Stay Away from Church Girls
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 18 ก.ย. 2024
- In this video, we dive into a sensitive but important topic: why some church girls come off as the most judgmental. We will explore the tension between faith, expectations, and judgment, and talk about how to replace judgment with grace and empathy.
Key Discussion Points:
The role of cultural and religious expectations in shaping judgmental attitudes.
Personal experiences with judgment from church girls.
How grace and humility can replace judgment.
If you've experienced judgment or have been the one to judge, let’s have an open conversation. Share your thoughts in the comments below and don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit the notification bell for more discussions on faith and personal growth!
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A person who goes to church doesn't mean they obey and follow God's order! That goes for male and female! Matthew 7!
You have listed all of the reasons I have stopped dealing with most people in the church. It's the blatant hypocrisy and lack of empathy I can't deal with.
Facts the anti christ spirit is growing in the church that's why I only go for sacrament then leave
weird how they can be so callous its like they will muster enough pretense to make a show of righteousness for men's eyes but a perceptive man and definitely God see right through them lol
@@Correction-zl2oe The only thing everyone in church has in common is their acknowledgement of being sinful. Some go no further, and need excommunication. Jesus warned the church would gather all kinds.
True believers are the absolute best parters !!
My Christian partner amazes me in how she loves and respects me…
@@Greg-fi3op yes the individual is the CHURCH 🙏🏿 NOT THE BUILDING 🙏🏿👑🙏🏿✍🏿✍🏿✍🏿✍🏿✍🏿✍🏿✍🏿✍🏿
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@@kyrkwalters964 🤣 hopefully she is the church 🙏🏿 let's pray for ol Greg
That is a very rare find
@@g3h530There are more than you think. But many men are playing out of their league.
I am a retired US Navy and US Marine Corps Veteran. I like all of your Video s. I am a single straight male and I attend the Baptist church. 😊😊😊😊😊
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Sorry, but if you don't have the Holy Ghost speaking in an unknown tongue as the spirit of God gives utterance. You want see God's face in peace. That's not judging you. That's telling you the truth.
@@DNice06you mean that utterance where your babbling and making farm noises like a cow and a dog? That Kenneth Hagin word of faith mumbo jumbo nonsense.
@@DKForeman: Not trying to be mean, but don't mock God. It might not end well for you.
A group of 10 single women one time took me to fellowship hall when I was 18 years old and told me to pick one of them to date. I was shy and I didn’t know what to say. I was kind of shocked, but I respectably declined I was at church twice on Sundays and was in choir on Wednesday and went to prayer meetings I never thought of myself as a handsome man Later I married a woman from the church and have been married now for 39 years my anniversary is coming up in September 28 th. I am 62 years old.
What turned me off the most was the gossiping! Always in everybody's business to spread hurt, but NEVER to offer encouragement or comfort... We ALL have our struggles, but there are discreet ways of dealing with people's circumstances. Even the Lord Jesus laid out steps to deal with people.
The entertainment center aka church is full of gossiping haters, heathens & hypocrites! I quit going to that building 30 years ago. The heathens that wave their hands, run around the church, and scream & holla every Sunday are the very people to look out for at the church and when they're at the clubs Saturday night! BTW was 'jesus' or 'god' married? Just asking!
My former MIL was always trying to rope me into rumors and gossip about pastors and other members of my church and i always answered her, "I'm not getting into that sort of talk".
Thats everywhere job, school, society 😅
@@Denzelswife-rb7qzthat's true, but the church should be held to a higher standard, shouldn't it? After all, those who claim to follow Jesus Christ should display His character in some ways, right?
@@nmbr1son64no. Jesus dies for your sins not your righteousness. The theology of Christianity makes it the religion of hypocrisy.
Helena is spot on with this. She is speaking straight truth agree or disagree. Thank you for having “The Conversation”. 🔥
I didn't struggle growing up while being a church kid. However, I feel you on the "church girls," and the groups and cliques were never my thing. I have a heart for people as well. There's a lot of mean hurting women in and out of the church. It's a shame so many in the church that are in that state and over folks, sit down and get healed. And the men, loves a pretty face. Yes, when we grow, we KNOW!!
