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I don't know who needs to read this but we are all going through tough and difficult times, Don't give up. You are here for a reason. You matter. Just don't give up whatever you're going through. I love you.
In other words, stay curious and open minded, keep your judgments in check and remember that things are happening for you not to you. Self blame is a dysfunctional response. True responsibility is never about fault finding.
No response is dysfunctional; only reasonable based on experiences. Responses don't go away just by "keeping them in check". It's like everyone here listened to Teal talk but didn't hear her.
It’s exactly like this. When I started with the law of attraction things spiraled with challenges. I manifested on demand amazing things. But also, the opposite. You are right, I asked for total inner peace and freedom. How does one get that? Through non attachment. And so I attracted heartbreak, and debt that came out of nowhere. Why? To realize I don’t need anything to be at peace and feel freedom, so that I wouldn’t attach myself to people or things. To know that no matter what is happening outside of myself, I will remain at ease. It’s quite beautiful really, extremely hard but, beautiful. One thing I have learned is to see through the “bad” events right away that “there is some form of lesson and reason I attracted this, let’s figure it out and I will come out on the other side with a more persistent higher vibration” 💜🌸✨
well said, and we have to regulate our thinking through experiencing hardships with positive attitude or we feel more pain. "I recommend the Power Of Positive Thinking by Norman Peal".
This actually made sense to me. This last year and a half has been eye opening to me, I was homeless for 4 months and kept wondering how I got to that point. In the last 6 years my life has been a little topsy-turvy and I've kept thinking, " what am I doing wrong"! I've tried to figure out my purpose and still don't know what it is. I will be 59 next month and I'm still learning and growing everyday. I want to thank you for your help. Love and light!
I love this. The Bible says to “count it all joy” when you face adversity. Embrace your challenges because you need them to make you strong. Our challenges are the doorways to our destiny… if we embrace them fully.
Deepest gratitude to you Teal for rewiring my brain with these healthy thought patterns. I can feel them settling in like seeds and I’m growing more neural pathways that lead me there instead of the old places.
You all are simply not genuine about it that is why you are set back. Do you even acknowledge failure as your teacher? Do you lack attitude during your highs and lows? Are you even aware of the other laws of the universe? Watch Conor Mcgregor and xxxtentacion, Arron Doughty, read some books then revaluate your life. Your purpose or your why seems not big enough which is misfortunate for you.
@Grandma Fury you all sensitive , he can say whatever he wants . I found good info in his comment saying you aren't interested enough to see bigger and deeper picture that will make you realize how it works and inspire you . The fact that 2 people liked your comment and Zero his says all where this chat in going , I would accept any advice possible if I really wanted something in that direction .
In my experience the law of attraction is actually us creating our lives with our thoughts and actions. The problem comes when people are not aware of their own thoughts and or let their emotions dictate their thoughts. Most of us are strictly running on reactive mode which traps us into o cycle of the past recurring
Emotions are irrelevant. They are like a virus....if you indulge any one emotion youll get more of it. But thats the end of it they dont create anything else inside your world other than more of themself. People only think that emotions have something to do with reality is because strong emotions will strongly motivate you to think and act a certain way. And that will impact your world. Rage or wrath for instance will give you very powerful focus and intensity wich can be channeled into thoughts words or general intention amongst other things. And THAT will have effect but not the rage itself. If you learn how to use wrath you can indulge it get more and more attuned to it and channel the resulting momentum (in this case enormous momentum) to create whatever you want it doesnt have to be something bad. Its pretty much the same story for every emotion in the book^^ So to sum it all up if you are unable to overcome any emotion and you dont want to or cannot learn how to use it just resist to think and act on it and youre fine.
Yes. The new thought stuff is NOT a law. Gravity is a law. Commutative and associative laws of mathematics are laws. "Law of Attraction" is a mental construct. It makes things easier for people who practice Social Darwinisn and financial greed.
Yes, I had the same problem with it... I tried to control my life so hard, tried to manifest my dreams and when I didn't get it, I blamed myself. Can't explain how exhausting controlling every single thought was. Not to mention the frustration caused by the whole "You can manifest your dreams within 3 days!!! You can have everything in an instant!" 😅
This is accurate on many levels, especially for us who are spiritual teachers/healers/ Lightworkers. Do not resist. Allow yourself to be led by the Unknown.
@@ingegerdtheresesorrell338 The mind is not what we are, nor is the body, we are beyond the human and personal identity. To evolve it is helpful to trust the ultimate Truth. That which we don't know, thus the Unknown. Trusting the Ultimate, the Unknown Mystery, God, the Divine, etc allows us to become aware and separate from ego identification.
But the state of allowing it to allow both wanted and unwanted circumstances and trusting that it is in our highest good to get us to what we want. And this is not what happens in the LOA community. Once we experience seemingly negative and unwanted circumstances we are told that we attracted it because we are flawed in some way....example we have some deep inner unresolved work that needs to be done....and is this is exactly what never resonated with me.
Teal actually is absolutely on point. And since she is far ahead of the contemporary "spiritualists" (at the very least here) so she is prone to the negative remarks...for speaking truth of course. I intensely agree with her here.
It's her derogatory tone. Listen to her, like she says, a mirror. She is pissed at something and it is directly reflected in this video and the negative comments. But you know all about that. . .
I think people misunderstand the law of attraction. The law of attraction is not about receiving as then you are coming from a place of lack. Rather, it is about giving, for then you feel that you already have that which you desire. One is only able to create and manifest from a place in which they give, for creation is a process of giving. But, when you have reached the place of 'no-mind,' the desire to have or create is unimportant. You will move across the reality in which the law of attraction is applied.
@@williepete5547 This is why you never take new age cia shills at face value. Bruce Lee - Be like water Ignorant newager - "bruce lee says only dead fish go with the flow" You couldn't be me off and attributing a quote so absurd to a man so wise is shocking but also typical - the entire new age community is a cia op designed to increase ego
That’s why it’s called the path of least resistance. You either manifest the “thing” or manifest the experience that will help you become the person who can hold the thing.
You just successfully tied together and verbally articulated what I have been trying to make (make) sense for the last year. Thank you! Absolutely genius
After many years of spiritual work, and an awful lot of Abraham Hicks, suddenly, Teal arrives to make sense of it all and explain why my life is so awesome. Nice find TH-cam….thanks.
When this takes place we have a low ora we must allways keep are Spiritual guideline to what we see as are own reflection perpespective is a perpetual motion we aloud what comes in are out and that is the key to all the universe be aware of Love energey negativety positiveness and then reality gives Lenses Wich aloud too see all that was hidden therefore conquering all Laws of attraction with a vibration of moral humanity created by the choice of any who choose to do as they wish...figurlety speaking we are a advance being..Leon. Lendez
Tao is beyond description, tao is what teal calls source. By that extension, laws are invalid, as laws are something that are more fit to be described without exception. How do you describe something that is both totally chaotic and yet in perfect harmony? You don't.
Thank you for explaining this! I've been blamed so many times that I was sick because "I attracted it" that I really needed to hear this. There is something very wrong with victim blaming, anyway. I learn so much from your videos! So grateful that you share your wisdom. Greetings from Budapest!
This is a powerful message. You're behaviors and attitudes may attract the same but you can change that when you become conscious of that behavior. Through effort, practice and fearlessness breaking out of a learned cycle is possible.
I haven't watched Ask Teal for awhile. This is the most spontaneous and lighthearted I've ever seen her. Good message Teal. I left a LOA community 5 years ago because of some of the problems she mentions i.e. blaming and obsessing. Maybe a new Law will be in effect to give people a chance.
There are no laws other than what you are creating yourself. You set up whatever conditions for you own experience. Others go and call them laws, as if there were someone or something outside of you dictating to you, when there isn't. It is all YOU creating all of it - your reality.
***** I assume you're referring to my comment? If so, not just me, but Teal has actually explained in an interviews that the LOA - and such other laws that some of us take for granted - are nothing more than conditions that we set up for each universe, or reality that we are to experience, and that for every one of them, these conditions may be different. On top of that, i'll say this: it is you, the individual, creating all these so called laws, or conditions, for it is you creating your reality, after all.
Greg Williams One thing is for sure; you cannot decide for another person when we are each creating our own realities. For that to happen, however, all of you must be in agreement (in consciousness) with the choice being made.
Clearly some people aren't ready to accept this truth Teal! I love how you breakdown otherwise complicated concepts into clear examples we can apply. Thank you so much! I found myself blaming myself for all the unpleasant things in my life. Wow now I see instead of resistance I need to surrender into those experiences so I can get to the other side. Appreciate your wisdom. LOVE YOU! @Teal Swan
err wtf... that's always how's it's been taught. Teal is teaching nothing New. more like a Revision session that's all. Also I don't know what happened to our lil princess as she seems rather stired. you are right teal... but like I said you have just given a different perspective of the same Law. it's like saying 2 x 4 is 8, or 4 + 4 is 8 or 2x2x2 is 8. the same out come with different approaches.
+CatMingDu there is some truth. its a wierd science. it's kinda like the baddest kid gets all the attention sometimes we have to be bad for the universe to recognize her children need her love n care. she assumes her obedient children are okay and don't need any extra love.
LOA can actually push a person to self-examine thought patterns and beliefs, start the healing process, leave negative attachments and victim mentality and choose love over fear. Don’t demonize it. It can actually make a person work on their trauma and start healing. And can work better than any therapy. But again, it all depends what one chooses to do
What I ultimately got from this video is that practicing meditation, being still, and surrendering to the universe is completely invaluable in developing the understanding in which Teal describes in this video.
Yea I think meditation is a better name for it. Law of attraction is a scammy name and people think they can magically get rich off it but you need effort and action for results
WHAT YOU RESIST, PERSISTS. Nothing new in here. just live for the moment and be grateul what you have. After you have accepeted yourself and loved yourself enough that you feel grateful all the time than ask what you want and it will come to you naturally. Never force something through law of attraction to come to you. Peace!
