Especially when you've, fought to overcome spiteful things done by people. Overcame numerous amounts of statics and labels, given by society. Earned the right to work for yourself instead of a 9 to 5. (Nothing wrong with it) but to be granted a joyful opportunity of living out your dreams. And building your OWN. It's truly an honor😌 it just makes you want to keep going, striving for more achievements. Until you get everything you want outta life😊❤. This includes becoming a more, lean, fit, healthier, sculpted, wiser, version of the old self. ( MY current state of mind,) aaand....action😉!🎬🎥.
@@darlinnicky3302 Run for office and make a change, until then why dwell on things you know aren’t going to happen! Make it happen for yourself!! Accountability and Responsibility 💪🏾🤎
Do we think that it's an age thing ? I have always been financially independent, with or without a partner. It would never occur to me to ask a man to pay for anything! It's of course lovely, when they take me out to dinner. But I would do the same for him. Perhaps if women have seen their mothers get away with this behavior, then it becomes their expectation too. We are also very commercialized these days. Young people don't want to struggle or save up for anything. When my parents got married, they had a cheap 2nd hand settee and a rubbish car, but it was fine. They saved hard, didn't waste money and were able to buy a lovely 3 bedroomed house with a huge garden and some land. It seems that nobody is prepared for deferred gratification. They think that designer trainers, designer jeans and gold chains and a flashy car make them important. Others just want what they see others with. So much peer pressure, and no values. They have got it all backwards when they haven't got a pot to piss in !
@Medusa13579 At first, I thought it was an age thing, but there are women of all ages who sadly think this way. We just see the younger women more. Plus, the younger ones learned it from some lazy/entitled older woman & made it a bigger "show"
I agree 100% !! Once you become of legal ADULT age, NO ONE, Not even your parents, OWE YOU A DAMN THANG!!! If you getting paid from the gov, take advantage of the free Educational classes, learn a skill, earn a certification, get a job, save your money...it can done! Once you have your OWN, it's a proud moment ! Pat yourself on the back. You did it. No one owes you anything!
Your parents are stuck with you because they made the decision to bring you into this World. If you don't want to owe your children for the rest of your life, then don't have children. This is why I don't have children.
When I was a young child ! My parents that raised me had already told me . If I was going to have anything in life ! I was going to have to work for it . Thanks Mom and Dad ! May you rest in Peace 😅😅😅😅
I approve this message! "Pretty don't mean sh##!" I heard the same thing growing up, Shuler. Never in my life have I seen the level of entitlement from people than we see today. It is mind blowing.
When I am in line behind folks with an EBT CARD cart full of ramen noodles and hot chips for them babies and hair done meanwhile I am making life decisions on mine! I want to cry in the car😭😭
Ppl forget that the money you get from the government is my money, my mother's money, my sister's money. Money that we pay in taxes every time we get a paycheck. Welfare is there to help you until you get to the point where you can help yourself, it is not meant to be a lifestyle!!! 😑😑😑
I was raised to take care of myself, no one else is responsible for taking care of you once your an adult 🤷♀️. That's what my parents instilled in me.
@reggiew5262 lol exactly umm ain't that the pot calling the kettle black. 9 times out of 10 all his bills are paid hers not so much.lmao it's called a JOB.people need to get off their ass and go work for their own money.
Where did you hear NEED??? All of this is what you saw & was attracted to!! So, if you think, you are going, to be the ONLY ONE; then YES TF, YOU WILL PAY, FOR IT!!!💯 Otherwise, we are going to continue, to do WTF we do, until the person who appreciates, it will pay, for it ALL!!🥱👋🏽 Women PAY FOR OURSELVES, took care of our children, & probably your SINGLE PARENT AZZ TOO, where was your DADDY??? WTF, is SHULER talking about, "doing it, for ourselves???" That's ALL we've ever done, since the 1950s!🙄 When we want to go on MUFUKN vacations, we can afford to, we make the money, & have earned that right!!!
I know a woman just like that. She said I’m good with $5 until she get paid the next week. But got Amazon boxes coming every day and wigs and clothes coming in. But can’t pay the electric bill. SMH. Ran away quick.
