You are absolutely 💯 right sir because marriage and life partner ke upar hamari aage ki puri life depend krti hai ((* marriage ak electric ke 2 wire ke tarah hoti hai jo sahi connect huye to easily current flow hota hai aur wrong connection hua to short circuit🔥)))
कुछ बाते बिल्कुल सही है आपकी🙏👍💯 । लेकिन जो शादी के लिए आते है, वो उस टाइम तो सही से ही behave करेंगे और past relation है या नही वो झूठ भी हो सकता है क्योंकि सच आज कल कोई नही बताता। तो सच और झूठ को कैसे समझे ? कपड़े body language तो सामने से दिख जाएगा intrrnaly person कैसा है ये जानना जरूरी है।👍👍
Sir really I'm your big fan because aaj tak samjhdar ban ne ki baatein to bahut si video me sikhayi jati hai but aap smjhdari ke sath sath hume practical bhi bna rhe aap baaton hi baaton mein hme behaved ban ne ka lesson bhi sikha dete hai so ab se naa galat sahana hai aur naa hi karna hai
Sir mena apko bhut message kya app reply nahi deda ma big fan sirr apka.. Sandeep sir sa bhi achhi baat bataa hu sir i love u... Sir bikkat hu app sch ma sirrr
R u SERIOUS, women will be WOMEN, wo bhi dissatisfied hogi, inbuilt software kabhi change nhi hote, Bhai ki wife ko lao interview karo sau kamia ginayegi. ....
Muje to ye arrange marriage ki meetings hi boht complicated lagati hai. Kis se ek do baar milke yaa baat karake koi Puri zindagi sath rahne ka kaise decide kar sakata hai?? Ek do meetings me koi apni asliyat batata nahi sari badi badi baate hi karate hai or fir problems Sadi k baad hoti hai..
Aisa nahi ha Milkar to dekho Hum ek baar hi mile the fir ab kuchh rishtedaar tudwaane ki koshish kar rahe ha par tod nahi paa rahe bas hum dono k kaan bharte ha par kya kare dono families na ha na na kar paa rahi Bas 5 minute aur sudbudh uski ha Ab shadi to hoker rahegi 😍😍😍🙏🙏🍻🍻🍻🍻🍻🍺🍺🍺🍺
Ak lawyer gllt sadi ko divorce kra kr aadi life bachata h likn aapki baate agr sadi se phle hi smj aa jay tu puri life hi Bach jaygi vo be Bina koi fees diy thanks sir really thanks
Great points sir. But many men and women fear rejection. So out of fear of rejection they think tey will adjust. Also many Indian men and women are not even prepared for marriage. Their parents have already decided that marriage should go ahead. So if a man asks such questions and find incompatibility it is better they dont explain the reason to their parents. Otherwise everyone will start convincing them how they should overlook all these because it is not a big deal from their perspective. Most parents force their personal insecurities onto their children and try to influence them saying what their priorities and choices should be!!! First of all parents should not even move ahead with arranged amrriage if they dont trust that their children know what is good for themselves. The courtship period you talked about is a bonded one. The courtship is after engagement and after that there is no option to back out even if they are completely incompatible.