@@iamme7830 not everything is in a bite size short video. Some people don't mind having conversations. Some of us also want to know who teal swan is. I enjoy her stories that relate to the general idea and theme of the videom
This is 100% spot-on. I was born into this world with certain gifts. My childhood was hard but as I grew up I learned that I could manifest/transcend/respond to situations far more easily than most other people. The place I started from and the place I ended up in my late twenties were a much, much farther distance than most people ever get to travel. My desire, then, became to help other people. To use those strengths to fight in the trenches against some horrible wrong. To have a community on behalf of which to fight. Well, be careful what you wish for! My soul gave it to me. I became horribly sick for nearly a decade. However, in the process I was able to do transformational work that helped thousands, perhaps millions of people in similar situations. I am now (mostly) healed but the pinnacle of that experience was months of hospitalization and excruciating, wake up at 4am screaming and amnesiac sort of pain. After not talking to or thinking about any higher power for 20 years, I said, “What did I do to deserve this?” And a voice answered back, “Don’t you remember? You asked for this.” And immediately, I saw that I did. I got exactly what I asked for, although it’s nothing like I thought it would look like. I’ve been having some conversations with my higher self about this because while yes, I can endure an incredible amount of pain, I’ve decided I’d like to develop sufficient awareness to learn from the middle and not the extremes. I don’t know if that decade of profound suffering was what I needed, but it was what I asked for. I did not suffer because I was a vibrational match for suffering. I suffered because I wanted to help ease the suffering of others. I think I wanted to understand alchemy. I got my wish. It’s time for different desires. A great many things that happened to me are caused by me, but a lot of isn’t about whether it’s “vibrational match.” It is all about the perspective of that which exists outside of biological time. Personally, I’m tired of the drama. I think my soul is, too. I don’t think it’s necessary anymore. When you realize you’ve done it all across eons of time. That you’ve been both the abuser and the abused, the villain and the hero, the tyrant and the martyr, surely, eventually we get to a point where we say, “enough.” No? You’re the real deal, Teal.
This insight really hit me…I, too, asked to be able to help others- emotionally. And it’s been a nine year ride of the most painful kind. I’m beat up and tore down. I now want to INSPIRE others by my healing and happiness! 😅 Love to anyone struggling who reads these words. You are not alone!
Unbelievable thank you. The way I see it is it takes a more sensitive and developed person to learn sooner and faster. We all are given small hints of pain, or ideas before they even become pain. If its not enough, then the pain gets more, and more and more until we finnaly pay attention and let go of the resistance to it. Its almost like we all have a destiny to join God in this life, but most of us resist it most of the time, until we have no other choice. If we just accept and choose sooner we don't need the extremes of pain anymore!
I noticed the law works best with unintentional and almost subconscious things we put out there like, “how am I gonna pay this bill that cost $100 more than I have?” You only give it minor focus on it in the background trying to figure out how to pay the bill and then, out of no where, you come up with exactly that amount, totally out of nowhere. But then you wish for the magical briefcase full of money, nothing ever happens. Or at best an opportunity comes along that helps you earn some of the money you were hoping to get. I think the difference is the subconscious is more connected to the vibration of the universe that the conscious mind because the conscious mind is full of distraction, fear and doubt. The subconscious mind is unfiltered and unblocked. It seems to me I can almost always attract the smaller less burdensome things like little bills I’m just a few dollars shy of paying, but the big (almost unrealistic) stuff we “hope or wish” for never seems to manifest itself at all or only partially manifests itself in a way you didn’t desire or expect it. Not sure if there is a way to attract the big things the same way as the little things? I suppose to a degree, the bigger things are not as easily manifested because if it were, practiced masters of LOA would win the lottery every week.
The law of attraction is: look for something red - red things jump into your field of view Expect opportunity to come your way - you see more opportunities Expect not to get opportunity - you're not going to see them when they come
Yes. The thing is most of what we think is subconscious, so sometimes I feel like I am powerless to create what I want, because what I really think is in resistance to what I want to happen. And I have an underlying belief that things will not work out for me, and I haven't mamaged to change my belief yet.
I cannot express adequately enough how grateful I am for this video. I watched it 4 years ago and didn't really get it. 2 years ago and it was a bit clearer. And today... Thank you so much.
Too many ignorant people in the comments section. Teal Swan believes in the law of attraction, she's just saying that people use the law of attraction to blame people such as cancer victims, rape victims, and abuse victims. People sometimes instead blame others instead of showing compassion for people in bad/negative situation. Not everything bad that happens is law of attraction. And people shouldn't shame and guilt people in bad situations because not everyone knows, or believes, in the law of attraction. It could be a negative karmic contract at work, or a hard lesson the person has to learn. It doesn't mean it's the person's fault they are suffering, or doing something wrong.
It feels like rationalization for a major hole in this system of belief. If something is a universal principle, it doesn't seem to me to work in some instances and not in others, by definition it wouldn't be universal. Does the LOA create cancer in children or not?
This is the best explanation of LOA/reality that I've seen. I've always said the reflection is deeper than your thoughts. Thank you for the in depth and comprehensive explanation. This came at perfect timing!
I literally sat here in my car while getting gas and said “OHHHHHHHHHHH!!!” I’m sure people looked at me like I had three eyes, lol! This epiphany is so liberating!!
i'm not spiritual or enlightened but i believe that this law of attraction become a point of focus too much on self and becomes an endless circle of healing and fixing yourself because you must achieve vibrational control and probably the most important thing is that we start to take everything waaay to seriously Stop judging everything and everyone (even yourself) and trying to fix them,allow yourself to relax so that you can actually see the endless opportunities and love that life is always trying to give you and that you can't see because you think you know better. Teal is changing to a more intuition type of person instead of overthinking a situation which is good :)
Absolutely. BTW- TIME is a karma-holder. Leaving THE NOW and reflecting about the future or the past creates/reinforces dark emotion that can afflict and weigh down your consciousness fields. Of course, we have this capability and its not ALL BAD. - however, leaving the NOW is a breeding ground for emotional baggage. Paradoxically, though, it is difficult to stay in the now when you have persistent dark thought forms plaguing your being in which case one should then confront them. PEACE ;)
I agree. It seems like too many of us are in our heads and trying to control everything. If only we would let go and let our heart lead us. It makes life so much easier.
I am so grateful for your presence in this world, Teal. You just so thoroughly articulated my current understanding of the law of attraction and I am grateful that you shared it with the world. 🙏🏼
This is so good. I have totally been in that place where I have been shaming myself or feeling bad about attracting in things I "don't want" and this is such a relief to realize that if I accept what is as a potentially perfect match for what I want on a higher spiritual level. So cool!! - sorry about the stress of the court cases and all the stuff you have gone through, but so glad you are continuing your work through it :)
Teal Swan is amazing. I love watching her videos and how she explains everything in such a depth. Her version of the law of attraction, makes way more sense then most books or movies can explain. We are not to blame for everything that has manifested, some things we cannot prevent from happening..its life! to blame ourselves and beat ourselves up for what has happened can only send out more negative frequencies and make us go crazy trying to figure out what is wrong with us. We need to accept and not resist each situation in our lives and take the good from it so that you can manifest all the good that is to come from it in the end. "whatever you resist....persists".
People are all different, and will have different perspectives and perceptions. I agree with Teal. Ever since I began my journey I learned about the LOA and felt a lot of shame and guilt for having attracted many things into my life that I didn't want. I think that what Teal is saying is not that the law doesn't work, or that it's stupid, is only that we take it to mean something that it isn't, almost like we all have the "basis" of the law and treat it like the highest truth, when is more complicated than that and it can go in many directions depending on the person. We are all different, and we all have a different purpose, and no matter what we do that purpose will always be there and situations will happen so we fullfill it, even if they are situations we don't want. It is within us, that's the karma she is refering to. Of course we all want to live in absolute peace, and with the LOA we are "taught" or we feel like the only way to do it is to get ourselves to be in absolute bliss and be absolutely perfect with our thoughts and emotions all the time to experience that, and that if we are not feeling or manifesting what we want there is something wrong with us that needs inmediate change. But the thing is, we came to this earth to expand our souls, to learn and grow, and we don't just learn from being "perfect" all the time, living in only one side of the spectrum, the positive. We must experience both to find a balance. That balance is key to our journey, and will help us acheive what we desire and truly want, and is also good for us. That balance is met with letting go of shame, guilt, resistance, and tuning into the flow of life. With the LOA sometimes we feel like we must tune into a higher vibration to be happy, when in reality that vibration is the flow of life itself, with its good and bad, and we must flow with it, letting go of that obsesive control the law "teaches" us. I've found that in order to achieve that is by self love. When we love ourselves we forgive, we let go, we are free. And love is, in my opinion, the most powerful emotion in the universe.
I agree with that completely. That last sentence about self love is what I have been learning. Self love seems to be the key to everything for me at the moment.
Your higherself knows what you(same as higherself) want, it is directing you to your purpose. No right or wrong to what is happening. Nothing can be changed by the means of resistance, it can only be in the way of getting what is wanted.... so easy but so not easy
WOW, Teal !! I've been dealing with this "Law of Attraction" stuff for 35 years, give or take, in a dozen different ways. You are the first I've discovered that has the deeper understanding to explain what it really is and explains so much that I was on the edge of understanding myself -- totally brilliant!! I've been intuitively very close but never found a way to conceptualise it as well as you have here -- very well done, dear lady!!! Impressive indeed.
You have just nailed it - the whole ‘blame’ game is so rife and destructive & arrogant & a dead end - it reminds me of when people try to cheer up someone in a depression - not helpful
its works so well for me .the law of attraction changed my life from 1-to 7. its been just 3 months now im so happy i believin it. bless the univers . bless u all
bliss22:22 You’ve been at this for 12 years?!! How do you survive??!! Omg I started studying this two and a half years ago; and at first, it was a rough go. Then it got real good, then I crashed like crazy; and now I’m still trying to recover! How do you do it????
