Rejection is part of life, we get rejected while growing up, in work, in business. Rejection is unavoidable, learning how to deal or brush off rejection now that is a real skill and mindset to learn.
@@VALUETAINMENT Thank you for these videos. Do you have videos on leaving companies to start a new one, or simply a new product? Also how do you negotiate in tough business deals?
This is so true! When I first started my business, we had a HUGE amount of mistakes and got rejected multiple times! Our first night operating we had people get their orders 2 hours late! But we learned from them and now we have a great ordering time! When we first started it, we were living in our car with very little direction, just a huge passion to be successful. We just graduated college as well. We started the late night cookie shop out of a local bagel shop in their off hours at night. We were living in our car in the parking lot of the shop at the time with my boyfriend, Bran. It was a crazy experience but it worked! We became a success! And how we have our first storefront location (a second launching in January!) We started it to fund a year long backpacking trip around the world and to be successful while living the life of our dreams. Don't be afraid to make mistakes. Face rejections and making a lot of mistakes are crucial parts of your journey to success!
@@genesis2934 Awhh thank you!!! :D It's been a lot of hustle and work but so much fun at the same time! If you subscribed to my channel, I hope you enjoy being a part of the journey to our second storefront location in Tampa, Fl! :D
I remember when we started our travel company because we focused specifically on Africa destinations we faced a lot of rejections and stereotypes but we kept going we understood rejection was part of the challenges so just embraced it and moved on sometimes it can get you emotional but we have overcome it
The younger you are the worst it is. It's not only about character but also familiarity with rejection. So, i think rejection is actually something you learn. Even if you completely collapse at some point... time always allows you to get up and try again... try better... get rejected better next time.
The immediate distraction is a must for me. I always thought I had to ignore it and keep pushing. You helped me understand it's okay to take my mind off things and come back. Thanks for this video.
Watching your videos puts me in a lot of emotional stages man. Love it I got my goals figured out couse of your content and you as a person Much appreciated Patrick 😊💕
As a business owner myself, I have to tell you; being an entrepreneur is not easy! The titles "CEO" and "entrepreneur" may sound very fancy but it's extremely stressful hard work. I've been in business for 4 years and only recently started to take home a salary. I've been rejected by investors, banks and stores who refused to stock my products. I used all of my savings and had piled up over $40k worth of debt for a dream that looked like it was going nowhere. I was suffering from insomnia and was constantly fatigued. So it's hard work guys and facing rejection is the hardest part. But I promise you that if you're consistent, eventually you will taste success. Overnight successes are very few. You'll need to be patient and continue hustling and then eventually, you'll see the fruits of your hard work!
Thank you for taking the time to work with me ! I have a lot to learn , one of the first great accomplishments that I have recently made is realizing that I actually had an audience that just came to light today. At least to the point where I now know when that is taking place due to the fact that I was unaware, I was unprepared I did not have the right data in front of me to give a positive presentation. I will improve in these areas and be more prepared. I feel it is a great honor to have such strong positive leaders working with me. I know that your time is extremely valuable and I will do my due diligence to return the favor one day. Thank you again thank you very much guys.
I practiced at a farmers market with mygirlfriend and her parents its good practice to handle rejection and learn how people react especialy with fight style customers i really learned how shy most people are and i learned how too much carisma can be off-putting to most people so there is definitely a skill in how u treat every customer
I was an exchange student in Spain. What I didn't have for much too long was a long-term host family, my organisation that was responsible for me just couldn't seem to find one for me. So they put me in this auxiliary family for three months, in which they still didn't manage to find me a family, so I kept asking friends I had gotten to know through school if they could host me for the rest of the year. This is a very big ask, especially because my organisation stupidly followed the rule of not wanting to pay anything to the families in order for the experience not being altered by becoming a business transaction. This made it unnescessarily hard for them to find enough families that weren't just accomodating a student as a favor to the organisation, trying to bridge the period of time it took to find a permanent one. What I learned, was that although I love my first family of three months and the friends I made in their town, they all had good reasons to reject me asking to take me in so I wouldn't have to move, which I did (I had 5 families in total), as I DID manage to find a family through another exchange student, that it wasn't because those people all didn't like me. That was such a big concern that I had real depression during my year there. It was all because they didn't have the ability to host me: my first family has two daughters who also went on exchanges to Ireland, which they had to save money for. The second one only took me because the hostdad worked with the organisation. The third one also did a favor, but although we got along so good, that my time there was the best two weeks of the exchange, they already had another student from Finland and did a favor to the organisation - again. While I was there, I had already found my permanent family, which I finally went to after a third of the exchange year was already over. When I was there, I started to reject the family, because I was suffering emotionally. Even though this was happening, I tried to connect with them "Hey, would you like to play this/that board game before dinner?", "Let's watch that new movie on Netflix this weekend", etc. So the reject came from their side too. I could have asked the third family with the Finnish kid back in, but I was done mentally so I decided to go back home. Nothing out of this was my fault. It took the last few years to realize. I did my absolute best and failed. Happy to have made this experience so early on.
