46 this year and 19 months of experience in this speciality 🤣 Never felt so much anxiety, confusion and silent craving in all my life as I do with this disaster of a sitautionship. Elliott would despair at the lengths I've gone to to try and make him mine 🤣 We live and learn I guess
@xoxobutterfly Seems there are so many people experiencing this type of 'relationship' these days. Elliott is right in everything he says but if only it were that easy to switch off our feelings! If it's not love then it's a lesson i guess x
I’m nice, independent, kind, have a good job , got my shit together, in school to be a psychologist and I think I’m pretty, but no IG model. The emotional unavailable guy don’t care about that and all this does this make you feel like you ain’t good enough , when it’s the other way around
A ‘10’ should be the whole package. A highly good looking person is often dysfunctional in one or more way, and generally don’t make solid, long term partners
10s are usually vacuous and hardly develop any personality or emotional intelligence. They don't have to... And a lot of very beautiful women have been used and abused and then discarded. Murdered etc..
Great advice 😎I’ve been told I’m an 8 and I’ll take it lol 😂 I’m done with dating bums and narcissists. I choose to be single . Dating after a divorce is hell lol 😂
Women should reject the idea of being just a statistic, as it undermines their worth. Remember, you are a unique individual with much to offer, attracting a partner who values you. Avoid limiting yourself to a numerical label, as it can hinder your chances of finding a true connection.
I’m fifty & I want to settle down. The latest guy is indeed emotionally unavailable. After much hurt, I recently told him I’m no longer pursuing any relationship with him. We work together.
there are guys who are 9 and likes the most one specific type of woman when it comes to the look and sometimes such a woman is 4-5 at most. I know at least one such case. when I discovered what is the type the man I was into, I was laughing. Basically, I am way too pretty to be his type.
All gym dude likes me… they all in 18th-20s. I rejected them all the time because of the age gap… I’m 34th and they thought I’m 18th because I look good 😊… I’m 5’ 5” tall, Asian and 115lbs. I look younger than my age. I don’t like younger guys… they all immature
@@SR77736 girl girls!!!!! But younger guys are annoying and disrespectful. So don’t go for younger guys or too old guy is boring too… they probably never heal from past ex(many divorces)… I would say look for someone who’s emotionally available, safety and stable income or rich man.
I like the unavailable hot ones… at least to me they are.. I figure if I’m probably wasting time I’d rather it be successful and attractive men. At least I can get fun experiences at the very least
Sadly there’s some truth to that. The predatory nature of these men are that they know if they choose less attractive women, they can manipulate & use them because they more often aren’t used to be treated like princesses. The twist is that a woman can be a 5 in looks according to society & be a 15 in her own personal value. Frankly that’s me. IDGAF what society thinks. I know I’m not the most attractive woman out there but I don’t let that affect my intrinsic value for a second! Emotionally damaged men will try all kinds of women. That’s not an insult. The insult is if we let them stick around once we see their dysfunctional ways. Healthy women will cut & run quick. Women with self esteem issues will try to fix it & wonder what’s wrong with them. I used to be that woman. Sadly. But I did my inner work & I do the continual work to maintain that & grow further. No dysfunctional person or situation will get a chance to keep playing me for a fool ever again. I just sent one packing again the other day.
If you take a 5-6 and make him a 10, you will become the 6 and be treated as such.
46 this year and 19 months of experience in this speciality 🤣 Never felt so much anxiety, confusion and silent craving in all my life as I do with this disaster of a sitautionship. Elliott would despair at the lengths I've gone to to try and make him mine 🤣 We live and learn I guess
Damn 😂 this happened to me
@xoxobutterfly Seems there are so many people experiencing this type of 'relationship' these days. Elliott is right in everything he says but if only it were that easy to switch off our feelings! If it's not love then it's a lesson i guess x
Wow girl this is so true
Wow Elliott I feel you’re speaking right to me…well the old me, I gave up dating and am happy single!! 😂❤
I’m nice, independent, kind, have a good job , got my shit together, in school to be a psychologist and I think I’m pretty, but no IG model. The emotional unavailable guy don’t care about that and all this does this make you feel like you ain’t good enough , when it’s the other way around
Wow this is spot on. It’s like they can literally smell these nice woman out one little smile and they pounce 🤣
The points about the predator mentality paired with the tendency to be a manipulator is really eye opening and so spot on!! 😮
A ‘10’ should be the whole package. A highly good looking person is often dysfunctional in one or more way, and generally don’t make solid, long term partners
10s are usually vacuous and hardly develop any personality or emotional intelligence. They don't have to... And a lot of very beautiful women have been used and abused and then discarded. Murdered etc..
