He said it all with "they give you grace." He wants to be able to treat the woman in his life anyway he wants with less chance of losing her because they generally don't know they're values or worth yet. They are also more likely to believe in the "a piece of man is better than no man at all" bs. Personally, I can deal with intermittent loneliness but I CAN'T put up with any more abuse than I grew up with already. Peace of mind is always better than a piece of🍆.
Is this trick really saying there's no difference between 21-25 year old and 12-15 year old? Gtfoh pauly! I guess that means vvomen should be treated like children regardless of age.
@@SosukeTYBW It's WHY he PREYS on them that is the isssue. I don't think this person is projecting, they just have their opinion. Like you did, and like I'm doing now.
@@SosukeTYBW Also, I saw the extended version. Go check it out. Furthermore, let’s not pretend we don’t know why some men choose girls or younger ladies who are still naive. Claiming that I am projecting because it’s too much truth for you won’t stop me from saying it.
@@SosukeTYBW Okay, so nobody on here is going to try to convince you or any other pedophile that grown men who prey on girls or very young ladies is problematic. And don’t try to convince us that these men have pure motives and no one should be suspicious of them.
@@r410a6 Whats being said is that there are men on youtube who actively subscribe to asking "what do you bring to to the table?" to women. This was in response to you saying there were no men asking women that question. If you do just a little bit of looking into manosphere content youll see it. Stop gaslighting.
@@TheRealBlackPanda And if you read my latest reply I said Both need to take responsibility,I blame both so if you really are fair you would see that last point that I made but I understand that’s how people who don’t look on both sides and able to see truths and lies from both perspective because everyone as the tendency to throw blame on jus one side.All I said was I’ve seen and know people who either the man is older or the woman vise versa where the relationship works because they both are on the same page.I didn’t defend the grooming part because that process belongs to the right of a parent or parents.All I said is that if your 18 and older your viewed as Adults.There’s nothing immoral if a man or a woman marry each other if there’s an age gap if both parties are comfortable.There’s nothing immoral or illegal if two adults marry and start a family that’s all I’m saying.But like I said people pick and chose what they see as immoral via having sex out of wedlock is immoral for both men and women.
He completely took me out when he took this video to a whole new level with the "side-tooth, missing bicuspids, and whistling involuntarily. " 🤣🤣🤣🤣 It got real and no lies were told!
Let's be realistic, he's not with these young ladies because he wants lasting, committed relationships with any of them. He wants to prey on these ladies and be totally void of boundaries. He is creating the very type of woman that he wants nothing to do with.
My question is how do you know he wants to do any damn thing you're just assuming s*** most men like younger women because that's biologically with men like men like women more fertile now what is intentions are I can't say that a bad or good cuz I don't know and no one does so but you're creating this whole fiction of all of a man likes a younger girl that is an issue no don't know man with no woman that's stuck in her f****** ways at 30 years old the f*** is wrong with you if that's what you wanted you by all means could go ahead and get it but not all men want that
Only facts here. My husband called that dude a late bloomer. And to the young ladies, if a 30-something year old man wants to date you because you're "malleable," please run. Maybe call the police, too. And though I'm not into celebrities, my first thought when Michael B and that Lorrie Harvey girl broke up was, "Good. Now, he can go find a grownup." And yes, Shuler please pray for these awful Black relationship podcasters and TH-camrs. They're like wounded animals trying to bite back.
You are just self-righteous. You don't know nothing about that man. Call the police for what? In case you didn't notice, those are adults women. Malleable is not a bad word. It just mean they are not stuck in there ways
I thought the exact same thing about that situation. Why was a 35-year-old man trying to marry a 25-year-old girl? I mean I know she's a young woman but that's barely passed College age. He has to think about where his mind was at 25. It wasn't on marriage
@@dwaynehudspeth728 malleable means easy to change, easy to influence, without a strong mind of their own period what grown man wants that? Somebody who is not secure in themselves. I'm sorry but if you are in your 30s and still trying to date College kids, that's a problem
@@usmokndopeordogfood7542 Obviously our great leaders' work benefited EVERYBODY. Please stay on topic. We are discussing the current relationship climate, not civil and social rights. Please give the names of current thought leaders that are standing up openly in support of Black women today. ....
Why You Slap A Lable On It? "Black Grown Women".. He Never Specified Black Specifically He Said WOMEN.. That Shit Mean All Races & Ethnicities.. Entitled Ass Comment Like The Other Ethnicities & Shit Don't Matter Or He Only Talkin Bout Black Women You Made It Up
I kinda disagree with shuler I'm 36 I only date 22/26 yr old Females they are the most agreeable, attractive and easy to get a long with but each it's own
It's ALMOST almost impossible to raise younger women to have better standards. That's comes with experience life experience, that's mostly understood. Especially with females,
And this type of man is DANGEROUS. The supposed love of my life tried to saddle me with his three kids (by two mamas, one deported), all while he was cheating on me, then had a nerve to belittle me in front of his friend because my degree was in the humanities and his woman's was in biology. Talked smack about younger women behind my back when he thought I couldn't hear him, but even at 23, I knew he was doing me wrong. There was more he did to me than I'll reveal here, but your youth is an asset, just like your knowledge and experience are asset(s- Edit). You can't control the fact that you're losing the first one, but you can control gaining the second set. No man is worth the suffering, the sacrifice of your dignity or the loss of years of your life if he's just grooming you for abuse. You ARE enough, and you CAN do better.
Even at 21-25 I would not have put up with any kind of treatment. I never gave anyone the opportunity to disrespect me twice. A man stood me up for a date once then thought he could continue to call/text/ask for another date. Nope that was the last time we communicated. Another one was pursuing me hard, flirting shamelessly but when it came to it he never actually asked me out. Sending mixed signals. Out! Another wanted a stay at home wife but was pursuing me (Medical student at the time), thinking he could change my whole life path for his cute eyes. Lol, out! Ladies, men will do the most egregious things and then expect "grace".
Yeah but some people aren’t raised the same way. I had to take a step back and realize that the dynamics in my household wasn’t the same in other people’s households. I’m vindictive so that has never ever worked for me and I just don’t have those types of feelings. I will ghost someone in 2.5 seconds. My friend got killed at 15 over a boy. I don’t and will never ever have those types of feelings.
