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Ikr. You WANT to tell them more but the words just gets caught up with that gigantic clog in your throat. When me and my mom fights, I just hate the way she acts as if I messed everything up. I messed up our relationship. But she seems to forget about all the things SHE did wrong. See, its always me. Kinda one of the reasons why i dont even try putting up a fight when I get into an argument.
I’ve been listening to this since I was 13, in 8th grade. Now I’m 16 and in 11th grade. Nothing feels real anymore, I really wish I haven’t been struggling since I started listening to this but unfortunately nothing has changed other than a little more support. It really hits home when I realize I’m now 16. When I was 13, I kept saying that I won’t ever make it to 16. And now I’m here.
girl...GIRL..... thats what my parents say "because of what you watch on tv." or "because of your friends and they are telling you that there sad and you think your sad to." Me: No i am really this way on my own I-- Parents: Where not stupid we know its just in your head. You better than this...
@@rra2356 YEEESSS and then you come to them right for help. And they seem to want to help you but then, idk if this happens to you but it does to me, they get mad at you for some reason and they use everything you said against you and you regret being alive or saying anything at all!!!
I hope my life ends by my dad bc he gets drunk and I’m not sleeping now bc I’m scared that he will kill me and my loving mom....😓😩😩😩☹️😞😞😞😞😞😞😔😔😔😔😣😣😣😣😣😥😥😥😥 hope you see this I just need someone to make me calm
The Weirdo I suffered from depression for a few years without realising because whenever I would that stuff up my parents would say “you can tell us anything” and when I talked about it, they said “you’re fine”. And when I came out as being bisexual my mum said “it’s just a phase” and she didn’t realise how much those words hurt because I had cried myself to sleep that night thinking my parents didn’t support me.
Yeah same.. we get called dramatic when really that’s the only way to get out how you feel or try to say and they look at us and say “your just being dramatic”
We’re dramatic for showing how we feel. If the don’t want us to show how we feel then they shouldn’t claim that they’re for us if when we tell them how we feel they call us dramatic. And that made no sense
I don't like talking to strangers and my parents get mad at me for it I don't even like taking to employees for help, relatives I don't know, or family friends so I relate to this
@@raya9029 same and my mom mostly asks me and also I am Hispanic(yes the stereotypical grandmas are real) and my great grandmother does not stop till I eat even if I just ate and not hungry
Cool Girl why is this so true and every time you try to explain why your crying you can’t and you fall apart more then you were already. and then they say it’s all for attention but they don’t know what you are going through. You try to explain to them that your not okay, but they don’t believe you because you’ve been “okay” all the time
When we cry its so hard to explain why and then our parents dont get it. they think its for the attention or that were being dramatic. its so hard for parents to understand but it doesnt seem that hard. i always wanted to hear a song that explains so amazing the things we go through. tate is such an amazing artist. i hope one day our parents will understand it one day
For people that's depressed, anxious or downright s*icidal music is one of the best ways to pour out one's hate and anger or sadness I used it alot when I was battling depression and extreme social anxiety. I'm not here to defend parents who mistreat their kids because I was mistreated too but from their perspective they're disciplining their children when they think they're "Going out of line" not because they just feel like it. This is usually solved by proper communication cuz at that point what's more to loose? And you get everything to gain. For people suffering through mental health don't give up on your life. Or yourself but fight through it. The light at the end of the tunnel is near and may God bless you and have a nice day
What Strict parents think they’re teaching us: •How to behave What they really are teaching us: •Lie 24/7 •Listen for footsteps •Emotion blackmail to people who know your secrets •keeping secrets And now... *you have a child who doesn’t feel comfortable around you and wants to die*
That's so true,my dad trys to make me "normal" but he's just making me be uncomfortable with who I am,that's why I don't talk that much with them but they assume that it's cuz I have an addiction to my phone
@@gothpinktheweirdo7272 I know, this happens to me a lot, in every argument or Smth, he suddenly brings up the topic my phone and says that my phone is ruining my life.
Yeah, I was raised to think of others before I do something and its good to do that but I took things a little to far about it and now I only think about others and I don't care what happens to me
this song actually hit so hard, especially the part when she sings "hate that you've been saying I'm dramatic" like sometimes parents just don't get that kids, whatever age they fricking are, understand what feelings are and can actually feel upset about real shit going on in their lives. parents, just because we don't tell you how we're feeling because of reasons we have, doesn't mean we're not feeling anything at all.
Ikr this has probably been one of the worst years of my life. Actually tbh it’s also kind of been the best as I’m starting to realise how toxic my mum is.
"be quiet !" " Why don't you talk anymore!" "Leave me alone!" " you don't talk to us anymore" "Get your grades up an A - isn't good enough" "get off your phone" "you cry too much" "you're not depressed" "you don't have problems" " you don't work as much as I do" They say these things and don't expect us to be hurt. No one is perfect. We all have emotions.
I just cried because of this Comment, I thought its just me. My parents tell me these things every day and I am so hurt. They dont understand, that they hurt me and I am lost. Im depressed but they dont understand me. Im so alone. This comment made me cry because so many other people feel exactly the same. All I want to say is, if you read this Elaine Onemiye, thank u for this comment.
exactly and then when they tel them how they feel the litreally attack them for feeling that type away because most the time they think theyre doing it for attention.
parents really be like “Stop crying” “Don’t be dramatic” “Get off your phone” “Why are you always in your room” Don’t ask me those questions, because we both know whenever I do explain you just don’t care.
This happened to me right now i hate my mom like for real not to boast or anything im the good kid anybody ask for but she is selfish and she is not equal for us she favour one or another what did i do to deserve this ?
I remember watching all her piano videos when i was around 12 and now im 16 and im feeling the emotions again..this was one of the reasons i got into music when i was 12 and i still love this creative space. This feel so nostalgic and i even remember the lyrics🥺💗
parents: i know everything about you me: so you know that my entire life is falling apart? that my friends are leaving me? that i’m depressed? that i have severe anxiety? you know why i’m not good enough? edit: it is so sad that lots of people relate to this. i hope you can stay strong ❤️❤️
You are good enough and if people dont see that they dont understand a thing about you you are enough for everybody keep your head high and put on a smile dont tell yourself your worthless and things like that because you are worth everything
Jenna Woodward If you need someone to talk to, please talk to me. I can highly relate to this song. You’re not alone. You’re loved. Places where we can talk (yes I mean we CAN talk) Instagram: dxni.mp4 Discord: chocolate milk!! (I will put the numbers later)
Heard this when I was 10, lost it when I was 11, and found it again at 13, found it now at 14 almost 15 and it still hits like getting hit in the head. Been listening to you Tate for a while, your songs are Always relatable 👌 ❤
Same almost forgot about this piece. Now that I’m listening actually understand it and all the nostalgia from listening to this. Always been my favorite Tate💗
so true like WHAT DO I DO TO MAKE YOU FEEL PROUD OF ME YOU NEVER SAY YOU ARE PROUD OF ME IM NEVER GOOD ENOUGH FOR YOU IT ALWAYS THIS IS BAD AND THAT IS BAD NEVER THIS IS GOOD AND THAT IS GOOD
Me: *doesnt show feelings at all in my life after that* Parents: WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU?! I DO STUFF FOR YOU AND YOUR UNGRATEFUL YOUR GROUNDED! Me: I understand *still no emotions*
@@yooniverse9130 im becoming like that too they always call me a cold hearted nobody it hurts because they dont even know what their doing and always neclected me always and they always say I can tell them whats wrong but when i tell them they call me dramatic, boring ,annoying I CANT TAKE IT ANYMORE IT HURTS EVERYWHERE LIKE WHY AM I ALWAYS LIKE THIS IT HURT SO BAD LIKE I WANNA DIE BUT I CANT!
