I'm on day 169 of SR and I don't have intrusive lustful thoughts and fantasies any more. It's like a burden has been lifted and given me internal peace. I also no longer need any validation or ego food, which leads to even more peace.
Another goldmine of a channel brother - I’ve been on no fap / sr for almost 2 years now, it’s been amazing. Rather than rely on fiddling with yourself, I’ve met real women & built great connections. Now I’m working on controlling my urges & not falling into the trap of having meaningless hook ups.
Childlike happiness is exactly what happens. I have chosen celibacy because the only way I am willing to have sex is within a romantic relationship but too many people just want something casual which doesn’t benefit me so celibacy all the way.
Been single and celibate for 2 1/2 years. I am done with people. I love myself. But now I am happy in my lonesome. Passionate to play video games by myself. I have MS so I am not really that able any how. I am learning that being single and celibate is preferable for me. Solitude has peace.
Hey Evan, you’re my favorite TH-camr right now. Your videos perfectly match where I am. Semen retention, meditation, journaling, Indian spirituality, the Ashtavakra Gita, universal love, etc. Just like you I also went through some shit early in life that shattered my self esteem (in my case bullying/social rejection) and caused depression. Even the content you have about people pleasing/nice guy syndrome is relevant to me, as I chose the “fawn response” when I was bullied and even now still struggle with assertiveness to some extent. I’m healing, and have been especially helped by mushrooms (don’t think you’ve mentioned psychedelics however). I try my best to love myself and approach every situation from a place of love. But I’m still struggling to a small degree. I know it’s false but it’s very hard to not emotionally feel as though sex and validation from women is the ultimate key to happiness, as I’m a 22 year old virgin with a high sex drive. Unfortunately I broke my 11-day semen retention streak (didn’t binge though, just once), now I’m on Day 4 and I’m not failing this time. I’ve seen other TH-camrs make videos similar to yours, but their inner hate always shines through. Whether it’s shaming promiscuous women as evildoers, asserting that porn and promiscuity were forced onto us by intentionally malicious “globalist elites”, or believing they’re literally engaged in “spiritual warfare” with Satan. They can’t let go of directing hatred towards a perceived adversary. Your channel has none of that, just love for all beings. I’ve seen your channel grow just in the past week. Your channel is going to blow up 📈
Thanks so much for sharing brother and I appreciate the kind words. It sounds like you are definitely on the right track. It’s just a matter of being patient and sticking to it. Life will sometimes try to pull us away.
Celibate for many years and recently have chosen to quit drinking beer or any alcohol...finding it easier to not even notice women....I don't want to be social and have no need for human friends...my dogs are my friends ..I do like the idea of being Like a kid again ..and I also see nature as my friends the birds, the sky, the trees, the wind...I'm never alone
Hey Evan! Thank you for your video. I have started to notice this childlike joy coming back a lil bit. It's awesome and I will not trade it for lust ever again. Keep up the good work!
I been celibate since Jan. and i will be staying that way until my divine partner comes in... practicing semen retention... the energy i have is superhuman... its just amazing...
♡ • So true, I was never a highly sexual person - but in 2016 a sudden death triggered my spiritual awakening, dark night, deception, & eventual shamanic initiation. Monastic/ascetic life of abstinence has led me back to a state of peace only comparable to childhood. ⭐️✨💫💕🩷
Nice video. It's true what you say. Gurus always tell us to have the heart of a child but we don't get it until we realize they are talking about, among many things, lust.