I love Shuler gives props to the women who are grown and make sure their husbands drink their water, take their vitamins, a help bring their dreams/ambitions to the next level!!! A grown woman can upgrade your life and as a grown man, you can do the same for her 🥰❤️❤️❤️
I have no issues with it. Putting himself on blast in such a specific way will help save a lot of women -- young and old -- a lot of trouble. He better watch himself, though. Some of these younger chicks will take him for everything. Player will end up getting played -- and he'll be mad about it!
Likewise with women taking advantage of men also.It’s life.Women date up,Men date down.Plus if you have forgotten,20 is an adult.If you commit a crime,they are not gonna say your too young so let’s give you a warning.They gonna treat you like adults.Western society is so weird.Now I’m hearing that people can’t define what a woman is and very women are supporting this kind of movement lol
True...And let's not forget this is also why alot of younger women date older dudes with some money to take advantage of them meanwhile they got a dude on the side that's their age 21-25 and using the sugar daddy money to look good for them 🤣
“21, You just got off yo momma plan” if they ain’t still on it! 😂 Male podcasting in the black community is literally the blind, leading the blind. 🧑🏿🦯 follow me boys 🤣🙃
I know right! It's like how do they even have time in the day to make hours of content about how much you hate black women, hate black men, hate modern women, hate dusty men, divesting, red-pilling, passporting, having a hoe year, or whatever. It's like get some therapy, some Jesus, and gone on.
I lost it when he talked about the tooth 😹😹😹 even lemar being a BB player didnt even know he had to take care of the hole in his teeth with all that money 😹😹😹😹😹
@@robindrush When older men are attracted to very younger women, its rarely women who are confident, mature and self assured. That's not who they want.
Go Mr. Shuler. You read him head to toe. Even bicuspid issues were exposed. Get you a grown woman and leave these babies alone. Young girls can be easily persuaded. I had to run off a few that were grinning at my daughters. They never knew Momma had a WORD for Mr. Shyster and Mr. Booty Caller. They disappeared. Told them don't even ride down my street. I got something for you.
I was agreeing with you until you called them "babies." They are not high school girls, they are grown women regardless of his intentions. Let's not infantilize grown people just because of the large gap in age and the intentions of the man.
I honestly believe he couldn’t handle a grown woman because she can think for herself! Period! He’s one of those. Sad, immature & must not have anything REAL going for him. Well said sir! Thank you💯 From a GROWN WOMAN!🤗
They usually don’t stick around long enough to provide guidance to their daughters, hence the reason these men feel comfortable. It’s a cyclical dynamic and the reason women must be extremely mindful with whom they procreate.
I had my ex (who left to mess with an 18 year old and he was 35 at the time)tell me that if his daughter did it (who was 17 at the time),he wouldn't care because she's grown..
Same 🤓🤓! Much respect to ALL of the real fathers, uncles, male cousins, brothers (etc) who's keeping it real with the little girls! As we grow up, and yes, bump our heads we will begin to remember what we were taught! I REFUSE to listen to this jive talk on the internet. The character of what the men in my family displayed was more than enough (good and bad). Thanks 🤓
Shout out to mine too! At 21 I graduated from college and moved back home with my parents who molded me and groomed me as was their job. My now husband of 25 years had to deal with my father in order to date me. I am so happy to have had my father's guidance because he wasn't tolerating the BS and he taught me my worth.
Older females lose their mind and add extras and falsehoods on the situation to make themselves feel better when men want a new car over an old, used up one that's been in a few crashes.
@@4naymsakeRW there's nothing "creepy" about that! Any real man is going to want a woman that he can mold and customize to what he wants her to be for HIM. You BW just make anything traumatic or weird 🤣🤣🤣
@@mauricerobinson3184 ...all Predators are Narcissists, they are just festering at the lowest level of the humanity, feeding on the most innocent prey they can find. In hope to steal their life force, only to dig a deeper spiritual grave for themselves. They are the grossest of pests.
😆🤣…. Everything was serious; I even had the forehead frown going on….. and then all of a sudden, Shuler mentioned “involuntarily whistling” from the loss of the side tooth and all hell broke loose 😂😆…. I can’t ! 😆
This is literally what most men say about dating the younger women. It’s literally because they are looking to groom and control someone. Meanwhile, a lot of the young men are starting to look at the grown women these same men are swearing off. And taking them seriously, too. 👀
@@MiyahM301 if a woman is seeking young men and that is her preference, she is definitely taking advantage. If it is done utilizing a mental advantage, it is Predatory. There are a lot of younger men(women) that do not like the dating scene with people their age and seek out older people for stability and security.
Shuler is right these people are youth absorbers and they are proud of it too 😒. Unfortunately, there will always be that one youngin' who will take the bait because it is almost always something in it for them too. As soon as he expires she/he/who/whatever else will move on to the next thing after the joy ride is over saying it was "fun" while it lasted 🤷🏾♀️.
Well that depends on the reason he's looking for so you're just assuming that this person is going to do that you don't even know him he might want to spend his life with someone I don't know why you're trying to make biology a crime men like young women is fine they're more fertile than women are and most people not even women most people in their thirties are stuck in their ways
Man this shit happens to young ladies who daddy M.I.A, I would literally put my hands on a 33yr old man and my baby 21, no sir, you not dragging my child down.
You are speaking the unadulterated truth and I love you for it. They know we can't be mentally manipulated as older women. They're spiritually sick and mentally depraved with nothing to offer an older woman. Ive been married 26 years and I feel sorry for most successfully mature spiritual women today because many of the brothers have the minds of young boys and thats unacceptable. Love you Shuler for ALWAYS speaking the truth and keeping the humor alive. We all need to take time to laugh and enjoy the moment because life is too short. I pray God will enlighten this man who's into very young women and bless him with much common sense.
@I Am Retired mature means being fully developed, physically and or mentally. You can be physically mature at 18, but perhaps not mentally, mental maturity can happen at any age, or maybe never at all. You sound like him, you're the one who needs to wake up. 😌
Well said and true! But don't knock all young women, he's looking for a specific type of dummy. A lot of these young woman out here will tell you about yourself with a quickness. I know, I raised 2 of them.