"stop hiding in your room" "Go to your room" "You can tell me everything" "Your just making stupid excuses" "I can see that your upset" "How do you know about depression when your only 16" OK WHAT DO YOU WANT ME TO DO THEN??!!!
im 12 (grade 7), telling my parents i overthink and get stressed (not depressed)... since grade 4.. and in the beginning, they told me i dont know what real stress is like... but now they start to realize i am, but then start calling me sensitive and very emotional
Parents will never understand.. Why we take long showers Do our best but still fail Stay in our rooms Cry over something “little” when they don’t even know why we are crying. I wanted to share something, aswell! You have to go through the rain to get the rainbow! It’s okay if you are in the rain right now. We get it. You aren’t pathetic if you cry.
Overprotective parents: "We are just trying to protect you." Congrats. Their "protection" has done nothing. Now they have a kid who won't open up to them, who is afraid to do things around them, who is sneaky and disobedient, who is afraid to tell them their mistakes and decisions cause they're afraid that they wont understand, wont forgive, wont support.
this is true. i don’t talk to them anymore because they will say “i won’t tell anyone” then go right around and tell the person i was talking about and tell all their friends. now i’ve started cutting again and if they find out they’ll send me away. and i can’t trust my friends anymore so it’s fun 🙃
@@connor1128 omg stop cutting yourself... Like, you don't deserve this😭 you have to stay strong you can do this❤️ there's only 1 person of you in this entire world🌍 you're not alone💕🥺
Parents: why are teenagers so damn angry all the time?? Teenagers: maybe, just maybe it’s because we’re treated like children and expected to be acting like adults😤
To the parents out there who want to understand... this is for your kids I’m sorry, you may not understand us, I’m sorry I’m not perfect.. I’m sorry I’m not like them... I’m sorry I’m a disappointment. I’m sorry you wish I wasn’t here.. but try to remember. You chose to keep me, Remember I’m only a child, Remember that I’m not gonna tell you everything And all I’m saying is don’t tell what’s not right with me I just want to be left alone sometimes.... so please, give me space...
Why are most people in this comment section broken? Me included, my parents say I don’t need my iPad (they took it away from me) but I do. I need My friend through texting Songs like this And many more
I may not be 16, but I can relate to this. But I don’t tell my mom and dad a lot bc I feel like they will think of me like this song describes. But still it hits me in a way very few songs can put into words. It’s nice to know that other people have this (problem?)😅 Wow I never got this many likes, thank you to everyone that liked this😊 I would also like to say that I feel like sometimes ima lone in the world, but my friends help me through some rough times by just being there.
ok so...heres a fact: YOUR VOICE IS ABSOLUTELY GORGEOUS AND THIS SONG IS SO TRUTHFUL! I LOVE IT SO MUCH! I PRACTICALLY LISTEN TO IT EVERY DAY! Remeber God loves you all!
“Shut up just go to your room!” “Your life’s easy stop.” “You’re a kid you have nothing to worry about!!” yeah, Life’s so easy! It’s *never* hard :). Edit- Stop saying I want likes. I’m putting out true facts okay..
I just hate when people say being a kid/teenager is easy... It's not. They act like they've never passed through that. All life it's hard. And maybe we don't have the same problems as they have, but they neither have the same problems as us.
i used to listen to this in my room and cry to this. now im hearing it again after 4 years and my heart feels the same everytime i hear it. ig i didnt find a solution after all 😂.
This is so relatable as teens adults/parents will never know how we feel & what comes with being a teen,thank you for putting what we want to say in a song ❤❤
Parents: “ Stop caring about you, care about others for once! “ Me: “ I CARE ABOUT PEOPLE MOM, I CARE ABOUT YOU, THE FAM, AND OTHER RANDOM PEOPLE, FRIENDS ANYONE YOU CAN THINK OF, OKAY? I TRY MY BEST EVERYDAY, I SLAP A SMILE ON, AND TRY MY BEST FOR PEOPLE I DONT FLIPPING CARE ABOUT MYSELF. “ It’s sad that parents are mostly the ones that hurt you.
Don't worry you're enough ♡ "Do school" - imagine if they told you not to study, or if they didnt care about your career and just let you become a beggar. They're telling you this because they want you to be succesful & make em proud❤ "Stop crying" - tbh, I still dont quite understand why they do this but its most likely because you cried for too long 😂 Imagine if they said " Cry louder, you loser!" "Give me your phone" - You'll understand when you become a parent. Raising your child, paying for everything & wanting to talk with them but they dont wanna listen to you, instead they're just staring at a piece of electronic all day long. They probs don't know what are you doing and why are you smiling at the screen but they know that there is a lot of inappropriate content and other things that could hurt you out out there so they wanna protect you. Trust me , you wont have good childhood memories if u dont fight with them oftenly. 😅 They used to help their parents and go outside but you? "Ur dramatic" - just watch this video and tell me if u can find yorself in there. You can lie to me,but not to yourself.When they were kids, if they complained about basically anything they would get beaten up by their parents but they probs aren't that harsh to you now but you still dont respect them like they respected their parents. "Eat/stop eating" - they just wanna make sure that you aren't gonna have any problems in the future getting rid of/putting on fat, or getting bullied "Don't listen to youtube " - try listening to them instead "Ur not a loser" "Ur fine" "We love you"- its ok if u never heard these because imagine how akward it would be hahah jk but would you say any of this to someone you love but fight with them all the time? You would. Ok im not a pro or sum but My mom died recently in a car crash & left my 2yr old brother to me, so I kinda know what's it like raisibg a child. The day before she died, I thought about how much I hate her because she wouldn't buy me a new phone but the day after I understanded everything she felt raising me 😔
@@atif5986 i agree, but the fact that ur mom gave birth to u doesn't mean she is gonna be the best person to u, there's a lot of crazy people out there...
@@lyr4kate Are you stupid or something ? Not all the teenagers are being rude or annoying towards their parents and this comment is clearly not about this. Sometimes we love our parents because we're supposed to, while they're mentally maltreating us. You maybe had great parents, I don't know, that's not my problem, but stop being stupid and use your mind. Not all the parents know how to love and take care of their kids.
I remember watching this when I was 11 now I'm 13 and I told my self one day I know she will make it on the radio and now 2021-2022 she got on the radio !! I'm so proud of you girl !! I would always watch your videos and still do !! ❤️❤️💋💋💋 lots of love ! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😭☹️
You noticed my attitude getting worse You noticed my grades dropping You noticed my attention dropping But you never noticed I’m hiding in my room more You never noticed how my tank tops and short sleeve turned into hoodies and long sleeves You never noticed how much pain you cause me You never noticed how I stopped talking about my feelings You never noticed my heart breaking in a million pieces everyday You never noticed how depressed I’ve been getting
School says we teach you what you need to know. They don't. When did they teach us to love ourselves or to tell someone how we feel or how to tell parents the hard stuff.
