Hi Sheila, I saw those negative comments from the last upload. It was simply terrible. I couldn’t understand why they made your title so serious. We got ppl out here very sick, with no family, no one to love them and the only thing some ppl can say is something nasty. I suppose my career as a registered nurse helps me to appreciate life so much, or maybe it’s my faith. You’ve already been through some tough health conditions, please don’t allow the negativity and unhappiness of others affect your infectious spirit! I’m married to my best friend for 24 years this November and I admire you and your husband’s relationship. Those bitter women who left those comments are just jealous seeing your happiness and enjoying it with your Love! Trust me, that’s why I avoid them at all cost and stick with the company of my husband. He’s all I prefer 🥰. I really enjoy your videos! Please keep them coming!!
you and husband look good. Dancing is good i love it raises the endorphins. I am 72 still jazzy, still dancing and love my music. keep moving and grooving ✊🏽
I saw the title but never thought that was the case, figured it had to do with work. I hope you won’t allow a few negative comments or losing subscribers get to you too much. I think some of the folks that were upset came looking for drama and couldn’t find it 🤷🏽♀️ Keep being you and doing what you do! Have a beautiful and blessed week 😊
I love your videos. Don’t let people discourage you. Keep being you. If people leave because of a title, they never meant to stay anyway and you don’t want them on your channel. Most TH-camrs use titles that make you want to click the video. If it’s something I don’t want to see just click off and wait for the next one. No big deal. Keep being you.
Well, maybe I assumed differently than the viewers that were upset by your catchy title, but I didn't think you were seriously saying James had left you, but that there would be a twist to what the title really meant. I enjoyed the post and laughed at how the change in plans through you off. 😊😊😊 Anyway, I'm sorry for the attacks and accusations some people chose to throw at you. Sometimes it's a good thing when certain individuals leave your space. Loved the dancing "date night" and apartment hunting with you! Praying for you to get fresh wind that lifts your spirit and let July be a month that reminds you it was the start of your healing. 🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️Tracey from San Diego, California
Don't change one thing. I love your videos. You and James are such a beautiful couple. Let the negative people exit stage left! Only positive vibes over here baby. 😊
Dont over think that title, you are struggling this month have some grace for yourself, you have come a long way celebrate! By the way dont go back to that salon I've made that mistake before. ❤
Hi, guys! I love ya’ll! U guys are just fabulous so please- don’t let these trolls destroy what u have going. U have been through a lot with Cancer and if u made it through that-- those ridiculous comments shouldn’t faze u one bit. Don’t let them win. Your the winner if u ask me because u beat Cancer
Sheila people can be so negative. They thought they were coming for some gossip. I thought is was funny. Stay true to yourself. Never change. Glad you and James had a great time💕
Hi Ms. Sheila, I hope your month gets better. And thank you for bringing us along to view the apartment. It’s not easy to please everyone but you’ll find your support. I’m starting to notice more women being open about personal situations on TH-cam. Possibly to provide hope to people that may be going through similar situations or to even document how far they have/will progress. We all learn from different situations. I work in customer service and they always tell us to be mindful of what we say because one wrong word can ruin a whole mood. Personally, I was not upset but I could see how someone can get upset by it. But you changed the title and apologized. That’s more than what other people would’ve done. Thank you for addressing it and don’t let it add to blah feeling from this month. You’re not alone in this. Keep smiling, Ms. Sheila.❤❤❤
Mrs. Sheila don’t trouble yourself with those that left, you can’t be for everybody. It was nothing wrong with your title because it was simply a fun thing to do. I thought your husband was going on a business trip and you finally was alone to find your on way. You was getting some me time as the youngsters say. This is your channel so you get to do what what you want and not be bullied into satisfying others needs. They can create their own channel for their emotional support. I enjoy your content and creativity so we will march onward. Thanks for the laughs and love tears. You are one in a million. Blessings to you and Unk Outside James. 😂😂😂
Girl, look-a-here! That's life, sometimes our words hit...sometimes they miss. Thank you for the apology, you didn't owe it, but I follow you and appreciate your vunerability. Look here....ya'll be in 'dem streets....I just love how you enjoy the simple stuff. Your hubby is so right....work is overated! LOL!
Hey Sheila the title from the last video I knew it was something fun, but some people will just be negative because they can. focus on us who will always come because we love you!
Sheila, it is always a blessing to listen to your honesty and transparency. You are truly authentic and I appreciate your story. I am grateful for your battle with Cancer. God has been faithful and given you victory. He always causes His people to triumph.
