My wife openly resents our son, she caught wind I'm planning to divorce. Apparently my son is now...
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Story 2: As a God-fearing man, just because your child comes out as gay/lesbian, you still need to love your child as God still loves you AND that child
Facts, I don't hate gay people and I still love them but just because you don't support their lifestyle that doesn't mean you can't support them
I'll never understand these so called "God fearing people"... Do they think God will love them for their hatred and cruelty? It makes no sense.
@moebiusjdx7288 I think it's people who misunderstand what God says and hate people, or people who are so shocked by the news that they have no idea what to do; the disappointment is overwhelming their love and so they get blinded by rage and just blow up
Well, anyone who claims they're "God fearing" as an excuse to be hateful to their own child has an excellent reason to fear God. God has made it abundantly and plainly clear how we are to treat each other and the consequences of failing to do so. So the bigots, hypocrites, and judgmental types are far, far closer to hellfire than any lgbt person. The Day of Judgment is not going to be pleasant for them.
@@pooperpants800good thing Dante wrote a fanfiction where people like this go straight to hell for committing violence in the name of God. His hell sounds fun~
Story 1: I know that motherhood isn’t for everyone, but she consciously had the kid…. the least she can do is act civil and nicely towards her son. I mean does she act this hostile towards a co-worker she doesn’t like? Probably not since she could get fired… so what makes her think that yelling and snapping at a kid is a good way to vent out her frustrations?
I completely disagree with the mom and she seriously needs therapy ASAP…
Those who truly need therapy never think they need it. Seriously though, the lady is mistreating her son because she didn't like the choice she made.
I bet she will fight for custody of him in the divorce too. She doesn't want him, but will want to get back at her husband and will want that child support money.
Yeah that one got me too…you wanted to give motherhood a “try”??? This isn’t a pair of jeans 👖 it’s a whole human who doesn’t know how to human yet and needs guidance for years! Wtf kind try-before-you-buy mindset is that??
@@chinesefood2222yeah, that try was so our of place. You don't try that, you either do it or no
You're comparing a kid to a co-worker?? Really?? With a co-worker that you have issue with, you have options....#1 they're another adult, so there's reasoning factors, if things are that bad you can have HR step in or quit and when you complain...people will understand, there will be no stigma, you will have support. Now unfortunately motherhood is something you will never know if you're good at, or if you will even like until you're in that position....but by then it's too late. I really feel like this woman had PPD, and it obviously wasn't handled, and definitely other mental issues/disorders as well. I also think she resents her son, because she is very insecure about her abilities as a mother. As a wife, that role maybe wasn't as difficult, not as many moving parts. But now throw in motherhood on top of that? Plus, I can't remember what her work situation was or what her domestic/home life expectations are, but just motherhood alone as a new factor is definitely enough to overwhelm someone who is mentally well, let alone someone who may be dealing with something else. Mothers need to be more comfortable with speaking up and getting help before it gets this far and they are forced out.
Restraining orders apply to both parties, you cant move into a building where the person you filed a restraining order against lives and kick them out. His ex wasnt total trash so they worked it out instead but she wasnt going to be able to force him out.
thats why i knew the story was most likely fake...
@@darronpattel That, and restraining orders generally *list* the parties' residential addresses for precisely that reason -- so that the parties have what they need to follow the rules in good faith.
@@DesiArcy yeah, it's ridiculous how people forget that detail, there's no way to accidentally move into an apartment building when you have a restraining order against them, you know where they live, and will even if they move as it should get updated.
The whole “our home just not on paper” thing is so risky. I moved in with a guy I was dating, and he always said it was “our home” but the second there was any disagreements or arguements it was instantly turned into “his house” and held over my head.
yeah, my mom is in debt to this day cuz she took out a loan for a house, and she co signed with her then husband, and long story short, they got divorced, we moved, he defaulted on the payment, and pinned it ALL on her, btw, this was over 12 years ago
I'm wary of anyone who starts acting too close too quickly 🤔
And its not just significant others either, it can be friends who do this to you. I definitely never expected to be kicked out after 2 years of helping them pay their mortgage, expecting nothing in return expect a safe place to live. Instead i was given 1 week to get out 🙃
This is why I tell people having kids is NOT for everyone. It doesn't make you a bad person but having a kid does not automatically make your life great
Story 8 : That relationship couldn’t last long. He was removing food options for his BRIDE just so his family wouldn’t be offended even though they would have been well fed 😂 That’s not love.