its crazy and amazing the amount of free content value you put out there .mennn we need to give you the full support bring these values every day..more grease to your elbow Pat.Bless u
Pat, I'm very grateful you take the time to make these videos. So much value its unbelievable. I want to come to your seminar in Houston but cannot afford the $5000 price tag. Is there another option? I'm a self employed personal trainer who is part owner in a gym. Your videos on mindset and sales are so valuable to me I'd be crazy not to see what you deliver in person. I appreciate your time!
If you want to watch something that will Get you totally pumped up just ready to concur the WORLD ? Go to Netflix and watch "The Secret" Make sure to watch the whole thing Not necessarily in one sitting its a lot to take in, but go back if you have to , i watch it over and over, and every time i hear stuff that i missed its crazy.
When someone with a successful winning record speaks about the top 10 ways to deal with rejection we'd better listen because he felt them all personally. Not from books :)
I love the way you speak how did you learn how to sound like that! I’ve been in sales for 90 days flopped 60 appointments and I feel like it’s what I say how I sound they don’t believe me or I can’t build the pain properly
LOVE YOUR CAP MAN! I TEACH ENGLISH TO BRAZILIAN BUSINESSMEN, DIRECTORS OF HEINKEN AND OTHER BIG COMPANIES IN BRAZIL, SORRY MAN, I USE YOUR VIDEOS ALL THE TIME!!! GREAT JOB!!!
What he wrote down, the whole crowd goes so loud He opens his mouth, but the words won't come out He's chokin', how, everybody's jokin' now The clocks run out, times up, over, blaow!
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As a beginner who don't understand how Bitcoin trade really works and you really want to make profit from it. I will advise you to first start working with a professional
Just discovered your channel after falling in love with your "work ethic" video. Do you have a video on, "How to handle criticism?" If not, I could use it.
We never were rejected. Landed every remodeling job we asked for. The quality was good...years passed. Guess what, we were charging too little. When the prices were raised the rejections started...however it had a completely different meaning. It was a good thing.
I have a construction company and I'm facing a really hard time. Here in Trinidad and Tobago it has people who always goes for the cheap way out. I do fantastic work but it's been hard for me to get contracts especially Jan and Feb months. What can I do?
I love your the Information you give , and i want to come to your live event! But its not in the cards financially I have 6 kids! , is there anything i can do for you to get a ticket?
Pat I think you forgot something very important about being rejected. If you are going to get rejected, why not ask the client why you were rejected? Was it my price, my approach, did you not like the way I presented our service? I run a mobile DJ company and it's a very fierce market. I always take the time to ask the client who rejects me why I was rejected. "Hey John, I am sorry we were not able to be a part of your big day. We are always looking for ways to get better at what we do and I was wondering if you can help me out. Would you be interested in maybe telling us who you went with and why you picked them over us? Regardless, thank you so much for your time and reaching out to us. Wishing you and Mary an incredible life together"
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Rejection is part of life, we get rejected while growing up, in work, in business. Rejection is unavoidable, learning how to deal or brush off rejection now that is a real skill and mindset to learn.
Well said
This video saved me so many mistakes that i might make
💯
@@VALUETAINMENT Thank you for these videos. Do you have videos on leaving companies to start a new one, or simply a new product? Also how do you negotiate in tough business deals?