To be honest ... this is your channel where you come to be you , share you, with the people that are receptive and can feel your heart and intent. I dont think you were deceptive ... I actually understood the direction and I laughed. As I told you before you are like a "sane" sister friend... and I appreciate you. Kudos for getting partnerships with products... ( obviously you are doing several things correct) . God can replace those who left 100 fold... Hugs for shalom for the rest of July and going forward. Comic relief-> " No humans were hurt in the making of this or the prior videos". Be you... that's who I'm here for sweet Lady... I LOVED YOUR DATE NIGHT ... ❤
I was one of the commentors that was disappointed by the click bait video, only because I like you 2 as a couple, and I don't like clickbait videos, but I would never be disrespectful.
Hey girl hey. I have been watching your videos for a few months now, and I feel like I know you well enough to know that you were being just funny. I didn't take offense. Later for those who didn't get it, and for those who were looking for drama. I say to them ... kick rocks lol. Don't let them get to you! Keep doing you!
Hi Sheila. Listen, I don't even care what your titles say to be honest. I see you have a new video and I'm watching. I was blessed to see one of your videos a few months ago and I immediately subscribed and wondered, why am I just now finding this sister cause she is awesome. You are inspire alot more people than you make people mad. Someone else said in a comment and I have to paraphrase but basically some folks probably came looking and hoping for drama and did not get any so that made them mad and probably bitter. You are so optimistic more times than not and yet you have beat Cancer! That is huge! To beat it, you had to struggle, endure, feel sick and so much more than I could never begin to know BUT GOD!!! You are still smiling most of the doggone time and that encourages me and so I appreciate you! You have more of us that are gonna ride with you no matter what than those that left or choose to leave and to God be the Glory because your channel is going to continue to grow. Sometimes we have to simply be reminded that when people are not truly and genuinely for us, it is best for them to leave. It was so nice to see you and hubby have a wonderful date night! Keep being your amazing, awesome self. Keep your head up, hoping that July gets better. Always sending love and prayers from North Carolina!
Hello Sheila😊. I thoroughly enjoy watching your videos. Continue to be encouraged,your content is so relatable. I never look that deep into a title because I'm a true supporter, and I'm here to really watch your videos. I never saw the point of commenting negatively on anyone's video when it's easier to simply scroll past to the next TH-camr's video. Keep shining Sheila, I love your content!! Thank you for always sharing your life journey with us!❤️
I love how you both enjoyed your time…Sorry you experienced this ….those who are assigned to you will support you regardless of thumbnails or titles…keep being your beautiful self..
I saw last video and read title and never thought much about it. I think my thought was, “oh her husband must have went on a trip”. I got the punchline. It was in your title. Wow, so sorry you received negative comments. Hugs and love to you and hubby! Keep doing you!
I don’t understand in the first place why someone would want to hear of a breakup. It’s obvious you both enjoy each other. Don’t let someone poison take away what you enjoy and want to share. Have great week.❤️
Don't worry about what people say the Most High got you. You're a survivor and a strong black woman. You put the work in making your videos. I'm glad you guys had fun on your date night. Continue doing you. Much love from Texas. 🙏🏾🖤 🙏🏾
@@RealLifewithSheila I know you do if I could trade with you I would I'm from Ga but I'm the one that had the devastating move here everything went wrong the scamming. I know you probably forgot it so much going on with us all. We're in Houston. But where we are is temporary. Just 8 more month if it's the Most High will But I'm thankful we have a roof over our head.
Finding and Building an Audience that truly cares about you and is invested in your story is quite a challenge and amazing feat. Perhaps the comments suggest that your audience cares and they only want to see the best for you and your hubby. Big Huge Hugs 🤗 Sending you tons of Love ❤
So happy you guys have fun together. I love you all. Can’t wait to get there with my special somebody one day continue to enjoy life and you are in my prayers. God bless you.
Hey Ms Sheila I recently started watching your videos. I love you and your husband's realness. You both have happy spirits. I love when you all go out and engage with others and dance. I love the way you all enjoy life.❤😊
Hi Sheila! I’m so sorry you got negative comments on your last video. How can anyone say you were deceptive? He did leave lol. I’ll say this, anyone that unfollowed you didn’t deserve to be here. There are people who sit twiddling their fingers waiting to hear bad news. I enjoyed your video and I’m looking forward to Fridays vlog. God bless ❤
❤ Hey Sheila. Don’t let them break your stride! Take a deep breath. This is YOUR channel. Folks that get you and wanna be here will flock to you. Especially if you and your husband keep slow jamming to songs like The Lover In You by Shalamar!!! 💃 🕺 YES!!!
Hey girl Hey, I love your videos and your style. You have such a lovely personality and you’re a fun person. Pay the negative people no mind. I love you, Peace and Love From NYC 🙏🏼💜✝️
Regarding the subscribers you lost, I'm sorry to hear that. What, were they disappointed your husband didn't leave you? Were they hoping for some "hot tea"? 🤔 Seems like true supporters would be happy that there was no bad news. Anyway, I enjoyed your video today. I hope you guys find the right apartment for you. ❤
People can be so cruel and I'm sorry this happens. Since I've started watching you I have felt very close to you and enjoy seeing you and your Hubby dancing and having fun.
