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  • @sfernandez2002
    @sfernandez2002 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    I was betrayed and brokenhearted so badly. I've been healing, with prayer and trusting God. I was so angry and wanted to take revenge but soon realized vengeance is Gods and he will repay for those who came between my marriage and will be well deserved, but i learned to forgive, repent, but havent forgotten. I've given it to the Lord and am thankful for my children who live with me. In Gods timing, he will lead me if it's his will, i long for a godfearing woman! If not, God, im still thankful for everything gone on in my life that molded me into the man you needed me to be!

    • @BennettJonWayne-xw9vi
      @BennettJonWayne-xw9vi 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      The permanence view actually encourages adultery by removing the punishment for it instituted by Jesus Christ Himself. There are two exception clauses, in Matthew 19:9 and in Matthew chapter five verse 32, and you CANNOT REMOVE THOSE VERSES FROM THE BIBLE. They are there to MAKE CERTAIN THAT MARRAIGES ARE BOTH HOLY AND UNDEFILED. In the Bible days, the penalty for immorality was the death penalty. If the adulterer was stoned to death, the innocent party was not also stoned to death, and would be free to remarry. Adultery is serious business to God, and defiles a marriage. If the adulterer is rewarded for their actions by no penalty for immoral behavior, immoral behavior is encouraged, and accepted as a normal part of a marriage. The unconscionable acceptance of adultery in marriage that is promoted by the permanence doctrine's removal of the exceptions instituted by Jesus Christ Himself are an abomination to God, making a mockery of holiness in marriage by forcing an innocent spouse to "put up with" adultery on the part of a betraying, lying, deceiving, and unfaithful cheating spouse.

    • @susanmelcher1965
      @susanmelcher1965 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Amen, sending g prayers your way

    • @sfernandez2002
      @sfernandez2002 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @susanmelcher1965 thank you! We all need prayers and faith. God is just and having my children live with me while my wife is out doing things committing sins with other men is on her, and God is not mocked. For what one reaps, they will also sow from it

    • @ebest1338
      @ebest1338 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@BennettJonWayne-xw9vi What you have written here is well done. I feel it should be framed and put up in work places, churches, anywhere for all to see. Adultery is so common place. It's even encouraged, and hidden in even the church. No one wants to say anything. Yet, it seems many want/expect that those betrayed once, or several times should just take it as acceptable and go on. Adultery is very hurtful and damaging. Does anyone truly ask why God gave the command?

    • @sfernandez2002
      @sfernandez2002 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @ebest1338 Unfortunately, people won't ask why God gave commands for marriages, adultery, etc. Sad reality is we live in a world where, as you said, it's excepted even though courts don't view it as most important to punish the cheater and for that it's an abomination to God the father. God has blessed me with my daughter recently to live with me and my 2 sons! The devil doesn't rest, and the battle isn't over either, so I ask everyone to pray for me and my children to be guarded and that God stops any evil that comes against us. Thank you for the kind comment!

  • @jackiekittie6135
    @jackiekittie6135 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    No adultery here. I’m as faithful as faithful comes. Thank you, Pastor Fredo. 🙏

    • @jbouse64
      @jbouse64 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I've been told that before. 😉

    • @soyjeffe__
      @soyjeffe__ 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I don’t think it’s good it brag and say you’re better than people who might be struggling. God bless you though.

  • @mjennifer142
    @mjennifer142 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I’m lucky my husband left me for someone else. While I was working pregnant. Me and my son both got saved from him. My mental health is back to normal now after suffering for years with him. God really is good.

    • @metaphyziks7579
      @metaphyziks7579 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He did you a favor, idk what kind of “man” does that. God bless your efforts.

  • @saimadisetty5805
    @saimadisetty5805 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    God forgive those who cheated is somehow. We forgive forget and let them go. Amen in Jesus name.❤

    • @BennettJonWayne-xw9vi
      @BennettJonWayne-xw9vi 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      The permanence view actually encourages adultery by removing the punishment for it instituted by Jesus Christ Himself. There are two exception clauses, in Matthew 19:9 and in Matthew chapter five verse 32, and you CANNOT REMOVE THOSE VERSES FROM THE BIBLE. They are there to MAKE CERTAIN THAT MARRAIGES ARE BOTH HOLY AND UNDEFILED. In the Bible days, the penalty for immorality was the death penalty. If the adulterer was stoned to death, the innocent party was not also stoned to death, and would be free to remarry. Adultery is serious business to God, and defiles a marriage. If the adulterer is rewarded for their actions by no penalty for immoral behavior, immoral behavior is encouraged, and accepted as a normal part of a marriage. The unconscionable acceptance of adultery in marriage that is promoted by the permanence doctrine's removal of the exceptions instituted by Jesus Christ Himself are an abomination to God, making a mockery of holiness in marriage by forcing an innocent spouse to "put up with" adultery on the part of a betraying, lying, deceiving, and unfaithful cheating spouse.

