But it isn't her fault, after all it was the coworker who destroyed multiple relationships. Her choices had nothing to do with that, she is an innocent victim!
He cheats with multiple people: "He's a disgusting animal." _She_ cheats with multiple people: "You people aren't being understanding or empathetic. _I did it for_ *LOVE* "
It seems like OP misses whichever guy she can't have access to. Boyfriend breaks up with her for cheating, she realizes how good he is and begs him to take her back. AP is cut off, she misses the "friendship" she had with him and rekindles the "friendship" even if it's a condition of having her boyfriend take her back. Boyfriend takes her back again, she starts pining for the coworker who is totally going to leave his wife for her with only a few weeks before she's supposed to get married. She finds out she's not the only one the AP is cheating on his wife with, she realizes (AGAIN) how good her fiance was and begs him to take her back. What a dumbass
My mom calls women like that the "grass is always greener" women. They never want what they have until it's not theirs anymore. Then Erma bombeck wrote a book called "the grass is always greener-over the septic tank" lol. It still makes me smile thinking of that title lol.
I remember when Smosh read the first story. They called the boyfriend that was cheated on extremely controlling because the rules he made after he was betrayed twice.
As an aroace looking at this stuff from the outside the attitudes towards cheating seem weird to me. Like nobody thinks it should be illegal due to how hard it is to prove and not something worthy of punishment but yet it's easy enough to prove that cheaters should never be in love again and can have assets taken away in a divorce that are greater then what they would be for a misdemeanor that requires a criminal burden of proof; I'm unsure what the solution is since both saying cheating should be illegal and saying it should be completely acceptable seem too extreme but it's just another aspect of allosexuality/alloromanticism that confuses the hell out of me.
@@MrDoverfieldhow is making rules in a relationship controlling?💀 If anything it’s just stupid, because of you gotta make these sorts of rules fix your partner, THEN YOU SHOULDN’T DATE THAT PARTNER.
And recall this one fact. OP ran away from her mustard crazed husband to a hotel. With cameras. She pointed them out and said he better be careful about hurting her. He flipped out saying how the heck she could think he could possibly hurt her. Then like 3 months later OP was in the hospital. From him doing just that (as she expanded on in this update).
Yes. I don't understand him. Is he just okay with it because of knowing her picker is bad, and he enjoys downtime or casual flings in the meanwhile? o_O
And apparently he’s also done horrible acts to her, threatened her repeatedly, and there is even video evidence at a hotel of him trying to attack her yet he only gets counseling? No RO nor protective custody for OP? No jail time or being on a predator list? This guy can traumatize others again like it’s nothing while OP is still picking up the pieces.
I mean, how man "Mustard Men" do you know? It's not exactly a common moniker, like say "the football guy," the guy who likes football, those are a dime a dozen.
Also, I get the feeling the bit about him trying to purposely get OP pregnant during the divorce was yet another attempt to get her to cancel the divorce and remain with him in their marriage, since the second update to this he was trying to cling onto OP to the point of hospitalising her when she threatened divorce and was saying to him "Leave me alone" many times. Like, why can't he simply find another woman who likes mustard like he does. Oh wait, it's because OP is everything he wanted out of his ideal wife except the loving mustard bit and what if every other woman who loves mustard like he does isn't like OP in terms of looks or personality? And as we all know, if you got your ideal person except for this one thing you don't like about them, you gotta iron out or remove that one single part of them and then everything about them will be perfect.
So your man forgives you once, then you cheat on him again, cancel the wedding, then expect him to take you back when the inevitable happens. Delulu is strong with this one. 🤦♀️😹😹😹
Story 2: It was in a joking manner, and he proceeded to treat it like an accusation. My mom once said while my family was going through TSA, if you freak out over something small, people will see you as suspicious. Not to mention how he just proceeds to continue cheating right after, what an idiot
I try not to be a butthole over dreams as my husband is a doll, lol. But there have been a few times where he's done something stupid in my dreams, and I was mad at him all day. I always feel bad about that and spoil him a bit more. The most he would talk about in his sleep is the damn dog, lol. They always napped together on the couch and several times the dog would do tge muffled arf arf whimper whimper then kinda walk in her sleep and hubby, while still sleeping would mumble something and her name and pet her head. She would arf arf a bit more and wag her tail, and hubs would mumble something, and then they both go back to deeper sleep, lol. Used to crack me up. I never could catch it on video, tho. If I pulled out the phone, they would get quiet. We lost her a couple of years ago and just haven't had the heart to get another dog. Sooner or later, one will need us and find us, I'm sure.
Ngl, anytime I go through TSA I feel like I'm the most suspicious person smuggling drugs. I get so nervous that they may randomly target me that I make myself look like a target. I then once got stopped and they checked my bag and removed the peanut butter I had in there. I'm always paranoid that I'm doing something wrong now lol
Last story: that’s it? The Man stock OP, sexual assaulted her, and made several threats on her life. And all he gets is court mandated counseling? I mean, not even hours arrest? That’s some serious BS.
