Ngl as a fellow 22-year-old it felt really nice and personal coming from him seeing as lately I've been feeling really old cause I'm either surrounded around septuagenarians or like 1-10y olds, and ngl being called sir and having adult responsibilities is like really demoralizing seeing as not even like two years ago people were asking if I was coming out of senior year thinking I was 16 and or wondering why I hadn't found a job yet. Him thinking I'm a kid is weirdly comforting.
Yes but as another chatter says "wait a few years until she talks back all day and you might just change your tune" (parapharased). That said it'll probably still be the sensible decision to stay considering things are likely not gonna get better lol
im 95% certain he will take that back when she becomes a teenager, im a teenager and i suck lol, maybe its just me but my parents do NOT want me to be around
@@erfaniom9576 Where I live it's pretty common to live and take care of your parents as they age, so I'm biased. But, teenagers change you know. As you grow old the bond between parents and daughter/son can became even stronger, as it was with me.
I honestly feel relieved by NL telling me that I'm still insanely young, because half of the time i feel like I should already have my future figured out at 21 so I don't waste any more years. I just wish I knew exactly what I wanted by now.
I'm 25 and I still don't have everything figured out. It's good to remember that our economic system is fundamentally different from the generations before us and the opportunities older folks had with regards to upward mobility and financial independence are a lot harder or impossible for us. Take it easy, don't feel bad about not reaching the same arbitrary life goals at the same ages our parents might have(my parents were recruited for pensioned government jobs before they even finished high school, how do I compete with that??), and just get there when you get there. In the meantime, enjoy life in all the ways you can and constantly strive to be a good person to yourself and to the people in your community. People our age are in a kind of freefall right now, but things will settle at some point.
I'm around NL's age and I still don't know "exactly what I want". If you have even some ideas of what you might want to try, fuckin send it. I remember feeling overwhelmed by all of the different directions I could take my life in during my late teens/early twenties. It's not an uncommon feeling to have, but if you find yourself totally uncertain, I think trying something, anything, and seeing how you like it, is better than wallowing in self-doubt. I tried a bunch of odd shit in my early twenties before settling on my current path. Some more constructive than others. Traveled, worked in the auto industry, was electrician's apprentice for about a year, lift operator at a ski resort for a couple seasons, aspiring musician, sold drugs, etc. I eventually went back to school and basically never left. Currently working toward my PhD in cognitive science. I don't really know what I'll be doing after grad school though. Many of those experiences were dead ends but helped me get a better idea what I wanted and, importantly, what I didn't want. It helped me get better sense of who I should hold close and who I needed to cut out of my life. It helped me get a better idea of what values I needed to live up to and what I needed to change. I think most people just sort of settle into a life path rather than "figuring it out" in any deep sense. In any event, I do think the key is to just take the plunge and try something, fail, and try again until you find something that works for you. There really isn't a better substitute for genuine life experience for this sort of stuff, unfortunately.
@@free_josel No but dating someone purely for the sake of having a relationship is rushing things. And it's rare that a relationship formed out of mutual desperation actually ends up making either person happier. I guess the point is: you're better off not forcing it if you haven't found someone you're really compatible with. But it's extremely rare that people learn that the easy way.
My parents are delusional and think its doable for me y To rent a place on my own, even though i dont have a girlfriend or friend with whom i can rent a place.
based point as always, but i think there is a big differnece between NA and Europe. Im actually 22 and even while living in berlin (rent hell), if you really want to work for it or have some kind of connection, youll be able to afford your own flat. big relief to not live with my parents and siblings anymore. relationships better since
Really depends were in EU we're talking about. Here in Spain moving out in your late 20's/early 30's is the norm because housing, be it buying or renting, is just so prohibitively expensive.
Bro look up the data, eu people move out earlier than Asia but still way later than America. Even in Anglo and Nordic countries not just Iberia and Italy.
American property prices are only crazy in like Vancouver and New York etc, whereas even outside London in Britain prices are crazy unless living awful places
@@acksawblack On average 90% of americans move out by 27 but 50% of them also move back in with their parents. While for instance in norway 98% move out by 25 and 10% move back in again. So idk about that.
