28 years lost, I made the mistake of dating right away oh, and landed in the same type of relationship. I fell for all the love bombing and lies that come with with it. Devastating. But she's right you have to work on yourself first. I never thought I had any value. It was all about what others thought about me. I was a people pleaser, anyting to keep peace with everybody. And that allowed them to walk all over me. Working on myself and my belief in God, and the Lord Jesus help me get through this. Be determined, you didn't deserve this, and you can love yourself!!!
I took 2 And a half years trying to get to know my husband.....I even sat and talked in very detailed conversation about how I felt about marriage and what was important to me. Thinking I had covered all the bases so as not to make a mistake.....it still ended up a mistake......all his shaking his head....oh yes yes that's how I feel.....well I'm married to a covert narissist. I feel half crazy now. I feel so unworthy of love. Not sure what a sure fire way to protect myself is. And I am praying that God will open me up to see what my purpose is. Thanks for sharing.
So agree Ashley. A light bulb moment for me was a book I was reading that said "you are born with value". I was always looking for it, it was right there! I am very much looking forward to your future videos on this subject! Thank you, you are appreciated!
I've learned alot from you Ashley, so straightforward, precise. You teach volumes in each and every video. What the world could be like if we all knew our value to be absolutely sufficient on our own just by knowing who the hell WE are!! And by so, finding out we ARE enough. We learn to value ourselves instead of seeking validation from another. Break those generational curses, they are not who YOU are. You don't need validation from someone else. YOU are enough!
Thank you Ashley ‼️ this is just what I’ve been starting to discover about myself.....quarantine really expedites our self-reflection.....I always find myself in relationships in which I give my power away! It’s so awful......I really want to change that & attract healthy relationships ✨✨🍍🍍
you really bring something new to the table around these topics. fresh, clean, wise and so helpful. bless you. really helpful and cuts to the issue in a great way, like an invitation to get free from the sabotage that tries to cloud the truth :)
You know as I’m digging my own self out of the hole I’ve found myself in I begin to want to share all this stuff with my kids to. If teenagers got these messages to …. What a change that could make in the world or do we first have to experience being in frying pan a bit to really want it? I am just noticing that as I’m learning about what’s going on in my own relationships, I’m having all these worries about how things may be affecting my kids that I wasn’t able to see because I just didn’t know any better . It’s sad because parents want the world for their kids . We don’t want them to suffer the way we did and especially not because of our own generational trauma . I’m all about breaking that . I’m wondering to if my daughters current mental health is a result of anything we as parents didn’t get right . So maybe this is on my mind so profoundly right now because I am so worried about her . She’s a good kid and she deserves to know her worth ❤️ and to be happy
I've never known who I am. After a childhood trauma, I have total loss of identity. I grew up in the shadow of my sibling who was a child actor. I also loved acting/theatre and still do to this day but never knew if i was trying to go down that path because they did it. My mother thinks this is the case. I've been so torn between two different paths and confused because I don't know if it's me that wants it or the voice from the shadows. To this day, no one can answer that. I am aware of the golden child/scapegoat theory... but I am totally incapable of knowing.... answers on a postcard! If anyone can relate... please help.
Look inwards and only allow yourself to decide. You are the best one to answer that question. Look into codependency, narcissist relationships, and changing the dynamics of how you relate in your family system. The toxic relationships and how we relate are closer than we may want to see. It is painful but there are life changing beautiful moments and clarity ahead for you.
12 years loss, 100+days NC and tears beyond belief-but here for healing❤️ Thank you
You are not a lone. Things only get better.
Yes, I was there. The worst. It is slow, but gets better the more you focus on moving forward.
Michael James thank you
deb sabatino thanks so much
28 years lost, I made the mistake of dating right away oh, and landed in the same type of relationship. I fell for all the love bombing and lies that come with with it. Devastating. But she's right you have to work on yourself first. I never thought I had any value. It was all about what others thought about me. I was a people pleaser, anyting to keep peace with everybody. And that allowed them to walk all over me. Working on myself and my belief in God, and the Lord Jesus help me get through this. Be determined, you didn't deserve this, and you can love yourself!!!
