Mate you are doing fine, keep posting and reaching out. Eat some good food, have a desert, a glass of wine. Go for a walk in the park. Life is beautiful mate
So true the words.. I'm so lonely I could die. Yes God was lonely that's why he made Adam. Then thought Adam must be lonely too? So he made Eve... People we're not meant to be by themselves.. Thank you for sharing..
hay this popped up on my feed the thing I see is that allowing yourself to be emotionally vulnerable is usually a sign of being able to be grounded enough to face reality - it can be rough You are cool
wow, you made my day i self-disclose not sure many people like it no planned written stuff except occasionally visit my site again since i bought a $5 blue hat yesterday
Lots of people want to talk! Thank you for your courage in making that video. Don't die!!!! You're already helping people who are also lonely. Your life has purpose
I am almost 60. I love being alone. I have so many things I can and need to do. I"m constantly learning. I can't handle small talk. I love silence. I have animals, a garden, hobbies. I don't think I will ever feel what so many ppl feel. I think most people aren't aware of how good it feels, how nice to have silence, to do what you want, when you want. I think ppl are habituated with company, and never considered learning to enjoy his/her own company. And if you don't like your own company, well, who will?
Loneliness is a sign that God wants to have a relationship with you...and ONLY you!....He loves you....(and all of the people that He's made)....but have you ever noticed that people living busy happy lives could care less about having a relationship with God? God will often use pain and suffering to bring you closer to Him. Don't give up... that's just thoughts from the enemy... Focus on a relationship with God...and use your pain and suffering to help other people online going through the same thing ( because helping others gets our minds off of our own problems and gives us a sense of purpose in life....God Bless You!...You are a Child of God and you are SPECIAL!!!!
Hi Bobby, while my life was not as it should have been much of my life I got to know Jesus at age 9. Now I talk with him 1 to 2 hours a night while in bed waiting to go asleep. Also during the day. Nice to meet another Christian. Merry Christmas. And thanks for watching my video and writing to me.
you seem like a delightful person jim, for you to be who you are, live as long as you have and still seem like a great lad to be around after how long as its been... and you still holding on to goodness really does make me feel very emotional, you are stronger than you think you are and you make my 21 year old self feel things I will expand and grow from, you mean more than you think you do despite what you're experience shows you, I'm sorry cant do anything to make you feel better, but I know I feel and can relate to you're absence of socialization as it is a Human Need! you're toughness does make me think about my own mortality and perception of who i think i am, although we may be complete strangers us viewers, but we can sense the humanity in one another, and those who can sense that, should care and have humility and compassion for our brothers and sisters who suffer the coldness that life can bring, I appreciate you're effort of making these video's, and i think it'll prove to be a good idea to keep doing them(not worrying about views of course), I wish you get all that is good from this world and god bless you brother
Don't die, Jim. We're never alone, with the internet there's always someone to talk to, I guess thats one of the positive aspects of it. Join a chatroom, make friends, have a zoom call with other "loners" like me too, etc. Even if we can't meet in real life, there's alternatives. I don't know, I'm struggling with this too, I don't have much friends, but I'm just saying it doesn't have to be this way when there's so many of us.
just think of it this way. when you are alone, nobody can disagree with yuo, nobody can tell you what to do, you cannot have an argument or be bullied, you can do whatever you want to do and take however long you need to do it. you can rest when you want and not have any decision called into question.
What an impressive thing to find on TH-cam. A genuine human speaking without fanfare about some realities of life. You brought joy to me and I thank you for that. Such a novel idea, talking to others about what it feels like be you. Inspirational indeed. Subscribed 😊
you made me so happy, Bob. I really feel a disadvantage from having to self-teach myself and not knowing how to even made thumbprints or whatever those small pics are called . . . don't know how to edit so i let the mistakes stay on . . . your kind words made me feel okay about all this . . . thank you and Merry Christmas
I know that song and I understand as we age and we became disable people shun us ,I started a TH-cam channel and I see to so many people that are sad .I hope you and I get to make a difference.
hi michael, just wrote down beingmichael so i can enjoy your channel . . . i used to be a writer and now have lost my interest however talking must be my thing . . . but not what i would like to be on youtube-- i get most of my help on other youtubers or on the phone by steve tevis who has a channel or two. Merry Christmas and thanks for visiting my videos and for writing such kind words to me
You're not alone. I never realized how lonely I am until a few years ago. I explored it - tried to understand it - I guess some of it was good but what I accidentally did was dug a hole for myself. Trying to come out of it now but it's hard when you don't feel like you have a reason to get up in the morning. But, I'm finding little ways that help. Even just cleaning and vacuuming helps me to feel better.
Hello Jim...keep going and keep reaching out to people ...your not alone ..I see you and hear you ...keep going with your channel and we shall follow your progress ...
It sucks to feel alone. It truly does. Finding like minded people is key. Join a poetry or philosophy group/ club. My grandfather started feeling that same feeling. We found a group of ww2 vets that met up on sundays for breakfast. They would just sit and share stories. It made a world of difference for him.
I hear you brother. Its just your thoughts that are making you feel a certain way. Dont argue with the the thoughts; stay present in the moment and stay in tune with your senses and you'll come out of your head
I think you have a way of speaking that makes everyone want to listen. I feel loneliness is a feeling that we have at all ages, but when you get to 60s or 70s (I'm 65) one may feel that they don't feel desirable or perhaps needed/wanted as we once felt. Even though I'm married I feel very lonely due to the fact that affection of any kind is non-existent. However, we are compatible in other ways perhaps, you can say we are contented. Do I miss the hugs and romance? Yes I do, but I certainly enjoy my spouses company. I look at life as a Blessing and a very short journey. Honestly, I see people like you that speaks what they feel and how they feel and it inspires me, you are inspiring. Be and feel what you want, but know you are not alone.
Algorithm brought me here. I want to say that youre not alone. None of us no why we're here or whats the point of it all. I think thats why life isolates some of us, to change, grow, and focus on what comes next. We have souls that dont die. It helps me not to feel lonely if I think about what comes next. I think we'll learn about our purpose and have love and joy in our lives. Hang in there, it will get better. Thanks for sharing and God Bless you.