That guy is an actual living red flag 😂
You absolutely know that mother in law had a huge say in it AND after the wedding would try her hardest to get op to start eating meat.
If you get offended because there is a vegan option sitting next to your steak, you get to get over your snowflake butthurt entitlement.
Came across as en entitled soon to be MIL. Kinda odd cus its usually vegans that act like nutjobs.
I live in a verrrry liberal area and some PETA hippy guy spat on my burger while walking by as i was sitting at the patio of a restaurant when i was a teen, so immediately hopped over the fence onto the street and knocked out a few of his teeth.
The funniest thing is a cop saw the whole the whole thing and arrested him cus he started it.The guy was immediately slammed to the ground and started screaming "help me!!", and the cop actually paid for a new burger for me for helping him "detain" the guy; apparently it wasn't his first time spitting on peoples food unprovoked in the area and he prolly thought a teenager would be an easy target....
To rephrase his own statement: he chose food over her.
"I don't know how i got so lucky twice in a row"
I always love how sweet this sentiment is. It properly displays how much you still love and respect your late wife while also acknowledging you found a new loving partner. And it sounds Elle also respect your previous marriage, and is supportive. Which is all you can ask for when you get a new relationship in that kind of situation. Its just so wholesome.
So many times you hear stories about parents disrespecting their late husband/wife toward their kids. Its just so nice and refreshing to see a wholesome story like this.
Story 3 about the dead wife and gf hit me so hard in the feels
Dude I love your name
mood
Although sad for the girlfriend as her boyfriend is still is in his past so she had to go to his wife church nd see him cry missing her
I'm not delusional but like I meant, if you're not mentally prepared for leaving past, pls don't waste someone else love for you
Gram gram also got him a puppy. Can’t forget that. I’ll never understand parents who disown their own children over their sexuality and then consider the parents as “good, god fearing” people. Big yikes.
No one ever does evil is completely and as cheerfully as when they do it in the name of God.
Story 1: I understand that not everyone is a mother, but since she chose to become a mother, she owes her son a courtesy to treat him with respect. Does she really behave thus hostilely toward a coworker she finds objectionable? Most likely not, as she might lose her job. What then gives her the impression that hitting and shouting at a child is a healthy way to get her feelings out?
I totally disagree with the mother, and I think she should get therapy right away.
As a pescatarian who is dating a meat enthusiast who is more than a little picky with the majority of veg, it isn't even an issue for us. If there is respect in the relationship, that never even comes into play. I'm a chef, so I'm comfortable cooking meat for him, and when we're out, he looks extensively at menus to make sure we both have something to eat anywhere we go. He's also willing to eat the occasional vegetarian meal, but I always try to make sure there's something there for him, since he has an iron deficiency. Honestly, it rarely ever ends up being an issue. It's crazy for me to think that in a wedding between the two, he'd take away his bride's opportunity to eat on such a long stressful day and event, and then when she gets upset about it, he considers it an insult to his family because *they* might not be able to eat a couple of the items, despite having options they can still eat. It's not like she made it a vegan wedding, she just placed some options she and her family could also eat, as otherwise they couldn't. It's mind blowing to me how much of a Groomzilla that man was... I'm very thankful to have my partner. Not everyone ends up in respectful and loving relationships...
He literally said "look, I'd rather there are less options overall and that your family has no real options, if that means my family evades the possibility of feeling awkward at not wanting to eat something that's served there" and then expected her to not think it's weird. That's an XXL red flag about how he thinks of her principles and the importance of her family right there.
Story 3: this wholesomeness is exactly what I love to see in the morning :D
I got scared at the start thinking it was a nice way to say his girlfriend died... but turned out to be so beautiful.
I honestly teared up 😍😍😍
That therapist violated HIPPA I'm pretty sure.
No Vegans were physically harmed during the making of this video.
*allegedly*
There were during the viewing of the video 😅
That’s a shame.
Big shoutouts to our rogue narrator who went out of his way for our enjoyment.
