how i learned TAGALOG in a year & how you can too. 🇵🇭

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  • @TheEthanGonzales
    @TheEthanGonzales  3 ปีที่แล้ว +180

    hi homies! i just want to mention that in the video i referred to different filipino languages as “dialects”. that was actually a mistake on my end. there are about 170 different languages spoken in the philippines (cebuano, ilocano, kapampangan, chavacano, tagalog, etc.) my apologies!!

    • @_kwissy_
      @_kwissy_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Just saying I'm filipino aswell and I struggle to learn basaya because I was in the Philippines for 5 years and I was suppose to arrive this year but sadly no and I'm fluent in English but not filipino

    • @alanguages
      @alanguages ปีที่แล้ว +10

      In the Philippines different languages are actually referred to as dialects, even though they are distinctly different languages, albeit in the same language family.
      For some reason they don't use dialects as the standard linguistic term. Example: British English, American English, Australian English.
      I think they view it as accents.

    • @adamddd5692
      @adamddd5692 ปีที่แล้ว

      Not filipino , just like the filipino culture and woman ...knowing only English is boring lol

    • @jayvee323
      @jayvee323 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes they are not dialects but actual languages. With Spanish and English, they are called variations as both have variations British English, American etc. Peninsular Spanish, Mexican Spanish, Chilean Spanish etc. In the case of Filipino languages, its mutual intelligibillity is very low when two speakers speak with each other for example Ilonggo to Tagalog, some words can be understood but majority are not the same. Their structures are totally different. So Ilonggo is not a variation or a dialect but a language different to Tagalog. This is the same for all other Philippine languages. One could probably use the term dialects or variations for some like Batangas Tagalog, Bulacan Tagalog etc. Personally I think the Modern Tagalog has lots of Spanish and English words, it is not Spanish lik some Filipinos would say but it only “has Spanish words’ and Taglish is a variation with many contrasts depending on how much English is added into it.

  • @vulcancent774
    @vulcancent774 2 ปีที่แล้ว +479

    This is kinda sad, but I wanna learn Tagalog for my Lola and Lolo before they pass away. They are immigrants from the Philippines, but my dad never taught my siblings and I how to speak Tagalog. I can only understand a bit at the moment. I hope to learn at least a small bit of the language to make my Lola and Lolo proud…

    • @worldedit1676
      @worldedit1676 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      i was born and raised in Italy and i've been speaking italian for my whole life. My parents speak caraya which is a dialect in some provinces in Iloilo. I've never truly learned the dialect or tagalog either but i can understand them since they're speaking it everyday. Thanks to tagalog movies finally i got to learn to understand tagalog too and now i started speaking it a little bit and my cousin in the philippines almost cried by hearing me speaking our language ahahah
      now i'm trying to speak more so when i come back to the philippines, i'm gonna be able to speak tagalog or caraya with my family

    • @alvodin6197
      @alvodin6197 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Please don't learn Tagalog in order to make your lolo or Lola proud. Learn it because you want to speak it and communicate with people. If you do t to make someone proud you are a people pleaser, sorry..not to be rude, but it's not healthy.

    • @shakenbacon-vm4eu
      @shakenbacon-vm4eu ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bro, are you and I the same person? Identical stories fr

    • @LittleMissCleo
      @LittleMissCleo 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I’m in the same situation 🥲 I have 7months before I’ll meet them

    • @grill999
      @grill999 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Bro that's literally the EXACT situation I'm in word for word lol

  • @anglight
    @anglight ปีที่แล้ว +188

    Who else isn't Filipino but just loves the language and wants to learn it?
    I started about 5 yrs ago and was pretty good but I lost track of my Tagalog friends and now I only remember about 5 sentences 😭
    It's still hard for one who isn't immersed in the language

    • @jayvee323
      @jayvee323 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      We are in the digital age, the golden age where just about anything can be learned as long as there’s a smart phone or pc. Enjoy learning it, have persistence, patience and consistency, it will keep improving. Tuloy lang, mag-iimprove din yan!

  • @theneokenshin
    @theneokenshin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    Filipinos are meant to be bilingual. Thats our strength

  • @s.alam1n
    @s.alam1n 3 ปีที่แล้ว +238

    Dude, I’m Filipino and honestly JUST getting to learn Tagalog, thx for the vid, related to pretty much everything you said(🇵🇭 pride)

    • @TheEthanGonzales
      @TheEthanGonzales  3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      i’m supa glad it was helpful!! appreciate you bro!!! 🇵🇭✊🏽

    • @_kwissy_
      @_kwissy_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same here I'm filipino and I struggle to learn

    • @ROFEL
      @ROFEL ปีที่แล้ว

      Did you end up doing it

    • @sigmatime69
      @sigmatime69 ปีที่แล้ว

      im filipino and I know how to understand tagalog but if you ask me to say a certain phrase in tagalog, I don’t know it😭 its because i’m in the US now and I mostly speak english

    • @LearnwithReymund
      @LearnwithReymund ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Dylan! I constantly upload Filipino language on my TH-cam channel if you're interested. Heres the link - www.youtube.com/@LearnwithReymund/videos

  • @beggarman8590
    @beggarman8590 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    Ok I'm slow and old 62. I've been married to an American Filipina for 42 years and I would like to surprise her buy learning Tagalog. I know, late is better than never. Thanks for the tips.

