dear parents... // original song by tate mcrae
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- dear parents... // original song by tate mcrae
heheh well this is different. what do you guys think?? ALSO go to my instagram @tatemcrae and comment what i should write my next song about :))))
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OMG😭😭 TATE IM SO PROUD OF YOU FOR HOW FAR YOU'VE COME❤❤
What if she makes this song official in the album I would literally die
@@SlayzDragon202omgggg yesss😭😭
Tate omg I love ur music, this one's my favorite I even tweaked it for my own life!
This shit’s crazy
“We don’t cry because we want to” that hit me.
Haylie Chauvin me too🖤
Yep....
Yeh
Haylie Chauvin
Yeah...it hits a little to hard 💔
I agree, the whole thing hit me... Like a bus... But in a good way 😊😁😄
parents: “it’s that damn phone!”
little do they know that phone helps me through so much. music, friends, videos to make me laugh, etc.
exactly but they still take it and its makes your anxiety higher its great
Same
all my friends are on my phone... it makes me happier knowing that people actually care there 🥺
Bold of you to assume that most parents want their kids to be happy :/
@@kalslavnes4880 most do tho? since it's their kid... i know for sure i'd want mine to be.
"they be asking, but she cant describe" why is that so perfect.
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Right 😭😌
It really is
this song still stands relatable after 3 years.. it's just full of pure truth and that hurts
all of her song do no matter how old they are.
@@HaydenRaine yess!!
fr before i didn’t understand 😢
Ikr
Even now.... after 4 yrs
“ Immature just because I don’t wanna talk”
That hit my heart like a bullet.
Riley Strussenberg the entire song did for me
Riley Strussenberg did it really tho
Lewis Turbill Exactly lol
Maryan Mohamed my real name is maryan
I get this I hate when people see ur upset and go tell me what’s wrong that’s why whenever someone is upset I just say do u wanna tell me about or do u just want me to be here
"If something's wrong, you should tell me."
"You're fine."
That's the sentence I hear every single day.
@@shianne2659 I feel you guys... My mom says everything is all good... but I would hear her crying at night sometimes... It hurts, ya know.
I hope my life ends by my dad bc he gets drunk and I’m not sleeping now bc I’m scared that he will kill me and my loving mom....😓😩😩😩☹️😞😞😞😞😞😞😔😔😔😔😣😣😣😣😣😥😥😥😥 hope you see this I just need someone to make me calm
The Weirdo I suffered from depression for a few years without realising because whenever I would that stuff up my parents would say “you can tell us anything” and when I talked about it, they said “you’re fine”. And when I came out as being bisexual my mum said “it’s just a phase” and she didn’t realise how much those words hurt because I had cried myself to sleep that night thinking my parents didn’t support me.
Melannie Paasa I hope your life improves massively!
vintaqe it’s ok my was just drunk
the "we don't cry because we want too" hits really different-
Yesss- It does i dont cry because I want attention, its because youre frickin yelling at me
@@personafreak4158 I relate
It does
@@personafreak4158 facts
@Hannah Moran Aww i am so sorry, but i can relate...
“We’re not crazy romantics but know what a heart is and know when it’s cracked it really burns”
I really relate to this and it hit me hard
We can easily connect with the entire song coz it states the fact in our life
True my parents always tell me how I'm weird and keep trying to find a guy I like but the truth is I don't like guys I like girls but I don't feel safe to come out to my Christian family and I have had a cr they'll just never know 🥲
this song actually hit so hard, especially the part when she sings "hate that you've been saying I'm dramatic" like sometimes parents just don't get that kids, whatever age they fricking are, understand what feelings are and can actually feel upset about real shit going on in their lives. parents, just because we don't tell you how we're feeling because of reasons we have, doesn't mean we're not feeling anything at all.
sarah exactly. they think we’re robots or sum
Exactly
I know. Why don’t they understand? Shouldn’t they? They were a kid once..
@@spiralingismiserable They should, but I mean mine never seem to get that stuff
Theresa Soraire Ikr. My parents don’t understand either.
hi guys!!! let me know what i should write about in my next song!!
Tate McRae can you write about waiting for a boy who never notices you x (like longing for soemthing even though you know it’s off limits)
Gay bi pan
The struggle of fighting with a best friend
Tate McRae friends who use us and how we move on from them
I just turned 16 today and thats the best gift ever, thank you for making the best songs i love you❤️
"They don't cry because they are weak, they cry because they are already tired of being strong"
"Don't let the words of others be the reason of your downfall"
I've seen lots of reply having bad days, just remember that you were born unique and beautiful. So you do you, and dont listen to those criticism.❤️❤️
True my mom wants me to work hard and be the smartest person in the famil6 but I don’t want to I want do a lot of new things like people but no she wants me to stay home and work hard with school
No that not how things or life work
Explains my life so much
I wanna be a singer But my mom wants me to be a make up artist my dad wants me to own the family company And all my family but i wanna be a singer
@@Abbyyyy1213 Do what YOU want to do.
parents sometimes don’t realize that we’re trying to stay alive. they don’t realize how stressed out we are and that just because we cry it doesn’t mean we’re ungrateful or crazy. i feel sorry for anyone who has to suffer through anything like this, because i can relate. :(
So true they say they can feel what we feel but they don't know what they say can hurt more
Appreciate it
OI YOU- Yes you, I though i'd tell you something.....