यू आर राइट अनुभव सर जब मेरे पति मुझे पहली बार देखने आए थे तुम मुझे लगा था मैंने यह क्या देख लिया I mean Koi Rang Na Koi Roop n Koi style पता नहीं मेरे बाप मां बाप ने क्या देखकर किस को बुला लिया लेकिन अब मेरी शादी को 7 साल हो गए हैं और मेरे लिए पूरी दुनिया में सबसे सुंदर vahi hai i m हैपिली मैरिड to her ऊपरी रंग से कभी यह नहीं दिखाता के अंदर से इंसान कैसा है
@@kdsinghrajput8910 Sahi baat h par compare kro to love marriage me thori zada guarantee Hoti hai kuki ap samne wale ko Jan rhe hote ho.......aur hum love marriage ki baat kr rhe Kaha sach me pyar ho warna jisse bas attraction ho usko to 2 Saal me v nhi Jan paoge kuki attraction k parde se ap asliyat nhi Dekh paoge n..... to risk to waha bhi hai😂
Through this video, i will now keep in mind few important points such as 1) nobody is perfect, everybody has flaws hence try to accept them with it, 2)during face to face meeting with chosen prospect, it's important to notice his behaviour, the way he talks with you, rather than only focussing on his clothes, and his looks or physical appearance. 3) after honeymoon and romance is over , the real day to day routine of marital life starts and in various situation you both can learn about each other based on the situations arises. 4) speak about living lifestyles, expenditures, cash spendings and the mind set whether it is traditional, modern or orthodox thinking, 5) after marriage dressing 👗requirements like what to wear what not to wear in post marital life ? 6) talk about primary hobbies, things that you really do not want to compromise 7) if he or she have drinking habits tell this in proper manner and ask for opinion whether the other person has pblm or not, if he or she has female or male friends what is the opinion of chosen prospect about it? 8) there is a time limit in arrange marriage and we can learn many things about that particular person while discussing on critical topics of life, 9) courtship period is important and hence one can decides well, if he or she wants proceed further for marriage or not. 10) last and most important , through this video, I have learn to accept the other person with flaws whole heartedly to start the new relationship. Thank you sir for this informative video🎥, keep reading, keep on Experiencing, keep providing information to innocent audience like us . In future, if required for my own need I may talk or connect with you online wherever you are. I am looking for new proposals for remmariage,hence going through all videos very patiently. Kindly share your what's app number or email ID if you are a consultant. Keep in touch! Thanks and warm regards,. Avanti
1 question still haunts me after many years of a strange rejection. The family was well educated and I was very clear about my ambitions and said that I will teach in schools as I have a B.ED degree, but I won't be able to study more especially after new responsibilities of a married life. They agreed. Then when the marriage got fixed, they pressurized for further studies and they canceled the marriage by accusing me of being rude. Why were not they clear in the very beginning? What's their psychology?
Thank you sir for the valuable input. According to me marraige should be done only if you are ready to start a new life . Getting a good partner is your luck factor cannot say anything .
I feel this is by far the best explanation of what to ask and how to respond. I have seen some videos made by female where they were just advising wrong things.
Sir mai ladki ko pehle hi bol deta hu ki aap kisi relation mai to nahi ho koi dawab to nahi dal raha lakin phir bhir bhi ladkiyo ke love affair samne ajate hai mai kya karo jisse pyar Kar te ho usse se shadi karo kisi dusre ka ghar kyo khrab karte hai yeh log mujhe to yeh boyfriends and girlfriends system hi ganda lagta hai adhe se jyada jhgdo ke vajah yahi hai
Sahi bola jab bf/gf wala relation rakha to accept Karo batau prospect partner ko woh phir uski marji samjhegi samjhega to shadi karegi nahi to apne apne raste
आप के इस विडिओ देखने के बाद ये समझ आया की शादी से पहले मिलना जरूरी हि है नही तो मै मिलना जरूरी नही समझ रही ,,,आप का धन्यवाद भईया मुझे सही राह दिखाने लिए 🙏🙏
First time , shaadi ki baat karne ke liye kisi ladki ke Ghar gaya . Ab navratri ke baad hotel me le Jane ka plan hai .. aaj tak college me ek bhi nahi patayi. Aur ab sidha shaadi ke liye baat karni hai . 😢 bahut nervous hu .. kaise usko impress Karu 😢
Bhaiya.. M abhi Agarwal hu . Meri shadi ki baat chal rahi hai.. Aur samne se 25 lakh ki baat hui.hai..aur m ye Baat adjust nahi kar paa rahi hu. Aur engineering field se hai .. Muje kuch smj nahi aa rha .aur ye.. aur papa ko kuch nahi bol sakti hu ..bhut helpless feel ho rha hai
Ab tumhe sirf aadha ghnta lagega samjhane me agar nhi samjha pai to jindagi bhar bhugto,jao pahle bhai ya ma se bolo,mai khud ek bhai hu aur bhai achhe se samajh skate hai
me ek bar ek ldke se mili thi govt. job wala tha or handsome bhi bhot tha ,first glance me usse attract ho gyi thi but jb hmari thodi bhot bate huyi to mujhe wo ldka bilkul acha nhi lga hmare thoughts bhi khi match nhi kr rhe the so thoda difficult tha pr mene use mna kr diya tha or ab mujhe apne us division pr naz h
Mere ek sawal hai pls kuch suggest jarur karna... Me ladki dekhne gaya tha mujhe achi lagi aur jabse meghar aya mujhe aise lagra hai ki uske bf reh chuke hoge kyoki vo 23 year ki hai...aur me 27ka aur meri koi gf nahi thi....to kya karna chahiye mujhe?