Jus too get over on take advantage of THIS IS WHY I TAUGHT MY DAUGHTER HER WORTH GROWING UP. My daughter is now working for the ATF HAS HER OWN ONLINE CLOTHING STORE HAS HER BACHELORS &MASTERS DEGREES. My Son he also was taught his worth HE 👨🏾🎓 FROM AN HBCU BACHELORS AND MASTERS DEGREE It was very tough but I’m a very determined mommy and grandma now jus turned 50 my kids retired me in Jamaica 🇯🇲 they took me on this amazing trip I can now sit back oh by the way I still have my license as a registered nurse 👩🏽⚕️ worked in Trauma for 20 yrs also Labor&delivery as well my degree was in MICROBIOLOGY I’ve always wanted my children too do better than I soo I fought 🙏🏾 everyday all day praise God for my beautiful life I have issues jus like anyone else it’s jus different when ur children help u a beautiful thing.
Bottom line is he doesn’t wanna deal with a woman in his age bracket because women in his age bracket are sure of themselves they know who they are and what they want out of life and not only that they won’t put up with his nonsense.
@@overit5446 that's not true at all. A man can take a 22 year old woman working at burger King and make her his wife. And he be perfectly fine. Yall simps don't know how to lead.
@@HelloAutoCarz are you trolling or being sarcastic? America literally is one the places on earth you can have sex with anyone without being committed. Women are not getting married as virgins in this country.
What does he have at that age. If he’s not already a leader, financially secure, emotionally intelligent, physically capable and pleasing with morals and integrity and a support system of family or friends there’s nothing he can teach or offer a young girl. Nothing wrong with its legal but if he’s old and still struggling mentally, emotionally and financially it’s a waste of youth if he’s not working in that direction or have results already.
If you actually understood what he said you would know he just want to manipulate the poor girl. He’s someone with value but he can’t fix that side tooth of his?!?! Y’all are delusional
@@charminglove8594 You’re a goofy! I understood what was said. How do you lack reading comprehension? I never said he was a man of value, the fact that he thinks he is but probably can’t provide anything I mentioned is the highlight of the comment. I was only adding my two cents because I can and all I’m referring to is what should be considered by young women that may like older men and pointing out in general that men that think like him don’t feel they need to have anything I mentioned or just don’t have it.
@@ACIEOFFICIAL what your describing is a mentorship not a relationship. It’s creepy that you guys would go above and beyond to try to justify this foolishness.
@@charminglove8594 you goofy broad no one is supporting it. You have to live in reality that this happens and since it does and neither you or I can stop it there are things men should come with especially a old man because he’s not desired to begin with. As an older person you should have your shit together especially if you’re entertaining someone. These type of relationships ruin young women because the men don’t want them to love them they want the ego and body.
Shuler that’s why l subscribe to you. You got some sense and keep it real. You tell folks what they need to hear and it be the truth. You care about our people and want the best for them.
Translation: Malleable- do what I say, Extremely Cooperative- do what I say, Give You Grace- do what I say and don't care I have nothing to bring to the table or the relationship! Smdh
You are to be seen, not heard! If you're not bringing peace and nurturing to the table along with what you think is valuable to you, that other stuff doesn't matter 🤷🏿♂️
@@Magnolia3720Slim “you are to be seen not heard” a women not supposed to speak in a relationship? Y’all need to be with men at this point, this is getting ridiculous.
Well said Shuler👏🏾👏🏾Thank you for providing clarification, just in case some men didn’t know the difference between young women vs a “Grown women” Maybe the question needs to be, why are some men intimidated by a “grown educated” women who takes care of business? 🤔
I remember I went out with a 30 year old at 21…he took me to White Castle 👀 I look at this old man and said you have lost your mind! I grew up with my dad in the home and 4 older brother! I knew it was something wrong and NEVER dated someone that older than myself.
@@LadyMargaretSteppin smh 😑 I feel sorry for you need you threpy how do you generalize a whole gender because you have bad experiences so by your logic every woman I've been with should be a shit ass woman by your logic
Say it brother! Say it loud! I thank you for saying that because it needs to be said! Shuler you made me get up and do a Pentecostal Holy Ghost dance! I love your honesty Shuler. You are truly a good man.
Smh, just making sh*t up lol. A new car is better than an older, used, beat up one with random left over luggage. Ok, next subject because that's pretty much what it boils down to.
@@buddyraw9778 So when you get old, you'll be worthless and useless too? There's a reason why more women have a problem with this. This isn't about women getting older and getting less attention. This is about young women getting caught up and not knowing when a man is using her for his interest. I couldn't understand why grown men have been trying to mess with me since I was 8 years old. Most women deal with this growing up. The only men that care are fathers. They only care about their daughters and no one else's daughters
@@buddyraw9778 In other words, men and women are merely items to be used for personal interest and gratification? Everyone will get older. The 20's only last ten years. You better be filthy wealthy at 45+, else, you'll just be older, beat up, used goods with random left-over luggage. And make sure you tell that to your sons and daughters too...Blessings.
Age is relative....there are some grown woman 21-25 year olds....and some 30,40, 50 year old hot messes. The question should be, who wants to deal with a thirty-something man with this mentality?🤔
so the issue is age,because there are slim beautiful women in their 30s...so after all its not that you want the slimness its the age gap...because when she young she dumb and that makes her cooperate regardless
Older Women That Like Em Young They're Called Cougars...What Is He Called?...Puma( Preying Upon Malleable Adults) Sir Just. Because There Is Snow On The Roof Doesn't Mean There's No Fire 🔥 In The Furnace!!!😂🤣😂
I've seen young men like this. They don't like to be challenged at all. They feel a certain way about women in their age and beyond. Men like this like simpletons.
He said it all with "they give you grace." He wants to be able to treat the woman in his life anyway he wants with less chance of losing her because they generally don't know they're values or worth yet. They are also more likely to believe in the "a piece of man is better than no man at all" bs. Personally, I can deal with intermittent loneliness but I CAN'T put up with any more abuse than I grew up with already. Peace of mind is always better than a piece of🍆.
“They give you grace” that sound like some church shit.
it was "malleable" for me...#loser🤏
FACTS
Best Comment.
Well stated
He'll be out there making young women miserable for years to come.
for as long as they allow him to do it.