@@ManinawigIt was scary and my tummy hurt but I managed to do it
The boyfriend in story 4 at 14:46 sounded super sketchy. It sounded like he was planning to pull one over on her with the guilt-tripping and his behavior with the legal end of things only confirming my suspicions.
omg, story 3 made me tear up with both sadness and happiness 😍😍😍😍😍
Same but the title tripped me out a bit lol 😂
Story 2: this grandfather is so amazing but that mother is horrible poor kid thank god for the grandfather
How can a parent kick a child out for coming out?! Clearly, she never loved him.
Because "love thy family and neighbors" only applies to those their local church says are worth loving. Or in other words, because they are a virtue signaling hypocrite without sympathy.
As someone who's on and off vegetarian? That last one wasn't about the food. It was about him constantly disrespecting her and her family and then trying to 'take the high road' over it. I don't think any marriage where one partner belittles another and puts them down constantly would work out, no matter what the actual topic of conversation is. I wouldn't have been surprised if it had come out that he was trying to force her to eat meat or change her diet to 'keep the peace' between the families, absolutely disgusting behavior. This was about control, not about food.
Been w/a vegetarian of 20 yrs for 15 yrs, never had 1 issue!! ❤😂
Story 5: update: the therapist in question divorced his wife, moved states, and started a television program where he's airing out people's info publically.
Edit: Yes, this is a fake update and yes, I am referring to Dr Phil
The last story, he’s being so unreasonable, how would he feel if she said, well only have vegan food, your family doesn’t need meet, they can just have appetizers and dessert? I’m glad she’s not with someone who doesn’t get that vegans only eat certain foods and it’s much easier to not eat their options than it is to only have salad for them. It’s rude and doesn’t make sense. I’m not a vegan but I don’t have food allergies and certain foods interfere with medication I take for an autoimmune disorder so I am sensitive to other peoples food restrictions. I get it can get annoying and sometimes people sound whiny but for health reasons trumps someone’s feelings. She’s better off without him and his gaslighting family who can’t respect others.
i'm a vegetarian who gets most of their protein from tofu and cheese and my long-term partner eats a lot of meat by necessity and is allergic to soy and dairy and this has absolutely not stopped us lmao
Story 8 is very weird because OP’s perspective is the obviously correct one, but she’s wrong in the way she’s getting it across. She can’t just say “It’s my wedding” because it is his wedding too, and she can’t keep saying “I paid for it” as if he wasn’t involved in their finances. Those are both incredibly unhealthy attitudes to hold in a relationship. I’m very conflicted listening to it, because she’s right in wanting to have vegan options for her family. She was right, just in the wrong way
What I learned (the hard way) is that one's approach and reasoning is often more important than the correctness of one's statement.
Considering the situation, the MIl and Fiancé were pulling an "it's my wedding too" stance to argue that she was disrespecting his guests in the exact way they were disrespecting hers. They used shame and circular arguments to bully into getting their way.
You are right that her words "it is my wedding and I am paying for it" is a poor approach, though I do give it less weight because OP was stuck being belittled and never once ignored the fact that it was, in fact, his wedding too. Then she reinforced it at the end to compare merit of opinions with the in-laws moreso than the fiancé.
That said, all the weddings I went to had only 2 options... roast or chicken. She mentionned having 4 vegan options and, by the sounds of it, at least 6 non-vegan options... how much is she spending on this wedding??? Maybe that's the in-laws real issue?
I honestly don't think it was her saying, "I paid for it, so it's my decision." It's her decisions and family's dietary issues being ignored even though it's her family's money going into it, and ultimately being insulted by being told her and her family's dietary restrictions are stupid and they can just eat salad and not have a whole meal while his family dines like kings and queens. I think she had every right to say, "Hey, my family is putting a good amount of money into this as well, so why can't we have something to eat that isn't just appetizers? Why do you and your family get to dine like royalty off my family's money while we can't?"
Not just her family, didnt she say she was a vegan too?
Is she not supposed to eat at her own wedding?
@@MysticMae21 "can't you, like, order a salad?" If I recall the quote.
Ya. And like, her family needs something safe for them to eat as well.
Last story:
Tbh, I don't really see why it's a waste of money to have another meal option there if you know there's a whole family that will be eating it.
It's not like they're just putting it there "in case" with no one actually eating it. He KNOWS that they can't eat anything else there but that.
