Well if your husband is Steve Harvey it would be a fair trade off for him not to do house work. The man brings home millions the least you could do is cook n clean
When my dad grew up it was his father that made the Christmas cookies and Christmas candy because he was better at it, that same grandfather would cross stitch all the time and was very knowledgeable about yarn, and my mom hates housework so dad was the one mopping and what not so I grew up on "there are no gender roles, just stuff that needs to get done." Sure I grew up in a bit of a different culture but still... we need to account individual skillset. I married a man that has a job similar to janitor (easiest way to explain) so he gets up earlier than me and I wake up to the smell of mopped floors and clean toilets on the weekend because it comes natural to him to do that. Chores are not pink or blue, just something to do. And remember to show gratitude when someone has done a chore because everybody likes chores better when it gets appreciated with a "thank you for doing that!"
I never thought of it this way. I grew up with the "gender rules." I work secularly and still try to fulfill the cooking and cleaning. Guess what? I feel a certain amount of guilt when I don't consistently get it all done. My husband grew up with a mother that stayed home and cooked 5 days a week and did all the chores until he was 15 yrs-old. He is spoiled and he does not like left overs. He will also talk about me to his mother if I "fall short." For reasons other than this we are not currently together. Whew, that really takes a load off.
In Steve’s case it’s a fair trade off because Majorie doesn’t have to work or provide at all financially. As long as there’s balance I’m fine with having roles
Steve is bringing home the bacon...He don't have to do a damn thing. His wife need to take care of that house whether she does it herself or hires someone. ;) Say that!!!!
I don't understand that mentally that providing (fiancially, physsically, etc) for someone you love and care about is being a slave or a bank account. I get frustreated when i cannot do or give to ppl i care about. So it's not that ppl have unrealistic expectation, i think it just ppl being self-centered ans selfish. when you love you want to give. when you love that love extend to physical intimacy so i don't understand i you can gice yourself away to someone yet be so reluctant to do for them....
@Allen Reynolds Just because my husband works in the home doesn't make him less of a man..... I respect him more actually because I don't know many men that can do what he does and does it very well..... I might add.
@Allen Reynolds I'm just trying to figure out how can you as a man speak for women? Times have changed. I'm sure I am not the only woman that has a stay at home Husband. And yes I can understand what you are saying do you understand what I am saying?
@Allen Reynolds I'm trying to agree with you on the aspect that no I am not a man and I know men are hunters.... But I was just trying to explain my relationship with my husband and how it works for us. My husband is not just a stay at home husband He's a Retired Veteran as well he has an income and I'm sure he finds it very rewarding spending time with our Children because he didn't have a father in the home. He's great with our kids.. We are great as a family.... I never was trying to be the spokeswoman for ALL women or men for that matter just myself....
But you know not all women but a lot of women have made it so difficult for men to even approach them yes they set a ridiculous standard and today's society there more women making the money than ever before I see nothing wrong with a man staying home raising the children it takes both parties to be strong to be able to accomplish this in a marriage thank you Steve God bless have a good weekend
it's me true, I didn’t mean in that context- I meant more that he thinks that men and women shouldn’t have equal tasks at home. But I don’t think that’s fair and it’s old fashioned to think only the woman should be responsible for all the home stuff without splitting it equally with the guy or at least him helping
@@ItWillRainXO if the woman is helping out with half the finances the man should help w half the housework. If the man, like Steve, brings in most of the money he doesn't need to help out that much
Steve has the right mentality about relationships or maybe I feel that way bc I’m 35 yrs old. To make any relationship work, you have to have a partner with the same views. So, Steve is perfect for Marjorie. If my husband had 5 or more jobs to provide for the family, I wouldn’t expect him to do any housework bc he’s tired! Me not having to work and have the pressure of paying bills frees my mind to take care of kids, have hobbies, volunteer, visit with family/friends, tend to his needs and clean the house. And I have the option to hire someone if I don’t feel like cleaning. Nowadays, all genders wants to be treated equally. Equality has women paying 50/50 on all the bills with their significant others and still doing all the housework. #ThatsARoommate
I appreciate Steve for making it plain. A lot of men just wake up and say "where my shirt" and my butt will say "in the dirty clothes, you ain't wash last night" Don't expect me to just do everything.