It’s a heck of a journey going all the way down to the bottom and coming back up… the “incels” as you mentioned is a very unique journey that a soul chooses to embark on but if accomplished coming around full circle it’s quite the accomplishment that is noticed in the persons aura or energy. I don’t recommend this unless you are divinely lead and protected to do so. For me it was my faith and trust in The Lord Jesus Christ Yeshua. Unless the Lord builds it the person labors in vain 🙏🏻 respectfully I tell you that I wouldn’t be alive if I didn’t have the guidance and protection (going down to Sheol) from The Most High God. He gave His angels charge over me. Thank You Lord Jesus 💯
potrzeba ludzkosci Celibatu Umyslu- ktory by blokowal od zlego pesymistycznego( falszywo realistycznego) myslenia i od dolującego myslenia o sobie i tym co sie chce robić i o relacjach z innymi. A celibat seksualny czy taki związkowy to wiecej szkód niź korzyści
Question staying celebate until you get married if you don't or haven't met the one as they say, and still stay celebate, does that mean you are an incel thanks,
No, an incel is a man who really wants sex and who is unable to obtain it no matter what he seems to do. He may be very ugly or too short, or both. That is called a "trucel". A man who is just "voluntarily celibate" so to speak ( volcel) is not really an incel. A real incel may also get love and lust confused, obviously they are two different things.
Hey Evan, I'm on day 60 of nofap/ semen retention and I am still not feeling any better. I am coming from a severe porn addiction. Will it take more time for my brain to rewire or should I look into working on my self esteem? I am starting to feel discouraged.
@@myselfasevan A couple weeks ago, I woke up with a massive sense of desperation which gave way to a sense of urgency for self-improvement. It is almost so strong that it paralyzes me. I am struggling with implementing all the positive well being things that I have been learning about such as mindfulness, journalling, self-compassion, etc. It’s almost like “where do I start?”, it seems like such a massive mountain to start climbing. I am having feelings of stagnation and restlessness. I also feel a deep sense of regret and shame to having wasted most of my 20’s to this hedonistic pleasure. Sometimes when I have social interactions with people, my mind will remind me that I am a porn addict and that tends to take me out of the conversation and bring a low mood. I have not yet found a new found sense of self assurance that I was hoping to find by doing nofap/SR. Perhaps I am still in a flat line as this habit has been going on for 10 years, multiple times a day with increasingly more extreme content. It is perhaps naïve to think that 60 days could heal 3500 days of bad habits. Even though I am discouraged in my progress, my resolve is still very strong as I know PMO does not bring me any positive outcomes. Thank you for creating these videos and taking the time to reply to my comments, I really appreciate it.
Someone wants to get to new Heaven and New Earth 🌍 Matthew 18:3 ► Audio Crossref Comment Greek Verse (Click for Chapter) New International Version And he said: “Truly I tell you, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.
“So long as one does not become simple like a child, one does not get divine illumination.”
-Ramakrishna
Literally Matthew 18:1-5
@@_hue.and.me15 yes! ✌🏾💯💝
I'm on day 169 of SR and I don't have intrusive lustful thoughts and fantasies any more. It's like a burden has been lifted and given me internal peace. I also no longer need any validation or ego food, which leads to even more peace.
I know exactly what you mean
The sense of wonder I had as a child has definitely returned since I've been on SR. I experience pleasure from the simple things in life.
Same brother
Another goldmine of a channel brother - I’ve been on no fap / sr for almost 2 years now, it’s been amazing. Rather than rely on fiddling with yourself, I’ve met real women & built great connections. Now I’m working on controlling my urges & not falling into the trap of having meaningless hook ups.
Fiddling with yourself 😂 love it man, thanks for watching 🙌🏼
I like that, "fiddling with yourself". Sounds like something an Aussie guy might say.
Childlike happiness is exactly what happens. I have chosen celibacy because the only way I am willing to have sex is within a romantic relationship but too many people just want something casual which doesn’t benefit me so celibacy all the way.
Been single and celibate for 2 1/2 years. I am done with people. I love myself. But now I am happy in my lonesome. Passionate to play video games by myself. I have MS so I am not really that able any how. I am learning that being single and celibate is preferable for me. Solitude has peace.
Amazing! Good for you keep going
Relationships with opposite sex are highly overrated. Do you!
Hey Evan, you’re my favorite TH-camr right now.
