Depending on the type of autism it is quite intriguing for me. I believe I am on the spectrum as I always have issues with social interactions however I spend most my time trying to understand people and why they do what they do. So if I find someone who acts differently to regular people I find it interesting and want to know more, usually I get romantically involved with people who are not the same as normal people as I find them interesting, whereas the normal people are just boring.
He reminds me of an employee that works at my eye doctors office. He's autistic, and he's got that place running like clockwork. The only thing he doesn't do is the eye exams themselves. Everything else, the scheduling, setting up/maintaining machines, the online portal, ordering/receiving products, inventory, literally EVERYTHING else.. It's all Patrick. Nobody I know that goes there has had so much as a hiccup of a problem in the last 20 years. He even remembers everyone by name as well as little anecdotes about them. Like if you had a dog named Jack that broke his left leg he'll remember that next year when you have your appointment and he'll check up on it. But the thing is you cant complement him directly, it's too much and it upsets him. Instead you complement the office, or how well your lenses fit, things like that, and he just loves it. I don't think I would go to another practice if you paid me.
Checks out. A lot of us can't stand being complemented bc it feels it puts us in the spotlight. Depending on the way the specific person expirence the world, just initiating any situation that put us in someone's focus can be more difficult than any neurotypical can really understand barring anxiety or something similar. Getting a complement directed at us, even if we're already engaging with the person, can feel like an escalation of the amount of attention on us, and that can be upsetting. That being said, it doesn't mean he doesn't like the complements or that they don't make him feel appreciated. It's just, as you've said, you just need to put the focus away from *him*. Every time you complement the office, there's a good chance he takes it as a direct complement. It also feels good to know our work is noticed and appreciated. Most of us work quietly in the shadows, but it doesn't mean that we don't want to be acknowledged. Knowing that what we do matter can mean a lot
@@okashiromi5541 Wow, I learned a LOT from this comment and response. And I am so glad to have learned it, in case I might get the opportunity to use this knowledge in a positive manner. It is always assued that a direct compliment is best, however I can follow this logic and reasoning just fine, and it does make a bit of "sense" even to a nerotypical like me. Thankfully, I now will be able to compliment someone indirectly when it is appropriate, to convey my appreciation of their hard work, without causing them further stress. :) :) ;)
@claytonwhitman2611 gladly! If you have any further questions, feel free! However, I do need to stress that ppl on the spectrum can experience interactions and the world around very differently. A coping mechanism for one of us can have a negative impact on someone else who'd try it. Taking the complements as an example, I have no issues getting complemented, at worst I'll get a bit embarrassed. But ik from friends and talking with others on the spectrum how it can feel. My best advice if you want to build a relationship of any kind with a neurodivergent person is to try to express interest in them specifically and learn how they experience the world. It can be a lot more work. granted, then befriending a neurotypical. But a lot of times it's worth it. Most of us don't forget kindness (or slights, even if we aren't confrontational about them), and I've never met someone on the spectrum who did half passed shallow friendships. Most of us are aware we can be a handful so we appreciate ppl who stick around bc they want to know us
I have a learning disability i feel the same I'm neurodivergent I hyperinflate on things like Art Dinos and Space Still :0 main thing is when guys talk about sports and taverns type stuff I'm like meh lol I'd rather go to a museum or observatory. draw and game. I get called interesting also
Me 4. But I don’t have autism as far as I know, but I do have ADHD. Every time someone compliments me in any way my brain sort of can’t figure out the proper response and it’s so awkward and annoying.
Same like do I complement them back or is that weird and will they think I’m lying or do I just say thx and change topic or if someone says something like ur hair looks rly good today do I tell them what products I use or does that make it seem like I’m telling them that they have bad hair and need to use the same products as me
@@IsabellaGrimes-e2tSame lol. Mostly just saying thank you with a smile is fine (that's what I do). People need to know that if you give a compliment you mean it and aren't just returning the one you got from them. If you mean the compliment you can add something on the end like 'I noticed when you came in' or 'I wanted to tell you earlier'. That way they'll belive the could is genuine.
@@BellaR.Ok so if a schizophrenic,autistic, and others say they have these problems, you won't believe? And wth are you saying this? The guy is just saying something about the video
No not every one has any of these people just feel the need to be different and special to get attention and other people feed on to this so people pay more money
@@caxthealpha1 smh 🤦 always pathetic and pitiful and nothing ever changes for yall because that’s how the program has programmed most of you. Processed right in the box. 📦 Organic is rare.
@@BellaR.That's a whole lot of projection on an innocent comment that is quoting the video. How about we put the keyboard down and do some self reflection before you hurt yourself or others.
@@1ru1euYT I've faced bullying too don't worry you'r gonna be fine. You might not have a normal life like everybody has, see things as everybody else does but you'r gonna be fine.
The shortened version is basically the girl in the beds name is Kayley and she has eagle syndrome a condition that causes pain in the throat and face caused by a long styloid bone. Shaun (the doctor here) diagnoses this after Kayley suffered a stroke. The way to fix this condition is through surgery. The team does the surgery where a slight mishap occurs but in the end everything turns out alright.
While I understand the frustration of not getting an answer, going to the ER is generally not the answer for a chronic issue and often there are tests and referrals to specialists that we cannot get from the emergency department. It is, as in the name, for emergencies. If you are not having an emergency, you will generally be discharged. This interaction made me cringe because I know some patients will think seeing this that this will be the answer to their chronic issue and wait 6-8 hours only to be told that, no, we still don't know what is going on with you, and sent home only to get a big bill later on.
I had a chronic blood disorder and after not knowing what it was for 3 years I just changed my ER that told me what it was in less than an hour so I think it just depends on where your visiting and the experience doctors and nurses have. Because from my experience most people just think shallow pain is shallow pain and it ends up being something shutting down so it's always good to go to the ER especially if your ER doesn't handle serious cases like gunshot wounds or pregnancies like mine
I kind of have this issue right now. In in the parking lot wondering whether I should go to the ER or not. I went and then walked out and am wondering if I should just go home or not.
@@nylandaallen6951 I'm glad you were able to get an answer. I would say that your case is the exception to the rule though. Sometimes you do have to really push your primary care doctor to make a referral or even sometimes switch or get a second opinion if it is something that is being blown off by your PCP. I could be wrong but I also imagine there was something different or worse about your symptoms that made you get evaluated in the ER that day, which is a good reason to go to the ER.