Good topic now if I was an old-fashioned gentleman I would say that women should be home man should be bringing the money home and she should be your mother and a wife but that's not so in today's society things have changed drastically I accept the change
Marriage is partnership and no one should feel undervalued or over used. I don’t do more than my husband. We have a system in place with the kids and housework. I started pursuing my career when my second son was 1year and 10 months. My husband took the childcare, housework plus school runs. The days I don’t work I do the same. Is about helping one another and ensuring everyone is happy and fulfilled
@@lovexoxo251 Sounds like you want your cake and eat it to. Marriage is 50/50 give and take.and I didn't say anything about working on cars other than changing the oil. Mechanics don't wash and wax,or detail. (please don't take offense )
@@danogle9927 Yea it is 50/50 which is why men should be willing to help cook, clean and take care of their own children. Men aren't pregnant a whole nine months we can't share that so the least you can do is help around the house. I can go somewhere to get my car washed and waxed as well. So the only thing left is outside work and that's not a daily task.
@@lovexoxo251 By 50/50 you mean splitting every task equally? If a husband works 60 hours a week earning 60% of the income and the wife works 40 hours a week earning 40% of the income should the husband partake as much in taking care of the home as the wife does? Is that what 50/50 means?
Steve is right! Women quit fighting it. Get a maid and do the rest yourself. Don't fight with a man over cleaning. Let him work. You don't want a wimpy man.
That's not a "wimpy" man just because he cleans like who tf raised some of ya'll that's just ridiculous. And if you dirty and don't clean then you hire the maid and let your wife know when she'll be coming.
True, men should come on board... I do the cooking for my family most of the time... Sure there are things I cannot do simply because I am a man - like breastfeeding our son... But I can help change diapers when mummy isn't around...
These people can afford to pay someone to clean I wash cloths cook babysit and when my wife work at nite when she get up supper ready the other side when I go fishing I don't want to hear nothing so I feel a man should help sometimes
that company advice was terrible "If the men dont take the notes you dont take the notes" This dumbest advice i ever heard thats an easy way to fired, when your boss tells you something in your meeting you should have it written down or else your going to be unprepeared.
I am still very traditional. I believe the man should handle handyman stuff around the house while the woman should take care of the domestic nurturing of the house, however the woman should know how to do basic handy stuff ,just increase she's in a situation where the husband isn't home and the husband should sometimes offer to cook or wash dishes, especially to give his wife a break.
@Paul Hogue yep. Hence the saying that the wife's income is the backup income. When your husband is low on income due to a layoff, illness or something else, it's expected that the woman becomes the provider until he's able to. At least where I come from.
@Paul Hogue Paul if you couldn't get what I meant, that's in you. Relationships are based on understanding . Do what works for you and stop looking for an argument. I just gave that as a major example that will work in any situation. Some have arrangements that the woman can pay for basic things like groceries or pay bills or whatever. I stated clearly,where I come from.. so yes, many families are ok with the man providing financial while the woman doesn't pay for anything except if she feels like it or she might even be a stay at home wife to take care of the family. It'depends on what works for u
Well, to my future ol’lady....I know how to wash my own clothes (which prefer to do), I know how to wash dishes and use a dish washer. The only thing I lack in is cooking but I have a great reason why but hey, it’s a great way for us to bond and you can teach me, I will always wash da dishes. Also, you will know that the food will be cooked to your standard because you showed me😌 But I do know how to to cook survive for myself. And I always take the trash out with no problem.
First off Doc. I disagree with yes if you want something done right do it yourself true. As a team it should down the middle I'll do this you do this but don't tell me I am doing this wrong because I'm not doing it your way
@@izonlimi662 well a lot of women do that in marriages too their husbands whether it's how you make the kids breakfast or P,B& J sandwich to changing a diaper
We help each OTHER out but I am not doing garbage or mowing .. My husband helps me clean if I need him to but for most part it's pretty much I keep inside clean he keeps outside clean
Every marriage should be a team effort. Both party’s have to do what works for their marriage (team) in some households the husband works and the wife stays home to take care the home. In other households both party works whatever your situation may be work at it together as a team.