Thank you so much sir... mughe is time is topic par aapse salah lene ke bahut jarurat thi .... thank you sir help krne ke liye ..itne aache se btane ke liye
Short summary 1. Judge if it is forced marriage 2. Critical requirements 3. Where to stay/work requirements 4. Ways of spending 5. Way of living 6. Dressing requirements 7. Tell about occasional drinking/smoking if you do it 8. Way of talking if a person gets irritated while answering these questions 9. Observe behaviour 10. Be open minded, observe, listen and tell critical things 11. See if you can meet or talk again 12. Meet and have deep talks during the courtship period
Are you comfortable for talks. Is there any relationship in past? Ask for dress sense. Ask for primary hobbies. Talking sense. I have some female friends from my school life, is it okay?
Hello sir ,, Arrange marriage ki meeting me bhot kam log such bolte hai ,, especially agr past relationship k bare me pocho to .. mene mere husband se yahi question poocha tha uss time unhone mna kr diya tha ... baad me 8 month k baad pta chala unki girlfriend thi ..
Hurrrrrrrrayyyyyy😊😊😊 mene backout kar liya hai sir. .... Wo ladki choti choti batt pe gussa karti hai kuch btane me. Ghar ka kam bhi nahi karegi madam ji😃
In my case all these things I do but his height is 2 inch less then my assumption and I'm pure veg and he is non veg but I tell clearly about this point then what I dicide??
Mere father mujhe bht koste hain sir jab mai bolti hun ki mere liye sirf paisa or looks matter ni krta.. He says I have low standard nd my mentality is like that... But I personally believe if my partner is hard working enough to built a stable life with me and is my support , loyal to me , then i don't bother his looks or how financially strong he is... 😑
You are enough mature. ......,best of luck. .......don't comparmise. .....with your thoughts. ......,koi bole v ki .....tum galat soch rahe ho ......to kabhi mat mano unki bat .....you are 200%right
Isme open mind kese hua.. Priorities hai sabki... Jese logo ki marriage se pehle relationships sex karna etc hoti hai vese kisiko past wala nahi chahiye.
Bro ise open minded nhi bolte stupid bolte hai! Have some integrity & stay single If you don't have any past relationship than you have right to know about past of your future spouse & if than it's your choice to marry with him/her.
Where the world is going!!!! Sabko shadi se phele relationships rkhna hai & agar wo na chale to juth bolke ya baat ko chupa k kisi our se shadi krni hai!!!
Arrange marriage is better than love marriage. Because marriage is not about sex and children,, it's more than that. Love after marriage is far better than love before marriage.
Thanku so much sir meri v shaadi ki baat chal rahi hai or bahut jald wo log aane v wale hai mujhe dekhne bhagwaan kare sab thik ho Once again thanku so much sir for most important information 🙏🙏🙏
And haa sir mujhe ladka bahut pasand hai and mujhe unke past se koi matlab nhi main to bs itna chahti hu ki shaadi ke baad wo Mujhse loyal rahe, halaki mera v past tha par aab nhi or kabhi hoga v nhi only my husband so unhe v mere past se koi matlab nhi hona chahiye ,then itni acchi information ke liye thanku so much sir🙏🙏🙏
@@priyachoudhary5733 aur. Agar husband ka past na ho aur wo aapke k past k baare me puchna chaha tha hai toh wo bhi galat nahi hoga right as its hua choice , and no one. Means no one would judge him for that
@@priyachoudhary5733 sorry dear.. Apka past tha and aapko apke future husband pasnad hai koi fark ni padta..agar apke husband ka past ni hua to wo apke past ke bare mein pata lagega to wo rishte ke liye turant na bol dega seedhi baat hai.. Apko apke past se hi shadi krni chaiye thi.. Faltu mein us ladke ke life kharab karoge aap
Great work sir 👍👍👍 God bless u Ap apna कीमती समय देकर लोगो को काफी गलत cheezo से बचा रहे है 🙏🙏🙏 जब लोग अपने मा बाप की भी नहीं सुनते तब बो ऐसे विडियोज देख कर बहुत कुछ सीख ले लेते है थैंक्स sir बहुत बहुत धन्यवाद
Jisko lekr me bahut bahut confuse chal rhi hu 😣😖😖😖में अपनी लाइफ को कुछ फर्जी चीसो से बचाना चाहती हूं जो मुझे लगता है अब की आप मेरी हेल्प जरूर करेगे ताकि में उस गलत fehmi se nikal saku
Anubhav Bhaiya apne is topic ko bahut ache clarity ke saath cover kia minimum possible time me. tons of thanks. keep making such powerful videos. really helpful.