This is so true! When I first started my business, we had a HUGE amount of mistakes and got rejected multiple times! Our first night operating we had people get their orders 2 hours late! But we learned from them and now we have a great ordering time! When we first started it, we were living in our car with very little direction, just a huge passion to be successful. We just graduated college as well. We started the late night cookie shop out of a local bagel shop in their off hours at night. We were living in our car in the parking lot of the shop at the time with my boyfriend, Bran. It was a crazy experience but it worked! We became a success! And how we have our first storefront location (a second launching in January!) We started it to fund a year long backpacking trip around the world and to be successful while living the life of our dreams. Don't be afraid to make mistakes. Face rejections and making a lot of mistakes are crucial parts of your journey to success!
Love it
This is such an (Awesome) story and very inspiring. Wow!
@@genesis2934 Awhh thank you!!! :D It's been a lot of hustle and work but so much fun at the same time! If you subscribed to my channel, I hope you enjoy being a part of the journey to our second storefront location in Tampa, Fl! :D
Cool, I'll definitely look into that, you guys are an inspiration to me. Good Luck.
I remember when we started our travel company because we focused specifically on Africa destinations we faced a lot of rejections and stereotypes but we kept going we understood rejection was part of the challenges so just embraced it and moved on sometimes it can get you emotional but we have overcome it
"Rejection and failure is a way better teacher than success ever can be."
If you can't face rejection, you can't be an Entrepreneur.
Absolutely
strait facts
The younger you are the worst it is.
It's not only about character but also familiarity with rejection.
So, i think rejection is actually something you learn.
Even if you completely collapse at some point... time always allows you to get up and try again... try better... get rejected better next time.
Working on it so I will try to talk to girls
Hvala!
The immediate distraction is a must for me. I always thought I had to ignore it and keep pushing. You helped me understand it's okay to take my mind off things and come back. Thanks for this video.
Watching your videos puts me in a lot of emotional stages man.
Love it
I got my goals figured out couse of your content and you as a person
Much appreciated Patrick
😊💕
💯
As a business owner myself, I have to tell you; being an entrepreneur is not easy! The titles "CEO" and "entrepreneur" may sound very fancy but it's extremely stressful hard work. I've been in business for 4 years and only recently started to take home a salary. I've been rejected by investors, banks and stores who refused to stock my products. I used all of my savings and had piled up over $40k worth of debt for a dream that looked like it was going nowhere. I was suffering from insomnia and was constantly fatigued. So it's hard work guys and facing rejection is the hardest part. But I promise you that if you're consistent, eventually you will taste success. Overnight successes are very few. You'll need to be patient and continue hustling and then eventually, you'll see the fruits of your hard work!
Man, I agree... This my first time and let me say there is a lot to it and I underestimated it all.
Thank you for taking the time to work with me !
I have a lot to learn , one of the first great accomplishments that I have recently made is realizing that I actually had an audience that just came to light today. At least to the point where I now know when that is taking place due to the fact that I was unaware, I was unprepared I did not have the right data in front of me to give a positive presentation. I will improve in these areas and be more prepared. I feel it is a great honor to have such strong positive leaders working with me. I know that your time is extremely valuable and I will do my due diligence to return the favor one day. Thank you again thank you very much guys.
I practiced at a farmers market with mygirlfriend and her parents its good practice to handle rejection and learn how people react especialy with fight style customers i really learned how shy most people are and i learned how too much carisma can be off-putting to most people so there is definitely a skill in how u treat every customer
Nothing is for free, when something is for free then you are the product. Even this advice.
Hey that's an interesting thought.
Just found out a past client went with a competitor. I got over it halfway through this video. VALUE.
I was an exchange student in Spain. What I didn't have for much too long was a long-term host family, my organisation that was responsible for me just couldn't seem to find one for me. So they put me in this auxiliary family for three months, in which they still didn't manage to find me a family, so I kept asking friends I had gotten to know through school if they could host me for the rest of the year.
This is a very big ask, especially because my organisation stupidly followed the rule of not wanting to pay anything to the families in order for the experience not being altered by becoming a business transaction. This made it unnescessarily hard for them to find enough families that weren't just accomodating a student as a favor to the organisation, trying to bridge the period of time it took to find a permanent one.
What I learned, was that although I love my first family of three months and the friends I made in their town, they all had good reasons to reject me asking to take me in so I wouldn't have to move, which I did (I had 5 families in total),
as I DID manage to find a family through another exchange student,
that it wasn't because those people all didn't like me. That was such a big concern that I had real depression during my year there.