Only thing I’m not willing to do load the dishwasher or anything complicated and ironing. My boyfriend loads the dishwasher and we have a dryer that irons. 😇😂
Better . . . no there just stuck in there ways. Men find the better, quicker with less effort than females. But we always get branded with "you didn't do it properly" even though it ended with the same result
If a man can foot the bills for house keeping that's ok .. but I don't want no man telling me that's your job as a woman , imma do it because I want to and I enjoy doing it. Also I think cleaning after yourself is just a life skill every human being must have at least learn how to put things back where you took them .
I'm SO sick and tired of hearing the same old BS from women when they talk about men. Tired and dismayed at how men are portrayed in the media. Sick to my teeth of being told I'm lazy, a deadbeat dad, dangerous.. and on and on and on it goes.
Yea my dad did too but he cooked more, well he's like a chef so he should have. I just hate when people act like it's a woman's job especially when she has to work just as much as the man.
Women should do work from the start because if I date a woman I won't live with her because of common law marriage I don't want to be any kind of marriage. Also if she wants me to do things the moment she micro manages or criticizes how I do something she asked me to do is the moment I stop doing it and never help her with that ever again.
imagine seeing a group of women building a sky scraper then they would be there for years and years you can do that work if you like but you dont like hard jobs like that do you
WELL.... if he’s doing all the working and paying all the rent and bills the least you could do is clean up and cook for him. If you’re not willing to work and help pay bills why should he have to help you with your part?
It's crazy how none of these ladies want to admit who does more in the relationship. It's either they are the breadwinner in their family or they make more money and they have a feminine husband that cooks, cleans and clean while they bring home the paycheck. These woman seem to take the husband role while their husband take the wife role. It's funny how they want to act like it's 50/50 when it's never 50/50 but a partnership but someone is going to end up doing more (depending on how you look at it). It's either the man (the wife 😄) or the woman (the husband, the provider).
Actually, SIR. it's quite MASCULINE when a man TAKES CARE OF HIS WIFE. Not the other way around. That's what a MAN does. Takes very GOOD care of HIS wife! Just thought I share that. Husband brings home the bacon, cook the bacon, and serve the bacon. That's what a REAL HUSBAND DOES FOR HIS WIFE.
2:57 - Amen.. 💯🎯💯 U reach a point where time is too valuable to spend on housework, as u can make much more whilst u pay someone else to do it.. 💣 - @Acharich
If you're well-to-do, Steve's approach is fine--hire a housekeeper. If not, the men need to do their part. If they do an equal amount of work, including, say, repairs and yard work, okay. If their paid job takes more hours, then it's okay if they can't do 50% of the housework. But the total amount of work should be equally shared.
Take on what u good at. With my ex when live together he cook most of the time cause he could cook better, we clean up he had certain areas. I did laundry...etc. It was really 50/50 but dude start trippin 🤦🏾♀️😂
Since hypergamy is practiced generally and across cultures the likelihood of 50/50 is very low. Just make sure you agree on the roles and their consequences before you get married.
A woman with extra time on her hands is very risky, she start to... ... think. 😳 I don't mind cooking & cleaning after but, that's it; unless she's pregnant, different situation.
My relationship with my second husband works.I do the majority of the housework,because he's disabled.he looks able bodied,but some things he simply cannot do.he does what he can to help out.
Who the heck told you that you couldn’t ? You do know that machines now adays have things called filters right ? And could even get the bag for delicates.
Does their fair share? It's usually the man doing the far harder jobs to bring home the money. When do you see women climbing poles, working in sewers, building roads, houses and putting out fires. The vast majority of these hard workers are MEN. You women moan and complain but look at the world around you. It was built by us now sit down.