Yes yes
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@user-wt1vu2so5d I'm sorry, but I'm not reading all of this. Lol
I got baptized into the SDA church in my mid-30s, and i quickly found out that church was a glorified dating agency because the young women seemed to be pushing themselves on me or older women were trying to link me up with their daughters. I also found out that many of those girls had children from questionable characters outside the church, and had come back into the church playing holy holy claiming they were now looking for a husband.
A woman with kid/kids it is no no no
Such unfortunately is a sad reality.
LOL I've been in the church my whole life and I still gotta watch out for all these "redeemed" ladies. Praying God will help me choose properly!
Let's be real it's natural for females and males to be unable to keep those unrealistic commandments...YOU EVER WONDER WHY THEY SAY HUMANS ARE NOT PERFECT!!??😅
You are absolutely correct about these church 304’s.
Yes you right. Some of the best people do not go to a building yet others go to church every Sunday and are the worst people by actions. Very intelligent and very compassionate and very common sensical. Love this
Well where are the 305s
304s retirees 😂
You are absolutely right that's why I stopped going to churches and became a child of God so I could worship Jesus and only Jesus not the congregation or the pastor to God be the glory❤😊
well said
I use to see the hypocrisy as a child, I also realized very early in life, religion is big business, and the cause of many wars thru out history, I live in the south but I do not practice a religion, do not want be a hypocrite, so I miss out on meeting women cause the church is the most social event in the south!
Yeah, it like you're expected to be there, or the questions and rumors fly!
“The cause of many wars throughout history” That’s a myth. Most wars are politically driven. According to the Encyclopedia of Wars by Charles Philips and Alan Axelrod there have been 1,763 wars fought throughout recorded history. Out of all those wars only 122 of them have been religiously motivated. That means that 93% of the wars fought throughout history are secular in nature. Some other books you should check out are The Myth of Religious Violence by William Cavanaugh and Dominion by Tom Holland. The whole religious wars angle is just atheist propaganda.
@@armandvega2752 sir, I did not say all, and if you think one war is not to many, you prove my point! Have a great Sunday sir!
@@armandvega2752no, most wars are politically motivated but driven by religious propaganda. There, fixed the flaw in your statement and argument.
@DevonHberman-im6bx Atheism and religion have both contributed to wars. It's an over simplification to say "religion or religious propaganda " cause wars.
Thank you for your honest assessment of this group.
To be fair, the 5 characteristics you've described afflict many people, male and female.
Thanks again.
Two of my major reasons for leaving church altogether, but never my faith relationship with Christ: 1) hypocrisy of single church girls and 2) felt like an outcast just because I am a single man.
Since leaving and being part of a phone-conference prayer/Bible study group since the pandemic in 2020, my knowledge in the Word and faith in Christ is so much stronger.
Its not so much the church kids but the actual PKs or Preachers Kids that I noticed were very toxic and always into something.
Preacher's kids for whatever reason turn radical. Remember the story of Eli's two sons in the Bible?
Please do not forget female religious covert narcissist # Jezebel and Delilah spirit always walk together….🔥🔥🔥🦅🦅💎💎💎 you on point# the fashion show is in the church
I love your grandfather's answer 😂😂😂😂, but on a serious note, thank you for approaching this subject. I've had similar experiences with women in the church.
YOU are very Beautiful.... I feel your pain and truly understand what you are exposing. People always thought I was crazy to say, I dont want a church woman..... Not understanding it was because I've seen TOOOOO Much BS! in the Churches of yesterday AND today.... Stay Humble, Luv-able, and Beautiful YoungLady
I don't see her as being in pain. I see her as enlightened.
We should be attending church:
1) Because of Our relationship with God
2) Because of What Christ did on the cross for us
Going to church is a good cover for a 304; she just buys a conservative outfit, tries to blend in and then learns a few verses of Gospel. She does have to adjust her personality so as to validate the cover operation.
Many dress like 304s even in church!
This is why you do not marry a girl or even date her unless you know her history; her family, and whether her character can be vouched for by other Christian families.
Wow, I love that you pit this out there. As a man that does not go to church, I always heard that church is where the good women are. So I found one, and married her, divorces her in 4 yrs. She had all the traits you just listed, and I just couldn't understand. Thanks, I do now....❤
Church has all kinds. It's a hospital for sinners. Buyer beware, is always good advice. I know Christian women who are severely narcissistic, and others who are gracious and loving.