If there was vegan food her family would eat it. What if the gluttonous hordes wanted a fourth helping?
Wha's up with the wedding food story?
Like are these two not living togehter so he could SEE what she was eating?
Also there is so much awesome vegan dishes and stuff...just shaking my head.
People who can't eat a single meal without meat blow my mind, even more so if they can't even stand the sight of something vegan while having enough non-vegan options to eat themselves. So much hypocrisy in that story, like it wouldn't be offensive to serve basically no food for the vegan guests
Yeah FR did he just close his eyes everytime the wife ate food? Do they eat in separate rooms?? Has he never bought her food???
Story 8: my response to the mom would’ve been “that you for opening my eyes and stopping me from making the biggest mistake of my life.” Then go straight to canceling the wedding.
Ignore everything else for a moment. Dude is comfortable going behind her back to make a big financial decision, then (assuming the mom was accurate) he lied to her about it, and is still somehow trying to make it her fault. Talk about red flags.
Story 2: you are an amazing grandpa and I wish you and your grandson the best ❤
Story 3: you are a lovely man, and I hope this new love blossoms and blossoms 🌸 ❤️
Im an omnivore...love me some good BBQ and roast beef, but i also love me some nice veggies and vegan cuisine. In fact, i would never object to a vegan-only menu (gone to vegan restaurants and dinner parties hosted by vegan friends and pretty much enjoyed everything served). And it certainly didn't kill me to miss out on animal products for a minute. So, i just dont understand OPs (ex) fiance taking issue with the mere presence of vegan options on the menu when plenty of nonvegan options were available. I also don't think the fiance actually understands what the word "compromise" means, since im pretty sure it does NOT mean "i get whatever i want and you get nothing."
Good on OP for dodging that bullet, since the issue was never about the menu but the control issues ex and fam had...yikes!😮
Well OP mentioned they were obese and hinted that they had really unhealthy eating habits. I'm assuming the reason they'd feel "offended" at the vegan options is that they're the type to want to eat from every option available since 'they love food' and so offering food that they can't (or won't) eat feels to them like you're slighting them by purposely seperating them from the food they love so much. The reason they won't eat vegan food is because its 'healthy' and giving them 'healthy' food is like telling them they're fat and unhealthy which they seem to be extra sensitive about.
I don't think the fiance is the one who had the problem with it, just his family (otherwise it would've come up when they ate together), but he's a momma's boy and will listen to whatever his mom says over his partner. So if his mom said no vegan, he says no vegan.
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Didnt she say she was also vegan?
Does that mean that she isnt allowed to eat at her own wedding too?
I love your videos but i wanna know if anyone else feels that the jumping and super fast movements in the background strains your eyes
story 7 was right at first but seriously??? everyone gets a little prideful and in the end he admitted to being wrong- and that he had an explanation for why, like i get it 100% there’s no reason to take that as some ‘huge red flag’ and leave him 😭 there’s definitely immaturity on both parts
How is OP in the wrong? She set boundaries and he stomped on those boundaries and rules for the wedding. No wonder he's a single dad (twice). He can't even be responsible enough not to drag his kids to an adult party and blamed OP for his stupid decisions.
I know right. Overreact much. She seems like the type who can't work through any problems. Solution, must end things now. That, my friend, is the real red flag
I also think that was a huge red flag though. He had an explanation, not a good one. In the end, he was still trying to take young children to a drug themed wedding and also tried to prevent his gf to go to a wedding they had planned to go to. And yes, everyone gets a little prideful. The difference here was that he was willing to go 4 days without even replying to her texts or contacting her first. It basically means he's unwilling to admit fault ever, no matter how far he has to go for it. If they continued their relationship, then he won't treat her well further down the line and never take responsibility for it.
@@agelesssea7109the ceremony and the reception are different things I'm pointing this out because the ceremony will only last a maximum of like 5 minutes 10 minutes not that long so it would be fine to take the kids to the ceremony it would be wrong to take the kids to the reception because if it is that thing that's where it's going to be they will not have it at the ceremony most likely because most places are not okay with that
@@tofluffybunny6780 What kind of ceremonies do you go to that only take 5 or 10 minutes?! And what are they supposed to do with the kids afterwards? Just skip the reception entirely? Which is even worse if you think the ceremony is only 5 minutes. Drive all the way to someone's wedding to stay 5 mins and turn around and go home again?! LOL
story 8: WT?! why cant he add vegan options on the menu when HE KNOWS that there are vegans coming, thats insane.