I love your smile
I love your laugh
I love your personality
I love your hair (or lack thereof)
I love your insecurities
I love your accomplishments
I love your failures
I love your eyes
I love your beauty
I love your handwriting (or the way you communicate)
I love the way you dance
I love you on your happy days
I love you on your sad days
I love you on the days you feel lonely
I love you on the days you feel helpless
I love you on the days you feel like no one cares
I love you on the days you feel forgotten
I love you on the days you feel unmotivated
I love you on the days you feel loved
I love you on the days you feel sick
I love you on the days you feel motivated
I love you on the days you feel depressed
I love you on the days you feel stresses
I love you on the days you feel crazy
I love you on the days you feel hopeful
I love you on the days you feel cuddly
I love you on the days you feel clingy
I love you on the days you feel amazing
I love you on the days you feel beautiful
I love you on the days you feel like a failure
I love you on the days you feel angry
I love you on the days you feel aggressive
I love you on the days you feel horrible
I love you on the days you feel safe
I love you on the days you feel unsafe
I love you on the days you feel vulnerable
I love you on the days you feel weird
I love you on the days you feel ok
I love you when you're healthy
I love how you sing (or hum or feel the music)
I love your taste in music
I love your taste in movies
I love your taste in tv shows
I love the way you move
I love the way you act
I love you when you cry
I love you when you're kind
I love you when you're mean
I love you when you're alone
I love you when you can't feel
I love you when you feel too much
I love you when you can't take life anymore
I love you when you feel like it's too much
I love you when you're asleep
I love you when you have nightmares
I love you when you have dreams
I love how you believe
I love you when you believe in yourself
I love you when you don't believe in yourself
I love you when you hate yourself
I love you when you love yourself
I love the way you think
I love you problems
I love your solutions
I love how you support
I love you when you're in pain
I love you when you're hurt
I love your promises
I love your secrets
I love your attitude
I love you sass
I love your creativity
I love your voice (or lack thereof)
I love you hand gestures
I love your stories
I love your wounds
I love your scars
I love your face
I love your past
I love your future
I love your present
I love your outfits
I love your style
I love your art
I love your honesty
I love you when you lie
I love you when you're tired
I love you when you're energetic
I love how you look
I love how you cook
I love you when you're adventurous
I love you when you're scared
I love your imperfections
I love your perfections
I love you when you worry
I love you when you talk (or communicate)
I love your opinions
I love you when you have a headache
I love you when you have a stomach ache
I love you when you help others
I love you when you need help
I love you when you're mature
I love you when you're immature
I love you in the hard times
I love you in the easy times
I love you when life is meh
I love you when you're responsible
I love you when you're irresponsible
I love you when you fight
I love you in your darkest moments
I love you in your brightest moments
I love your heart
I love you in the day
I love you in the night
I love you at midnight
I love you at 3 am
I love you at all times
I love you at your best
I love you at your worst
I love the little things you do
I love all of you
I love you when you're you
I love 𝙮𝙤𝙪.
From the stranger on the internet who loves you :)
@@Urfavliasthank you so much
It's to much sometimes 😢
i do not comment under videos but tate is something else. she deserves much more attention. she gets me over and over again. so many feelings are in her songs and i am so proud of her. one of my fave artists♡
Israa Bouqantar Saaame 🤗❤️
Ikr
Israa Bouqantar my name is isra too!
Same she’s one of my favourite artists
Nah
If your child is crying, don't call them dramatic or emotional. THERE'S ALWAYS A REASON FOR TEARS, WHETHER YOUR KID KNOWS IT OR NOT.
yes, preach it girl !!!!!!!!
I love that ❤
THANK YOUU THESE ARE TRUE FACTS
Some ppl just don’t understand and don’t even try to
True
"we know more than what we tell you, but can't always put into words."
oof that hit me hard.
Ack yesss. I feel so bad about all the things that I don’t tell my parents, but I just can’t figure out how to say it all.
as i read this she sang it
@@dewdrop101 omg exactly, even little things like dramas at school
Ikr. You WANT to tell them more but the words just gets caught up with that gigantic clog in your throat. When me and my mom fights, I just hate the way she acts as if I messed everything up. I messed up our relationship. But she seems to forget about all the things SHE did wrong. See, its always me. Kinda one of the reasons why i dont even try putting up a fight when I get into an argument.
@@lilyjurcic1249 I mean, it IS reasonable since WERE the kids but the hypocricy is just...frustrating
“to go make bad decision when we’re hurt
and we’re not crazy romantics
but we still know what a heart is
and know that when it’s cracked it really burns”
i felt that.
Taylor Mcknight Sameeeeeee
lauren espinoza people ask why I cry when no ones looking they don’t know what happens they don’t get bullied. It’s really sucks
Hooo
Same
Me too...
"We are not crazy romantics..
But we still know what a heart is....... "
Hit hard....
same...
hit me2
Yeah and we still know when it’s broken 🥺💔
"they say we're crazy and useless, making stupid excuses"
that hit me real hard
I’ve been listening to this since I was 13, in 8th grade. Now I’m 16 and in 11th grade. Nothing feels real anymore, I really wish I haven’t been struggling since I started listening to this but unfortunately nothing has changed other than a little more support. It really hits home when I realize I’m now 16. When I was 13, I kept saying that I won’t ever make it to 16. And now I’m here.
I am proud of u, I am 16 as well ILY 💞
Thank you!