It was all because they didn't have the ability to host me: my first family has two daughters who also went on exchanges to Ireland, which they had to save money for. The second one only took me because the hostdad worked with the organisation. The third one also did a favor, but although we got along so good, that my time there was the best two weeks of the exchange, they already had another student from Finland and did a favor to the organisation - again. While I was there, I had already found my permanent family, which I finally went to after a third of the exchange year was already over.
When I was there, I started to reject the family, because I was suffering emotionally. Even though this was happening, I tried to connect with them "Hey, would you like to play this/that board game before dinner?", "Let's watch that new movie on Netflix this weekend", etc.
So the reject came from their side too. I could have asked the third family with the Finnish kid back in, but I was done mentally so I decided to go back home.
Nothing out of this was my fault. It took the last few years to realize. I did my absolute best and failed. Happy to have made this experience so early on.
its crazy and amazing the amount of free content value you put out there .mennn we need to give you the full support bring these values every day..more grease to your elbow Pat.Bless u
I hate online sales gurus but pat is the real deal. I’m so getting that
Your channel help me a lot
One of the best videos i ever watch Full packed Knowledge ❤
Pat, I'm very grateful you take the time to make these videos. So much value its unbelievable. I want to come to your seminar in Houston but cannot afford the $5000 price tag. Is there another option? I'm a self employed personal trainer who is part owner in a gym. Your videos on mindset and sales are so valuable to me I'd be crazy not to see what you deliver in person. I appreciate your time!
$5000 price tag is sold out. You can attend the conference for as low at $699. Www.valuetainment.com
Pat Today I got a Rejection of a Sales Position even I did good
I learned what i could do better
but your video came exact when I needed
Thank You Pat
👌
PBD Classic content is back!!! love it very much!!!!!
Great Video Pat, great advice.
wonderful , loved this format .
Straight knowledge as always!!
✔✔✔✔✔Fail means first attempt in learning ✔✔✔✔✔
👊🏼
Make sure the customer is qualified. Don't beat yourself up over a deadbeat
I appreciate Pat, am in Real Estate and I enjoy this videos Bro. Great Stuff 💪
10:00 being funny is a huge advantage
Truth! I just made a video on this as well!
Very good advice 👍👍👍👍👏👏👏👏
Awesome advice-- thank you. Every entrepreneur will face rejection at some point or another, so it's good to be prepared.
If you want to watch something that will Get you totally pumped up just ready to concur the WORLD ?
Go to Netflix and watch
"The Secret"
Make sure to watch the whole thing
Not necessarily in one sitting its a lot to take in, but go back if you have to , i watch it over and over, and every time i hear stuff that i missed its crazy.
This was needed. Thank you
Valuetainmaent is the best channel for entrepreneurs.
After very long time some amazing training
Just keep on shooting for successful and forget the haters!!
Thanks for sharing !
When someone with a successful winning record speaks about the top 10 ways to deal with rejection we'd better listen because he felt them all personally.
Not from books :)
Thank you Pat for the encouragement!
great points Patrick, love it
Brilliant content as always.
I love the way you speak how did you learn how to sound like that! I’ve been in sales for 90 days flopped 60 appointments and I feel like it’s what I say how I sound they don’t believe me or I can’t build the pain properly
Hundred people see sales folks as a nuisance. But one people see them as a Godsend. That's why you are out there.
This is pure gold!
LOVE YOUR CAP MAN! I TEACH ENGLISH TO BRAZILIAN BUSINESSMEN, DIRECTORS OF HEINKEN AND OTHER BIG COMPANIES IN BRAZIL, SORRY MAN, I USE YOUR VIDEOS ALL THE TIME!!! GREAT JOB!!!
Excellent explanation!
Amazing content
Brilliant video Pat!
love your presentation so much, I still need biz doc to learn from though, u guy are so awesome
Very good video, glad your back on training.
0:18 palms sweaty, knees weak, arms are heavy. There's vomit on sweater already; mom's spaghetti.
He is nervous...