    • @mikedoyle7300
      @mikedoyle7300 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Are you sure you want to know what she's saying.?

    • @oriori9781
      @oriori9781 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Being "slow and old" is nothing compared to the desire to learn. Not to dismiss ur trials, but I truly hope u the best of luck learning something new and dear for ur loved one. If u got the passion to do it, then I give my hopes to u.

  • @Angelikaslife
    @Angelikaslife 2 ปีที่แล้ว +161

    I relate to this. I'm half filipina (and half white) and I live in North America so I'm practically whitewashed. Even though my mom speaks Tagalog, she's the only person who I can directly communicate with in Tagalog because nobody else in my family can speak Tagalog fluently and I don't have any Filipino friends. The last time I went to the Philippines, I felt like I didn't fit in AT ALL because I didn't really know the language well and so I figured I should embrace my Filipino heritage and learn Tagalog! I can't wait until I go back to the Philippines and am actually able to speak comfortably with my cousins. Anyways, great video! Your editing and video making skills are top notch!

    • @alliecatsnursery7055
      @alliecatsnursery7055 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      omg same with the first part

    • @meepmeep95
      @meepmeep95 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      At least your Filipina mom will speak to you in Tagalog. My mom response in English. And when I ask her how to say something in Tagalog she will say "Oh, I don't remember." I'm half black but my mom is very white washed. She told us we had Spanish European DNA and the DNA results came back 46% Filipino and 4% Chinese. But I am glad that you are embracing your Pinay roots. Where I am from, majority of the mix kids are very disconnected to their Pinoy heritage.

    • @jadejohnson1787
      @jadejohnson1787 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It’s scary how entirely accurate this is for me, too (literally word for word)

    • @krosina2290
      @krosina2290 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same with me unfortunately my dad didn't let her teach me and my brother Tagalog when we were younger (I still hold it against him!😂) And I used to get my mum to talk to me in Bisaya and Tagalog but sadly she passed away so I'm reliant on learning on my own

    • @meepmeep95
      @meepmeep95 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jadejohnson1787 r u also half Pinay and half Black ?

  • @kasai7953
    @kasai7953 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Ako have Hindi Filipino blood in me. Ako started studying Tagalog to better understand aking mamahal culture at friends/family. We've since broken up. But Ako ay still very interested in the culture and language po. So Ako will remain an estudyante of Tagalog.

    • @nelcorazs
      @nelcorazs หลายเดือนก่อน

      Crazy way of typing

  • @thisdudeamiright2321
    @thisdudeamiright2321 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    my lola died before i got the chance to learn, so i'm gonna put in the effort to be able to connect with my family in the philipines

    • @TheEthanGonzales
      @TheEthanGonzales  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      aww i’m sorry ;( you got this, it’s never too late to start learning !!

  • @bernadineguimary1062
    @bernadineguimary1062 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Read Your Webtoons in Tagalogggg. I am starting my Tagalog journey and it's really helpful to reread the comics in my target language

    • @hiccup7457
      @hiccup7457 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This is so smart omg

    • @DaveMathewslayer0345
      @DaveMathewslayer0345 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Site and your recommendations?

  • @nicole602
    @nicole602 2 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    i'm a full filipino but i find it hard to speak STRAIGHT tagalog bc we just mix english and filo in one sentence 😭

    • @nicole602
      @nicole602 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      nag pose and smile sa harap ng camera*

    • @TheEthanGonzales
      @TheEthanGonzales  2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      no seriously tho, it’s honestly a blessing in disguise for us out here full filipino learning tagalog ✋🏽😩

  • @blackmamba6938
    @blackmamba6938 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I lost the ability to speak tagalog growing up in Canada, but I could always understand it. When I turned 18, I went back to Philippines and decided I would try to only speak tagalog. It was surprisingly easy to learn. I was already fluent after like 2 months. It turns out if you can already understand the language, it's actually really easy to learn how to speak it. I find most people just feel embarrassed to try so they never bother.

  • @anasain6590
    @anasain6590 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I'm not Filipino but my adopted family is Filipino (my step-dad likes to jokingly call me an Albino Filipino). I hope to learn Tagalog to talk with my family, Filipino diaspora and maybe travel to the Philippines.