Story 1 : How does someone think nothing is wrong with them when they resent their kid who didnt ask to be born. Meanwhile you go off on him for any little thing, taking out all your anger on the kid. He's not even in the double digits but okay sure, there's nothing wrong with YOU. That mom is a royal piece of dooky.
In story 6, I am not sure but it seemed he was there long before her. I would have contacted a judge about it, as ordering him to move out after he had already been living there by use of the restraining order seems like using it as a form of harassment. Obviously it worked out for him just fine, but you can't just go somewhere the person is invested in and order them to leave because you want to be there. Also his PO should be aware of where he is living, so contesting this should be very possible.
That being said, in a legal sense he should not have responded to the person at all, and contacted his PO as just responding to her question could get him into legal trouble which would be bad.
So I think his best course of action would have been to immediately leave, and inform his PO that he ran into the EX at his place of residence and ask the PO to tell her to leave.
Story 3 is just beautiful!
The whole Vegan story was crazy... Also like their family is like 'we shouldn't ahve to cater to your family's diet.' Like, if I was OP, I'd be like 'You know what? Sure, we won't cater to my family... And we won't cater to yours, we'll keep it even. We'll just have no food at the wedding reception to keep it fair. If you've got a problem with it, STOP ACTING LIKE MY FAMILY EATING NON-MEAT IS GOIGN TO KILL YOU.'
Good for her she decided to break it off. That was a relationship that wasn't going to work out.
The last story: veganism isn't always by choice. I have a friend that has severe cirrhosis and certain proteins can trigger it. She went vegan for the relief, not by choice. Her skin has cleared up and it's been years. She did eat meat during both pregnancies to keep baby's nutrients and hers up as some supplements cannot be taken during pregnancy. She is still mostly vegan, however does have small amounts of meat and egg occasionally in very small servings. She does however now eat some chicken, ( its been many years)but only shredded in a salad or in a wrap. She still needs to be careful or her skin will flare up. So again, veganism or being vegetarian isn't always optional. It can be also for health benefits.
Dude is struggling in the gameplay. I felt that aggro
it took me 2 days to figure out what a weed wedding was then i found this video again and it hit me
Last story: I mean, I don't like cooking even for myself either way so I'd hate to make additional options for the second person (I'm a big meat eater). But if you're veg and you're cooking - gods bless you, I'll do the dishes and will never complain. (Will just cook bit of meat for myself once in a while and live a happy life)
I’m sick of parents who have kids and hate them. Don’t give birth to them if you don’t like them, we don’t ask to be born and parents like that make they’re life miserable for nothing
People are entitled to feel however they happen to feel. However, it is unforgivable to take those feeling out on an innocent child.
Is kinda absurd to hear that he prioritised his family over her and when she cancelled everything he is entitled that she takes the part of her parents. Double standardssss
Hey sparked, love the videos, but one thing that I do not like is that it doesn't tell you what they did, so do you think you could put that in the description so we know whether we want to watch it?
Hie everyone story 1 god damn already
Vegetarian married to a meat eater, here. When your spouse respects you it really isn't a huge issue 98% of the time. In the beginning it was hard because it constantly felt like my spouse was making a big meal for themself and would "get me something else to eat" that was just never as good. Eventually we sat down and talked, they realized how I felt and how it looked and apologized for making it seem like I was a second thought, and we agreed to make meals together that could have meat added if they wanted it but was vegetarian otherwise so we only had to cook one meal and I was getting some good home cooked shit too.
I do make them brush their teeth after eating before kissing me and such sometimes coz I find the idea of fat and meat grease really icky but I adore my spouse. As big of a deal as my vegetarianism is to me, they are a bigger deal, they have been there for me (as a friend) since before I made the decision to be vegetarian and as much as I thought I'd marry a vegetarian or vegan, I'd much rather be married to them and deal with being icked out by their food than to be married to a vegetarian just cause.
At our wedding we chose a restaurant that has plenty of good vegetarian choices and my spouse was very supportive.