@@hofhofandaway haha I live and breathe it daily. Sorry to hear that! What happened?? I actually find it surprising that people have a negative view on it. My go-to is Abraham-hicks . I listen to TH-cam audio almost daily. Maybe their approach just resonates with me and fits my personality perfectly. For me LOA was the best news I'd ever heard because it answered my most frustrating questions about life. It took a weight off my shoulders; it gave me permission to be happy "just because". It's allowed me to relax about what my future holds (coz I know how it works!); It's given me direction and a sense of ease and confidence about life. It's lifted that dark, foreboding cloud that constantly hung over me pre-LOA. I could go on! Yes, it can be 3 steps forward, one step back at times but that's what it's about..
When you mention the experience of love is exactly what i have been going through for the past 2 years. Hearing you explain this opens up my eyes soo much about it. Im glad i found your channel.
The healing you done brought you the understanding from the universe that you were meant to be in that court case so it worked out through law of attraction The law of attraction is accepting the situation your in and allowing you to change it
When things do not work for me all i do is take a break from the thoughts and I just go with flow so that everything falls in place ....I just leave everything
YEEESSS!! GODDESS! I knew there was a reason why I felt overwhelmed listening to a certain channeled speaker whose topic always is Law of Attraction!! There was always a missing piece to that puzzle, for me.
Esther (I assume you are referring to Esther [Abraham] Hicks) always leaves out a few key points. Seems like this is possibly intentional, so you will watch her other videos to complete the puzzle. The simple answer for LOA is: be positive, visualize what you want, feel the excitement from having it, put the feeling out to the universe that you already have it, and let the idea go... Then the universe will deliver (and usually not how you imagined [but 10x better]) Live in Love
@Nothing Nobody lmao u r probably talking about Esther Hicks... her teachings can be misleading for like 90% of the people, it can even turn dangerous, which is quite unfortunate
@@infinitenothingness Abraham-Hicks has the most extensive catalogue of information about the LOA the world has ever seen including 6+ full length books, always gives extensive answers to questions, but they always "leave out a few key points"? And then you go on to give a "simple answer for LOA"?
this is so true...i have already experienced that! however in my case i asked for rain but got a storm together with it...what should i do to get only the specific thing that i want? nothing more and nothing less?
Totally agree with this. My ex-wife wanted to bring peace into her life, so she changed her name to Shanti. After that, her life was utter chaos. Now that we are no longer together, the chaos has also left me.
This is why I love her. Although it might still wind up to the same conclusion but she always highlight how we can still be kind to ourselves during the process. Thank you Teal
I really needed to hear this. I stumbled upon your video about over using marijuana for presence after kind of feeling sick of relying on it and have stopped using it. I’ve been struggling the last few months after meeting someone who I feel was my twin flame, and I just couldn’t believe how it happened. I know I’ve gone through a lot of growth because of it and I didn’t even realize how much shadow work I needed to do, but I’m still struggling with the pain of separation and wishing we could be together. I know I need to surrender to my highest calling but my brain kept overanalyzing it. I’ve been meditating more and more, it’s been one of the hardest things I’ve been through in awhile but I know I need time to heal. Thank you ❤️
I see it this way: everything that happens to us is supposed to help us grow and evolve. There are no mistakes and whatever is happening to us is happening for a good reason. Thank you for your video, Teal. Your words have reassured my perspective.
What is a ‘mistake’? And what is a ‘good’ reason? Unrelated: I think things just happen and we learn to attach meanings to it. Not for better or for worse, but because we have a brain, and the goal is to just experience them (maybe forgive them) Not exactly label them as good or bad
I've been conscious about the LOA for years, but I can see your point. But the fact is that you cannot channel everything in your life. Some things just need to happen on a spiritual level, one can't fully heal everything. We need to esperience contrast.
Teal, I know this is an older video, but if you happen to see this, I want you to know the significant impact this video had on me. My life has seemingly been turned upside down (some things good, some things bad [as I deem lol]), but I always try my hardest to be patient to see the reason behind why these things happen. I have been experiencing severe grief recently, and have been struggling with impulsive thoughts revolving around the facade of control... so, rumination. The girl I was set to propose to up and left my life leaving me with nothing more than a few texts claiming she felt like a burden in my life, and this was right when I finally got my dream job after months of working for us to have a better life. As someone who has been experiencing this grief, and whom has ADHD, I can say that these videos have helped me in a multitude of ways of which nothing else has. This video brought me to tears, and they were tears of joy. From your videos, I truly feel that I am becoming a better man every day, and, for the first time in quite a while, I am excited for the what the future has in store for me. Whether it is my next relationship, my career, or even the possibility of being a better parent when the time comes, I have been absorbing your teachings and can say that I have been reunited with my path towards some essence of enlightenment. You have strengthened my faith, not only in God, and the universe, but in myself, as well. I will forever be grateful for finding you, and truly want to pay shows my respect and gratitude.
You, darling, are a friggin genius and I'm so, SO glad I came across your channel. Instant sub. Recommended you to friends and everyone I knew would actually understand your perspective of the world. I definitely learn so, SO much from your guiding words. I've had a friend with whom I did a shamanic hypnosis and basically travelled through my past lives and such. At that moment having had a multidimensional intersection of my past selves with my current incarnation (or the belief thereof and that this is possible to have or able to make visible to your consciousness) helped me to grasp certain unexplainable behaviours. Now, and I don't know when this happened, I just had the feeling that this is not true. That's not how I want to reduce myself to. I can't put the blame on me for all of the seemingly bad things that happened, for all the uncomfortable situations. Thanks to your video I now know that I've been leaving out the arts of metriopathy, the search for balancing your Selves into alignment by just trusting the process of The Now to occur to you and observe what it actually tries to teach you. I've been dragged (or rather, I needed to be dragged) into this path of overly exerted, almost cult-like spirituality to realise what truly works for me. I'm still on the path of finding my way of living, but instead of blaming myself for every step I take towards it I start to enjoy it. And you just helped me realise how great it can be to accept it. Thank you so much, Teal Swan, thank you. I wish you the best of life in all you do. With love Steph 🙏
That's how to do it lol! It releases resistance, that's the key;) Sometimes focusing on it too much makes you too aware of the lack of it and hence you attract more lack of it until you focus on other things.
IT IS, but how you FEEL while visualizing is what matters...if you were angry or feeling down for some reason and then started visualizing but still not feeling completely "healed" and clean from those emotions, you're not getting what you're visualizing..you get what you feel...visualizing needs to be done properly
My journey has been learning to align what I (lower self) want for my life with what my soul (higher self) wants for my life. And that has made all the difference.
First off I adore Ester Hicks. I'm starting to think ester's clipped/short videos on TH-cam feel like the mom who kind of skips over some details because she doesn't want to overwhelm you right off the bat. (Which I appreciate.) But Teal is more like the big sister who tells you the whole truth and then you're like, "OHHHHHH!!!" Thanks for helping me fill in some blanks, Teal. I'm not going to drive myself nuts anymore. ❤️
This is perfect. I’ve followed Abraham for the last few years and a lot of times it made me feel worse. Now that I’m integrating Teal with Abraham, it’s all falling into place
This is perfect. When you love and appreciate your bad days, just as much as your good days, you know you are on the right path... I feel what everyone calls "bad experiences" as the experiences attracted to me that draw out the ego and give the opportunity for my higher self to shine. I've noticed through this this new understanding, my karma wheel has turned into a karma spiral. This understanding is one of the maps to our ascention, as there are many ways up the mountain.
i always tell myself when things so bad: i cant control the bad stuff but i can control the good stuff. it helps me to not be too engrossed when things go bad
I'm not much into this kind of stuff anymore, because I tend to think the "origin" of these kind of "laws" is misunderstood, but I really like and agree with this lady's take on the "Law of Attraction." I don't know if there is a "Higher Self" or just a subconscious, but sometimes wiser, inner self. But I have noticed we tend to get what we dwell on. especially if we dwell on something in fear or resentment. When I was in a VA homeless shelter in White City, they had a program called the Experiential Learning Program, which I participated in. I found the most profound teaching in that course was, "It is what it is." In fact, it was the motto of the course. This did not mean that we have to settle for what is, but it means that, essentially, we are dealt a set of circumstances and it's a waste of time to lament that it shouldn't be this way or that it's not fair in some way. We accept that this is our circumstance and then figure out how we are going to react to it. It may not be our fault, but it is now OUR responsibility. This seems to coincide nicely with what Ms. Swan it telling us in this video. I consider myself an atheist that still subscribes to a "spiritual" philosophy. There is much we do not understand about our Universe but that shouldn't stop us from exploring all available avenues of learning. I doubt there is a universal "agenda" to expand our consciousness, but much of what goes on in our lives does offer us the opportunity to do just that.
My freedom lives inside of me. It isnt man made. And no thanks on prison time anywhere. My actions dont result in prison time moron! Think about that! For fucksake your intelligence is astounding!
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+nana delamer, yes but you have to work toward bringing those desires to fruition too. You cant just sit down and wait for your desires to fall in your lap, is my opinion...
Amor Fati. I embrace all that happens to me as opportunities to grow. If we see all opportunities as positive, we can assume our highest vibration. We are already perfect, family!