  • @tachiane
    @tachiane ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Ok, I'm not Filipino, I'm Brazilian, but I started liking romance novels when I was 18, unfortunaly I could only find content in English and at the time my English was very bad. But recently I started liking SB19 (my reaction when you use them as reference was like "No way, how he knows?!" lol) but because of them I've looking for another artists and I discovered, OMG, what an amazing language the pop and I want to learn and now I can. Thanks for your video is really funny and makes me wants learn more about the idiom and culture. This comment is just because I want to share and maybe make some friends to help me how to learn tagalog. 🙂

  • @kittycat35625
    @kittycat35625 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    nah that intro was too real bro i just got back from the philippines where my cousins and their mates had nosebleeds from me only speakin english for 3 weeks.
    i'm here hoping to learn so next time we can all express ourselves better and connect more. thanks for sharing your incredible advice man. much love homie

  • @gregb.1985
    @gregb.1985 2 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Hi I'm not a Filipino but I've started learning Tagalog and found your video :-) Maraming salamat po for the tips!

    • @TheEthanGonzales
      @TheEthanGonzales  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      thank you for learning our language! i’m so glad my video was able to help you! good luck, kaya n’yo to!! :)

  • @yukca
    @yukca 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    im 18 and felt like it was too late but today is the day i learn (like u said in the beg i can understand and stuff but from pulling certaim stuff from a setentence)

  • @PersephonieKnight-xn3kj
    @PersephonieKnight-xn3kj ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Bruh this makes me feel so much better. I’m black and Filipino, 2nd generation American. My Lola didn’t want to teach her kids or us Tagalog or iloko because we were American and “had to speak English only’. And straight up they used us to learn English. But now that I’m older, they’re always asking me why I don’t learn Tagalog while I’ve learned a decent amount of 4 other languages. And it’s just as you said, it’s daunting to learn the language your family speaks bc they’ll catch you slacking. 😭😭 but I always feel so…left out when I see ppl speaking tagalog to each other and I understand a few words but…I can’t speak it. I work at a warehouse rn and there’s the Spanish speakers and the Tagalog speakers and they just sit talking to each other and I’m just like “…I wanna talk with the cool kids”. Lesson? Pls just teach your kids your mother tongue. 😭😭

    • @LearnwithReymund
      @LearnwithReymund ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Persephonie! I constantly upload Filipino language on my TH-cam channel if you're interested. Heres the link - www.youtube.com/@LearnwithReymund/videos

    • @xdemgeo3581
      @xdemgeo3581 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ang hindi marunong magmahal sa sariling wika ay mas mabaho pa sa malansang isda.

  • @Cipher991
    @Cipher991 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I'm not Filipino nor do I live in the Philippines, I've been trying to learn for about 6-7 months now. I just hang around a lot of Filipinos on twitch mahal ko silang lahat all great ppl. Maraming salamat for this

    • @alanguages
      @alanguages ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I met a person from El Salvador and he said he speaks Tagalog. How it happened was he works with Filipinos eight hours a day, and his friends are Tagalog speakers outside of work. Three years later, he spoke it in return. Effectively, he was immersed in the language.

  • @jellyfishwithwifi6870
    @jellyfishwithwifi6870 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    This video singlehandedly motivated me to take up my native language again, tysm

    • @TheEthanGonzales
      @TheEthanGonzales  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      no, thank you!! i wish nothing but the best of luck in your tagalog journey!! :)

  • @tayoharple4990
    @tayoharple4990 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I once said "Kinagagalak kong makilala ka" to my filipino friend and she looked at me like i was crazy :')

    • @tayoharple4990
      @tayoharple4990 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @winde Y idk, she had no idea what she was saying lol

    • @nf_mendoza9767
      @nf_mendoza9767 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Because you sound like you're from 1860s hahahaha

    • @tayoharple4990
      @tayoharple4990 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@nf_mendoza9767 I am outdated😭 I'm the only filo in my group that doesn't speak tagalog

    • @user-wc1sm8cj8s
      @user-wc1sm8cj8s ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I understand why, lol. We don't speak like that in a casual day-to-day conversation. I'm guessing you learned that from a "learn filipino" lesson somewhere?
      The closest you can get with how that relates to English (at least in my own interpretation) is something like this:
      "It is of my great honor and pleasure to meet a person like you".
      That's why someone commented here that you sounded like you're from the 1860s, lol.
      Instead, a simple "nice to meet you" (or add 'po' - "nice to meet you po" - which shows respect) is enough and what you'll commonly hear when people meet for the first time. Everyone uses that expression.

    • @jsenha-ge6il
      @jsenha-ge6il 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      so funny hahaha

  • @Awkward-
    @Awkward- ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This really spoke to my soul- I want to finally learn Tagalog so I don’t have to awkwardly be the only one who doesn’t understand anything whenever I visit my family 😭 aha…

  • @BattleCatsDude420
    @BattleCatsDude420 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Im learning it for my studys
    Im want to change my life tbh
    And getting better grades will help me

  • @LameLami
    @LameLami 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hey, this video really inspired and motivated me alot with trying to learn tagalog. I am full-blooded filipino but for some reason I have never actually picked up the language as a kid. I always promised myself that I will start speaking tagalog today but today turned into tomorrow and then tomorrow slowly becomes to never. Im at the age where I cant always rely on my relatives to speak for me and I feel extremely socially lonely because of my lack of tagalog speaking skills, so thank you for making me realize im not alone and that I can do it.
    ❤❤❤

