right and they were not renting out a separate basement apartment with its own entrance and all of that. She was an adult family member . As a favor They let her come stay for 400. bcuz she had bf problems. they were not looking for a tenant . but they wasn’t letting her stay for free.. they set the ground rules and that’s it. She wasn’t supposed to be living there forever.. all of them hustles she claims she has. she was supposed to be trying to get her ass up and out. not sneaking boyfriends in somebody else’s house. And of course, Pookie don’t ever have anywhere to lay his head except some other woman’s pillow.
🙄 then not respect their rules. I wouldn’t want no strange man who she couldn’t even get along with, lay up and get comfortable in my house with my children.
I felt some kind of way when he said grandma took 5 of them, but she went into the system. That only caused some emotional trauma, plus no one knows what she went through in foster care. She definitely should have followed the rules while living in their home. Although it was a verbal agreement it’s still considered a contract that she violated. I felt like she was ready to cry at the end during the apology. 😢
Yeah, I felt some kind of way about that too. We will never know how they got separated and what she went through. Grandma probably just took the older ones. Or maybe Grandma was the mom of the other ones dad, and only took her grandkids. God bless them and it's good that they reconnected.
Some states/judges will limit a person based on income, disability and age. My grandmother had exceeded the amount of children the STATE felt she could adequately take care of because of her age. We just went on to other 'eligible' family members.
I felt really bad for her when they said she was adopted out while 5 of her siblings remained with family. Her big brother is very sweet; you can tell he was raised in love. She's very immature and obviously wrong but I can't help but empathize. She can't even comprehend why no one wants a strange man in the house with their children. Likely born addicted to drugs. 🌚
@@christiandilday7543 she already said he was toxic. You not bringing that to my house especially if my kids are there. Don't like the rules you can always leave. And she sneaking him in, maybe when I'm home you can have company.
@christiandilday7543 she didn't have to agree to my rules and she could have found other accommodations. No disrespect, but I can tell you don't have your own place.
@@christiandilday7543 it's so simple that rent does not equal up to the safety of their children..it's not like she saved them from getting evicted they were there before and after she lived there..respect it or go..but being she grew up different I get why she didn't understand that
I mean it’s females for u she just thought she was going to finesse it lol she already agreed to the terms and u no u was going to pay so why would u think u would be paying after u said yes smh
Defendant is very entitled. Also, parents need to protect their sons the same way they protect their daughters. So many young boys are abused bc ppl think it only happens to girls.
The defendant should be more grateful. they literally didn’t have to do that and the boyfriend got her put out well why wasn’t she living with him to begin with smh
Their house, their rules!!! No one forced her to go live there. She should have went to go stay with the boyfriend then. But I’m guessing the boyfriends mother didn’t want that.
The plaintiff was raised by the grandmother while his sister, unfortunately grew up in a foster home(s). She was definitely wrong in her behavior but I believe most of that stems from past environments. I hope they were able to rebuild their relationship.
Grown Folks can’t live together! Especially if they have some childhood trauma! The defendant is probably carrying a lot of baggage from her childhood! She wasn’t raised with the plaintiff! She was left to stay in the system! When you live in someone else’s house you have to follow their rules!
correct! But when they start off with that” I feel like…” you already know that they were told already not to do what they did and they tried it anyway, and got busted!
@@NestozLikwidVPotient Thanks for the reference. People in general kill me with that "well, I feel like". I kill myself when I say it too. I try to catch myself by saying. IMO.
Their house, their rules. Very disrespectful for her to keep having him over, especially after admitting their relationship was toxic. Also, I think when you are helping people get on their feet; you should set a time frame, charge them very little so they can save and move out. That's his sister, she didn't have any money, let her stack her coins and move on.
And you got to set it up at the beginning to help them stack them coins cause at the end of 12 months they won’t have saved nuthin. my gf had to do it with her mother who was on a waitlist for subsidized housing. She got the call that her name was #2 which meant she had bout 9 months to a year. so she had to have the deposit ready and 1st month or it would go to the next person. Mom had already been there 18 months waiting and confirmed that day she had bout 100 saved. My gf said, “my mom ain’t got to pay me and my hubby 1 dime, she don’t need to buy anything but her own lil personals. i don’t understand why she doesn’t have more $ saved.” I told her u better sit her down and tell her to give u xyz on the 1st(chk day). By the time the agreed move out time comes around, you know that money is banked! She did it, it worked out well!! mama was ready when the time came!!