Thanks a lot sir.......bcoz kl hi meri meeting fix hui h Kisi k sath,,,or Aapke iss video ko dekhne k baad Mai bhot confident feel kr rhi hu so thank u so so much🙏
apke yaha kulshreshta karna saxena bhatnagar in sab me shadi nhi hoti kya BTW all the best rashi ji....jis trh cooker me se chane nikali thi waise hi us insaan ki puri details nikal dena
Arrange marriages be like aadhe ghante me faisla Karo isse shadi karna ha ya nhi. Isse Jada time to log kapde kharidne me lagate ha. To basic si baat ha ki partner se jaada acche kapde hone wale he.
Hello sir , marrage se pehle ladka Ho ya ladki apni past life gf bf breakup life k bareme unhe share karna sahi hai ya galt please batayiye sir Kuch log bata dete hai badme unhe kahi se pata chala toh gadbad hogi a soch k ... Kya sahi hai sir
Nahi Kabhi Share Nahi Karna Chaiye Kyunki Pata Nahi Aage Chalkar Ye Sab Relationship Mai Dararr La Sakta Hai Kyunki Aajkal Koi Sahi Nahi Hai Koi Guarantee Nahi Hai Ke Ladka Ya Ladki is Future Mai Bore Hone Ki Wajahse Iska Paryog Kare Hamesha Khiladi Bano Delete Your Social Media Account Permanently and Live Your Live and Loyal To Your Husband Same Rule To Husband as Well Hum Ladke Kabhi Nahi Batate Ke Hamari Past Life Kaisi Rahi
Hello Maine jeevansathi par apna profile banaya uspar ek bande ka request aaya Jo mujhe acha lga kuch din bàat hue or WhatsApp par contact karne ki baat ki Maine thik hai reply after that he didn't ask and i didn't gave after three days he declined me ....or mere do profile bne hue hai ek mere parents use karte....to kya mujhe parents ke account se use request bhejna chahiye???
Hello sir my age is too late for marriage and also I don't have feelings for marriage but i wanted to settle my life I am confused and unstable in this what I will do now and how
First thing is... Looks of a person should be the last... Second thing - Be completely open. Speak your hearts out... Talk about the bad habits before anything else... And Virginity... The thing is... girls compare. Women have this inbuilt sense of comparing things whether it is living, non-living or dead. Women compare the man with her previous relationship and she might agree to some things and gives a green signal for marriage. But there will be some points that she doesn't think are critical and thus she will not be completely satisfied in the marriage. She will drag it. Girls will confidently say that they forgot their previous relationship and in most cases, this confidence will allow you to marry her. But be sure to keep an eye on her comfort level with you after the marriage. Wait, what do you mean by backward living. Bro, you could say reserved. Ab aisa bhi mat bolo bhai... aadhe sse jyada log reserved hain...
Ye video mujhe recommendation video me Milla...maine aapke aur 2-3 videos dekhi... bahoot sahi direction de rahe ho sir aap..bilkul same opinion raha he mera bhi hamesha... thank you for guidance..and I will watch all videos..and definitely it will helpful to me...