Imagine you are the only one on the planet. One day you fall asleep and dream another has appeared on the planet. In ignorance of not knowing this other's intention, you are cautious and put up a defense just in case. One day you find this person starting to take your stuff and you confront them and a fight breaks out. You decide you need a weapon and a wall to keep this person out of your stuff in the future. One day you notice there are somehow two of them now, and in fear, you try to reinforce your walls more and sharpen your weapon and set out to find another ally to help you. And this dream goes on for millions of years until there are billions of you on the planet creating various civilizations, secret governments, religion and chemicalization all based on that initial separate you at the beginning of the dream. And then you wake up, and realize that all of those people were just you. And in the insane dream, you were attacking yourself and trying to make one aspect of yourself a separate entity that was independent and had a life of it's own apart from the rest of yourself all around you. That is this dream we are playing on repeat in every moment. But we won't wake up until we stop trying to give this one aspect or shadow of ourselves, that we think is the totality of us, an independent reality from the rest of us. There is only oneness, duality is a dream. And the reflections we see, or the Law of Attraction, is our Higher Self not trying to show us good or bad, or right or wrong, beneficial or not, for those concepts aren't real for they imply a polarity or opposites, which is impossible in oneness. It is trying to show us that the multiplicity we "believe" we are observing is an illusion. And until we destroy the belief in that aspect as independent and real, on a journey of evolution towards something real in the dream, with all it's beliefs in right or wrong, the dream will drone on...The only way out is to wake up.
Yes yes yes. In my experience, I always try to maintain neutrality in a situation, and ask, "What is the lesson?" The answer can be surprisingly helpful.
Lol to all the salty people saying that Teal is wrong. You didnt listen because you were so defensive. She never said LOA doesnt exist. She is giving another approach and talking about a positive point of view about negative situations in life. I dont see any negativity in her video and any contradiction of what LOA is. If you think this video is negative, probably your reality is negative. You are attracting this "negative" video to your life because your frecuency connected with this haha People need to chill... you are awesome Teal! 💞
Dear Teal, the best explanation I have seen regarding law of attraction is similar to what you are saying but simpler. It's simple magnetism. Positive attracts negative. Once we understand this we can use our wisdom to recognize that the negativity is just to help us with relativity. I learned this from Neil Donald Walsh and it was an awesome aha moment!
There is a Taoist story of an old farmer who had worked his crops for many years. One day his horse ran away. Upon hearing the news, his neighbors came to visit. "Such bad luck," they said sympathetically. "Maybe," the farmer replied. The next morning the horse returned, bringing with it three other wild horses. "How wonderful," the neighbors exclaimed. "Maybe," replied the old man. The following day, his son tried to ride one of the untamed horses, was thrown, and broke his leg. The neighbors again came to offer their sympathy on his misfortune. "Maybe," answered the farmer. The day after, military officials came to the village to draft young men into the army. Seeing that the son's leg was broken, they passed him by. The neighbors congratulated the farmer on how well things had turned out. "Maybe," said the farmer
@@lesleyhubble4969 He was not judgemental,he did not label things because he understand that "worrying" being "optimist" or "pessimist" as no point because things are just as they are you can only accept them and go with the flow !
@@renaudlevasseur8327 this is the hardest to do isn't it. Just going with the flow and not judging anything or trying to label. I'm not sure how to do this
@@dahliasaven yeah actually I believe that labelling isn't a bad thing we need to label to make sens of the world and communicate with each other. But it's good not to put a harsh moral label, staying flexible because sometimes something bad for us can have a good outcome for someone else (ex: loosing a race) and maybe this exact same thing will turn out to be good in the long run (going out to change your mind and meeting the love of your life). I think it's not helpful to ignore what we are experiencing, feelings, sensatiosns... but not to hold it in, and keep having faith and moving forward. If a man is beating is wife (because he drink to handle is trauma and take it out on others) it's good for the wife to label his behaviour as bad and leave. So I think it's good to be flexible and not to hold on a firm belief on things, and always look at the bigger picture (sometime it takes time to see it.) Killing someone for pleasure is bad, but if it is self defense it isn't, it is the context that matter to define if something is good or bad. You go with the flow of what you canot control but keep controling what it is that you can (mostly the way you react, what you do, learn..)
The group I'm in is nothing like you you say it is. We dont blame ourselves nor others for any manifestation whatsoever but support and give guidens to grow. Lovingly. Spirits are uplifted. Downward spiral, no way. It's your vision of it your view. My experience is totally different.
I get the concept of attraction, but magnets don't work like that. Positive charges do not and will not, ever, attract other positive charges. Therefore, like doesn't attract like.
Agreed. Another explanation and even a new terminology would be helpful, such as moving toward what you focus upon, much like traveling somewhere, like from point A to point B. She lost me with the magnet comparison
Thank you for explaining it so clearly, and reminding me of the things I keep forgeting. There is a fine balance between not trying enough and trying too hard.
When i was a kid All i wanted was to be a ballerina I started at age 4, My family wasn't interested in my dancing, but that didn't stop me, I practised every spare min of every day, I dreamt about dancing, and every year when we had concerts I received the solo roles. I finally was given a big bunch of flowers & a free scholarship ( i had no idea what this meant I never forgot that word) to the Adelaide ballet company at age 12, but because my parents were acting very selfish It was thrown out nobody even noticed it, Instead I was dragged away to another town & kicked out & placed in juvenile detention. I definitely didn't attract that, I wanted to be a dancer. All I've learnt in my 60yrs is if you enjoy doing what your doing, everything falls in place.
I'm so sorry that happened to you. My family didn't support my dreams either and I wound up making bad life choices in my twenties and became suicidal in my mid thirties. I've been making up for a lot since then and found happiness even when I was working poor. ✌️
My parents took me out of acting for a play when I was given a main role. Their excuse? One dollar was too expensive per week....my younger brother gets given hundreds of dollars just because. I was 17 and at age 29 I used the law of attraction...instead my house burnt down just before quarantine and I have no home. I feel like giving up on life.
Oh look at that a chick making a comment on a TH-cam video saying LOA works. Let me guess you manifested your dream husband who has a lot of money? It wasn’t the law of attraction it was probably your good looks lol
I think the issue with the LOA is most people think that it's supposed to bring them the things they "want" where like is said in the video it brings to you the things that "you are" and that you are ready to receive.
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thats why i always say "EVERYTHING IS ALWAYS WORKING OUT FOR MY HIGHEST GOOD"
I don't know who needs to read this but we are all going through tough and difficult times, Don't give up. You are here for a reason. You matter. Just don't give up whatever you're going through. I love you.
You put the “gold” in Goldman
@@i_like_the_7 Thank you so much ❤❤❤❤❤
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Thank you!!
In other words, stay curious and open minded, keep your judgments in check and remember that things are happening for you not to you. Self blame is a dysfunctional response. True responsibility is never about fault finding.
Excellent statements
Wise words.
No response is dysfunctional; only reasonable based on experiences. Responses don't go away just by "keeping them in check". It's like everyone here listened to Teal talk but didn't hear her.
Thank you Julie Adams! I needed to hear (actually...see) those words. Thank you much!
Well said(2 years later).
This lady is saving my life one video at a time
Same here!
It’s exactly like this. When I started with the law of attraction things spiraled with challenges. I manifested on demand amazing things. But also, the opposite. You are right, I asked for total inner peace and freedom. How does one get that? Through non attachment. And so I attracted heartbreak, and debt that came out of nowhere. Why? To realize I don’t need anything to be at peace and feel freedom, so that I wouldn’t attach myself to people or things. To know that no matter what is happening outside of myself, I will remain at ease. It’s quite beautiful really, extremely hard but, beautiful. One thing I have learned is to see through the “bad” events right away that “there is some form of lesson and reason I attracted this, let’s figure it out and I will come out on the other side with a more persistent higher vibration” 💜🌸✨
well said,
and we have to regulate our thinking through experiencing hardships with positive attitude or we feel more pain. "I recommend the Power Of Positive Thinking by Norman Peal".
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This actually made sense to me. This last year and a half has been eye opening to me, I was homeless for 4 months and kept wondering how I got to that point. In the last 6 years my life has been a little topsy-turvy and I've kept thinking, " what am I doing wrong"! I've tried to figure out my purpose and still don't know what it is. I will be 59 next month and I'm still learning and growing everyday. I want to thank you for your help. Love and light!
I love this. The Bible says to “count it all joy” when you face adversity. Embrace your challenges because you need them to make you strong. Our challenges are the doorways to our destiny… if we embrace them fully.
Deepest gratitude to you Teal for rewiring my brain with these healthy thought patterns. I can feel them settling in like seeds and I’m growing more neural pathways that lead me there instead of the old places.
I fell into depression again trying to manifest good stuff in my life 😂, im back...
Luriley Loo bruh samee🤮
You all are simply not genuine about it that is why you are set back. Do you even acknowledge failure as your teacher? Do you lack attitude during your highs and lows? Are you even aware of the other laws of the universe? Watch Conor Mcgregor and xxxtentacion, Arron Doughty, read some books then revaluate your life. Your purpose or your why seems not big enough which is misfortunate for you.
@Grandma Fury you all sensitive , he can say whatever he wants . I found good info in his comment saying you aren't interested enough to see bigger and deeper picture that will make you realize how it works and inspire you .
The fact that 2 people liked your comment and Zero his says all where this chat in going , I would accept any advice possible if I really wanted something in that direction .
You shouldn't be talking about a serious problem that way. I have had depression and I find that offensive and nonsensical
Luriley Loo hahhaa me too
In my experience the law of attraction is actually us creating our lives with our thoughts and actions. The problem comes when people are not aware of their own thoughts and or let their emotions dictate their thoughts. Most of us are strictly running on reactive mode which traps us into o cycle of the past recurring
Absolutely Spot On Dale x
What about if your emotion is too strong and you are too weak to overcome it
Emotions are irrelevant.
They are like a virus....if you indulge any one emotion youll get more of it. But thats the end of it they dont create anything else inside your world other than more of themself.
People only think that emotions have something to do with reality is because strong emotions will strongly motivate you to think and act a certain way. And that will impact your world.
Rage or wrath for instance will give you very powerful focus and intensity wich can be channeled into thoughts words or general intention amongst other things.
And THAT will have effect but not the rage itself. If you learn how to use wrath you can indulge it get more and more attuned to it and channel the resulting momentum (in this case enormous momentum) to create whatever you want it doesnt have to be something bad.