@@otsdrselse1163 See if your local clinic has an advice line. Often they can guide you as to the best course of action. If you don't have one I would strongly encourage you to establish care with a clinic/PCP. The ER is a bad place to get primary care unfortunately.
@@adams996 It makes it more difficult for you to speak, some people are down, or have problems relating to other people or, like me, have outbursts of anger and great intelligence and intuition
ok, help me to understand. I see autism as a challenge more than a benefit. To me it would seem misplaced to compliment someone on the challenge. I can pay tribute to someone on their courage or strength but not the challenge. To me it sounds silly to say something like "oh you're blind, that's cool"
@@bobstarr for one thing autism is completely different from being blind. her whole life my sister has been treated differently because of autism. it’s different for everyone but with her autism messes with her motor skills and she often talks too fast for other people to understand her so being told that the things she hates about herself are cool, she would have a lot more self-confidence and be happier
@@bobstarr My partner has autism. He has the most brilliant and beautiful mind of anyone I've ever known. He's sweet and sincere, and his memory is outrageously impressive. There are challenges, yes, but the benefits are just as great. If he hits five wrong notes, he can play a song on any instrument. I wish I could grasp the knowledge he gains in a single session of study. We didn't know he had autism when we got married, but I truly married him for his intelligence - which is directly connected to the way his brain works with autism. That said, they say if you've met one autistic person... You've only met one autistic person. My husband's case is very mild, and the spectrum is vast, too vast for the umbrella of the diagnosis now that they've taken away all distinctions besides levels. The challenges can be far greater and the benefits lessened. But, overall, being autistic is definitely cool as long as you're someone open-minded enough to embrace those differences.
@@JoshButler-r4cnot an accurate depiction of some maybe even most but the whole thing about autism is we’re all different some autistic people may be like him they may not I don’t know I haven’t watched the show
“Compliments are very awkward.” As an autistic artistic woman, I 100% feel this. I draw all the time and I get embarrassed and happy everytime someone compliments me on my art, and I struggle to figure out where to go from there beyond saying “thank you.” I didn’t understand why I was like that as a kid, but I now know that it’s a normal thing for neurodivergent people. If there’s any fellow neurodivergent/ mentally challenged people here, many hugs and much love to y’all! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜💖
"Thank you, I like it too!" Remember, *most* times, receiving a compliment does not automatically require a compliment back. Most times, just thank you is enough. at least, thats what ive found.
@@user-lc5bu9bm7v "Thank you, I like it too" Don't say this. Please don't. I'm also autistic, I understand it's a spectrum but this comes off as (unintentionally) smart/smarmy to me and probably others. Remember that if people cannot physically see anything different about you (even if you tell them they are autistic) they will judge you as a normal person I'm sure a "thank you!" in an appreciative tone is more than enough.
Everyone does that i guess people who don't have confidence they tend to think they are not good enough so they don't take complements well......i am kinda trying to take complements in positive way
@@GregLemonsI didn’t find it “smart“. It’s hard for artists to like their work sometimes and if someone specifically commented on my artwork AND i also liked it, I would say that too without realizing or intending it towards the other person at all. Though I also tend to go into exposing a little about the process too and why I like/don’t like it. I’m chatty when it comes to art 🤷♀️
I'm autistic and am totally stoked that my Veterinarian is too.... My dogs are in the best hands. He looks at things from 40 different angles rather than making an assumption off of a symptom. Blissful.
yes! me when someone asks me to do something that actually requires my talent that I didn't ask to do makes me feel like a dog trying to catch it's tail and finaly got it- ears are like ^o^ sorry for the paragraph
"Compliments are very awkward" is a very true statement to how most with autism feel. Sometimes we dont know how to reciprocate feelings or kind gestures so in the end we feel, as he said, awkward.
From a med student: We need: HPI, PMH, Social History. Physical Exam: oral and throat inspection, lymph nodes, abdominal exam, chest exam, reflex test. Labs: CBC, Monospot, CD4 count…
@@ghostwolfcosmetics6553 I’m not sure! I haven’t gotten that far in school yet. I’m currently in Hem Onc. I’m thinking something causing Vagus Nerve damage or a persistent viral infection due to immune compromising disease. Definitely need labs
Sometimes, to find the right answer, you actually want to go to the person who has no clue what they are talking about - because while they will throw out stupid idea's, those stupid idea's are things no one else thought of because they ruled it out FOR SOME REASON. The end result? You find an obscure answer. The biggest problem, with the most trained, most experienced doctors is: Ego. Same with about every field btw.
@@formes2388 other problem is that you see your ego but its not easy to keep it down. if you keep it too low you will have no confidence in yourself. if you have it too high you wont think clearly cause you will be in fog of "the best answers" regarding your studies and facts, etc.
Don’t go to the ER for chronic issues. You’ll either be discharged or referred back to the same specialists. I think it goes without saying magical autistic doctors/surgeons don’t actually exist in the ER
I was brought in by a ambulance with chronic issues so out of control I had no choice. It was emts choice. Some of the best doctors are er docs. He had actually seen this with another patient. Wouldn't let me leave til properly medicated. 2 day hospital stay. Ends up he saved my life. I could have died at any time. Was just lucky. Scary.
@@velmamiller4185what was your chronic condition? Sounds to me like an acute flare up and therefore would need to be addressed via an ER visit rather than waiting. I’d like to know your symptoms and how they were addressed if you don’t mind sharing so I can learn.
You are wrong, as someone that has both worked in the ER/trauma centers, and now has chronic issues, I can tell you the emergency room will treat and or admit you for testing depending on the situation. As for myself, I was gonna coma two years ago, shattered femur, broken neck and back, punctured lung 13 broken ribs and more. Still have three more surgeries to go through. And just last month I fell because of nerve damage in the lower spine my legs go numb I busted my knee and had to have surgery on my lower leg to relieve pressure from the big bruising. But they do admit me every now and again, depending on the situation for testing, pictures, and or observation.
@@robertloving8743no, you are wrong. They admitted you for acute injuries as a result of a chronic condition, not the chronic condition itself. If you repeatedly go to the ER for chronic non-emergency issues, you’re what we call, a munchausen patient. If you aren’t being admitted for acute issues, you’re lying about your symptoms to get in. We don’t admit patients solely for imaging in the ER.