I am sure wiser people than myself will leave helpful comments on your video. I solved that very same problem you are having many years ago, life since then has been amazing, I am sure yours will be as well.
Have you ever fantasize, going back to your youthful self and just enjoy and not waste every single sec of it and build good relationship to people. It sucks.
I am never lonely, but I know people who are. I am an introvert. I did listen all the way thru and subscribed to help with growing your channel. SHALOM
Hello Jim! Nice to meet you. There is so much I could share with you about the things of life and aging. Before I chat here a while, know that you are not alone in your lonliness. Truly, you aren't. What you are feeling is so understood. It can be gut wrenching and unbearable at times. More times than not. Where to start..hmmm.. I am a senior female who has certainly experienced things of life. The good times, the bad times. Fun and full times to sad days and emptiness. Feeling alone and lonely is painful. From bouquets of friends to only a heart full of cherished memories. The longing for loves, family and friends that filled us from better days gone by. My closest and dearest have had their sunsets young. How I miss my go to " remember when" friends. My whole circle of the most intimate friends are no longer. No more numbers to dial. No get togethers, coffee clutches or silly giggles to be had. I do have only two newer friends, but it is not the same. Superficial pleasantries more like aquiantances. No phone chats, no lunches or things like that. Flat..no connection. Being blunt, one has the personality of a dial tone. Remember those? Lol. To cope, I do a little art, craft and when something hits in the feels, I write. Keep going. I'd love to read your poems. Don't know if you've ever been told, you sound and in a funny, resemble Burl Ives! I moderate a chat for seniors. It is not my channel, I just mod. There is a live chat on TH-cam every Saturday afternoon. West coast 1pm. East coast 4 pm. It goes for an hour. Lots of nice folks and always new joining in. The channel name is " Elder gal". The woman who is the content creator is Allison. She is 69 and dealing with being alone. She is smart, humorous and SO transparent. She is a former teacher ( college) and bereavement councilor. Great content and all seem to enjoy her. She also puts up a video mid week on Wednesdays. Stop in! We'd love to have you. Casual as can be. I am on the east coast and there are folks from all over the world. It is an hour of company. Have a peek! Maybe more about myself as your vids come up. Hang in there Jim. By the grace of God, good things still happen. Made a new friend who is EIGHTY FOUR! Such a kind man. Diabetic, arthritis and his mobility is limited. Uses a cane. I was astounded that he, by himself put new brake pads on my car! Put a rolling kitchen cart together for me that had 187 parts. Takes his time and sits on a chair. He is a neighbor. I have RA ( constant pain) am grateful for Mr. Charlie. Never brags and my thank you's fall on deaf ears. I see his humble fruits. If you know, you know. 🙏 May God keep you and put folks in your path to lift your spirits. May peace, love and friendship fill you to the sky of your soul ~ Keep going! Listened to this as a young girl. I was country when it wasn't cool. th-cam.com/video/4WXYjm74WFI/w-d-xo.htmlsi=uhRNvstBhiq-DorL
Jim, I am in London, UK. Do not underestimate yourself. From what I can see, you are a decent guy. Maybe youtube will be a way to get contacts and support. In the UK you can go down the pub and usually find someone to talk to. I don't know if you have similar things. The first five letters of your surname spells Worth! I am 61, and I can't do tiktok, and I don't care. It is for young posers. You keep doing your thing mate. 👍
Jim I am 72. I have 0 friends in the area I live in. A few people I know. When we get to our age we have few friends. I go to AA but I still drink. I have my 2 doggys, my cat, and my supportive wife for some reason is still with me. But I feel lonely often. So I will be your friend. Take care.
Thanks Rick. Thanks for sharing your experience. My wife is still with me too. I'm 75. I think I have maybe 5 people who would say we are friends but we don't ever get together. Feel free to send a friend request to me on facebook if you are on it. I am listed as Jim Wortham and I will accept your friend request. We can stay in touch. I'm not always on FB but you can always reach me on facebook messenger and I always read that when I'm on FB. Thanks again for sharing.
I've been drinking tonight.. your not alone 😊 . I've been to the point of giving up on life so many times, I can't give up... I love your honesty ❤. Your friend Richard
Hey, New subscriber. I'm from Liverpool uk 🇬🇧 I feel the same way. I have my tiny dog to keep me company. 😊 Please dont fall for these scammers. Try reach out to people locally or try an organised walk or find some activities you can tag along on. Good luck and god bless. 🙏
hi there how are you , i just want to say you are not plain and please know you are not the only one who is lonely out here... big love and hugs from across the pond in UK ... I'm the same i don't have social media I have no facebook or Instagram or x, just utube,, I find social media fake and tiring
"We all have our time machines, don't we? Those who bring us back are memories, those who carry us forward are dreams ..." "If you want something you've never had, you must be willing to do something you've never done" "Having always lived in fear of being suprised by the worst, i have tried in every circumstance to get a head start, flinging myself into misfortune long before it occurred" Tis true my form is something odd. But blaming me is blaming God; Could I create myself anew, I would not fail in pleasing you. If I could reach from pole to pole, Or grasp the ocean with a span, I would be measured by the soul, The mind's the standard of the man.
Hi Jim people can always change the outside but it's the inside that counts and yours comes across really good to me so I think you're doing wonderful in that area and that's the best area to do the best in ✌️♥️💡😇💯 God bless you 🥰
Hang in there bro. I'm in the same boat. I feel useless and I don't see any progress in my future I'm 32 been single for like 7 years Manhattan even met any women since I've been in Texas and just feel like I'm being forced to watch my life slip me by but there's nothing I can seem to do to stop this and I don't have any friends and hang out with my dog all the time and I'm naturally somewhat social person and just don't like the idea of this being all there is to life is just grinding it out at a bullshit job I hate to go home and stare the wall so I can go clock in the next day. Makes me feel like my life is more valuable as a corporate tool than a human created by God. And society shitting on men these days and unless you're Chad has no morals it's hard to do what you got to do to get women's attention cuz I don't have a lot of money and I'm not going to blow my paycheck on them to just make fun of me on social media after the day and just use me as a free meal
theres apps like tinder for friends apparently. one friend would open up your world so much. your young theres just no way your thinking rationally if your living such a secluded life. its so unnatural it makes you think stupid shit
I think a lot of us get lonely. Sometimes it's preferable haha other people being I. Your life can be a responsibility. Not always sunshine and rainbows
I'm 34 im already waiting on God to call me home. Internet is such a drag its better to just go camping and spend time with family till life hits its expiration date.