What happened to this generation? Thank you Shuler for telling them what they should have learned in the home! Be responsible and accountable! Grow up!!
I wouldnt say it's a particular generation. I'd say it's a generational cycle. This has been going on for decades. My grandmother would complain about friends or acquaintances like this. Those were people born in the 30's 40's and 50's. Though, it has become more obvious over the years. These are people who likely had parents with this mindset. Now they openly express the same opinions as if there's nothing wrong with it.
I wanted to change my standard of living for myself and my child after divorce. I did the following: kept a good job, refused to use credit cards, I shopped thrift shops for myself, if I saw designer bags I liked, I analyzed what the appeal was, bought a knockoff with the same silhouette, started several businesses............... I never expected anyone to just give me money. EVER! I got higher education and got credentials for my various businesses. Moved in silence, learned to avoid dusties and takers. No one owes you anything. Work!
@steemdup Dusties were men who wanted to date me to get access to my resources. They were always full of plans and dreams, but no action or motivation. Most didn't even have resources to keep a roof over their own heads! Lived with Mom, Grandmom, Sister....... I was not looking for anyone to fund my lifestyle, and I wasn't about to be someone's come up. This once earned me being called a "castrating b!?&#" by a guy on welfare living with his mother. I learned to choose better by first choosing me!
Your Post is a great Testimony, Inspiration, and Confirmation for Me to keep going and don't give up. I'm literally on the same Life Path- Thank You for Sharing this🌻💝
I took it as we need to be independent on our own. If you allow a person to feed you- you allow them to tell you what to eat , when to eat, and how to eat. Stop depending on people and the government.
This 6 minute 47 second video just laid out the beginning BLUE PRINT for Positive change and success..!!!! When I stopped going to the Casino, strip club, and fast food BRUH !!!!! i was SHOCKED at the end of the month to have so much extra $$ in my bank.. You nailed it Mr Shuler !!! Kudos kind sir !!!!!
We can all hear this message over and over, and we can all agree with it and even make our own comments on the subject, but nothing will ever change. This is the mindset of 80% of the population, everyone feels somebody owes them something, everyone sitting back waiting on a giant blessing that will never come. You want it, you got to go and get it, nothing in life is free. 😑
Why are you complaining about the HELP you're getting? None of us asked to come here, so we have to get what we want and need for ourselves, period. Hey, that's what happens when you set yourself up for a handout. You take what they give you!💯
I actually viewed the whole conversation Ms.Ma'am was talking about, and from what I gathered...she wasn't saying no one, no man owes her anything. She was basically saying how the government assistance gives just a little to keep some folks stuck. Meaning like, the assistance that some people partake in won't allow them to elevate into something greater for themselves. And then, she brought up a particular boyfriend she used to date that would only give her just enough to pay the bills and the rent and she felt like he was only doing that so that she can keep coming back to him for help. She figured that was his motive to keep her, because she was ready to leave the relationship. She said she finally did, and was much better off. IDK...her words, not mines
Angela staton king , she has a TH-cam channel. And you’re correct, she did not say it in that context. She was basically talking about not depending on government assistance and being independent
That's exactly WTF she was talking about❗👀 Everything else was Nijaease, WTF they hear when we speak, which is definitely NOT WTF we say or said ONLY HOW THEY FEEL‼️🙄
@@MIMSQUEENsad thing is when a hard working black woman asks for help society in general ignores us and tells us to be strong SMH. If she were white the comments would be different.
Cooking at home, couponing (reasonably), doing my own hair and nails and not buying makeup has saved me so much money. I had to make the choice to better my life options by joining the military. I’m trying to build my life up to where my kid and I can be comfortable. All that other stuff doesn’t matter. I flex for no one. It’s childish, short-sighted behavior.
Well Said, and thank you! Life ain't easy! Some of us really work our butts off to support our children. It SHOULD be a natural instinct! I worry for the future, truly. ❤
Ohhhh, I saw this and agreed 👍🏾. The comparison to welfare made so much sense. Grind and make your life better, and nobody can do that for you but you!!!!