It works because my spouse knows how important it is for me. Rubs my back and helps me when fast food places give me meat on accident and I either need a whole new meal or ate it without noticing and got hella sick (I will vomit violently if I eat even a tiny amount of meat after not having it so long. I also have digestive issues due to disability that makes it worse.) they make sure I always have vegetarian safe food and stand next to me even when I'm taking forever checking the ingredients on the box in the store to make sure it's safe. They recognize what it means to me and treat it with care and me with care. I recognize that for them it's really hard just giving up meat entirely since their mother used to cook mostly meat at every meal. But we have a way of dancing around each other's diets while respecting each other as people. I've even gotten them into eating more vegan and vegetarian options and they've reduced how much meat they eat by quite a bit even without me asking or pushing. Sometimes it does cause a couple issues, but other than that I am very happily married to a filthy meat eater 😂
Story 2 literally brought me to tears....
For the widower: When we fall in love with you, we know you still love her. All we ask is that you let us love her, too.
The cluster truck gameplay is actually criminal
I also think veganism is absurd and stupid, but im not going to try and go behind my back to cancel shit on my wife even if i disagree with it.
This confuses me what do you mean it's absurd and stupid?
God... I grew up very conservative Christian so I fully understand the internal logic to the position that homosexuality is a sin, and I can't argue that by Christian tenets that is indeed the case. I don't share that view myself, but I can understand where they're coming from. But at least in the community I grew up in it would not at all be acceptable to kick the kid out or sever your love for them because of that.
And as for myself, I deeply desire to be a father and could never imagine cutting a son or daughter of mine from my life merely because they are attracted to the same sex. Then again, I don't even see it as anything bad at all. Other than the disappointment I might have at them not being able to give me grandchildren, but that would pale in comparison to the love I'd have for them simply for being my children.
I completely agree with the Christian sentiment that children are god's gift to their parents. And I could never imagine rejecting that.
A meat eater could probably be with a vegan. However vegans may not feel the same way
My husband and I had our son in 2000. We both went vegetarian approximately 2002 - 2013, vegan around 2014 - 2017, and back to vegetarian again since 2017/2018 (we found it too hard to be vegan). Meanwhile, we continued buying and cooking meat (chicken and fish) for our kid during all that time. His diet was about 50/50 meat vs veg meals when we cooked. Husband and I have our veg diet out of personal preference, so didn't want to force that on our son. We wanted him to decide what his preference was too. I know he prefers meat, but when he was old enough to cook, sometimes he "preferred" our veg if he didn't feel like cooking 😅
I’ve been that kid. There’s nothing like being the kid your mom had because she was supposed to and then decided that she didn’t want to be a mom anymore and just made you the dumping ground for everything. It’s a shitty thing to do to a kid.
That's why it pisses me off when people are pressuring women who don't want kids to have a kid. I know that I would be terrible mother and that's why I don't want kids and hearing "if you have one, you change your mind", "every woman want this" pisses me off. Some people are not parent material and if your not 100000% sure that you'll be a good parent, you don't trying for a kid. She said "I try to be a mother" like child was a pet fish. It's infuriating how people don't think long therm.
that last story was an odd one cus its usually vegans who act like nutjobs around meat eaters; its not like they were only gonna serve vegan options even....
Love the longer videos, and as a meat eater, I can and have dated a vegan. When we went out, I’d find something I was able to eat while making sure she was able to as well. It’s called compromise
As a meat eating man, I'm fully willing to date a vegetarian/vegan woman. As long as she doesn't try to force me to be vegetarian/vegan, that is a major deal breaker for me. I won't try to force her to eat meat/non vegan, so she shouldn't try to force me to eat vegetarian/vegan.
First story. Becoming a mother means you have to put your child first in every aspect, OPS wife is to selfish and desperate for all the attention,she doesn't want to share with her child. It's unfortunate for the kid as she should never have had any children when she is so needy herself. To actually resent your own offspring is messed up. I would leave and take the child with me,leave that god awful excuse of a parent,nothing can excuse her selfishness and distain.
For the one about the girlfriend trying to help her boyfriend get a house, the contract on his part as the money being a "gift" is so that he wouldn't have to give any money back because you don't have to return gift as opposed to a loan
God I hope we as a society get over the homophobia like in story 2
Story 8: OP was right. Why couldn't the ex just have options for everyone? Why did his family insist on no vegan options? His inability to compromise was a giant red flag.