No I stay off all these sites just do a small bit of one other place and here, and I also do poetry too, but I don't go chasing friends and no matter how lonely I get.. I do my own thing. I stay off the depressing internet as much as possible and keep myself busy. Other peoples' agendas are depressing I find, so you are right to avoid all these places you talk of. I hope you find friends by doing this. Watch out for fake profiles though. You are best sticking to the real world rather than the virtual world. Best wishes.
I happened to be scrolling through and saw your site. I'll be 70 in May and live in a senior housing complex. Just went through a bout of skin melanoma on my scalp and luckily, they got it all. I too have nobody and on weekends sing Karaoke and drink too much. It's all old hat. I totally relate buddy. What's the point?
thanks for writing to me and watching my video i know how you feel i'm 85 and my friends are gone or moved i am not much on being in a social group like the senior citizens club that meets daily for lunch but i am not the type that wants to mix and mingle and more i read at night, maybe watch interesting youtube videos i feel ok but not happy like i think i was when i was younger have a Merry Christmas
I have cancers for second time. Did radiation. Chemo again. I'm 66. Alone but I got a dog from shelter who was nearly killed by owner. Even though I get weak,tired,chemo brain I still walk her. She makes me laugh. Keeps me busy. Handful. I don't think about having cancer. Feeling sorry about myself. I work in my yard. Do art. Painting. I always find things to do. Don't sit around feeling sorry for yourself. Go to a senior center. Have lunch,talk to others. Take a bus to stores,go for walks. Try a hobby. Your the only one that can make you happy. Get out there and enjoy life
With the Lord you are never alone, his words are comfort, his wisdom is like a merry gathering. You are the most boldest shy person I've ever heard of. Most shy people don't walk up to people and strike up a conversation. Nonetheless, I enjoyed hearing your thoughts.be alert about scammers out there, the world is not what it once was. God bless.
You're not alone buddy, majority of men these days do not want to be "un-lonely". Too much hassle to destroy your body working for a woman of whom is 99.8% fake. Fake from head to toe, including inside and out. Social media is destroying modern relationship, from partners to friendships. Hell it's even destroying families.
i'm with you with what you shared . . . i'll just stay in my man cave i used to write poetry books until i lost interest cause too many books were published and mine got lost with the millions still i write but without ambition of publishing (last published 4 books 3 years ago) and about social media, is it now an advertising tool to sell things or to show how you look showing all those pics of oneself yep, i took myself off facebook cause of that thanks for writing to me and for watching my videos Merry Christmas
My brother I'm 63 pretty much alone at all times no phone calls no messages you need the Lord Jesus it's calling to you I need you to be alone and listen I've been over 2 years I'm still on with his presence do you know how he can take all of your pains away can you take your fears you're lonely
'Since my baby left me, I found a new place to dwell', .......you know the tune.......PS: Death is even lonelier !!! We can still make changes when we're alive.
You're alone Lord needs to take distractions away from people at times use the time useful Lord wants to talk to you can you sing the holy Spirit to you I'm not lying to you brother come see me everyday but I have to do my work too
Your a perfect candidate for moving ( running ) to Uruguay and seeing that they consider you so much different and valued. You can get not one, but 10 ladies seeking your days to share. Not whackos like in USA but lots of good women. Rent there is 30% of what it is in USA, bills all together 70% less. We own land in Rocha, and the people there are old school European, no WOKE, no crime, and its a fairly conservative land.
Joe Bonamassa wrote a song called Sloe Gin and the lyrics go “I’m so dam lonely I feel like I’m gonna die” anyway bro you have great hair! Look after yourself
thanks for writing i understand i was 25 once (now 85) hang in there one day at a time what helped me was going to college even though i kept dropping out and going to another college till i finished that allowed me to meet others at that age, and even had some good times then Merry Christmas
Hey beautiful soul, did you know there are places where people who are lonely can hang out at and have a daily schedule? Just go to a psychiatrist or even call a suicide hotline and ask for these kind of places. In Austria they are called Kolping Haus a place for people with psychological issues. I wish you so much Love !
Places where people with depression and fear can have a daily structure doing drawing, playing games, etc. look online for sth like this where you live ....I rooting for you!!!!
Go to gym. Tough part is to make it addictive that starts with 4 days a week at least an hour, won’t be fun but if you push yourself through 3 months, it will be an addiction like cigarettes. In 1 year you’ll be a new man.
its important for a man to become his own best friend. when he does, he no longer needs friends or a woman because he will see their friendship and love isnt real. The only real love a man receives is from himself, animals and maybe children if he has any. Secondly its important to exercise and eat healthy. An unhealthy body leads to an unhealthy mind and spirit. One cannot be happy without good physical health. And its essential to have lots of hobbies that fulfill you All men should garden. Make your own sauce, jerkey ect. All men should play ab instrument as well. And all men should have some kind of hobby that requires him to learn various trades of construction. You dont need people to get rid of loneliness. you need a better relationship with yourself. its not too late. start now. if you continue to seek people and attention to fill the void of loneliness you will always feel lonely. not having people in your life is actually a gift. embrace it.