  • @sabik6979
    @sabik6979 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I'm not Filipino, but I have family in Laguna Philippines that are teaching me every day. I started out learning their alphabet, which isn't much different than ours. I learned how to properly pronounce the 5 vowels and the two diphthongs. I'm learning a lot on my own, and then later they call, and I go over everything with them. They have been a big help in making sure I'm saying the words properly, and they text me words and phrases to learn. If you want to learn any language, it really helps to know someone who speaks it and, of course, stick to it. Don't get discouraged and give up. There are a lot of Filipinos at my job that don't know I've been learning their language, especially the older women who always talk to me in English. I'll often stock the shelves in the same aisle as them listening to what they are saying, and they have no idea I can understand them, lol, yet anyways but they will once I tell them. I'm not fluent yet, but I'll get there. I'm practicing every single day. I'm also listening to Tagalog music like Shanti, and I'm watching Tagalog shows and movies.

  • @jasminekoala4826
    @jasminekoala4826 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Here because I’m half Filipino and I want to be able to speak to my mom in her first language 😔🤌🏼

  • @maximuscraig8222
    @maximuscraig8222 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    As a half-Filo who’s always been proud of my culture but not able to connect to it with the language, always feeling too intimidated to learn, this was a good inspiration and jumping off point. About to go start

  • @appatheebison
    @appatheebison ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i stumbled upon this and wow thank you. im in my mid 20s and have slowly been losing my basic tagalog skills and it’s been worrying me, but your video gave me a lot of hope!

  • @Kazuya_Meioh_VT
    @Kazuya_Meioh_VT 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    As adopted child, by my dutch parents from the Netherlands 🇳🇱 I still wanna learn tagalog before I gonna meet my biological mother in the Philippines 🇵🇭 love my country

  • @arecib5751
    @arecib5751 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I'm Puertorrican and I want to learn Tagalog because of the similarities between the countries!

  • @leaguillermo4454
    @leaguillermo4454 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    let me tell you, THIS SPOKE TO ME (literally TT)! Especially the part when you said its never too late to learn even if you're 18...that describe to a T. I grew up not understanding let alone speaking it, so sharing your story was really motivating for me. Although I have a long way to go, I want to take learning tagalog and hopefully another dialect in the near future, so when or if I get to that level I will come back to this comment and give an update lmao.

  • @moosejelly1203
    @moosejelly1203 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This was genuinely a very comforting video. You weren't joking about your kuya vibe!! I really appreciate you sharing your favorite Tagalog media as well, as that gives me a baseline for my practice playlists.

  • @goowoo69420
    @goowoo69420 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Not filipino but I am Mexican and have the same relation with Spanish. I'm learning Tagalog because mi novio speaks tagalog and I wanna impress him and in the future his family. Also because I don't wanna be the stinky foreigner that only speaks english and spanish (I'm relearning spanish and more and more fluent now).
    Hopefully my tagalog journey will go well, so far my accent with ng/nga has been messing up..

    • @TheEthanGonzales
      @TheEthanGonzales  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      hi!! i'm so happy that you are taking up learning tagalog as someone who isn't filipino :) you got this, practice makes perfect!! wishing the best of luck for your and your tagalog journey!!

  • @licishanelle
    @licishanelle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bro you’re funny asf. I’m 24 and about to start learning for my daughter that’s cookin up in my tummy!!! My mom never wanted to teach me. Smhhhh

  • @Kaya_O09
    @Kaya_O09 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I am filipino-american , and I was always fun of for not being "real Asian" because Chinese or japanese. And for having a white dad. So I never learned Tagalog, now that I'm older I'm so excited to be true to my culture!

    • @Iuventius
      @Iuventius ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Not being Chinese is not a bad thing. I'm Chinese-Filipino. People like to come up to me and ask "are you Chinese, Japanese, or Korean?" I say, "well... yes." Then they say, "I KNEW IT, I KNEW IT." It's ironic because when I meet Chinese people, they always ask because I don't look too Chinese, but look similar to Chinese. On the otherhand, Filipinos often don't realize that I am Filipino because of my lighter complexion and facial features.

    • @Iuventius
      @Iuventius ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I lost my language at a young age, having Taglish as my first language and being born in the US. I really wish you luck on your language learning journey!!!

