My now ex hit me with the "lets just be friends" by text no less. I replied simply "goodbye". Blocked her on FB and haven't spoken to her directly since. I have been NC 1 month now. Issue is I am her boss and even worse no one knew we were together. this happened on a Sunday so I had to take it all in very rapidly. I had to show up to work brave face like nothing had happened which i think is the best move rather than no show and show you are angry or upset over it. I avoided her like the plague for the first week or so, but if i had to deal with her i would remain polite and treat her like a normal employee. "Fake it till you make it" applies here too. I was still my usual smart ass self around the office laughing putting on a facade but underneath i was hurting, I just never showed it. Something happens around the 2 week mark of NC it just starts to fade. I couldnt give a shit about her now.
@@xtevyn i worked with an ex too and its really hard, but it sounds like you handled it perfectly mate. And you're so right about how no contact works too. Well done mate 👍👍
Going through this myself. Except she's seated right next to my desk, and she went with another guy in the office. The sneak away together by a room that isn't used often that's near my desk. I have to watch them every single day. I'll try this method and see how it goes; thanks much.
@@brandonwilliams7464 mate thats rough, can imagine how hard it must be. But you can deal with this mate, remind yourself, its HER loss, not yours. Everyday is an opportunity to prove how strong you are, because you are. There is no way this sitiation will bring you down. You're better than that. You got this mate 💪
Solid advise. It’s not easy to get over someone you love, but having a mindset that you have better things ahead for you than this person. Treat yourself as the catch, as the diamond and your ex will be shocked at the fact that they can’t break you.
@@kiddytube3915 100%. Being your own biggest fan isnt about ego or arrogance, its just recognising and valuing yourself. Thanks for the positive feedback 😊
My now ex hit me with the "lets just be friends" by text no less. I replied simply "goodbye". Blocked her on FB and haven't spoken to her directly since. I have been NC 1 month now. Issue is I am her boss and even worse no one knew we were together. this happened on a Sunday so I had to take it all in very rapidly. I had to show up to work brave face like nothing had happened which i think is the best move rather than no show and show you are angry or upset over it. I avoided her like the plague for the first week or so, but if i had to deal with her i would remain polite and treat her like a normal employee. "Fake it till you make it" applies here too. I was still my usual smart ass self around the office laughing putting on a facade but underneath i was hurting, I just never showed it. Something happens around the 2 week mark of NC it just starts to fade. I couldnt give a shit about her now.
@@xtevyn i worked with an ex too and its really hard, but it sounds like you handled it perfectly mate. And you're so right about how no contact works too. Well done mate 👍👍
You're like to yourself I thought you never wanted to see me ever again and you keep seeing each other.
It can be confusing, but you have to put whats best for you first.
Going through this myself. Except she's seated right next to my desk, and she went with another guy in the office.
The sneak away together by a room that isn't used often that's near my desk. I have to watch them every single day.
I'll try this method and see how it goes; thanks much.
@@brandonwilliams7464 mate thats rough, can imagine how hard it must be. But you can deal with this mate, remind yourself, its HER loss, not yours. Everyday is an opportunity to prove how strong you are, because you are. There is no way this sitiation will bring you down. You're better than that. You got this mate 💪
Needed this, two kids 50/50 care, but a 3-2-2 split makes no contact impossible
@@rogerwaters2724 hope it helps mate. Ive been through similar so i know how hard it can be, but stick with it mate 👍
Solid advise. It’s not easy to get over someone you love, but having a mindset that you have better things ahead for you than this person.
Treat yourself as the catch, as the diamond and your ex will be shocked at the fact that they can’t break you.
@@kiddytube3915 100%. Being your own biggest fan isnt about ego or arrogance, its just recognising and valuing yourself. Thanks for the positive feedback 😊