0:04 Hi frenn!😉 8:18 EDIT: Sheila, have you considered a "senior citizen community"?I forgot the proper name of it, but it has all the amenities you're looking for and more.It's NOT "assisted living."I forgot the proper name. The ones I've looked into just out of curiosity.The price is very steep, so if you find out what I AM talking about and you find an interest in it.I hope it fits you guys budget!👍🏾🤗
They’re very expensive we actually just look at a couple of them online. We really like being in a regular community. So I think that’s what we’ll look at! The senior communities are nice.
Hello, I just found your channel today and have watched several videos and I truly enjoy your content. My spirits were lifted. Thank you for your vlogs,
I'm so sorry that you were bombarded with critical comments in regards to your last video. At no time did I think that you and your husband were no longer together. I think the majority of your subscribers understood your intention. Please keep sharing your vlogs because I look forward to watching them.🤗
I love watching you Sheila, but I absolutely hate click bait. I’m so familiar with it now, that I don’t click on most channels, because I know they’re lying. Though most people lie and do this to get views, you don’t have to, because people will watch you for you if you’re being your authentic. It’s absolutely deceptive, and I believe you know that; however, I won’t unsubscribe, as I’ve done with other TH-cam channels for the gross lies, because I enjoy you as a person. Don’t follow the crowd, your channel will grow and elevate naturally. Keep bringing the videos: you’re a joy to watch.
@@MrsBlackButterfly The thing about me is I never follow the crowd.i do me. Which is why all this was upsetting…I wasn’t doing it for views. I was just being creative. Thanks for understanding.
Unfortunately, some ppl feel the need to spew negativity. Please do not let this deter you, it's your channel and you can do whatever you want, title it, however you want. I love your content and titles. Please know that the ppl that come here for you know the real you. Thanks for sharing, as a Creator also we have to create and the titles are apart of that creation and there's noway to please everyone. Please keep it coming!
I guess people don’t under stand what … means which you included after the “leaving part “ lol. Keep doing what you’re doing and don’t let it get to you. I’m a fairly new subscriber. I enjoy your vlogs and catching up on older ones…
I didn't feel the previous video title was 'click bate' LOL & I subbed to your Bonus Son YT channel 😍 YT is about knowing and being personable. You want to weed out the ppl that hasn't taken the time to get to know you through the content you provide. In My opinion if it was a 'True' divorce you would ghost us and pop up months later after prayer and healing... That is what I get from our relationship thru these TH-cam streets.
I saw that video, but didn't really believe James had left you. I knew you would have a real explanation. The video was fine with me.😊 You have to be yourself. I don't always comment but I enjoy your videos. 🙏❤️
Hey Sheila, I was in Myrtle beach Monday and omg I fell in love, one of the beach houses would be my dream home for real 😊 James danced the night away 😅 see you next time
People are ridiculous lol. I knew what you meant. And to me it didn’t seem click-baity at all and I watched the entire vlog. Sorry people couldn’t take the satire or joke. I think it’s people trolling and they got nothing else better to do. Thank you for taking the time and work to put these videos out. And sharing your life with us!
Yeah I really thought your husband left you! On the other I love how vibrant and outgoing you guys are. Click baits aren’t necessary in my view if I like you I will watch your videos it’s that simple and I like you! Make sure to keep getting that fiber in !! Great video🇯🇲❤️
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I commented before but I just have to say again I can’t imagine unsubscribing because of the title of a vlog. I see the fun you and your husband share and my last thought was that he “really” left. Those people that unsubscribed honestly were not happy for you and wanting your best. If anything they should have been relieved that was not the case…but you know misery loves company. Enjoyed ❤
Respectfully, I don’t understand people who dismiss “negative feedback” if it’s constructive. That’s gaslighting. Personally, I considered the title to be click bait (feedback you’ve received on another video you did.) Your personal brand comes off as being like a bff and your wouldn’t expect that from a bff. Thanks for being open minded enough to consider both positive and negative feedback especially when it’s constructive. That’s how you grow, improve and lean into your personal brand. All the best.
Hi sweetie! Did u change the title for the( Karen’s )who thought you should have titled it the way they think u should?You don’t change for anyone because then it’s not u. Stay real to yourself. And Sheila- this should show u that they were more thrilled to think your husband left you because to say click bait and get mad because it wasn’t what they thought! Shame on them. Keep going Sheila because you and your husband are both fabulous ❤❤
Hi Shelia! I knew you weren't being deceitful or only using the title for click bate. You clearly stated in the description of the video that your husband left you for 24 hours. People should read first instead of making assumptions. I love your videos. You are very inspirational. I love your style and personality.