You are absolutely 💯 right sir because marriage and life partner ke upar hamari aage ki puri life depend krti hai ((* marriage ak electric ke 2 wire ke tarah hoti hai jo sahi connect huye to easily current flow hota hai aur wrong connection hua to short circuit🔥)))
कुछ बाते बिल्कुल सही है आपकी🙏👍💯 । लेकिन जो शादी के लिए आते है, वो उस टाइम तो सही से ही behave करेंगे और past relation है या नही वो झूठ भी हो सकता है क्योंकि सच आज कल कोई नही बताता। तो सच और झूठ को कैसे समझे ? कपड़े body language तो सामने से दिख जाएगा intrrnaly person कैसा है ये जानना जरूरी है।👍👍
Your thinking is very nice
Kya ap hmse friendship krogi Dubey ji
U r right
@@hematamta6491 🙏🙏
Sahi kaha
Sir really I'm your big fan because aaj tak samjhdar ban ne ki baatein to bahut si video me sikhayi jati hai but aap smjhdari ke sath sath hume practical bhi bna rhe aap baaton hi baaton mein hme behaved ban ne ka lesson bhi sikha dete hai so ab se naa galat sahana hai aur naa hi karna hai
Thank you Priya, God bless you :)
Sir ma apki har ek video dekhta hu.. App great hu sirji... Bhut phurna subscriber hu ma apka plz sir reply jarur karna.. Plz
Sir mena apko bhut message kya app reply nahi deda ma big fan sirr apka.. Sandeep sir sa bhi achhi baat bataa hu sir i love u... Sir bikkat hu app sch ma sirrr
@@tigergamingcop6490 thank you bhai, God bless you :)
Kya aap mere friend banoge ji
Apki wife bhot Lucky hai sir,Jo usko aap jaise husband mile,u r great
tumhe kya pata...??? kya pata bartan dhone padte honge ya jhaadu pocha bhi
Kisko ?
R u SERIOUS, women will be WOMEN, wo bhi dissatisfied hogi, inbuilt software kabhi change nhi hote, Bhai ki wife ko lao interview karo sau kamia ginayegi. ....
@@missritika3956 jisko lucky bol rahi ho ... LOL
@@kabir9088 itna bhi kya naaraaz hona bhai.... kamiyaan hum sab me hoti hain...
Muje to ye arrange marriage ki meetings hi boht complicated lagati hai. Kis se ek do baar milke yaa baat karake koi Puri zindagi sath rahne ka kaise decide kar sakata hai?? Ek do meetings me koi apni asliyat batata nahi sari badi badi baate hi karate hai or fir problems Sadi k baad hoti hai..
6 months se lekar sal bhur to Lagta hi hai dusre ko Acche se samajhne me.👍
Aisa nahi ha
Milkar to dekho
Hum ek baar hi mile the fir ab kuchh rishtedaar tudwaane ki koshish kar rahe ha par tod nahi paa rahe bas hum dono k kaan bharte ha par kya kare dono families na ha na na kar paa rahi
Bas 5 minute aur sudbudh uski ha
Ab shadi to hoker rahegi 😍😍😍🙏🙏🍻🍻🍻🍻🍻🍺🍺🍺🍺
True
Sahi kaha I agree
It's true shilpa but all about priority parents first or partner ..it won't happen dude in our indian grown up families 😭
Ak lawyer gllt sadi ko divorce kra kr aadi life bachata h likn aapki baate agr sadi se phle hi smj aa jay tu puri life hi Bach jaygi vo be Bina koi fees diy thanks sir really thanks
well said
Kya aap mere friend banoge ji
Us time body hawas meim hoti dikkat yhi upar ss neechay ate hai apan upar se neechay ana chaiye insaano ko
जितना भी फ्रैंक हो लीजिये शुरू में....... किसी न किसी बात पे उंगली उठनी ही है आगे चल के। इंसानी फितरत है ये........ कुदरत से नही जीत सकते हम।
Great points sir. But many men and women fear rejection. So out of fear of rejection they think tey will adjust. Also many Indian men and women are not even prepared for marriage. Their parents have already decided that marriage should go ahead. So if a man asks such questions and find incompatibility it is better they dont explain the reason to their parents. Otherwise everyone will start convincing them how they should overlook all these because it is not a big deal from their perspective.
