John Gray: you are the holy grail of relationships🙏🏻 Love all your teachings! I ordered your new book “Beyond Mars and Venus” in Dutch language and can’t wait to learn more of your genius teachings. Bless you
Am I hearing right!? This from John Gray!? This is gold. I have become more spiritual upon finding what ‘who I am’ means. What this has done has thrown away the “who _should_ do what, when, and how” element to dating and relationships. Finding that woman who has the same thinking and activities is not an easy one.
Thank you John, For sharing your wisdom and helping us to understand and fix the mistakes that destroy a relationship. You are an angel! 😇... I’m your Fan #1. God bless you...❤️❤️👍🙏🏼
So great. I'm single at the moment but I'm really looking forward to having a relationship that incorporates the higher spirit. Thank you for saying it's possible - not to mention giving great tips on how to make it happen. Wonderful gift.
I think he still does. This is the "Jane Austen" approach of the lady strategically dropping her handkerchief. It's just been upgraded. Making eye contact briefly could be one way to do it. Giving him the signal that it's ok for him to approach you.
I am frustrated right now! I have like zero men interested in getting to know me. Barely get men interested in taking me on dates, and when we go on date quite rapidly they make it clear they want sex. Depending where I am at, I do have sex with them or not, result is the same... they vanish. Men admit they see me as a sensual being, yet do not ‘feel’ it 😖 What should I do to find a partner? I apply all you explain in Mars/Venus (I have all the books) for over 6 years not 1 guy sticks. All say how wonderful I am, yet do not stick. There must be something I do to not inspire them to stay. Really sad here 😢
Nathalie I am no expert. I just starting dating and I wonder why the fuck anyone hardly sends a message. Anyway, please be yourself. I am listening to TH-cam a lot to learn how to date, to improve my skills. I strongly believe we need to be true to ourselves, we need to be patient. We women tend to give up easily ... society has changed a lot. Little we can do about it. Yet I love to believe there are still good men out there. Good luck !!!
If uve worked on you and giving yourself love and care thats all you can do. sometimes its them there are so many men that dont know how to work on themselves. Idk if you believe in praying but whatever you believe follow it. 💜 Its better to be alone than with a person thats not gona give you what you need and its hard.
Its very very hard because men do not want nothing serious anymore they learned that they can be bythemselfs and be ok about it .woman are too easy giving them the sex with out any feelings involve at all ..i been trying for 7 yrs already and no matter what i do , nothing works anymore with men ..its all about casual dates ! Terrible ..so i stop caring . I can also be single and happy 😁
OK I am confused now. Two days ago I discovered John Gray, with his clear message - don't go with the man who you turned on right away. Then John explains how it suppose to be - a man pick you, he asks you out, you go out with him even if you are not attracted to him. If he likes you a lot, he will start doing things for you, therefore opening your heart for liking him more and more.....But now this message is just opposite of what I listened to few days back.
I feel what you're saying, If you listen to the way he is describing how a woman should choose their mate, is knowing that the man would be a compatible & SAFE mate, a good choice. not just choosing a mate cause you're sexually attracted/infatuated with him. Normally the good guys we dismiss could be a good fit to us, thats why he suggest to be open minded toward men we wouldn't normally date, This doesn't mean date every man tho, like saying yes to everyone who asks you out in hope to find the one. You wouldn't want to say yes to a guy who feels unsafe to you, who triggers you, who ignores you, who just doesn't feel right. I find that usually the energy, whether or not someone feels safe to us is showed to us in the beginning. if you're feeling anxiety, "butterflies", like you're unable to be yourself, that person may be an unsafe partner & not one you should say yes to. I find that after watching his videos, they made me super aware about alot of things & how I do actually feel safe around guys that I don't consider "my type" I think its all about self awareness & listening to your intuition when it comes to how someone energetically feels. If you feel safe in their presence, thats the first step to see if you guys are compatible. I know I wrote alot, but I hope it helped.
@@innergs9586 Thank you for providing an amazing explanation. This is so helpful for me. It can be really confusing sometimes to navigate the whole relationship thing. It's so important to do it consciously.
Great advise!!! Subtile first move on my part puts me Often in the friendzone 😂 Got 3 new great friends lately, none is making a real move... I’ll have to get less subtile without chasing!!! Man, I just want one of them to persue me!!!
Doctor Gray, This is so Funny, I think the “ leaving the shoe 👠 “ for the man to find and then go search for the woman the shoe fits “ only works in the story of “ Cinderella “. 😂Hahahahaha 😂, if a woman were to leave a shoe 👠 for a man to find these days, he could possibly pick it up, wonder “ who lost her shoe?”, and then, toss it into a garbage bin. 5:02
I agree with this value as well!! 🥰However, i know it’s biological for men to have the drive and sexual interest in a woman, but that doesn’t mean he shouldn’t be disciplined in himself 🧡🧡I believe they should both have strong values in having an emotional connection before intimacy.