Amen.
All while crying about how someone is treating his daughters, sisters and cousins.
Yup, until somebody daddy flip out on his ass. My daddy wasn’t having that
Facts… he ain’t a thing in this world
Most 21 to 25 year olds don't know what they want or who they are yet. This goes for young men and women. He just wants someone to control.
Agreed 🤓!
All BS !! Stop neglecting nature
Except when an older woman schemes on young men, everyone is quiet.
Is this trick really saying there's no difference between 21-25 year old and 12-15 year old? Gtfoh pauly! I guess that means vvomen should be treated like children regardless of age.
@@remysolar9407 when had this happened or went viral.
So basically, he wants a woman he can train to accept his nothingness, his cheating, and his abuse.
He’s selling a class: How to Be a Doormat 101.
Sound like your projecting cuz how did you get any of that from him just liking younger women
@@SosukeTYBW It's WHY he PREYS on them that is the isssue. I don't think this person is projecting, they just have their opinion. Like you did, and like I'm doing now.
@@SosukeTYBW Also, I saw the extended version. Go check it out.
Furthermore, let’s not pretend we don’t know why some men choose girls or younger ladies who are still naive. Claiming that I am projecting because it’s too much truth for you won’t stop me from saying it.
@@rgeorge8618 it's not based in truth it's based in delusion and demonizing men for literally anything
@@SosukeTYBW Okay, so nobody on here is going to try to convince you or any other pedophile that grown men who prey on girls or very young ladies is problematic. And don’t try to convince us that these men have pure motives and no one should be suspicious of them.
Imagine being a 33 year old man and asking a 20 year old what she brings to the table. I know his momma embarrassed lol 😆
😂😂😂😂😂they bring misery.betrayal
No man is asking a woman that lol
@Randomized What question again?
@@r410a6 Whats being said is that there are men on youtube who actively subscribe to asking "what do you bring to to the table?" to women. This was in response to you saying there were no men asking women that question. If you do just a little bit of looking into manosphere content youll see it. Stop gaslighting.
@@TheRealBlackPanda And if you read my latest reply I said Both need to take responsibility,I blame both so if you really are fair you would see that last point that I made but I understand that’s how people who don’t look on both sides and able to see truths and lies from both perspective because everyone as the tendency to throw blame on jus one side.All I said was I’ve seen and know people who either the man is older or the woman vise versa where the relationship works because they both are on the same page.I didn’t defend the grooming part because that process belongs to the right of a parent or parents.All I said is that if your 18 and older your viewed as Adults.There’s nothing immoral if a man or a woman marry each other if there’s an age gap if both parties are comfortable.There’s nothing immoral or illegal if two adults marry and start a family that’s all I’m saying.But like I said people pick and chose what they see as immoral via having sex out of wedlock is immoral for both men and women.
How to say you're controlling without saying you're controlling.....
That's exactly what it is. 'Control' He's just trying to make his preference of why he want a younger woman sound good. smh
Post this again except in all caps I think someone missed that part of the discussion. The people in the back didn't hear you.
How to say that you are trash without saying that you are trash!
Narcissist
Exactly
If the “young” ones are so right for him, why hasn’t he found a wife yet? Oh that’s right, he’s not looking for one…
So by that logic all the many men dating 25-40 who haven’t found a wife yet ain’t looking for one either huh? Man y’all are fucking ridiculous
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Facts and I bet he goes for baddies as well lol
He will be looking for a wife when he is a senior citizen and need a health care provider instead of a wife.
I was NOT prepared for the “side-tooth” mention… I damn near choked 😂😂😂
First thing I noticed!!
I cackled!!!
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😂😂😂⚰️⚰️⚰️😂😂😂
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He completely took me out when he took this video to a whole new level with the "side-tooth, missing bicuspids, and whistling involuntarily. " 🤣🤣🤣🤣 It got real and no lies were told!
Yes 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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I am weak but it true!
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Thank you for speaking up for grown women Shuler 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿
Homeboy really out here exposing his insecurities 😂
Factssssss 🎯🥴
Sho ya right.
Exactly
Well stated.
and gums
Let's be realistic, he's not with these young ladies because he wants lasting, committed relationships with any of them. He wants to prey on these ladies and be totally void of boundaries. He is creating the very type of woman that he wants nothing to do with.
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Right Wanda probably most of the ones he's dating wasn't raised with a father or father figure at home
Oooooo stop talking facts
My question is how do you know he wants to do any damn thing you're just assuming s*** most men like younger women because that's biologically with men like men like women more fertile now what is intentions are I can't say that a bad or good cuz I don't know and no one does so but you're creating this whole fiction of all of a man likes a younger girl that is an issue no don't know man with no woman that's stuck in her f****** ways at 30 years old the f*** is wrong with you if that's what you wanted you by all means could go ahead and get it but not all men want that
@Anti - Republican What’s wrong with hitting it and quitting it?
Because. A grown women will hold you ACCOUNTABLE
He said “whistling involuntarily.” I fell out…👀😂💯
Fell all the way out!!😆😆😆
“Whistling involuntarily” took me out.. I’m COLD 🥶
Only facts here.
My husband called that dude a late bloomer. And to the young ladies, if a 30-something year old man wants to date you because you're "malleable," please run. Maybe call the police, too.
And though I'm not into celebrities, my first thought when Michael B and that Lorrie Harvey girl broke up was, "Good. Now, he can go find a grownup."
And yes, Shuler please pray for these awful Black relationship podcasters and TH-camrs. They're like wounded animals trying to bite back.
"They're like wounded animals trying to bite back" I fell out with this right here, because it ain't nothing but the truth 🤣🤣🤣
Just hollered at the last sentence 🤣✔️
You are just self-righteous. You don't know nothing about that man. Call the police for what? In case you didn't notice, those are adults women. Malleable is not a bad word. It just mean they are not stuck in there ways
I thought the exact same thing about that situation. Why was a 35-year-old man trying to marry a 25-year-old girl? I mean I know she's a young woman but that's barely passed College age. He has to think about where his mind was at 25. It wasn't on marriage
@@dwaynehudspeth728 malleable means easy to change, easy to influence, without a strong mind of their own period what grown man wants that? Somebody who is not secure in themselves. I'm sorry but if you are in your 30s and still trying to date College kids, that's a problem
Whistling Involuntary out the SIDE of YOUR MOUTH 😂😂😂😂😂😂
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😂😂😂😂😂😂
It took me out.