Its pretty much the same story for every emotion in the book^^
So to sum it all up if you are unable to overcome any emotion and you dont want to or cannot learn how to use it just resist to think and act on it and youre fine.
So we're suppose to feel neutral about most things, okay y'all wannabe E.T's. What weirdo doesn't feel? How dumb.
Totally makes sense!
I got rid of all those LOA books I had and it's the best thing I did for myself. No more self blame.
niftydom thanks
Yes. The new thought stuff is NOT a law. Gravity is a law. Commutative and associative laws of mathematics are laws.
"Law of Attraction" is a mental construct.
It makes things easier for people who practice Social Darwinisn and financial greed.
I did the same thing. Such garbage.
Why get rid of them when you can pass them along? And you go on to something else. Life is all about growing
why should you pass over to someone else something you consider pure crap and are happy to have eventually recognized as a waste of time and energy?
Yes, I had the same problem with it... I tried to control my life so hard, tried to manifest my dreams and when I didn't get it, I blamed myself. Can't explain how exhausting controlling every single thought was. Not to mention the frustration caused by the whole "You can manifest your dreams within 3 days!!! You can have everything in an instant!" 😅
In a weird way, this feels like one must take action without expectation of results.
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That's what Krishna says
@@knight207 It is!
Karma
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This is accurate on many levels, especially for us who are spiritual teachers/healers/ Lightworkers. Do not resist. Allow yourself to be led by the Unknown.
Shut up
Charlie Robles why do you say that 🤔😒
@@ingegerdtheresesorrell338 why do i say what?
@@ingegerdtheresesorrell338 The mind is not what we are, nor is the body, we are beyond the human and personal identity. To evolve it is helpful to trust the ultimate Truth. That which we don't know, thus the Unknown. Trusting the Ultimate, the Unknown Mystery, God, the Divine, etc
allows us to become aware and separate from ego identification.
But the state of allowing it to allow both wanted and unwanted circumstances and trusting that it is in our highest good to get us to what we want. And this is not what happens in the LOA community. Once we experience seemingly negative and unwanted circumstances we are told that we attracted it because we are flawed in some way....example we have some deep inner unresolved work that needs to be done....and is this is exactly what never resonated with me.
Teal actually is absolutely on point. And since she is far ahead of the contemporary "spiritualists" (at the very least here) so she is prone to the negative remarks...for speaking truth of course.
I intensely agree with her here.
Siobhan Rennie Abraham hicks is creepy and possibly demonic
no shes not....shes just really good at marketing spiritual talk
It's her derogatory tone. Listen to her, like she says, a mirror. She is pissed at something and it is directly reflected in this video and the negative comments. But you know all about that. . .
Sure, you can agree with her. But not to say it is the absolute truth.
WOW!!! Teal's 20 minute video just saved me lots of money on therapy! One of the most incredible "Aha" moments EVER! Thank you so much, Teal! 💖🙏🏻
You deserve a standing ovation for this video! Thanks
I think people misunderstand the law of attraction. The law of attraction is not about receiving as then you are coming from a place of lack. Rather, it is about giving, for then you feel that you already have that which you desire. One is only able to create and manifest from a place in which they give, for creation is a process of giving. But, when you have reached the place of 'no-mind,' the desire to have or create is unimportant. You will move across the reality in which the law of attraction is applied.
Stop blaming. Stop Thinking.Start loving. Start going with the flow!
" only dead fish go with the flow"...Bruce Lee
Not if the flow is the wrong way
@@milzijex7340 actually that's the point...the water will carry a dead fish with it wherever it goes even if it's the "wrong way"
@@williepete5547 This is why you never take new age cia shills at face value.
Bruce Lee - Be like water
Ignorant newager - "bruce lee says only dead fish go with the flow"
You couldn't be me off and attributing a quote so absurd to a man so wise is shocking but also typical - the entire new age community is a cia op designed to increase ego
That’s why it’s called the path of least resistance. You either manifest the “thing” or manifest the experience that will help you become the person who can hold the thing.
You just successfully tied together and verbally articulated what I have been trying to make (make) sense for the last year. Thank you! Absolutely genius
After many years of spiritual work, and an awful lot of Abraham Hicks, suddenly, Teal arrives to make sense of it all and explain why my life is so awesome. Nice find TH-cam….thanks.
Something about the law of attraction never resonated with me. This makes things so clear, thank you.
Les I feel the exact same way. Glad to hear I'm not alone.
When this takes place we have a low ora we must allways keep are Spiritual guideline to what we see as are own reflection perpespective is a perpetual motion we aloud what comes in are out and that is the key to all the universe be aware of Love energey negativety positiveness and then reality gives Lenses Wich aloud too see all that was hidden therefore conquering all Laws of attraction with a vibration of moral humanity created by the choice of any who choose to do as they wish...figurlety speaking we are a advance being..Leon. Lendez
Tao is beyond description, tao is what teal calls source. By that extension, laws are invalid, as laws are something that are more fit to be described without exception. How do you describe something that is both totally chaotic and yet in perfect harmony? You don't.
Sweetandfragile Because it’s bs there is no secret
Damn
I feel like this is real spirituality. She knows what she's talking about not just someone from witch tik tok
yeah man this is TEAL SWAN she is OG onto it as like so onto it so so onto it.
yup, this is what spirituality is about. welcome :)
Teal is one of the reason I started my own channel and posting my own videos. Thank you for the inspiration and thank you for posting this! Namaste!
Thank you for explaining this! I've been blamed so many times that I was sick because "I attracted it" that I really needed to hear this. There is something very wrong with victim blaming, anyway. I learn so much from your videos! So grateful that you share your wisdom. Greetings from Budapest!
exactly what I needed to hear, became very discouraged like I was doing everything wrong. This is such a healthier way to look at this.
same!!!
This is a powerful message. You're behaviors and attitudes may attract the same but you can change that when you become conscious of that behavior. Through effort, practice and fearlessness breaking out of a learned cycle is possible.
I haven't watched Ask Teal for awhile. This is the most spontaneous and lighthearted I've ever seen her. Good message Teal.
I left a LOA community 5 years ago because of some of the problems she mentions i.e. blaming and obsessing. Maybe a new Law will be in effect to give people a chance.
There are no laws other than what you are creating yourself. You set up whatever conditions for you own experience. Others go and call them laws, as if there were someone or something outside of you dictating to you, when there isn't. It is all YOU creating all of it - your reality.
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***** I assume you're referring to my comment? If so, not just me, but Teal has actually explained in an interviews that the LOA - and such other laws that some of us take for granted - are nothing more than conditions that we set up for each universe, or reality that we are to experience, and that for every one of them, these conditions may be different. On top of that, i'll say this: it is you, the individual, creating all these so called laws, or conditions, for it is you creating your reality, after all.
So what if two people want opposite things to happen to someone else? What decides who "wins" if none of the three are a vibrational match?
Greg Williams One thing is for sure; you cannot decide for another person when we are each creating our own realities.
For that to happen, however, all of you must be in agreement (in consciousness) with the choice being made.
Brilliant Teal, thank you!! To quote your Instagram: “A diamond is just a lump of coal that dealt well under pressure.”
Clearly some people aren't ready to accept this truth Teal! I love how you breakdown otherwise complicated concepts into clear examples we can apply. Thank you so much! I found myself blaming myself for all the unpleasant things in my life. Wow now I see instead of resistance I need to surrender into those experiences so I can get to the other side. Appreciate your wisdom. LOVE YOU! @Teal Swan
err wtf... that's always how's it's been taught. Teal is teaching nothing New. more like a Revision session that's all. Also I don't know what happened to our lil princess as she seems rather stired. you are right teal... but like I said you have just given a different perspective of the same Law. it's like saying 2 x 4 is 8, or 4 + 4 is 8 or 2x2x2 is 8. the same out come with different approaches.
+CatMingDu there is some truth. its a wierd science. it's kinda like the baddest kid gets all the attention sometimes we have to be bad for the universe to recognize her children need her love n care. she assumes her obedient children are okay and don't need any extra love.
True KS...Ppl who were killed in a massacre early Sunday at a gay club in Orlando aren't attracted that on them.
LOA can actually push a person to self-examine thought patterns and beliefs, start the healing process, leave negative attachments and victim mentality and choose love over fear. Don’t demonize it. It can actually make a person work on their trauma and start healing. And can work better than any therapy. But again, it all depends what one chooses to do
What I ultimately got from this video is that practicing meditation, being still, and surrendering to the universe is completely invaluable in developing the understanding in which Teal describes in this video.
I agree with Teal's words. I was saying that by practicing meditation one can experience and realize what she's saying for themselves.
Yea I think meditation is a better name for it. Law of attraction is a scammy name and people think they can magically get rich off it but you need effort and action for results
WHAT YOU RESIST, PERSISTS. Nothing new in here. just live for the moment and be grateul what you have. After you have accepeted yourself and loved yourself enough that you feel grateful all the time than ask what you want and it will come to you naturally. Never force something through law of attraction to come to you. Peace!
exactly, isn't really the crux of her unnecessarily over complicated message in this video? That's how I took it
@@iamme7830 girls are complicated, my friend
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Love what you said.
@@iamme7830 not everything is in a bite size short video. Some people don't mind having conversations. Some of us also want to know who teal swan is. I enjoy her stories that relate to the general idea and theme of the videom
Attraction of trauma over and over, so true. Been there and seem to be stuck in it.
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This is 100% spot-on. I was born into this world with certain gifts. My childhood was hard but as I grew up I learned that I could manifest/transcend/respond to situations far more easily than most other people. The place I started from and the place I ended up in my late twenties were a much, much farther distance than most people ever get to travel. My desire, then, became to help other people. To use those strengths to fight in the trenches against some horrible wrong. To have a community on behalf of which to fight. Well, be careful what you wish for! My soul gave it to me. I became horribly sick for nearly a decade. However, in the process I was able to do transformational work that helped thousands, perhaps millions of people in similar situations. I am now (mostly) healed but the pinnacle of that experience was months of hospitalization and excruciating, wake up at 4am screaming and amnesiac sort of pain. After not talking to or thinking about any higher power for 20 years, I said, “What did I do to deserve this?” And a voice answered back, “Don’t you remember? You asked for this.” And immediately, I saw that I did. I got exactly what I asked for, although it’s nothing like I thought it would look like.