Preach Shuler❤ I’ve been on my own at the age of 24 now I’m 49 and still on my own all 4 of my kids graduated high school and 3 of them graduated college Won’t God do it I didn’t make excuses I made it happened ❤
Work and save like your lifestyle depends on it, because it does. Keep working to improve your humility and discipline and know that when you're blessed, be a blessing to others and understand none of us deserve what we have, which should help you to have appreciation for what you are blessed to have. An attitude of gratitude while working to improve...
Pay yourself First is what my MAMA used to say. Meaning work hard , learn financial literacy, and pay for your necessities, and when you have your emergency fund saved, then you can get some of your wants. Give and share with others, and your life will always have abundance.
What’s sad is that people do not understand what they are doing when it comes to relationships. Just because two people lay together does not make a marital commitment. You become “one” when you are MARRIED and then you are obligated to each other to discuss the income and how we are going to get our house. The man doesn’t owe you anything when you are not married! The same with the other side.. if you have not committed yourself to engagement or are not married to that woman.. then she does not have to be available to you 24/7. Bed time, your laundry, hot breakfast every morning, etc. No ring.. you have no right to expect all of that from a woman that you have not committed your life to. If yall are not married and you are on the 50/50 plan.. Then you know what… you get a half azz relationship, because really you’re just roommates. If he or she want to go out on a date with someone else.. you really have no right to say anything. That person does not belong to you unless you are married!❤
They crazy as hell. At one time in my life I dated an older guy. He paid my light bill, purchased my groceries, made sure gas was in my car weekly. Pitched school clothes for my child ( I have one child ) and gave me money to purchase Christmas gifts . I paid the smaller bills and stacked my paper and I had no problem with the situation. He was not married ( wife passed) and he still had his own home. He passed over 20 years ago but I still will to thump with anyone that speaks ill of him. He helped me financially and mentally. And before you asked I grew up with my father and mother in the same house
Mr. Shuler King, You Are Preaching The Absolute Truth!! .. So Many People Need To Hear This Honest To Goodness Message. ... We Are All Responsible For Creating Our Very Own Futures. .. Plus, We Are All Responsible For Creating Our Own Happiness And Peace Of Mind!! .. Thank You Mr. King For All You Are Preaching!! .. 🙏🙏❤❤❤
Years ago, as a young Black Woman, I remember a guy wanted to visit from Florida. Told him "I don't have time for company." I had plans. I worked 3 jobs I wanted to "move on up!" When he came to see me, I was in a better neighborhood. I did that. Everything I own home, car, furniture, clothes all paid for. I did that, I was always working. Make a plan stick to it, allow no obstacles.👍🏾👩🏾🦱😊
YAAAAAAAAAASSSS!!! The only thing is, even with a ring on her finger 'Happy SPOUSE Happy House" we need to get out of "gender roles" and start building each other up. Get yourself a partner, not a parent! Teamwork makes the team work!!!
Operative word: WORK. This convicted me because I’m unable to work physically but I have a brilliant mind so I can’t let that stop me. If I’m not where I want to be, it’s all because of me. Let me get these books finished. 😮💨😮💨
@@msteachlove I totally get this. I'm in recovery from the jab nearly dying since 10/29/21 but that doesn't mean I'm idle. Now, I'm on SSDI looking for a civil rights lawyer to help me fight a legal battle with my apartments. Work isn't always corporate America and cash flow. Work is also as WITHIN so WITHOUT. Manifesting is real!💯🙏
I personally hate the word partner for a romantic relationship. I refer to professional or business relationships as partnerships. But to commit to someone as a husband or wife? Someone you wish to build a family and lineage with? That goes far beyond partnership. We are husband wife and child. We are a family. We are a union.
@@bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149 That's cool. On the same token, I belong to no one other than The Creator and for me to be a wife, that better come with a ring and papers. No one is anything to anyone unless all parties agree to work in unison with one another and there is mutual respect, understanding, and love. My birth mother (married over 6 times) has 6 kids with 6 different dudes. One sibling of mine just did a DNA test and found out that "his" father isn't even his at the age of 33. People can switch up and any time. People get so hooked on titles without even putting in the work and that's part of the reason so many people are with the wrong people.