I love how you talk about our beliefs and morals in defying toxic relationships you get beautiful advice! ❤️
I took 2 And a half years trying to get to know my husband.....I even sat and talked in very detailed conversation about how I felt about marriage and what was important to me. Thinking I had covered all the bases so as not to make a mistake.....it still ended up a mistake......all his shaking his head....oh yes yes that's how I feel.....well I'm married to a covert narissist. I feel half crazy now. I feel so unworthy of love. Not sure what a sure fire way to protect myself is. And I am praying that God will open me up to see what my purpose is. Thanks for sharing.
@Kitty Noneya Just said a prayer to the Lord for you. All the best to you!
I am SO impressed that she will defend her faith by NOT putting up with his challenge. Good for Her!! Faith is just that...
So agree Ashley. A light bulb moment for me was a book I was reading that said "you are born with value". I was always looking for it, it was right there! I am very much looking forward to your future videos on this subject! Thank you, you are appreciated!
@deb sabatino Would you mind sharing the name of the book you read that states "you are born with value?" Thanks
I've learned alot from you Ashley, so straightforward, precise. You teach volumes in each and every video. What the world could be like if we all knew our value to be absolutely sufficient on our own just by knowing who the hell WE are!! And by so, finding out we ARE enough. We learn to value ourselves instead of seeking validation from another. Break those generational curses, they are not who YOU are. You don't need validation from someone else. YOU are enough!
Thank you Ashley ‼️ this is just what I’ve been starting to discover about myself.....quarantine really expedites our self-reflection.....I always find myself in relationships in which I give my power away! It’s so awful......I really want to change that & attract healthy relationships ✨✨🍍🍍
This lady is awesome.
so much YES! our value is inherent! Nothing or no one can take that from us
Thank you for this information. It’s extremely helpful for me and many others I’m sure.
I just found your channel! Great advice!👏😊
Glad you found me! Thank you, how are you Diane?
A very important video! Thank You!!
Glad it was helpful! Thank you for reaching out.
Beautiful video!
Need to understand ourselves better than others got the point. 🥰
Very good vídeo as always Ashley!!!
you really bring something new to the table around these topics. fresh, clean, wise and so helpful. bless you. really helpful and cuts to the issue in a great way, like an invitation to get free from the sabotage that tries to cloud the truth :)
Always good content Ashley 🙂😉🙏🏻
Thank you so much Ashley your videos are very helpful.
You know as I’m digging my own self out of the hole I’ve found myself in I begin to want to share all this stuff with my kids to. If teenagers got these messages to …. What a change that could make in the world or do we first have to experience being in frying pan a bit to really want it? I am just noticing that as I’m learning about what’s going on in my own relationships, I’m having all these worries about how things may be affecting my kids that I wasn’t able to see because I just didn’t know any better . It’s sad because parents want the world for their kids . We don’t want them to suffer the way we did and especially not because of our own generational trauma . I’m all about breaking that .
I’m wondering to if my daughters current mental health is a result of anything we as parents didn’t get right . So maybe this is on my mind so profoundly right now because I am so worried about her . She’s a good kid and she deserves to know her worth ❤️ and to be happy
Love this😘
Powerful information thank you🙏
Omg 🙏🏽❤️. Factsssss
Whelp, this is going to be a painful watch: here goes!
I've never known who I am. After a childhood trauma, I have total loss of identity. I grew up in the shadow of my sibling who was a child actor. I also loved acting/theatre and still do to this day but never knew if i was trying to go down that path because they did it. My mother thinks this is the case. I've been so torn between two different paths and confused because I don't know if it's me that wants it or the voice from the shadows. To this day, no one can answer that. I am aware of the golden child/scapegoat theory... but I am totally incapable of knowing.... answers on a postcard! If anyone can relate... please help.
Look inwards and only allow yourself to decide. You are the best one to answer that question. Look into codependency, narcissist relationships, and changing the dynamics of how you relate in your family system. The toxic relationships and how we relate are closer than we may want to see. It is painful but there are life changing beautiful moments and clarity ahead for you.
ı wish i watched this earlier 🌟
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That guy was just a jerk. Not all non-believers try to provoke others like that. Religion is not morality.
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