It’s the ‘yeah, but syndrome…’, believe and surrender to what Elliott says!
Great advice 😎I’ve been told I’m an 8 and I’ll take it lol 😂 I’m done with dating bums and narcissists. I choose to be single . Dating after a divorce is hell lol 😂
This is on point. Thank you for helping me understand my problem with men. Going to hide my niceness from now on.
Women should reject the idea of being just a statistic, as it undermines their worth. Remember, you are a unique individual with much to offer, attracting a partner who values you. Avoid limiting yourself to a numerical label, as it can hinder your chances of finding a true connection.
This is the best and most honest thing I've heard in a long time 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👍🏽👍🏽🧡
We all attract these men, but we don't all let them stay. If you let them stay, stop it.
YES! 👏👏👏Some men will try to talk to EVERYONE!
Amazing. Truly amazing advice. Hit it right on the nail.
The limping lion was the best part of this video
A limping lion😅U r sooo funny 😆 Elliott.
Never gets old the lion analogies.
I’m fifty & I want to settle down. The latest guy is indeed emotionally unavailable. After much hurt, I recently told him I’m no longer pursuing any relationship with him. We work together.
there are guys who are 9 and likes the most one specific type of woman when it comes to the look and sometimes such a woman is 4-5 at most. I know at least one such case. when I discovered what is the type the man I was into, I was laughing. Basically, I am way too pretty to be his type.
Wow great info 😁 I’m that girl
Damn, have always been told I’m like 9/10, but come to realise I’m probably just a 5 on a good day 😅.
Great video Elliot . So informative 👌🏼
12:58 I’m weak 😂😂😂 how did I catch a stray
this video format suits me a lot
ure the best elliot 🎉
Elliot, how do I get more info on how to work one on one with you?
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awesome!!
full support
All gym dude likes me… they all in 18th-20s. I rejected them all the time because of the age gap… I’m 34th and they thought I’m 18th because I look good 😊… I’m 5’ 5” tall, Asian and 115lbs. I look younger than my age. I don’t like younger guys… they all immature
I'm part Chinese and look young for my age and attract younger guys too lol.
@@SR77736 girl girls!!!!! But younger guys are annoying and disrespectful. So don’t go for younger guys or too old guy is boring too… they probably never heal from past ex(many divorces)… I would say look for someone who’s emotionally available, safety and stable income or rich man.
I'm a 10.
I like the unavailable hot ones… at least to me they are.. I figure if I’m probably wasting time I’d rather it be successful and attractive men. At least I can get fun experiences at the very least
finally
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Kinda sounds like you’re saying the woman who attract emotionally unavailable men are unattractive 🥹🥹🥹
Sadly there’s some truth to that.
The predatory nature of these men are that they know if they choose less attractive women, they can manipulate & use them because they more often aren’t used to be treated like princesses.
The twist is that a woman can be a 5 in looks according to society & be a 15 in her own personal value.
Frankly that’s me. IDGAF what society thinks. I know I’m not the most attractive woman out there but I don’t let that affect my intrinsic value for a second!
Emotionally damaged men will try all kinds of women. That’s not an insult. The insult is if we let them stick around once we see their dysfunctional ways.
Healthy women will cut & run quick. Women with self esteem issues will try to fix it & wonder what’s wrong with them.
I used to be that woman. Sadly.
But I did my inner work & I do the continual work to maintain that & grow further.
No dysfunctional person or situation will get a chance to keep playing me for a fool ever again.
I just sent one packing again the other day.