This is precisely why I didn't do roommates at all! People are waaaay too entitled these days, very self centered and disrespectful to everyone else. I don't know where that came from but people really do have this attitude of I need to do what's best for me and *** everybody else, even when "everybody else" is the one helping them.
@Adrian Knight AKA Prince It's not hard to live with others when the people have good sense and common decency. It is best to live alone if that is your preference or you don't have good sense and common decency. Many are cosigning your comment(s) w/o knowing your background (that you present regularly) which would explain why it is best FOR YOU to live alone. Do you have any other options?
Sister was afforded grace. However, when it came to visits by her boyfriend, she attempted to 'run game' by sneaking him into the house breaking the house rules. As the judge said, the sister and boyfriend had many options for getting together to talk. The issue is the girlfriend wanted a stable living place but loved the part she spent with her boyfriend. The problem is that now the mess gets brought to her brother and wife's doorstep. Naw, keep your toxicity 'over there' somewhere else. And no men allowed.
Damn I hate that the grandma didn’t take her… but took the other 5 siblings…. I know that’s gotta make her feel some type of way…. I wouldn’t care how many or HOW bad I struggled ain’t no way I’d allow my grandkids to go into foster care…if y’all had to sleep 3 to a bed on the couch palates on the floor… aint no telling what that young lady endured ….I hope they can get over this and have a healthy happy relationship w/ each other…
I am repeating. YOU (WE) do not know the situation. WHY are you just assuming that the grandmother made the decision of not taking the defendant, but taking the other children? What is your evidence for that assumption?
Their house, their rules! It doesn’t matter what your children’s genders are. Boys must be protected from adults as much as girls. And I am sorry, that man behind Essence is giving me BTK killer vibe😢
exactly. And i don’t care if that room was on pluto. she was a family member that needed a place to stay but they wasn’t letting her live for free. This wasn’t no , regular tenant rental even though it kinda is. she knows what that rule was.
Girl go pay rent at a hotel or you & your bf get a place with your 400. I wouldn’t had even let her move into my home. Let alone move in and getting busy while my children are in the house !
If they told her grown ass that her boyfriend couldn't stay there then she should have respected their rules. Bottom you don't call shots in someone else's house she lucky they let her stay there.
I commend them on not wanting Men (besides their Father) around their children GOOD FOR THEM!!! So often people have strangers/boyfriends etc around their children, you already have to be cautious of ppl u KNOW so you have to be even more cautious of ppl u don’t know. She’s talking about her “boyfriend” why didn’t her boyfriend step up and find THEM somewhere to LIVE!? She’s comfortable as a grown Woman lying up in SOMEONE’S home with a Man that isn’t TRYING to get you out of that situation!? Tambout her “BOYFRIEND” chile please!
Her and boyfriend shoulda got a room or whatever. She’s acting like a teenager and don’t understand why they treating her like one. Simple respect of the house though. My house, my rules.💁🏾♀️Get with it or get lost.
@@Nevaeh1 but they infamously sneak boys in instead of having an adult conversation about negotiating the terms of residency. That alone is enough for me to question her ‘adult’ decision making skills. What if that man robbed in the middle of the night? Same sentiment?
Just because the people you are staying with are charging you a little rent doesn't mean you can do what you want like it's your house. You are still a guest just renting out a room! Your name is not on a lease and you don't have a private space. It's not even that complicated. Do you book a hotel for a night and say "well since I'm paying for it I can break and make the rules!" No. Stop playing dumb.
Especially with children...and for those who want to submit their children to SA by significant others they can go right ahead but they don't get to submit someone else's kids to SA for some companionship...and for those who say he's not like that...yeah you don't know how he is until the situation presents itself...he just may be like that. Stop letting the vagina do the talking and start letting the common sense talk.