Hey. How you doing
I’m so proud of you❤️
@kate0530I believe in you❤
"Hate that you've saying im Dramatic"
Its hit me because i always cry when they fight
I'm so sorry for you...
It hurts!!
Itsgalaxy Gamer same. they fight everyday for as long as I can remember. And it really hurts me and i cant get used to it
..My parents have been together for 13 years (im 12) .. They've stayed together for my siblings and I...but I dont think they'll make it further together.
This comment hit me hard😣
I wish parents would take the time to think about how their children feel before they get mad at them
area 51 Yes
I agree. #cuttingfixsproblems
For real!!! I am 12 and my mom is kicking me out o the house and forcing me to live with my dad and leave the people I have been around my whole life!!!! I have cried all day because of it
area 51 please 😭
@@cheapcosplay5736 Um.. No
"And we're not Crazy Romantics but we still know what a heart is..and know that when it's cracked it really burns.."
That hit me...💔
Same here 💔
Ashley's World Omg sameeee
Lyrics :
Sixteen, lot on her mind
Gotta few friends, left the rest behind
But guess that's just what happens, people change
Stressed out but is always "fine"
They be asking, but she can't describe
Maybe, they're right, it'll all be fixed with age
Hate that you've been saying I'm dramatic
Immature because I just don't wanna talk
You ever think that you might be overreacting?
Promise I'm thinking, overthinking quite a lot
They say we're crazy and useless, making stupid excuses
To go make bad decisions when we're hurt
And we're not crazy romantics but we still know what a heart is
And know that when it's cracked it really burns
Oh we know more than what we tell you
But can't always put into words
And we don't cry because we want to
But you'll assume it's because she's another sixteen year old girl
High school's been a terrifying one
She thinks she won't ever find someone
To build her back when she's in pieces and pieces again
Let's not forget about all the
Ones who go and run their mouths just to
Stay relevant and not miss out
Hate that you've been saying I'm dramatic
Immature because I just don't wanna talk
You ever think that you might be overreacting?
Promise I'm thinking, overthinking quite a lot
They say we're crazy and useless, making stupid excuses
To go make bad decisions when we're hurt
And we're not crazy romantics but we still know what a heart is
And know that when it's cracked it really burns
Oh we know more than what we tell you
But can't always put into words
And we don't cry because we want to
But you'll assume it's because she's another sixteen year old girl
Thank you this helped a lot ❤❤
Thank you
thanks!!❤
parents don't realize that we're trying hard to stay alive.
i'm proud of everyone who's feeling like shit but tries their best. i believe in you
Ugh same
Yeah they never noticed...
My mom makes it hard to and yeah
@@sunshinehobi1854 and never will...
Well there doing.this for your own good they do job to feed u appriacite it man u guys r being overdramatic and parents r like angle they be harsh to u for your own good
me:i need help im falling apart
parents: IT BECAUSE OF THAT DAMN PHONE
girl...GIRL..... thats what my parents say "because of what you watch on tv." or "because of your friends and they are telling you that there sad and you think your sad to."
Me: No i am really this way on my own I--
Parents: Where not stupid we know its just in your head. You better than this...
@@sourlemon3496 i
feel.
u
@@roseashley8602 yep feel u too
Bookworm EXACTLY!!!!!! Uughhhhh THIS IS THE DAILY ROUTINE!!!!
@@rra2356 YEEESSS and then you come to them right for help. And they seem to want to help you but then, idk if this happens to you but it does to me, they get mad at you for some reason and they use everything you said against you and you regret being alive or saying anything at all!!!
"We're not crying because we want to"
Gosh, this hit my heart...
I cried just reading it 😔
@@maddie603 I cried too while writing it😔
Cool Girl why is this so true and every time you try to explain why your crying you can’t and you fall apart more then you were already. and then they say it’s all for attention but they don’t know what you are going through. You try to explain to them that your not okay, but they don’t believe you because you’ve been “okay” all the time
@@emjuarez5177 that's so true, they don't know what is happening to tell anything to us...
When we cry its so hard to explain why and then our parents dont get it. they think its for the attention or that were being dramatic. its so hard for parents to understand but it doesnt seem that hard. i always wanted to hear a song that explains so amazing the things we go through. tate is such an amazing artist. i hope one day our parents will understand it one day
For people that's depressed, anxious or downright s*icidal music is one of the best ways to pour out one's hate and anger or sadness I used it alot when I was battling depression and extreme social anxiety. I'm not here to defend parents who mistreat their kids because I was mistreated too but from their perspective they're disciplining their children when they think they're "Going out of line" not because they just feel like it. This is usually solved by proper communication cuz at that point what's more to loose? And you get everything to gain. For people suffering through mental health don't give up on your life. Or yourself but fight through it. The light at the end of the tunnel is near and may God bless you and have a nice day
Ik how it feels
they act like they’ve never made a mistake in their life.
exactly
I mean not all of them they just want the best for you- Tough love sometimes :/
The problem comes when they believe that not only act.
:( to good to be true
they made me
“Hate that you’ve been saying that I’m dramatic,” that hit me hard
sunshine same
Yeah same.. we get called dramatic when really that’s the only way to get out how you feel or try to say and they look at us and say “your just being dramatic”
I relate sis
We’re dramatic for showing how we feel. If the don’t want us to show how we feel then they shouldn’t claim that they’re for us if when we tell them how we feel they call us dramatic. And that made no sense
Same, I can’t express my emotions without being called immature, a baby, and dramatic.