Thanks for sharing your view of this.
Honestly...If we be realistic and logical why the church girls are like that is the older generation instituted that legalistic and religious complexities on them at a young age. In essence they gave them a 'Religious identity' more so than to nurture the personality or introduce the contemporaries of life to them. It's done by design to train or program the girls at a young age to be devoted to "Religion" instead of introducing them to the real world. Males on the other hand by nature are wired differently....we are more curious and want the truth especially the more logical we become as we get older and with life experience we realize things don't add up. We aren't submissive by nature like women....so we know there's another side outside of religion instinctively.....
Well said, well said. 😊
Thanks for making this video. It give me reassurance that I’m not crazy, and that all of the things that I have noticed and have not liked over the years about the Baptist church in America is true, and it is not just me making things up because I have some “secret sin”, or that I’m jealous, or whatever.
The people who are the most judgmental and who always run their mouths about others are the very people who are running around committing the most sin. People who are judgmental are the ones who are projecting their own self-hate and their own guilt onto others. It’s called confession through projection: whatever they say about you is what they secretly think about themselves. By contrast, sincere people who have struggled with their own sins and have overcome their own difficulties are usually humble, and have the most empathy for other people’s struggles.
I am a single male who has never married, and one of the reasons that I have never married is that I do not like church girls, and I was told that I cannot marry someone who doesn’t go to church (i.e.: don’t be “unequally yoked”!). It’s not the only reason, and I’m not trying to blame everyone else for my problems when I know that there are things that I need to work on, but most of the people (both male and female) that I have met in church over my lifetime are people that I cannot relate to, and I have had problems making friends at church. And I think that Jesus himself would probably not be welcome at many churches if he walked through the door.
Thanks for letting me know that it’s not just me, and that someone else has noticed the same thing.
PS: one of the reasons that I know the Bible so well (and other people have told me so, including pastors who are surprised that I know so much) is because I found out at a very early age that I needed to constantly fact check the pastors, because many of them don’t know what they are talking about. It forced me to study the Bible for myself.
Amen!
Well said, brother. Very astute. And you're not alone in your observations, thoughts, feelings, perspective, and experiences.
Personally, The Word governs how I navigate, and I was raised in Church. By the grace of The Most High, I do my best to live a monastic life. However, having said that, I believe we are indeed living in the last days....BIG TIME. But the present-day Church is not a place where I would feel comfortable today. It's often like the club without the liquor at times.
In addition, people look at your shoes and what you're wearing before they even speak to you. Folks like to size you up. The church clics abound. You get dismissive statements when you inquire about doctrine. People seem hell-bent on trying to either flirt or match-make you when they find out you're single. Then there's the unnecessary whooping and hollering that takes the place of serious and scholarly instruction and exposition of the living word.
Then there are those overly long sermons, wide spread attention seeking behaviors among members, competitiveness, intrusive members and pastors, rampant gossip, lack of discipline and order during the services, not starting on time, not calling out members for inappropriate activity or attire like backless dresses, men in garish and super tight suits, or women in body-hugging outfits. Then there are the pastors being overly affectionate and "kissy" with female members, etc. Or, the female pastors are overly friendly with the single men...
Moreover, there are serious conversations you just can't have, and penetrating questions you just can't ask if you are a thinking man with a hungry and inquisitive mind. And on and on. Anyway, I guess it is what it is.
The word does say there will be a "falling away" in the last days. People think that means folks will "stop attending churches." Granted, that's happening. But it's deeper than that. It's important to discern that the church, as an institution and spiritual edifice itself, is in rapid decline and demoralized from within... It's not the beacon or safe haven it once was. I could say so much more, but I'll leave it at that. 😊
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I wish I could double heart this message because bay-bay some of the SAINTS be the worse. I never understood being clicky and looking down on others especially if you’re a person of faith. I will never get it.
