feelings because ultimately none of us has any enemies.
Yeah I know how you feel. It sucks. As a bisexual woman I felt that in a room full of gays and lesbians. Even while dating a woman they just gave me a weird vibe like I don't belong
@@SilverMoon459 I`m sorry to hear that.
I don't think it's that rude? It's not nice but you should be able to shake it off
@@letsreadtextbook1687 Okay
LGBTQ are the most exclusionary people
Tom Hardy is a "Legend!" Handled with dignity, respect and class. Brilliant response!!❤
I don`t know why, but I love something about this so much that I keep coming back to rewatch it every now and then.
Same haha 😂
Tom Hardy's voice is different in every movie. This is the first I've heard it naturally.
First time I can understand his english without concentrating 😂
He's posh
Well, he is a actor
@1578fgh most actors anymore don't change their voice for roles
"None of your damn business, pal. Cheers though."
Is it hard to talk about your sexuality for anybody? No. Does anyone need to keep meddling in such affairs, though? No. Why some people don't understand these days that there is such a thing as people who like their privacy to be respected? You don't need to keep talking about your friends, your family, you home life or your sexuality if you don't want to. Just let people be. Props to Tom for getting this point across with such class.
I don't agree with the whole stop talking to your friends and all that. Because you can talk about all of those things besides sexuality
I'm not understanding what you're saying here
The way Brian looked over at Tom after the reporter asked his question was hilarious🤣🤣
"Are you asking me about my sexuality?"
"Sure."
"Why?"
"Well, I was just wondering if maybe some time you'd like to-"
"Thank you."
He wanted to ask Tom on a date 😂😂
Well perhaps he's wondering why someone would shoot a man
Before throwing him out of the plane
@@moidasbabushka7401hahahaha!!! legit dropped my phone laughing at this one.
HAHA! Nice one mate!😂@@moidasbabushka7401
He wanted to know if Tom had any kids,
"Do you find it difficult for celebrities to talk about their sexuality?" How is this guy even a reporter?
Because of ‘inclusion’ check marks…. ✅
Hollywood be loco….
I'm surprised he didn't ask Tom if he preferred twinks or Bears 🐻
hes "lgbt" reporter
I just don't understand why there's such a huge need to make everything about sexuality (by 'activists' and people who make their whole personality/career about their sexuality). Just let the man be. In the UK at least from my experience nobody cares about your sexuality, it's literally just 'ok cool' and moving on. As it should be.
@@MinaeVainmeh, I dont live there but from UK companies and advertising I see a good amount of sexuality bs, in line with muricans
Gotham will fall
Beware of stupid questions cos a smack in the mouth often offends!🥊🥴😝🤷
"Why?" That's a damn good question!
imagine having the oppertunity to ask tom hardy a question about some of the best acting he has ever done and this is what comes to mind. ffs
@nghiahuunguyen who would "these people" be?
@@reformtorta People who ask dumb questions
He could've ask "How can I be Bane?" lmao. Such a clown that guy is
@nghiahuunguyen authoritarian for a reason these ppl should be in jaill
@nghiahuunguyen If you are joking, then you are saved.
Dude KO'ed with that "why"?? The actress smiling is even more 😀😃
Bro just demonstrated why it's so hard to be questioned about it xD
Lol, I absolutely love how he was literally like "Why do you care who I fuck? Piss off" 😂
You sound like tyrion. The scene about cersei finding his whore and all. It’s cool.
“Why do you care who I fuck?”
“Because a lannister always pays his debts.”
He didn't literally say that...
@@samsong24 but he meant it
He said mind your business and fuck off in a very polite way.
Uh, he's sitting there to answer questions, if he didn't want to answer question he shouldn't be there. That's like getting offended if someone asks 'what's your favourite colour'.
When i was very much in the closet i always thought that basing your identity on your sexual preferences was weird. Now that I'm out of the closet, i still think basing your identity on your sexual preferences is weird. There are a lot of people in my life and most of them think I'm straight. Why, because my preference is my business and no one needs to know that.
I wish most in that community felt the same way.
Its nobody's business. Confident people who are comfortable in their own skin don't need to push a social agenda or belittle others who have a different worldview.
I find pride creepy because it's sexuality topics pushed on kids well before the age of puberty.
Yet here you are telling the whole world that you're gay! 😂
You get it bro, thanks for being a normal person.
Theres way too many people who just front with that info in public, as if they WANT everyone to categorize people by sexuality...
@@robmichael8136It’s impressive that you people regurgitate this trash all the time you should actually try informing yourself on the subject before speaking on it(TH-cam doesn’t count)
@@fadwen88No fucking sane person is just introducing themselves with their sexuality go outside and actually talk to a person you’re so deluded
We must protect Tom Hardy at all costs!!!!!!
Nailed it! "Why?" Perfect answer.
Its an Englishman's gift, to be able to burn someone so violently yet be so gentlemanly and polite while doing it.