I’ve been having some conversations with my higher self about this because while yes, I can endure an incredible amount of pain, I’ve decided I’d like to develop sufficient awareness to learn from the middle and not the extremes. I don’t know if that decade of profound suffering was what I needed, but it was what I asked for. I did not suffer because I was a vibrational match for suffering. I suffered because I wanted to help ease the suffering of others. I think I wanted to understand alchemy. I got my wish. It’s time for different desires.
A great many things that happened to me are caused by me, but a lot of isn’t about whether it’s “vibrational match.” It is all about the perspective of that which exists outside of biological time. Personally, I’m tired of the drama. I think my soul is, too. I don’t think it’s necessary anymore. When you realize you’ve done it all across eons of time. That you’ve been both the abuser and the abused, the villain and the hero, the tyrant and the martyr, surely, eventually we get to a point where we say, “enough.” No?
You’re the real deal, Teal.
What illness did you have fybromyalgia? Great you got better
This insight really hit me…I, too, asked to be able to help others- emotionally. And it’s been a nine year ride of the most painful kind. I’m beat up and tore down. I now want to INSPIRE others by my healing and happiness! 😅 Love to anyone struggling who reads these words. You are not alone!
Beautiful priceless testimony. Thank you so much. 🙏🏻
Unbelievable thank you. The way I see it is it takes a more sensitive and developed person to learn sooner and faster. We all are given small hints of pain, or ideas before they even become pain. If its not enough, then the pain gets more, and more and more until we finnaly pay attention and let go of the resistance to it. Its almost like we all have a destiny to join God in this life, but most of us resist it most of the time, until we have no other choice. If we just accept and choose sooner we don't need the extremes of pain anymore!
This made me feel a thousand times better. Thank you Teal.
I noticed the law works best with unintentional and almost subconscious things we put out there like, “how am I gonna pay this bill that cost $100 more than I have?” You only give it minor focus on it in the background trying to figure out how to pay the bill and then, out of no where, you come up with exactly that amount, totally out of nowhere.
But then you wish for the magical briefcase full of money, nothing ever happens. Or at best an opportunity comes along that helps you earn some of the money you were hoping to get.
I think the difference is the subconscious is more connected to the vibration of the universe that the conscious mind because the conscious mind is full of distraction, fear and doubt. The subconscious mind is unfiltered and unblocked.
It seems to me I can almost always attract the smaller less burdensome things like little bills I’m just a few dollars shy of paying, but the big (almost unrealistic) stuff we “hope or wish” for never seems to manifest itself at all or only partially manifests itself in a way you didn’t desire or expect it. Not sure if there is a way to attract the big things the same way as the little things? I suppose to a degree, the bigger things are not as easily manifested because if it were, practiced masters of LOA would win the lottery every week.
Brain of Brian you took the words right out of my mouth 👍
I've heard this called the "set it and forget it" approach
I agree 100%
You don’t have resistance to having it I think is the point
It's basically the power of detachment
The law of attraction is:
look for something red - red things jump into your field of view
Expect opportunity to come your way - you see more opportunities
Expect not to get opportunity - you're not going to see them when they come
Yup.
Trust in Dog
Did you watch this video??
You know what else does this? Your perception. There's no Magical law at work here.
Yes. The thing is most of what we think is subconscious, so sometimes I feel like I am powerless to create what I want, because what I really think is in resistance to what I want to happen. And I have an underlying belief that things will not work out for me, and I haven't mamaged to change my belief yet.
I love your verzion xxx
I cannot express adequately enough how grateful I am for this video. I watched it 4 years ago and didn't really get it. 2 years ago and it was a bit clearer. And today... Thank you so much.
Too many ignorant people in the comments section. Teal Swan believes in the law of attraction, she's just saying that people use the law of attraction to blame people such as cancer victims, rape victims, and abuse victims. People sometimes instead blame others instead of showing compassion for people in bad/negative situation. Not everything bad that happens is law of attraction. And people shouldn't shame and guilt people in bad situations because not everyone knows, or believes, in the law of attraction. It could be a negative karmic contract at work, or a hard lesson the person has to learn. It doesn't mean it's the person's fault they are suffering, or doing something wrong.
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It feels like rationalization for a major hole in this system of belief. If something is a universal principle, it doesn't seem to me to work in some instances and not in others, by definition it wouldn't be universal. Does the LOA create cancer in children or not?
Hi, Timbro, that's a great point! It's one way to look at it. By saying 'want', you're saying you don't have it. Yes, I see it!
how does loa explain the abuses wer seeing on children across the world?are they responsible fr their own abuses???
This must be the best video on TH-cam. Thank you so much Teal, for gifting us with your knowledge.
This is the best explanation of LOA/reality that I've seen. I've always said the reflection is deeper than your thoughts. Thank you for the in depth and comprehensive explanation. This came at perfect timing!
I literally sat here in my car while getting gas and said “OHHHHHHHHHHH!!!” I’m sure people looked at me like I had three eyes, lol! This epiphany is so liberating!!
ya i said holy Sh*&^ 🤣
Finally someone said it. I always feel like my biological chemistry is attracting my reality
Interesting.
energy you mean?
This is a great reminder to not resist what is showing up. Resisting also includes trying to understand it and transform it.
i'm not spiritual or enlightened but i believe that this law of attraction become a point of focus too much on self and becomes an endless circle of healing and fixing yourself because you must achieve vibrational control and probably the most important thing is that we start to take everything waaay to seriously
Stop judging everything and everyone (even yourself) and trying to fix them,allow yourself to relax so that you can actually see the endless opportunities and love that life is always trying to give you and that you can't see because you think you know better.
Teal is changing to a more intuition type of person instead of overthinking a situation which is good :)
Absolutely. BTW- TIME is a karma-holder. Leaving THE NOW and reflecting about the future or the past creates/reinforces dark emotion that can afflict and weigh down your consciousness fields. Of course, we have this capability and its not ALL BAD. - however, leaving the NOW is a breeding ground for emotional baggage. Paradoxically, though, it is difficult to stay in the now when you have persistent dark thought forms plaguing your being in which case one should then confront them. PEACE ;)
Andrea, only a truly enlightened individual would deny their awareness ;-))...but what would I know !!! ;-)
agreed. People have the law all wrong anyway.
I agree. It seems like too many of us are in our heads and trying to control everything. If only we would let go and let our heart lead us. It makes life so much easier.
"to" is not *too*
I am so grateful for your presence in this world, Teal. You just so thoroughly articulated my current understanding of the law of attraction and I am grateful that you shared it with the world. 🙏🏼
This is so good. I have totally been in that place where I have been shaming myself or feeling bad about attracting in things I "don't want" and this is such a relief to realize that if I accept what is as a potentially perfect match for what I want on a higher spiritual level. So cool!! - sorry about the stress of the court cases and all the stuff you have gone through, but so glad you are continuing your work through it :)
Teal Swan is amazing. I love watching her videos and how she explains everything in such a depth. Her version of the law of attraction, makes way more sense then most books or movies can explain. We are not to blame for everything that has manifested, some things we cannot prevent from happening..its life! to blame ourselves and beat ourselves up for what has happened can only send out more negative frequencies and make us go crazy trying to figure out what is wrong with us. We need to accept and not resist each situation in our lives and take the good from it so that you can manifest all the good that is to come from it in the end. "whatever you resist....persists".
People are all different, and will have different perspectives and perceptions. I agree with Teal. Ever since I began my journey I learned about the LOA and felt a lot of shame and guilt for having attracted many things into my life that I didn't want. I think that what Teal is saying is not that the law doesn't work, or that it's stupid, is only that we take it to mean something that it isn't, almost like we all have the "basis" of the law and treat it like the highest truth, when is more complicated than that and it can go in many directions depending on the person. We are all different, and we all have a different purpose, and no matter what we do that purpose will always be there and situations will happen so we fullfill it, even if they are situations we don't want. It is within us, that's the karma she is refering to. Of course we all want to live in absolute peace, and with the LOA we are "taught" or we feel like the only way to do it is to get ourselves to be in absolute bliss and be absolutely perfect with our thoughts and emotions all the time to experience that, and that if we are not feeling or manifesting what we want there is something wrong with us that needs inmediate change. But the thing is, we came to this earth to expand our souls, to learn and grow, and we don't just learn from being "perfect" all the time, living in only one side of the spectrum, the positive. We must experience both to find a balance. That balance is key to our journey, and will help us acheive what we desire and truly want, and is also good for us. That balance is met with letting go of shame, guilt, resistance, and tuning into the flow of life. With the LOA sometimes we feel like we must tune into a higher vibration to be happy, when in reality that vibration is the flow of life itself, with its good and bad, and we must flow with it, letting go of that obsesive control the law "teaches" us. I've found that in order to achieve that is by self love. When we love ourselves we forgive, we let go, we are free. And love is, in my opinion, the most powerful emotion in the universe.
lovely A Very well said, thank you for that.
I agree with that completely. That last sentence about self love is what I have been learning. Self love seems to be the key to everything for me at the moment.
Meaning that you don't get what you want, you get what energy you project.
Your higherself knows what you(same as higherself) want, it is directing you to your purpose. No right or wrong to what is happening. Nothing can be changed by the means of resistance, it can only be in the way of getting what is wanted.... so easy but so not easy
WOW, Teal !! I've been dealing with this "Law of Attraction" stuff for 35 years, give or take, in a dozen different ways. You are the first I've discovered that has the deeper understanding to explain what it really is and explains so much that I was on the edge of understanding myself -- totally brilliant!! I've been intuitively very close but never found a way to conceptualise it as well as you have here -- very well done, dear lady!!! Impressive indeed.