-useless- -dramatic- -romantics- But we know what a heart is, and when it’s cracked, it really burns. Tate, I *know* you’re talking to a lot of people right now. Edit: HOLY GUACAMOLE tygsm for over 900 LIKES!!!
“They say we’re crazy and useless, making stupid excuses to go make bad decisions when we’re hurt”. That really got through my heart like a knife had been stab through it. This song also remind me of when i’m hurt 😢.
All I hear is “Try harder” “Stop” “Lazy girl” “I like her better” “Why don’t be like her” “Your a disappointment” “You never made us happy” “Where will we be proud” “You were never serious” “EAT ALLOT MORE!” “We’re wasting our time to you” I might not be perfect,or any of the words your saying to me but atleast I’m perfect the way I am and I don’t need someone to be proud cause I’m proud of my self 🙂💔
Chayce Harville also what does age have to do with anything??? Experience is experience, the only difference is when your young nobody listens to what you have to say.
2:19 i can relate. I feel like even if i try i will never be perfect, my dad thinks I'm fine but I'm not, im scared to tell my parents how I feel bc i don't think they'll care if, i tried so hard to make my parents proud of me, but i try to hard, i just wish parents would listen to us like saying im a mistake and I don't get all A, ok so what im still your child, and i have IXIETY
“It’s because of that phone!” No. It’s because of that phone that im alive. If I wouldn’t have got this phone, I would be dead. Yes, it caused an argument between me and my bestfriend. But my other bestfriend was going through hell and so was i. So we would BOTH be dead if it wasn’t for ‘that phone’ We both helped each other. So it’s because of that phone that im alive.
i cant be quiet or sad infront of my parents they think its cuz of my phone so if i am sad my phone is taken away so i have to fake happiness everyday they will nvr understand now due to this covid i can't meet my frbds who make me feel bttr so yaa i have to put up a smile everyday and cannot cry my fav place now is my bathroom cuz i can be myself there
i am very sorry you went through that with your bestfriend but am happy to hear you got through it! Always remember that you are beautiful and amazing in ur own way! (sorry if this was creepy )
Tips for parents: 1) Don't call your kid a dissapointment, it truely breaks them. 2) don't choose academics over your child's mental health, every kid's different, some have an higher iq than the other, it's not your kids fault. 3) don't tell you kids to stop doing very hobby of theirs and study instead, we arent machines, we need rest too.
“You have to go to a school to become a doctor” “You cry to much” “You don’t even know what love is” “Your lazy” “Your not depressed your just a teenager girl, grow up and get over it” “You need to start working out more” “No wonder why those Jeans don’t fit you anymore, because your constantly eating” “You need to start eating more you don’t look so good” “Be like your sister” “Your overreacting” “Schools not that hard, so stop crying and just get it done with” “You don’t even know what real heartbreak even is” “It’s because of that phone, gimme it now!” “Your grounded” “We aren’t bad parents we are trying to help you but whatever” This is why girls our age are scared to open up to our parents.. it’s sad but it’s true. And they always wonder why I’m always in my room crying, because I feel like I’m slowly falling apart as the days go by.
I just went through my teenage faze and honestly I just realized that my parents were just trying to help me while breaking me down. Bad parenting habits bruh.
Gaaahh that sucks. I hate when people compare other people. Everyone is different! Also you cleaned the whole house, Gurl you're more responsible than me. They should be glad to have such a wonderful daughter like you! 💖
Dad: "you need more exercise, your too skinny."/ "get off your phone and go be social."/ "why do you have a B in this class, You can do better than that."/ "SPEAK! TALK TO ME, NOW!" Step Mom: " you are skinny like a stick."/ " I don't care what your dad says, YOU LISTEN TO ME!"./ "Don't give me an attitude."/ Quit Crying and calm down!" Step sisters: "Get off your phone and do this for me!"/ " You don't have depression and you don't stress over anything, you just want attention!"/ " your just a stupid teenager." Friends: " ew, why do you like that stuff."/ " Don't hug me, get away from me."/ "Ha I'm taken, and your still single and alone."/ " You act like your life is so horrible when actually my life is worse!" I'm sorry
@@hannihoney5909 if your friends doesn't help you . Don't be friends with them. they are the wrong bunch not you. Friends are one of the only things that you chose ,so make a wise choise . Hopefully you meet better friends soon❤❤
no one: literally no one: no one in the entire universe: me: *having a mental breakdown listening to this song at 3 am* Edit: Omg thank you for so many likes!!
A few years ago when I listened to this song I didn’t quite care about the lyrics and didn’t think too much about it, and now I’m listening to this while crying myself to sleep.
@@flowersandcookies2847 bruh, "mean"? Ofc you'd know. You don't know wt they're going through, alright. Just bc they didn't mention abt the vocals doesn't mean they didn't like it, or if they comment abt their mean moms, they probably mean it. They are listening to the music and FEELING the words she says. Some of us have 'mean' parents, and really depressing stories. People like you make it hard to share. You're just like their parents, "We aren't mean, we just care abt your future." Well they are actually ruining our future by not loving as for who we are and expecting more from us when that's all we have, and we're giving it our best. I'm sorry Ik it prolly didn't mean it tht way, but please think abt wt you say/comment. Thanks.
Just Meh I still think the parents are trying they just don’t know how to respond like I would be freaked out too if a person just had a meltdown in front of me
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Please come to Ireland !!💞
Im so happy for you ❤️❤️
I would love to go but my parents won't let me!
See u in Berlin ♡
I'd love to come but can't! Love ur songs, Dear Parents describes my life!!
“We don’t cry because we want to” that hit me.
Haylie Chauvin me too🖤
Yep....
Yeh
Haylie Chauvin
Yeah...it hits a little to hard 💔
I agree, the whole thing hit me... Like a bus... But in a good way 😊😁😄
"we know more than what we tell you, but can't always put into words."
oof that hit me hard.
Ack yesss. I feel so bad about all the things that I don’t tell my parents, but I just can’t figure out how to say it all.
as i read this she sang it
@@dewdrop101 omg exactly, even little things like dramas at school
Ikr. You WANT to tell them more but the words just gets caught up with that gigantic clog in your throat. When me and my mom fights, I just hate the way she acts as if I messed everything up. I messed up our relationship. But she seems to forget about all the things SHE did wrong. See, its always me. Kinda one of the reasons why i dont even try putting up a fight when I get into an argument.
@@lilyjurcic1249 I mean, it IS reasonable since WERE the kids but the hypocricy is just...frustrating
they act like they’ve never made a mistake in their life.
exactly
I mean not all of them they just want the best for you- Tough love sometimes :/
The problem comes when they believe that not only act.
:( to good to be true
they made me
I’ve been listening to this since I was 13, in 8th grade. Now I’m 16 and in 11th grade. Nothing feels real anymore, I really wish I haven’t been struggling since I started listening to this but unfortunately nothing has changed other than a little more support. It really hits home when I realize I’m now 16. When I was 13, I kept saying that I won’t ever make it to 16. And now I’m here.
I am proud of u, I am 16 as well ILY 💞
Thank you!