Your videos perfectly match where I am. Semen retention, meditation, journaling, Indian spirituality, the Ashtavakra Gita, universal love, etc. Just like you I also went through some shit early in life that shattered my self esteem (in my case bullying/social rejection) and caused depression. Even the content you have about people pleasing/nice guy syndrome is relevant to me, as I chose the “fawn response” when I was bullied and even now still struggle with assertiveness to some extent.
I’m healing, and have been especially helped by mushrooms (don’t think you’ve mentioned psychedelics however). I try my best to love myself and approach every situation from a place of love. But I’m still struggling to a small degree. I know it’s false but it’s very hard to not emotionally feel as though sex and validation from women is the ultimate key to happiness, as I’m a 22 year old virgin with a high sex drive. Unfortunately I broke my 11-day semen retention streak (didn’t binge though, just once), now I’m on Day 4 and I’m not failing this time.
I’ve seen other TH-camrs make videos similar to yours, but their inner hate always shines through. Whether it’s shaming promiscuous women as evildoers, asserting that porn and promiscuity were forced onto us by intentionally malicious “globalist elites”, or believing they’re literally engaged in “spiritual warfare” with Satan. They can’t let go of directing hatred towards a perceived adversary. Your channel has none of that, just love for all beings.
I’ve seen your channel grow just in the past week. Your channel is going to blow up 📈
Hey, could you tell me which shrooms you suggest? Truffles?
Thanks so much for sharing brother and I appreciate the kind words. It sounds like you are definitely on the right track. It’s just a matter of being patient and sticking to it. Life will sometimes try to pull us away.
Celibacy is spiritual. Gone get on your spiritual journey and retaining will work like a charm.
I've noticed women not having sex with men, Withholding affection. I believe this is pushing the masculine awakening. It's funny
Celibate for many years and recently have chosen to quit drinking beer or any alcohol...finding it easier to not even notice women....I don't want to be social and have no need for human friends...my dogs are my friends ..I do like the idea of being Like a kid again ..and I also see nature as my friends the birds, the sky, the trees, the wind...I'm never alone
tru. all my creativity I had as a kid is coming back
That's my main reason
I'm 41 years old and Im on 6 years 9 months 21 days of celibacy.
Hell yeah! I’m ready to start semen retention again. I went years without sex and was fine. I’m sick of sex defining my relationship.
I can relate to everything you said. I actually started to feel like a child again and experience pure joy now.
Day 35 of SR
Did a 24 hour fast today just because I felt so good
Fasting is always good 👍
Hey Evan! Thank you for your video. I have started to notice this childlike joy coming back a lil bit. It's awesome and I will not trade it for lust ever again. Keep up the good work!
Its refreshing to see this bejng reflected on the mens side of the fence. As a woman i definitely agree with this. Keep it up guys❤
I'm experiencing similar things as a divorced man. Age 71.
That puts the 40 yearold virgen in a different light I need to see it again
I been celibate since Jan. and i will be staying that way until my divine partner comes in... practicing semen retention... the energy i have is superhuman... its just amazing...
Thank you for sharing, Evan. It takes guts to share these things. I've found myself in a similar situation, and I am glad to have found this video.
I'm at that stage as of this moment, I tend to just laugh at anything, things that used to piss me off back when I was constantly cooming.
I experience childlike happiness when not being celibate.
♡ • So true, I was never a highly sexual person - but in 2016 a sudden death triggered my spiritual awakening, dark night, deception, & eventual shamanic initiation. Monastic/ascetic life of abstinence has led me back to a state of peace only comparable to childhood.
⭐️✨💫💕🩷
Thank you that was cool. Am on day 30, trying to overcome a lot of things
I love this. Very uplifting video bro.
Nice video. It's true what you say. Gurus always tell us to have the heart of a child but we don't get it until we realize they are talking about, among many things, lust.