Hate she got split up from her siblings..I believe when grandparents do that they have a reason other than it being too many..especially if it was the dad's mother..Grown people just need to have their own it hardly works out..their house their rules especially when they have kids and don't want just anyone around them..I think thats how she used to living felt no one cared to keep her so she didnt care about their rules
Idk I feel like if you can’t take all of them they don’t take any of them. I can only imagine the emotional and mental impact to feel betrayed by your parents and then your grandparent to say “ok I’ll take everyone BUT her”.
Exactly! I feel the same way. It makes me wonder why the grandmother wouldn’t take her and took the rest. 😢 I just don’t see how she could make that decision, but I’m not judging because it’s more than one side to a story.
I don’t agree with the “all or none” response. I don’t know of any single personal who would be in a position to adopt 6 kids all at once. I think it would have been good for the grandmother to at least get visitation.
@@TheeMichellesMind Right. Because we don't know what the situation was. It's possible that the brother and sister don't know the whole story. The way you cast the grandmother as "wouldn't take her" and wonder "how she could make that decision" is unfair IMO. We don't know if it was a matter of she "wouldn't" or if it was actually HER decision.
The sisters needs to understand that when you are in other people's home, you have to abide by their rules. I agree with the sister-in-law that had she just came to her and communicate it, they could have worked things out. The sister seems like she doesn't want to take accountability for anything. I'm glad they were able to hug at the end
I'm pretty sure the plaintiff didn't want the defendant moving in with them but she went along with it because of the situation between her husband and his long-lost sister and as a woman, to have to open up her home to a stranger is a big task, especially with small children and then the defendant gets too comfortable with paying "rent" and feels like she has "authority" in this woman's home to bring in another man, an absolute stranger into these people's house is beyond me. And the defendant really doesn't see a problem with it, smh she's a paying guest, it's no different than staying at a hotel that also has rules and regs. That was a huge red flag on the defendant, asking to move in with them and they had only just reconnected after however many years.
Prayers up to this family 🙏🏾🙏🏾 I also think they love her but were showing her tough love in regards to they household which is needed. Happy to see they hug at the end, life is already hard but having a great family and support system can make it better
Your flesh will bring deception and your Spirit will bring Perception! If you walk in the flesh you will be deceived, if you walk in the spirit you will perceive! Perceive means to discern, recognize, become aware of, become conscious of, come to know, distinguish, grasp, understand, take in, make out, find, identify, hit on, and comprehend! Once you perceive, then you’ll believe, so you can receive!!!!
Sounds like they shouldn't have allowed a "perfely" stranger into their home😂 especially a hood rodent with no regard for anyone else & distorted priorities
How did you arrive at that conclusion? What were the facts behind the situation? What is the grandmother's decision to take everyone but her? How do you know?
The defendant think she's slick, No man in my house especially when I'm not home...aint nobody screwing in my house but me..u don't like the rules go somewhere else to live.. Point, Blank, Periodt
It's not what you do but how you do it, RESPECT PPL'S HOME if he so much of your man put money together and get y'all on place, don't question the rules if don't like it make other plans.
I’m reading these comments my peace of mind and praise praising the wonderful couple his wife or girl ,woman is on point about hers and mines and her man because he’s all of that so … people you can’t come in a happy Home 🏠 and then try to brake or rip it up they both gonna tell you about yourself because they are a true couple they are 1 one ☝️ together and they are not a force to be reckoned with so why try with your bad disrespectful ass not trying to follow the House 🏠 rules don’t come there and try to break up there Peaceful happy home and respectful space … girl bye you better be lucky 🍀 they still trying to help and deal with you ❤
That’s the number one rule in any book don’t allow anyone to live with you. I don’t care how sad their story is. I don’t care if it’s a relative don’t allow anyone to move in with you.
Honestly i rather watch JM older stuff than new. I see why he is no longer a judge on national TV ANYMORE. HE HAS NOT BEEN MAKING GOOD JUDGMENT CALLS LATELY 😢
According to you and others. However, there's no apparent or provable correlation between what you think and why this particular show was cancelled. According to what you see, why do you think People's Court was cancelled? I am sincerely interested in your opinion. Also, in your opinion, what was wrong with this particular judgment?