I sure can relate to what you just said because i been going to so so many churches Especially! when You are a Single Divorced Christian Man right at the age of 62. I not only preach and teach but play gospel music in all kinds of churches. But! when you are a Single Man alone and you are trying to meet a woman in a church it can be difficult because all it takes is someone to spread a tattle tail or rumors on you you just cannot win for losing so I try not to hit on women in church I just leave that problem alone and keep to myself some Christian Women cannot realize that WE are only Human Good Video Sister I Enjoy This Remember Me in Prayer
Great transparency. Every word spoken is truth. True woman you are. Thank you.
You said Georgia....that's a class all to itself. Although I don't go to church....I couldn't believe the level of trifle just concerning daily issues when I moved here (Atlanta).
When all is said and done,,,, it's obedience and a pure heart is what God is after.. Not what people say or think. It's about shifting our focus and listening to what God wants us to do and where He wants us to go
🙄🙄 yea but most church people use GOD as a bill board to control your money time and your life period
@kyrkwalters964 The church isn't a social club or a place for radical individualism. So yes, there is an element of what you say. It can also be exploited and is why you need to be on your guard. I've literally seen Christians manipulated by the speaker to cough up 1000s in a single session; not a televangelist either, but a small local church. Genuine Christians are prime targets for fraudsters because they are already invested in the product. The fraudsters just needs to get into the pulpit and infiltrate, and redirect the funds...I've watched it.
Church Girls have always been very good to me ! I must say you ain’t lying!
Elvis Presley has a song called Clean Up Your Own Back Yard. They should listen to it.
Yes, I too believe that the church is primarily for families. I am single, never married with no kids and grew up conservative evangelical. Grew up in the faith and always prioritized church up until the age of 40, when I stopped going because of the things you describe in this video. It's all a symptom of immature faith, which is why I ask God to grow me up in Him, because I don't want to be an immature believer. But the modern church isn't for singles, unfortunately and it's not supposed to be that way but that's the reality. I appreciate your honesty and insight.
I saw the title and said absolute truth…..
What about the preacher my uncle made me loose my 18 wheeler because I wouldn't drive the church van for free 4 him picking up the elderly.i understand helping but not gonna make me a slave work for free
How'd you lose a whole semi truck?
How did you not driving the van for him made you lose your CDL?
Such a red flag
As a young christian man, Slowly grasping the consequence of sin and the terribleness of Hell. I try by best to not judge people, but if somebody judges me I won’t be mad, I’ll receive it respectfully and try to change. I think there are certain blink spots that we can’t see or fail to realize that other people can, regarding our alignment with the word of God. Even if a hypocrite judge me I’m receiving it and will try to change because I genuinely want to go to heaven. Save yourself. God bless.
Speak your truth my Queen! Straight up facts. They are so judgemental.
I like how you broke it down.
" Spoken Truth , Knowledge & Wisdom Beyond Measure "...!!!!
I grew up in the church also. We went to church Tuesday, Friday and all day Sunday. I am honestly not trying to bash black women, I am just speaking from my experience...I think black women are drawn to the dark side lol. If it is a choice between good and evil I feel like black women most of the time choose evil.
They are evil! The majority of church girls are divorced, and they join the choir, try to be with the screacha (preacha), join the usher board or join a singles group in the church! Too many hypocrites in that building, including the screacha and his wife!
Amen, we must follow God's laws, statues, and commandments 😇
Love this you're being real
You really speak from the heart. People on earth are always thinking they can judge when they pick and choose words and paragraphs from scripture to fit they're narrative. And that's all good if it fits they're narrative but they shouldn't be putting that on you or anyone outside of themselves. I don't get when "christian women" decide that God somehow gave them the right to tell others what to do and how to be when they aren't doing and being anywhere near what they're speaking on. Just saying.... You stay strong my beautiful queen!! You really speak and bring out all the points that make sense. Math is mathing!!
I was raised in the church and married a church girl myself. We were married for two years and lo and behold, she had an affair with her ex boyfriend and I was extremely sad and upset. I left the Baptist church because the woman were hypocritical. I was considering to join the Catholic priesthood because of my poor relationship with women. I was called gay because I have no interest in dating (I’m now 58 and been divorced for over 25 years). I’m now a Lutheran because I wanted to be different and I wanted to do things differently from being stereotyped as some black man. I admit I still hated myself at times throughout the years.