Thats interesting. First of all, some profound acknowledgement of the spiritual, would venture to say welcoming the Spirit, bravo. Only two steps away ... And trying to think how to reframe the metaphor now that it sounds as though he has adapted his views to one of fem/masc balance in each person. "Men are from Mars but vacation in Venus, Women are from Venus but attend grad school on Mars"? Lol or "homosapiens in space, a foot on each planet, they straddle the universe? Lol idk. But excellent info, on point.
I get asked out a lot here in Colorado, but I Hate this state, I'm just here for school and that's it, im like saltwater fishing, traveling to Hawaii, Bermuda for fishing only. but these women get mad at me for rejecting them. i have no use for the mountains or skiing. I just love to fish in the ocean, swim, and travel. but I hate living on land.
Maybe you should open yourself up to more experiences but if you like living in your narrow mindset, you're lucky 70% of the earth is salt water. Have you ever tried fly fishing in a mountain stream?
Please, that is NOT rape. Rapes do happen and 1 in 4 young girls or women will be violated by a man. Please don't minimize that. You sound like an apologist for predators.
John, I respect you and learn from you. But I am tired. It is too much responsibility for a women. Do men have any intelligence and logic? If I was a men I would pursue a women from beginning to end and be ready for any rejection. Time to grow up.
Always raised to wait on the man . Thx for the video.
same here!
Thank you, Dr. Gray. I read your book 30 years ago and I still enjoy listening to your advice. Thanks again!
Thank you, 😊 even in 70, I love listening to your information, outstanding
John Gray: you are the holy grail of relationships🙏🏻 Love all your teachings! I ordered your new book “Beyond Mars and Venus” in Dutch language and can’t wait to learn more of your genius teachings. Bless you
YOU ARE A TRUE PROFESSIONAL !!!!!
Excellent presentation. I shared on my FB page
Fantastic in the most Real sense. Such good support of humanity. I Agree. Now to accomplish it in Faith and trust. Take care.
Am I hearing right!? This from John Gray!? This is gold. I have become more spiritual upon finding what ‘who I am’ means. What this has done has thrown away the “who _should_ do what, when, and how” element to dating and relationships. Finding that woman who has the same thinking and activities is not an easy one.
Thank you John, For sharing your wisdom and helping us to understand and fix the mistakes that destroy a relationship. You are an angel! 😇... I’m your Fan #1. God bless you...❤️❤️👍🙏🏼
So great. I'm single at the moment but I'm really looking forward to having a relationship that incorporates the higher spirit. Thank you for saying it's possible - not to mention giving great tips on how to make it happen. Wonderful gift.
I think it's more a matter of focus and intent on what you want, and then the universe manifesting it.
Ok John Iam listening to all your videos the Hormone difference is astonishing 😊🙏🏻
Call me old fashioned but I want the man to ask me out.. 😏
I think he still does. This is the "Jane Austen" approach of the lady strategically dropping her handkerchief. It's just been upgraded.
Making eye contact briefly could be one way to do it. Giving him the signal that it's ok for him to approach you.
Thank you for this information. You go off track from time to time,but it is interesting.
This is just incredible, priceless!
Thanks so much! 🍀💖🙏💖🍀
Yes have fun
I like your passion on this matter
2:16 Day Date
3:45 Women make the first move
Thank u im older so i didnt know if it was ok to drop a hint😀 I think you are amazing hope that is not inappropriate
Great message
This is SOO great!! I would love to see the whole interview. Do you know where i can find it, please?
Amazing videoI am interested in the field of relationships skills
Thank you John Gray. Great explanation.
I am frustrated right now!
I have like zero men interested in getting to know me.
Barely get men interested in taking me on dates, and when we go on date quite rapidly they make it clear they want sex. Depending where I am at, I do have sex with them or not, result is the same... they vanish.
Men admit they see me as a sensual being, yet do not ‘feel’ it 😖
What should I do to find a partner?
I apply all you explain in Mars/Venus (I have all the books) for over 6 years not 1 guy sticks. All say how wonderful I am, yet do not stick.
There must be something I do to not inspire them to stay.
Really sad here 😢
Nathalie I am no expert. I just starting dating and I wonder why the fuck anyone hardly sends a message. Anyway, please be yourself. I am listening to TH-cam a lot to learn how to date, to improve my skills. I strongly believe we need to be true to ourselves, we need to be patient. We women tend to give up easily ... society has changed a lot. Little we can do about it. Yet I love to believe there are still good men out there. Good luck !!!
If uve worked on you and giving yourself love and care thats all you can do. sometimes its them there are so many men that dont know how to work on themselves. Idk if you believe in praying but whatever you believe follow it. 💜 Its better to be alone than with a person thats not gona give you what you need and its hard.
As well as John I look at Abraham Hicks if you want look for finding the perfect man by her
Its very very hard because men do not want nothing serious anymore they learned that they can be bythemselfs and be ok about it .woman are too easy giving them the sex with out any feelings involve at all ..i been trying for 7 yrs already and no matter what i do , nothing works anymore with men ..its all about casual dates ! Terrible ..so i stop caring . I can also be single and happy 😁
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You are so amazing
Yes
🙌🏽 Bravo!