    • @LearnwithReymund
      @LearnwithReymund ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Kassie! I constantly upload Filipino language on my TH-cam channel if you're interested. Heres the link - www.youtube.com/@LearnwithReymund/videos

    • @despondent27
      @despondent27 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      i feel you there, im filipino white as well and i want to be more immersed in my culture

  • @applecore9384
    @applecore9384 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Im half English and half pina my mum never taught me Tagalog so in these cult like gatherings (all my mums Filipina friends meet up) I don’t have a clue what they r saying and i already feel left out bc me and my sister r visibly not full Filipina’s and not know the language on top of that makes me feel so left out and I’m going to the Philippines next year with my mum and sister I haven’t been in ages Ik they will speak English to me but I wanna know the language too bc when my mum’s around other Filipino’s she goes Tagalog mode and then I’m lost (I also wanna be able to slag ppl off in a different language)

  • @em6063
    @em6063 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    but why is your editing so good 😭😭

  • @Gatozparty
    @Gatozparty 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is really motivating, because i can clearly see myself in you, im pretty grateful i have filipino friends that do speak tagalog sometimes, some of them also struggle speaking fluently, but after a while of hanging out with them, i feel a bit comfortable speaking tagalog to them, even though its broken tagalog they dont judge me because we're all in the same situation, except my close friend who is pretty fluent

  • @HapiYTV
    @HapiYTV ปีที่แล้ว +2

    yo I've never heard that Kiyo song but it slapped so hard outta nowhere

  • @melaniebeltran7204
    @melaniebeltran7204 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Maraming salamat para sa video (????) of all the languages that I've studied, pinakahirap ang Tagalog pero it's the most important. I've been so disconnected with my Filipino culture and it wasn't until I started studying tagalog that I began to feel proud of my Filipino heritage

  • @Novaalt
    @Novaalt ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am a half Filipina, my father and my Lolo and Lola are immigrants, and I want to learn tagalog because I love my culture and I want to be able to talk to my family better (and listen in on the adults conversations heheheh....) My dad wants me to learn so I will! I wanna embrace that part of me, since I grew up with a lot a lot of filipino culture.

  • @kupos636
    @kupos636 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I know that this is an old video but I found it a huge inspiration as I just returned from a trip to the philippines, visiting all my relatives while unable to communicate properly as i know no tagalog. This video really fired me up to learn something new. You gained a new subscriber!

    • @jadepic
      @jadepic 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Have you made progress

  • @jazenae2822
    @jazenae2822 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I’m Mexican and I really want to learn Tagalog :D

    • @ianlulu
      @ianlulu ปีที่แล้ว

      You can do it !

  • @anneoreo4222
    @anneoreo4222 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I just wanna say salamat po for making realise I’m not the only one who now has the struggle of learning tagalog due their upbringing. Gave me true determination and motivation

  • @TeamTeVault
    @TeamTeVault 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Hi! Enjoyed watching this and just subscribed. We are a Filipina-American couple living in CA and trying to raise our kids in both cultures. Learning Tagalog though is a struggle as no one speaks Tagalog in the house except for the Filipina mom. Lol!! By the way, our first son's name is also Ethan. :) More power to your channel.

    • @TheEthanGonzales
      @TheEthanGonzales  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      that’s so awesome!! best of luck for your family in learning tagalog!! & thank you so much!! :)

    • @xdemgeo3581
      @xdemgeo3581 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ang hindi marunong magmahal sa sariling wika ay mas mabaho pa sa malansang isda.

  • @JJTest-e1g
    @JJTest-e1g ปีที่แล้ว +4

    my mom and her family moved to america from the philippines when she was 13. she has since forgotten all of her tagalog. we have a decades-old CD of rosetta stone for tagalog that she was using for a while to try to teach it to herself again, but she never really got anywhere. needless to say, i grew up not knowing tagalog at all, the only time i would hear it is when i went to visit my lolo and lola each year several states away. i feel so disconnected from my heritage and i really want to learn the language. also, my lola has stage 4 cancer and we won't see her much longer. i really want to be able to have a conversation with one of her descendants in tagalog before she passes. i pray that my background in spanish (my other grandma is from mexico) can help me somewhat - i don't have anyone to practice with so it might be difficult.
    thanks for the awesome video and encouragement. sorry my username is weird lol

  • @mariariou6547
    @mariariou6547 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are right about being conscious of your reasons to want to learn a language which will be your motivation, driving force to keep at it. For my part I learned a completely foreign language for my children. To enable me to accompany them in that environment (mitigate if not prevent bullying and eventually surpass it and not be broken). Language is a tool, a weapon, a gadget. To take advantage of its potentials one must have a command of it. You want to be empowered (express your emotions, ideas, etc and figure out those of others)? Learn the language seriously through all your actions everyday no time limit. Good luck to anyone deciding to undertake this learning endeavor.

  • @ingrikathrinbua9367
    @ingrikathrinbua9367 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    OMG OMG OMG SAMEEE I´m half filipino, and I have always wanted to speak it. Me tooooo, I always said "Opo" i understand. BUT I DID NOT. and then my cousins spoke to me in tagalog.....

  • @Jessica_Jessica_Jessica
    @Jessica_Jessica_Jessica ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your accent is almost perfect! I'm in the Philippines trying to learn Spanish and your tips may apply as well.

  • @ClaireLacaden
    @ClaireLacaden 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm now officially fired up to start learning now ☺️ tho I just gotta mention how beautifully edited this video is

  • @bcardosol
    @bcardosol 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    thank you so much for this video! im brazilian and i taught myself english, so i thought tagalog was a good language to learn! love your editing style and will be def watching those channels!