While this one youtuber turned out to be a total monster, one phrase of hers does fit here "You can't be a compulsive liar AND dumb, you need to pick a struggle"
Story 1: My guy. If you have to babysit and parent your partner into not cheating on you, then it's not worth it. If OP wants to lay in the streets, then leave her there. You deserve so much better. 😭
Also the boyfriend’s demands are abusive, flat out - in the same way that there is nothing someone could do that would make them deserve to be called slurs or hit, controlling another adult is never appropriate
@@NiennaFan1 Yeah, I get asking for open access to the phone; trust is gone, she's likely still lying, and he needed to know what she was doing behind his back. Then get tested and all that. But then he set her a _curfew._
@@Arianainthedark well that was his temporary demands as punishment for her cheating, and that's going easy because anyoneelse would have dumped her righg there. And she could just simply say no and leave like the dirty cheater she is, she wasn't forced to do anything
“Good thing I don’t let people tell me what I can’t do.” Yeah, no shit, that’s what put her in hot water in the first place, not following the basic rules of a romantic relationship and deciding to cheat.
Story 2: I’m starting to think the most guilty thing you can say when cheating is, “I didn’t tell you because I thought you would get the wrong idea, or worry, or overreact”. Like, you sneaking around with another woman, and lying wasn’t bad enough, you have to heavily implied that it’s not only your way of protecting them, but also they would do to much if they knew. Screw him, he thought you were stupid enough to fall for that crap.
And if he didn’t act like he was trying for an Oscar when OP casually commented last time, she likely would’ve accepted a valid non-adultery story. I hope the scene was loud enough for neighbors to hear and shun him and the floozy neighbor
Wow man story 1 was AMAZING. That level of delusion and narcissism is just so perfect for creating JUICY stories and so hard to fake it almost HAS to be real. Poor guy wasted 7 years with this harlot, but hey, he dodged the bullet in the end and got out before it was too late.
Don’t bother forgiving cheaters. 9/10 times, they’ll just cheat again. They won’t need a reason to do it. First time, they get a reason. A fickle reason, but one nonetheless. The times afterward, there’s no reason at all. They just love the thrill of not being caught. Then you’ll catch them, and the cycle continues.
Story 1: and this is why you NEVER give cheaters a second chance. They WILL cheat again. This dumb OP reminded me of a story where OP's wife asked for a divorce because she wanted to live with her AP... this 50yo woman wanted a life with this 20-something coworker. Turns out, she found out she was just a piece of meat for him, and he said that, when he wanted to settle down with a woman, it'd never be with her because he wanted kids. She then tried to crawl back into OP's life, but he and their children were done with her. She later found out she was just one of that guy's many pieces of meat.
@@bigjalapeno7061 Love is being there, through thick and thin. It's not having anything but each other & still being happy. It's not noticing if some shiny new person comes around. It's about facing the world on fire hand in hand, ready for anything as long as that person is by your side.
First op definitely doesn't know what it's like to be single and just wants to be in the honeymoon phase again after she gets comfortable. Sometimes you need to work on yourself before getting into a relationship As Georgia Byrd in last holiday said. "..they want a little bit of this, little bit of that. They ain't leaving their wives."
I was internally screaming at the guy in the first story. If you feel you need to have to start making ultimatums because of lack of trust you should just let it go
Story 3: I'm glad that OP’s gotten better since the original incident, but geez some people are just really unhinged. While the Mustard Man might not be in actual jail, I hope he doesn't date another person until he gets himself sorted out.
Doubt it. Doing all the BS and he got is a slap on the wrist. The courts showed him, that they are on his side and that they are no actual consequences to his actions. He also has family to support him even after all that he’s done, he’s not gonna change.
So op was happy that her affair partner was exposed for cheating but the moment she was exposed she's crying and playing victim also "i can't fall in love with my fiancé" followed by a post saying "he was my soul mate" yeah she's a hypocritical entitled narcissist, here's to hoping she doesn't get a second chance at engagement.
100%. And I'll add that if they're willing to lie to their spouse/partner about you, there's no way to know for sure how much of what they say to YOU is true or will last as long as they say. Even if they do truly mean it at the time (depends on the person, sometimes they actually do), they probably said similar things to their other partner before you came into the picture.
"you don't think I'll follow his rules ?" "Well, you didn't follow them the first he implemented them to save YOUR relationship, so, no, I don't think you will !"
I love seeing all the grey on the chapter bar between updates. It's like straight up telling me "Oh no, don't worry, THE PLOT THICKENS." Love you rslash. Love your content. And I'm so glad you keep making time for bestofupdates cause hearing you say "and then OP posts an update" is fr one of my favorite dopamine hits out if the week.
I’m so glad that last OP is safe and healthy. Her story started out just weird, like “what’s this dude’s unhinged obsession with *mustard*?” But then those dark turns happened. I been hoping to hear more from her, and hoping she is safe. Ex is a certifiable monster.
Story one is a prime example for the saying "if they show you who they really are, believe it." Her fiance shouldn't of even took her back the first time.
Thank you for reading that update. OP is so strong for what she came through, but also for sharing these things. I think it can be empowering for other people who are in a similar position to hear, as well as to hear that it is natural to grieve and cope in a variety of ways.