How is this true? I’m a 90’s kid and I always set my phone like a room away when it’s dinner time. Leave the phone on the counter when at my moms for dinner etc.. huh
Honestly yeah, I dont even know how people eat and look at their phone at the same time that shit is hella uncomfortable to me. I do however watch youtube on my PC when im eating at home lol
lmaooo i was so confused when my coworkers were getting married and having kids like how tf they afford this on the same salary as me then i realize being in a relationship is OP
@lred1383 It was my parents fucking hate me.I'm a civil engineer, and my wife is an IBEW electrician apprentice. I had to take out student loans for my college but my wife didn't go to college. My house was 245k at 6.875% interest. Total payment is 2100 with Masshousing downpayment assistance. I make 70k a year, wife makes 60k. Take home after tax and insurance is 7k. Student loan payment is 850.
Idk why he keeps specifically talking about 22-year-olds but I am one and it always feels weirdly personal
Hello target demographic
"I keep getting older but the 22 year olds will always be 22 year olds"
As someone who is slightly older than 22 I think “talk about me though please”
That's chiblee's age
So true
Ngl as a fellow 22-year-old it felt really nice and personal coming from him seeing as lately I've been feeling really old cause I'm either surrounded around septuagenarians or like 1-10y olds, and ngl being called sir and having adult responsibilities is like really demoralizing seeing as not even like two years ago people were asking if I was coming out of senior year thinking I was 16 and or wondering why I hadn't found a job yet. Him thinking I'm a kid is weirdly comforting.
It's pretty cute what he said about his daughter
Yes but as another chatter says "wait a few years until she talks back all day and you might just change your tune" (parapharased). That said it'll probably still be the sensible decision to stay considering things are likely not gonna get better lol
im 95% certain he will take that back when she becomes a teenager, im a teenager and i suck lol, maybe its just me but my parents do NOT want me to be around
@@erfaniom9576 Where I live it's pretty common to live and take care of your parents as they age, so I'm biased. But, teenagers change you know. As you grow old the bond between parents and daughter/son can became even stronger, as it was with me.
+2
Rent really do be insane. If I didn’t get my condo when I did, I would definitely still live with my mom.
bruh these rent prices be wildin
It’s too DAMN high
I honestly feel relieved by NL telling me that I'm still insanely young, because half of the time i feel like I should already have my future figured out at 21 so I don't waste any more years. I just wish I knew exactly what I wanted by now.
I'm in the same boat bud
you’ll figure it out
You definitely don’t have to have it figured out by now. Some people don’t figure it out until their 30s.
I'm 25 and I still don't have everything figured out. It's good to remember that our economic system is fundamentally different from the generations before us and the opportunities older folks had with regards to upward mobility and financial independence are a lot harder or impossible for us.
Take it easy, don't feel bad about not reaching the same arbitrary life goals at the same ages our parents might have(my parents were recruited for pensioned government jobs before they even finished high school, how do I compete with that??), and just get there when you get there.
In the meantime, enjoy life in all the ways you can and constantly strive to be a good person to yourself and to the people in your community.
People our age are in a kind of freefall right now, but things will settle at some point.
I'm around NL's age and I still don't know "exactly what I want". If you have even some ideas of what you might want to try, fuckin send it. I remember feeling overwhelmed by all of the different directions I could take my life in during my late teens/early twenties. It's not an uncommon feeling to have, but if you find yourself totally uncertain, I think trying something, anything, and seeing how you like it, is better than wallowing in self-doubt.
I tried a bunch of odd shit in my early twenties before settling on my current path. Some more constructive than others. Traveled, worked in the auto industry, was electrician's apprentice for about a year, lift operator at a ski resort for a couple seasons, aspiring musician, sold drugs, etc. I eventually went back to school and basically never left. Currently working toward my PhD in cognitive science. I don't really know what I'll be doing after grad school though.
Many of those experiences were dead ends but helped me get a better idea what I wanted and, importantly, what I didn't want. It helped me get better sense of who I should hold close and who I needed to cut out of my life. It helped me get a better idea of what values I needed to live up to and what I needed to change.
I think most people just sort of settle into a life path rather than "figuring it out" in any deep sense. In any event, I do think the key is to just take the plunge and try something, fail, and try again until you find something that works for you. There really isn't a better substitute for genuine life experience for this sort of stuff, unfortunately.
As a 22 year old that never had a girlfriend i say this: thanks NL
rip bozo
life's not a steam achievement hunt, don't let people give you shit for going at your own speed
@@Phoenix0F8 and speedrunning life means you're just going to an early grave.