    • @TheEthanGonzales
      @TheEthanGonzales  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      thank you so much for watching! i’m so happy that you are hoping to learn my language :) best of luck!!

    • @bangchan_loverrr
      @bangchan_loverrr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amg quais canais vc usa/usou pra aprender?

    • @bcardosol
      @bcardosol 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@bangchan_loverrr olha, eu foco mais em aprender diálogos do dia a dia então eu vejo muitas séries como friends, modern family, as sitcoms de familia
      se tem um canal que eu lembro de seguir pra aprender gramática foi a linguamarina

    • @bangchan_loverrr
      @bangchan_loverrr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@bcardosol ahhh, ok, muito obrigada

  • @Brandon-tz5pn
    @Brandon-tz5pn ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Im not filipino but my wife and son are and I want to learn before I go to the Philippines

  • @lyttyl6347
    @lyttyl6347 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Not being able to speak Tagalog doesn't make you any less of a Filipino BUT it is good for you to embrace your roots and culture. Honestly, there are some homegrown Filipinos who don't know how speak tagalog or not fluent in it like some probinsyanos and ethnic groups. And guess what? They are and will always be Filipinos.
    Good vid anyway. Keep going.

    • @TheEthanGonzales
      @TheEthanGonzales  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      exactly what i believe. thank you for your kind words!

    • @lyttyl6347
      @lyttyl6347 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@TheEthanGonzales No one has the right to strip you away of your identity. Fil-ams or mixed filipinos, no matter what languages you speak, if you trace yall roots you'll find your way back here in the Philippines. Much love to Fil-ams and mixed filipinos around the world! Keep safe 💙💛💓❤
      Greetings from Cebu!

    • @shihdach6936
      @shihdach6936 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree but it’s rewarding to witness the awe that you get when you try to speak somebody else’s native tongue. More often than not, you gain intant rapport and elicits good reaction on the the person you’re speaking to. Try speaking French in Paris, Spanish in Madrid, or Mandarin in Beijing for example, see how you’re received by the locals versus just speaking English to them. When you speak English to a Filipino who’s from the Philippines originally, you’ll get understood and he can communicate with you, but it really hits differently when you try to speak to him in Filipino.

  • @retrovelcro
    @retrovelcro ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Just the way you say "Tagalog." King. I'm going to try harder to learn Tagalog. Then Bikolano, my mom's language.

    • @BischannelYT
      @BischannelYT ปีที่แล้ว +1

      EYyyyyy, there are many pageant queens with Bicol roots, one of them is Miss Universe 2018 Catriona, Bicolanas are really pretty

    • @retrovelcro
      @retrovelcro ปีที่แล้ว

      @@BischannelYT That's cool, I didn't know that. Will have to look them up

  • @cecece648
    @cecece648 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    thank you for making this video! i recently graduated hs and i’m resuming on learning Tagalog since forever bc school was in the way🥲…your tips and advices really helped!

  • @kyuketsuki
    @kyuketsuki 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    my other half is filipina im learning tagalog to connect with her family and since shes busy in college rn ill teach her how to speak it after too, thanks for the music recommendations they are going to help alot, and mentioning subtitles reminded me of how i picked up some japanese from watching anime so much lmao. preciate the video bro

  • @luvs4m_
    @luvs4m_ 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i recently went to the philippines for the first time in a while since i couldn’t go last time because of covid, and i feel like i’ve learn a lot there. my parents didn’t really encourage me to speak tagalog and we can’t go to the philippines often since it’s expensive, so unfortunately the next time i’ll be going i’ll nearly be an adult! i was way too scared too speak tagalog when i went since it’s not the best even though though i could say a few phrases if i wanted to, but i really want to be be fluent next time i go because i want to be able to talk with my relatives and cousins connect with them even if there is a slight language barrier. thank you for all the tips!

  • @oshinsims
    @oshinsims ปีที่แล้ว +3

    When I heard putang ina 😂 I felt seen lol this is me. Mom is filipina but never taught us I can only say a handful of things. Thanks for the encouragement !

  • @marcomartinez1843
    @marcomartinez1843 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    8:16 I've been looking for him, kuya! Salamat po for letting me remember him!
    Now I know why I couldn't find him; ouch!

  • @liannamae
    @liannamae 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I cant even say Tagalog without sounding soooo Yyyyyyyytttt T_T mom robbed me by not pretty much forcing me to speak it so I'm trying to get it back haha . Great video

    • @TheEthanGonzales
      @TheEthanGonzales  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thank you so much!! best of luck in your tagalog journey!! :)

  • @thebladproject
    @thebladproject 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    THIS is THE video I have needed for a very long time. 3+ years ago, I moved to the Western Visayas after living in the US for 15 years. When I began school here in June 2019, I was very shocked at how different the culture was, especially hearing everyone around me speak languages I could not understand. I didn't grow up learning Tagalog or Hiligaynon so I definitely felt "out of place". I have had special classes but none of them have helped me speak at an intermediate level, and although my teachers say I have the potential to be fluent, I just have not been able to get myself to that point.
    Your video has really helped me get myself together. I have continuously felt misguided and confused in my Tagalog journey. For a long time, I've been trying to figure out on my own how I can actually launch myself to great heights. The amount of approaches and strategies you talk about are simple yet mind-blowing. I should try watching more Filipino TH-camrs/TV shows, huh? And I can absolutely relate with you on the many struggles, which I feel my classmates/teachers cannot truly understand.
    Also, your comedy is top notch, my guy. It just made the video even better. Maraming salamat po sa mga tips and grand advice!