But on the surface he looks calm and ready
@@madhuramacharya7102 to drop bombs, but he keeps on forgetting
What he wrote down, the whole crowd goes so loud
He opens his mouth, but the words won't come out
He's chokin', how, everybody's jokin' now
The clocks run out, times up, over, blaow!
@@LivingDelightfulFreedom th-cam.com/video/_Yhyp-_hX2s/w-d-xo.html
@@LivingDelightfulFreedom *SNAP BACK TO REALITY* *OH THERE GOES GRAVITY*
frickin love these vids. amazing!!!!
Great stuff.
Good stuff👍
Awesome!
Nice Ayrton Senna Cap!
You Are Great
Thanks Sir, Please come to India for Conference.
Look, the more your face it....the more immune you get to it...it really just stops...You kindof become emotionless..
Great video sir, it helps me a lot to see the rejection in a whole different view. Love your channel ( from India ).
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Amazing
Why you guys always come with the topic i am dealing with my business. Thanks
REJECTION is the reality of the dream named ANTICIPATION.
Thanks,A God Send
Golden Patrick 👍🏻
Mario you should talk about innovation within a company
*We either make ourselves miserable or we make ourselves strong. The amount of work is the same.*
Awesome 👍
You're the best ❤❤
Just don't take rejection and move on. Learn from your rejection. Drill, practice, rehearse.
Just discovered your channel after falling in love with your "work ethic" video.
Do you have a video on, "How to handle criticism?" If not, I could use it.
This is close : th-cam.com/video/THsfkR7YTGA/w-d-xo.html - Mario VT
17:15: You see? Make it past Fish+ or Flush+!
OT: great video pat!
We never were rejected. Landed every remodeling job we asked for. The quality was good...years passed. Guess what, we were charging too little. When the prices were raised the rejections started...however it had a completely different meaning. It was a good thing.
I fucking love this video ! I was looking for videos in regards to being rejected by a woman but this applies as well. Great video!
Patt, hypothetically speaking what should be some of the first steps one should take to begin acquiring a 1st customer with a brand new business?
Thumbs up haven't even watched it yet 🔥🔥🔥 lol
Hope you can make this into a recorded conference. I would love to attend, but as an event producer I have a major event right around that time.
Fuck, this video is 1000% better than most of the master class....clean n' clear... thumb up!
My mother left me and my dad at 5. Feels like death to be rejected. I hate dating. In fact I reject people way too much as a form of projection.
BRASIL!!!
my brother i love your content God bless you can I reshare your videos on my channel to spread the inspiration with your permission?
At the 3:50 minute mark, best advise on handling rejection from strangers.
So when is the sales course coming out?
Great video, and great Ayrton Senna Cap
WOW 👍🤙
Love from Iraq ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
Much love
Where can I Buy the 3 hour sales school ? And great video, loved it👌🏽👌🏽
hi Pat, I love your videos and try to implement them at my workplace.I'm from India and we would love it if you can to our country
I didn't see reason #1 coming haha wasn't expecting it
Why is sells and marketing so similar to pick-up ?😂
Black Vito - Moneyology because it deals with human beings.
Any update on the sales course?
I have a construction company and I'm facing a really hard time. Here in Trinidad and Tobago it has people who always goes for the cheap way out. I do fantastic work but it's been hard for me to get contracts especially Jan and Feb months. What can I do?
Hey where you at now brotha
@@semmywap2916 I’m in Trinidad 🇹🇹 and Tobago
I love your the Information you give , and i want to come to your live event!
But its not in the cards financially
I have 6 kids!
, is there anything i can do for you to get a ticket?
Or you can simply say "no u"
I eat penis because *Sales commission goes up by 400%*
Pat I think you forgot something very important about being rejected. If you are going to get rejected, why not ask the client why you were rejected? Was it my price, my approach, did you not like the way I presented our service?
I run a mobile DJ company and it's a very fierce market. I always take the time to ask the client who rejects me why I was rejected. "Hey John, I am sorry we were not able to be a part of your big day. We are always looking for ways to get better at what we do and I was wondering if you can help me out. Would you be interested in maybe telling us who you went with and why you picked them over us? Regardless, thank you so much for your time and reaching out to us. Wishing you and Mary an incredible life together"
Dat Senna cap👌
I was literally looking for this a week ago before my exam - needles to say, there is a lot of bad dating advice out there 😅