At least you admitted your self hate. You wanted to be "different" yet black men following religion sect for appearance not faith is Slavic in itself 🤷🏾♀️
"I'm different " is a stereotype in itself.🙃
@@PhrankBlunt so in other words, to be a Black man I have to be street and not to be articulate, listen to a certain type of music, eat certain foods, vote or conduct a certain way, live in the ghetto, right?
You need to get in holiness. That's God's only true church.
@@AbronHawkins You are literally what's wrong with black men and representatives of such who down talk the women of your race/culture/creed ,and you pass it off as "being an anomaly " when you want to cross into "our" communities🤷🏽♀️. It's troublesome considering one generally aligns with those in their socio-economic sphere. If you ate not that guy,live *your best life"👏
I understand you brother. Don’t worry, one day, Christ Jesus will have something better than sexual desire or marriage for you when we go to heaven
All ladies are not same in Lords house also. Ket us not generalize. We need to normalize values and standardards. i.e. I married equates to not being able to mingle with others and vice verus. Hold to the standards of loyallty in courtship society. Goes for both genders.
OMG Helena, everything you said in this Video is literally 💯💥💥💥The Absolute Truth!!! Literally u took the exact same words that I use to describe these institutions right outta my mouth!!! And yes these institutions are only tor families and to add unto that real quick is that they’re made for people who had normal lives with no real challenges or struggles in this life!! The churches aren’t made for people who had an actual rough life or past or upbringing at all!!!
This young lady has good insight
This is the first video of yours, and I like you SO much I’ve liked and subscribed to you.
You’re a sincere, down-to-earth woman, and I truly appreciate your optimism and happiness you project.
You go, girl! 👍✝️❤️😊
😂 yes, I can relate to some of the experiences you mentioned. Truth be told. No need to take offense and defend yourself, God is our Defender 👍🏽 yes our feelings matter. Much love as a sis in Christ, we’re all at different levels in our growth. Some are very legalistic, I use to be that “Church Girl “ as long as we’re here on earth we need to grow to understand we need to love each other and empathize because we ALL FALL SHORT in various shortcomings and need Jesus Good points ✌🏾
We all need to realize, and understand that none of us is perfect. That's why we need the love of Jesus Christ in our lives, to help us develop compassion towards people because we're not perfect ourselves we need to led by the Holy Spirit to live holy lives.🙏❤🙏🙏
Grandpa: I think Helena should be an usher.😂😂😂😂
i love your great grandmother !
I always wondered why the church girls I met couldn't find a match in their own congregation
You must have a real encounter with Jesus Christ. It really happens when your ready without no judgements but you and the holy Spirit. Just the two of you. Nobody else is there to make this happen. That's a real relationship. It's always 2 people never a Third party. But church girls are very judgemental and are not really healed from their traumas but use the Bible to continue their sinful ways. It's a Click in the church which is not God like
Thank you truely. I was a part of a church family for over 25 years. I was raised an athiest.Then i had an experience with God, and i immediately turned into a strong believer. I have strong faith and hope, and i love the Holy Trinity. The church was my family for many years. As soon as I started doing pole, the church turned on me. The women were particularly viscious. Thank God my relationship with Jesus is very personal , and i didnt let all those people effect me too much. I moved on fairly quickly.
So genuine and very authentic pulse wise stay encouraged and continue being a blessing 😉 ok your pod cast sista
Thank You for your transparency and everything you shared is true. I really liked your honesty about being a woman n relating to Jesus! You are Beautiful young lady n stay the way you are your crown awaits you
The church is in the heart of the believer.
I love the way you articulate these topics. I tried to talk about these subjects with my ex wife. Just trying to be open with her and speaking my mind.
She was a church girl and she blatantly cut off the conversation. She was so furious that i "spoke negativity" things like that.....and it was that i was speaking negative but moreso things just seemed off. The optics didn't look right.
She knew i wasn't a fan of church but i went for her and our kids. It didn't bother me to go but i hypothetically put myself outside and looked in to get THAT bigger clear picture.
I still love her to this day but i feel like church is a indoctrination that deeply brainwashes the masses. Probably why theres so many problems nowadays....just acway to scapegoat accountability.
Who knows maybe it me. Maybe im crazy.
Sorry about rambling.