Strict parents- “I’m just trying to protect you”
CONGRATS! Now you have child that lies to you 24/7 and isn’t comfortable telling you stuff.
sadly yes..
Same....sadly yes too....
Sadly that is the truth......TvT
😔
Yes PREACH this is so true
I want to be a parent someday that my teen can come to when her heart’s broken; that she can call her friend. I hope I never forget how hard it is to be a teenager, and how much we just need our parents to listen and care. ❤️
Yesss
YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSss
The lyric hit me hard.
I know my parents love me.but idk why they dont understand me in many things.And i am not good with words.I dont expect them to agree with all the things i did.I just wish they trust me.And say "you are right" in some cases.
Same
Same😭
They expect us to say ‘sorry’
When they’re the ones who caused the problem.
Boring Person Here why does this not have slit of likes like I understand
I entirely understand and agree😕
relateable..
Kim Insert Last Name holo fello holo lover🤪
They don't understand that the words they say hurt
Fact: People want to hear songs with words they're afraid to say
Yes...why is this true, and something stupid parents say is "stand up for urself!" And when they do to their parents, the parents act like the victims.
How do you say someting soo true
@Bluekittymoon EXACTLY
True.
is this why i listen to dea and cold all the time? i guess that would make sense...
these youtube songs that u never released will always have a special part in my heart. your songwriting always hits a spot
“Promise I’m thinking, overthinking quite a lot”
Why are my eyes leaking?!
scrt Dolan that hit hard
Same I did the same thing
where are the ninjas with the onions? 😢
scrt Dolan me too
YoUr CrYiNg. Lol that line hit ne hard too
She’s legendary and the way she’s build herself up is so inspiring.
2020 anyone?
bro I come here daily
Meeeee
@Bethany Willis sus...
@@almasahmad7403 fr
@@hannaa9877 ikr. its just so relatable and addictive :)
to parents:
stop saying i have "attitude" when all i'm trying to do is talk.
Wow it hurt uhhhh
I fell you lol I'm always grounded for having a "attitude"
My mom says I have a additive after she yells at me like what am I supposed to be? Happy bc u yelled at me? Yea no.
@@keymirxh8386 exactlyyy
@@madisonyea3668 same
Heard this when I was 10, lost it when I was 11, and found it again at 13, found it now at 14 almost 15 and it still hits like getting hit in the head. Been listening to you Tate for a while, your songs are Always relatable 👌 ❤
Same almost forgot about this piece. Now that I’m listening actually understand it and all the nostalgia from listening to this. Always been my favorite Tate💗
“And we’re not crazy romantics , But WE STILL KNOW WHAT A HEART IS “
My family thinks I'm a drama queen when I am crying
@@amritagurung5141 same
@@diaellee we will be fine lets stay strong 😓
@@amritagurung5141 litarally everytime thats what my mom says
@@0fficialx421 ohh I'm sorry
What Strict parents think they’re teaching us:
•How to behave
What they really are teaching us:
•Lie 24/7
•Listen for footsteps
•Emotion blackmail to people who know your secrets
•keeping secrets
And now... *you have a child who doesn’t feel comfortable around you and wants to die*
basically :(
@@jazminegriffith5705 TnT
😖😔
That's so true,my dad trys to make me "normal" but he's just making me be uncomfortable with who I am,that's why I don't talk that much with them but they assume that it's cuz I have an addiction to my phone
@@gothpinktheweirdo7272 I know, this happens to me a lot, in every argument or Smth, he suddenly brings up the topic my phone and says that my phone is ruining my life.
I am a parent and I am trying to understand my 16 year old daughter . I love this song you have put together for us parents. Any parents out there listening or reading this please don’t think your kids are dramatic or over reacting they are just small human beings trying there best. Good luck teenagers I know you got this and you will crush your teenage years
that is a beautiful message Patricia !
Your daughter is really lucky :)
i am envying ur daughter i wish my parents were same
you are a parent that deserves their child
@@beam.ay1313 thank you I appreciate that
knew her before she was famous, still love her. slay queen
When children have to over come a traumatic situation (depression,abuse,anxiety etc) parents brush it off as if it is going to go away if they say “you are fine. Chin up. Smile more. Get off that phone and you will be happy”. Everyone’s parents say “I know everything about you” but they don’t they know nothing, because they won’t let us talk to them. (Thank you for reading my ted talk)
This is true I try to tell my mom about my problems because she said I could tell her anything and after I told her she just yells at me and says “ your not depressed! You don't even know the definition of it! “ I don't understand.
@@trusfratedkook830 i told my mom I wanted to kill myself and that I was having suicidal thoughts and she pretended that I didn't say anything. A few months later we got into another big fight and I reminded her about it, and what she told me was this:"I just thought you were having a bad day". And what I said was:" you could've asked me! I have been having suicidal for months now and you don't even care!"
Like bruh, I'm telling you I have been having suicidal thoughts for months and you've done nothing to help me with that.
She has been in a toxic relationship before, and I get that but don't you make me feel like sh** because of it. I have been having all simptoms of PTSD. There was another night where her current boyfriend got drunk and went crazy. I had to wake up at 1am because they were screaming at each other. I was shaking, scared for my life because of the way he was talking that night. I couldn't go to school the next day.