I look forward to your videos! I found nothing wrong with the original title of your last one. I knew before watching that it was a "catchy" title and definitely not click bait. People have become so judgmental and mean spirited. It's really sad. Continue doing what you do and please don't let the negative Nellie's get you down.
Ya’ll came on my TH-cam feed? I’m so glad y’all are here! I’m a local, born and raised here. If ya’ll ever need any advice/help/best local restaurants…let me know! You can do it!
You should check Sheila Outside and Travel, another TH-camr that does her thing and doesn't worry about making everyone happy because that's impossible. You looked beautiful on date night 🧡
Some people are too invested and busy living perfect lives to understand a little innocent humor. I can only speak for myself, but I'm a pretty new subscriber and knew from the title that it was not meant to be taken literally, even before seeing the video. If people are going to leave because you are being witty then let them go sooner rather than later, then build up tried and true subscribers. Be your authentic self because that is how God made you.
Apartment hunting can be so stressful. I’m currently helping my daughter in her search and it’s exhausting. I get your point about wanting outdoor space, that can be so important. Have you considered renting a house? The rental costs are often the same as an apartment.
I thought your video titled "he's leaving...." was hilarious & your explanation throughout the video fit your playful personality. NOT CLICK BAIT. People need to lighten up & learn to take a joke. 😮 The world has gotten much too sensitive...OMG! Sheila, you will never please everyone. Just continue to be yourself.
Hey pretty lady🎉. This is YOUR channel.. you chose the title, whether it was lick bait or not! If some people were so offended and choose to unsubscribe, let them… good bye to those who were so offended , obviously your channel is not for them… it’s okay if you thought that it was ‘cute and catchy’ because this is Your channel and your content..you should NOT have changed the title because then it’s no longer your creativity …it’s because you’re trying to pacify some people who are making a big deal about it based on their own personal opinions… don’t conform and change who you are or change what you view as ‘cute’… when you change for other people, regardless of why you changed, you are not being your creative authentic self… if they don’t like it, let them leave and you keep being you!! You appear to be financially stable and not dependent on TH-cam for survival… so keep having fun with YOUR channel!!! Is it even worth it if it becomes a burden to you and you’re afraid of what others might think or be offended by… keep being you ❤
Honestly I didn't click on that video. I've been following you since the early days and have always enjoyed your videos. I will say that several titles since your move have seemed gimmicky or clickbaitish. I'm just not interested in that coming from any sector but especially from the more mature sector. I will continue to watch only those without gimmicky titles.
What I’ve learned is some got the title and some didn’t…I know my intentions which wasn’t to be deceptive….i was just making a true catchy title. Thank you for still coming back.
I saw the title and saw nothing wrong with it. People are too much these days. If her husband really left her, would she post it like that? No need for the nasty remarks. People are too invested and being a bully behind the screen.
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Hi Sheila, I saw those negative comments from the last upload. It was simply terrible. I couldn’t understand why they made your title so serious. We got ppl out here very sick, with no family, no one to love them and the only thing some ppl can say is something nasty. I suppose my career as a registered nurse helps me to appreciate life so much, or maybe it’s my faith. You’ve already been through some tough health conditions, please don’t allow the negativity and unhappiness of others affect your infectious spirit! I’m married to my best friend for 24 years this November and I admire you and your husband’s relationship. Those bitter women who left those comments are just jealous seeing your happiness and enjoying it with your Love! Trust me, that’s why I avoid them at all cost and stick with the company of my husband. He’s all I prefer 🥰. I really enjoy your videos! Please keep them coming!!
@@quit2quilt525 They want stop me….I think I am as just shocked then hurt to know people can be so ugly. I’m determined to keep being me!!!!
you and husband look good. Dancing is good i love it raises the endorphins. I am 72 still jazzy, still dancing and love my music. keep moving and grooving ✊🏽
@@vickicampbell2736 Love that you’re jazzy!
I saw the title but never thought that was the case, figured it had to do with work. I hope you won’t allow a few negative comments or losing subscribers get to you too much. I think some of the folks that were upset came looking for drama and couldn’t find it 🤷🏽♀️ Keep being you and doing what you do! Have a beautiful and blessed week 😊
Just pure pitiful, folks are so mean to one another. You keep going strong!❤
I love your videos. Don’t let people discourage you. Keep being you. If people leave because of a title, they never meant to stay anyway and you don’t want them on your channel. Most TH-camrs use titles that make you want to click the video. If it’s something I don’t want to see just click off and wait for the next one. No big deal. Keep being you.
So true!