Women just want to forsake their roles and put everything on their man/husband. If it’s a partnership and you truly want to trade off.....Stop making excuses and trade off. All this stupidity about work life and having to juggle between it and family is annoying......If you choose to work and have a family then you need to man or woman up to the consequences of those choices.....Not pass them up. If a man were to say, “I’ve been working all day and I’m tired and need a break from things...He’d be crucified for it. Society and some women just want to put unnecessary burdens on men. Should he help? If it’s his house (meaning he lives there)....Yes.....However, Just because he helps doesn’t mean the woman needs to stop doing whatever task he takes on. A partnership is just that......A partnership.....You do what the other can’t. Sometimes a partner has to do more than the other in some areas...Especially if it’s their strength. i.e. If a wife cooks better than her husband then she needs to do the cooking.....Simple as that.
Hell No. I give my wife anything she want. I'm not going to babysit clean or cook. Like Steve said she can hire someone and i will pay. My wife can work if she wants to and i don't need her money she can keep it. i don't care. But this is what i need. Clean home, ready food, everything organized and my wife. One thing i will do for my kids is Discipline them. Thats my job.
Well if your husband is Steve Harvey it would be a fair trade off for him not to do house work. The man brings home millions the least you could do is cook n clean
WORD!!!!
Right!!!
Exactly
With millions, they probably have maids...
Do you honestly think that Marjorie cleans? Get real people, they even have a personal chef!!!
But he pays all the bills...that’s more than ok with me.
Sit down and talk to your spouse and find out who is comfortable doing whatever the tasks may be.
Exactly..... I work outside the home and my husband is at home with the kids..... We talked about it and it works for us.
*Communication. Remember you are a team and need to work together.*
Exactly bro
Right, communication is the solution.
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Uhh, actually, observation is the answer. Don't let anyone have the chance to smooth talk. Prove it.
When my dad grew up it was his father that made the Christmas cookies and Christmas candy because he was better at it, that same grandfather would cross stitch all the time and was very knowledgeable about yarn, and my mom hates housework so dad was the one mopping and what not so I grew up on "there are no gender roles, just stuff that needs to get done." Sure I grew up in a bit of a different culture but still... we need to account individual skillset. I married a man that has a job similar to janitor (easiest way to explain) so he gets up earlier than me and I wake up to the smell of mopped floors and clean toilets on the weekend because it comes natural to him to do that.
Chores are not pink or blue, just something to do. And remember to show gratitude when someone has done a chore because everybody likes chores better when it gets appreciated with a "thank you for doing that!"
I never thought of it this way. I grew up with the "gender rules." I work secularly and still try to fulfill the cooking and cleaning. Guess what? I feel a certain amount of guilt when I don't consistently get it all done. My husband grew up with a mother that stayed home and cooked 5 days a week and did all the chores until he was 15 yrs-old. He is spoiled and he does not like left overs. He will also talk about me to his mother if I "fall short." For reasons other than this we are not currently together. Whew, that really takes a load off.
@@wintersweet6717 Sounds like an immature manchild if he cant even handle leftovers. I hope you find a better happiness than that 💜
@@wintersweet6717 THANK GOD YOU'RE FREE
@@wintersweet6717 I hope you now have peace, your job was not to raise him.
In Steve’s case it’s a fair trade off because Majorie doesn’t have to work or provide at all financially. As long as there’s balance I’m fine with having roles
That's what I said....sign me in Steve 😄
Steve is bringing home the bacon...He don't have to do a damn thing. His wife need to take care of that house whether she does it herself or hires someone. ;) Say that!!!!
First time I didn’t agree with Steve! I believe in a partnership, I am nobodies slave nor bank account!!!!
I work outside of the home my husband is a stay at home husband and father.... it works for us.
I don't understand that mentally that providing (fiancially, physsically, etc) for someone you love and care about is being a slave or a bank account. I get frustreated when i cannot do or give to ppl i care about. So it's not that ppl have unrealistic expectation, i think it just ppl being self-centered ans selfish. when you love you want to give. when you love that love extend to physical intimacy so i don't understand i you can gice yourself away to someone yet be so reluctant to do for them....
@Allen Reynolds Just because my husband works in the home doesn't make him less of a man..... I respect him more actually because I don't know many men that can do what he does and does it very well..... I might add.
@Allen Reynolds I'm just trying to figure out how can you as a man speak for women? Times have changed. I'm sure I am not the only woman that has a stay at home Husband. And yes I can understand what you are saying do you understand what I am saying?