Now everytime I hear a loud noise I'm literally scared to death.
so true
@@eliza4923 Oh my gosh iḿ so sorry...i just wish parents understood. I wish that they understood that some kids are depressed and try to open up. They shouldn't yell at us saying “stop it! stop crying! you don't get to be sad!“ When i become a parent i'm gonna let my child tell me all their problems and talk them through this. But still iḿ really sorry about you and your mom you shouldn't be put through this. You deserve way more.
@@trusfratedkook830 thank you! I'm sure you'll be an amazing parent :)
I’m literally crying listening to this song and reading the comments they’re so relatable..
Exactly...
Same
same
To the parents out there who want to understand... this is for your kids
I’m sorry, you may not understand us,
I’m sorry I’m not perfect..
I’m sorry I’m not like them...
I’m sorry I’m a disappointment.
I’m sorry you wish I wasn’t here..
but try to remember. You chose to keep me,
Remember I’m only a child,
Remember that I’m not gonna tell you everything
And all I’m saying is don’t tell what’s not right with me
I just want to be left alone sometimes....
so please, give me space...
Soo what she got it
U almost made me cry on this comment
I cried😣😫
Why are most people in this comment section broken? Me included, my parents say I don’t need my iPad (they took it away from me) but I do. I need
My friend through texting
Songs like this
And many more
"And were not crazy romantics but we still know what a heart is" this is so good
"Tears come from the heart not from the brain"
- Leonardo da Vinci
Edit: thx for the likes and stop saying: tHeY cOmE fRoM tHe bRaIn it's not funny
those tears only come bc that heart was shattered
@@Anonymous-gp6lx
And those who tries to be more happy in the outside is getting shattered and shattered slowly in the inside in pieces, youre heart into chains and the longer it gets the more it hurts..
@@moonlxghtstars5076 your right i actually go to cry in the bathroom nd then wipe my tears then smile when i come out
@@Anonymous-gp6lx
Same here.. Life is really hard isnt it..
@@moonlxghtstars5076 yup super hard
This is why we have to KEEP everything from our parents
IKR!!!
Sad truth but ya it's really ture..
"be quiet !"
" Why don't you talk anymore!"
"Leave me alone!"
" you don't talk to us anymore"
"Get your grades up an A - isn't good enough"
"get off your phone"
"you cry too much"
"you're not depressed"
"you don't have problems"
" you don't work as much as I do"
They say these things and don't expect us to be hurt. No one is perfect. We all have emotions.
i felt that
This is my life
they think im a bot and they can just shout at me and insult me like i have no feelings and no consequences :)
I just cried because of this Comment, I thought its just me. My parents tell me these things every day and I am so hurt. They dont understand, that they hurt me and I am lost. Im depressed but they dont understand me. Im so alone. This comment made me cry because so many other people feel exactly the same. All I want to say is, if you read this Elaine Onemiye, thank u for this comment.
Me at my parents in my head: "you want me to get my grades up then why don't you shut up like you'll ever do that"
the chorus, the voice, THE GODAMN BEAUTY -
its perfection
loveu
I love ur user
Me and my frnd had a good laugh
13 lot on my mind, having anxiety attacks everyday, crying 3 times a day, can’t breathe.
I always feel like I can't talk to anyone and that no one wants me around. I almost cut myself the other day... But I lost two of my family members to suicide and I don't want to put my family through that again even though they would be better without me. I've only had one panic attack but it was horrible and I can't really cry... I always have to keep my emotions inside because I'm always dealing with helping other people. im only 13 and I couldn't hate myself more. My dad chose alcohol over me. My mom basically hates me. My friends pretend I'm invisible. Life just really sucks. Yeah, a lot of people have it worse than me but that doesn't make the pain any less real. Everyone sees a girl that is so happy and couldn't love life more... If only they knew that that is a huge lie. But hey, maybe we can help each other. I can understand what you're going through.
@@malissarowen2591 things will get better. they really will. i know it doesn't seem like it at the moment, but things will always come out brighter. it's always okay to let your emotions out and sometimes crying can make you feel better. it's okay to put yourself first, and prioritise your own needs. take care bc I'm rooting for you
@@aftericy but like... I physically can't cry. Idk what it is but I can't ever cry more than a few tears.
Same, I get nightmares too. I have tried to get a hold of my counselor but its so hard with school and, my grandparents schedules too. So I turn to music.
I get that all the time I'm 14 btw and ur parents dont understand it and its annoying bc u cant explain it to them bc they wont understand why
The fact that the comment section is more sad than the song
Ikr..It kinda helped tho bc I thought I was the only one who actually got that mad..I’m glad others go through it too
@@Robloxx-pc1jw yeah i was under the impression that I'm messed up
@@Robloxx-pc1jw the good thing is that we are all going through.the same and so but the thing that hurts more is that some parents these days can get a bit overreacting at these kind of things......
@@j.ust_jo.2986 exactly..like they don’t give a shot for our mental health. like they say he grateful for what u have while screaming at me...like no shit I’m grateful but does it take that long for them to realize how much pain we’re in..like I love them sm but can they just take a second to care for my mental health.and yes I love that abt social media that we get to communicate with others that are going through the same
@@j.ust_jo.2986 shit*
Asking a depressed person "why are you so depressed, life is beautiful" is like asking someone with asthma "why do you have asthma, there is so much air to breath"
Ikr , life's not always beautiful ; it just can be changed by you!
I have asthma,deprssion,ADHD,and anxiety so I get what you mean..