The OP did choose to die on that hill but that hill was created and defended by her Ex and her Ex's "Mommy".
Lol, the Weed Wedding Story...
That dude is hapless. If you want a woman to love you, you need to practice saying those three little words every woman loves to hear: "You Were Right".
Spoiler: They usually are right. At least the educated ones who aren't addicted to crack or carrying a bible everywhere are. A normal woman is a pretty reliable source for what is right or wrong. When they tell you "No, that's stupid", just shut up and go with it, even if you don't fully understand it. Trust that they do and pick your battles. You don't have to be a complete doormat, just understand your skills exist outside of acceptable social etiquette and heed their guidance in that area.
Pride and stubbornness will not get you very far. Women want a "Partner", and it's not a partnership if the other person thinks they're always right 100% of the time. And the silent treatment... That's the behavior of a toddler, and only excused there because kids that age fundamentally can't be quite for more than 5 minutes anyway, lol. That is not acceptable grown-up behavior.
The proper response from him (which is glaringly obvious, even to me) would have been to show up and tell his girlfriend "The sitter has covid, so I have the kids today. I can drive you to the wedding and pick you up, but the kids and I will just do something fun in the area while you attend the wedding until you're ready to get picked up." That's not ideal for OP, but it is reasonable under the circumstances, as he's balancing his commitment to her with his commitment to his children. Yeah, he would have suffered through a kid's movie, maybe Chuck-E-Cheese, or mini-golf, but that's still better than wrangling 4 young kids at an adults-only wedding to which they weren't invited, with nothing to keep them entertained.
Yeah that last story... OP did the right thing by leaving her fiance... he's never going to respect her or her family. The fiance needed to apply the logic he was using for OP's family to his own. OP is vegan. Which means the only meal she'd be able to eat is salad like her now ex-fiance was suggesting.
I have only two requests if I a meat eater am to date a vegetarian
1 : do not try to shame me or call me a monster for eating meat
2: do not try to influence any potential children ee may have wnd course them into being vegetarian let it be their choice.
Op soon to be ex wife is going to regret how she treated her son and it is going to hurt her even more when she has to watch her son being love by another woman and watching her ex husband being happy
the vegan story has the red flag of him never considering his fiance's family and only his. He brings up how it constanly effects them but NEVER hers.
story 8:
"fiance didn't want his family to feel like there were certain options they couldnt touch"
the vegan family looking at meat and dairy: *i feel like this is an option i can't touch*
also dude, how is it a waste of money to buy food that half the guest want to eat?
0:13 "Do. Or do not. There is no "try"". Master Yoda
WATER???? On the COUNTER???? Call the CIA
for story 6, the lady has to leave, not him (if I remember how that works)
I think the obvious solution for the wedding menu story was just to take a survey of the percentage of people who would prefer the regular meat option or who would want to eat the vegan option then just split up how much of each option to order. It's really not that big a deal, they could have literally made a one minute survey on Google and then sent it out to their guest list to get the correct numbers.
20:14 As if one needed any more convincing that telling your deepest darkest secrets and insecurities to a stranger is a horrible idea...
For the answer to the question at the end of the video. I am a meat eater. I would be willing to date and potentially marry a vegan or vegetarian, but only if they didn't try to get me to become one as well. if they try to force it on me, I'm out. But if they don't care, and let me eat whatever I want, then I'd be ok with it.
Story 1: im sorry for the kid. But now the mother will haye him even more, probably openly..And he will find out why his parents split up... Hope the father gets him full time. But it was the inly right decision! their is just no happy end...
Don’t bug me or holier than thou me about what I eat or enjoy and I won’t give any thoughts or care about what you eat or enjoy. Simple as that.
It’s rare, but some women are not mother material
Story 8: Bride to be.......run! Someone who treats your family and health issues THIS way.....just no!
I don't care what you eat as long as I can eat what I want around you I'm ok I'm a meat eater but I don't eat meat every day
3:19 The mom is horrible, very selfish, but OP doesn't seem honest. "Answers isn't going to determine" .. next sentence "Answer determined".