Hi, I'am Jesus the crist, as seen on the bible. " I AM". Are you not? do you believe in external characters? that's your support? until when? forever and ever? Jeeesus...
i remember burl ives but did not know he was a girl magnet . . . i will start singing on the street conner and see who stops by thanks for your kind words and for visiting my videos
This world will let us down if this is all we got! I’m in my 60’s and I am very happy. Been through a couple divorce’s, one with 4 children that lasted around 20 years. Lost my hair, never got very tall, wear a grey beard that’s over 10 inches long, and I have a wife who turns heads for her age. There’s 4 letter phrase that people use for older women who are very good looking for their age, but I won’t use it here. Is she my happiness? Partially yes, but my true happiness is that Jesus is in my life and has been since 1998. I’m praying for you friend, and I will leave you with the Words of Jesus, John 3:15, Whosoever believes in Him has eternal life. Want to see the worldwide war that threatens us today? Read Revelation 6:4-8 Want to see why those who have placed their faith in Jesus will not be here when it all goes down? Read the Words of Christ Jesus found in Revelation 3:10. Take care of yourself friend, I will be praying for you!
hi brother in Christ, been with Jesus since age 9 now i'm 75 i am not as lonely as i may appear i must have been when i did this video thanks for writing and Merry Christmas and I am so glad you have a lady that turns men's heads..
@@jimwortham4869 I’m glad that you are feeling better, as I did pray for you! Please pray also for me if you will, as I’m in some pain that has lasted a couple weeks. I’m in my lower 60’s, and as we find out when we get older, that physical problems come with age. I really am happy to hear that you are feeling better, praise God for that!
Gotta have a plan for that animal. Most people may not do this but they are sentient, the bond, they depend on that person. If he's lonely, he may not have any family so if he passes, who's going to care for that dog? You gotta think about those things. Also, puppies are a LOT of work. I'm 60 and I don't have the energy a puppy demands. And cats need care too. What in the heck are you saying?
@@23chan you're a scammer commenting at me because a bunch of stalkers and criminals started telling lies about me and pulled the number 60 from the license plate of a rental car I was driving around.
Hi Gabrielle, i'm afraid this world is going the opposite way i was a Christian at age 9 i doing a lot of praying to Jesus day and night Merry Christmas. And thanks for watching my video and writing to me.
Why should a person rate themselves based on who would or wants to date them? Money is what draws people to you and not looks, unless a man or woman is looking for a body to have sex with. For anyones mind to be melded in the way of DATE as in dating is a fixed confused mind. Why would I need to date some human? Instead, if you need human company just go to a coffee shop
You seem like a man who has his wits about him. You are right to be suspicious about people online. If you're a man of faith have you considered going through your local place of worship to see if there are women in your area looking for companionship?
Christ is the truth, the way and the life..Jesus Christ paid a necessary price so that plain folks like you and I can call out to Christ and receive the Holy Spirit. Through this free gift we come know peace and real joy. We can be guided in all your ways..I pray for you dear soul, in the name of JESUS, I pray that GOD touches your heart in a new way. YESS! I pray that the Lord's love, joy and peace come over you, revealing your wholeness in Christ! Amen! ✌️♥️🙏😊
No body outside yourself can override your thoughts so your wasting time spans we all pass aways like springs head toward winter can get chivvers yet just ask for help yourself.
Mate you are doing fine, keep posting and reaching out. Eat some good food, have a desert, a glass of wine. Go for a walk in the park. Life is beautiful mate
So true the words.. I'm so lonely I could die. Yes God was lonely that's why he made Adam. Then thought Adam must be lonely too? So he made Eve...
People we're not meant to be by themselves..
Thank you for sharing..
hay this popped up on my feed
the thing I see is that allowing yourself to be emotionally vulnerable is usually a sign of being able to be grounded enough to face reality - it can be rough
You are cool
wow, you made my day i self-disclose not sure many people like it no planned written stuff except occasionally visit my site again since i bought a $5 blue hat yesterday
I hate what people and the world do to good people.
No one is just good...or we wouldn't be here.
Lots of people want to talk! Thank you for your courage in making that video. Don't die!!!! You're already helping people who are also lonely. Your life has purpose
What purpose ??? Ur so insane
@@LesleyMcmillan-z9pIts not necessary for everyone to know certain things. Accept you’re not in the loop and move on. No need to be snarky😊
@bobwoww8384 lol yeah am grateful I'm not in the loop for U loopy nutters
If you can conquer loneliness, you can conquer anything. Keep fighting the good fight, Brother.
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I am almost 60. I love being alone. I have so many things I can and need to do. I"m constantly learning. I can't handle small talk. I love silence. I have animals, a garden, hobbies. I don't think I will ever feel what so many ppl feel. I think most people aren't aware of how good it feels, how nice to have silence, to do what you want, when you want. I think ppl are habituated with company, and never considered learning to enjoy his/her own company. And if you don't like your own company, well, who will?
U can't help ppl like him, they always have an excuse for why they can't do anything. They just love wallowing in self pity.
So @@LesleyMcmillan-z9p why you watching this video?
Why you watching?
goof for u... becuz loneliness is horrible.
@Woof-Woof-Woof-rm9tz whinge whinge whinge, his pathetic.
You’ve already helped so many thousands with this vudeo alone and will always help all that have seen it
Watching you from the UK. Just subscribed.
Loneliness is a sign that God wants to have a relationship with you...and ONLY you!....He loves you....(and all of the people that He's made)....but have you ever noticed that people living busy happy lives could care less about having a relationship with God? God will often use pain and suffering to bring you closer to Him. Don't give up... that's just thoughts from the enemy... Focus on a relationship with God...and use your pain and suffering to help other people online going through the same thing ( because helping others gets our minds off of our own problems and gives us a sense of purpose in life....God Bless You!...You are a Child of God and you are SPECIAL!!!!
Well said, so very well said!
This has been a recent revelation for me. I wasn't a religious person, but suffering brought me to my knees and all others left me.