I hollered 🤣
I literally was not prepared for that 😩🤣😂🤣😩🤣🤣
Thank you Shuler! Finally a Black man standing up for us forty-fine plus women! 🙌🏾 🥰🤩👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💎💎💎💎
Haha Forty-fine! I'm going to use that when I'm in my forties. 😂💜
Finally a black man standing up for you? I guess Malcolm X, MLK, Dr. Sebi, Tupac etc. list goes on just did what they did for the hell of it🤦🏽♂️
forty-fine??? Whatever. The only thing a woman in her 40’s can do for me is introduce me to her daughter.
Yes! These men out here our same age & much older shaming women for aging. WTF. I want ALL my years & so does thier mothers and daughters!
@@usmokndopeordogfood7542 Obviously our great leaders' work benefited EVERYBODY. Please stay on topic. We are discussing the current relationship climate, not civil and social rights. Please give the names of current thought leaders that are standing up openly in support of Black women today. ....
Thank You Shuler for protecting us Black Grown Women while being funny at the same time 👏🏾🤣
Why You Slap A Lable On It? "Black Grown Women".. He Never Specified Black Specifically He Said WOMEN.. That Shit Mean All Races & Ethnicities.. Entitled Ass Comment Like The Other Ethnicities & Shit Don't Matter Or He Only Talkin Bout Black Women You Made It Up
Shuler and EJ Speaks need a sitcom. Y'all way to honest and funny as hell!!!😅
I never understood the problem with getting older. That's a blessing
men don't want that same way women don't like broke men and men shorter than them
@@clarkkent52 older men aren’t any better lol, dick be weak , bones weak lmao
@@clarkkent52 Thats only in America. Women here are brainwashed
Blessings indeed
I kinda disagree with shuler I'm 36 I only date 22/26 yr old Females they are the most agreeable, attractive and easy to get a long with but each it's own
He didn’t “rob the cradle” he just “kidnapped the daycare” 😂😂😂😂
Nooooo🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
LMAO 🤣
LMBO right playing in the kindergarten yard
Joe log off 😂 🤣
Damn that's a good one,🤣🤣🤣
Not one lie told. He’s not insecure. He has no integrity!!! But he’s honest about what he’s doing. Raise your kids to have better standards👀
It's ALMOST almost impossible to raise younger women to have better standards. That's comes with experience life experience, that's mostly understood.
Especially with females,
Right Jay so glad my husband and myself did he's looking for girls that didn't have a father or father figure in their lives
I’m sure he’s not the only one on this post that thinks like him, don’t be fooled
How about you men learn treat a girl or woman better. Stop blaming the female for the behavior of male that lack emotional intelligence and morals.
It certainly is near impossible but look at where not trying has got us.
He doesn't want a woman that will hold him accountable.
And this type of man is DANGEROUS. The supposed love of my life tried to saddle me with his three kids (by two mamas, one deported), all while he was cheating on me, then had a nerve to belittle me in front of his friend because my degree was in the humanities and his woman's was in biology. Talked smack about younger women behind my back when he thought I couldn't hear him, but even at 23, I knew he was doing me wrong. There was more he did to me than I'll reveal here, but your youth is an asset, just like your knowledge and experience are asset(s- Edit). You can't control the fact that you're losing the first one, but you can control gaining the second set. No man is worth the suffering, the sacrifice of your dignity or the loss of years of your life if he's just grooming you for abuse. You ARE enough, and you CAN do better.
Even at 21-25 I would not have put up with any kind of treatment. I never gave anyone the opportunity to disrespect me twice. A man stood me up for a date once then thought he could continue to call/text/ask for another date. Nope that was the last time we communicated.
Another one was pursuing me hard, flirting shamelessly but when it came to it he never actually asked me out. Sending mixed signals. Out!
Another wanted a stay at home wife but was pursuing me (Medical student at the time), thinking he could change my whole life path for his cute eyes. Lol, out!
Ladies, men will do the most egregious things and then expect "grace".
Yeah but some people aren’t raised the same way. I had to take a step back and realize that the dynamics in my household wasn’t the same in other people’s households. I’m vindictive so that has never ever worked for me and I just don’t have those types of feelings. I will ghost someone in 2.5 seconds. My friend got killed at 15 over a boy. I don’t and will never ever have those types of feelings.
I don't blame you I would have did the same not going to waste my time 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@@arleneaugustahair8393 Right I'm 24 going to be in 25 in December, it's not about age but how you were raised.
I love Shuler. He is crazy BUT will be on POINT!!!!! 🤣😂
I knew I loved Him and gets to show why I love ❤ Him 🥰😍💛💕 Bless you Shuler ♥ ❤ 💖 💓 🙏🏽
On POINT like Stacey Adam's with a shine!!! Brother Shuler King DEFINITELY brings the funny 🤣 AND the wisdom. Nothin BUT DA TRUTH!!! 👏👏👏
Amen!!! I agree with u 💯
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Right!!! I hollered more when he said, “ a grown woman would’ve told ya and made you an appointment.” 😂😂💀💀
He went for the dental plan and the missing tooth....come pick me up off the floor 😂😂🤣🤣😅😆😅😅🤣😂😂😂🤣😅😅
Frfr my ribs and throat hurt from laughing so dam hard
He kilt me with the piontment.
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Agreed...😅😂😁😁
After, they pick you up, will someone pass me my asthma pump. I can't breathe. 😅🤣😂. Schuler, all I can say is: "Lawd JeSUS "
Law of the jungle: smart predators go after the easy, the weak. They don't take chances going after the strong, risking injury and becoming a victim.
Preach King............. Amen
I love Shuler gives props to the women who are grown and make sure their husbands drink their water, take their vitamins, a help bring their dreams/ambitions to the next level!!! A grown woman can upgrade your life and as a grown man, you can do the same for her 🥰❤️❤️❤️
Exactly.
Adults should be upgrading their own life with or without being with someone.
@@mermaid30019 lol facts
Facts 💯
It wouldn't touch yall nerves so much if yall truly felt that way. Yall know yall can't physically compete with a 21 to 25 year old women.