"Good thing I dont let people tell me what I cant do..." Oh, we know. You can't even listen to your own (ex) fiance when he tells you his boundaries. Hopefully, she didnt entirely destroy any hope of him actually finding a good partner with all the trust issues she dumped on him Edit : also, notice how she only mentions her new co-workers looks, twice. Nothing about his personality, his achievements, nothing. She's more shallow then a kiddie pool and doesnt know what love actually is
I remember this story and I saved it in a playlist. I saved it to remind myself of “the hot dog council” because their members are in my opinion just as crazy for telling people that you can’t have ketchup on hot dog only mustard.
I usually save all of our Slash's new videos for what I'm doing something because that's usually what I want to watch his videos for because I've watched all of his videos and I'm constantly rewatching and rewatching and rewatching but this THIS IS TEAAAA
Last story: As happy as I am to hear OP’s alive and doing so much better, I’m angry and disgusted that creature only got mandated counseling. TF do you mean that’s ‘equivalent to jail’?! It’s not no matter what those backwards ‘officials’ there ‘think’!
Agreed. Especially because most mental health professionals would say that very few people actually have behaviour changes, remorse, or other similar outcomes after being forced into therapy in this way. And, with people with certain types of disorders (e.g. those with Cluster-B personality disorders) just use the mandated counselling to learn how to better manipulate the system. So, in those cases ordering the person to get counselling just makes them better able to get away with their crimes in the future, or to get off if/when they are caught.
I'm not sure why Rslash thinks there aren't mustard packets in prisons. As a cook I can tell you that sandwiches, burgers, composed salads like potato salad are all some of the easiest foods to mass produce in an institutional kitchen like prisons or schools. Not to mention prison commissaries give prisoners the opportunity to purchase grocery items or snacks.
The mustard man has to be up there with the weirdest people ever brought up on this channel, along with the "DO IT FOR DAAAAAAAN" family and the psycho who fed his girlfriend slugs and tampered with her heart meds "just to see what happens lol"
The dude who said another woman’s name in his sleep, he definitely cheated. How is a lighthearted “I heard you say someone else’s name“ considered telling him not to hang out with the woman? He is definitely cheating…
I seriously wasn’t expecting that he was cheating at first. I have some weird dreams that have nothing to do with reality or fantasy (like somehow I need to rescue a tv star from zombies, and they are just so annoying but I can’t leave them to die then we all have tea). But his reaction told me everything I needed to know. Why overreact like that unless you were feeling guilty and caught?
@@rebeccajesse4604 well what OP said was that her husband dogs asleep when he’s really tired and it’s usually about stuff that happened in the day or is on his mind. So this other woman is on his mind. It wasn’t just like a random dream
Hey rSlash, thank you for clarifying about the book. It's not the info or extra context I needed, but I know there'll be at least one listener that will need it. Again: thank you!
First OP's ex was kind of an idiot too. Unrestricted access to all devices, curfews...I wouldn't have even bothered...after the first occasion, it would've been game over. As for the mustard story...yep, trying to forcefully impregnate OP and even admitting it...that should've been jail time in and of itself
I think that OP is serious when she says that she stopped banging her boyfriend but I also believe that the married man coworker is lying about not banging his wife. Obviously we have no evidence either way but I wouldn't be surprised if I was right.
Story 1: OMFG, I am glad he is done with her, she is super toxic. Controlling her Phone, social media, etc. is controlling and also toxic. Those are private and i you can only trust them with access to those, then you can't trust them. I have nothing to hide on my phone but if my GF ever asked to read my texts, well she will also be looking or a new boyfriend. (Just to give an idea of how many people have on my cell. I have family members and a few close friends. Glad karma hit her. Basically one of those "Fuck around, find out" moments.
Yeah that response was a red flag for me too. Like if that's what you need then keeping the relationship isn't worth it. He should have broken it off then and there that's not trust that's control.
I'd forgotten all about Mustard Man! I went back to watch the first video to get a refresher and wow, that story still tracks as one of the craziest I've ever seen on Reddit! I'm glad the OP is doing well and has made some friends.
OP, in the first story, said her co-worker ruined several relationships, including hers. She will be doomed to repeat this cycle until she realizes it was her that ruined her relationship.
First story, I can't stand how oblivious and selfish this woman is. She couldn't have been more selfish and ignorant and I am being nice because if I write what I want to, I will be banned from the comment section temporarily. Could have predicted everything that was going to happen just like the commenters on Reddit told her, what did she expect? And no, thinking someone is handsome is not love. Cheating and lying is not love. She didnt care about her boyfriend/fiancé at all. She is the disgusting one. 😐😑
With the mustard guy, it was never about mustard, it was about control,when he realized he couldn't get her to like mustard he realized he'd never be able to fully control her and that's what made him go bananas
THE MUSTARD MAN Crazy? I was crazy once. They put me in a room, a rubber room. A room with THE MUSTARD MAN, THE MUSTARD MAN made me crazy! Crazy? I was crazy once. They put me in a room
Story1 The boyfriend is dumb for giving her a 3rd chance. 1 was the original relationship 2 was letting her back in 3 was this. She won't stay faithful. *fkng knew it.
i was wondering about the mustard dude and his now ex SO. im glad she got out and is healing. when i first heard the story, i went down the same path as you did, Rslash. "this is kinda goofy... why is he overreacting so much?" to "holy shiiiii this dude is so messed up". again, MEGA glad she got away from him. that dude is a monster.
i saw mustard and immediately got PTSD. i remember the editor did Rslash real dirty in the original mustard video bc he put the “tee hee funny mustard man” comment at the END of the story after all of the updates and attempted murber and made rSlash look like a heartless monster.