Hi Bobby, while my life was not as it should have been much of my life I got to know Jesus at age 9. Now I talk with him 1 to 2 hours a night while in bed waiting to go asleep. Also during the day. Nice to meet another Christian. Merry Christmas. And thanks for watching my video and writing to me.
hi Lynda, thanks for writing to me and Merry Christmas to you and all you know.
so well stated . . . so very well stated thanks for writing Merry Christmas
you seem like a delightful person jim, for you to be who you are, live as long as you have and still seem like a great lad to be around after how long as its been... and you still holding on to goodness really does make me feel very emotional, you are stronger than you think you are and you make my 21 year old self feel things I will expand and grow from, you mean more than you think you do despite what you're experience shows you, I'm sorry cant do anything to make you feel better, but I know I feel and can relate to you're absence of socialization as it is a Human Need! you're toughness does make me think about my own mortality and perception of who i think i am, although we may be complete strangers us viewers, but we can sense the humanity in one another, and those who can sense that, should care and have humility and compassion for our brothers and sisters who suffer the coldness that life can bring, I appreciate you're effort of making these video's, and i think it'll prove to be a good idea to keep doing them(not worrying about views of course), I wish you get all that is good from this world and god bless you brother
Very kind words indeed. Nice to see
Don't die, Jim. We're never alone, with the internet there's always someone to talk to, I guess thats one of the positive aspects of it. Join a chatroom, make friends, have a zoom call with other "loners" like me too, etc. Even if we can't meet in real life, there's alternatives. I don't know, I'm struggling with this too, I don't have much friends, but I'm just saying it doesn't have to be this way when there's so many of us.
thanks for your suggestions and they are so good i'm glad you took time to write Merry Christmas
Same ❤❤❤❤❤ Happy New Year to all the loners we got this ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Your not alone brother, mu whole life has been an experience of isolation.
that's better than hanging out with the wrong dudes and being on death row
just think of it this way. when you are alone, nobody can disagree with yuo, nobody can tell you what to do, you cannot have an argument or be bullied, you can do whatever you want to do and take however long you need to do it. you can rest when you want and not have any decision called into question.
What an impressive thing to find on TH-cam. A genuine human speaking without fanfare about some realities of life. You brought joy to me and I thank you for that. Such a novel idea, talking to others about what it feels like be you. Inspirational indeed. Subscribed 😊
you made me so happy, Bob. I really feel a disadvantage from having to self-teach myself and not knowing how to even made thumbprints or whatever those small pics are called . . . don't know how to edit so i let the mistakes stay on . . . your kind words made me feel okay about all this . . . thank you and Merry Christmas
I know that song and I understand as we age and we became disable people shun us ,I started a TH-cam channel and I see to so many people that are sad .I hope you and I get to make a difference.
hi michael, just wrote down beingmichael so i can enjoy your channel . . . i used to be a writer and now have lost my interest however talking must be my thing . . . but not what i would like to be on youtube-- i get most of my help on other youtubers or on the phone by steve tevis who has a channel or two. Merry Christmas and thanks for visiting my videos and for writing such kind words to me
You're not alone. I never realized how lonely I am until a few years ago. I explored it - tried to understand it - I guess some of it was good but what I accidentally did was dug a hole for myself. Trying to come out of it now but it's hard when you don't feel like you have a reason to get up in the morning. But, I'm finding little ways that help. Even just cleaning and vacuuming helps me to feel better.
Hello Jim...keep going and keep reaching out to people ...your not alone ..I see you and hear you ...keep going with your channel and we shall follow your progress ...
It sucks to feel alone. It truly does.
Finding like minded people is key.
Join a poetry or philosophy group/ club.
My grandfather started feeling that same feeling. We found a group of ww2 vets that met up on sundays for breakfast. They would just sit and share stories. It made a world of difference for him.
I'm alone 24/7 i understand.
How wonderful 😊 the group I mean
I hear you brother. Its just your thoughts that are making you feel a certain way. Dont argue with the the thoughts; stay present in the moment and stay in tune with your senses and you'll come out of your head
We sympathize with you because we experience how you feel. Subscribed to you and you are a kind soul. God bless.
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I think you have a way of speaking that makes everyone want to listen. I feel loneliness is a feeling that we have at all ages, but when you get to 60s or 70s (I'm 65) one may feel that they don't feel desirable or perhaps needed/wanted as we once felt. Even though I'm married I feel very lonely due to the fact that affection of any kind is non-existent. However, we are compatible in other ways perhaps, you can say we are contented. Do I miss the hugs and romance? Yes I do, but I certainly enjoy my spouses company. I look at life as a Blessing and a very short journey. Honestly, I see people like you that speaks what they feel and how they feel and it inspires me, you are inspiring. Be and feel what you want, but know you are not alone.
Tom, we must be reading each other's mail A++++ on nailing our feelings and lifestyle. Thanks for writing and watching my videos. Merry Christmas
Hope 2025 is a good year for you
Yes, I'm glad that I found you and your videos!
Thank You! I wish you all the joy and contentment in 2025.
Algorithm brought me here. I want to say that youre not alone. None of us no why we're here or whats the point of it all. I think thats why life isolates some of us, to change, grow, and focus on what comes next. We have souls that dont die. It helps me not to feel lonely if I think about what comes next.
I think we'll learn about our purpose and have love and joy in our lives. Hang in there, it will get better. Thanks for sharing and God Bless you.
I am alone too. Not solitude. I wish I had more friends who really cared.
I’m 24 and I might not make it to 26. I wish I could give you a hug.
I wish I could give you a hug❤
I think you just did
why?
Stay strong brother and remember self improvement I'd masturbation. 😉
I am sure wiser people than myself will leave helpful comments on your video. I solved that very same problem you are having many years ago, life since then has been amazing, I am sure yours will be as well.
Have you ever fantasize, going back to your youthful self and just enjoy and not waste every single sec of it and build good relationship to people. It sucks.
Yes I have done that. Things seemed so much for fun and enjoyable when I was young. Thanks for your comments. Have a great rest of the year.
I am never lonely, but I know people who are. I am an introvert. I did listen all the way thru and subscribed to help with growing your channel. SHALOM
Hello Jim!
Nice to meet you.
There is so much I could share with you about the things of life and aging.
Before I chat here a while, know that you are not alone in your lonliness. Truly, you aren't. What you are feeling is so understood. It can be gut wrenching and unbearable at times. More times than not.
Where to start..hmmm..