And this is why older men date young girls, to take advantage of them because they don't know any better. He put it out there honestly and truthfully.
And don’t be having nothing to offer but troubles
I have no issues with it. Putting himself on blast in such a specific way will help save a lot of women -- young and old -- a lot of trouble.
He better watch himself, though. Some of these younger chicks will take him for everything. Player will end up getting played -- and he'll be mad about it!
Likewise with women taking advantage of men also.It’s life.Women date up,Men date down.Plus if you have forgotten,20 is an adult.If you commit a crime,they are not gonna say your too young so let’s give you a warning.They gonna treat you like adults.Western society is so weird.Now I’m hearing that people can’t define what a woman is and very women are supporting this kind of movement lol
True...And let's not forget this is also why alot of younger women date older dudes with some money to take advantage of them meanwhile they got a dude on the side that's their age 21-25 and using the sugar daddy money to look good for them 🤣
“21, You just got off yo momma plan” if they ain’t still on it! 😂 Male podcasting in the black community is literally the blind, leading the blind. 🧑🏿🦯 follow me boys 🤣🙃
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Toxic is as toxic does and the community been toxic for a long while
@@lifeisfunny6486 and this is definitely feeding the toxicity. Whatever you give your energy and attention to is what you attract more of
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I know right! It's like how do they even have time in the day to make hours of content about how much you hate black women, hate black men, hate modern women, hate dusty men, divesting, red-pilling, passporting, having a hoe year, or whatever. It's like get some therapy, some Jesus, and gone on.
I lost it when he talked about the tooth 😹😹😹 even lemar being a BB player didnt even know he had to take care of the hole in his teeth with all that money 😹😹😹😹😹
Finally a mature 💯% real man to speak on this.
Translation: They have daddy issues I can exploit
You are shallow minded
Exactly.
Not always
@@robindrush When older men are attracted to very younger women, its rarely women who are confident, mature and self assured. That's not who they want.
Go Mr. Shuler. You read him head to toe. Even bicuspid issues were exposed. Get you a grown woman and leave these babies alone. Young girls can be easily persuaded. I had to run off a few that were grinning at my daughters. They never knew Momma had a WORD for Mr. Shyster and Mr. Booty Caller. They disappeared. Told them don't even ride down my street. I got something for you.
LMAO....let em know
Omg...tell it girl.. keep them no good men away ..
I was agreeing with you until you called them "babies." They are not high school girls, they are grown women regardless of his intentions. Let's not infantilize grown people just because of the large gap in age and the intentions of the man.
@robin rush. 🤣🤣🤣 💩. I KNOW that's right!. Spit juice everywhere 🤣🤣
They are lucky to have you. I hope they know that.
Speak the truth! Whistling involuntarily. 🤣
😂😂😂😂
I honestly believe he couldn’t handle a grown woman because she can think for herself! Period! He’s one of those. Sad, immature & must not have anything REAL going for him.
Well said sir! Thank you💯 From a GROWN WOMAN!🤗
Listen I'm 57 and you BEST believe I was looking at that damn GAP!
I don’t need to say nothin’!! King Shuler got him ALL the way TOGETHER!!! 😳
Shouts out to all of us real grown women you know we got it going on!
Yeah we do
Keep that same energy when your daughter is a young girl and a old ass man dating her
Facts!!!!!
They usually don’t stick around long enough to provide guidance to their daughters, hence the reason these men feel comfortable. It’s a cyclical dynamic and the reason women must be extremely mindful with whom they procreate.
They never think about that or want to raise hell when it happens...that is if they are alive at all...
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I had my ex (who left to mess with an 18 year old and he was 35 at the time)tell me that if his daughter did it (who was 17 at the time),he wouldn't care because she's grown..
Thank you Shuler for stepping up for "grown" women! I appreciate you.
Well said Shuler !! That's why we love you ! ❤️
When you're SCARED to GROW UP😫
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I'm 42 and had dental at 21🤣🙋🏽♀️. My dad taught me a lot. Shout out to my daddy❤
Same 🤓🤓! Much respect to ALL of the real fathers, uncles, male cousins, brothers (etc) who's keeping it real with the little girls! As we grow up, and yes, bump our heads we will begin to remember what we were taught! I REFUSE to listen to this jive talk on the internet. The character of what the men in my family displayed was more than enough (good and bad). Thanks 🤓
At what age did you get married ?
Shout out to mine too! At 21 I graduated from college and moved back home with my parents who molded me and groomed me as was their job. My now husband of 25 years had to deal with my father in order to date me. I am so happy to have had my father's guidance because he wasn't tolerating the BS and he taught me my worth.
I had it at 18, but that was military lol
🤣🤣🤣🤣 whistling involuntarily 🤣🤣🤣 I saw that space.. Said to myself we grown women is not gonna let that space slide. Nope.. 🤣🤣
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That's that grace he talking about.
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Hello!
Speak on it Mr. Shuler King. Blessings! Blessings to all who responded appropriately. Blessings
Thank you for all your hard work and laughing and considering
Before you date an older person, ask what people their age think of them....
Hmm.
Get him Shuler!!! I was done at the side tooth references 😂😂😂😂
Whistling involuntarily 🤣🤣🤣🤣
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“Whistling out the side of your mouth”……. So savage. I suspect those younger women don’t like dating guys with missing teeth, either. Good luck, man.
Shuler, you said that!! 100% truth...not 1 lie told.
And then you threw in the dental. That was on point!! 😂
There's something really wrong with men who want to groom women. That's ostensibly what he's saying he wants. So freakin gross!
You're outta your mind! 🤣🤣🤣
Older females lose their mind and add extras and falsehoods on the situation to make themselves feel better when men want a new car over an old, used up one that's been in a few crashes.
@@Magnolia3720Slim No its true. Its not the fact that he wants 21 -25, its the reasoning behind it that's creepy.
@@4naymsakeRW there's nothing "creepy" about that! Any real man is going to want a woman that he can mold and customize to what he wants her to be for HIM. You BW just make anything traumatic or weird 🤣🤣🤣
@Kellie Hickman 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 You're crazy
Thank you, Shuler! The internet will have you out here feeling worthless after 26😅
Predators, let's just call them Predators 😑👀💅🏾 ...or Narcissists.