The first woman is an absolute train wreck. Whats the point of a boyfriend if you’re going to cheat at every chance you get.
I think she is what the native americans would call...
A piece of land with wide canyon
My reaction can be summed up with that asian guy from UHF movie. "STUUUUPID! YOU'RE SO STUUUUUUUUUUUUUPIIIIIIIIID!"
But it isn't her fault, after all it was the coworker who destroyed multiple relationships. Her choices had nothing to do with that, she is an innocent victim!
@@RandomTrinidadianor the town tricycle
@@beideroand it's so unfair that the man she hurt multiple times is done with her shit, lol.
People like this are a total waste of space.
He cheats with multiple people: "He's a disgusting animal."
_She_ cheats with multiple people: "You people aren't being understanding or empathetic. _I did it for_ *LOVE* "
Rules for thee...
@@ScooterBond1970and not for me….
It's feminism, baby
Proof we live in a matriarchy
We live in a matriarchy
It seems like OP misses whichever guy she can't have access to.
Boyfriend breaks up with her for cheating, she realizes how good he is and begs him to take her back.
AP is cut off, she misses the "friendship" she had with him and rekindles the "friendship" even if it's a condition of having her boyfriend take her back.
Boyfriend takes her back again, she starts pining for the coworker who is totally going to leave his wife for her with only a few weeks before she's supposed to get married.
She finds out she's not the only one the AP is cheating on his wife with, she realizes (AGAIN) how good her fiance was and begs him to take her back.
What a dumbass
My mom calls women like that the "grass is always greener" women. They never want what they have until it's not theirs anymore.
Then Erma bombeck wrote a book called "the grass is always greener-over the septic tank" lol. It still makes me smile thinking of that title lol.
@@Emeraldwitch30 Ain't that the truth.
Maybe he's great in bed..... 🙄
💯👍🏿
I hope you mean the boyfriend for continuing to take her back. 😂
2:33 "I didn't cheat this time" is the dumbest excuse you could make
"I only lied to you about the guy I previously cheated with. It's totally different."
Yet she's having an emotional affair...😂
I'd argue that an even _dumber_ excuse would be that you did cheat again, but this time you had your fingers crossed... or something like that.
Sometimes I wonder if people understand what makes cheating a problem, yk?
@@Wendy_O._Koopalmaoooo "lol jk sweetie"
OP is a prime example of why you never take back a cheater.
Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater and forgiving them is just a waste of time
I remember when Smosh read the first story. They called the boyfriend that was cheated on extremely controlling because the rules he made after he was betrayed twice.
As an aroace looking at this stuff from the outside the attitudes towards cheating seem weird to me. Like nobody thinks it should be illegal due to how hard it is to prove and not something worthy of punishment but yet it's easy enough to prove that cheaters should never be in love again and can have assets taken away in a divorce that are greater then what they would be for a misdemeanor that requires a criminal burden of proof; I'm unsure what the solution is since both saying cheating should be illegal and saying it should be completely acceptable seem too extreme but it's just another aspect of allosexuality/alloromanticism that confuses the hell out of me.
@@MrDoverfieldhow is making rules in a relationship controlling?💀
If anything it’s just stupid, because of you gotta make these sorts of rules fix your partner, THEN YOU SHOULDN’T DATE THAT PARTNER.
Maybe they were on a break…..
Not really the case all the time
Do you know The Mustard Man? The Muffin Man? NO, The MUSTARD Man. 😂
The one who lives on Dijon lane?
I imagine that in the gingerbread voice from Shrek 💀😂
The fact that I actually sang that when I read it.
🎶do you know the mustard man. the muffin man? No, the mustard man🎵
The abuser. Yeah that guy. The guy who ruined his wife. Such a funny story
No but I do know the Metroid Woman
The second I saw the title, I literally said out loud, "Oh god, not this guy again..."
I member!
@@wiaf8937 me tomb
Yea as soon as I saw the title name I was like nah for real
I did the Rachel *gasp* “NOOOOOOO!!!”
At least it was a positive update on op. I’m mad the pos isn’t in prison
And recall this one fact. OP ran away from her mustard crazed husband to a hotel. With cameras. She pointed them out and said he better be careful about hurting her. He flipped out saying how the heck she could think he could possibly hurt her. Then like 3 months later OP was in the hospital. From him doing just that (as she expanded on in this update).
"Ever since we got back together I never cheated om him." You want some kind of reward for that?