Hey. How you doing
this is literally me rn, and it feels like no one understands
I’m so proud of you❤️
to parents:
stop saying i have "attitude" when all i'm trying to do is talk.
Wow it hurt uhhhh
I fell you lol I'm always grounded for having a "attitude"
My mom says I have a additive after she yells at me like what am I supposed to be? Happy bc u yelled at me? Yea no.
@@keymirxh8386 exactlyyy
@@madisonyea3668 same
me:i need help im falling apart
parents: IT BECAUSE OF THAT DAMN PHONE
girl...GIRL..... thats what my parents say "because of what you watch on tv." or "because of your friends and they are telling you that there sad and you think your sad to."
Me: No i am really this way on my own I--
Parents: Where not stupid we know its just in your head. You better than this...
@@sourlemon3496 i
feel.
u
@@roseashley8602 yep feel u too
Bookworm EXACTLY!!!!!! Uughhhhh THIS IS THE DAILY ROUTINE!!!!
@@rra2356 YEEESSS and then you come to them right for help. And they seem to want to help you but then, idk if this happens to you but it does to me, they get mad at you for some reason and they use everything you said against you and you regret being alive or saying anything at all!!!
"If something's wrong, you should tell me."
"You're fine."
That's the sentence I hear every single day.
@@shianne2659 I feel you guys... My mom says everything is all good... but I would hear her crying at night sometimes... It hurts, ya know.
I hope my life ends by my dad bc he gets drunk and I’m not sleeping now bc I’m scared that he will kill me and my loving mom....😓😩😩😩☹️😞😞😞😞😞😞😔😔😔😔😣😣😣😣😣😥😥😥😥 hope you see this I just need someone to make me calm
The Weirdo I suffered from depression for a few years without realising because whenever I would that stuff up my parents would say “you can tell us anything” and when I talked about it, they said “you’re fine”. And when I came out as being bisexual my mum said “it’s just a phase” and she didn’t realise how much those words hurt because I had cried myself to sleep that night thinking my parents didn’t support me.
Melannie Paasa I hope your life improves massively!
vintaqe it’s ok my was just drunk
this song still stands relatable after 3 years.. it's just full of pure truth and that hurts
all of her song do no matter how old they are.
@@HaydenRaine yess!!
fr before i didn’t understand 😢
Ikr
Even now.... after 4 yrs
“Hate that you’ve been saying that I’m dramatic,” that hit me hard
sunshine same
Yeah same.. we get called dramatic when really that’s the only way to get out how you feel or try to say and they look at us and say “your just being dramatic”
I relate sis
We’re dramatic for showing how we feel. If the don’t want us to show how we feel then they shouldn’t claim that they’re for us if when we tell them how we feel they call us dramatic. And that made no sense
Same, I can’t express my emotions without being called immature, a baby, and dramatic.
"immature because I just don't want to talk"
im sorry I have social anxiety.
I don't like talking to strangers and my parents get mad at me for it I don't even like taking to employees for help, relatives I don't know, or family friends so I relate to this
I understand completely. I can't talk to anyone without feeling scared, or completely awkward. Just know that others understand how you feel.
This hits me so much
And they also think that I'm just starving myself because "I think I'm fat" and the real reason is cause I have alot on my minf
@@raya9029 same and my mom mostly asks me and also I am Hispanic(yes the stereotypical grandmas are real) and my great grandmother does not stop till I eat even if I just ate and not hungry
Ify.. I can't talk to employees of restaurants if they ask me to... It's not that i'm lazy, i'm scared i might do something wrong...
"We're not crying because we want to"
Gosh, this hit my heart...
I cried just reading it 😔
@@maddie603 I cried too while writing it😔
Cool Girl why is this so true and every time you try to explain why your crying you can’t and you fall apart more then you were already. and then they say it’s all for attention but they don’t know what you are going through. You try to explain to them that your not okay, but they don’t believe you because you’ve been “okay” all the time
@@emjuarez5177 that's so true, they don't know what is happening to tell anything to us...
When we cry its so hard to explain why and then our parents dont get it. they think its for the attention or that were being dramatic. its so hard for parents to understand but it doesnt seem that hard. i always wanted to hear a song that explains so amazing the things we go through. tate is such an amazing artist. i hope one day our parents will understand it one day
For people that's depressed, anxious or downright s*icidal music is one of the best ways to pour out one's hate and anger or sadness I used it alot when I was battling depression and extreme social anxiety. I'm not here to defend parents who mistreat their kids because I was mistreated too but from their perspective they're disciplining their children when they think they're "Going out of line" not because they just feel like it. This is usually solved by proper communication cuz at that point what's more to loose? And you get everything to gain. For people suffering through mental health don't give up on your life. Or yourself but fight through it. The light at the end of the tunnel is near and may God bless you and have a nice day
Ik how it feels
Everyone: You're not alone
Then why do I feel so damn alone?
Everyone: your not alone
Me: So why aren’t you there for me then?!
same sis
i honestly feel that someones inside of your mind other than you, but you don't notice them. so don't worry, someone does get you :)
Same
im sending you the little love i have left💕
hi guys!!! let me know what i should write about in my next song!!
Tate McRae can you write about waiting for a boy who never notices you x (like longing for soemthing even though you know it’s off limits)
Gay bi pan
The struggle of fighting with a best friend
Tate McRae friends who use us and how we move on from them
I just turned 16 today and thats the best gift ever, thank you for making the best songs i love you❤️
This song gets me every time because it's 100% True....
Why is it though ......
Same😫😫
Same
knew her before she was famous, still love her. slay queen
What Strict parents think they’re teaching us:
•How to behave
What they really are teaching us:
•Lie 24/7
•Listen for footsteps
•Emotion blackmail to people who know your secrets
•keeping secrets
And now... *you have a child who doesn’t feel comfortable around you and wants to die*
basically :(
@@jazminegriffith5705 TnT
😖😔
That's so true,my dad trys to make me "normal" but he's just making me be uncomfortable with who I am,that's why I don't talk that much with them but they assume that it's cuz I have an addiction to my phone
@@gothpinktheweirdo7272 I know, this happens to me a lot, in every argument or Smth, he suddenly brings up the topic my phone and says that my phone is ruining my life.
Other parents: “don’t be so hard on yourself”
My parents: “stop only caring about yourself”
Same, my parents do the exact same thing
You stop caring about your
Self
Yeah, I was raised to think of others before I do something and its good to do that but I took things a little to far about it and now I only think about others and I don't care what happens to me
My parents r the same way
My parents try to support me but it doesn't help
this song actually hit so hard, especially the part when she sings "hate that you've been saying I'm dramatic" like sometimes parents just don't get that kids, whatever age they fricking are, understand what feelings are and can actually feel upset about real shit going on in their lives. parents, just because we don't tell you how we're feeling because of reasons we have, doesn't mean we're not feeling anything at all.
sarah exactly. they think we’re robots or sum
Exactly
I know. Why don’t they understand? Shouldn’t they? They were a kid once..
@@spiralingismiserable They should, but I mean mine never seem to get that stuff
Theresa Soraire Ikr. My parents don’t understand either.
You should record this song professionally, it really deserves global recognition. For all the other 16 year old girls who are hurting too.