The plaintiffs did the right thing concerning their children. Very responsible.
right and they were not renting out a separate basement apartment with its own entrance and all of that. She was an adult family member . As a favor They let her come stay for 400. bcuz she had bf problems. they were not looking for a tenant . but they wasn’t letting her stay for free.. they set the ground rules and that’s it. She wasn’t supposed to be living there forever.. all of them hustles she claims she has. she was supposed to be trying to get her ass up and out. not sneaking boyfriends in somebody else’s house. And of course, Pookie don’t ever have anywhere to lay his head except some other woman’s pillow.
She said her bf was toxic but can’t understand why they didn’t want the mess in the house with their children? Her priorities are messed up!
Delusional 😂
His bum ass should've had enough to at least go half on they own spot!?
@@ryangray9988 Right! She genuinely could not comprehend why they weren’t having it. Too grown to be that stupid.
@@goodwill374 You put it nicely lol. Definitely delusional!
Yup always the victim.
She moved in with brother to get away from toxic situation with boyfriend only to invite him over ???
Thank you. I was just thinking, isn't the boyfriend why she needed another place to stay in the first place.?
SMH
🙄 then not respect their rules. I wouldn’t want no strange man who she couldn’t even get along with, lay up and get comfortable in my house with my children.
EXACTLY WHAT I WAS THINKING
I felt some kind of way when he said grandma took 5 of them, but she went into the system. That only caused some emotional trauma, plus no one knows what she went through in foster care. She definitely should have followed the rules while living in their home. Although it was a verbal agreement it’s still considered a contract that she violated. I felt like she was ready to cry at the end during the apology. 😢
Yeah, I felt some kind of way about that too. We will never know how they got separated and what she went through. Grandma probably just took the older ones. Or maybe Grandma was the mom of the other ones dad, and only took her grandkids. God bless them and it's good that they reconnected.
She could have been a baby when they were taken away
Some states/judges will limit a person based on income, disability and age. My grandmother had exceeded the amount of children the STATE felt she could adequately take care of because of her age. We just went on to other 'eligible' family members.
@@diamondrain2767 that explains a lot. Thanks for giving insight.
I felt really bad for her when they said she was adopted out while 5 of her siblings remained with family. Her big brother is very sweet; you can tell he was raised in love.
She's very immature and obviously wrong but I can't help but empathize. She can't even comprehend why no one wants a strange man in the house with their children. Likely born addicted to drugs. 🌚
Whatever my rules are, ARE MY RULES. She didn't have to come to their home at all.
But if she paying rent wants wrong with having company for a short time
@@christiandilday7543 she already said he was toxic. You not bringing that to my house especially if my kids are there. Don't like the rules you can always leave. And she sneaking him in, maybe when I'm home you can have company.
@christiandilday7543 she didn't have to agree to my rules and she could have found other accommodations. No disrespect, but I can tell you don't have your own place.
@@christiandilday7543 it's so simple that rent does not equal up to the safety of their children..it's not like she saved them from getting evicted they were there before and after she lived there..respect it or go..but being she grew up different I get why she didn't understand that
I mean it’s females for u she just thought she was going to finesse it lol she already agreed to the terms and u no u was going to pay so why would u think u would be paying after u said yes smh
When will folks learn that you can't make rules in somebody else's home
they never learn that unless they get their own house!
I love it when they can hug at the end , family is so important ! .
Amen 🙏🏽
Great ending! I appreciated the defendant remained silent instead of telling a lie about the rent.
Respect people’s “no”!
If you're paying rent but the rules say no men, then no men.
right. u got to get you a dude that got his own place instead of a super pookie!
Defendant is very entitled. Also, parents need to protect their sons the same way they protect their daughters. So many young boys are abused bc ppl think it only happens to girls.
So true.
💯💯
True..she feels selfish now and it's all about her priorities (which were screwed up) because no one in family made her a priority
Truth
They barely protect their daughters.
This is one of my favorite courtshow. I watch it everyday. He is a judge but also an eye-opener.