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Phrase of the day....."Upgrading your life is YOUR OWN responsibility"😂😂
😮That's what I thought😂
Most definitely is
Especially when you've, fought to overcome spiteful things done by people. Overcame numerous amounts of statics and labels, given by society. Earned the right to work for yourself instead of a 9 to 5. (Nothing wrong with it) but to be granted a joyful opportunity of living out your dreams. And building your OWN. It's truly an honor😌 it just makes you want to keep going, striving for more achievements. Until you get everything you want outta life😊❤. This includes becoming a more, lean, fit, healthier, sculpted, wiser, version of the old self. ( MY current state of mind,) aaand....action😉!🎬🎥.
He not lying 😂
That's EXACTLY what whytes tell black people.
Work for what you want. No one owes you anything!
That's what they fool you into thinking!
@@Al_lloyd
Exactly 💯💯💯
But EVERYBODY Else Gets Reparations, BUT, Here Go BLACK PEOPLE Saying WE Are NOT Owed Anything 😡😡😡😡😡
@@darlinnicky3302
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@@darlinnicky3302 Run for office and make a change, until then why dwell on things you know aren’t going to happen! Make it happen for yourself!! Accountability and Responsibility 💪🏾🤎
That's no lie
All women don’t think this way ..bring back dignity 😂
@jueileen4599.....No....but their sure are a WHOLE LOT that do.
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Do we think that it's an age thing ?
I have always been financially independent, with or without a partner.
It would never occur to me to ask a man to pay for anything!
It's of course lovely, when they take me out to dinner. But I would do the same for him.
Perhaps if women have seen their mothers get away with this behavior, then it becomes their expectation too.
We are also very commercialized these days. Young people don't want to struggle or save up for anything.
When my parents got married, they had a cheap 2nd hand settee and a rubbish car, but it was fine.
They saved hard, didn't waste money and were able to buy a lovely 3 bedroomed house with a huge garden and some land.
It seems that nobody is prepared for deferred gratification.
They think that designer trainers, designer jeans and gold chains and a flashy car make them important.
Others just want what they see others with. So much peer pressure, and no values.
They have got it all backwards when they haven't got a pot to piss in !
@Medusa13579 At first, I thought it was an age thing, but there are women of all ages who sadly think this way. We just see the younger women more. Plus, the younger ones learned it from some lazy/entitled older woman & made it a bigger "show"
@@TommieGun71 I agree..and that’s a DAMN SHAME ..everyone should get out and fend for themselves 😂😂
I agree 100% !! Once you become of legal ADULT age, NO ONE, Not even your parents, OWE YOU A DAMN THANG!!! If you getting paid from the gov, take advantage of the free Educational classes, learn a skill, earn a certification, get a job, save your money...it can done! Once you have your OWN, it's a proud moment ! Pat yourself on the back. You did it. No one owes you anything!
Facts tho💯 ✨️
Your parents are stuck with you because they made the decision to bring you into this World.
If you don't want to owe your children for the rest of your life, then don't have children.
This is why I don't have children.
Exactly.
AMEN!!!!!😅
When I was a young child ! My parents that raised me had already told me . If I was going to have anything in life ! I was going to have to work for it . Thanks Mom and Dad ! May you rest in Peace 😅😅😅😅
Be thankful that he gave you the money to pay your rent because he really didn't have to give you anything.
Facts.. Rent is the biggest expense anyway. I rather get help with rent (if I needed it) & I take care of the rest xD
Exactly!
And she didn't have to give him her goodies. And she shouldn't have.
@peral341 if your kewchie for sale just say that!!
Exactly. That's enough😂
No one owes anyone anything, Earn your own and everything else is a bonus.
Say it louder 🗣️ for the congregation at the back of the church ⛪.
If it was just enough, he taught her about responsibility, if that wasn't sufficient, then she needed to take care of her !
It's great to WANT a man not NEED one.
White folks been trying to tell blacks that for decades.
Note to adults: No one owns you. No one owes you.
FACTS!!!!!
