If you commit adultery, do you have to tell your spouse?

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 29 ม.ค. 2025

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  • @kiki10202
    @kiki10202 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Your video helped me to repent and ask for my partner’s forgiveness. He forgave me and Now I’m released. I’m in total joy and enjoy the marriage with my husband. Thank you very much!

  • @persephoneharrison3439
    @persephoneharrison3439 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    He who commits adultery lacks sense; he who does it destroys himself.

  • @candicesalazar5383
    @candicesalazar5383 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I was having severe health issues for years until he finally told the truth. Now my health is better. It felt like I was cursed living in his lies.

    • @SueAnderson-d3s
      @SueAnderson-d3s ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It makes sense

    • @JmenChristpas
      @JmenChristpas 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Same

    • @grace52775
      @grace52775 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is me. I was healthy before getting married. I was even put in a special member class by my health insurance after a health exam showed I was in perfect health. After just one year of marriage, everything began falling apart from the stress and his lies. Nine years later, should I numerate my health issues? I have a heart issue from stress, i lost my hearing from stress, i developed diabetes from hormonal problems due to stress, I'm losing my ability to remember and learn which is leading to dementia and it's due to stress.

    • @vanessarenae5169
      @vanessarenae5169 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What kind of health issues?

    • @DouglasNicholson-ff6ep
      @DouglasNicholson-ff6ep 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I went downhill and every single area of my life to the point where I was begging God to kill me or help me.....
      ..... He helped me by showing me directly that my wife had committed adultery.
      I have recovered since in every area of my life by the spirit of God in the KJV word of God but sadly..... my three children are still under her witchcrafts.

  • @lonniewhite4262
    @lonniewhite4262 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Your partner needs to know. If you don't tell them you have not repented.

    • @strawberriesblueberries2258
      @strawberriesblueberries2258 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I disagree

    • @ItsNicola
      @ItsNicola 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@strawberriesblueberries2258 I agree. It's taking your own pain and transferring it to someone else who doesn't deserve it. You need to live with the pain of what you’ve done

    • @gregstuart9783
      @gregstuart9783 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I AGREE, she denies all, with 2 separate partners, possibly 4 more! She refuses polygraph, so once all 4 kids are over 18, I’m gonna sit her down and ask her all the tuff questions in front of them! I think she will break down 😢, you might be able to lie to your husband and beg for forgiveness, but then lying to your 4 babies too!? Yeah, nahhh… she’ll be cooked!😅

    • @DouglasNicholson-ff6ep
      @DouglasNicholson-ff6ep 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ..... And they have to accept the penalty for their sin. For the wife, Matthew 19:9 KJV must be accepted.
      She destroyed her marital covenant..
      She can't sayyyyyy she repented, and then subtly blame the resolution of the marriage on her husband.
      That's witchcraft, not repentance.

  • @itsafantakis
    @itsafantakis 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    😊Not only that I had a friend tell me how people trick their partners into confessing (“Girl, that’s the oldest truck in the book”) to divorce them later …. That gives them the biblical excuse to divorce but no one talks about this trickery …

    • @lonniewhite4262
      @lonniewhite4262 ปีที่แล้ว

      The real trickery is your adultery.

  • @awomansstory.2019
    @awomansstory.2019 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    You have to tell them the truth.

  • @AntonioPena-vs2sg
    @AntonioPena-vs2sg 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Psstor good answer some pastor tell them that the victim doesn't need to know that crazy . I bless you pastor for your answer

  • @vivisvensson2747
    @vivisvensson2747 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thankyou for this very good video. 😊

  • @eliara-thevoice8430
    @eliara-thevoice8430 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Its easy NOT TO CHEAT. Never understood how or why people cheat. If you don't place yourself in positions where you might cheat....you won't. There is something to be said for being alone with members of the opposite sex....etc. There are many ways to avoid it.....not dressing seductively.....not flirting..... remain prayerful.

    • @carmenfonsrevilla8330
      @carmenfonsrevilla8330 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It’s not just about being in the wrong situation. You can also be tempted if you’re not walking well with the Lord and your marriage is no longer a happy marriage. Then you add temptation and you’re in for trouble.

  • @claudinepanna6233
    @claudinepanna6233 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hello my husband has committed adultery and he has his girlfriend living with him and we are still legally married and working on getting a divorce

  • @gregstuart9783
    @gregstuart9783 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ABSOLUTELY and thank-you…

  • @MrJimthebaptist
    @MrJimthebaptist 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    God can't bless a marriage with secrets. When Zacchaeus got saved, he not only got things right with God, he also made it right with people that he hurt in the past. Repentance is horizonal and vertical.

  • @itsafantakis
    @itsafantakis 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I told my spouse after he promised I can tell him anything and I love you…. I confessed and he divorced me…. I repented to God and my husband but later after he divorced me and admitted he played a part in it. I read in book of Jeremiah “ Not to trust man just trust God”…. I would’ve never told him and left it in Gods hand instead… I will always regret it …..Later studying on TH-cam I discovered he’s a covert narcissist and I was suffering from his abuse for him to confess he played a part in it …

    • @Clf5796
      @Clf5796 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Don't fall for that Narcissist bullcrap. Its victimizing yourself. Just be accountable.

    • @mars188
      @mars188 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      when you get married for better for worse so when someone cheats i would think it would go under worse- death do us part. but most all go for the divorce

    • @lonniewhite4262
      @lonniewhite4262 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Sounds like you are still trying to blame that man for what you did. That's narcissistic. Take accountability and stop blaming others. He may have forgave you but that does not mean he wants to stay with you. Take accountability and do better next time. That's it.

    • @YeshuaIsTheTruth
      @YeshuaIsTheTruth ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He played a part in what?

    • @grace52775
      @grace52775 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      He admitted fault, therefore he's not a narcissist. Maybe an a-hole or neglectful or even abusive, but not a narcissist.

  • @josephuwakmfon7693
    @josephuwakmfon7693 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good work. God bless you

  • @frankwhite1928
    @frankwhite1928 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I went thru this, and talk about a loving God after I found out how bad it really was He immediately began asking me to forgive her, it took me, no took Him a few days but I finally said yes. The thing was she didn't have to tell me, her cheating on me didn't destroy me, her confession did !!! ..and I didn't need to know details about it stuck in my head forever

  • @SjKansasCity
    @SjKansasCity 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What if they are separated, living separate for several years - does the other spouse still need to be told ?

    • @vanessarenae5169
      @vanessarenae5169 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Why stay in a separated state for that long? Amd yes. You need to be honest.

  • @JohnDought
    @JohnDought วันที่ผ่านมา

    Then we are back at, what if you tell your spouse and a week later the lawyer sends a letter for a divorce, a big fight has arisen because of this. is this good? by telling the "truth" divorce has come into the marriage. so if you want to avoid a divorce you have to tell the truth?

  • @DevieAnderson-ve7tx
    @DevieAnderson-ve7tx ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm not disagreeing but How many wives did Jacob have?

    • @JmenChristpas
      @JmenChristpas 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Description NOT prescription

    • @grace52775
      @grace52775 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      You do realize that's a story about why polygamy is bad, right? 😂

  • @DouglasNicholson-ff6ep
    @DouglasNicholson-ff6ep 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Every sin which God mandated stoning him (or her) to death first time, no ifs, ands, or buts, in the old Covenant.... Adultery, Sodomy, Beastiality, Premeditated murder..
    The increasingly hated KJV Bible says those very sins... if committed just once, are rock solid evidence that he or she is, has become "a child of the devil" 1 John 3:9-10 kjv and certainly not saved......YET.