Well, she did farm for that special title: "can't be trusted not to betray you"... 😅
Only got mandated counseling? Jesus Christ what god awful country for just giving a monster like that a slap on the wrist
Yes. I don't understand him. Is he just okay with it because of knowing her picker is bad, and he enjoys downtime or casual flings in the meanwhile? o_O
The Mustard man? The one who nearly killed his wife because she didn't like mustard? THAT mustard man?!
And apparently he’s also done horrible acts to her, threatened her repeatedly, and there is even video evidence at a hotel of him trying to attack her yet he only gets counseling? No RO nor protective custody for OP? No jail time or being on a predator list? This guy can traumatize others again like it’s nothing while OP is still picking up the pieces.
Yep
I mean, how man "Mustard Men" do you know? It's not exactly a common moniker, like say "the football guy," the guy who likes football, those are a dime a dozen.
Also, I get the feeling the bit about him trying to purposely get OP pregnant during the divorce was yet another attempt to get her to cancel the divorce and remain with him in their marriage, since the second update to this he was trying to cling onto OP to the point of hospitalising her when she threatened divorce and was saying to him "Leave me alone" many times. Like, why can't he simply find another woman who likes mustard like he does. Oh wait, it's because OP is everything he wanted out of his ideal wife except the loving mustard bit and what if every other woman who loves mustard like he does isn't like OP in terms of looks or personality? And as we all know, if you got your ideal person except for this one thing you don't like about them, you gotta iron out or remove that one single part of them and then everything about them will be perfect.
Yes. Why he is not in jail is just messed up.
So your man forgives you once, then you cheat on him again, cancel the wedding, then expect him to take you back when the inevitable happens. Delulu is strong with this one. 🤦♀️😹😹😹
Bruh
Delulu pro max
Women cheat more
Story 2: It was in a joking manner, and he proceeded to treat it like an accusation. My mom once said while my family was going through TSA, if you freak out over something small, people will see you as suspicious.
Not to mention how he just proceeds to continue cheating right after, what an idiot
I try not to be a butthole over dreams as my husband is a doll, lol. But there have been a few times where he's done something stupid in my dreams, and I was mad at him all day. I always feel bad about that and spoil him a bit more.
The most he would talk about in his sleep is the damn dog, lol.
They always napped together on the couch and several times the dog would do tge muffled arf arf whimper whimper then kinda walk in her sleep and hubby, while still sleeping would mumble something and her name and pet her head. She would arf arf a bit more and wag her tail, and hubs would mumble something, and then they both go back to deeper sleep, lol. Used to crack me up. I never could catch it on video, tho. If I pulled out the phone, they would get quiet.
We lost her a couple of years ago and just haven't had the heart to get another dog. Sooner or later, one will need us and find us, I'm sure.
@@Emeraldwitch30that’s so cute! I’m so sorry for your loss 😢
He should get together with the first idiot lol
Yea really
Ngl, anytime I go through TSA I feel like I'm the most suspicious person smuggling drugs. I get so nervous that they may randomly target me that I make myself look like a target. I then once got stopped and they checked my bag and removed the peanut butter I had in there. I'm always paranoid that I'm doing something wrong now lol
Last story: that’s it? The Man stock OP, sexual assaulted her, and made several threats on her life. And all he gets is court mandated counseling? I mean, not even hours arrest? That’s some serious BS.
Right?! He *raped* her, and he doesn’t get locked up for that? Like no, lock him away, counseling doesn’t fix that shit
I agree. Between him and the woman who had to shoot her stalker, it’s ridiculous what little is done for victims.
Agreed. I’m certain OP lives somewhere that is very Misogynistic and doesn’t take women seriously…. Or the legal system there is just lazy. Either one
Police: Oh magic conch! What do we do if soneone's life is being threatened?
Magic Conch: Nothing...
"Yea it's fine. Just don't do it again"
While this one youtuber turned out to be a total monster, one phrase of hers does fit here
"You can't be a compulsive liar AND dumb, you need to pick a struggle"
Is it the psycho triangle?
@@Chi_The_Absolute No but I figured she'd be the obvious guess
@shoutaaizawa5810 delusional 3 angles?
Sssniperwolf? Cus I stg I heard that in her voice in my head...
@@MiraTheWarlockCreepshow? That sounds like something she'd say
Story 1: My guy. If you have to babysit and parent your partner into not cheating on you, then it's not worth it. If OP wants to lay in the streets, then leave her there. You deserve so much better. 😭
Also the boyfriend’s demands are abusive, flat out - in the same way that there is nothing someone could do that would make them deserve to be called slurs or hit, controlling another adult is never appropriate
@@NiennaFan1 Yeah, I get asking for open access to the phone; trust is gone, she's likely still lying, and he needed to know what she was doing behind his back. Then get tested and all that. But then he set her a _curfew._
💯👍🏿
@@Arianainthedark well that was his temporary demands as punishment for her cheating, and that's going easy because anyoneelse would have dumped her righg there. And she could just simply say no and leave like the dirty cheater she is, she wasn't forced to do anything
@@Arianainthedark yeah, they both have bad ideas about how to treat people in relationships!
“Good thing I don’t let people tell me what I can’t do.” Yeah, no shit, that’s what put her in hot water in the first place, not following the basic rules of a romantic relationship and deciding to cheat.