    • @LearnwithReymund
      @LearnwithReymund ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi there! I constantly upload Filipino language on my TH-cam channel if you're interested. Heres the link - www.youtube.com/@LearnwithReymund/videos

  • @gisnotalizard
    @gisnotalizard 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    As somebody from the motherland, who is fluent, more power to you. Lots of us are gonna be like, you're less Filipino if you don't know how to speak it. DO NOT LISTEN TO THAT SHIT. It's in ya blood, and ain't nobody can take that away from ya ❤ Kaya niyo yan brad.

  • @JiaJiaJiah
    @JiaJiaJiah ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Actually i want to be the only one in my family who speaks it and the rest are confused 😂

  • @Fungustus1
    @Fungustus1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    hell yeah kuya! just found your channel and it's so dope! I'm that fil-am filipino that doesn't know how to speak tagalog :/ Turning 25 next year and just embarked on my journey to learn tagalog since I'm going to Manila this Christmas. This is how I found your channel and was ecstatic to find another fil-am channel with the same last name as mine and also on that creative grind. Thanks for the tips!

  • @kyyr7
    @kyyr7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m half Filipino and I can’t speak Tagalog,that’s the perfect vid. I live in Germany rn and I will be moving to the Philippines next year 🥲

  • @sanankhan2960
    @sanankhan2960 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am not Filipino. But I want to learn tags

  • @JerrealKhari
    @JerrealKhari 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m Nigerian and Bisayan. Lol guess I’m learning tagalog first.

  • @ajmosqueda6698
    @ajmosqueda6698 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    tnx 4 mentioning NISA NUGGETS. filipino (tagalog) is complex because we retain the (proto)-austronesian grammar/alignment. WAG KAYONG MAHIHIYA MAG TAGLISH kung hindi n'yo talaga kaya pa! relax😉 hello from the motherland 👋 i saw this vid on SFT Community

  • @MochiFam
    @MochiFam ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m half Filipino and I really want to learn it. I have a ton of family members who speak it and don’t want to be that one cousin who can’t speak it anymore 😅 the embarrassment is real

  • @ericverzola7562
    @ericverzola7562 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m u similar situation - I’m Filipino-Am too but….. I’m 54…my goal is to learn & be fluent like you this year & to continue trying. This video is an inspiration for me. Salamat!

  • @theoneandod
    @theoneandod 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm not Filipino, but my significant other is and hence I want to learn the language to make him feel happy and comfortable

  • @teamBowden
    @teamBowden 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    My hubby is always fascinated with languages but now he is very eager to learn tagalog. He is doing this 90 days challenge. It would be nice to connect with you. We’re from Australia

    • @player2763
      @player2763 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi there! Can I ask, what does this 90 dat challenge entail?

  • @JcMedia_
    @JcMedia_ ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm half Filipino and I just started learning tagalog, this kind a video motivates me even more!!!

  • @Kadukunahaluu
    @Kadukunahaluu 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm like about a quarter Filipino. My mom is half Chamorro half Filipino, and my dad is Chamorro/Carolinian. I don't know Tagalog, Chamorro, or Refaluwasch so my ancestors all must be ashamed 😂

  • @abwskj
    @abwskj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    OMG i-nadd ko lahat nung mga kanta na rinecommend mo. TY

  • @yu_ba
    @yu_ba 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You know what's sad? I've been in the Philippines, my WHOLE. LIFE.. I'm a Filipino, but somehow, up until now i cant speak a single thing related to tagalog. (And i feel so ashamed)
    It was probably because i was surrounded by many things that weren't related to my culture at all, and because of that, I was labeled as the englishera on my class. People won't take me seriously, and lessons (ESPECIALLY filipino) are more harder than before... I want to learn this language so that i wont feel different.

  • @EggSB-k7j
    @EggSB-k7j 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am a Filipino that doesn't know Filipino yet. thanks for the help

  • @pandacookie2573
    @pandacookie2573 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Aghhh I feel like this showing up on my feed is I sign to try and learn Tagalog again😭 it’s just so intimidating for me

  • @aschroer
    @aschroer 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Salamat. So encouraging and supportive!