Well, maybe I assumed differently than the viewers that were upset by your catchy title, but I didn't think you were seriously saying James had left you, but that there would be a twist to what the title really meant. I enjoyed the post and laughed at how the change in plans through you off. 😊😊😊 Anyway, I'm sorry for the attacks and accusations some people chose to throw at you. Sometimes it's a good thing when certain individuals leave your space. Loved the dancing "date night" and apartment hunting with you! Praying for you to get fresh wind that lifts your spirit and let July be a month that reminds you it was the start of your healing. 🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️Tracey from San Diego, California
@@traceyealy5477 Thank you so much…July is tough but I’m strong
Don't change one thing. I love your videos. You and James are such a beautiful couple. Let the negative people exit stage left! Only positive vibes over here baby. 😊
Thank you so much!!
Some people will look for anything to bring someone down so they feel better.. very sad world ❤
Dont over think that title, you are struggling this month have some grace for yourself, you have come a long way celebrate! By the way dont go back to that salon I've made that mistake before. ❤
@@lisaflores8801 I’m truly struggling this month. Thank you for your kids words. So much needed.
I hope you don’t let those negative comments discourage you from making videos, I have been watching for a long time and would miss you!
Hi, guys! I love ya’ll! U guys are just fabulous so please- don’t let these trolls destroy what u have going. U have been through a lot with Cancer and if u made it through that-- those ridiculous comments shouldn’t faze u one bit. Don’t let them win. Your the winner if u ask me because u beat Cancer
@@jclee44ecec Thank you
Sheila people can be so negative. They thought they were coming for some gossip. I thought is was funny. Stay true to yourself. Never change. Glad you and James had a great time💕
Hi Ms. Sheila, I hope your month gets better. And thank you for bringing us along to view the apartment. It’s not easy to please everyone but you’ll find your support. I’m starting to notice more women being open about personal situations on TH-cam. Possibly to provide hope to people that may be going through similar situations or to even document how far they have/will progress. We all learn from different situations. I work in customer service and they always tell us to be mindful of what we say because one wrong word can ruin a whole mood. Personally, I was not upset but I could see how someone can get upset by it. But you changed the title and apologized. That’s more than what other people would’ve done. Thank you for addressing it and don’t let it add to blah feeling from this month. You’re not alone in this. Keep smiling, Ms. Sheila.❤❤❤
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Mrs. Sheila don’t trouble yourself with those that left, you can’t be for everybody. It was nothing wrong with your title because it was simply a fun thing to do. I thought your husband was going on a business trip and you finally was alone to find your on way. You was getting some me time as the youngsters say. This is your channel so you get to do what what you want and not be bullied into satisfying others needs. They can create their own channel for their emotional support. I enjoy your content and creativity so we will march onward. Thanks for the laughs and love tears. You are one in a million. Blessings to you and Unk Outside James. 😂😂😂
@@soulblacklady Thank you💕
Hello! Please don’t let the negative comments deter you from continuing to share your journey.
Girl, look-a-here! That's life, sometimes our words hit...sometimes they miss. Thank you for the apology, you didn't owe it, but I follow you and appreciate your vunerability. Look here....ya'll be in 'dem streets....I just love how you enjoy the simple stuff. Your hubby is so right....work is overated! LOL!
He’s laughing!!!
Hey Sheila the title from the last video I knew it was something fun, but some people will just be negative because they can. focus on us who will always come because we love you!
Priceless 😘😘 Continue the great work!!! ❤️❤️
Sheila, it is always a blessing to listen to your honesty and transparency. You are truly authentic and I appreciate your story. I am grateful for your battle with Cancer. God has been faithful and given you victory. He always causes His people to triumph.
Amen!!!!
To be honest ... this is your channel where you come to be you , share you, with the people that are receptive and can feel your heart and intent.
I dont think you were deceptive ... I actually understood the direction and I laughed. As I told you before you are like a "sane" sister friend... and I appreciate you.
Kudos for getting partnerships with products... ( obviously you are doing several things correct) .
God can replace those who left 100 fold...
Hugs for shalom for the rest of July and going forward.
Comic relief->
" No humans were hurt in the making of this or the prior videos".
Be you... that's who I'm here for sweet Lady...
I LOVED YOUR DATE NIGHT ... ❤
Thank you!!! We had a blast
I was one of the commentors that was disappointed by the click bait video, only because I like you 2 as a couple, and I don't like clickbait videos, but I would never be disrespectful.
The pool was the best part. I'm with you, l love my patio. You two are so fun.
Sheila we’re here for you girl. We support ya!
Hey girl hey. I have been watching your videos for a few months now, and I feel like I know you well enough to know that you were being just funny. I didn't take offense. Later for those who didn't get it, and for those who were looking for drama. I say to them ... kick rocks lol. Don't let them get to you! Keep doing you!
You and I seem similar Sheila. You need an apartment with a patio or balcony. It helps with mental clarity. I hope you both find the space you love.