The defendant should be more grateful. they literally didn’t have to do that and the boyfriend got her put out well why wasn’t she living with him to begin with smh
why that boyfriend don't have a place for her? You shouldn't be in a relationship when ya'll both living off other ppl
Right.
My thoughts exactly! Glad she let us know he at least helped her pay her rent.
Exactly
Their house, their rules!!! No one forced her to go live there. She should have went to go stay with the boyfriend then. But I’m guessing the boyfriends mother didn’t want that.
Aww, I loved that she apologized and they hugged it out.
No you can’t bring your boyfriend they have kids it’s disrespectful go get your own place!!!
The Defendant was acting like a kid sneaking her boyfriend in.
The plaintiff was raised by the grandmother while his sister, unfortunately grew up in a foster home(s). She was definitely wrong in her behavior but I believe most of that stems from past environments. I hope they were able to rebuild their relationship.
I agree wholeheartedly.
Grown Folks can’t live together! Especially if they have some childhood trauma! The defendant is probably carrying a lot of baggage from her childhood! She wasn’t raised with the plaintiff! She was left to stay in the system! When you live in someone else’s house you have to follow their rules!
correct! But when they start off with that” I feel like…” you already know that they were told already not to do what they did and they tried it anyway, and got busted!
@@NestozLikwidVPotient Thanks for the reference. People in general kill me with that "well, I feel like". I kill myself when I say it too. I try to catch myself by saying. IMO.
Their house, their rules. Very disrespectful for her to keep having him over, especially after admitting their relationship was toxic. Also, I think when you are helping people get on their feet; you should set a time frame, charge them very little so they can save and move out. That's his sister, she didn't have any money, let her stack her coins and move on.
And you got to set it up at the beginning to help them stack them coins cause at the end of 12 months they won’t have saved nuthin. my gf had to do it with her mother who was on a waitlist for subsidized housing. She got the call that her name was #2 which meant she had bout 9 months to a year. so she had to have the deposit ready and 1st month or it would go to the next person. Mom had already been there 18 months waiting and confirmed that day she had bout 100 saved. My gf said, “my mom ain’t got to pay me and my hubby 1 dime, she don’t need to buy anything but her own lil personals. i don’t understand why she doesn’t have more $ saved.” I told her u better sit her down and tell her to give u xyz on the 1st(chk day). By the time the agreed move out time comes around, you know that money is banked! She did it, it worked out well!! mama was ready when the time came!!
It's hard to live with anyone these days. Best to live alone like I've always said. Smh
People ain't got it like that to be living alone.
Which is why, if you agree to something, follow it.
AMEN
This is precisely why I didn't do roommates at all! People are waaaay too entitled these days, very self centered and disrespectful to everyone else. I don't know where that came from but people really do have this attitude of I need to do what's best for me and *** everybody else, even when "everybody else" is the one helping them.
@@ddavis8988 You mean "living a lone in Columbus". Better go to Youngstown, like judge said.
@Adrian Knight AKA Prince It's not hard to live with others when the people have good sense and common decency. It is best to live alone if that is your preference or you don't have good sense and common decency. Many are cosigning your comment(s) w/o knowing your background (that you present regularly) which would explain why it is best FOR YOU to live alone. Do you have any other options?
Sister was afforded grace. However, when it came to visits by her boyfriend, she attempted to 'run game' by sneaking him into the house breaking the house rules. As the judge said, the sister and boyfriend had many options for getting together to talk. The issue is the girlfriend wanted a stable living place but loved the part she spent with her boyfriend. The problem is that now the mess gets brought to her brother and wife's doorstep. Naw, keep your toxicity 'over there' somewhere else. And no men allowed.
Could've come up with some type of
agreement instead of you sneaking ya
big grown toxic boyfriend in the room 🤣
Their house , their rules.. period!
Nothing more to say.
If you're doing bad you can't even get your own place then you have a boyfriend who doesn't have his own place either.....what's the point ?!
Such a beautiful ending. Hope this family continues to heal
Finally got your family, brother seems like a very upstanding guy. Don't ruin a family tie over foolishness.
I appreciate that the defendant apologized at the end. It seemed sincere and genuine, I hope the mainly made amends.