True it’s like asking a dead person why are you dead or somebody with cancer why do you have no hair
Being autistic, I get “Everyone’s a boy autistic.”
@@maisym831 😥
You should record this song professionally, it really deserves global recognition. For all the other 16 year old girls who are hurting too.
Why the number 16 is so unlucky or it's just us? 😭
@@taeiya5918 yeah 😭😭
Ikr this has probably been one of the worst years of my life. Actually tbh it’s also kind of been the best as I’m starting to realise how toxic my mum is.
I'm not even 16 yet but I relate to much to this
not just 16 year old mostly like the ages 12-19
its funny how our parents can recognize fake friends but not their own childs depression and anxiety
Yeah...
FACTS
exactly and then when they tel them how they feel the litreally attack them for feeling that type away because most the time they think theyre doing it for attention.
True :)
I think most of them just refuse to accept it
The dislikes are the parents getting mad because shes speaking the truth.
Vicious Viviene 100% agree. Plus,it's THEIR responsibility to take care of their child(ren) and be their during their worst. But if he/she/their parents aren't there for their worst,then they DON'T deserve to be there at your success.
Lunar Roses yeah. Whenever my parents catch me cry they say boys don’t cry and I can walk it off. But then whenever im successful they’re out there posting and telling our whole family.
SOOOOO TRUEEEEE
@@ejgumapac927 Hey Bro. I, I don't know what to say. It's my first time to get Hit cause of Someone Thoughts...
Vicious Viviene YAsSsSsS
I'm not even 16 yet and this still hits hard.
Fr
I'm 12, and I can relate.
@@notorizedtransmale6042 same
I'm only 12. I relate to it too much.
Ye same
this verse " hate that youve been saying im dramatic immature because i just don't want to talk, you ever think that you might be over reacting promise im think over thinking quite a lot." it speaks for itself.
Sometimes I can’t describe my stress, why I’m crying, and panic attacks and why I’m upset. This really helped. Thanks so much.
Edit: ty for the likes. Most I usually ever get is two 💕
Wave Spark That happens to me all the time. My breathing fastens and I feel like I can’t get enough oxygen into my lungs. I have it at least once every week. I start crying for no reason and my heart starts ponding. It’s a full blown panic attack and I can’t do anything except deal with it.
@@cicicave1279 thank you so much!! and you are right I will stop bottling up my feelings 😊😊
Parents will never understand..
Why we take long showers
Do our best but still fail
Stay in our rooms
Cry over something “little” when they don’t even know why we are crying.
I wanted to share something, aswell!
You have to go through the rain to get the rainbow!
It’s okay if you are in the rain right now. We get it. You aren’t pathetic if you cry.
Yeah :c
@FeS FeO2 they don’t understand.they never do
@FeS FeO2 Ah, yes. I would agree.
that's so relatable. :')
ture
"we don't cry because we want to"
felt that on another level
edit: oh my gosh. thanks for all the likes😹💛
💔
Her song really hearts like a bullet in the heart
💔💔
Really. Its always "what are you crying about now"
Alyssa Graham I feel you ;(
as a 14 year old girl, this made me cry. never related to something more. love u tate
this really hit me. you’re amazing wow.
How did you make that profile picture
Love your channel!
I love u stay strong.
i love u lina
Sm
This song gets me every time because it's 100% True....
Why is it though ......
Same😫😫
Same
Other parents: “don’t be so hard on yourself”
My parents: “stop only caring about yourself”
Same, my parents do the exact same thing
You stop caring about your
Self
Yeah, I was raised to think of others before I do something and its good to do that but I took things a little to far about it and now I only think about others and I don't care what happens to me
My parents r the same way
My parents try to support me but it doesn't help
''friends are USELESS!'' no, they are the ones that keep me happy. being happy keeps you from getting mentally unstable. if parents was less strict, i feel like we wouldn't hide so much from parents. and when we hide something from our parents, they get mad when we're just trying to keep them proud. but no matter what, we just dont seem to be enough for them..
This is the sole reason we don't tell our parents anything.
limitless every time I try tell my mum anything she just tells me to grow up and stop being so stupid 😭
limitless yeah🤧
So true
Guys can you be my friends?:(( reply your name in your accounts please? i really need a friend who can understand me..:((
@@gachamimi1735 same.. can we be friends? i really need a friend to talk to..:((
"immature because i just dont wanna talk"
"They say were crazy and stupid making stupid excuses"
That cracked me up real bad
i just wish ppl can see trough my eyes and read my mind... rather then judging who i am
I felt that ouch.
ValGiov, I wish the same. That way maybe others could understand a little better what the other is going through. Instead of making stupid assumption, and I acting like they know what's wrong.
All the teenagers can see what your going through even some young ones where not alone theres a way out and its a good path dont take the easiest path out.
this song hits home a lil too hard.. :)
same hear
oh no mia Same 😔
Ya same
I’m sorry bby x
Same
Been listening to this song since it came out when i was 14, I’m almost 18 now and even with everything that’s changed in my life, especially recently, this song only gets more and more relatable , it still hurts and brings me comfort
Parents always say “when I was a kid” but they don’t know what being a kid in our years are like. They just don’t understand and will never.
this comment might just make me emotional. time to turn on WAP.
our generation are going to be the best. we all know what depression and anxiety feels like
Ikr .. when they were younger things were easier , they didn’t deal with the amount of bullying we deal with now..yet they don’t understand
I hear that all the time and it’s just so frustrating
Yes, like.. This is the 21st century now. Things are different
Honestly tate knows my emotions more than i do.
yes omg
yea me too pretty much
Bethanyxoxo wow why does your comment have only 180 likes?