Why the number 16 is so unlucky or it's just us? 😭
@@taeiya5918 yeah 😭😭
Ikr this has probably been one of the worst years of my life. Actually tbh it’s also kind of been the best as I’m starting to realise how toxic my mum is.
I'm not even 16 yet but I relate to much to this
not just 16 year old mostly like the ages 12-19
All I ever wanted was a, "How are you?" Or a, "How was your day?"
Is it too much to ask for?
Apparently, it is.
Yes😐😂😃😁😣
They say phones made the new gen more antisocial. I say their attitude towards their children cause that.
how u been doing ?
@@DavidSantos-th8eb thanks for asking.... Finally after 14 years. I'm fine. I hope. How are you..
"Stressed out but it's always fine"
HOW CAN ONE LINE DESCRIBE MY ENTIRE LIFE?!
Parents will never understand the world has changed.......
One day, our kids would think this to us
La Vonne Peduca yeah true but we would try to be better parents to them then our parents ever were 😔
Shreya Gopalakrishnan my parents can confirm this
and they say we hate them and just saying that they dont understand out of hate
Sadly yes I get bullied at school 24/7 and they say “just ignore them” like luv that don’t work like that
No one :
Literally no one:
Me: cries while listening to this about 5 hours a night
This is literally me rn it’s 3 am I’m listening to this song and crying
I cried as soon as 00:13 and at 00:25 I cried harder.
Yeah😭😭
Same
you should change this to
everybody:
literally everybody:
"And were not crazy romantics but we still know what a heart is" this is so good
"Were not crazy romantics but we still know what a heart is" 😭 "immature because I just dont want to talk" I can relate to these😢
Same
Same.
"be quiet !"
" Why don't you talk anymore!"
"Leave me alone!"
" you don't talk to us anymore"
"Get your grades up an A - isn't good enough"
"get off your phone"
"you cry too much"
"you're not depressed"
"you don't have problems"
" you don't work as much as I do"
They say these things and don't expect us to be hurt. No one is perfect. We all have emotions.
i felt that
This is my life
they think im a bot and they can just shout at me and insult me like i have no feelings and no consequences :)
I just cried because of this Comment, I thought its just me. My parents tell me these things every day and I am so hurt. They dont understand, that they hurt me and I am lost. Im depressed but they dont understand me. Im so alone. This comment made me cry because so many other people feel exactly the same. All I want to say is, if you read this Elaine Onemiye, thank u for this comment.
Me at my parents in my head: "you want me to get my grades up then why don't you shut up like you'll ever do that"
its funny how our parents can recognize fake friends but not their own childs depression and anxiety
Yeah...
FACTS
exactly and then when they tel them how they feel the litreally attack them for feeling that type away because most the time they think theyre doing it for attention.
True :)
I think most of them just refuse to accept it
Parents always say “when I was a kid” but they don’t know what being a kid in our years are like. They just don’t understand and will never.
this comment might just make me emotional. time to turn on WAP.
our generation are going to be the best. we all know what depression and anxiety feels like
Ikr .. when they were younger things were easier , they didn’t deal with the amount of bullying we deal with now..yet they don’t understand
I hear that all the time and it’s just so frustrating
Yes, like.. This is the 21st century now. Things are different
This is the sole reason we don't tell our parents anything.
limitless every time I try tell my mum anything she just tells me to grow up and stop being so stupid 😭
limitless yeah🤧
So true
Guys can you be my friends?:(( reply your name in your accounts please? i really need a friend who can understand me..:((
@@gachamimi1735 same.. can we be friends? i really need a friend to talk to..:((
parents really be like
“Stop crying”
“Don’t be dramatic”
“Get off your phone”
“Why are you always in your room”
Don’t ask me those questions, because we both know whenever I do explain you just don’t care.
so true :C
This happened to me right now i hate my mom like for real not to boast or anything im the good kid anybody ask for but she is selfish and she is not equal for us she favour one or another what did i do to deserve this ?
And her hurtful words don't get me started
My mom taught me not to feel now im known as the heartless bitch in school
I have friends but we're practically the mean girl group
Or we don’t want to deal with stuff right now because life sucks
I remember watching all her piano videos when i was around 12 and now im 16 and im feeling the emotions again..this was one of the reasons i got into music when i was 12 and i still love this creative space. This feel so nostalgic and i even remember the lyrics🥺💗
It’s crazy how much you can hide with a smile
Right
Fun fact I smile most when I feel the worst it’s a habit I picked up from hiding depression
@@nnnnn....6059 Same tho
And no one will ever know
Sad isnt it. It sucks how people have to do that because no one else understands
Ikr
just imagine
* her parents listening her singing from behind the door! *
😰😰😰
T_T
I thought of that the whole time when i first heard it
AnyGood username? Im singing this with my mum beside me..
I could never play this around my parents😂☹
Ishh😂😂❤️
parents: i know everything about you
me: so you know that my entire life is falling apart? that my friends are leaving me? that i’m depressed? that i have severe anxiety? you know why i’m not good enough?
edit: it is so sad that lots of people relate to this. i hope you can stay strong ❤️❤️
You are good enough and if people dont see that they dont understand a thing about you you are enough for everybody keep your head high and put on a smile dont tell yourself your worthless and things like that because you are worth everything
Jenna Woodward If you need someone to talk to, please talk to me. I can highly relate to this song. You’re not alone. You’re loved.
Places where we can talk (yes I mean we CAN talk)
Instagram: dxni.mp4
Discord: chocolate milk!! (I will put the numbers later)
This is what I feel
Jenna Woodward yes i have snapchat
Jenna Woodward sure, tell me
"Your only a kid, stop."
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
But Im still a human.
exactly
I know how you feel,exept its kinda different since im a teen
Yup
im actually a reptilian
@@POOP-qm9hk Same
Why I'm crying?? And crying again after reading such deep emotional comments.
Same🥺🖤.
We here too🥺🤧
Same
Same
*Anyone else teared up because they felt this on a spiritual level? No? Okay bye*
I did..
i’m sobbing
Me😓
yash more than teared up
i did n i’m in school😂😭
Heard this when I was 10, lost it when I was 11, and found it again at 13, found it now at 14 almost 15 and it still hits like getting hit in the head. Been listening to you Tate for a while, your songs are Always relatable 👌 ❤
Same almost forgot about this piece. Now that I’m listening actually understand it and all the nostalgia from listening to this. Always been my favorite Tate💗
Me: doesn’t cry during sad movie
Parents: You’re so inconsiderate
Me: Cries during sad movie
Parents: Stop being so dramatic
so true
like WHAT DO I DO TO MAKE YOU FEEL PROUD OF ME
YOU NEVER SAY YOU ARE PROUD OF ME IM NEVER GOOD ENOUGH FOR YOU
IT ALWAYS THIS IS BAD AND THAT IS BAD NEVER THIS IS GOOD AND THAT IS GOOD
Me: *doesnt show feelings at all in my life after that*
Parents: WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU?! I DO STUFF FOR YOU AND YOUR UNGRATEFUL YOUR GROUNDED!
Me: I understand *still no emotions*
@@yooniverse9130
you know im becoming like that too but i dont feel emotions now
not that much only when they are too strong
FR
@@yooniverse9130 im becoming like that too they always call me a cold hearted nobody it hurts because they dont even know what their doing and always neclected me always and they always say I can tell them whats wrong but when i tell them they call me dramatic, boring ,annoying
I CANT TAKE IT ANYMORE IT HURTS EVERYWHERE LIKE WHY AM I ALWAYS LIKE THIS IT HURT SO BAD LIKE I WANNA DIE BUT I CANT!