If living just enough for the city was a person 😮🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂
Amen! ❤
Alright Stevie😂😂
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As the song says, "God Bless the Child who has his own"
My great grandmother told me constantly as a child. God blessed me, she was ABSOLUTELY CORRECT‼️
The God Bless the Child song all the time,😊
🙌🏿
I was thinking about the song yesterday
I'm a grown woman and I'm going to say it -"PREACH SHULER !!!!"👏👏👏👏
100%. Me too
THAT ❤
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I’m agreeing 💯 he’s doing more for you than what you are doing for yourself 😱
I approve this message! "Pretty don't mean sh##!" I heard the same thing growing up, Shuler. Never in my life have I seen the level of entitlement from people than we see today. It is mind blowing.
And life is SO MUCH EASIER today! Anyone can get a job that pays well - with benefits!
Frfr
When I am in line behind folks with an EBT CARD cart full of ramen noodles and hot chips for them babies and hair done meanwhile I am making life decisions on mine! I want to cry in the car😭😭
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Real grown folks common sense talk. PREACH!!!!
Ppl forget that the money you get from the government is my money, my mother's money, my sister's money. Money that we pay in taxes every time we get a paycheck. Welfare is there to help you until you get to the point where you can help yourself, it is not meant to be a lifestyle!!! 😑😑😑
Say that!!!!!!
"Once you're grown, you're on your own." - All My Elders
The most important part "keep your mouth shut and stay out the way." You damn right Shuler
#Truth
That’s it!
Don’t complain when you’re life isn’t changing when you’re habits aren’t changing! 💯
Now that's facts
I was raised to take care of myself, no one else is responsible for taking care of you once your an adult
🤷♀️. That's what my parents instilled in me.
Me too 👍🏽
They keep saying, "I don't need a man, I don't need a man". But they need a man to pay for their lifestyle.
Exactly and then be quick to call a man broke because he won't give them money
Say that again
@reggiew5262 lol exactly umm ain't that the pot calling the kettle black. 9 times out of 10 all his bills are paid hers not so much.lmao it's called a JOB.people need to get off their ass and go work for their own money.
Well, that's not a NEED that's a "want".... big difference .
Where did you hear NEED??? All of this is what you saw & was attracted to!! So, if you think, you are going, to be the ONLY ONE; then YES TF, YOU WILL PAY, FOR IT!!!💯 Otherwise, we are going to continue, to do WTF we do, until the person who appreciates, it will pay, for it ALL!!🥱👋🏽
Women PAY FOR OURSELVES, took care of our children, & probably your SINGLE PARENT AZZ TOO, where was your DADDY??? WTF, is SHULER talking about, "doing it, for ourselves???" That's ALL we've ever done, since the 1950s!🙄 When we want to go on MUFUKN vacations, we can afford to, we make the money, & have earned that right!!!
I know a woman just like that. She said I’m good with $5 until she get paid the next week. But got Amazon boxes coming every day and wigs and clothes coming in. But can’t pay the electric bill. SMH. Ran away quick.
Dang she has many issues 😮
wigs and clothes but no electricity lmao!!! People need to check that vanity for real.
That's wild af ... but sadly, it's some peoples reality
Weekly Amazon boxes, wigs and clothes coming in? That doesn't mean she has Money, .. She sounds like a Scamming Thief- Good thing you ran LoL
What happened to this generation? Thank you Shuler for telling them what they should have learned in the home! Be responsible and accountable! Grow up!!
I wouldnt say it's a particular generation. I'd say it's a generational cycle.
This has been going on for decades. My grandmother would complain about friends or acquaintances like this. Those were people born in the 30's 40's and 50's.
Though, it has become more obvious over the years. These are people who likely had parents with this mindset. Now they openly express the same opinions as if there's nothing wrong with it.
Please, Please Stop The Maddness, When God Wake You Up In The Morning, The Rest Is Up To You..Faith Without Works Is Dead..❤❤❤❤❤❤
GET YOUR OWN!!!!!
ANYTHING SOMEONE
GIVE'S YOU IS A GIFT!!!!!
I wanted to change my standard of living for myself and my child after divorce. I did the following: kept a good job, refused to use credit cards, I shopped thrift shops for myself, if I saw designer bags I liked, I analyzed what the appeal was, bought a knockoff with the same silhouette, started several businesses...............