Yep
Story 2: I’m starting to think the most guilty thing you can say when cheating is, “I didn’t tell you because I thought you would get the wrong idea, or worry, or overreact”. Like, you sneaking around with another woman, and lying wasn’t bad enough, you have to heavily implied that it’s not only your way of protecting them, but also they would do to much if they knew.
Screw him, he thought you were stupid enough to fall for that crap.
I mean he’s stupid enough to say it, no surprise he think his wife is stupid enough to believe it
And if he didn’t act like he was trying for an Oscar when OP casually commented last time, she likely would’ve accepted a valid non-adultery story. I hope the scene was loud enough for neighbors to hear and shun him and the floozy neighbor
I am in disbelief that anyone anywhere saw mustard mans behavior and thought jail was not required
Story 1: If they cheated once they'll do it again. Always break up up with a cheater you can't "fix the relationship"
Wow man story 1 was AMAZING. That level of delusion and narcissism is just so perfect for creating JUICY stories and so hard to fake it almost HAS to be real.
Poor guy wasted 7 years with this harlot, but hey, he dodged the bullet in the end and got out before it was too late.
Don’t bother forgiving cheaters. 9/10 times, they’ll just cheat again. They won’t need a reason to do it. First time, they get a reason. A fickle reason, but one nonetheless. The times afterward, there’s no reason at all. They just love the thrill of not being caught. Then you’ll catch them, and the cycle continues.
Not the mustard man again I thought he disappeared into the ether
Sounds like a movie monster, like Jason or Freddy. They always come back.
As somebody with a lot of trauma that “how dare he treat me like this” rage is so fucking real
I know the first story but hearing rSlash slip into the Karen voice always makes it better.
Words can't explain the "oh my fucking god not this guy again" reaction i just had
I was mildly baffled when I first read the title but did a double take when I realized who mustard man was referring to
By the end of Story 1: Aww, is the wittle gardening tool sad she’s getting some conseqwences?? 🥺
😂
Lol yea
Story 1: and this is why you NEVER give cheaters a second chance. They WILL cheat again.
This dumb OP reminded me of a story where OP's wife asked for a divorce because she wanted to live with her AP... this 50yo woman wanted a life with this 20-something coworker. Turns out, she found out she was just a piece of meat for him, and he said that, when he wanted to settle down with a woman, it'd never be with her because he wanted kids.
She then tried to crawl back into OP's life, but he and their children were done with her. She later found out she was just one of that guy's many pieces of meat.
That first lady doesn't know the difference between love & infatuation....
What is it?
@@bigjalapeno7061
Love is being there, through thick and thin. It's not having anything but each other & still being happy. It's not noticing if some shiny new person comes around. It's about facing the world on fire hand in hand, ready for anything as long as that person is by your side.
First op definitely doesn't know what it's like to be single and just wants to be in the honeymoon phase again after she gets comfortable. Sometimes you need to work on yourself before getting into a relationship
As Georgia Byrd in last holiday said. "..they want a little bit of this, little bit of that. They ain't leaving their wives."
I was internally screaming at the guy in the first story. If you feel you need to have to start making ultimatums because of lack of trust you should just let it go
I’m wondering if he had not so great self esteem because I can’t see OP having any redeemable qualities
@@lorilancaster5917 yes I agree. Said to see
I can’t believe that mustard man isn’t in jail, I really hope op is doing well and recovering from all the shit he put her through
Story 3: I'm glad that OP’s gotten better since the original incident, but geez some people are just really unhinged. While the Mustard Man might not be in actual jail, I hope he doesn't date another person until he gets himself sorted out.
Doubt it. Doing all the BS and he got is a slap on the wrist. The courts showed him, that they are on his side and that they are no actual consequences to his actions. He also has family to support him even after all that he’s done, he’s not gonna change.
You’re too kind. I want brutal karma for Mustard Man
The Mustard Man could be a good horror movie
@@silverflight01 you’re too kind. I want karma at its brutalist to be bestowed upon Mustard Man
I wonder if the mustard man is angry because he was angry at his wife for having her own opinion, when he wanted complete control of her.
Trainwreck doesn't even begin to describe story 1.
Yeah , its full detroit
Lol yea
It's like the airplane collision over Überlingen, Germany.
This is like a movie title
Rslash the Return of Mustard man
So op was happy that her affair partner was exposed for cheating but the moment she was exposed she's crying and playing victim also "i can't fall in love with my fiancé" followed by a post saying "he was my soul mate" yeah she's a hypocritical entitled narcissist, here's to hoping she doesn't get a second chance at engagement.
I think the ex fiancé is finally done with her and good for him.
As simple as this: Once a cheater, always a cheater.
100%. And I'll add that if they're willing to lie to their spouse/partner about you, there's no way to know for sure how much of what they say to YOU is true or will last as long as they say. Even if they do truly mean it at the time (depends on the person, sometimes they actually do), they probably said similar things to their other partner before you came into the picture.
Honestly I'm not sure if that's true for all of them
I wish OP in the cheating story nothing but misery and heartbreak, and also nothing but warm pillows every time she tries to sleep.