"stop hiding in your room"
"Go to your room"
"You can tell me everything"
"Your just making stupid excuses"
"I can see that your upset"
"How do you know about depression when your only 16"
OK WHAT DO YOU WANT ME TO DO THEN??!!!
I thought it was only me thinking this way
relatable....
im 12 (grade 7), telling my parents i overthink and get stressed (not depressed)... since grade 4.. and in the beginning, they told me i dont know what real stress is like... but now they start to realize i am, but then start calling me sensitive and very emotional
@@kendradaniela8621 that's called anxiety get a doctor
@@kendradaniela8621 hey whats your snapchat/instagram? You can ways talk to me with your problems😊
Parents will never understand..
Why we take long showers
Do our best but still fail
Stay in our rooms
Cry over something “little” when they don’t even know why we are crying.
I wanted to share something, aswell!
You have to go through the rain to get the rainbow!
It’s okay if you are in the rain right now. We get it. You aren’t pathetic if you cry.
Yeah :c
@FeS FeO2 they don’t understand.they never do
@FeS FeO2 Ah, yes. I would agree.
that's so relatable. :')
ture
this song hits hard
*It hurts when your own parents can't even understand you*
*Well i feel you👑*
ʙᴜɴɴʏ ʙᴀʙᴇ *I lied about getting bullied in roblox, she said delete the app.*
@@yourinsecurities2261 o_O
:(
I am crying sooo harddd
Overprotective parents: "We are just trying to protect you."
Congrats. Their "protection" has done nothing. Now they have a kid who won't open up to them, who is afraid to do things around them, who is sneaky and disobedient, who is afraid to tell them their mistakes and decisions cause they're afraid that they wont understand, wont forgive, wont support.
:')
This song what my mum has gotten as well as someone who can turn their heart off and can’t kill someone 🙃
I am not crying
I am not crying
I am not crying
I am crying... this hurt
this is true. i don’t talk to them anymore because they will say “i won’t tell anyone” then go right around and tell the person i was talking about and tell all their friends. now i’ve started cutting again and if they find out they’ll send me away. and i can’t trust my friends anymore so it’s fun 🙃
@@connor1128 omg stop cutting yourself... Like, you don't deserve this😭 you have to stay strong you can do this❤️ there's only 1 person of you in this entire world🌍 you're not alone💕🥺
Thank you for this, I’ve never related so much to a song.
Same
same
Same
Same
sameeee
Parents: why are teenagers so damn angry all the time??
Teenagers: maybe, just maybe it’s because we’re treated like children and expected to be acting like adults😤
That's the so true!
They always restrict teenager do.
This is true :)
that is sooo freaking true
Yea basically
To the parents out there who want to understand... this is for your kids
I’m sorry, you may not understand us,
I’m sorry I’m not perfect..
I’m sorry I’m not like them...
I’m sorry I’m a disappointment.
I’m sorry you wish I wasn’t here..
but try to remember. You chose to keep me,
Remember I’m only a child,
Remember that I’m not gonna tell you everything
And all I’m saying is don’t tell what’s not right with me
I just want to be left alone sometimes....
so please, give me space...
Soo what she got it
U almost made me cry on this comment
I cried😣😫
Why are most people in this comment section broken? Me included, my parents say I don’t need my iPad (they took it away from me) but I do. I need
My friend through texting
Songs like this
And many more
When her music use to be like this >>>
tate dang girl this rlly got to me
When I need to cry i go to her songs because I can relate sometimes any one relate
Same
Same here
Me
Christa Looney yessssss I can feel
I’m here for you, you’re not alone. Stay strong.♥️♥️♥️
Still always gonna come back to this song even when shes got millions singing her new ones ❤
I may not be 16, but I can relate to this. But I don’t tell my mom and dad a lot bc I feel like they will think of me like this song describes. But still it hits me in a way very few songs can put into words.
It’s nice to know that other people have this (problem?)😅
Wow I never got this many likes, thank you to everyone that liked this😊
I would also like to say that I feel like sometimes ima lone in the world, but my friends help me through some rough times by just being there.
Yeah me too
Same I never tell my parents things because I'm scared of them I'm scared they will yell at me or just get iratated
Random1girl 1 same here
Its my life
Same
ok so...heres a fact:
YOUR VOICE IS ABSOLUTELY GORGEOUS AND THIS SONG IS SO TRUTHFUL! I LOVE IT SO MUCH! I PRACTICALLY LISTEN TO IT EVERY DAY! Remeber God loves you all!
Im back listening to this song and im in tears
Same girl
Same
Janniah J. Yaasss ikr same
me too wow
Janniah J. listening to this song in the middle of a mental - breakdown, bad idea
Me listening to this in 2024 and it hits deeper then is did before ❤️🩹
“Shut up just go to your room!”
“Your life’s easy stop.”
“You’re a kid you have nothing to worry about!!”
yeah, Life’s so easy! It’s *never* hard :).
Edit- Stop saying I want likes. I’m putting out true facts okay..
Our lives aren’t easy...
Every kid worry’s about stuff
My friend has depression and I only know about it..
*PeachyzTomLemonz * tell your friend to feel better but why are you telling TH-cam that if just you know?
MY LIFE'S FUCKING GREATTTT!!! OMG THAT'S LIKE, I CAN'T NEVER HAVE A MENTAL BREAKDOWN, OR A ANXIETY ATTACK!!!!!!
...I always handle the pain tho =)
I just hate when people say being a kid/teenager is easy... It's not. They act like they've never passed through that. All life it's hard. And maybe we don't have the same problems as they have, but they neither have the same problems as us.
i used to listen to this in my room and cry to this. now im hearing it again after 4 years and my heart feels the same everytime i hear it.
ig i didnt find a solution after all 😂.
And......
AGAIN BOOOM💛 ugh she’s amazing
Edit: I finished the song and I’m crying now
Me to 😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️ she is truly a blessing to all of us 😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Emily vlogss she’s so good
Mee too😭
Antsku bantsku 😭😂
Mattisyn Hunkele i didn’t even finish and i’m already crying
This is so relatable as teens adults/parents will never know how we feel & what comes with being a teen,thank you for putting what we want to say in a song ❤❤
Parents: “ Stop caring about you, care about others for once! “
Me: “ I CARE ABOUT PEOPLE MOM, I CARE ABOUT YOU, THE FAM, AND OTHER RANDOM PEOPLE, FRIENDS ANYONE YOU CAN THINK OF, OKAY? I TRY MY BEST EVERYDAY, I SLAP A SMILE ON, AND TRY MY BEST FOR PEOPLE I DONT FLIPPING CARE ABOUT MYSELF. “
It’s sad that parents are mostly the ones that hurt you.
London Moses to talk discord.gg/75eeGA
😞
I cried after reading this cuz I related to it so much :(
@@VV-fb4np same sorry tho
No bc how have I been a fan since I was 12/13😭 I remember listening to this before I was 16 like it’s mad! (I’m now 19)
“Do school”
“Stop crying”
“Give me ur iPad”
“Give me ur iPhone”
“ur dramatic”
“Eat”
“Don’t listen to ytbe”
“Ur not a loser”
“Ur fine”
@Linda Urbano wishing you nothing but happiness :)
My parents tell that too but they tell me not to eat because Im 'fat'?..