You have just nailed it - the whole ‘blame’ game is so rife and destructive & arrogant & a dead end - it reminds me of when people try to cheer up someone in a depression - not helpful
No, she hasn't nailed it: th-cam.com/video/WTIVZU24Gt0/w-d-xo.html
This is literally the most helpful enlightening explanation of law of attraction I have ever heard....so useful and eye opening.thank you so so much
Could you share with me what you heard here that was some useful?
its works so well for me .the law of attraction changed my life from 1-to 7. its been just 3 months now
im so happy i believin it.
bless the univers . bless u all
امراض جلدية و تناسلية بالله اسمك الجميل ماجابلك امراض جلديه؟
Lol give it time. 😂
I hope you are going strong! I was introduced to LOA in 2007 and love it more and more every day :)
bliss22:22 You’ve been at this for 12 years?!! How do you survive??!! Omg I started studying this two and a half years ago; and at first, it was a rough go. Then it got real good, then I crashed like crazy; and now I’m still trying to recover! How do you do it????
@@hofhofandaway haha I live and breathe it daily. Sorry to hear that! What happened?? I actually find it surprising that people have a negative view on it. My go-to is Abraham-hicks . I listen to TH-cam audio almost daily. Maybe their approach just resonates with me and fits my personality perfectly. For me LOA was the best news I'd ever heard because it answered my most frustrating questions about life. It took a weight off my shoulders; it gave me permission to be happy "just because". It's allowed me to relax about what my future holds (coz I know how it works!); It's given me direction and a sense of ease and confidence about life. It's lifted that dark, foreboding cloud that constantly hung over me pre-LOA. I could go on!
Yes, it can be 3 steps forward, one step back at times but that's what it's about..
When you mention the experience of love is exactly what i have been going through for the past 2 years. Hearing you explain this opens up my eyes soo much about it. Im glad i found your channel.
This video is so in alignment with my own perspective! I love your bad ass delivery, Teal!
Omg I love your nickname xD
Thank you so much!
me too :D :D really great :D
That was seriously a badass delivery
The healing you done brought you the understanding from the universe that you were meant to be in that court case so it worked out through law of attraction
The law of attraction is accepting the situation your in and allowing you to change it
When things do not work for me all i do is take a break from the thoughts and I just go with flow so that everything falls in place ....I just leave everything
YEEESSS!! GODDESS! I knew there was a reason why I felt overwhelmed listening to a certain channeled speaker whose topic always is Law of Attraction!! There was always a missing piece to that puzzle, for me.
Esther (I assume you are referring to Esther [Abraham] Hicks) always leaves out a few key points. Seems like this is possibly intentional, so you will watch her other videos to complete the puzzle.
The simple answer for LOA is: be positive, visualize what you want, feel the excitement from having it, put the feeling out to the universe that you already have it, and let the idea go...
Then the universe will deliver (and usually not how you imagined [but 10x better])
Live in Love
@Nothing Nobody lmao u r probably talking about Esther Hicks... her teachings can be misleading for like 90% of the people, it can even turn dangerous, which is quite unfortunate
@@infinitenothingness Abraham-Hicks has the most extensive catalogue of information about the LOA the world has ever seen including 6+ full length books, always gives extensive answers to questions, but they always "leave out a few key points"? And then you go on to give a "simple answer for LOA"?
when you pray for the rain, you gotta deal with the mud...
can you explain that pls.
When you Will the right amount of rain you need to serve your true purpose.
It's the new universal sustainability laws.
Did you not get the email 😊
this is so true...i have already experienced that! however in my case i asked for rain but got a storm together with it...what should i do to get only the specific thing that i want? nothing more and nothing less?
+Blood Deyrnas hahaha thank you
+avni bhansali be 100% in with your true purpose.
The source has informed you its going to rain.
Were you angry at the time ☺
Totally agree with this. My ex-wife wanted to bring peace into her life, so she changed her name to Shanti. After that, her life was utter chaos. Now that we are no longer together, the chaos has also left me.
This is why I love her. Although it might still wind up to the same conclusion but she always highlight how we can still be kind to ourselves during the process. Thank you Teal
This is revolutionarily awesome! :D
This is where "Everything happens for a reason" comes from. Perspective
I really needed to hear this. I stumbled upon your video about over using marijuana for presence after kind of feeling sick of relying on it and have stopped using it. I’ve been struggling the last few months after meeting someone who I feel was my twin flame, and I just couldn’t believe how it happened. I know I’ve gone through a lot of growth because of it and I didn’t even realize how much shadow work I needed to do, but I’m still struggling with the pain of separation and wishing we could be together. I know I need to surrender to my highest calling but my brain kept overanalyzing it. I’ve been meditating more and more, it’s been one of the hardest things I’ve been through in awhile but I know I need time to heal. Thank you ❤️
I see it this way: everything that happens to us is supposed to help us grow and evolve. There are no mistakes and whatever is happening to us is happening for a good reason.
Thank you for your video, Teal. Your words have reassured my perspective.
What is a ‘mistake’? And what is a ‘good’ reason?
Unrelated: I think things just happen and we learn to attach meanings to it. Not for better or for worse, but because we have a brain, and the goal is to just experience them (maybe forgive them) Not exactly label them as good or bad
She makes perfect sense to me.
This is exactly what I needed to hear.
I've been conscious about the LOA for years, but I can see your point. But the fact is that you cannot channel everything in your life. Some things just need to happen on a spiritual level, one can't fully heal everything. We need to esperience contrast.
Love how you explained this, so eloquently put! “You can’t know this shouldn’t be happening”
How does she talk so beautifully 😢❤️
Teal, I know this is an older video, but if you happen to see this, I want you to know the significant impact this video had on me.
My life has seemingly been turned upside down (some things good, some things bad [as I deem lol]), but I always try my hardest to be patient to see the reason behind why these things happen. I have been experiencing severe grief recently, and have been struggling with impulsive thoughts revolving around the facade of control... so, rumination. The girl I was set to propose to up and left my life leaving me with nothing more than a few texts claiming she felt like a burden in my life, and this was right when I finally got my dream job after months of working for us to have a better life. As someone who has been experiencing this grief, and whom has ADHD, I can say that these videos have helped me in a multitude of ways of which nothing else has. This video brought me to tears, and they were tears of joy.
From your videos, I truly feel that I am becoming a better man every day, and, for the first time in quite a while, I am excited for the what the future has in store for me. Whether it is my next relationship, my career, or even the possibility of being a better parent when the time comes, I have been absorbing your teachings and can say that I have been reunited with my path towards some essence of enlightenment.
You have strengthened my faith, not only in God, and the universe, but in myself, as well.
I will forever be grateful for finding you, and truly want to pay shows my respect and gratitude.
You’re weird
You, darling, are a friggin genius and I'm so, SO glad I came across your channel. Instant sub. Recommended you to friends and everyone I knew would actually understand your perspective of the world. I definitely learn so, SO much from your guiding words. I've had a friend with whom I did a shamanic hypnosis and basically travelled through my past lives and such. At that moment having had a multidimensional intersection of my past selves with my current incarnation (or the belief thereof and that this is possible to have or able to make visible to your consciousness) helped me to grasp certain unexplainable behaviours. Now, and I don't know when this happened, I just had the feeling that this is not true. That's not how I want to reduce myself to. I can't put the blame on me for all of the seemingly bad things that happened, for all the uncomfortable situations. Thanks to your video I now know that I've been leaving out the arts of metriopathy, the search for balancing your Selves into alignment by just trusting the process of The Now to occur to you and observe what it actually tries to teach you. I've been dragged (or rather, I needed to be dragged) into this path of overly exerted, almost cult-like spirituality to realise what truly works for me. I'm still on the path of finding my way of living, but instead of blaming myself for every step I take towards it I start to enjoy it. And you just helped me realise how great it can be to accept it. Thank you so much, Teal Swan, thank you. I wish you the best of life in all you do.
With love
Steph 🙏
The law of attraction seems to happen when I least expect it... sometimes not even when I am attracting anything at all.
That's how to do it lol! It releases resistance, that's the key;) Sometimes focusing on it too much makes you too aware of the lack of it and hence you attract more lack of it until you focus on other things.
True.. it happens to me Like that sometimes..because the Universe responds to your subconscious mind more than it responds to you conscious mind.
why dose this happen ?
IT IS, but how you FEEL while visualizing is what matters...if you were angry or feeling down for some reason and then started visualizing but still not feeling completely "healed" and clean from those emotions, you're not getting what you're visualizing..you get what you feel...visualizing needs to be done properly
+Max0r847 It is somewhat a little complicated but yes It would make sence
My journey has been learning to align what I (lower self) want for my life with what my soul (higher self) wants for my life. And that has made all the difference.
First off I adore Ester Hicks. I'm starting to think ester's clipped/short videos on TH-cam feel like the mom who kind of skips over some details because she doesn't want to overwhelm you right off the bat. (Which I appreciate.) But Teal is more like the big sister who tells you the whole truth and then you're like, "OHHHHHH!!!" Thanks for helping me fill in some blanks, Teal. I'm not going to drive myself nuts anymore. ❤️
Thank you for the comment. My thoughts exactly!! I love Abraham, and I adore Teal!
This is perfect. I’ve followed Abraham for the last few years and a lot of times it made me feel worse. Now that I’m integrating Teal with Abraham, it’s all falling into place
Beautifully put.
This is such a perfect way to explain it lololol
Love your wise words and agree with comments here all about balancing and getting the bigger picture
While this video is a few years old, I'm really pleased it exists because of how much sense this makes now. Thank you Teal for posting this
You've eliminated the malware in my spiritual being.
One of the first and only teachers to take this on. And very well done.