It’s the “Thank you” at the end that politely but firmly seals it shut for me 😂
I'd have switched off at the random letters of the alphabet in Tom's place.
He just answered him so well ...
That "" WHY "" is the Best response to people asking stuff it doesn't belong to them .
“None of your business and doesn’t matter anyway” The end. Also if a straight person asked that it’d be called a bigoted attempt to out the person
Bruh I mean first I guess if they don't wanna talk about it they don't have, but why you so pressed? Also "bigoted attempt to out someone..." no one believes or says that, you really just made up a random ass strawman.
Exactly. Gay or straight, why is it your business?
Technically that question was sexual harassment in the workplace and could have led to a person being fired, and even sued for damages, for asking a worker about their sexuality, or to comment on sexuality, in a work environment..
@@PotentialTechniques😅😅😅😅
I would have sworn at that guy, being the better person and turning the other cheek shows weakness
I can't believe nobody is mentioning how well Tom Hardy dealt with that question by commenting the same thing in 487 different ways.
What else did you expect people to comment on in this very narrowly scoped video?
@@gnack420an original thought or observation of their own? I know I know too much to ask
Because TH-cam commenters are complete sheep, they all type unfunny overused memes And insist everything Is wholesome
@@FiveDORRA That's all true but I would amend it to say 99.999999% of the human race.
Bunch of gremlins in this thread. Touch grass
He had two chances to ask a question that makes sense. Twice he couldn’t string the correct words together to ask. TH response was exquisite.
That "why" have good meme potential.
if sexuality is something you need, to define someone or yourself, you have a problem to fix and it doesn't come from around you but yourself.
Its sad when people make their sexuality their whole personality
@@oz_jones welcome to 2023
@@oz_jonesYeah, I hate when the straights make it everybody’s business who they sleep with
The journalist is gay and needing validation 😂
What does someone's sexuality matter..he's an actor😂
If your sexuality is why you're hated and persecuted, why shouldn't people be confident in themselves about it? Telling gay people to just shut up and keep quiet about themselves is the exact reason why so many people are loud about it.
Wish we'd all watch this; no joke, this simple response, "Why," puts us back into the reality that we live in a world where we've more to our existence and experience than what we do with our weenies, butts and vaginas. Glad this clip is still out there. Makes me smile when he politely decimates such a bating, feckless question.
Jeez why are you so mad? It was a really simple question. Also it seemed like Hardys response proved itself wrong. He said he wasnt uncomfortable talking about sexuality and then he demonstrated being uncomfortable talking about it
@@heythere9371 nope, he said he wasnt uncomfortable talking about sexuality and then he demonstratet how stupid that guy was for asking such a nonsense question.
@@heythere9371no it’s because other peoples sexuality doesn’t fucking matter. No one cares
@@heythere9371you are projecting.
@@jayvee5898 He got all butthurt because he was uncomfortable with the question
The thank you tho! If I was that reporter I would actually cry
he never disappoint me, what a man.
Hardy is a class act
It's a rude question to ask because 1) you're putting someone on the spot in front of multiple people when you might not be comfortable answering that question and 2) it really is no one's business. If someone wants to talk about their sexual orientation, it should be by their own choosing, not anyone elses.
He could have asked something like "Did you gain any new perspectives from this role of what living life as a bisexual man in London in the '50s and '60s was like?" Anything that connected with why they were all there to begin with: Talking about the movie.
What's your date of birth, place of birth, and mother's maiden name? Oh, and your first pet's name?
... also nobody else's business and not relevant to the film, Legend.
That face of the director at the ending...
Why should anyone have to discuss their sexuality with strangers? What has society become? For a while, someone had the wacky idea that we should be able to make our own choices in life. Now, it seems like we can make choices, but only if we're willing to broadcast those choices. Mind your business.
Dude must think sexuality is a personality trait
Great response!
Why on earth are celebrities expected to discuss their sexuality with anyone at all? Especially the media!
It is absolutely no one’s business.
That is literally part of Tom Hardy's charm. He is able to flirt with all gender and it is fun for him and for everyone. I find it very entertaining.
I love this. Exactly how these kinds of questions should be handled.
It's like asking someone "When's the last time you had sex?" or "What's your medical history?" It's none of your damn business.
I think he wants to say he is a god damn man first and foremost!!!
It’s not
@@chuusenberg519 I was giving examples of personal questions, and unless you're in a relationship with someone, friendship or otherwise, it's none of anyone's concern. What someone does in their private life is their business.
Like a normal person, without being rude , thank you Tom
My brain keeps breaking and reseting everytime I hear his voice because im so used to Alfie Solomons voice
that's how relevant that question is in any circumstance.
if only they could learn from it.
The tone in the "thank you" said it all.
Poor kid... He was hoping that he could possibly have a chance at poking Tom.... 😂
Poor kid???? Hahahahahaha
Didn't even get a rise 😂
Tom avoided aids, Pro move
A polite and professional way of handling a reporter who thinks the universe revolves around him
The look on Emily Browning's face at the end is worth catching.