I once knew a young woman who had a microscopic surgical thread stuck in her voice box from previous surgery. She coughed and coughed and coughed until finally, after seeing various surgeons, she ended up at Vanderbilt Hospital where she found a doctor who removed the microscopic thread and solved the problem.
Doctor Murphy has a form of autism that makes him not be able to understand social cues as well as a normal person would be able to in terms of reading something like body language, facial expressions, ect. Thus Murphy might feel awkward or nervous when talking to people or being in a social setting whether it be with patients in hospitals, friends, family, ect. And yet he still finds a way to be an increible doctor and is growing to be a better person every single day
Its how he speaks as an autistic person I have been told I have a calming voice when speaking about something while being "in my element" and when I understand something clearly my voice also does that but when trying to understand something I don't understand I sound like the lady Shaun is speaking to
As the mom of two kids with autism, I wanna know why people are so shocked that eventually there would be a show regarding autistic doctors. I have had an autistic internist before. Best doctor I have had in years! Autism doesn’t mean stupid. I mean, we have had an autistic President! Some incredible people have autism!
Yes, exactly. I hate that people feel like autism = stupid or mentally retarded sorry for that, but I have an autistic friend and we went to high school together and that is how some kids treated him. But luckily for you and i we know the truth that they are super smart and live normal lives. I hope your kids have some good friends. Also I don't mean any of what I said to make you feel bad or angry I hope you know that.
I agree. Just cuz someone had autism doesn't mean the can't get a great job. Autism may be classed as a disability but really it's a an ability. They can achieve anything they want with determination and learning just like everyone else. They just see and understand things in a different way. My son is also autistic and I have shown him this show to help him realise he can become anything he wants to if he is willing to put in the work and effort. Autism doesn't mean they cant do certain things it just that they process in a different way. Xx
Quite the opposite. They would’ve run 20 unnecessary tests and start the patient on something stupid, and then be like “oh she okay at the beginning. We just made her sick” lol
House would have given her all different crazy tests, at least one of which would put her into distress or having purple goo coming out of somewhere, sending her into cardiac arrest, only to figure out at the end, she had a splinter of popcorn kernel in her throat. Thankfully living through the ordeal, endlessly praising House and his team for saving her, but not actually realizing that they nearly killed her first to get a simple "Oh it's a popcorn kernel stuck in your throat from when you last ate popcorn 3 months ago."
as a person with adhd, add, and low to mid spectrum autism, I can say that this woman is very, very kind to say “that’s so cool!”. I have a brother with autism and he is always bullied at school so it makes me happy to see that not all people are like the kids at school
You can’t have both adhd and add… Not every one of your behaviors is linked to a mental disorder, it’s fine to have trouble focusing, but it’s not fine to self diagnose yourself and claim you have something that is already an issue to some people.
@@DarkmttrX BRO THANK YOU! I've been looking for this comment. Its not okay to self-diagnose or fake if. Autism is labelled as disability. I get you can feel your autistic, but don't go telling everyone "hey! I'm autistic" without official paperwork. Its the shittest thing to do. And ADHD (Attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder) community is based of extroverts, energetic/ outgoing people and commonly not the brightest light bulb, while Autism's community is mainly socially awkward introverts who can either be like a light switch. Smart or struggles to learn, overthinking or under thinking etc. YOU CANNOT HAVE BOTH. (also ADHD and autistic people do not get along. As autistic people have sensory meltdowns, caused by to much noise, movement etc and are prone to either get aggressive or cry.)
@@DarkmttrX Me too, i remember during covid everyone used to fake every disorder because it was "quirky" and they felt like the "main character" and they still do that. Every time i watch a video that contains autism, the entire comments are filled with people saying they have autism as if they're proud that the government labels them as lower then others
I get bullied for having autism, then I got diagnosed with social anxiety, got made fun of more, then diagnosed with depression, picked on more. I was only 11 when this started to happen, and I still get bullied often.
Bullies fuckin suck. Sorry u have to deal with that. I have Aspergers and cognitive delay plus adhd add ptsd to that list. Stg they all fight each other like its the Royal Rumble lol. I cant begin to count how many times I've heard things like "Im different" or "I'm not quite right" I couldn't stand that fact for years. But I started to embrace it eventually. I actually wouldn't wanna have it any other way now. Anytime now when ppl say Im different i say that I'm proud to me bc I don't wanna be like everyone else bc it seems like a boring and dull existence. If they say "Im not right" or " not quite right " i tell em "well I'm not wrong either" keep ur head up tho. Hard as it might be try not to let them get to u. Thats all they want anyway. If they see that they cant they can't stand that shit. I understand that now and why ppl always say ignore them. It can be impossible to i know but if they see that thier shit has zero effects on someone then it defeats the purpose and they give up. They either super unhappy with themselves about something or somebody bigger than them is a bully to them to so they're never really the billy bad asses they think they are
As myself (autistic) I can confirm we focus on thing people normally won't and concentrate until we are done and get awkward in times where we first met someone
@@X_KARMA. Ohhh right on. I wasn't being hateful or anything cuz I knew it was a typo ok i was just saying when i try to type it it doesnt work. I'm not sure why the how sad? How sad ur phone does that or how sad because I talked in a public forum?
Maybe just the Intense pain & “ice cream headache” is the symptom? That’s kinda what my trigeminal neuralgia feels like with the intense burst of pain. I wonder what the issue was with her.
A close relative had the procedure done by Dr Janetta, one of the last ones he performed. I sent her this clip immediately as you rarely hear TN or anything TN related in the mainstream.
Well not every autistic person has high support needs, some have low support needs which sometimes goes unnoticed in some people because it doesn't affect one's life too drastically, so it's not that crazy of a thing.
Lol I feel bad for Shawn... he is so skeptical and you need to actually have trust in him for a friendship. ( he has to trust you enough to even go near him) but its not even his fault its just what happens automatically.
"complements are very awkward"
the most relatable quote i've heard today.
yes yes yes
Compliments are not complements
Yeah, i need a gif of that.
@@thenarrator1984ITS JUST A TYPO MISTAKE bruh
U being a 🤓
The only one I get is you're tall. It's usually means they need help getting something down.