    • @tracysnipes2144
      @tracysnipes2144 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@BennettJonWayne-xw9vi
      Exactly. Thank you. He must have been a cheater. All these men and women think that they can cheat and then read the Bible and ask for forgiveness after they indulged in the sin and enjoyed destroying other people as they was satisfying each other and sending Bible passages to each other and praying together committing adultery cheating and then after say we’ll just ask for forgiveness and everything is okay. And then do it all over again with someone else 😮

  • @michaelteruel1808
    @michaelteruel1808 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Message is fire bro. Thank you for putting in work on such a sensitive topic

  • @weireffie29
    @weireffie29 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks for the Truth and encouragement.😊

  • @awomansstory.2019
    @awomansstory.2019 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    My husband cheated after 27 years of marriage. It broke my heart. He cheated with his ugly married coworker, Maureen.

    • @crystalltee3305
      @crystalltee3305 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      It’s always the ugly co worker I am so sorry stay strong life moves on❤

    • @tmccle
      @tmccle 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wow, I hope you let Maureen’s 🤮🤮 poor husband know his wife is a pig

    • @geneva1169
      @geneva1169 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That bastard! I’m so sorry 😢 hope you find someone who deserves you 🙏🫶

    • @awomansstory.2019
      @awomansstory.2019 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@geneva1169 I am trying to work on my marriage. My faith is strong. It hurts. I'm a Christian and I didn't want my whole family and life destroyed by their selfish act.

    • @awomansstory.2019
      @awomansstory.2019 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@crystalltee3305 Life does move on.

  • @susanmelcher1965
    @susanmelcher1965 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you, this was beautiful ❤️🙏

  • @tineitei5392
    @tineitei5392 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you, Amen.

  • @parkerberlin4410
    @parkerberlin4410 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I needed this. 9 years with a cheater. Never knew until the end. Suspected, but never knew

    • @bsosbebe
      @bsosbebe 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      May God heal your heart and give you peace. ❤

  • @weireffie29
    @weireffie29 ปีที่แล้ว

    Truth

  • @caramelelo
    @caramelelo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i follow Paul in this matter, being single is a gift from god, i cannot even bear the idea of adultery even though i never had a relationship, i was never betrayed but the very idea makes me want to sit down hug my knees and cry, my eyes are tearing up as I'm writing it heh

    • @Pachanguh
      @Pachanguh 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I was like you, until some well meaning friends encouraged me to marry. Now going through a horrible divorce 20 years later... I wouldn't wish something like this on anyone.

    • @bsosbebe
      @bsosbebe 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Not everybody is a cheater

    • @Pachanguh
      @Pachanguh วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@bsosbebethat's true some folks are celibate

  • @lizannepelham476
    @lizannepelham476 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Jesus forgives however he told the woman at the stoning Go and sin no more. We have to confess our sins He is righteous and just however we have to repent from our sin and are instructed to life holy lives

  • @michellegodoy-xl1dc
    @michellegodoy-xl1dc ปีที่แล้ว +3

    1 Corinthians 6:19-20

    • @kristinamiller8928
      @kristinamiller8928 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@melaniemartin730 Great question! Your body is your temple, we should remember God's sacrifice for us and honor God by what we do and consume. Hope this helps!

  • @tammyturner8027
    @tammyturner8027 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow, ❤

  • @jaden8279
    @jaden8279 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This has changed my view on sex by so much. I know what sacrifice I have to make thanks to you. I don't want to date my girl no more bc were long distance and I was waiting till we have sex to break up. I know that I was wrong for even thinking of doing something like this. I will take this message to consideration and do what's right.

  • @carlossuarez1466
    @carlossuarez1466 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    We dont have morals...