I never expected anyone to just give me money. EVER! I got higher education and got credentials for my various businesses. Moved in silence, learned to avoid dusties and takers. No one owes you anything. Work!
FACTS !
please define dusties? never heard this before
@steemdup Dusties were men who wanted to date me to get access to my resources. They were always full of plans and dreams, but no action or motivation. Most didn't even have resources to keep a roof over their own heads! Lived with Mom, Grandmom, Sister.......
I was not looking for anyone to fund my lifestyle, and I wasn't about to be someone's come up. This once earned me being called a "castrating b!?&#" by a guy on welfare living with his mother.
I learned to choose better by first choosing me!
Your Post is a great Testimony, Inspiration, and Confirmation for Me to keep going and don't give up. I'm literally on the same Life Path- Thank You for Sharing this🌻💝
@TheeOne4.44 Continued Blessings to you!
I took it as we need to be independent on our own. If you allow a person to feed you- you allow them to tell you what to eat , when to eat, and how to eat. Stop depending on people and the government.
And you allow them to starve you. It could be taken away at anytime. Stand on your own ten
U heard the assignment 😅
SHULER WHAT YOU SAID , I TOTALLY AGREE THT IF ITS NOT OFFICIAL WITH MARRIAGE NEITHER ONE OWES THE OTHER NOTHING😁
My husband feels that I owe him. I put him out last year. He still blows up my phone. 15 years of me giving and 14 years of him taking.
I guess people don't realize nobody owes you nothing facts 💯
Your are so right nobody owes you anything if you don’t work for it or work on it you will never get anywhere
And that’s your life lesson for the damn day 💯
Teach young man, l am proud of you and your gift of wisdom that is so needed in this time!🎉❤
This 6 minute 47 second video just laid out the beginning BLUE PRINT for Positive change and success..!!!! When I stopped going to the Casino, strip club, and fast food BRUH !!!!! i was SHOCKED at the end of the month to have so much extra $$ in my bank.. You nailed it Mr Shuler !!! Kudos kind sir !!!!!
We can all hear this message over and over, and we can all agree with it and even make our own comments on the subject, but nothing will ever change. This is the mindset of 80% of the population, everyone feels somebody owes them something, everyone sitting back waiting on a giant blessing that will never come. You want it, you got to go and get it, nothing in life is free. 😑
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I don't know about your statistics here. Most of the folks I know are working at jobs and are entrepreneurs.
@@Dot-t2kTHIS! Many people have had to take care of themselves for so long , it isn't even in their thoughts to beg someone for something .
Why are you complaining about the HELP you're getting? None of us asked to come here, so we have to get what we want and need for ourselves, period. Hey, that's what happens when you set yourself up for a handout. You take what they give you!💯
That's right! Nobody owes you nothing!!!
Keep it REAL Mr Shuler..💯💯💯💯
Straight Facts 💯
I agree 100% Shuler. You are so right!
I actually viewed the whole conversation Ms.Ma'am was talking about, and from what I gathered...she wasn't saying no one, no man owes her anything. She was basically saying how the government assistance gives just a little to keep some folks stuck. Meaning like, the assistance that some people partake in won't allow them to elevate into something greater for themselves. And then, she brought up a particular boyfriend she used to date that would only give her just enough to pay the bills and the rent and she felt like he was only doing that so that she can keep coming back to him for help. She figured that was his motive to keep her, because she was ready to leave the relationship. She said she finally did, and was much better off. IDK...her words, not mines
where to find her video???
Angela staton king , she has a TH-cam channel. And you’re correct, she did not say it in that context. She was basically talking about not depending on government assistance and being independent
@@Funfun_d I saw on it on TikTok
That's exactly WTF she was talking about❗👀 Everything else was Nijaease, WTF they hear when we speak, which is definitely NOT WTF we say or said ONLY HOW THEY FEEL‼️🙄
@@MIMSQUEENsad thing is when a hard working black woman asks for help society in general ignores us and tells us to be strong SMH. If she were white the comments would be different.
Pastor King, PREACH!