“I have autism”,
“That’s so cool”
- an interaction I’ve never heard as an autistic person lol
yeah people just say “oh…” or something like that
Are you an autistic doctor?
That is cool tho
From an ADHD person
Depending on the type of autism it is quite intriguing for me. I believe I am on the spectrum as I always have issues with social interactions however I spend most my time trying to understand people and why they do what they do. So if I find someone who acts differently to regular people I find it interesting and want to know more, usually I get romantically involved with people who are not the same as normal people as I find them interesting, whereas the normal people are just boring.
@@Vinzonaseconded by another adhder, who has an autistic brother
"Compliments are very awkward "....us bro us
🗿
100% can sympathize with this. It gets easier but it’s never great.
Dr. Stone fan spotted 🤝
Fr
On the spectrum here
Fully agree unless it's gender euphoria related
He reminds me of an employee that works at my eye doctors office. He's autistic, and he's got that place running like clockwork. The only thing he doesn't do is the eye exams themselves. Everything else, the scheduling, setting up/maintaining machines, the online portal, ordering/receiving products, inventory, literally EVERYTHING else.. It's all Patrick. Nobody I know that goes there has had so much as a hiccup of a problem in the last 20 years. He even remembers everyone by name as well as little anecdotes about them. Like if you had a dog named Jack that broke his left leg he'll remember that next year when you have your appointment and he'll check up on it.
But the thing is you cant complement him directly, it's too much and it upsets him. Instead you complement the office, or how well your lenses fit, things like that, and he just loves it. I don't think I would go to another practice if you paid me.
Checks out. A lot of us can't stand being complemented bc it feels it puts us in the spotlight. Depending on the way the specific person expirence the world, just initiating any situation that put us in someone's focus can be more difficult than any neurotypical can really understand barring anxiety or something similar. Getting a complement directed at us, even if we're already engaging with the person, can feel like an escalation of the amount of attention on us, and that can be upsetting.
That being said, it doesn't mean he doesn't like the complements or that they don't make him feel appreciated. It's just, as you've said, you just need to put the focus away from *him*. Every time you complement the office, there's a good chance he takes it as a direct complement. It also feels good to know our work is noticed and appreciated. Most of us work quietly in the shadows, but it doesn't mean that we don't want to be acknowledged. Knowing that what we do matter can mean a lot
@@okashiromi5541 Wow, I learned a LOT from this comment and response. And I am so glad to have learned it, in case I might get the opportunity to use this knowledge in a positive manner. It is always assued that a direct compliment is best, however I can follow this logic and reasoning just fine, and it does make a bit of "sense" even to a nerotypical like me. Thankfully, I now will be able to compliment someone indirectly when it is appropriate, to convey my appreciation of their hard work, without causing them further stress. :) :) ;)
@claytonwhitman2611 gladly! If you have any further questions, feel free! However, I do need to stress that ppl on the spectrum can experience interactions and the world around very differently. A coping mechanism for one of us can have a negative impact on someone else who'd try it. Taking the complements as an example, I have no issues getting complemented, at worst I'll get a bit embarrassed. But ik from friends and talking with others on the spectrum how it can feel.
My best advice if you want to build a relationship of any kind with a neurodivergent person is to try to express interest in them specifically and learn how they experience the world. It can be a lot more work. granted, then befriending a neurotypical. But a lot of times it's worth it. Most of us don't forget kindness (or slights, even if we aren't confrontational about them), and I've never met someone on the spectrum who did half passed shallow friendships. Most of us are aware we can be a handful so we appreciate ppl who stick around bc they want to know us
Thank you for real
Now I know how to communicate with their spectrum better
You are describing a Jonathan.............
Not knowing how he's supposed to respond to a compliment like that is one of the most painful and wholesome things I've ever seen.
Where is this "wholesome"?
@@suuyasha2496agreed
@@suuyasha2496it’s like u find it cute
How do you respond?
@@daemoncortez697 I said he didn't know how to respond, I never said I did.
"Compliments are very awkward"
This is so real 😭
dw you ll improve your personality , as long as ur willing to change it
@@Comment27560 improve??
Just say thanks 😭
@@pixelzebra8440I'm just really not used to it and it actually feels weird to say anything after 😮
@@pixelzebra8440Doesn't make it any less awkward
“Complements are very awkward” Realest thing I’ve heard today 😭😭
yyyyup
That's about how it goes
Yeah I feel that 😭
they never even happen 😭
What’s a compliment?
“Compliments…. are very awkward..” so adorable 😂
I bet ur a girl huh
youre disgusting gang
How the hell does something have 2.9k likes and no replies
@@TortiseTortoise I have no clue 😭
AND I DIDNT EVEN KNOW I HAD THAT MANY
I mean imagine just being yourself and suddenly someone call you "interesting"😭
"Compliments are very awkward."
- every man ever
Hardly
Real
Yeah, it’s the element of surprise, we barely hear ‘em so it catches us off guard
Depends on the nature and source of the compliment.
I have a learning disability i feel the same I'm neurodivergent I hyperinflate on things like Art Dinos and Space Still :0 main thing is when guys talk about sports and taverns type stuff I'm like meh lol I'd rather go to a museum or observatory. draw and game. I get called interesting also
“Compliments are very awkward,” me too, Shaun.
Me too.
Me 3
@@dt5310 me 4
Me 4. But I don’t have autism as far as I know, but I do have ADHD. Every time someone compliments me in any way my brain sort of can’t figure out the proper response and it’s so awkward and annoying.
Same like do I complement them back or is that weird and will they think I’m lying or do I just say thx and change topic or if someone says something like ur hair looks rly good today do I tell them what products I use or does that make it seem like I’m telling them that they have bad hair and need to use the same products as me
@@IsabellaGrimes-e2tSame lol. Mostly just saying thank you with a smile is fine (that's what I do). People need to know that if you give a compliment you mean it and aren't just returning the one you got from them. If you mean the compliment you can add something on the end like 'I noticed when you came in' or 'I wanted to tell you earlier'. That way they'll belive the could is genuine.
"I have autism"
"THAT'S SO COOL✨"
@@BellaR.Ok so if a schizophrenic,autistic, and others say they have these problems, you won't believe? And wth are you saying this? The guy is just saying something about the video
No not every one has any of these people just feel the need to be different and special to get attention and other people feed on to this so people pay more money
@@caxthealpha1 smh 🤦 always pathetic and pitiful and nothing ever changes for yall because that’s how the program has programmed most of you. Processed right in the box. 📦 Organic is rare.