  • @BennettJonWayne-xw9vi
    @BennettJonWayne-xw9vi 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    The permanence view actually encourages adultery by removing the punishment for it instituted by Jesus Christ Himself. There are two exception clauses, in Matthew 19:9 and in Matthew chapter five verse 32, and you CANNOT REMOVE THOSE VERSES FROM THE BIBLE. They are there to MAKE CERTAIN THAT MARRAIGES ARE BOTH HOLY AND UNDEFILED. In the Bible days, the penalty for immorality was the death penalty. If the adulterer was stoned to death, the innocent party was not also stoned to death, and would be free to remarry. Adultery is serious business to God, and defiles a marriage. If the adulterer is rewarded for their actions by no penalty for immoral behavior, immoral behavior is encouraged, and accepted as a normal part of a marriage. The unconscionable acceptance of adultery in marriage that is promoted by the permanence doctrine's removal of the exceptions instituted by Jesus Christ Himself are an abomination to God, making a mockery of holiness in marriage by forcing an innocent spouse to "put up with" adultery on the part of a betraying, lying, deceiving, and unfaithful cheating spouse.

  • @MrBlack-pj1jk
    @MrBlack-pj1jk 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Jeremiah 17:13 What was he writing in the dirt?

  • @jillanderson3037
    @jillanderson3037 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Please read Exodus 22:16. Fornication is when a woman marries a man who didn't take her virginity. Thank you!

    • @silverdragoneyes
      @silverdragoneyes 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Fornication is any kind of sexual act outside of marriage. This includes masturbation. Not 100% sure it includes kissing. Doesn't matter if it's done by a man or a woman. KJB Exodus 22:16 "And if a man entice a maid that is not betrothed, and lie with her, he shall surely endow her to be his wife." The verse is stating that if a man charms a single woman into sex, then he should make her his wife.

    • @jillanderson3037
      @jillanderson3037 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Oh.​@@silverdragoneyes

  • @carlossuarez1466
    @carlossuarez1466 ปีที่แล้ว

    Moses rule .get even..

    • @BennettJonWayne-xw9vi
      @BennettJonWayne-xw9vi 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Moses rule was a deterrent. The permanence view actually encourages adultery by removing the punishment for it instituted by Jesus Christ Himself. There are two exception clauses, in Matthew 19:9 and in Matthew chapter five verse 32, and you CANNOT REMOVE THOSE VERSES FROM THE BIBLE. They are there to MAKE CERTAIN THAT MARRAIGES ARE BOTH HOLY AND UNDEFILED. In the Bible days, the penalty for immorality was the death penalty. If the adulterer was stoned to death, the innocent party was not also stoned to death, and would be free to remarry. Adultery is serious business to God, and defiles a marriage. If the adulterer is rewarded for their actions by no penalty for immoral behavior, immoral behavior is encouraged, and accepted as a normal part of a marriage. The unconscionable acceptance of adultery in marriage that is promoted by the permanence doctrine's removal of the exceptions instituted by Jesus Christ Himself are an abomination to God, making a mockery of holiness in marriage by forcing an innocent spouse to "put up with" adultery on the part of a betraying, lying, deceiving, and unfaithful cheating spouse.

  • @carlossuarez1466
    @carlossuarez1466 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Eve cheated on Adam

    • @BennettJonWayne-xw9vi
      @BennettJonWayne-xw9vi 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      How did Eve cheat? With Satan you mean? Would that justify cheating in a marriage? The permanence view actually encourages adultery by removing the punishment for it instituted by Jesus Christ Himself. There are two exception clauses, in Matthew 19:9 and in Matthew chapter five verse 32, and you CANNOT REMOVE THOSE VERSES FROM THE BIBLE. They are there to MAKE CERTAIN THAT MARRAIGES ARE BOTH HOLY AND UNDEFILED. In the Bible days, the penalty for immorality was the death penalty. If the adulterer was stoned to death, the innocent party was not also stoned to death, and would be free to remarry. Adultery is serious business to God, and defiles a marriage. If the adulterer is rewarded for their actions by no penalty for immoral behavior, immoral behavior is encouraged, and accepted as a normal part of a marriage. The unconscionable acceptance of adultery in marriage that is promoted by the permanence doctrine's removal of the exceptions instituted by Jesus Christ Himself are an abomination to God, making a mockery of holiness in marriage by forcing an innocent spouse to "put up with" adultery on the part of a betraying, lying, deceiving, and unfaithful cheating spouse.

    • @bsosbebe
      @bsosbebe 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      And Adam left God for his Goddess (Eve), cause that’s what Eve wanted to be like God