Damn I hate that the grandma didn’t take her… but took the other 5 siblings…. I know that’s gotta make her feel some type of way…. I wouldn’t care how many or HOW bad I struggled ain’t no way I’d allow my grandkids to go into foster care…if y’all had to sleep 3 to a bed on the couch palates on the floor… aint no telling what that young lady endured ….I hope they can get over this and have a healthy happy relationship w/ each other…
I am repeating. YOU (WE) do not know the situation. WHY are you just assuming that the grandmother made the decision of not taking the defendant, but taking the other children? What is your evidence for that assumption?
The defendant looks like she a problem. Also if she has a man then she can stay with him or visit at his house!
Awww I am happy that they seem like they're gonna try to move forward and past this.
Don’t bring strangers around children. The parents didn’t want that so respect it.
Their house, their rules! It doesn’t matter what your children’s genders are. Boys must be protected from adults as much as girls. And I am sorry, that man behind Essence is giving me BTK killer vibe😢
exactly. And i don’t care if that room was on pluto. she was a family member that needed a place to stay but they wasn’t letting her live for free. This wasn’t no , regular tenant rental even though it kinda is. she knows what that rule was.
Girl go pay rent at a hotel or you & your bf get a place with your 400. I wouldn’t had even let her move into my home. Let alone move in and getting busy while my children are in the house !
Exactly!✊🏾✊🏾
Same
Why the boyfriend didn’t have a place for her to live at???
They seem like good people they’ll work things out but when you in somebody home you gotta go by there rules 🤷🏽♀️
So glad that guy didn’t completely ruin their relationship to move forward. We all need support in our lives 🙏🏾
She don't wanna burn them bridges. She might gotta move back in real soon😂
"Any defense to not paying mam???"
Crickets chirping
The sister is unappreciative and not very understanding of home ownership
Yeah should have left her and that toxic boyfriend sort themselves out
I’m glad they hugged it out at the end Ohio we have stand together we all we got
How sad Grandma didnt have room for 6.. what the heck, this Gramma would have made room for 1 more❤
But how do you know that that is how it went down?
Love the ending!
Successful young lady getting kicked out of a home because of a man.
Right. Jeopardized her own housing for someone who couldn’t/wouldn’t take her in 🙄
If they told her grown ass that her boyfriend couldn't stay there then she should have respected their rules. Bottom you don't call shots in someone else's house she lucky they let her stay there.
That's terrible that the sister couldn't be with the grandmother too. Where was their father?
Yeah that was wrong she should’ve took all of them in!!!
@@BigBecky25 the father shouldn't stick them with grandma.
Think about it. The brother says the mother was on drugs, imagine some real-life scenarios about where the "father" or "fathers" could have been.
@@BigBecky25 Why didn't she? Do you know? How do you know? Specifically, what was wrong about it?
I commend them on not wanting Men (besides their Father) around their children GOOD FOR THEM!!! So often people have strangers/boyfriends etc around their children, you already have to be cautious of ppl u KNOW so you have to be even more cautious of ppl u don’t know. She’s talking about her “boyfriend” why didn’t her boyfriend step up and find THEM somewhere to LIVE!? She’s comfortable as a grown Woman lying up in SOMEONE’S home with a Man that isn’t TRYING to get you out of that situation!? Tambout her “BOYFRIEND” chile please!
You such an adult get your own place no men or strangers around children period. Gotta protect your own.
Her and boyfriend shoulda got a room or whatever. She’s acting like a teenager and don’t understand why they treating her like one. Simple respect of the house though. My house, my rules.💁🏾♀️Get with it or get lost.
teenagers don't typically pay rent
@@Nevaeh1 she paid 400 out of a 1200 rent be frl and she ain’t have to pay utilities
Sounds like she wasn't raised properly. If you was raised you know better.
If I am paying you rent then that is my home too
@@Nevaeh1 but they infamously sneak boys in instead of having an adult conversation about negotiating the terms of residency. That alone is enough for me to question her ‘adult’ decision making skills. What if that man robbed in the middle of the night? Same sentiment?