@@BellaR.That's a whole lot of projection on an innocent comment that is quoting the video. How about we put the keyboard down and do some self reflection before you hurt yourself or others.
@@BellaR. True, I’ve been knowing that I have actual Autism and ADHD
I genuinely just love autistic people for no reason, every one of them I meet are just the sweetest adorable people I’ve ever met
I mean, we shouldnt be getting so much hate, like, is it really MY FAULT?
@@1ru1euYT Wait we get hate?
@@Aybruhlemmegetsome yea, at least for me, im in middle school so you can see how that works
@@1ru1euYT I've faced bullying too don't worry you'r gonna be fine. You might not have a normal life like everybody has, see things as everybody else does but you'r gonna be fine.
I wasn't 😑
The shortened version is basically the girl in the beds name is Kayley and she has eagle syndrome a condition that causes pain in the throat and face caused by a long styloid bone. Shaun (the doctor here) diagnoses this after Kayley suffered a stroke. The way to fix this condition is through surgery. The team does the surgery where a slight mishap occurs but in the end everything turns out alright.
Wouldn't that cause facial palsy too 🤔
What is this show?
The Good Doctor @@sophiacorin8083
Thanks, paragraph guy! 🍻
Thank you 😊
“you’re interesting”
“i have autism”
me in social situations
Edit: 186k likes what the fuck
Bro, 1.5 k likes in 20 HOURS???????
And another 100 in 4 mintues from the last persons comment
I don't even have autism but it's my go to excuse
@@insertusernamehere8575As someone with autism, please do not fake a disability to get out of situations
Same
Daytime TV watchers will never tire of shows about a quirky savant doctor who can diagnose diseases other doctors can't.
What about quirky savant detective that solves cases other detectives can't?
@@ninja5672 what about quirky savant lawyers winning cases for clients that other lawyers cant?
What about quirky savant criminals pulling off crimes noone else can??
House and this one were both primetime
What about quirky novelists who solve crimes?
Shes just glad someone is actually listening
"compliments are very awkward" 😂😂😂 that took me by surprise 😂😂😂😂
"~the hatered in his eyes♪"
I find them awkward as well
Its because some don't know how to response to that and thus the fear of saying something wrong.
While I understand the frustration of not getting an answer, going to the ER is generally not the answer for a chronic issue and often there are tests and referrals to specialists that we cannot get from the emergency department. It is, as in the name, for emergencies. If you are not having an emergency, you will generally be discharged. This interaction made me cringe because I know some patients will think seeing this that this will be the answer to their chronic issue and wait 6-8 hours only to be told that, no, we still don't know what is going on with you, and sent home only to get a big bill later on.
I had a chronic blood disorder and after not knowing what it was for 3 years I just changed my ER that told me what it was in less than an hour so I think it just depends on where your visiting and the experience doctors and nurses have. Because from my experience most people just think shallow pain is shallow pain and it ends up being something shutting down so it's always good to go to the ER especially if your ER doesn't handle serious cases like gunshot wounds or pregnancies like mine
I kind of have this issue right now. In in the parking lot wondering whether I should go to the ER or not. I went and then walked out and am wondering if I should just go home or not.
@@otsdrselse1163 If you believe you need care, then go. Don't gamble with your health, all the best to you
@@nylandaallen6951 I'm glad you were able to get an answer. I would say that your case is the exception to the rule though. Sometimes you do have to really push your primary care doctor to make a referral or even sometimes switch or get a second opinion if it is something that is being blown off by your PCP. I could be wrong but I also imagine there was something different or worse about your symptoms that made you get evaluated in the ER that day, which is a good reason to go to the ER.
@@otsdrselse1163 See if your local clinic has an advice line. Often they can guide you as to the best course of action. If you don't have one I would strongly encourage you to establish care with a clinic/PCP. The ER is a bad place to get primary care unfortunately.
"I have autism"
"That's cool" 💀💀💀
😄 haha
What does autism do to a human
@@adams996 It makes it more difficult for you to speak, some people are down, or have problems relating to other people or, like me, have outbursts of anger and great intelligence and intuition
@adams996
Your brain is just wired differently basically
@@adams996you're more socially awkward
“Compliments are..very awkward” relatable XD
“Compliments.. are very awkward” true words buddy, true words.
I AM A DOCTOR!
Finally someone who didn't spell it as if it was a complementary coffee 😂
@@braria9855Yeah !
Its The Good Doctor
Season 3 Episode 14
(Like This Comment)
Thank you brother
Thanks!
TYSM 😭🙏🙏
Thanks❤❤
Thanks
“i have autism”
“that’s so cool”
that’s the kind of interaction my sister needed growing up
I wish she know she was autist when she gow up. Even if she doesn't have these interaction, it help a lot to know what you are.
ok, help me to understand. I see autism as a challenge more than a benefit. To me it would seem misplaced to compliment someone on the challenge. I can pay tribute to someone on their courage or strength but not the challenge. To me it sounds silly to say something like "oh you're blind, that's cool"
@@bobstarr for one thing autism is completely different from being blind. her whole life my sister has been treated differently because of autism. it’s different for everyone but with her autism messes with her motor skills and she often talks too fast for other people to understand her so being told that the things she hates about herself are cool, she would have a lot more self-confidence and be happier
@@bobstarrare you autistic? Or do you just assume it’s a “challenge”?
@@bobstarr My partner has autism. He has the most brilliant and beautiful mind of anyone I've ever known. He's sweet and sincere, and his memory is outrageously impressive. There are challenges, yes, but the benefits are just as great. If he hits five wrong notes, he can play a song on any instrument. I wish I could grasp the knowledge he gains in a single session of study. We didn't know he had autism when we got married, but I truly married him for his intelligence - which is directly connected to the way his brain works with autism.
That said, they say if you've met one autistic person... You've only met one autistic person. My husband's case is very mild, and the spectrum is vast, too vast for the umbrella of the diagnosis now that they've taken away all distinctions besides levels. The challenges can be far greater and the benefits lessened.
But, overall, being autistic is definitely cool as long as you're someone open-minded enough to embrace those differences.