I am a senior female who has certainly experienced things of life. The good times, the bad times. Fun and full times to sad days and emptiness. Feeling alone and lonely is painful. From bouquets of friends to only a heart full of cherished memories. The longing for loves, family and friends that filled us from better days gone by. My closest and dearest have had their sunsets young. How I miss my go to " remember when" friends. My whole circle of the most intimate friends are no longer. No more numbers to dial. No get togethers, coffee clutches or silly giggles to be had. I do have only two newer friends, but it is not the same. Superficial pleasantries more like aquiantances. No phone chats, no lunches or things like that. Flat..no connection. Being blunt, one has the personality of a dial tone. Remember those? Lol.
To cope, I do a little art, craft and when something hits in the feels, I write.
Keep going. I'd love to read your poems.
Don't know if you've ever been told, you sound and in a funny, resemble Burl Ives!
I moderate a chat for seniors. It is not my channel, I just mod. There is a live chat on TH-cam every Saturday afternoon. West coast 1pm. East coast 4 pm. It goes for an hour. Lots of nice folks and always new joining in. The channel name is " Elder gal". The woman who is the content creator is Allison. She is 69 and dealing with being alone. She is smart, humorous and SO transparent. She is a former teacher ( college) and bereavement councilor. Great content and all seem to enjoy her. She also puts up a video mid week on Wednesdays. Stop in! We'd love to have you. Casual as can be.
I am on the east coast and there are folks from all over the world. It is an hour of company. Have a peek!
Maybe more about myself as your vids come up.
Hang in there Jim. By the grace of God, good things still happen. Made a new friend who is EIGHTY FOUR! Such a kind man. Diabetic, arthritis and his mobility is limited. Uses a cane. I was astounded that he, by himself put new brake pads on my car! Put a rolling kitchen cart together for me that had 187 parts. Takes his time and sits on a chair. He is a neighbor.
I have RA ( constant pain) am grateful for Mr. Charlie. Never brags and my thank you's fall on deaf ears. I see his humble fruits. If you know, you know. 🙏
May God keep you and put folks in your path to lift your spirits. May peace, love and friendship fill you to the sky of your soul ~
Keep going!
Listened to this as a young girl. I was country when it wasn't cool.
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Jim, I am in London, UK. Do not underestimate yourself. From what I can see, you are a decent guy. Maybe youtube will be a way to get contacts and support. In the UK you can go down the pub and usually find someone to talk to. I don't know if you have similar things. The first five letters of your surname spells Worth! I am 61, and I can't do tiktok, and I don't care. It is for young posers. You keep doing your thing mate. 👍
You are worthy
thanks Mary you are too kind have a wonderful Christmas
Jim I am 72. I have 0 friends in the area I live in. A few people I know. When we get to our age we have few friends. I go to AA but I still drink. I have my 2 doggys, my cat, and my supportive wife for some reason is still with me. But I feel lonely often. So I will be your friend. Take care.
Thanks Rick. Thanks for sharing your experience. My wife is still with me too. I'm 75. I think I have maybe 5 people who would say we are friends but we don't ever get together. Feel free to send a friend request to me on facebook if you are on it. I am listed as Jim Wortham and I will accept your friend request. We can stay in touch. I'm not always on FB but you can always reach me on facebook messenger and I always read that when I'm on FB. Thanks again for sharing.
@@jimwortham4869 you have a wife ! - man you are blessed ! -- some of us have no one
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hey there and thanks for watching me i will try to buy my thoughts may be confusing
I've been drinking tonight.. your not alone 😊 . I've been to the point of giving up on life so many times, I can't give up... I love your honesty ❤.
Your friend Richard
Please don't give up. I am certain you mean the world to somebody. 💝
Sign on here, and tell us what’s up many of us are in your shoes.
Let’s have a beer or two
Hey, New subscriber. I'm from Liverpool uk 🇬🇧 I feel the same way. I have my tiny dog to keep me company. 😊 Please dont fall for these scammers. Try reach out to people locally or try an organised walk or find some activities you can tag along on. Good luck and god bless. 🙏
Same here hang in there old boy my life is sh!t too 😢😢
God Bless You🙏❤️🙏
thanks Merry Christmas
hi there how are you , i just want to say you are not plain and please know you are not the only one who is lonely out here...
big love and hugs from across the pond in UK ... I'm the same i don't have social media I have no facebook or Instagram or x, just utube,, I find social media fake and tiring
wow, lorraine, you made my day you are so kind thanks for taking time to watch my videos and writing to me Merry Christmas
"We all have our time machines, don't we? Those who bring us back are memories, those who carry us forward are dreams ..."
"If you want something you've never had, you must be willing to do something you've never done"
"Having always lived in fear of being suprised by the worst, i have tried in every circumstance to get a head start,
flinging myself into misfortune long before it occurred"
Tis true my form is something odd.
But blaming me is blaming God;
Could I create myself anew,
I would not fail in pleasing you.
If I could reach from pole to pole,
Or grasp the ocean with a span,
I would be measured by the soul,
The mind's the standard of the man.
Hi Jim people can always change the outside but it's the inside that counts and yours comes across really good to me so I think you're doing wonderful in that area and that's the best area to do the best in ✌️♥️💡😇💯 God bless you 🥰
Me too.....
I love your smile Jim from Jennifer from oz
Oh no I’m sorry you feel such way hello friend
Sending love and prayers in Jesus's name.
Hang in there bro. I'm in the same boat. I feel useless and I don't see any progress in my future I'm 32 been single for like 7 years Manhattan even met any women since I've been in Texas and just feel like I'm being forced to watch my life slip me by but there's nothing I can seem to do to stop this and I don't have any friends and hang out with my dog all the time and I'm naturally somewhat social person and just don't like the idea of this being all there is to life is just grinding it out at a bullshit job I hate to go home and stare the wall so I can go clock in the next day. Makes me feel like my life is more valuable as a corporate tool than a human created by God. And society shitting on men these days and unless you're Chad has no morals it's hard to do what you got to do to get women's attention cuz I don't have a lot of money and I'm not going to blow my paycheck on them to just make fun of me on social media after the day and just use me as a free meal
theres apps like tinder for friends apparently. one friend would open up your world so much. your young theres just no way your thinking rationally if your living such a secluded life. its so unnatural it makes you think stupid shit
Stay strong my friend🙏🏻
vic, you are a good person to share that with me thanks for writing to me and watching my videos Merry Christmas
grow some plants , have a dog , eat vegetarian , pray for the planet , love and talk to animals dont eat them learn an instrument
I hadn't seen an old friend in a long time, and finally I was told he was abroad. No wonder I didn't recognize him. People change, I guess.