Yes! 🙌🏼
Great video , talk a lot of sense. All pornography has done is mess up the world.
Porn is very destructive, there is no doubt about it. Along with greed/rampant hypergamy, narcissism.
I love this stuff, hearing about these benefits.
always, great substantiated video's from your part. Sometimes hard to find in among these topics. thanks. gr
Glad you dropped in 🙌🏼
It's all so 'Beautiful' in this eternal moment..nothing compares..😊❤
I've started watching and enjoying cartoons again! 😬😊
Haha me too
😂😂😂😂 I thought I was the only one
I feel like a kid again , I'm going back to eden.
Wow. I love this perspective!
It’s a heck of a journey going all the way down to the bottom and coming back up… the “incels” as you mentioned is a very unique journey that a soul chooses to embark on but if accomplished coming around full circle it’s quite the accomplishment that is noticed in the persons aura or energy. I don’t recommend this unless you are divinely lead and protected to do so. For me it was my faith and trust in The Lord Jesus Christ Yeshua. Unless the Lord builds it the person labors in vain 🙏🏻 respectfully I tell you that I wouldn’t be alive if I didn’t have the guidance and protection (going down to Sheol) from The Most High God. He gave His angels charge over me. Thank You Lord Jesus 💯
I been like that too n it's been almost 3 years! I had a stroke 2021 n I relapse 2 x n I was done
Great video bro
potrzeba ludzkosci Celibatu Umyslu- ktory by blokowal od zlego pesymistycznego( falszywo realistycznego) myslenia i od dolującego myslenia o sobie i tym co sie chce robić i o relacjach z innymi.
A celibat seksualny czy taki związkowy to wiecej szkód niź korzyści
i feel like a kid still... and so does baby al
Question staying celebate until you get married if you don't or haven't met the one as they say, and still stay celebate, does that mean you are an incel thanks,
No, an incel is a man who really wants sex and who is unable to obtain it no matter what he seems to do. He may be very ugly or too short, or both. That is called a "trucel". A man who is just "voluntarily celibate" so to speak ( volcel) is not really an incel. A real incel may also get love and lust confused, obviously they are two different things.
Good point 🎯
Hey Evan, I'm on day 60 of nofap/ semen retention and I am still not feeling any better. I am coming from a severe porn addiction. Will it take more time for my brain to rewire or should I look into working on my self esteem? I am starting to feel discouraged.
Yes, you need to work on your self-esteem as well. SR is not a cure all. What are you feeling?
@@myselfasevan A couple weeks ago, I woke up with a massive sense of desperation which gave way to a sense of urgency for self-improvement. It is almost so strong that it paralyzes me. I am struggling with implementing all the positive well being things that I have been learning about such as mindfulness, journalling, self-compassion, etc. It’s almost like “where do I start?”, it seems like such a massive mountain to start climbing. I am having feelings of stagnation and restlessness. I also feel a deep sense of regret and shame to having wasted most of my 20’s to this hedonistic pleasure. Sometimes when I have social interactions with people, my mind will remind me that I am a porn addict and that tends to take me out of the conversation and bring a low mood. I have not yet found a new found sense of self assurance that I was hoping to find by doing nofap/SR. Perhaps I am still in a flat line as this habit has been going on for 10 years, multiple times a day with increasingly more extreme content. It is perhaps naïve to think that 60 days could heal 3500 days of bad habits. Even though I am discouraged in my progress, my resolve is still very strong as I know PMO does not bring me any positive outcomes. Thank you for creating these videos and taking the time to reply to my comments, I really appreciate it.
It can take a lot longer than that to fix a porn addiction.
What is SR?
New subscriber here.
Thank you 🙌🏼
Someone wants to get to new Heaven and New Earth 🌍
Matthew 18:3 ►
Audio Crossref Comment Greek
Verse (Click for Chapter)
New International Version
And he said: “Truly I tell you, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.
Massdebating was the drug I wished I didnt find out about