@Allen Reynolds I'm trying to agree with you on the aspect that no I am not a man and I know men are hunters.... But I was just trying to explain my relationship with my husband and how it works for us. My husband is not just a stay at home husband He's a Retired Veteran as well he has an income and I'm sure he finds it very rewarding spending time with our Children because he didn't have a father in the home. He's great with our kids.. We are great as a family.... I never was trying to be the spokeswoman for ALL women or men for that matter just myself....
Terri Vaughn is just BEAUTIFUL soul!!!
These woman are not honest. I dont feel their home life is the way they're trying to portray it to be.
Is that because you live with them or know them personally?
Calm down he just says his opinion lmao
@@silvershadow7655 Its just a feeling. You're entitled to your own opinion by the way.
@Lord Jay A "real" man helps his wife, they said nothing about running their man they said they have teamwork in their household.
Why
But you know not all women but a lot of women have made it so difficult for men to even approach them yes they set a ridiculous standard and today's society there more women making the money than ever before I see nothing wrong with a man staying home raising the children it takes both parties to be strong to be able to accomplish this in a marriage thank you Steve God bless have a good weekend
Steve has such an old fashioned mentality about relationships
The problem is that once his views became "old fashioned" the single motherhood rate skyrocketed bringing all the bad stuff that brings along....
it's me true, I didn’t mean in that context- I meant more that he thinks that men and women shouldn’t have equal tasks at home. But I don’t think that’s fair and it’s old fashioned to think only the woman should be responsible for all the home stuff without splitting it equally with the guy or at least him helping
If Marjorie don't work outside the home, she should do the chores. Steve works hard to provide a very comfortable lifestyle.
@@ItWillRainXO if the woman is helping out with half the finances the man should help w half the housework. If the man, like Steve, brings in most of the money he doesn't need to help out that much
Steve has the right mentality about relationships or maybe I feel that way bc I’m 35 yrs old. To make any relationship work, you have to have a partner with the same views. So, Steve is perfect for Marjorie. If my husband had 5 or more jobs to provide for the family, I wouldn’t expect him to do any housework bc he’s tired! Me not having to work and have the pressure of paying bills frees my mind to take care of kids, have hobbies, volunteer, visit with family/friends, tend to his needs and clean the house. And I have the option to hire someone if I don’t feel like cleaning. Nowadays, all genders wants to be treated equally. Equality has women paying 50/50 on all the bills with their significant others and still doing all the housework. #ThatsARoommate
I appreciate Steve for making it plain. A lot of men just wake up and say "where my shirt" and my butt will say "in the dirty clothes, you ain't wash last night" Don't expect me to just do everything.
Good topic now if I was an old-fashioned gentleman I would say that women should be home man should be bringing the money home and she should be your mother and a wife but that's not so in today's society things have changed drastically I accept the change
Marriage is partnership and no one should feel undervalued or over used. I don’t do more than my husband. We have a system in place with the kids and housework. I started pursuing my career when my second son was 1year and 10 months. My husband took the childcare, housework plus school runs. The days I don’t work I do the same. Is about helping one another and ensuring everyone is happy and fulfilled
Do the ladies,cut the grass,trim the bushes,weed eat,clean ,wash,and wax the cars change the oil. ?
What does that have to do with anything. Most men these days don't even do car work, you have to take it to the mechanic.
@@lovexoxo251 Sounds like you want your cake and eat it to. Marriage is 50/50 give and take.and I didn't say anything about working on cars other than changing the oil. Mechanics don't wash and wax,or detail. (please don't take offense )
@@danogle9927 Yea it is 50/50 which is why men should be willing to help cook, clean and take care of their own children. Men aren't pregnant a whole nine months we can't share that so the least you can do is help around the house. I can go somewhere to get my car washed and waxed as well. So the only thing left is outside work and that's not a daily task.
@@lovexoxo251 By 50/50 you mean splitting every task equally? If a husband works 60 hours a week earning 60% of the income and the wife works 40 hours a week earning 40% of the income should the husband partake as much in taking care of the home as the wife does? Is that what 50/50 means?