For anyone who wants to know this show is called The Good Doctor
Would have liked to know what the girl ultaimtely had too.
Thankz bro 🤍
I caved in and started watching
Thanks bro
I just want to know what she had
“Compliments- are very awkward-“ from one autistic person to another, I full heartedly agree 😅😂
maybe because you aren't used to getting them 😂😂
I’m not autistic but compliments are awkward
AuDHD and I hate them because the only time I have ever gotten compliments is when someone wants something from me. NTs are weird 🥴
@@LexKaiNixyour situation regarding compliments sucks 🤮
I'm not autistic and I agree they're awkward
Such a Shawn Murphy thing to say
Being an autistic doctor is REALLY hard work being autistic while learning HARD stuff is amazing
?? autism doesn't hinder intelligence 100% of the time
@@weofrr + this show is NOT an accurate depiction of autism. Not every autistic person speaks like they’re mentally deficient
I can't learn hard stuff while attending in person class. I have to cut class to study.
@@JoshButler-r4cnot an accurate depiction of some maybe even most but the whole thing about autism is we’re all different some autistic people may be like him they may not I don’t know I haven’t watched the show
@@nuclearcatbaby1131 Hey! A fellow autistic here! I normally understand better with music playing in the background at school.
“Compliments are very awkward.”
As an autistic artistic woman, I 100% feel this. I draw all the time and I get embarrassed and happy everytime someone compliments me on my art, and I struggle to figure out where to go from there beyond saying “thank you.” I didn’t understand why I was like that as a kid, but I now know that it’s a normal thing for neurodivergent people.
If there’s any fellow neurodivergent/ mentally challenged people here, many hugs and much love to y’all! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜💖
"Thank you, I like it too!"
Remember, *most* times, receiving a compliment does not automatically require a compliment back. Most times, just thank you is enough.
at least, thats what ive found.
@@user-lc5bu9bm7v "Thank you, I like it too"
Don't say this. Please don't. I'm also autistic, I understand it's a spectrum but this comes off as (unintentionally) smart/smarmy to me and probably others. Remember that if people cannot physically see anything different about you (even if you tell them they are autistic) they will judge you as a normal person
I'm sure a "thank you!" in an appreciative tone is more than enough.
Btw, that's normal for everyone, including normies 😊.
Everyone does that i guess people who don't have confidence they tend to think they are not good enough so they don't take complements well......i am kinda trying to take complements in positive way
@@GregLemonsI didn’t find it “smart“. It’s hard for artists to like their work sometimes and if someone specifically commented on my artwork AND i also liked it, I would say that too without realizing or intending it towards the other person at all. Though I also tend to go into exposing a little about the process too and why I like/don’t like it. I’m chatty when it comes to art 🤷♀️
“Complement are very awkward” LMAO
Only when they're acute
Nah it's real
That's why we don't do it!
We say, "Ned gschimpft is globt gnug!"
The highest praise you can get!
I'm autistic and am totally stoked that my Veterinarian is too.... My dogs are in the best hands. He looks at things from 40 different angles rather than making an assumption off of a symptom. Blissful.
I am a surgeon!
i thought he was a sturgeon🤔
@@sporter527I'm a Dr who works on fish.......a sturgeon surgeon 😊.......ok sorry. I'll let myself out.
Good job
That’s so cool! 😉
As someone with autism it’s very hard to not instinctively say “I know” when someone compliments me.
"compliments are awkward" I HAVE NEVER RELATED TO SOMETHING MORE IN MY ENTIRE LIFE
yes! me when someone asks me to do something that actually requires my talent that I didn't ask to do makes me feel like a dog trying to catch it's tail and finaly got it- ears are like ^o^
sorry for the paragraph
"Complements are very awkward"
Easily the most relatable thing Dr. Shawn Murphy has ever said
"Compliments are very awkward" is a very true statement to how most with autism feel.
Sometimes we dont know how to reciprocate feelings or kind gestures so in the end we feel, as he said, awkward.
From a med student:
We need: HPI, PMH, Social History.
Physical Exam: oral and throat inspection, lymph nodes, abdominal exam, chest exam, reflex test.
Labs: CBC, Monospot, CD4 count…
It’s definitely something vascular though right?
@@ghostwolfcosmetics6553 I’m not sure! I haven’t gotten that far in school yet. I’m currently in Hem Onc. I’m thinking something causing Vagus Nerve damage or a persistent viral infection due to immune compromising disease.
Definitely need labs
Recurrent laryngeal nerve?
Man, doctors watch TH-cam?
Yes we do, too much @@flowpuppie84
“I ran out of specialists”
Luckily for you, we have an autistic genius on staff so I guess you could say he’s the ultimate specialist
Sometimes, to find the right answer, you actually want to go to the person who has no clue what they are talking about - because while they will throw out stupid idea's, those stupid idea's are things no one else thought of because they ruled it out FOR SOME REASON.
The end result? You find an obscure answer.
The biggest problem, with the most trained, most experienced doctors is: Ego. Same with about every field btw.
@@formes2388 other problem is that you see your ego but its not easy to keep it down. if you keep it too low you will have no confidence in yourself. if you have it too high you wont think clearly cause you will be in fog of "the best answers" regarding your studies and facts, etc.
Keyword special lmfao
Well, he's at least special.
Don’t go to the ER for chronic issues. You’ll either be discharged or referred back to the same specialists. I think it goes without saying magical autistic doctors/surgeons don’t actually exist in the ER
I was brought in by a ambulance with chronic issues so out of control I had no choice. It was emts choice. Some of the best doctors are er docs. He had actually seen this with another patient. Wouldn't let me leave til properly medicated. 2 day hospital stay. Ends up he saved my life. I could have died at any time. Was just lucky. Scary.
@@velmamiller4185what was your chronic condition? Sounds to me like an acute flare up and therefore would need to be addressed via an ER visit rather than waiting. I’d like to know your symptoms and how they were addressed if you don’t mind sharing so I can learn.
You are wrong, as someone that has both worked in the ER/trauma centers, and now has chronic issues, I can tell you the emergency room will treat and or admit you for testing depending on the situation. As for myself, I was gonna coma two years ago, shattered femur, broken neck and back, punctured lung 13 broken ribs and more. Still have three more surgeries to go through. And just last month I fell because of nerve damage in the lower spine my legs go numb I busted my knee and had to have surgery on my lower leg to relieve pressure from the big bruising. But they do admit me every now and again, depending on the situation for testing, pictures, and or observation.