Nope, predators and only predators.
@@mauricerobinson3184 ...all Predators are Narcissists, they are just festering at the lowest level of the humanity, feeding on the most innocent prey they can find. In hope to steal their life force, only to dig a deeper spiritual grave for themselves. They are the grossest of pests.
😆🤣…. Everything was serious; I even had the forehead frown going on….. and then all of a sudden, Shuler mentioned “involuntarily whistling” from the loss of the side tooth and all hell broke loose 😂😆…. I can’t ! 😆
This is literally what most men say about dating the younger women. It’s literally because they are looking to groom and control someone.
Meanwhile, a lot of the young men are starting to look at the grown women these same men are swearing off. And taking them seriously, too. 👀
They can have these bitter ass bihs
But that’s not a problem ? LMAOO Do women not control and groom younger men as well ? MAN😂😂😂😂😂
@@MiyahM301 If you've been groomed & you're okay with it just say it 🤡
@@MiyahM301 if a woman is seeking young men and that is her preference, she is definitely taking advantage. If it is done utilizing a mental advantage, it is Predatory. There are a lot of younger men(women) that do not like the dating scene with people their age and seek out older people for stability and security.
Shuler is right these people are youth absorbers and they are proud of it too 😒. Unfortunately, there will always be that one youngin' who will take the bait because it is almost always something in it for them too. As soon as he expires she/he/who/whatever else will move on to the next thing after the joy ride is over saying it was "fun" while it lasted 🤷🏾♀️.
Well that depends on the reason he's looking for so you're just assuming that this person is going to do that you don't even know him he might want to spend his life with someone I don't know why you're trying to make biology a crime men like young women is fine they're more fertile than women are and most people not even women most people in their thirties are stuck in their ways
You sound remedial. Predators groom and this ninja is a groomer. He says 21 - 25, but we know he’s lying
Man this shit happens to young ladies who daddy M.I.A, I would literally put my hands on a 33yr old man and my baby 21, no sir, you not dragging my child down.
It’s her decision
@@joegreezy yea after im dead
Oh please😒. 21 year old women will do as they please especially get 🍆.
My son 22 and I'm wit you @ToneyYaYo9628. F*** you mean!
Whistling involuntary Shuler King you killing me man😮😂😂😂. Stop 😅
You are speaking the unadulterated truth and I love you for it. They know we can't be mentally manipulated as older women. They're spiritually sick and mentally depraved with nothing to offer an older woman. Ive been married 26 years and I feel sorry for most successfully mature spiritual women today because many of the brothers have the minds of young boys and thats unacceptable. Love you Shuler for ALWAYS speaking the truth and keeping the humor alive. We all need to take time to laugh and enjoy the moment because life is too short. I pray God will enlighten this man who's into very young women and bless him with much common sense.
This brings a new meaning to
" TMI - Too Much Information."
He's trying to avoid mature women who speak for themselves. 😒
@I Am Retired it's a blessing to get older. Men aint worth nothing. Better to be single
@I Am Retired mature means being fully developed, physically and or mentally. You can be physically mature at 18, but perhaps not mentally, mental maturity can happen at any age, or maybe never at all. You sound like him, you're the one who needs to wake up. 😌
Well said and true! But don't knock all young women, he's looking for a specific type of dummy. A lot of these young woman out here will tell you about yourself with a quickness. I know, I raised 2 of them.
This will NEVER get old... Tell Um Shuler!!! 💯🎯👀🤣😂😆
Jus too get over on take advantage of THIS IS WHY I TAUGHT MY DAUGHTER HER WORTH GROWING UP. My daughter is now working for the ATF HAS HER OWN ONLINE CLOTHING STORE HAS HER BACHELORS &MASTERS DEGREES. My Son he also was taught his worth HE 👨🏾🎓 FROM AN HBCU BACHELORS AND MASTERS DEGREE It was very tough but I’m a very determined mommy and grandma now jus turned 50 my kids retired me in Jamaica 🇯🇲 they took me on this amazing trip I can now sit back oh by the way I still have my license as a registered nurse 👩🏽⚕️ worked in Trauma for 20 yrs also Labor&delivery as well my degree was in MICROBIOLOGY I’ve always wanted my children too do better than I soo I fought 🙏🏾 everyday all day praise God for my beautiful life I have issues jus like anyone else it’s jus different when ur children help u a beautiful thing.
Good for you. Awesome job! 👏🏼 👏🏼 👏🏼 👏🏼
The internet got ppl talking too much 🤦🏿♀️
"The side one (teeth)" "whistling out the side of ya mouth"
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Bottom line is he doesn’t wanna deal with a woman in his age bracket because women in his age bracket are sure of themselves they know who they are and what they want out of life and not only that they won’t put up with his nonsense.
They must want to be lonely and single. Because women of colour are the least married.
@@overit5446 that's not true at all. A man can take a 22 year old woman working at burger King and make her his wife. And he be perfectly fine. Yall simps don't know how to lead.
You right - he wants to control and have all the nasty sexual desires without being committed to her! Shameful!!
@@HelloAutoCarz are you trolling or being sarcastic? America literally is one the places on earth you can have sex with anyone without being committed. Women are not getting married as virgins in this country.
Or maybe he doesn't want to deal with bitter woman syndrome 🤔
I’m a grown Woman and I approve of this message!! 😁🤪 lol
Speak your truth shuler😂😂
Sometimes it's better to be seen and not heard.
No no. Am glad he said this. He made it clear that any lady that has sense should stay away from him.
I agree with both of you 😊.
Whistling involuntarily I can’t and I won’t 🤦🏾♀️😂🤣🤭😂
What does he have at that age. If he’s not already a leader, financially secure, emotionally intelligent, physically capable and pleasing with morals and integrity and a support system of family or friends there’s nothing he can teach or offer a young girl. Nothing wrong with its legal but if he’s old and still struggling mentally, emotionally and financially it’s a waste of youth if he’s not working in that direction or have results already.