I think a lot of us get lonely. Sometimes it's preferable haha other people being I. Your life can be a responsibility. Not always sunshine and rainbows
I'm 34 im already waiting on God to call me home. Internet is such a drag its better to just go camping and spend time with family till life hits its expiration date.
my thoughts exactly i suspended my facebook just do an occasional youtube i got a new hat to wear for the next video
I understand my brother but know you're never alone our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ is always with us he said he will never leave us nor forsake us
No I stay off all these sites just do a small bit of one other place and here, and I also do poetry too, but I don't go chasing friends and no matter how lonely I get.. I do my own thing. I stay off the depressing internet as much as possible and keep myself busy. Other peoples' agendas are depressing I find, so you are right to avoid all these places you talk of.
I hope you find friends by doing this. Watch out for fake profiles though. You are best sticking to the real world rather than the virtual world. Best wishes.
if you are unhappy being alone you are with bad company. you yourself should be your best friend, wishing you the best.
That's not the way God designed it dumbass.
I happened to be scrolling through and saw your site. I'll be 70 in May and live in a senior housing complex. Just went through a bout of skin melanoma on my scalp and luckily, they got it all. I too have nobody and on weekends sing Karaoke and drink too much. It's all old hat. I totally relate buddy. What's the point?
Im 41 and tall handsome and rich but prefer being along with my riches
Do not give up. Films help me. You can connect with them.
YER BLUES John Lennon 'Yes I'm lonely....want to die. I have wanted to die for years. But all my friends have died.
B.J. Thomas did a beautiful version of that song.
He is one of the best singers i hope he is alive now and will check on that later thanks for writing Merry Christmas
I'm 62. I don't have anyone to talk to most of the time.
thanks for writing to me and watching my video i know how you feel i'm 85 and my friends are gone or moved i am not much on being in a social group like the senior citizens club that meets daily for lunch but i am not the type that wants to mix and mingle and more i read at night, maybe watch interesting youtube videos i feel ok but not happy like i think i was when i was younger have a Merry Christmas
I have cancers for second time. Did radiation. Chemo again. I'm 66. Alone but I got a dog from shelter who was nearly killed by owner. Even though I get weak,tired,chemo brain I still walk her. She makes me laugh. Keeps me busy. Handful. I don't think about having cancer. Feeling sorry about myself. I work in my yard. Do art. Painting. I always find things to do. Don't sit around feeling sorry for yourself. Go to a senior center. Have lunch,talk to others. Take a bus to stores,go for walks. Try a hobby. Your the only one that can make you happy. Get out there and enjoy life
Yes. Hank Williams wrote a song about it,
" I'm so low nlee i could die." 🎶
yes, and someone said b.j. thomas had a good version of it thanks for writing, Ben Merry Christmas
With the Lord you are never alone, his words are comfort, his wisdom is like a merry gathering. You are the most boldest shy person I've ever heard of. Most shy people don't walk up to people and strike up a conversation. Nonetheless, I enjoyed hearing your thoughts.be alert about scammers out there, the world is not what it once was. God bless.
You're not alone buddy, majority of men these days do not want to be "un-lonely". Too much hassle to destroy your body working for a woman of whom is 99.8% fake. Fake from head to toe, including inside and out. Social media is destroying modern relationship, from partners to friendships. Hell it's even destroying families.
i'm with you with what you shared . . . i'll just stay in my man cave i used to write poetry books until i lost interest cause too many books were published and mine got lost with the millions still i write but without ambition of publishing (last published 4 books 3 years ago) and about social media, is it now an advertising tool to sell things or to show how you look showing all those pics of oneself yep, i took myself off facebook cause of that thanks for writing to me and for watching my videos Merry Christmas
Greetings brother!
I love you bro. :)
My brother I'm 63 pretty much alone at all times no phone calls no messages you need the Lord Jesus it's calling to you I need you to be alone and listen I've been over 2 years I'm still on with his presence do you know how he can take all of your pains away can you take your fears you're lonely
You’re not alone. I’m having a steak dinner listening to your truth.. Had a good time. Rest well. I subscribed look forward to more discussion.
Could you try joining groups in your area? I think that would help.
No wife, no strife.
'Since my baby left me, I found a new place to dwell', .......you know the tune.......PS: Death is even lonelier !!! We can still make changes when we're alive.
You're alone Lord needs to take distractions away from people at times use the time useful Lord wants to talk to you can you sing the holy Spirit to you I'm not lying to you brother come see me everyday but I have to do my work too
Your a perfect candidate for moving ( running ) to Uruguay and seeing that they consider you so much different and valued. You can get not one, but 10 ladies seeking your days to share. Not whackos like in USA but lots of good women. Rent there is 30% of what it is in USA, bills all together 70% less. We own land in Rocha, and the people there are old school European, no WOKE, no crime, and its a fairly conservative land.
Joe Bonamassa wrote a song called Sloe Gin and the lyrics go “I’m so dam lonely I feel like I’m gonna die” anyway bro you have great hair! Look after yourself
25 and only thing keeping me in this world is my mom and video games
thanks for writing i understand i was 25 once (now 85) hang in there one day at a time what helped me was going to college even though i kept dropping out and going to another college till i finished that allowed me to meet others at that age, and even had some good times then Merry Christmas
hi
pal
You should look into Stoicism.
elvis did one i feel so lonely i could die
Hey beautiful soul, did you know there are places where people who are lonely can hang out at and have a daily schedule? Just go to a psychiatrist or even call a suicide hotline and ask for these kind of places. In Austria they are called Kolping Haus a place for people with psychological issues. I wish you so much Love !