Why does this comment make me cry? Why won't the tears stop?
Don't worry you're enough ♡
"Do school" - imagine if they told you not to study, or if they didnt care about your career and just let you become a beggar. They're telling you this because they want you to be succesful & make em proud❤
"Stop crying" - tbh, I still dont quite understand why they do this but its most likely because you cried for too long 😂 Imagine if they said " Cry louder, you loser!"
"Give me your phone" - You'll understand when you become a parent. Raising your child, paying for everything & wanting to talk with them but they dont wanna listen to you, instead they're just staring at a piece of electronic all day long. They probs don't know what are you doing and why are you smiling at the screen but they know that there is a lot of inappropriate content and other things that could hurt you out out there so they wanna protect you. Trust me , you wont have good childhood memories if u dont fight with them oftenly. 😅 They used to help their parents and go outside but you?
"Ur dramatic" - just watch this video and tell me if u can find yorself in there. You can lie to me,but not to yourself.When they were kids, if they complained about basically anything they would get beaten up by their parents but they probs aren't that harsh to you now but you still dont respect them like they respected their parents.
"Eat/stop eating" - they just wanna make sure that you aren't gonna have any problems in the future getting rid of/putting on fat, or getting bullied
"Don't listen to youtube " - try listening to them instead
"Ur not a loser"
"Ur fine"
"We love you"- its ok if u never heard these because imagine how akward it would be hahah jk but would you say any of this to someone you love but fight with them all the time? You would. Ok im not a pro or sum but My mom died recently in a car crash & left my 2yr old brother to me, so I kinda know what's it like raisibg a child. The day before she died, I thought about how much I hate her because she wouldn't buy me a new phone but the day after I understanded everything she felt raising me 😔
same...
Im a 9th grader this year and u have no idea how bad I cried to this.....
Shitty. Kimm ooh sweetie please don’t be so hard on yourself;(
Shitty. Kimm same
well shit, I'm a 6th grader and I cried because of how much I relate
Aww babes i creid SOOOO much last year it was crazy. You got this stay strong hun
@@kudzaichip6217 :3 thanks
I’ve listened to this since it was first posted, this girl deserves everything she’s got rn
mom: does anyone hurt you in this world?
me: yes
mom: who?
me: *you*
respect your mom she gave birth to you. Plus u can just be more happy if u dont use your mind over depressing things. Smh my head
you don’t understand,it’s not ur life,opinion, OR MUM, so don’t assume bad and mind your one dang business please, ty
@@atif5986 i agree, but the fact that ur mom gave birth to u doesn't mean she is gonna be the best person to u, there's a lot of crazy people out there...
lauraa I know how u feel my mom left me :/
@@lyr4kate Are you stupid or something ? Not all the teenagers are being rude or annoying towards their parents and this comment is clearly not about this. Sometimes we love our parents because we're supposed to, while they're mentally maltreating us.
You maybe had great parents, I don't know, that's not my problem, but stop being stupid and use your mind. Not all the parents know how to love and take care of their kids.
Fun fact actually a sad fact:
Some kids don't feel comfortable with their own parents
I feel very called out by this fun fact-
true
true
I’m one of those kids 😞
this is me i dont feel comfortable with them
I remember watching this when I was 11 now I'm 13 and I told my self one day I know she will make it on the radio and now 2021-2022 she got on the radio !! I'm so proud of you girl !! I would always watch your videos and still do !! ❤️❤️💋💋💋 lots of love ! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😭☹️
You noticed my attitude getting worse
You noticed my grades dropping
You noticed my attention dropping
But you never noticed I’m hiding in my room more
You never noticed how my tank tops and short sleeve turned into hoodies and long sleeves
You never noticed how much pain you cause me
You never noticed how I stopped talking about my feelings
You never noticed my heart breaking in a million pieces everyday
You never noticed how depressed I’ve been getting
Ok you just gave me a poem idea soooo...thx
Listening and reading, hits.... hard
Yesss
Beautifully said
Kayla Kusko ofc go for it I would love it if you would
This song is the best thing I’ve ever heard !!! Keep succeeding my love ❣️
School says we teach you what you need to know. They don't. When did they teach us to love ourselves or to tell someone how we feel or how to tell parents the hard stuff.
-useless-
-dramatic-
-romantics-
But we know what a heart is, and when it’s cracked, it really burns.
Tate, I *know* you’re talking to a lot of people right now.
Edit: HOLY GUACAMOLE tygsm for over 900 LIKES!!!
“They say we’re crazy and useless, making stupid excuses to go make bad decisions when we’re hurt”. That really got through my heart like a knife had been stab through it. This song also remind me of when i’m hurt 😢.
Petition to put this on spotify!
👇
I want that so bad:(
Yeah I want that!
YES PLEASE!!!
And Apple Music too
@@lucyjophlin463 yess this song deserves to be everywhere
All I hear is
“Try harder”
“Stop”
“Lazy girl”
“I like her better”
“Why don’t be like her”
“Your a disappointment”
“You never made us happy”
“Where will we be proud”
“You were never serious”
“EAT ALLOT MORE!”
“We’re wasting our time to you”
I might not be perfect,or any of the words your saying to me but atleast I’m perfect the way I am and I don’t need someone to be proud cause I’m proud of my self 🙂💔
PRECIOUS ALEXA VLOGS I’m praying for you ok🥺
i rlly hate it when they compare you too other people it makes it seem like we're not good enough..
Hey stranger on the internet, I love you - thing will get better
Everything same but they say “stop eating you are getting fat“
“Eat more, But don’t eat to much”
Why is this song not on Spotify? I need this ❤️
This songs hits me hard
I’m 12
That’s how powerful Tate’s songs are
ι'м 11 αи∂ ¢αи ѕтιℓℓ яєℓαтє ℓσℓ
I’m 13
And I’m 11 :/
Sameee
I’m 11
*meanwhile her parents have their ears against the door*
Dad: damn hun
Mum: You think its true ?
Dad: yup.
ahhaahahah
This made me smile! Thank you!😊😊💕❤️
@@fathimaazzahra5301 awwww your welcome !!! Im glad it did x
This is an underrated comment, hope all our parents try listen and know that our lives aren’t ‘ perfect ‘
@@parzma4284 awww why thankyou and yes i agree !
It hurts to know strangers on the internet cares more about us than our own parents...
oh we know more than what we tell you 🎶
i think everyone can relate
Yes. Everyone can relate. And what I mean everyone, is every single person in this world.. Even kids
SweetLil Potato seriously tho
I was reading this while she was saying it
Omg yes that is me like everyday
This song hit me in a way that idk how to explain but yeah
Same couldn’t agree more
*sings* can't always put into words
Ryanne VanGelder your like 7
Chayce Harville that was very Rude, and I am 15 thanks for asking 🙄🙄🙄
Chayce Harville also what does age have to do with anything??? Experience is experience, the only difference is when your young nobody listens to what you have to say.