If you actually understood what he said you would know he just want to manipulate the poor girl. He’s someone with value but he can’t fix that side tooth of his?!?! Y’all are delusional
@@charminglove8594 You’re a goofy! I understood what was said. How do you lack reading comprehension? I never said he was a man of value, the fact that he thinks he is but probably can’t provide anything I mentioned is the highlight of the comment. I was only adding my two cents because I can and all I’m referring to is what should be considered by young women that may like older men and pointing out in general that men that think like him don’t feel they need to have anything I mentioned or just don’t have it.
And people like him will drain a young womans youth because he don't have his act together. Misery loves company....
@@ACIEOFFICIAL what your describing is a mentorship not a relationship. It’s creepy that you guys would go above and beyond to try to justify this foolishness.
@@charminglove8594 you goofy broad no one is supporting it. You have to live in reality that this happens and since it does and neither you or I can stop it there are things men should come with especially a old man because he’s not desired to begin with. As an older person you should have your shit together especially if you’re entertaining someone. These type of relationships ruin young women because the men don’t want them to love them they want the ego and body.
Shuler that’s why l subscribe to you. You got some sense and keep it real. You tell folks what they need to hear and it be the truth. You care about our people and want the best for them.
Thank you.
Translation: Malleable- do what I say, Extremely Cooperative- do what I say, Give You Grace- do what I say and don't care I have nothing to bring to the table or the relationship! Smdh
Well translated 👏🏾
You are to be seen, not heard! If you're not bringing peace and nurturing to the table along with what you think is valuable to you, that other stuff doesn't matter 🤷🏿♂️
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@@Magnolia3720Slim what do you bring to the table? Can't even have a little celebration with dusties like you and him.
@@Magnolia3720Slim “you are to be seen not heard” a women not supposed to speak in a relationship? Y’all need to be with men at this point, this is getting ridiculous.
The side tooth comment took me out! I think my neighbors heard me. 🤣🤣🤣
I'm weak Shuler about the dental plan and whistling involuntarily! 😭😭🤣😂💀
I love to come his channel on a bad day he be having me in tears 😂
That side-tooth comment took me all the way out! Shuler leaned in with purpose on that remark! 😂
Well said Shuler👏🏾👏🏾Thank you for providing clarification, just in case some men didn’t know the difference between young women vs a “Grown women” Maybe the question needs to be, why are some men intimidated by a “grown educated” women who takes care of business? 🤔
Exactly.
@I Am Retired I'll b 61 on the 6th and still got it but I stay in my place and can't be fooled. And yes this photo is 60 yrs old.
@@barbarawilliams5130 You are gorgeous 😍!
@I Am Retired how old are you pop pop?
@@lifeisfunny6486 probably in his 50s acting 18.
So basically, he's saying that he is an insecure man-child....a.k.a, a big boy pretending to be a man that no real woman wants!💯
Had me laughin too hard on this one🦷😂😂😂
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Felicia He had me laughing so hard just like you. I just couldn't stop laughing.He is really funny.He makes my day all the time.
I can't stop laughing it's 615 a.m....Im hurting the side tooth.. 🤣🤣
Thank you, Shuler. They're not trying to build legacies.
Bless his heart
I remember I went out with a 30 year old at 21…he took me to White Castle 👀 I look at this old man and said you have lost your mind! I grew up with my dad in the home and 4 older brother! I knew it was something wrong and NEVER dated someone that older than myself.
So your one bad experience just say all older men are bad ok
@@trublacking8572 yep
@@LadyMargaretSteppin smh 😑 I feel sorry for you need you threpy how do you generalize a whole gender because you have bad experiences so by your logic every woman I've been with should be a shit ass woman by your logic
I feel you ..I was 20 an went on a date with a 30 year old..never again..he didn't have his own place had borrow a friends car to pick me up..😳
@@shandradowe4113 That is horrible. He should have been established. That defeats the entire purpose of dating an older man.
OMMMMG I was jumping up and down in my kitchen when he mentioned that missing tooth🤣🤣🤣🤣as a 49 year thank you for pointing that out
Say it brother! Say it loud! I thank you for saying that because it needs to be said! Shuler you made me get up and do a Pentecostal Holy Ghost dance! I love your honesty Shuler. You are truly a good man.
Was NOT ready for the side tooth. 😂🤣
Shuller you rock!!! word up!! 😍😍😍😍😍😀😀😀
It's sad that men don't have the self esteem to be with a woman of his standing. It's easier to manipulate and conform a young lady.
EXACTLY!! He ain't fooling nobody but the young women who fall victim to this predatory behavior.
You're outta your mind 😁😁😁
Smh, just making sh*t up lol. A new car is better than an older, used, beat up one with random left over luggage. Ok, next subject because that's pretty much what it boils down to.
@@buddyraw9778 So when you get old, you'll be worthless and useless too? There's a reason why more women have a problem with this.
This isn't about women getting older and getting less attention. This is about young women getting caught up and not knowing when a man is using her for his interest. I couldn't understand why grown men have been trying to mess with me since I was 8 years old. Most women deal with this growing up. The only men that care are fathers. They only care about their daughters and no one else's daughters
@@buddyraw9778 In other words, men and women are merely items to be used for personal interest and gratification? Everyone will get older. The 20's only last ten years. You better be filthy wealthy at 45+, else, you'll just be older, beat up, used goods with random left-over luggage. And make sure you tell that to your sons and daughters too...Blessings.
Age is relative....there are some grown woman 21-25 year olds....and some 30,40, 50 year old hot messes.
The question should be, who wants to deal with a thirty-something man with this mentality?🤔
Sorry to tell you most men seek younger and slimmer women. Just like most women seek older and taller men.
so the issue is age,because there are slim beautiful women in their 30s...so after all its not that you want the slimness its the age gap...because when she young she dumb and that makes her cooperate regardless
Older Women That Like Em Young They're Called Cougars...What Is He Called?...Puma( Preying Upon Malleable Adults) Sir Just. Because There Is Snow On The Roof Doesn't Mean There's No Fire 🔥 In The Furnace!!!😂🤣😂
Whistling involuntarily......I'm done for today 🤣🤣🤣
You are absolutely right!!
I've seen young men like this. They don't like to be challenged at all. They feel a certain way about women in their age and beyond. Men like this like simpletons.
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I disagree. They can’t swing with their own peers so they prefer the challenge of a 20 year old, whose brain isn’t even fully formed. 😝