Just because the people you are staying with are charging you a little rent doesn't mean you can do what you want like it's your house. You are still a guest just renting out a room! Your name is not on a lease and you don't have a private space. It's not even that complicated. Do you book a hotel for a night and say "well since I'm paying for it I can break and make the rules!" No. Stop playing dumb.
Especially with children...and for those who want to submit their children to SA by significant others they can go right ahead but they don't get to submit someone else's kids to SA for some companionship...and for those who say he's not like that...yeah you don't know how he is until the situation presents itself...he just may be like that. Stop letting the vagina do the talking and start letting the common sense talk.
She should’ve went to the bf house if she wanted to see him so bad.
He was staying with his mom but the mom didn't want him having anybody over.
Hate she got split up from her siblings..I believe when grandparents do that they have a reason other than it being too many..especially if it was the dad's mother..Grown people just need to have their own it hardly works out..their house their rules especially when they have kids and don't want just anyone around them..I think thats how she used to living felt no one cared to keep her so she didnt care about their rules
How do you know if it was all up to the grandmother? What if it was a judicial decision? What if it was related to the actions of other relatives?
SIS YOU JUST DONT GET IT ------UNFORTUNATELY
People that want to do what they want to do should live independently.. they need to keep employment and pay their way at their own place
That's what I have always thought. Sounds very reasonable and simple.
@@sereneamani1713 some ppl don’t want bilities… responsibility, accountability, sustainability, reliability etc
I hear and experience this too too much, when people think they can do what they want in someone else's house.
This is exactly why I don't help anyone or let then live with me anymore.
Idk I feel like if you can’t take all of them they don’t take any of them. I can only imagine the emotional and mental impact to feel betrayed by your parents and then your grandparent to say “ok I’ll take everyone BUT her”.
Exactly! I feel the same way. It makes me wonder why the grandmother wouldn’t take her and took the rest. 😢 I just don’t see how she could make that decision, but I’m not judging because it’s more than one side to a story.
That's so very sad
I don’t agree with the “all or none” response. I don’t know of any single personal who would be in a position to adopt 6 kids all at once.
I think it would have been good for the grandmother to at least get visitation.
I agree..and looking at her she is wearing that pain still till today
@@TheeMichellesMind Right. Because we don't know what the situation was. It's possible that the brother and sister don't know the whole story. The way you cast the grandmother as "wouldn't take her" and wonder "how she could make that decision" is unfair IMO. We don't know if it was a matter of she "wouldn't" or if it was actually HER decision.
The sisters needs to understand that when you are in other people's home, you have to abide by their rules. I agree with the sister-in-law that had she just came to her and communicate it, they could have worked things out. The sister seems like she doesn't want to take accountability for anything. I'm glad they were able to hug at the end
I'm pretty sure the plaintiff didn't want the defendant moving in with them but she went along with it because of the situation between her husband and his long-lost sister and as a woman, to have to open up her home to a stranger is a big task, especially with small children and then the defendant gets too comfortable with paying "rent" and feels like she has "authority" in this woman's home to bring in another man, an absolute stranger into these people's house is beyond me. And the defendant really doesn't see a problem with it, smh she's a paying guest, it's no different than staying at a hotel that also has rules and regs. That was a huge red flag on the defendant, asking to move in with them and they had only just reconnected after however many years.
He shamed tf out her at the end lmao 🤣🤣🤣🤣💯
Hopefully when she have kids she'll understand about having strange men around them
Unfortunately, the strange men may be the father of her kids if she doesn't learn some lessons soon.
And people wonder why I don't let anyone move into my Penthouse #BachelorGang #NYC #NoKidsGang
Do people really wonder? Why do they care?
@@sereneamani1713 🤡
@@King-Killa-Ca 🤡. Hopefully the Ca doesn't stand for my state.
I like the way this one ended. No hared feelngs or animosity shown and an apology! I hope tht she has been able to do better in life!!
“I feel like……” = I know I’m wrong but I’m grown
You paying rent but not at your house fam 😂😂
Hey, Judge Mathis Family!!❤❤
I'm glad they were able to make a mends to the situation. At the end of the day, they are still family. Just respect ppl s RULE'S!