2:19 i can relate. I feel like even if i try i will never be perfect, my dad thinks I'm fine but I'm not, im scared to tell my parents how I feel bc i don't think they'll care if, i tried so hard to make my parents proud of me, but i try to hard, i just wish parents would listen to us like saying im a mistake and I don't get all A, ok so what im still your child, and i have IXIETY
Can you make a song about being alone though you have a lot of friends?
feeling lonely in a group you are supposed to lean on and acting happy will kill you :)
ule2300 yes
Julie Saxer yes please!! i can relate so much omg omg
I hang out with a big group but I only have 5 true friends❤️
I feel the same way. I have amazing friends and i couldnt ask for better friends but I just feel so alone
“It’s because of that phone!”
No. It’s because of that phone that im alive. If I wouldn’t have got this phone, I would be dead. Yes, it caused an argument between me and my bestfriend. But my other bestfriend was going through hell and so was i. So we would BOTH be dead if it wasn’t for ‘that phone’ We both helped each other. So it’s because of that phone that im alive.
yup
i cant be quiet or sad infront of my parents they think its cuz of my phone so if i am sad my phone is taken away so i have to fake happiness everyday they will nvr understand now due to this covid i can't meet my frbds who make me feel bttr so yaa i have to put up a smile everyday and cannot cry my fav place now is my bathroom cuz i can be myself there
exactly my family always blames my phone
i am very sorry you went through that with your bestfriend but am happy to hear you got through it! Always remember that you are beautiful and amazing in ur own way! (sorry if this was creepy )
Maddy It wasn’t creepy at all, thank you
Tips for parents:
1) Don't call your kid a dissapointment, it truely breaks them.
2) don't choose academics over your child's mental health, every kid's different, some have an higher iq than the other, it's not your kids fault.
3) don't tell you kids to stop doing very hobby of theirs and study instead, we arent machines, we need rest too.
“You have to go to a school to become a doctor”
“You cry to much”
“You don’t even know what love is”
“Your lazy”
“Your not depressed your just a teenager girl, grow up and get over it”
“You need to start working out more”
“No wonder why those Jeans don’t fit you anymore, because your constantly eating”
“You need to start eating more you don’t look so good”
“Be like your sister”
“Your overreacting”
“Schools not that hard, so stop crying and just get it done with”
“You don’t even know what real heartbreak even is”
“It’s because of that phone, gimme it now!”
“Your grounded”
“We aren’t bad parents we are trying to help you but whatever”
This is why girls our age are scared to open up to our parents.. it’s sad but it’s true. And they always wonder why I’m always in my room crying, because I feel like I’m slowly falling apart as the days go by.
Girl you explained my life, I am suffering but dont forget that you are not alone thing will get better❤
After every low, there's a high. Things will get better soon.❤️
I'm gonna be 13 next year...Why do I feel so close to this...Like its a part of me?
I just went through my teenage faze and honestly I just realized that my parents were just trying to help me while breaking me down. Bad parenting habits bruh.
You in one comment explained my hole life you explained what happens what I feel you explained the truth!
"Stressed out but it's always fine"
That's a shortcut to describe my life
me: cleans the whole house
*gets phone out to check the time*
Mum: You never do anything around here,be like your brother!
Gaaahh that sucks. I hate when people compare other people. Everyone is different! Also you cleaned the whole house, Gurl you're more responsible than me. They should be glad to have such a wonderful daughter like you! 💖
potterhead_zoe for real though it sucks💔😞
Omfg this actually happened to me last year
and then they take your phone from you and expect you to do everything
Potterhead_Zoe we're the same..
Her voice is so raw and filled with emotion. She's probably one of the most relatable artists I listen to.
Dad: "you need more exercise, your too skinny."/ "get off your phone and go be social."/ "why do you have a B in this class, You can do better than that."/ "SPEAK! TALK TO ME, NOW!"
Step Mom: " you are skinny like a stick."/ " I don't care what your dad says, YOU LISTEN TO ME!"./ "Don't give me an attitude."/ Quit Crying and calm down!"
Step sisters: "Get off your phone and do this for me!"/ " You don't have depression and you don't stress over anything, you just want attention!"/ " your just a stupid teenager."
Friends: " ew, why do you like that stuff."/ " Don't hug me, get away from me."/ "Ha I'm taken, and your still single and alone."/ " You act like your life is so horrible when actually my life is worse!"
I'm sorry
Kaylee Costello my Friends are Actiongame the Same. I don‘t know what to do. I feel like I have to be perfect, when I am with them.
It is not your fault all that and if your say all that about they are fake
@@hannihoney5909 stop talking to them and find real friends
I’m skinny aswell and and my friends call me a stick and say go eat a burger already u must be anerexic
@@hannihoney5909 if your friends doesn't help you . Don't be friends with them. they are the wrong bunch not you. Friends are one of the only things that you chose ,so make a wise choise . Hopefully you meet better friends soon❤❤
My parents: "Why are you crying?"
Me: "I... Don't know"
My parents: "Then don't cry."
Me: *Go to my room to cry quietly*
:)
Once I came out crying my mum ask me why I’m crying I said I don’t know and she yelled at me just because I’m sensitive
@@jade226 i feel you...❤
@@jade226 I feel you
My mom does that too they just don't get us
Damnn...I'm crying rn bc of how relatable this is..This song still hits hard after 5 years..
no one:
literally no one:
no one in the entire universe:
me: *having a mental breakdown listening to this song at 3 am*
Edit: Omg thank you for so many likes!!
I'm no one then
Ikr because I can kinda relate my parents are like "you have no reason to be depressed at this age
No I just one it at *9pm* because of the song
Relatable
your not the only one
remember there are people out there who suffer worse
this is so true. but we don't just over react. we have reasons.
them: "you are still young,stop being depressed"
me: "but...im still human"
that is incredibly true
Love and respect to u ❤
Are you a bts army
Respect ❤️
💞💞💞💞💞 Lots of love too you. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ You:👤Your mom:🙎♀️Your dad:👱♂️One of them shouting at you :🗣️You:😭
*They say their "Helping us." When they are the ones breaking us...*
Yep
Yeah...
facts
True😔
💯
A few years ago when I listened to this song I didn’t quite care about the lyrics and didn’t think too much about it, and now I’m listening to this while crying myself to sleep.
Most of the comments: my parents are mean and I’m sad
Me: damn those vocals tho
CJ Anthony ohmygod fr all the comments are about them being depressed and having ‘mean’ parents
@@flowersandcookies2847 bruh, "mean"? Ofc you'd know. You don't know wt they're going through, alright. Just bc they didn't mention abt the vocals doesn't mean they didn't like it, or if they comment abt their mean moms, they probably mean it. They are listening to the music and FEELING the words she says. Some of us have 'mean' parents, and really depressing stories. People like you make it hard to share. You're just like their parents, "We aren't mean, we just care abt your future." Well they are actually ruining our future by not loving as for who we are and expecting more from us when that's all we have, and we're giving it our best. I'm sorry Ik it prolly didn't mean it tht way, but please think abt wt you say/comment. Thanks.
I understand wt you mean/are saying, bt they are probably feeling the music instead of, yk. Her vocals are damn good though, lol.
CJ Anthony I agree
Just Meh I still think the parents are trying they just don’t know how to respond like I would be freaked out too if a person just had a meltdown in front of me
I come back to listen to this voice at times