I'd like to live in a universe governed by the Law of Distraction and Donuts.
you decide...
thats the perfect way to describe the current universe lol
UR funny... LMAO
his current universe :-)
Me to, mmmm Doooonuuuuts 😛😛😛
This is perfect. When you love and appreciate your bad days, just as much as your good days, you know you are on the right path... I feel what everyone calls "bad experiences" as the experiences attracted to me that draw out the ego and give the opportunity for my higher self to shine. I've noticed through this this new understanding, my karma wheel has turned into a karma spiral. This understanding is one of the maps to our ascention, as there are many ways up the mountain.
i always tell myself when things so bad: i cant control the bad stuff but i can control the good stuff. it helps me to not be too engrossed when things go bad
I was thinking about this right before I came here. i embrace every emotion. it's all beautiful "sadness is gods greatest gift"
Teal, as we say in these skreets, u a real one. Applause for expounding on such a complicated topic that soooo many ppl swear they know how to “work”.
What’s a skreet?
Every day the title of this video just hits harder & harder.
I learn English by watching her ...😀😁😂
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good idea!
Me too ! :)
Say bobs and vagene first.
best comment. ever.
I'm not much into this kind of stuff anymore, because I tend to think the "origin" of these kind of "laws" is misunderstood, but I really like and agree with this lady's take on the "Law of Attraction." I don't know if there is a "Higher Self" or just a subconscious, but sometimes wiser, inner self. But I have noticed we tend to get what we dwell on. especially if we dwell on something in fear or resentment.
When I was in a VA homeless shelter in White City, they had a program called the Experiential Learning Program, which I participated in. I found the most profound teaching in that course was, "It is what it is." In fact, it was the motto of the course.
This did not mean that we have to settle for what is, but it means that, essentially, we are dealt a set of circumstances and it's a waste of time to lament that it shouldn't be this way or that it's not fair in some way. We accept that this is our circumstance and then figure out how we are going to react to it. It may not be our fault, but it is now OUR responsibility. This seems to coincide nicely with what Ms. Swan it telling us in this video.
I consider myself an atheist that still subscribes to a "spiritual" philosophy. There is much we do not understand about our Universe but that shouldn't stop us from exploring all available avenues of learning. I doubt there is a universal "agenda" to expand our consciousness, but much of what goes on in our lives does offer us the opportunity to do just that.
Freedom isnt man made it lives within...
...for those who have the two confused. Just saying.
My freedom lives inside of me. It isnt man made. And no thanks on prison time anywhere. My actions dont result in prison time moron! Think about that! For fucksake your intelligence is astounding!
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u can attract with your desires, but can you attract your desires?
+nana delamer, yes but you have to work toward bringing those desires to fruition too. You cant just sit down and wait for your desires to fall in your lap, is my opinion...
Amor Fati. I embrace all that happens to me as opportunities to grow. If we see all opportunities as positive, we can assume our highest vibration. We are already perfect, family!
Imagine you are the only one on the planet. One day you fall asleep and dream another has appeared on the planet. In ignorance of not knowing this other's intention, you are cautious and put up a defense just in case. One day you find this person starting to take your stuff and you confront them and a fight breaks out. You decide you need a weapon and a wall to keep this person out of your stuff in the future. One day you notice there are somehow two of them now, and in fear, you try to reinforce your walls more and sharpen your weapon and set out to find another ally to help you. And this dream goes on for millions of years until there are billions of you on the planet creating various civilizations, secret governments, religion and chemicalization all based on that initial separate you at the beginning of the dream.
And then you wake up, and realize that all of those people were just you. And in the insane dream, you were attacking yourself and trying to make one aspect of yourself a separate entity that was independent and had a life of it's own apart from the rest of yourself all around you. That is this dream we are playing on repeat in every moment. But we won't wake up until we stop trying to give this one aspect or shadow of ourselves, that we think is the totality of us, an independent reality from the rest of us. There is only oneness, duality is a dream. And the reflections we see, or the Law of Attraction, is our Higher Self not trying to show us good or bad, or right or wrong, beneficial or not, for those concepts aren't real for they imply a polarity or opposites, which is impossible in oneness. It is trying to show us that the multiplicity we "believe" we are observing is an illusion. And until we destroy the belief in that aspect as independent and real, on a journey of evolution towards something real in the dream, with all it's beliefs in right or wrong, the dream will drone on...The only way out is to wake up.
Steve Anderson so what exactly are you suggesting here??
Yes yes yes.
In my experience, I always try to maintain neutrality in a situation, and ask, "What is the lesson?" The answer can be surprisingly helpful.
Lol to all the salty people saying that Teal is wrong. You didnt listen because you were so defensive. She never said LOA doesnt exist. She is giving another approach and talking about a positive point of view about negative situations in life. I dont see any negativity in her video and any contradiction of what LOA is.
If you think this video is negative, probably your reality is negative.
You are attracting this "negative" video to your life because your frecuency connected with this haha
People need to chill... you are awesome Teal! 💞
Swan Queen agreed!
Teal Swan and Swan Queen
They probably didn’t watch it and assumed off of title.
Dear Teal, the best explanation I have seen regarding law of attraction is similar to what you are saying but simpler. It's simple magnetism. Positive attracts negative. Once we understand this we can use our wisdom to recognize that the negativity is just to help us with relativity. I learned this from Neil Donald Walsh and it was an awesome aha moment!
what?
There is a Taoist story of an old farmer who had worked his crops for many years. One day his horse ran away. Upon hearing the news, his neighbors came to visit. "Such bad luck," they said sympathetically.
"Maybe," the farmer replied. The next morning the horse returned, bringing with it three other wild horses. "How wonderful," the neighbors exclaimed.
"Maybe," replied the old man. The following day, his son tried to ride one of the untamed horses, was thrown, and broke his leg. The neighbors again came to offer their sympathy on his misfortune. "Maybe," answered the farmer. The day after, military officials came to the village to draft young men into the army. Seeing that the son's leg was broken, they passed him by. The neighbors congratulated the farmer on how well things had turned out. "Maybe," said the farmer
So the man was a Stoic too?
So he was in the flow and not a worrying pessimist?
@@lesleyhubble4969 He was not judgemental,he did not label things because he understand that "worrying" being "optimist" or "pessimist" as no point because things are just as they are you can only accept them and go with the flow !
@@renaudlevasseur8327 this is the hardest to do isn't it. Just going with the flow and not judging anything or trying to label. I'm not sure how to do this
@@dahliasaven yeah actually I believe that labelling isn't a bad thing we need to label to make sens of the world and communicate with each other.
But it's good not to put a harsh moral label, staying flexible because sometimes something bad for us can have a good outcome for someone else (ex: loosing a race) and maybe this exact same thing will turn out to be good in the long run (going out to change your mind and meeting the love of your life).
I think it's not helpful to ignore what we are experiencing, feelings, sensatiosns... but not to hold it in, and keep having faith and moving forward.
If a man is beating is wife (because he drink to handle is trauma and take it out on others) it's good for the wife to label his behaviour as bad and leave.
So I think it's good to be flexible and not to hold on a firm belief on things, and always look at the bigger picture (sometime it takes time to see it.)
Killing someone for pleasure is bad, but if it is self defense it isn't, it is the context that matter to define if something is good or bad.
You go with the flow of what you canot control but keep controling what it is that you can (mostly the way you react, what you do, learn..)
The group I'm in is nothing like you you say it is. We dont blame ourselves nor others for any manifestation whatsoever but support and give guidens to grow. Lovingly. Spirits are uplifted. Downward spiral, no way. It's your vision of it your view. My experience is totally different.
I get the concept of attraction, but magnets don't work like that. Positive charges do not and will not, ever, attract other positive charges. Therefore, like doesn't attract like.
Thank you! I keep hearing people say that and I am like Wha? LOL
So basically you're saying that a smart, patient, negative man is attracted to a stupid, impatient, positive girl? Is that how it works then?
Agreed. Another explanation and even a new terminology would be helpful, such as moving toward what you focus upon, much like traveling somewhere, like from point A to point B. She lost me with the magnet comparison
Then be bad attract good.
@@serban2139 LOL
Thank you for explaining it so clearly, and reminding me of the things I keep forgeting. There is a fine balance between not trying enough and trying too hard.
When i was a kid All i wanted was to be a ballerina I started at age 4, My family wasn't interested in my dancing, but that didn't stop me, I practised every spare min of every day, I dreamt about dancing, and every year when we had concerts I received the solo roles. I finally was given a big bunch of flowers & a free scholarship ( i had no idea what this meant I never forgot that word) to the Adelaide ballet company at age 12, but because my parents were acting very selfish It was thrown out nobody even noticed it, Instead I was dragged away to another town & kicked out & placed in juvenile detention. I definitely didn't attract that, I wanted to be a dancer. All I've learnt in my 60yrs is if you enjoy doing what your doing, everything falls in place.
I'm so sorry that happened to you. My family didn't support my dreams either and I wound up making bad life choices in my twenties and became suicidal in my mid thirties. I've been making up for a lot since then and found happiness even when I was working poor. ✌️
My parents took me out of acting for a play when I was given a main role. Their excuse? One dollar was too expensive per week....my younger brother gets given hundreds of dollars just because. I was 17 and at age 29 I used the law of attraction...instead my house burnt down just before quarantine and I have no home. I feel like giving up on life.
Ultimately it all comes down to what you BELIEVE in. LOA has changed my life & I’m so grateful. I respect your perspective though. 😘
Does loa. Work????
I am not getting what this lady in the video is trying to saying
Is she is against or in the favor Of loa......????
Oh look at that a chick making a comment on a TH-cam video saying LOA works. Let me guess you manifested your dream husband who has a lot of money? It wasn’t the law of attraction it was probably your good looks lol
@@blackout2430 soo do you believe in loa dear
@@blackout2430 don't be so rude 🤗
I think the issue with the LOA is most people think that it's supposed to bring them the things they "want" where like is said in the video it brings to you the things that "you are" and that you are ready to receive.
I think you hit the nail on the head Teal, your intuition is next level.