Places where people with depression and fear can have a daily structure doing drawing, playing games, etc. look online for sth like this where you live ....I rooting for you!!!!
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Bro u got a wife stop crying lmao
hi bro, thanks, you are right thanks for writing and for your encouraging words & Merry Christmas
@jimwortham4869 lol merry Christmas sorry it was little harsh.
Hugs 🫂
Go to gym. Tough part is to make it addictive that starts with 4 days a week at least an hour, won’t be fun but if you push yourself through 3 months, it will be an addiction like cigarettes. In 1 year you’ll be a new man.
For a minute, I thought you were Nick Nolte.
its important for a man to become his own best friend. when he does, he no longer needs friends or a woman because he will see their friendship and love isnt real. The only real love a man receives is from himself, animals and maybe children if he has any. Secondly its important to exercise and eat healthy. An unhealthy body leads to an unhealthy mind and spirit. One cannot be happy without good physical health. And its essential to have lots of hobbies that fulfill you All men should garden. Make your own sauce, jerkey ect. All men should play ab instrument as well. And all men should have some kind of hobby that requires him to learn various trades of construction. You dont need people to get rid of loneliness. you need a better relationship with yourself. its not too late. start now. if you continue to seek people and attention to fill the void of loneliness you will always feel lonely. not having people in your life is actually a gift. embrace it.
I just need your smile no charge
Wow, you are so kind. Thanks for your comment. Have a blessed day and year.
Who is this...🤔
Jesus is legit the only thing that could heal that loneliness. He's all we need
Hi, I'am Jesus the crist, as seen on the bible. " I AM". Are you not? do you believe in external characters? that's your support? until when? forever and ever? Jeeesus...
He is the best and only true friend and all good things come from him! I hope this lonely gent will have this revelation ! I love Jesus
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You sound like Burl Ives. If you can sing, you’ll find a woman. 😊
i remember burl ives but did not know he was a girl magnet . . . i will start singing on the street conner and see who stops by thanks for your kind words and for visiting my videos
Join Meet Up online to get in with groups. Find a roommate you can get along with.
I'm So Lonesome, I Could Cry is the song by Hank Williams.
This dude rulez. He needs to take up smoking to solve his problems.
This world will let us down if this is all we got!
I’m in my 60’s and I am very happy.
Been through a couple divorce’s, one with 4 children that lasted around 20 years.
Lost my hair, never got very tall, wear a grey beard that’s over 10 inches long, and I have a wife who turns heads for her age.
There’s 4 letter phrase that people use for older women who are very good looking for their age, but I won’t use it here.
Is she my happiness?
Partially yes, but my true happiness is that Jesus is in my life and has been since 1998.
I’m praying for you friend, and I will leave you with the Words of Jesus,
John 3:15,
Whosoever believes in Him has eternal life.
Want to see the worldwide war that threatens us today?
Read Revelation 6:4-8
Want to see why those who have placed their faith in Jesus will not be here when it all goes down?
Read the Words of Christ Jesus found in Revelation 3:10.
Take care of yourself friend, I will be praying for you!
hi brother in Christ, been with Jesus since age 9 now i'm 75 i am not as lonely as i may appear i must have been when i did this video thanks for writing and Merry Christmas and I am so glad you have a lady that turns men's heads..
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I’m glad that you are feeling better, as I did pray for you!
Please pray also for me if you will, as I’m in some pain that has lasted a couple weeks.
I’m in my lower 60’s, and as we find out when we get older, that physical problems come with age.
I really am happy to hear that you are feeling better, praise God for that!
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Hi brother, I prayed for you when I first sent you a message. Praise God our Father that you are feeling better!
Have you thought about getting a puppy? They are better than people in a lot of ways. Maybe a cat if you're not good at keeping things alive.
Gotta have a plan for that animal. Most people may not do this but they are sentient, the bond, they depend on that person. If he's lonely, he may not have any family so if he passes, who's going to care for that dog? You gotta think about those things. Also, puppies are a LOT of work. I'm 60 and I don't have the energy a puppy demands. And cats need care too. What in the heck are you saying?
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@@23chan you're a liar.
@@23chan you're a scammer commenting at me because a bunch of stalkers and criminals started telling lies about me and pulled the number 60 from the license plate of a rental car I was driving around.
Jesus saves
Hi Gabrielle, i'm afraid this world is going the opposite way i was a Christian at age 9 i doing a lot of praying to Jesus day and night Merry Christmas. And thanks for watching my video and writing to me.
Dude, you got played by an AI. Those women you are hitting on aren't real.
I don't get it . I enjoy being alone . Peace quiet and freedom ! But I guess after all some of us are not built the same
Same here.
We are social creatures that were made in the image of God enough said.
Why should a person rate themselves based on who would or wants to date them? Money is what draws people to you and not looks, unless a man or woman is looking for a body to have sex with. For anyones mind to be melded in the way of DATE as in dating is a fixed confused mind. Why would I need to date some human? Instead, if you need human company just go to a coffee shop
You seem like a man who has his wits about him. You are right to be suspicious about people online. If you're a man of faith have you considered going through your local place of worship to see if there are women in your area looking for companionship?
Christ is the truth, the way and the life..Jesus Christ paid a necessary price so that plain folks like you and I can call out to Christ and receive the Holy Spirit. Through this free gift we come know peace and real joy. We can be guided in all your ways..I pray for you dear soul, in the name of JESUS, I pray that GOD touches your heart in a new way. YESS! I pray that the Lord's love, joy and peace come over you, revealing your wholeness in Christ! Amen! ✌️♥️🙏😊
GTFO of here with your delusion,,, xtians are just the worst,,,,
oh really? oh wow... you are so important now, do you want a pat on the back? good boy!
Oh grow up, get a dog go volunteer, stop feeling sorry for urself Ur life is what U make it
Saddest song ever written
No body outside yourself can override your thoughts so your wasting time spans we all pass aways like springs head toward winter can get chivvers yet just ask for help yourself.