@@caracatoacacepehaving a girlfriend with 22 isn’t speedrunning life🤣
@@free_josel No but dating someone purely for the sake of having a relationship is rushing things. And it's rare that a relationship formed out of mutual desperation actually ends up making either person happier. I guess the point is: you're better off not forcing it if you haven't found someone you're really compatible with. But it's extremely rare that people learn that the easy way.
This might be one of the most important realization for anyone in current year
Love the last second dunk on AITA
NTA, your house your rules. If your daughter didn't want to have to walk across coals to get to the dishwasher, she could always just move out.
about 5 doses of bitter reality in this one vid
really glad NL didn't read the ''being a streamer does nothing for the society'' this clip would suddenly become a VOD
I went to college from 2008-2012 and had a 2 br, 1.5 bath apt for $425/mo
that's fucked up
Thumbnail corked outta its gourd
I was born in 1990 and I was growing up eating dinner to the TV, so no, I absolutely can't just eat without distractions, lol.
to that one guy in chat that said hes 34 and has been living on his own since 18.. yeah no shit sherlock
Also 28 year old engineering about to go homeless despite 3 roommates
hes bald AND OLD??????
No this I can’t be true
NL's an oldass???
If you consider being in your 30s old
@@thatsunfortunate2205then yes
Late 80's gang rise up, also why do I keep getting this man's head in every 4th thumbnail.
My parents are delusional and think its doable for me y
To rent a place on my own, even though i dont have a girlfriend or friend with whom i can rent a place.
Let’s see AI clean the sewers. Not gonna happen.
dave the diver lookin ass game
if anything dave the diver is a kingdoms lookin ass game cause dave came later
How can he be 3 years older than me and have no hair, truly an egg masterclass,
Okay bro you're in your 30s calm down
Apparently I'm an 80s kid since I can't eat without watching a tv show. How do you even eat with your phone up?
based point as always, but i think there is a big differnece between NA and Europe. Im actually 22 and even while living in berlin (rent hell), if you really want to work for it or have some kind of connection, youll be able to afford your own flat. big relief to not live with my parents and siblings anymore. relationships better since
Really depends were in EU we're talking about. Here in Spain moving out in your late 20's/early 30's is the norm because housing, be it buying or renting, is just so prohibitively expensive.
@@ucer0 you damn right. i would be able to afford one whole house if my ass would be living in 1950
Bro look up the data, eu people move out earlier than Asia but still way later than America. Even in Anglo and Nordic countries not just Iberia and Italy.
American property prices are only crazy in like Vancouver and New York etc, whereas even outside London in Britain prices are crazy unless living awful places
@@acksawblack On average 90% of americans move out by 27 but 50% of them also move back in with their parents. While for instance in norway 98% move out by 25 and 10% move back in again. So idk about that.
is this a new Kingdom game??!
yeah, kingdom 80s
How is this true? I’m a 90’s kid and I always set my phone like a room away when it’s dinner time. Leave the phone on the counter when at my moms for dinner etc.. huh
Damn, it's crazy how his humorous monologue about generalizing generations isnt accurate in every single case
@@Slammyy I apologize I should have said, how is this true for me.
Honestly yeah, I dont even know how people eat and look at their phone at the same time that shit is hella uncomfortable to me.
I do however watch youtube on my PC when im eating at home lol
ok boomer
that moment you realize two incomes are required to ever afford a home, but you can barely order pizza let alone talk to women 😭
lmaooo i was so confused when my coworkers were getting married and having kids like how tf they afford this on the same salary as me then i realize being in a relationship is OP
what game is this?
Kingdom Eighties
What game is he playing
Kingdom Eighties
@@t.h.4170 thank you man ഉമ്മ 😘
I'm 22 and bought a house in a city in Massassachusetts. Don't live in a major city
not with your own money, that's for sure
@lred1383 It was my parents fucking hate me.I'm a civil engineer, and my wife is an IBEW electrician apprentice. I had to take out student loans for my college but my wife didn't go to college.
My house was 245k at 6.875% interest. Total payment is 2100 with Masshousing downpayment assistance. I make 70k a year, wife makes 60k. Take home after tax and insurance is 7k. Student loan payment is 850.
@@aaronrothwell6504super relatable experience
@@MrShock8 What about it?
@@aaronrothwell6504”just make 130k household income at 22”