@@robertloving8743no, you are wrong. They admitted you for acute injuries as a result of a chronic condition, not the chronic condition itself. If you repeatedly go to the ER for chronic non-emergency issues, you’re what we call, a munchausen patient. If you aren’t being admitted for acute issues, you’re lying about your symptoms to get in. We don’t admit patients solely for imaging in the ER.
Passing out is NOT a chronic problem. You go to the ER for that.
I once knew a young woman who had a microscopic surgical thread stuck in her voice box from previous surgery. She coughed and coughed and coughed until finally, after seeing various surgeons, she ended up at Vanderbilt Hospital where she found a doctor who removed the microscopic thread and solved the problem.
Doctor Murphy has a form of autism that makes him not be able to understand social cues as well as a normal person would be able to in terms of reading something like body language, facial expressions, ect. Thus Murphy might feel awkward or nervous when talking to people or being in a social setting whether it be with patients in hospitals, friends, family, ect. And yet he still finds a way to be an increible doctor and is growing to be a better person every single day
He doesn't have a family
Which is sad
i can relate
Name: The Good Doctor
He is a surgeon on the autism spectrum and always impresses everyone and saves many lives. Good actor and good show.
Not all heroes wear capes
@@mdlizzy they wear scrubs
Thank youu ❤️
On the spectrum? That dude is the spectrum.
@@NicholasGendeman wym?
He's so adorable. Why is he so adorable!
Its how he speaks as an autistic person I have been told I have a calming voice when speaking about something while being "in my element" and when I understand something clearly my voice also does that but when trying to understand something I don't understand I sound like the lady Shaun is speaking to
I need the paragraph guy
Same😂😂😂
It's up more in the comments scroll up
"That's really cool."
"Compliments are awkward"
😂❤love Shaun
As the mom of two kids with autism, I wanna know why people are so shocked that eventually there would be a show regarding autistic doctors. I have had an autistic internist before. Best doctor I have had in years! Autism doesn’t mean stupid. I mean, we have had an autistic President! Some incredible people have autism!
Yes, exactly. I hate that people feel like autism = stupid or mentally retarded sorry for that, but I have an autistic friend and we went to high school together and that is how some kids treated him. But luckily for you and i we know the truth that they are super smart and live normal lives. I hope your kids have some good friends. Also I don't mean any of what I said to make you feel bad or angry I hope you know that.
I agree. Just cuz someone had autism doesn't mean the can't get a great job. Autism may be classed as a disability but really it's a an ability. They can achieve anything they want with determination and learning just like everyone else. They just see and understand things in a different way. My son is also autistic and I have shown him this show to help him realise he can become anything he wants to if he is willing to put in the work and effort.
Autism doesn't mean they cant do certain things it just that they process in a different way. Xx
Thomas Jefferson for those who were wondering. He was either autistic or had Asperger's syndrome. It's not known for sure which.
President has dementia or Alzheimer’s disease
Which president was Autistic?
I love how honest he is. Brutally, at times, but you know what you're getting.
When you're complemented, Dale Carnegie said that the best response is a simple "Thank You". Nothing more😉
I love Dale Carnegie! Life changing book that has stood the test of time!
“compliments are awkward”
real. i 100% feel this. 💀
House would have figured it out before running tests 😂
Quite the opposite. They would’ve run 20 unnecessary tests and start the patient on something stupid, and then be like “oh she okay at the beginning. We just made her sick” lol
@@davranbekrozmetov9425 Seems like a clinic run for House, and not something that might require the full force of the diagnostician.
Not before giving her heparin for some reason
~ it's Lupus
House would have given her all different crazy tests, at least one of which would put her into distress or having purple goo coming out of somewhere, sending her into cardiac arrest, only to figure out at the end, she had a splinter of popcorn kernel in her throat. Thankfully living through the ordeal, endlessly praising House and his team for saving her, but not actually realizing that they nearly killed her first to get a simple "Oh it's a popcorn kernel stuck in your throat from when you last ate popcorn 3 months ago."
as a person with adhd, add, and low to mid spectrum autism, I can say that this woman is very, very kind to say “that’s so cool!”. I have a brother with autism and he is always bullied at school so it makes me happy to see that not all people are like the kids at school
Isnt adhd a type of add or am i tripping, i swear add is just the adhd without the h and adhd is like an extension
You can’t have both adhd and add… Not every one of your behaviors is linked to a mental disorder, it’s fine to have trouble focusing, but it’s not fine to self diagnose yourself and claim you have something that is already an issue to some people.
@@DarkmttrX BRO THANK YOU! I've been looking for this comment. Its not okay to self-diagnose or fake if. Autism is labelled as disability. I get you can feel your autistic, but don't go telling everyone "hey! I'm autistic" without official paperwork. Its the shittest thing to do. And ADHD (Attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder) community is based of extroverts, energetic/ outgoing people and commonly not the brightest light bulb, while Autism's community is mainly socially awkward introverts who can either be like a light switch. Smart or struggles to learn, overthinking or under thinking etc. YOU CANNOT HAVE BOTH. (also ADHD and autistic people do not get along. As autistic people have sensory meltdowns, caused by to much noise, movement etc and are prone to either get aggressive or cry.)
@@dantethe_l0ser Holy crap, I thought I would never meet someone who understands that mental disorders are not character traits.
@@DarkmttrX Me too, i remember during covid everyone used to fake every disorder because it was "quirky" and they felt like the "main character" and they still do that. Every time i watch a video that contains autism, the entire comments are filled with people saying they have autism as if they're proud that the government labels them as lower then others
My cousin has autism and when he gets compliments he just giggle and says "ohhhhh" 😂❤
That's so cute ❤
If I can’t mutter out a thanks I’ll straight up just say “okay” but usually I awkwardly say thank you
@@charliemayfilms1550 💙💙
"Compliments are very awkward." That's so me. 😂
For those who want to know this is a series called the good doctor
And it's adaptation of Korean drama with the same name
I thought he was a surgeon.
@@zakiowais6829 I’m not too sure. Maybe ask him if he’s a surgeon? I’m sure he’s willing to answer that for you 😊 iykyk
Where is the paragraph bro????