Ikr
Yes 😫
PUT. THIS. ON. SPOTIFY. PLEASE.
Liana J yeeees Please
YES
Liana J ikkkkkk
IT NEEDS TO BE THERE OMG
YAASSSSS
It’s so weird and exciting to hear this song today and see how far Tate is going with her career. Like I couldn’t imagine when I heard it for the first time 4 years ago that she would be what she’s today and I’m happy because she deserves it. But wow I just came back here ‘cause I saw an old print screen of this video and remembered. I actually found my comment from 4 years ago as well.😅😂
“Be quiet!”
“Talk more!”
“Go outside more!”
“Stop going outside you embarrass me!”
“Be more like your sister!”
“ get your grades up, A- is unacceptable!”
“ stop crying, crybaby!”
“You cut for attention!”
“ you’re not abused, shut up!”
“Do your chores!”
“Stop, you’re doing your chores wrong!”
“You’re so annoying!”
“You’re the worst daughter I have!”
“Don’t tell anybody I hit you, you’ll get in trouble!”
“Stop being like this!”
“You’re not depressed!”
“Smile more!”
“You’re so weird you smile all the time..”
If anybody else goes through any of these like me, I hope you get through it, there is almost always hope!❤️
(Edit) thank you so much for all the support! this song is amazing, and I love it, have a good day to anyone reading this,!
My mom abbused my sister to death
thx
the part you told do ur chores; stop u r doing ur chores wrong, soo true....
@@aditi8137 I know. I moved out and now I live with my dad.
@@aditi8137 :D
parents: you can tell us everything we are here to help you
me: *breathes*
parents: we are so tired of your attitude.
The worst thing is that i dont have nobody to rely on and tell all my problems
You have me because I'm going through this too right now
Same
@@cyb3rs1ut Hey I am sorry to hear this I have dealt with many family problems being adopted and just overall crazy family If you ever need someone to talk to I am here for you just comment and let me know And we can talk on insta or snap if you want I am here for you
"loose weight"
"You're useless"
"Are you even trying?!"
& the even worst part is we’re quarantined & stuck with built up emotions
parents: whats wrong? u can tell us anything.
me:
parents: stop complaining and be grateful for once!
me: *crying broken dying inside*
Dont worry my parent's dont understand me too. I'm the only girl with two brothers and I dont dress like a girl because I'm to insecure about my body and my parents tell me to dress like others and it's to much for me to handle and I cant talk to anyone about it well I used to talk to my bff but schools are closed and she has strict parents and I only can ft her for 1 hr 😭💕💕💕
Amnah Almalki atleast u have a bff....
Shooting Star damn tru 💀 i always console myself tf
Amnah Almalki woah me too gurl the only girl in my family dont even have a girl cousin 😕 but u’re lucky u have a bff and still ft her errday during this pandemic 🥰🌈
parents should really prepare for all our emotions and phases before having us. like periods, sexuality’s, depression, body problems, much more
I remember watching all her piano videos when i was around 12 and now im 16 and im feeling the emotions again..this was one of the reasons i got into music when i was 12 and i still love this creative space. This feel so nostalgic and i even remember the lyrics🥺💗
Parents will never understand the world has changed.......
One day, our kids would think this to us
La Vonne Peduca yeah true but we would try to be better parents to them then our parents ever were 😔
Shreya Gopalakrishnan my parents can confirm this
and they say we hate them and just saying that they dont understand out of hate
Sadly yes I get bullied at school 24/7 and they say “just ignore them” like luv that don’t work like that
Why I'm crying?? And crying again after reading such deep emotional comments.
Same🥺🖤.
We here too🥺🤧
Same
Same
"get out of you room and be social!"
"It's just a phase"
"I know how it feels"
"Just be brave"
"Just smile"
"Think about others for once"
"Just leave the house"
"Your being pathetic"
"Your just cutting for attention"
"Your fine"
"What's up?"
"Your forgetting I was once a teenager and I went through the exact same thing"
And parents wonder why we don't talk to them.
Exactly. Parents can be so close minded.
And they wonder why we always feel and look so emotionless. They wonder why we always ignore them. They wonder why are we always so rude to them. They wonder why we struggle not just in school but in life too. They wonder why we always stare at our phones.
That’s just the thing. Parents don’t understand us. They don’t remember what it’s like when they were once a teen too. They’re always saying our phones are controlling us now but them themself can’t stop using your phones either. For my mum, I sometimes feel she does ‘I can do this to you but you don’t do that to me’
‘What is yours is mine and what is mine is mine’
They don’t understand and that’s fine. Maybe that’s how life works.
Kyrzo Ho parents are just like that. My parents do the exact same thing, I'm sick of it. If it wasn't illegal here they would hurt me constantly, and I mean physically.
AccidxntsHappen my mum since young could hit and cane me. Last time, I had to learn spelling for Chinese. I wasn’t really good in Chinese and she forced me to learn. My bedtime was 10 but I was forced to stay up to 12 to learn. Every time I get one word wrong, she would hit me. At the end of the day, I got caned on the same hands for about 25 times if I remember correctly. I was only 9
One day we might actually become our parent ....if we are still alive
this song will forever be my favourite from tate, its such a meaningful song and so relatable, parents just dont understand us and think we are lying :(
Everyone: You're not alone
Then why do I feel so damn alone?