Hi Sheila. Listen, I don't even care what your titles say to be honest. I see you have a new video and I'm watching. I was blessed to see one of your videos a few months ago and I immediately subscribed and wondered, why am I just now finding this sister cause she is awesome. You are inspire alot more people than you make people mad. Someone else said in a comment and I have to paraphrase but basically some folks probably came looking and hoping for drama and did not get any so that made them mad and probably bitter. You are so optimistic more times than not and yet you have beat Cancer! That is huge! To beat it, you had to struggle, endure, feel sick and so much more than I could never begin to know BUT GOD!!! You are still smiling most of the doggone time and that encourages me and so I appreciate you! You have more of us that are gonna ride with you no matter what than those that left or choose to leave and to God be the Glory because your channel is going to continue to grow. Sometimes we have to simply be reminded that when people are not truly and genuinely for us, it is best for them to leave. It was so nice to see you and hubby have a wonderful date night! Keep being your amazing, awesome self. Keep your head up, hoping that July gets better. Always sending love and prayers from North Carolina!
So nicely said. Thank you
Hello Sheila😊. I thoroughly enjoy watching your videos. Continue to be encouraged,your content is so relatable. I never look that deep into a title because I'm a true supporter, and I'm here to really watch your videos. I never saw the point of commenting negatively on anyone's video when it's easier to simply scroll past to the next TH-camr's video. Keep shining Sheila, I love your content!! Thank you for always sharing your life journey with us!❤️
I love how you both enjoyed your time…Sorry you experienced this ….those who are assigned to you will support you regardless of thumbnails or titles…keep being your beautiful self..
Thank you so much!
Hello you are such a sweetheart.....whats wrong with those people...❤❤
Lady Sheila and Hubby , y'all are soooo adorable ! God's continued best to you both always !
I saw last video and read title and never thought much about it. I think my thought was, “oh her husband must have went on a trip”. I got the punchline. It was in your title. Wow, so sorry you received negative comments. Hugs and love to you and hubby! Keep doing you!
I don’t understand in the first place why someone would want to hear of a breakup. It’s obvious you both enjoy each other. Don’t let someone poison take away what you enjoy and want to share. Have great week.❤️
You guys are a beautiful couple, I enjoy your videos all the time. The good Lord will bless you with more viewers .
Don't worry about what people say the Most High got you. You're a survivor and a strong black woman. You put the work in making your videos. I'm glad you guys had fun on your date night. Continue doing you. Much love from Texas. 🙏🏾🖤 🙏🏾
I miss Texas
@@RealLifewithSheila I know you do if I could trade with you I would I'm from Ga but I'm the one that had the devastating move here everything went wrong the scamming. I know you probably forgot it so much going on with us all. We're in Houston. But where we are is temporary. Just 8 more month if it's the Most High will But I'm thankful we have a roof over our head.
@@jeannie20001 I remember…i hope things are better. Gods got us
@@RealLifewithSheila It's ok but you right he definitely got us.
Finding and Building an Audience that truly cares about you and is invested in your story is quite a challenge and amazing feat. Perhaps the comments suggest that your audience cares and they only want to see the best for you and your hubby.
Big Huge Hugs 🤗 Sending you tons of Love ❤
So happy you guys have fun together. I love you all. Can’t wait to get there with my special somebody one day continue to enjoy life and you are in my prayers. God bless you.
Hey Ms Sheila I recently started watching your videos. I love you and your husband's realness. You both have happy spirits. I love when you all go out and engage with others and dance. I love the way you all enjoy life.❤😊
Thank you so much
Hi Sheila! I’m so sorry you got negative comments on your last video. How can anyone say you were deceptive? He did leave lol. I’ll say this, anyone that unfollowed you didn’t deserve to be here. There are people who sit twiddling their fingers waiting to hear bad news. I enjoyed your video and I’m looking forward to Fridays vlog. God bless ❤
❤ Hey Sheila. Don’t let them break your stride! Take a deep breath. This is YOUR channel. Folks that get you and wanna be here will flock to you. Especially if you and your husband keep slow jamming to songs like The Lover In You by Shalamar!!! 💃 🕺 YES!!!
Thank you, I will
Hey girl Hey, I love your videos and your style. You have such a lovely personality and you’re a fun person. Pay the negative people no mind.
I love you, Peace and Love From NYC 🙏🏼💜✝️
Regarding the subscribers you lost, I'm sorry to hear that. What, were they disappointed your husband didn't leave you? Were they hoping for some "hot tea"? 🤔 Seems like true supporters would be happy that there was no bad news. Anyway, I enjoyed your video today. I hope you guys find the right apartment for you. ❤
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People can be so cruel and I'm sorry this happens. Since I've started watching you I have felt very close to you and enjoy seeing you and your Hubby dancing and having fun.