The Black Mrs. Betty Boop better start singing at Clubs like the real Betty Boop if she wanna make some Money.😂😂😂😂
The " real" Betty Boop? 🤨
😂😅😂😂😅
@@AH-yu2piThere's a lot of People that Don't know that 'TRUTH'...& Truth be told, My Sister told Me the History of Betty Boop, not too Long Ago...👍👍
@@AH-yu2pi
The original was a gorgeous black woman.
@@lymarie1974sure was and most people don’t know that
Alot of truth here being spoken by Shuler❤
Shuler you are so on right about that
Cooking at home, couponing (reasonably), doing my own hair and nails and not buying makeup has saved me so much money. I had to make the choice to better my life options by joining the military. I’m trying to build my life up to where my kid and I can be comfortable. All that other stuff doesn’t matter. I flex for no one. It’s childish, short-sighted behavior.
Amen, Amen & Amén 🙏🏾
PREACH SHULER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
HELLA' YEAH!!!!!
Amen, Shuler!!! It's up to YOU to make a way for YOU!!!
Right King nobody owes you anything 😮😮😮
Say it loud for the people in the back!❤
Amen to that....make sure everyone hears the message!!!💯🔥
You are 100% right!! Love your channel and your comments on these videos
Salute!!
Facts at 01:16! Man, Shuler. I truly do see a Netflix special in your future. You are hilarious and soooo real. 👍🏾💯⭐️
I'm a black woman and I agree with you 💯💯💯💯
PREACHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!
Thanks we all needed to hear this extremely true reality 🙌🏾
Preach...
Well Said, and thank you! Life ain't easy! Some of us really work our butts off to support our children. It SHOULD be a natural instinct! I worry for the future, truly. ❤
You’re speaking 💯 facts!!
The best Public Announcement goes to Mr.
ShulerKing!!!👏👏 spoke nothing but the truth!
Ohhhh, I saw this and agreed 👍🏾. The comparison to welfare made so much sense. Grind and make your life better, and nobody can do that for you but you!!!!
“Change your behavior change your results” realest words ever spoken.
Preach Shuler!!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I love this guy!! Preach Brother!!!
It's called temporary assistance
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Shuler is preaching. He speaking to alot of people. Great advice.
TELL THE TRUTH 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
She might need help. I said get a damn job. Once again get a JOB.😮
Preach!💯
Preach Shuler❤ I’ve been on my own at the age of 24 now I’m 49 and still on my own all 4 of my kids graduated high school and 3 of them graduated college Won’t God do it I didn’t make excuses I made it happened ❤
That's WTF she said, damn y'all slow AF
Damn near seven minutes of Shuler?! Let me sat down and enjoy! 😂
You are absolutely CORRECT, SAY IT!!!!!!!
The absolute truth
I love when ppl talk straight up no chaser.. 💎💎
👏👏👏👏, Well said Shuler!
Getting a JOB. Now that is a thought😅😅😅
whoever did her make up & hair “owes” her an immediate apology and refund! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
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That's what happens when you get Stevie Wonder, to do your hair.😂😂😂
Channeling Bettie Boop
I approve this message!
In the words of Bobby Brown, "If you want something done, you gotta do it yourself." ✌🏻
Speak on it 💯💯🗣️🗣️🗣️
Preach!!!!
Awesome S. King. You are 100% on point!!!!!!!
Work and save like your lifestyle depends on it, because it does. Keep working to improve your humility and discipline and know that when you're blessed, be a blessing to others and understand none of us deserve what we have, which should help you to have appreciation for what you are blessed to have. An attitude of gratitude while working to improve...
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You speak the truth Shuler!!
Preach!!!!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🎯💯
The government is NOT responsible to maintain a lifestyle you want!!!
Pay yourself First is what my MAMA used to say. Meaning work hard , learn financial literacy, and pay for your necessities, and when you have your emergency fund saved, then you can get some of your wants. Give and share with others, and your life will always have abundance.
Shuler, you said everything that needed to be said.