"Compliments are awkward." I feel you, Shaun 😂
"Your interesting."
"I have autism."
"Thats so cool.."
".."
"Compliments are.. very awkward"
She saw the ching ching since he is a doctor
Was that a racist remark???he's not even Asian ,Dr ching is up the hall
"I have autism"
"Thats so cool!"
Said nobody when hearing that ever.
Except autism is not a disease.
"Compliments are awkward…"
Me too.. me too
“Compliments are awkward. 😬 “
So relatable 😅
"Compliments are very awkward" as an autistic person i second that 😂😂 i never know if i compliment them back or if i just say thanks
I don't have autism but i can't handle compliments neither
“Compliments are very awkward” the story of my life
I get bullied for having autism, then I got diagnosed with social anxiety, got made fun of more, then diagnosed with depression, picked on more. I was only 11 when this started to happen, and I still get bullied often.
Jujitsu. You likely will never have to use it, but it will give you a life-changing amount of confidence.
Exactly! It's like a cycle😭 get bullied for something you can't control. Get bullied for getting something from THAT- people can be disgustingly mean😭
Bullies fuckin suck. Sorry u have to deal with that. I have Aspergers and cognitive delay plus adhd add ptsd to that list. Stg they all fight each other like its the Royal Rumble lol. I cant begin to count how many times I've heard things like "Im different" or "I'm not quite right" I couldn't stand that fact for years. But I started to embrace it eventually. I actually wouldn't wanna have it any other way now. Anytime now when ppl say Im different i say that I'm proud to me bc I don't wanna be like everyone else bc it seems like a boring and dull existence. If they say "Im not right" or " not quite right " i tell em "well I'm not wrong either" keep ur head up tho. Hard as it might be try not to let them get to u. Thats all they want anyway. If they see that they cant they can't stand that shit. I understand that now and why ppl always say ignore them. It can be impossible to i know but if they see that thier shit has zero effects on someone then it defeats the purpose and they give up. They either super unhappy with themselves about something or somebody bigger than them is a bully to them to so they're never really the billy bad asses they think they are
1) Study hard,
2) practice punching harder (in secret),
3) find someone to spar with,
4) don't accidentally become a bully.
@@quinnfowler9454 nuh uh
As myself (autistic) I can confirm we focus on thing people normally won't and concentrate until we are done and get awkward in times where we first met someone
« Compliments are very awkward » I can relate to that
"your...interesting"
"I have autism"
Omg I'm dead 💀😭
As a mom of an autistic child…I’d not only have the same reaction but yes-I’d feel much safer.
“I have only just met you. I have no idea what your voice normally sounds like”
I don’t why that cracked me up🤣🤣🤣🤣
lol yeah that’s his character. Hes smart as hell but will say the worst things at the worst times 😭
Which episode is this?
Idk
Season 3 episode 14 of the Good Doctor
Episode . I can't even type the word episode ....the way u did without it autocorrecting
@@patrickx9865 bcs epidose is saved as a word in my medical terminology and therefore does not correct itself when I type it. How sad.
@@X_KARMA. Ohhh right on. I wasn't being hateful or anything cuz I knew it was a typo ok i was just saying when i try to type it it doesnt work. I'm not sure why the how sad? How sad ur phone does that or how sad because I talked in a public forum?
Her styloid bone was pressing into her carotid artery.
How the fuck did that change her voice??
@@FuNkYTiMeS001 Inflamation, i guess? 🤔
"Complements are very awkward" bro just became the most relatable person ever
Doctor Murphy is so adorable 😂😂
I'm not sure why she was offered microvascular decompression, none of the symptoms match trigeminal neuralgia
Maybe just the Intense pain & “ice cream headache” is the symptom? That’s kinda what my trigeminal neuralgia feels like with the intense burst of pain. I wonder what the issue was with her.
A close relative had the procedure done by Dr Janetta, one of the last ones he performed. I sent her this clip immediately as you rarely hear TN or anything TN related in the mainstream.
I’m gonna start replying to insults and compliments with “compliments are very awkward”
"Compliments are very awkward..."
Literally me with any compliment..
I do believe just cause your a specialist doesn’t mean your good at your job people die everyday from the wrong diagnosis or from the lack of care
"Compliments are very awkward..."
I felt that one.
"Ice cream headache"
Also known as a brain freeze huh?
Can't say "brain freeze". 7/11 owns the phrase
No I know what she means. I get them a lot and they’re probably the worst type of headache
"Compliments.. are very awkward." That is me 😭
The Good Doctor 10/10 ❤
“Compliments are very awkward”
That hit hard
Autistic:I have Autism.
Tiktokers:thats so cool!
"compliments are very awkward" he's so cute 😭
People with autism are lowkey chill asf
thankyou we do try to fit in
Alternative young Sheldon ending
Young Sheldon died!!!
@@yellowboi2879 That was a joke picture
I HAVE AUTISM TOO!!!
You're so cool 😊
I AM A SURGEON
same
"Compliments....are awkward" so real bro
I Love Dr. Shaun Murphy. He's such a wonderful representation of how brilliant we can be, despite the stereotypes about Autistic people.😊😊
"I have aids."
"That's so cool!"
Yes, because normal human variation and infectious diseases are the same thing. That's sarcasm, btw, I suspect you need the clarification.
Had a girl i know. Tell me i looked taller. I had a mental reboot trying to figure out what she ment.
I must say I think he is a brilliant actor and nailed the role🎉
What she's saying is, that he has autism and HE'S A WHOLE DOCTOR
There truly is no limit
Well not every autistic person has high support needs, some have low support needs which sometimes goes unnoticed in some people because it doesn't affect one's life too drastically, so it's not that crazy of a thing.
Why is this guy's face so innocently adorable😭
That's kind of wears
I’ve never had a word to put to how I feel when I get compliments, everyone else gets so happy, but I guess awkward is the best way to put it.
"You're interesting"
"I have autism"
me in social situations
Kidnapper: Your interesting….
Me: I have autism
Lol I feel bad for Shawn... he is so skeptical and you need to actually have trust in him for a friendship. ( he has to trust you enough to even go near him) but its not even his fault its just what happens automatically.
"Compliments are very awkward."
Bro's the realest!
“Compliments are very awkward.”
I feel you, bro. I never know how to take them.
"Compliments are very awkward"
I feel you shaun