They’re clowning Steve but he works 7 jobs and has a net worth of 150 mil I think he does his part
Lmao! The Doctor vs Steve. Always so entertaining.
Steve is right! Women quit fighting it. Get a maid and do the rest yourself. Don't fight with a man over cleaning. Let him work. You don't want a wimpy man.
That's not a "wimpy" man just because he cleans like who tf raised some of ya'll that's just ridiculous. And if you dirty and don't clean then you hire the maid and let your wife know when she'll be coming.
@@lovexoxo251 ... you're a female you can't think from a man's pov ..
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my husband can load that dish washer better than anybody
True, men should come on board... I do the cooking for my family most of the time... Sure there are things I cannot do simply because I am a man - like breastfeeding our son... But I can help change diapers when mummy isn't around...
I really agree with the Dr's opinion most of the time!
I love cleaning the toilet and bathroom and kitchen. I don’t like laundry and hoovering so my partner does that. I have not hoovered in years
And because of Handy.com, we can all get someone to come clean our house...they came & washed dishes 😂😂
😂😂😂😂
These people can afford to pay someone to clean I wash cloths cook babysit and when my wife work at nite when she get up supper ready the other side when I go fishing I don't want to hear nothing so I feel a man should help sometimes
There will be no woman cooking or cleaning or doing laundry or doing dishes in my house. You have one job 🤗
that company advice was terrible "If the men dont take the notes you dont take the notes" This dumbest advice i ever heard thats an easy way to fired, when your boss tells you something in your meeting you should have it written down or else your going to be unprepeared.
Girl, I can’t load the dish washer. 🤷🏾♀️😂
All long term relationships are by definition, not necessarily equal, but should be fair.
I am still very traditional. I believe the man should handle handyman stuff around the house while the woman should take care of the domestic nurturing of the house, however the woman should know how to do basic handy stuff ,just increase she's in a situation where the husband isn't home and the husband should sometimes offer to cook or wash dishes, especially to give his wife a break.
@Paul Hogue yep. Hence the saying that the wife's income is the backup income. When your husband is low on income due to a layoff, illness or something else, it's expected that the woman becomes the provider until he's able to. At least where I come from.
@Paul Hogue Paul if you couldn't get what I meant, that's in you. Relationships are based on understanding . Do what works for you and stop looking for an argument. I just gave that as a major example that will work in any situation. Some have arrangements that the woman can pay for basic things like groceries or pay bills or whatever. I stated clearly,where I come from.. so yes, many families are ok with the man providing financial while the woman doesn't pay for anything except if she feels like it or she might even be a stay at home wife to take care of the family. It'depends on what works for u
Well, to my future ol’lady....I know how to wash my own clothes (which prefer to do), I know how to wash dishes and use a dish washer. The only thing I lack in is cooking but I have a great reason why but hey, it’s a great way for us to bond and you can teach me, I will always wash da dishes. Also, you will know that the food will be cooked to your standard because you showed me😌 But I do know how to to cook survive for myself. And I always take the trash out with no problem.
What a lucky ol'lady
Terri that dress is beautiful!
First off Doc. I disagree with yes if you want something done right do it yourself true. As a team it should down the middle I'll do this you do this but don't tell me I am doing this wrong because I'm not doing it your way
Yes, that's very belittling and de-motivating.
@@izonlimi662 well a lot of women do that in marriages too their husbands whether it's how you make the kids breakfast or P,B& J sandwich to changing a diaper
We help each OTHER out but I am not doing garbage or mowing .. My husband helps me clean if I need him to but for most part it's pretty much I keep inside clean he keeps outside clean
Every marriage should be a team effort. Both party’s have to do what works for their marriage (team) in some households the husband works and the wife stays home to take care the home. In other households both party works whatever your situation may be work at it together as a team.
Is that Lovita?! “Haaaay Ceddy!!” 😩🤣
Raise your children, and demonstrate how to cook and clean. Your mother in law dropped the ball.
Only thing I’m not willing to do load the dishwasher or anything complicated and ironing.