Where is the full workshop link?
Gods way or NO WAY!!!!!
OK I am confused now. Two days ago I discovered John Gray, with his clear message - don't go with the man who you turned on right away. Then John explains how it suppose to be - a man pick you, he asks you out, you go out with him even if you are not attracted to him. If he likes you a lot, he will start doing things for you, therefore opening your heart for liking him more and more.....But now this message is just opposite of what I listened to few days back.
I feel what you're saying, If you listen to the way he is describing how a woman should choose their mate, is knowing that the man would be a compatible & SAFE mate, a good choice. not just choosing a mate cause you're sexually attracted/infatuated with him. Normally the good guys we dismiss could be a good fit to us, thats why he suggest to be open minded toward men we wouldn't normally date, This doesn't mean date every man tho, like saying yes to everyone who asks you out in hope to find the one. You wouldn't want to say yes to a guy who feels unsafe to you, who triggers you, who ignores you, who just doesn't feel right. I find that usually the energy, whether or not someone feels safe to us is showed to us in the beginning. if you're feeling anxiety, "butterflies", like you're unable to be yourself, that person may be an unsafe partner & not one you should say yes to. I find that after watching his videos, they made me super aware about alot of things & how I do actually feel safe around guys that I don't consider "my type" I think its all about self awareness & listening to your intuition when it comes to how someone energetically feels. If you feel safe in their presence, thats the first step to see if you guys are compatible. I know I wrote alot, but I hope it helped.
I think hes just saying its ok to drop a hint. Then let him chase after that.
@@innergs9586 Thank you for providing an amazing explanation. This is so helpful for me. It can be really confusing sometimes to navigate the whole relationship thing. It's so important to do it consciously.
@@innergs9586 I'm with you on that. Eye candy will only get you in trouble. You need to know the inner being...
@@innergs9586You've articulated this very well and it was helpful. Thanks.
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You would go a looooooong way before you found a woman who has not been sexually abused in some manner.
Yes transitioning is taking place now as people are asking Where is God and he's been here all the time
What if its been 4-5 dates and the women gives clear signals and the man never tries to kiss? Maybe the man isn't that attracted?
Great advise!!! Subtile first move on my part puts me Often in the friendzone 😂
Got 3 new great friends lately, none is making a real move... I’ll have to get less subtile without chasing!!!
Man, I just want one of them to persue me!!!
Do THEY put you in the friendzone? Are they very explicit about it doing so?
Doctor Gray, This is so Funny, I think the “ leaving the shoe 👠 “ for the man to find and then go search for the woman the shoe fits “ only works in the story of “ Cinderella “. 😂Hahahahaha 😂, if a woman were to leave a shoe 👠 for a man to find these days, he could possibly pick it up, wonder “ who lost her shoe?”, and then, toss it into a garbage bin. 5:02
No sex until MARRIAGE!!!! WHATS WRONG WITH YOU!!
I agree with this value as well!! 🥰However, i know it’s biological for men to have the drive and sexual interest in a woman, but that doesn’t mean he shouldn’t be disciplined in himself 🧡🧡I believe they should both have strong values in having an emotional connection before intimacy.
It's 1 out of 6 and 95% involve alcohol
Thats interesting. First of all, some profound acknowledgement of the spiritual, would venture to say welcoming the Spirit, bravo. Only two steps away ...
And trying to think how to reframe the metaphor now that it sounds as though he has adapted his views to one of fem/masc balance in each person. "Men are from Mars but vacation in Venus, Women are from Venus but attend grad school on Mars"? Lol or "homosapiens in space, a foot on each planet, they straddle the universe? Lol idk. But excellent info, on point.
I get asked out a lot here in Colorado, but I Hate this state, I'm just here for school and that's it, im like saltwater fishing, traveling to Hawaii, Bermuda for fishing only. but these women get mad at me for rejecting them. i have no use for the mountains or skiing. I just love to fish in the ocean, swim, and travel. but I hate living on land.
Just say yes! If the other person ist not willing to move with you, they are not the one. Maybe they hate colorado, too!
Maybe you should open yourself up to more experiences but if you like living in your narrow mindset, you're lucky 70% of the earth is salt water.
Have you ever tried fly fishing in a mountain stream?
@@Pascals_Wager yeah. went fly fishing. did go into an old mine up in Blackhawk.
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Please, that is NOT rape. Rapes do happen and 1 in 4 young girls or women will be violated by a man. Please don't minimize that. You sound like an apologist for predators.
Darwinism is a theory and not related God created us beautifully change of Kind doesn’t not exist however adaption of species is real
Otherwise you will get nowhere
John, I respect you and learn from you. But I am tired. It is too much responsibility for a women. Do men have any intelligence and logic? If I was a men I would pursue a women from beginning to end and be ready for any rejection. Time to grow up.
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