It was very hurtful…thank you for your encouraging words! We had so much fun dancing.
Contagious fun at 3001.
0:04 Hi frenn!😉
8:18 EDIT: Sheila, have you considered a "senior citizen community"?I forgot the proper name of it, but it has all the amenities you're looking for and more.It's NOT "assisted living."I forgot the proper name. The ones I've looked into just out of curiosity.The price is very steep, so if you find out what I AM talking about and you find an interest in it.I hope it fits you guys budget!👍🏾🤗
55 plus active adult community
They’re very expensive we actually just look at a couple of them online. We really like being in a regular community. So I think that’s what we’ll look at! The senior communities are nice.
Looks can be deceiving..you have been warned......trust your gut choosing a new place....God speed❤❤❤❤
Hello, I just found your channel today and have watched several videos and I truly enjoy your content. My spirits were lifted. Thank you for your vlogs,
I'm so sorry that you were bombarded with critical comments in regards to your last video. At no time did I think that you and your husband were no longer together. I think the majority of your subscribers understood your intention. Please keep sharing your vlogs because I look forward to watching them.🤗
I love watching you Sheila, but I absolutely hate click bait. I’m so familiar with it now, that I don’t click on most channels, because I know they’re lying.
Though most people lie and do this to get views, you don’t have to, because people will watch you for you if you’re being your authentic. It’s absolutely deceptive, and I believe you know that; however, I won’t unsubscribe, as I’ve done with other TH-cam channels for the gross lies, because I enjoy you as a person.
Don’t follow the crowd, your channel will grow and elevate naturally. Keep bringing the videos: you’re a joy to watch.
@@MrsBlackButterfly The thing about me is I never follow the crowd.i do me. Which is why all this was upsetting…I wasn’t doing it for views. I was just being creative. Thanks for understanding.
Yall Are Just A Lovely Couple
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Unfortunately, some ppl feel the need to spew negativity. Please do not let this deter you, it's your channel and you can do whatever you want, title it, however you want. I love your content and titles. Please know that the ppl that come here for you know the real you. Thanks for sharing, as a Creator also we have to create and the titles are apart of that creation and there's noway to please everyone. Please keep it coming!
You are so cute it look like he had fun he was doing all the dancing❤❤❤ I love it I love y'all love❤❤❤
I guess people don’t under stand what … means which you included after the “leaving part “ lol.
Keep doing what you’re doing and don’t let it get to you. I’m a fairly new subscriber. I enjoy your vlogs and catching up on older ones…
Yes! Thank you!
P.S. I hope you find your perfect apartment.
Thank you so much for reviewing FIBER FIX😍
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I’m sorry people saying things off a title. It was a catchy title. Happy birthday to your grandson🎉 hope you having a better day!
I didn't feel the previous video title was 'click bate' LOL & I subbed to your Bonus Son YT channel 😍 YT is about knowing and being personable. You want to weed out the ppl that hasn't taken the time to get to know you through the content you provide. In My opinion if it was a 'True' divorce you would ghost us and pop up months later after prayer and healing... That is what I get from our relationship thru these TH-cam streets.
Thanks for the video!
I saw that video, but didn't really believe James had left you. I knew you would have a real explanation. The video was fine with me.😊 You have to be yourself. I don't always comment but I enjoy your videos. 🙏❤️
I appreciate that
Hey Sheila, I was in Myrtle beach Monday and omg I fell in love, one of the beach houses would be my dream home for real 😊 James danced the night away 😅 see you next time
people are extremely negative. some look for an argument and is senseless. Don't take that negativity in just keep on. Good subscribers will show up
He had a good time! Date night for the win.
You were just trying to bring a little laughter and fun to our day. I for one appreciate your humor. 😁😉👍
People are ridiculous lol. I knew what you meant. And to me it didn’t seem click-baity at all and I watched the entire vlog. Sorry people couldn’t take the satire or joke. I think it’s people trolling and they got nothing else better to do. Thank you for taking the time and work to put these videos out. And sharing your life with us!
Thank you for allowing me into your home
Yeah I really thought your husband left you! On the other I love how vibrant and outgoing you guys are. Click baits aren’t necessary in my view if I like you I will watch your videos it’s that simple and I like you! Make sure to keep getting that fiber in !! Great video🇯🇲❤️
I’m getting in the Fiber
take magnesium with glycerin in it. you will go. try it on a weekend you will be home and snack on prunes and drink 5:47 water. If you drink kevia kombuca every morning. 2 oz of it before breakfast
When I lived in S C I use to go out to a club in North Myrtle named 2001 VIP in the late seventies. It also had 3 clubs under one roof
Hey! I just moved from the area. It’s the same club, just renamed for the times.