Great job on explaining your perspective ma'am
YOUR PROBLEM SIR YOU ARE A SIMP THAT'S WHY YOU STILL LOVE YOUR WIFE EVEN THOUGH YOU KNOW SHE AIN'T NO GOOD AND YOU GO ALONG TO GET ALONG YOU DO KNOW THAT'S BEING A PUNK DON'T YOU.
She got RELIGION not Christ
Look after failed marriage's and getting saved late in life, I went to the singles ministry at my church in Orlando, come to find out that I knew nothing about dating a woman properly. No one looked down on me for going. And the toxic women that I was used to just fell off of my radar. But them church girls get the same discernment as them not saved. A great video.
What do you mean getting saved? Saved from what? Just be yourself bcuz ain't nobody saving you, except yourself!
@@NubianKing-y3y Just a new way of living and thinking! Before reading the Bible, I was a simp, I openly admit this! Now, no female controls me I don't care how fine she is , if she's only bringing that wet box she can keep it pushing. So, getting saved was me saving myself!
@@NubianKing-y3yhe means there are certain things in our lives only GOD can do. When you look deep inside yourself, and measure against God's righteousness you'll find we fall WOEFULLY short of that standard! That's the beginning... depending on our heart, God will display His grace and heal us. Sometimes it's immediate and sometimes it's a lifelong process.
I Love it, Sister.
you are a great speaker/story teller if I can create vivid stories in my head 😂
Hello Helena. Thank you for the confirmation. Meaning I had a conversation a while ago with a member of my church. Long story short, you pretty much talked about some of the things we talked about. I'm 47. Been at the same church for 27 years. The lady I had the conversation with was there for about 1 year. She messed my head up with some stuff. Some of which you mentioned. My question for "church folk" is Why are you at church in the first place? I too have been asked "Why I'm not married to a church woman?" My answer is "The church has to be in her more so than her in the church"
A ministers wife was hitting on me therafter,while trying to figure out my motive for visiting services..until she realized I was a mere guest.🤔🥴
I can not sing. So I feel your pain. 😂.
To follow up on this video, I think it would be great to see you do a reaction to Rev. Stephen Thurston II "Message To Single Ladies".
You hit on a couple points here that he bears down on.
The video is the last 12 minutes of his sermon on Ruth and Boaz.
Unfortunately, I can't find the first of that sermon, but the last 12 minutes is right here.
But, be ready..... He comes at the congregation with some pretty raw points and pulls no punches.
I was engaged to a church girl
Her Daddy was a pastor for over 2 decades. We were together for 3 yrs
I had to let her go 100%
You ain’t lying on none of these sentiments & then some
I’ll NEVER again lolol😅
you are telling 100% truth
A lot of these church women seek partners who don't go to church hoping to change them. When asked they say that there's no good men in their congregation. Smh
I just love the way you deliver the truth.....😍
I just ran across your video by accident and I am glad I did. Everything you said was truth and things I went through. I grew up with cliques in the church as well as openly homosexuality. But will judge others that have a baby outside of marriage but homosexuality is not being corrected
CHURCH AGE IS DEAD , ITS WRITTEN. U HAVE TO HAVE A PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP WITH OUR GOD IN HEAVEN AMEN🙏
Grew up in a black Apostolic church. Lost my virginity at 14yo to a girl I went church with, which also happened at church. Everything you're saying is the Gospel truth, no pun intended!
Oh wow!!! If there's sin abounding in a church, it's because the Pastor of that church does NOT consistently preach hard against sin and does NOT show perfect examples in their conduct. So you can switch to a more godly church (of which there're many). In every church you'll find people walking in hypocrisy for human beings (including myself and yourself) are not perfect. Jesus came for the lost and the sick and despite our shortcomings, he chastises and loves us. We should also be patient and love one another. He is perfect, so by the power of the Holy Spirit we strive to walk like him for we look unto Him (the Man, the Lord Jesus), the author and finisher of our faith. AMEN!!!