  • @alexiselazegui8942
    @alexiselazegui8942 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    kamusta! i stumbled upon your bideo bc i want to learn tagalog at 26, living away from my parents and tagalog-speaking relatives...and YOO! your video was extremely engaging, funny, and your editing style is cool too. thank you for sharing! feels like my cousin is encouraging me to speak tagalog or something. but thanks for sharing tips on a good place to start, including a few branches to follow for music and that bit about integrating tagalog in english. that's gotta be helpful. anyways, salamat!

    • @TheEthanGonzales
      @TheEthanGonzales  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      thank you so much for your kind words!! they mean alot! i’m so glad that you are taking up learning our language and that my video was able to help!! greatest of luck!! kaya nyo to! :))

  • @JamilBryant
    @JamilBryant 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My mom speaks Cebuano. I wish she taught it to me.

    • @espanol9498
      @espanol9498 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      acquire it by yourself

  • @notme6753
    @notme6753 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I feel kinda bad for our bunso because she grew up in Singapore and we spoke English to her most of the time as she grew up and we didn't really teach her how to speak Tagalog. So sometimes I would see her spacing out everytime we speak Tagalog at the dinner table.

  • @1.7jt
    @1.7jt ปีที่แล้ว +1

    hello, indonesian here. i want to learn tagalog because i want to understand my kpop twitter mutuals🥺 we share the same ancestors(?) so it's interesting and i hope it makes me easier to learn because some words are similiar to my language. wish me luck🍀

  • @generic_fish
    @generic_fish ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you for the video. My mom and dad are both Filipino and knoe the language, all my older relatives know it, and i dont. I dont want to learn for the sake of 'not being excluded', but it goes more personal. Overall, thank you.

  • @markmondia
    @markmondia 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Im so proud being Filipino. Mabuhay

  • @okest1434
    @okest1434 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really have no idea why I'm learning taga..it has been more than 1 years since I have been learning..
    Simply I like ph ( 🇵🇭 malakas)♥️
    Oh bdw taga India ako ✌️

  • @beansforsalewahoo
    @beansforsalewahoo ปีที่แล้ว +1

    For everyone who isn't used to speaking it because they live outside the country, don't feel too bad. It's hard for us native speakers, too, since a lot of use are a less reliant on formal Tagalog, and we end up missing or not appreciating different parts of Filipino grammar. And there's been a shift for quite a few of the kids, where their parents drill English into their heads instead of the native language/dialect. Just keep going at it and expose yourself to more.
    For recommendations, I'd happily encourage you to read Dekada 70, or anything made by Bob Ong. They use a lot of Taglish, and the former book is especially relevant in today's age of historical denialism. Also, purchase children's books that have Tagalog in them. You'll get familiarized with Filipino mannerisms, values, language stuff, etc. in one simple book, and you can practice your speech by reading the sentences out loud. I'm most familiar with Adarna Books And Lampara Books from my childhood :)

  • @ari_yanna_
    @ari_yanna_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thank you for making this video yo 😭 i’m so glad another FIL-AM shares the same experiences i i have. i’m trying to learn to speak tagalog and bisaya so this was inspiring for me

  • @nicks3456
    @nicks3456 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I want to learn Tagalog so I can have conversations with my boss and the beautiful women

  • @ramyroeung799
    @ramyroeung799 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i giggled at the SB19 part because they made me want to know Tagalog just so i can understand them better

  • @lilyp008
    @lilyp008 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m half Filipino, my mom immigrated to the us when she was four and I just feel rlly disconnected with that side of my culture and I’ve been trying to learn Tagalog for an embarrassing amount of time!! This is like the first video that’s been somewhat my situation

  • @lovelcruz6876
    @lovelcruz6876 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I LOVE EVERYTHING ABOUT THIS AHHH

  • @irmadebroe9813
    @irmadebroe9813 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thank you, this video was really helpful! i'm an exchange student so i have a long way to go haha but this definitely motivated me 😁

  • @marid6217
    @marid6217 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm not filipina but I really want to move there and learn the language before moving, I can speak spanish and english

  • @tonymetalmouth
    @tonymetalmouth ปีที่แล้ว

    This was such a well-made high quality edit, wow. Great vid

  • @Luis-rz7oo
    @Luis-rz7oo 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Im not Philippino, pero i just want to learn it because of my teacher. I thought i was fun to learn it.

  • @Miss_Angeme
    @Miss_Angeme 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yeah I am both filipino and into sb19😂

  • @Crabbypino
    @Crabbypino 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks a lot for this advice. I'm starting to learn it now.

  • @prescillagcon
    @prescillagcon 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My 4 year old son is also name Ethan and I am slowly teaching him Tagalog. My husband moved to US when he was 8 and the his teacher told my MIL to only speak English or he won’t move up. So now he’s 40 years old and been trying to learn since. It’s just so hard for me to switched back and forth 😅😢 now I really have to just speak Tagalog to my son.

  • @ec-j9632
    @ec-j9632 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    the first part was WAY too specific to me😭

    • @TheEthanGonzales
      @TheEthanGonzales  ปีที่แล้ว

      ahahah 😭😭 i be callin out sm people lolll