Everyone: your not alone
Me: So why aren’t you there for me then?!
same sis
i honestly feel that someones inside of your mind other than you, but you don't notice them. so don't worry, someone does get you :)
Same
im sending you the little love i have left💕
Some things that parents will never understand
1. Is why we stay in our rooms all day..
2.why we take so long in the showers..
3.why were always on our phone..
4.why we cry over the "smallest" things...
5.why we feel so alone..
I felt that 😔
I felt that and they really won't understand me :'))
my parents always call me lazy and a slob for staying in bed all day, they dont know that Its hard to bring myself out of bed because I just dont have the mental energy to do so-
True
Felt 💔
"Were not crazy romantics but we still know what a heart is" 😭 "immature because I just dont want to talk" I can relate to these😢
Same
Same.
I know that it's been 3 years but honestly Tate, your songs impact my life like crazy!! They're all so relatable and it's amazing how far you've gone in making music and dancing for a career since this video. I love this song sooooo much. It's so relatable and I love that about you!! You make these songs not realizing how much they mean to others. But really I love everything you do! 💕🔥❤🔥
no one:
literally no one:
me:*listens to this on repeat at night crying for hours*
Girl same
Me still now
me currently.
Same lol
Mood
when my grades r low: mom: It's the phone.
when I'm sick: mom: it's the stupid phone
and yet the phone is the only thing that brings me to another dimension.
Parents hate phones but then they use there phones so much and then they say that there stuff on there phone is important like wth is that logic
U dont deserve a phone , i can bet u uses it a lot ,its your fault not there dunmbass
@@okok-wt3yk you do know that phones are the only thing keeping most teens alive bc without them idk what we would be so maybe you shouldn’t have a phone and go f yourself
@@okok-wt3yk ok boomer u just dont understand cause ur still stuck on the black and white screen
Lol....😂
Anybody 2024?
Meeeee!
Me in October 10th at 12:14 Midnight
I wish she’d release it
Me
@@beeberz555sameeee
"stop being like everybody else"
but im being myself
"stop being lazy"
but im trying my hardest
"tell us whats going on"
but you wouldnt understand
"stop listening to music all the time"
but it makes me feel better
"stop watching youtube all the time"
but it makes me laugh
"stop playing video games, find a hobby"
but playing games is my hobby
"stop texting friends all the time"
but they understand what im going through
I felt every single line- I'm hoping things get better one day :(
I knew every line in that and got it!! Hope things get better.
I'm lucky to have a mom that doesnt say that. She gives me space and let's me do my things.
:( i can relate so much
I don't even have friends but thanks 💗
-useless-
-dramatic-
-romantics-
But we know what a heart is, and when it’s cracked, it really burns.
Tate, I *know* you’re talking to a lot of people right now.
Edit: HOLY GUACAMOLE tygsm for over 900 LIKES!!!
*Anyone else teared up because they felt this on a spiritual level? No? Okay bye*
I did..
i’m sobbing
Me😓
yash more than teared up
i did n i’m in school😂😭
ppl who’s just revisiting tate’s old songs because they’re all so relatable and nostalgic>>>
"immature because I just don't want to talk"
im sorry I have social anxiety.
I don't like talking to strangers and my parents get mad at me for it I don't even like taking to employees for help, relatives I don't know, or family friends so I relate to this
I understand completely. I can't talk to anyone without feeling scared, or completely awkward. Just know that others understand how you feel.
This hits me so much
And they also think that I'm just starving myself because "I think I'm fat" and the real reason is cause I have alot on my minf
@@raya9029 same and my mom mostly asks me and also I am Hispanic(yes the stereotypical grandmas are real) and my great grandmother does not stop till I eat even if I just ate and not hungry
Ify.. I can't talk to employees of restaurants if they ask me to... It's not that i'm lazy, i'm scared i might do something wrong...
Why can't our parents understand us, i mean they've been kids once in there life.
This song really hits me
I cried
I did
Sofia Montero no it made me sad as well haha
I did
No
Kids shouldn’t have severe depression or anxiety
Then tell me why I cry over nothing, why shouting scares me, why I feel like I’m breaking
Oh it’s just because of hormones and my phone. Gotcha
honestly the only excuses parents make is bc of my damn phone, and bc their older literallt all i get told
Natalie Dong, sometimes you’ll question if life is worth all of the crap that you feel or go through, but one day you’ll find your happiness. It’s okay.
‘its bc u don’t sleep enough’
exactly
Natalie Dong I wish the best for you keep pushing you’ll find later in life that it’s worth fighting for!
"Stressed out but it's always fine"
HOW CAN ONE LINE DESCRIBE MY ENTIRE LIFE?!
parents really be like
“Stop crying”
“Don’t be dramatic”
“Get off your phone”
“Why are you always in your room”
Don’t ask me those questions, because we both know whenever I do explain you just don’t care.
so true :C
This happened to me right now i hate my mom like for real not to boast or anything im the good kid anybody ask for but she is selfish and she is not equal for us she favour one or another what did i do to deserve this ?
And her hurtful words don't get me started
My mom taught me not to feel now im known as the heartless bitch in school
I have friends but we're practically the mean girl group
Or we don’t want to deal with stuff right now because life sucks