Do you know the mustard man?
The mustard man?
THE MUSTARD MAN
Yes, I know the Mustard Man. Who lives on Dijon Lane?
Yes, I know it's a stolen comment, I just wanted to continue the joke.
Now Adam Lambert has to make a new cover!!
😂😂😂😂
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@@Game_Blox9999 "Well, she ran away from the mustard man."
"you don't think I'll follow his rules ?"
"Well, you didn't follow them the first he implemented them to save YOUR relationship, so, no, I don't think you will !"
As many pointed out in the last mustard video's comments, it was never about the mustard. It was about control.
I love seeing all the grey on the chapter bar between updates. It's like straight up telling me "Oh no, don't worry, THE PLOT THICKENS."
Love you rslash. Love your content. And I'm so glad you keep making time for bestofupdates cause hearing you say "and then OP posts an update" is fr one of my favorite dopamine hits out if the week.
I've been waiting too long for the mustard man's return lmao
I think we all have been. After a long time of not being mentioned, he's finally back. Performing for you
I’m so glad that last OP is safe and healthy. Her story started out just weird, like “what’s this dude’s unhinged obsession with *mustard*?” But then those dark turns happened. I been hoping to hear more from her, and hoping she is safe. Ex is a certifiable monster.
Ooo mustard guy, I remember him. Curious on where this update is going haha.
The next installment in this horror franchise
14:20 that is just sooo true. Damn. If youve been powerless for a long time, you understand when you're finally free.
Story one is a prime example for the saying "if they show you who they really are, believe it." Her fiance shouldn't of even took her back the first time.
OP 1 has mega “I’m the main character!” Energy. She got everything she deserved.
I hate to break it to you, RSlash, but sometimes, in prison, Mustard is the ONLY condiment you get. He'd be in heaven 😂
Thank you for reading that update. OP is so strong for what she came through, but also for sharing these things. I think it can be empowering for other people who are in a similar position to hear, as well as to hear that it is natural to grieve and cope in a variety of ways.
"Good thing I dont let people tell me what I cant do..."
Oh, we know. You can't even listen to your own (ex) fiance when he tells you his boundaries. Hopefully, she didnt entirely destroy any hope of him actually finding a good partner with all the trust issues she dumped on him
Edit : also, notice how she only mentions her new co-workers looks, twice. Nothing about his personality, his achievements, nothing. She's more shallow then a kiddie pool and doesnt know what love actually is
Or more shallow than a slip and slide
9:20 Lol the perfect example of : you made your bed now lie in it!
I remember this story and I saved it in a playlist.
I saved it to remind myself of “the hot dog council” because their members are in my opinion just as crazy for telling people that you can’t have ketchup on hot dog only mustard.
“I didn’t cheat on him *THIS TIME* “
God, she’s a train wreck and does not deserve anyone. Once a cheater, ALWAYS a cheater!
The fact that I knew EXACTLY what guy this was about-
I usually save all of our Slash's new videos for what I'm doing something because that's usually what I want to watch his videos for because I've watched all of his videos and I'm constantly rewatching and rewatching and rewatching but this THIS IS TEAAAA
No fricking way, I can’t believe we get the „pleasure“ of hearing from this guy again!
There’s this phrase “ima see for myself” and I’ve never seen it done so well like in story 1!! Bravo!!
Last story: As happy as I am to hear OP’s alive and doing so much better, I’m angry and disgusted that creature only got mandated counseling. TF do you mean that’s ‘equivalent to jail’?! It’s not no matter what those backwards ‘officials’ there ‘think’!
Agreed. Especially because most mental health professionals would say that very few people actually have behaviour changes, remorse, or other similar outcomes after being forced into therapy in this way.
And, with people with certain types of disorders (e.g. those with Cluster-B personality disorders) just use the mandated counselling to learn how to better manipulate the system. So, in those cases ordering the person to get counselling just makes them better able to get away with their crimes in the future, or to get off if/when they are caught.
the title honestly gave me a jumpscare i didnt expect to see mustard man again
IT CONTINUES????
It concludes. ❤
This is the first time I've ever skipped through an RSlash story.... that first girl was just too damn aggravating
This story is so well-known that the guy even has a nickname 😂😂😂
Story 3:The fact that things like this are happening over mustard is proof that humanity is devolving
Yeah, OP's ex-fiancé didn't just dodge a bullet, he dodged an entire artillery.
I'm not sure why Rslash thinks there aren't mustard packets in prisons. As a cook I can tell you that sandwiches, burgers, composed salads like potato salad are all some of the easiest foods to mass produce in an institutional kitchen like prisons or schools. Not to mention prison commissaries give prisoners the opportunity to purchase grocery items or snacks.
IF MUSTARD MAN HAS NO HATERS IM DEAD!!! 🗣🗣🗣💯💯💯
"I Hear the secrets that you keep, when you're talking in your sleep."
The mustard man has to be up there with the weirdest people ever brought up on this channel, along with the "DO IT FOR DAAAAAAAN" family and the psycho who fed his girlfriend slugs and tampered with her heart meds "just to see what happens lol"
never heard that last one wtf
@@carbonn5998 Search for "r/Relationships My Boyfriend has Been Secretly Feeding Me Slugs!" but do NOT listen to it while eating lol
The first story is a prime example of why you should never take back a cheater or be with a confirmed cheater.