I commented before but I just have to say again I can’t imagine unsubscribing because of the title of a vlog. I see the fun you and your husband share and my last thought was that he “really” left. Those people that unsubscribed honestly were not happy for you and wanting your best. If anything they should have been relieved that was not the case…but you know misery loves company. Enjoyed ❤
Respectfully, I don’t understand people who dismiss “negative feedback” if it’s constructive. That’s gaslighting.
Personally, I considered the title to be click bait (feedback you’ve received on another video you did.) Your personal brand comes off as being like a bff and your wouldn’t expect that from a bff.
Thanks for being open minded enough to consider both positive and negative feedback especially when it’s constructive.
That’s how you grow, improve and lean into your personal brand. All the best.
Hi sweetie! Did u change the title for the( Karen’s )who thought you should have titled it the way they think u should?You don’t change for anyone because then it’s not u. Stay real to yourself. And Sheila- this should show u that they were more thrilled to think your husband left you because to say click bait and get mad because it wasn’t what they thought! Shame on them. Keep going Sheila because you and your husband are both fabulous ❤❤
So true!
@@RealLifewithSheila Love u girl
Hi Shelia! I knew you weren't being deceitful or only using the title for click bate. You clearly stated in the description of the video that your husband left you for 24 hours. People should read first instead of making assumptions. I love your videos. You are very inspirational. I love your style and personality.
Sheila those subbies that unscribed were never real one's anyway I'm still here keep going
I have just ordered Fiber Fix. 😊 love your vlogs!
It’ll help you to go!
I look forward to your videos! I found nothing wrong with the original title of your last one. I knew before watching that it was a "catchy" title and definitely not click bait. People have become so judgmental and mean spirited. It's really sad. Continue doing what you do and please don't let the negative Nellie's get you down.
Ya’ll came on my TH-cam feed? I’m so glad y’all are here! I’m a local, born and raised here. If ya’ll ever need any advice/help/best local restaurants…let me know! You can do it!
Awesome! Thank you!
You should check Sheila Outside and Travel, another TH-camr that does her thing and doesn't worry about making everyone happy because that's impossible. You looked beautiful on date night 🧡
I found the Ollie pop at Target. It wasn’t my favorite so I mixed it with my root beer and it was okay.
Some people are too invested and busy living perfect lives to understand a little innocent humor. I can only speak for myself, but I'm a pretty new subscriber and knew from the title that it was not meant to be taken literally, even before seeing the video. If people are going to leave because you are being witty then let them go sooner rather than later, then build up tried and true subscribers. Be your authentic self because that is how God made you.
Amen
Hey Sheila, love the bangle bracelets. I know you mentioned the shop but does she have an online store or ship? Has the bangles changed colors?
No she doesn’t. They have not…I love them
Apartment hunting can be so stressful. I’m currently helping my daughter in her search and it’s exhausting.
I get your point about wanting outdoor space, that can be so important.
Have you considered renting a house? The rental costs are often the same as an apartment.
We have but I think we’re wanting the amenities…but you never know.
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I thought your video titled "he's leaving...." was hilarious & your explanation throughout the video fit your playful personality. NOT CLICK BAIT. People need to lighten up & learn to take a joke. 😮 The world has gotten much too sensitive...OMG! Sheila, you will never please everyone. Just continue to be yourself.
So true!
Hey pretty lady🎉. This is YOUR channel.. you chose the title, whether it was lick bait or not! If some people were so offended and choose to unsubscribe, let them… good bye to those who were so offended , obviously your channel is not for them… it’s okay if you thought that it was ‘cute and catchy’ because this is Your channel and your content..you should NOT have changed the title because then it’s no longer your creativity …it’s because you’re trying to pacify some people who are making a big deal about it based on their own personal opinions… don’t conform and change who you are or change what you view as ‘cute’… when you change for other people, regardless of why you changed, you are not being your creative authentic self… if they don’t like it, let them leave and you keep being you!! You appear to be financially stable and not dependent on TH-cam for survival… so keep having fun with YOUR channel!!! Is it even worth it if it becomes a burden to you and you’re afraid of what others might think or be offended by… keep being you ❤
Correction: whether it was click bait or not!!!!❤❤❤❤❤
Honestly I didn't click on that video. I've been following you since the early days and have always enjoyed your videos. I will say that several titles since your move have seemed gimmicky or clickbaitish. I'm just not interested in that coming from any sector but especially from the more mature sector. I will continue to watch only those without gimmicky titles.
What I’ve learned is some got the title and some didn’t…I know my intentions which wasn’t to be deceptive….i was just making a true catchy title. Thank you for still coming back.
I saw the title and saw nothing wrong with it. People are too much these days. If her husband really left her, would she post it like that? No need for the nasty remarks. People are too invested and being a bully behind the screen.
So folks didn't get it🙄