In all cases when kids are lost it's because of bad parenting always results in drugs and alcohol SMH
Prayers up to this family 🙏🏾🙏🏾 I also think they love her but were showing her tough love in regards to they household which is needed. Happy to see they hug at the end, life is already hard but having a great family and support system can make it better
I wonder why the grandmother kept 4 children and gave her away that so sad
Better to wonder if that how things actually happened. The courts might have had some sort of say to in the matter.
Your flesh will bring deception and your Spirit will bring Perception! If you walk in the flesh you will be deceived, if you walk in the spirit you will perceive! Perceive means to discern, recognize, become aware of, become conscious of, come to know, distinguish, grasp, understand, take in, make out, find, identify, hit on, and comprehend! Once you perceive, then you’ll believe, so you can receive!!!!
She just bought bad energy into them people home. YOU GOT TO PROTECT YOUR ENERGY
Sounds like they shouldn't have allowed a "perfely" stranger into their home😂 especially a hood rodent with no regard for anyone else & distorted priorities
😂🤣 not perfely
😂😂😂😂 u petty
Not tonight😂😂gn
This gotta be old cuz 1200 for a 4bedroom is precovid prices... unless they're in the hood 🥴
If her boyfriend had a house they could go there,but apparently doesn’t have his own place either
The wife rubbed me wrong. She was overly petty, you can tell the husband is the calm one
Definitely got petty vibes ..wig told it all
How was she petty? Sincerely asking.
@@LeshaFBaby Astute comment. Wig-reading is a thing?
@@sereneamani1713the wife was right !!
wow....a whole class of good folk who just had communication problems...🤩
Great ending...
That ending is how I like to see my folk act like they got some got dang sense and love each other at the end of the day
Damn grandma took all but her.
How did you arrive at that conclusion? What were the facts behind the situation? What is the grandmother's decision to take everyone but her? How do you know?
@@sereneamani1713 run along
I’m glad they made up because that’s what important
Heavy on the not paying high rent in Youngstown. I’m not moving. I’ll just vacation.
He does demolition and living with his mother why you didn’t go over to his mothers house???
I love how this case ended….. on a positive note 😊
Folks need to STOP Claiming to be Helping People. . . SMH! The Little Wife IS Going to HAVE Another DAY!
The defendant think she's slick, No man in my house especially when I'm not home...aint nobody screwing in my house but me..u don't like the rules go somewhere else to live.. Point, Blank, Periodt
Beautiful ending ❤❤
Awww she needs family, but has to learn respect
It's not what you do but how you do it, RESPECT PPL'S HOME if he so much of your man put money together and get y'all on place, don't question the rules if don't like it make other plans.
So easy. So simple.
The problem Is you take your $400 ❤❤where they will allow your boyfriend ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Problem solved.
Family ❤
I skipped the beginning and went straight to the actual case..
I’m reading these comments my peace of mind and praise praising the wonderful couple his wife or girl ,woman is on point about hers and mines and her man because he’s all of that so … people you can’t come in a happy Home 🏠 and then try to brake or rip it up they both gonna tell you about yourself because they are a true couple they are 1 one ☝️ together and they are not a force to be reckoned with so why try with your bad disrespectful ass not trying to follow the House 🏠 rules don’t come there and try to break up there Peaceful happy home and respectful space … girl bye you better be lucky 🍀 they still trying to help and deal with you ❤
just cant be nice to folks.. 🤦🏾♀️
Never let a person move in your house, no matter the sob story. It never ends well. Experience talking of 50 years.
That’s the number one rule in any book don’t allow anyone to live with you. I don’t care how sad their story is. I don’t care if it’s a relative don’t allow anyone to move in with you.
I have family in Youngstown ❤
Honestly i rather watch JM older stuff than new. I see why he is no longer a judge on national TV ANYMORE. HE HAS NOT BEEN MAKING GOOD JUDGMENT CALLS LATELY 😢
According to you and others. However, there's no apparent or provable correlation between what you think and why this particular show was cancelled. According to what you see, why do you think People's Court was cancelled? I am sincerely interested in your opinion. Also, in your opinion, what was wrong with this particular judgment?