Last story: should've just gotten food by the majority of guests. If there are more meateaters you go with more meatoptions and vice versa. My cousin did this, she's vegan and at her wedding there where maybe like five vegans including her, so she just got 3 vegan dishes plus appetizers and everyone was happy. Both OP and fiance are idiots honestly 🤷🏼♂️
Story 1: the woman is a subhuman monster
Story 8: now I do think she was a tiny bit of a bridezilla (the whole it’s HER wedding thing it is or was his wedding too) she is still at 0% fault. His stance was his family couldn’t be disrespected but her family could eat just appetizers
More intrigued with than game than the Reddit posts tbh
I've never met a normal vegan or vegetarian there was always something wrong with them, but in this case I totally support the vegan the others are not normal. And she should've broken up before I wouldn't even discuss it with mother in law.
Stoery1: she has major issues and is an abusive parent.
Op needs to file for full costody cut contact and run.
Wht because she refuses therapy and to change and is responding like an insane narc.
And will only escalate her abuse of her and ops son.
I think vegan diets are ridiculous, and I usually don't even read vegan menu options, but I don't get offended by them. The only problem I have with vegans are the preachy ones that try to guilt me for enjoying a burger.
I absolutely think I as a meat eater can date a vegan but a vegan is incapable of dating at eaters mosT of the time without just having to say SOMETHING.
Ohhhh that food used to have a face!
Yeah. And I’m eating its face now. Leave me be.
would I date a vegetarian or vegan as a meat eater? As long as I get to eat meat, I don't mind tbf. I'm laughing my ass of and laughing at the husband for being so stubborn on something that litterally doesnt make any difference for him or his family. Bro is getting offended by food, and that alone is just stupid (in this situation ofcourse. When you have food allergies and someone purposfully feeds you them, thats a whole different story)
😕 I would date someone who doesn’t eat me I mean my sis doesn’t eat meat but it not what most people think.Shell eat fish and shrimp.She just hates the taste of meat?I don’t get it but everyone has their own taste and I have tried non meat options and some tastes good so it wouldn’t affect me much.She started when she was like around 8-10 year old and I am 19 now so um I grew up with it so it doesn’t bother me.
For some reason you remind me of the youtuber broogli
I am so angry at the Vegan story.. I am Vegetarian and always need options. People like that are really bad and if this was me.. if they didn't want to cater correctly to what I would be able to eat... I just wouldnt' show up... Even if everybody else of who I am going with were willing.. It's one of my biggest pet peeves. I like Salads but just.. come on... something a little more exciting. I don't care about meat eaters.. I just want compromise.. I want you to make sure I can eat a meal... I don't care if you eat meat around me.. I don't care... just provide options, support me.. you can live your life eating meat whatever.. I don't care. Salad is so boring for a big event like a wedding.
people who just eat a vegan diet without caring about animal rights shouldn't call themselves vegan, the term for those people is plantbased.
veganism is after all a stance against the exploitation and cruelty towards animals, not a diet
i would also not date anyone who isn't vegan other than perhaps some plantbased people who are open to taking a stance against animal abuse
00:10 just cuts to a different part of the story. Blocking, sorry
I'm a bit iffy on whether or not I'd date a Vegen/Vegetarian. I mean, the keto diet I'm on actually has a lot of overlap with what they eat because a lot of food has too many carbs in them... but I love my meat. I don't want to give that up or eat plant-based. And I don't want to deal with their entitlement if they end up like those horror stories you hear... like that one where the son didn't like that they dad had a freezer full of deer meat and unplugged it, wasting all that meat and thus going against his very beliefs...
Not everyone wants kids. Tired of it being treated like it's because we're ill. That being said, don't have kids if you don't want them. They are a ton work, put strain on both parents and sometimes the relationship. You need to know you're ready and it's what you want.
10%?
Love meat. Would never ever date a vegetarian or vegan. Not now not ever. I love a nice big steak on a Saturday night off the grill.
Story 1: If i had to choose between a kid or the love of my life, im always going to choose the love of my life. I couldnt live without him, I'm also well aware i do not want to be a mother so it wouldnt be a problem for me but if it were, id give the kid up to stay with my partner.
story 6. regardless of him getting better and change. the ruling should be that she should have to leave. because if you get an protection order against someone you could destroy that person by moving behind this person, following that person arround and call the police whenever. therefore there shouln't be a case at all. she moved in the building he lived longer. she has to go.