The dude who said another woman’s name in his sleep, he definitely cheated. How is a lighthearted “I heard you say someone else’s name“ considered telling him not to hang out with the woman? He is definitely cheating…
I seriously wasn’t expecting that he was cheating at first. I have some weird dreams that have nothing to do with reality or fantasy (like somehow I need to rescue a tv star from zombies, and they are just so annoying but I can’t leave them to die then we all have tea). But his reaction told me everything I needed to know. Why overreact like that unless you were feeling guilty and caught?
@@rebeccajesse4604 well what OP said was that her husband dogs asleep when he’s really tired and it’s usually about stuff that happened in the day or is on his mind. So this other woman is on his mind. It wasn’t just like a random dream
I like when Dabney laughs while reading the stories. It makes the stories funnier in my opinion!
8:22 the ex fiancé needs to run lol 😂 she wasted his time
Hey rSlash, thank you for clarifying about the book. It's not the info or extra context I needed, but I know there'll be at least one listener that will need it. Again: thank you!
First OP's ex was kind of an idiot too. Unrestricted access to all devices, curfews...I wouldn't have even bothered...after the first occasion, it would've been game over.
As for the mustard story...yep, trying to forcefully impregnate OP and even admitting it...that should've been jail time in and of itself
I think that OP is serious when she says that she stopped banging her boyfriend but I also believe that the married man coworker is lying about not banging his wife. Obviously we have no evidence either way but I wouldn't be surprised if I was right.
Story 1: OMFG, I am glad he is done with her, she is super toxic. Controlling her Phone, social media, etc. is controlling and also toxic. Those are private and i you can only trust them with access to those, then you can't trust them. I have nothing to hide on my phone but if my GF ever asked to read my texts, well she will also be looking or a new boyfriend. (Just to give an idea of how many people have on my cell. I have family members and a few close friends.
Glad karma hit her. Basically one of those "Fuck around, find out" moments.
Yeah that response was a red flag for me too. Like if that's what you need then keeping the relationship isn't worth it. He should have broken it off then and there that's not trust that's control.
@@marcning918 yeah. They are both toxic, Which actually kinda makes them perfect for each other.
I'd forgotten all about Mustard Man! I went back to watch the first video to get a refresher and wow, that story still tracks as one of the craziest I've ever seen on Reddit! I'm glad the OP is doing well and has made some friends.
Glad OP In the last story is doing much better. Her story was heartbreaking. She deserves to be happy.
Mustard Man 2 seeds of madness
OP, in the first story, said her co-worker ruined several relationships, including hers. She will be doomed to repeat this cycle until she realizes it was her that ruined her relationship.
First story, I can't stand how oblivious and selfish this woman is. She couldn't have been more selfish and ignorant and I am being nice because if I write what I want to, I will be banned from the comment section temporarily. Could have predicted everything that was going to happen just like the commenters on Reddit told her, what did she expect? And no, thinking someone is handsome is not love. Cheating and lying is not love. She didnt care about her boyfriend/fiancé at all. She is the disgusting one. 😐😑
1st OP is wild!!! This is why you don't cheat because it creates a hunger that you can't fulfill. Nobody has sympathy for cheaters, period.
'He destroyed the relationships,' it takes two to tango.
He's back! The Mustard Man is back!
With the mustard guy, it was never about mustard, it was about control,when he realized he couldn't get her to like mustard he realized he'd never be able to fully control her and that's what made him go bananas
THE MUSTARD MAN
Crazy? I was crazy once. They put me in a room, a rubber room. A room with THE MUSTARD MAN, THE MUSTARD MAN made me crazy! Crazy? I was crazy once. They put me in a room
"I can't make myself fall in love with my fiance." The one correct thing she said that I might believe. She's gonna be alone forever.
ohgod, not the mustard man again.
That first one is a classic troll lol
Oh no… Oh dear God… Not mustard man 😥
First Op: Mom, is that you?
Story1 The boyfriend is dumb for giving her a 3rd chance.
1 was the original relationship
2 was letting her back in
3 was this.
She won't stay faithful.
*fkng knew it.
Never thought my morning would be made with an update from Op on how she recovered from the mustard man.
How delusional is OP1?to say she's an awful person is to say water makes things wet.
THERES NO WAY THE MUSTARD MAN IS BACK LMAO!!! I can't wait to watch this.
Once a cheater, always a cheater
i was wondering about the mustard dude and his now ex SO. im glad she got out and is healing. when i first heard the story, i went down the same path as you did, Rslash. "this is kinda goofy... why is he overreacting so much?" to "holy shiiiii this dude is so messed up". again, MEGA glad she got away from him. that dude is a monster.
Dear god he's back
i saw mustard and immediately got PTSD. i remember the editor did Rslash real dirty in the original mustard video bc he put the “tee hee funny mustard man” comment at the END of the story after all of the updates and attempted murber and made rSlash look like a heartless monster.