My boyfriend loads the dishwasher and we have a dryer that irons. 😇😂
Better . . . no there just stuck in there ways. Men find the better, quicker with less effort than females. But we always get branded with "you didn't do it properly" even though it ended with the same result
If a man can foot the bills for house keeping that's ok .. but I don't want no man telling me that's your job as a woman , imma do it because I want to and I enjoy doing it. Also I think cleaning after yourself is just a life skill every human being must have at least learn how to put things back where you took them .
I'm SO sick and tired of hearing the same old BS from women when they talk about men. Tired and dismayed at how men are portrayed in the media. Sick to my teeth of being told I'm lazy, a deadbeat dad, dangerous.. and on and on and on it goes.
My grandfather cooked just as good as my grandmother but he still wanted her to do it
Yea my dad did too but he cooked more, well he's like a chef so he should have. I just hate when people act like it's a woman's job especially when she has to work just as much as the man.
Women should do work from the start because if I date a woman I won't live with her because of common law marriage I don't want to be any kind of marriage.
Also if she wants me to do things the moment she micro manages or criticizes how I do something she asked me to do is the moment I stop doing it and never help her with that ever again.
Heck im jusy tryna find someone who'll do the bare minimum.
gawd!!!
imagine seeing a group of women building a sky scraper then they would be there for years and years you can do that work if you like but you dont like hard jobs like that do you
What???? This whole conversation has me confused.
When I saw the title, I thought it was about sex
I want two. An indian chef who cooks and someone who does the household, I'll help a little ;-).
Chef who cooks?
You were. Ot rich forever, and everyone knows how they just choose not to
Something is very wrong going on with west mordern women..
But it always feels like that at the back of our heads...
...that is way to much surgery one one face
Im sure she went with ill take the 2 maids 😂😂😂
This ladies are just beautiful.
Keep up the good work together(family)
This plastic surgery though
Marjorie does not WORK!
WELL.... if he’s doing all the working and paying all the rent and bills the least you could do is clean up and cook for him. If you’re not willing to work and help pay bills why should he have to help you with your part?
Steve Harvey is so extra. You should help your wife....
He does! He always make sure there is alot money in the bank!
It's crazy how none of these ladies want to admit who does more in the relationship. It's either they are the breadwinner in their family or they make more money and they have a feminine husband that cooks, cleans and clean while they bring home the paycheck. These woman seem to take the husband role while their husband take the wife role. It's funny how they want to act like it's 50/50 when it's never 50/50 but a partnership but someone is going to end up doing more (depending on how you look at it). It's either the man (the wife 😄) or the woman (the husband, the provider).
Actually, SIR. it's quite MASCULINE when a man TAKES CARE OF HIS WIFE. Not the other way around. That's what a MAN does. Takes very GOOD care of HIS wife! Just thought I share that. Husband brings home the bacon, cook the bacon, and serve the bacon. That's what a REAL HUSBAND DOES FOR HIS WIFE.
A feminine husband who cooks? WTF is wrong with you. Most of the best chefs and cooks in the world are MEN.
You're a dope.
2:57 - Amen.. 💯🎯💯 U reach a point where time is too valuable to spend on housework, as u can make much more whilst u pay someone else to do it.. 💣 - @Acharich
If you're well-to-do, Steve's approach is fine--hire a housekeeper. If not, the men need to do their part. If they do an equal amount of work, including, say, repairs and yard work, okay. If their paid job takes more hours, then it's okay if they can't do 50% of the housework. But the total amount of work should be equally shared.
But Steve is willing to pay for extra help. Some men don’t so I think it is fair what Steve does.
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Take on what u good at. With my ex when live together he cook most of the time cause he could cook better, we clean up he had certain areas. I did laundry...etc. It was really 50/50 but dude start trippin 🤦🏾♀️😂
Lydia Renee 😂😂 why was he trippin?
DetroitRed03 start making more money then him and insecurity 🤦🏾♀️😂
Lydia Renee 😂😂😂😂😂
Since hypergamy is practiced generally and across cultures the likelihood of 50/50 is very low.
Just make sure you agree on the roles and their consequences before you get married.
Dr. V is mad hot
You know what's crazy my ex felt useless cause i did everything by myself didn't care if she helps or not but would always give her chance to help.