What’s sad is that people do not understand what they are doing when it comes to relationships. Just because two people lay together does not make a marital commitment. You become “one” when you are MARRIED and then you are obligated to each other to discuss the income and how we are going to get our house. The man doesn’t owe you anything when you are not married! The same with the other side.. if you have not committed yourself to engagement or are not married to that woman.. then she does not have to be available to you 24/7. Bed time, your laundry, hot breakfast every morning, etc. No ring.. you have no right to expect all of that from a woman that you have not committed your life to. If yall are not married and you are on the 50/50 plan.. Then you know what… you get a half azz relationship, because really you’re just roommates. If he or she want to go out on a date with someone else.. you really have no right to say anything. That person does not belong to you unless you are married!❤
Thank you. Teach, accountability and responsibility is on you. 💯
it's mean people that go to work everyday and they deserve the pay they work for.. it's also nice people in the world too 😁
Wow, I receive that. I do work, and I do invest, but I must stop TEMU!
You right
Mr. Shuler 😂
That's the problem some people want everybody else to do for them,and when it's time to do for yourself, you want somebody to do it for you.
They crazy as hell. At one time in my life I dated an older guy. He paid my light bill, purchased my groceries, made sure gas was in my car weekly. Pitched school clothes for my child ( I have one child ) and gave me money to purchase Christmas gifts . I paid the smaller bills and stacked my paper and I had no problem with the situation.
He was not married ( wife passed) and he still had his own home. He passed over 20 years ago but I still will to thump with anyone that speaks ill of him. He helped me financially and mentally. And before you asked I grew up with my father and mother in the same house
CHANGE....change of mind-set ..change your attitude .change the RESULTS. i love this!!!
Mr. Shuler King, You Are Preaching The Absolute Truth!! .. So Many People Need To Hear This Honest To Goodness Message. ... We Are All Responsible For Creating Our Very Own Futures. .. Plus, We Are All Responsible For Creating Our Own Happiness And Peace Of Mind!! .. Thank You Mr. King For All You Are Preaching!! .. 🙏🙏❤❤❤
Years ago, as a young Black Woman, I remember a guy wanted to visit from Florida. Told him "I don't have time for company." I had plans. I worked 3 jobs I wanted to "move on up!" When he came to see me, I was in a better neighborhood. I did that.
Everything
I own home, car, furniture, clothes all paid for.
I did that, I was always working.
Make a plan stick to it, allow no obstacles.👍🏾👩🏾🦱😊
Same thing goes for those who complain that their job/boss doesn’t pay them enough. If you want more then upgrade your skills or education.
Much Respect to Shuler fir this Message
YAAAAAAAAAASSSS!!! The only thing is, even with a ring on her finger 'Happy SPOUSE Happy House" we need to get out of "gender roles" and start building each other up. Get yourself a partner, not a parent! Teamwork makes the team work!!!
Yassss! 💯
Operative word: WORK. This convicted me because I’m unable to work physically but I have a brilliant mind so I can’t let that stop me. If I’m not where I want to be, it’s all because of me.
Let me get these books finished. 😮💨😮💨
@@msteachlove I totally get this. I'm in recovery from the jab nearly dying since 10/29/21 but that doesn't mean I'm idle. Now, I'm on SSDI looking for a civil rights lawyer to help me fight a legal battle with my apartments. Work isn't always corporate America and cash flow. Work is also as WITHIN so WITHOUT. Manifesting is real!💯🙏
I personally hate the word partner for a romantic relationship. I refer to professional or business relationships as partnerships. But to commit to someone as a husband or wife?
Someone you wish to build a family and lineage with? That goes far beyond partnership. We are husband wife and child. We are a family. We are a union.
@@bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149 That's cool. On the same token, I belong to no one other than The Creator and for me to be a wife, that better come with a ring and papers. No one is anything to anyone unless all parties agree to work in unison with one another and there is mutual respect, understanding, and love.
My birth mother (married over 6 times) has 6 kids with 6 different dudes. One sibling of mine just did a DNA test and found out that "his" father isn't even his at the age of 33. People can switch up and any time.
People get so hooked on titles without even putting in the work and that's part of the reason so many people are with the wrong people.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Tell it like it is SHULER which is THE TRUTH 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Speak speak I upgrade myself never wait on another person!!!!💯
LOVE IT‼️