The church girls you encountered were bad. I'm hoping switching churches you encounter true godly girls. If we men stay away from church girls (as you say), where else would we find eligible wives? Wives that understand holiness, raising children in a godly way? Wives that also love the Lord? There's a higher probability finding a good church girl that belongs to a church than an unbeliever. If you go for the unbeliever, you're unequally yoked (which is against the scriptures). Also, among the many events good churches do, singles events encourage men & women to meet, date and possibly marry and have kids (growing the kingdom and house of God). It also encourages accountability by frowning against pre-marital sex and having kids outside of marriage (this is where the Pastor hammers hard against these).
my ex wife was a good christian, sunday school teacher, and one of the biggest sl uts in the county. i personally did 17yrs of churching, and all i learned was how not to be. some of the most judgemental, hypocritical, people on the planet. i know straight up gangsters, criminals, who have more self worth, respect for themselves, and others.
1Cor.6: Flee fornication.
I will say this as a pastor, the church I used to surve, was sold for the land and you can't make people have faith in God, as they will do as they see fit you can try to save a sole but if they do as they see fit well it is what it is
Thank you
For your uplifting
Video 🙏🏾
You ain't lying! I'm done.
I applaud you sis. 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
Another issue I see in the church is that a lot of people that are not married which isn't an issue are also fornicating and shacking up with each other. Also, multiple marriages and divorces to me is a big problem and most pastor will not touch that subject or tell their congregation that it's not biblically correct to live that lifestyle.
You are right and I know what you mean cause I found out how corrupt and hypocritical the American Church was when I was looking for a home church in recent years. I don't want to keep attending because as a single I do not fit in and it's uncomfortable but I will keep going because of one reason. Bible says do not neglect the assembling of yourselves especially in the last days and close to the Rapture taking of the church. Only the wise "virgins" will be taken in the rapture and I have to be obedient and prayerful just like Jesus said. I agree with you that it's our relationship with God that's the key and following the Bible. Besides that, I got help through a few people in the church and they are not all lost people. I got a job through a family when I was in financial trouble and another family helped me move and I found a friendly single girlfriend to go out and eat and have fun sometimes. So God blessed me abundantly despite everything.
This was interesting.
No wonder they are so many red flags in the cleregy fraternity & the bible warns about judging others & bearing false witnesses.
Facts man this shxt almost ruing my life man. Kevin Samuel's talked about this. Shorty passed away and now I got all my kids man. Religious chick's who ain't right will make you resent God. So run far away from them!
Dating wise it’s hard to who is suitable or not it’s hard with most nowadays I know there’s decent women it’s in the church or out in the streets people are overly guarded and judging I’ll keep faith in the most wait for proverbs type woman
Thanks for the info 😊✌️👍✊
My brother RIP told me learn the word for yourself he stopped goin to a couple churches seeing certain things ….
I thought they be the best. Wowwww. Shocking 😲
The realism in this video is great!!! 😆🤣 I live it keep going mam 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
The church is just a dayclub on Sunday morning; instead of nightclub on Saturday night! NOTHING ELSE NEEDS TO BE SAID...
I have spent all of my life in the church and I keep a distance from most church girls myself lol
I don't go to church for many of the reasons you give.
Many church girls go clubbing on Saturday, get pumped until Sunday morning, then are in church saying "hallelujah Jesus!" Later.
What's the saying? Club on Saturday, repent on Sunday?
Helena you sound so Beautiful. SORRY that you and your child's father didn't get married .
GOD IS THE JUDGE
I dated a church girl.....after that relationship I became an agnostic atheist...
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@Letthemtalkhes Bro! She stopped sleeping with me because we weren't married...she slept with me mad times before that smh
@MeMyselfandEye127 now I feel better knowing I'm not the only one. I'm starting to think alot of them do this
Jesus is better than all of that. Trust me brother, all you need is Jesus. In heaven, we won’t need sex or a spouse because we will have Jesus
There is the Body and Bride of Christ! Then you have religion which is called institutional Churches! Protestants and Roman Catholic! A lot of religion but no discipleship! Not really any fruit! Not much taught except what the preacher thinks! Ideas produce a messed up culture, or bring HEAVEN to the earth! I am just waiting for them to get raptured, so we can bring HEAVEN to the earth!
The overall message of this video is why I stopped going to my home church. All 5 reasons is why I don’t go back.
Has anybody heard from the pulpit: my beautiful wife, Eve was the most beautiful wife,I asked God for a wife for my pastoral ministry, but not just a wife, a beautiful wife.Some lust in those statements.
Respect!