Why y'all make the thumb nail that face? I don't think she appreciates that, serious tho....
The women was taken from the man's rib for the purpose of being by the man's side a helper for the man.
😂 Who lied to you?
@@SSWBJC1 I said HELPER!
@@V33KTOR_NG read the Bible it can't tell a lie.
no one agreed
You're correct, Gen 2:18
Whatever works for a couple and as unusual as it may seem there are people that enjoy house work. Willing to bet those on stage have hired help .
If someone is as rich as Steve is.. he doesn’t have to do all these and “their” wives knows that somehow.
A woman with extra time on her hands is very risky, she start to...
... think. 😳
I don't mind cooking & cleaning after but, that's it; unless she's pregnant, different situation.
Can you get me one too ? 💁♀️😘
That is so me..... LOL! Thanks Babe
Single women with no kids don't have these problems
I don't see why Steve should have to do any house chores! I agree with him.
Do you do the things that men traditionally do?
It’s amazing how a lot of women are applauded when they make excuses but let a man make the same excuse......All un heavenly things break loose.
Steve just lazy lol.
I hear you! But he has the money to be lazy!
Steve works hard for his money.
@@wintersweet6717 you can do you your and still be lazy lol. I go to school and made the Dean's list last semester, I'm still lazy AF.
He has like 3 jobs
@@TejBBF223 Again, when you decide I'm never doing ANY household chores, that's laziness. You can have jobs and school and still be lazy.
My relationship with my second husband works.I do the majority of the housework,because he's disabled.he looks able bodied,but some things he simply cannot do.he does what he can to help out.
Not! Another! Beard!
You can never do anything right for a woman... which is why men just leave them to it🙄
Why does she have shop glasses on?
Marriage is a partnership.
Do you see the matrix ?
Because could I do the same to you
I DO NOT like Dr. V AT ALL!
I never did let the man do the laundry. Most men don’t know how! Men wash jeans with socks and blankets all at the same time 😁
Who the heck told you that you couldn’t ? You do know that machines now adays have things called filters right ? And could even get the bag for delicates.
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This is vital information!
I think it is sad that even in these times it is considered HELPING when a man steps up and does his fair share.
Does their fair share? It's usually the man doing the far harder jobs to bring home the money. When do you see women climbing poles, working in sewers, building roads, houses and putting out fires. The vast majority of these hard workers are MEN. You women moan and complain but look at the world around you. It was built by us now sit down.
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Women just want to forsake their roles and put everything on their man/husband.
If it’s a partnership and you truly want to trade off.....Stop making excuses and trade off.
All this stupidity about work life and having to juggle between it and family is annoying......If you choose to work and have a family then you need to man or woman up to the consequences of those choices.....Not pass them up.
If a man were to say, “I’ve been working all day and I’m tired and need a break from things...He’d be crucified for it. Society and some women just want to put unnecessary burdens on men.
Should he help? If it’s his house (meaning he lives there)....Yes.....However, Just because he helps doesn’t mean the woman needs to stop doing whatever task he takes on.
A partnership is just that......A partnership.....You do what the other can’t. Sometimes a partner has to do more than the other in some areas...Especially if it’s their strength. i.e. If a wife cooks better than her husband then she needs to do the cooking.....Simple as that.
Women these days.... can you go under the hood and replace the transmission? I'll cook dinner
Most men caint do that either
Nope but neither can my husband. Thank god for a little thing called mechanics. There's one in every town.
Some can ;but how often is that necessary?
Barbara Richardson brakes, tires, oil changes, fluids, alternators, filters, mufflers, etc. you must not own a car lol
Barbara Richardson if a women can’t cook or make any $$ what use is she?? Oh Yeah my sex partner lol
Dr V contradicted herself
She contradict herself all the time.
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Hell No. I give my wife anything she want. I'm not going to babysit clean or cook. Like Steve said she can hire someone and i will pay. My wife can work if she wants to and i don't need her money she can keep it. i don't care. But this is what i need. Clean home, ready food, everything organized and my wife. One thing i will do for my kids is Discipline them. Thats my job.