Most parents force their personal insecurities onto their children and try to influence them saying what their priorities and choices should be!!! First of all parents should not even move ahead with arranged amrriage if they dont trust that their children know what is good for themselves.
The courtship period you talked about is a bonded one. The courtship is after engagement and after that there is no option to back out even if they are completely incompatible.
Thank you sir
Abhi tak meetings to kisi ke sath nahi ki par...aapki baat se life me benifit hogi ....🙏
All the best :)
यू आर राइट अनुभव सर जब मेरे पति मुझे पहली बार देखने आए थे तुम मुझे लगा था मैंने यह क्या देख लिया I mean Koi Rang Na Koi Roop n Koi style पता नहीं मेरे बाप मां बाप ने क्या देखकर किस को बुला लिया लेकिन अब मेरी शादी को 7 साल हो गए हैं और मेरे लिए पूरी दुनिया में सबसे सुंदर vahi hai i m हैपिली मैरिड to her ऊपरी रंग से कभी यह नहीं दिखाता के अंदर से इंसान कैसा है
this is called true love ❤😊
Yes sir
Ekdam right kaha aapne
There is no guarantee of marriage (love/arrange)
👍👌👍👌👍🙏🙏🙏
sir ne ye v bola ki love marriage me comparatively bht zada guarantee hoti hai agr sch me love hai koi attraction nhi
@@kshemendragourav3746 yea
@@delusionsslayer7285 😂😂😂😂😂
@@kshemendragourav3746 garranti kisi ki nhi hoti taar hai sahi jude to roshni nhi to Dhananjay. 😂😂😂😂
@@kdsinghrajput8910 Sahi baat h par compare kro to love marriage me thori zada guarantee Hoti hai kuki ap samne wale ko Jan rhe hote ho.......aur hum love marriage ki baat kr rhe Kaha sach me pyar ho warna jisse bas attraction ho usko to 2 Saal me v nhi Jan paoge kuki attraction k parde se ap asliyat nhi Dekh paoge n..... to risk to waha bhi hai😂
This is best video every youth should watch before choosing their partner... Thank so much sir 😊😇
Apko life mai azadi cahiye ya partner
We can use tools like DMIT to check and understand partner's compatibility
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Choose me
Through this video, i will now keep in mind few important points such as 1) nobody is perfect, everybody has flaws hence try to accept them with it,
2)during face to face meeting with chosen prospect, it's important to notice his behaviour, the way he talks with you, rather than only focussing on his clothes, and his looks or physical appearance.
3) after honeymoon and romance is over , the real day to day routine of marital life starts and in various situation you both can learn about each other based on the situations arises.
4) speak about living lifestyles, expenditures, cash spendings and the mind set whether it is traditional, modern or orthodox thinking, 5) after marriage dressing 👗requirements like what to wear what not to wear in post marital life ? 6) talk about primary hobbies, things that you really do not want to compromise
7) if he or she have drinking habits tell this in proper manner and ask for opinion whether the other person has pblm or not, if he or she has female or male friends what is the opinion of chosen prospect about it?
8) there is a time limit in arrange marriage and we can learn many things about that particular person while discussing on critical topics of life,
9) courtship period is important and hence one can decides well, if he or she wants proceed further for marriage or not.
10) last and most important , through this video, I have learn to accept the other person with flaws whole heartedly to start the new relationship.
Thank you sir for this informative video🎥, keep reading, keep on Experiencing, keep providing information to innocent audience like us . In future, if required for my own need I may talk or connect with you online wherever you are. I am looking for new proposals for remmariage,hence going through all videos very patiently. Kindly share your what's app number or email ID if you are a consultant.
Keep in touch!
Thanks and warm regards,.
Avanti
I am also looking for marriage
Nice...
Thx.. short n precise
What was the primary reason for ur marriage not working? @avanti
Itna career chunna mushkil nahin hota jitna partners
Kuch bhi
@@niteeshrai8294 teri shaadi hogyi iss video ko dheke
@@kushalgupta4834 nhi
1 question still haunts me after many years of a strange rejection. The family was well educated and I was very clear about my ambitions and said that I will teach in schools as I have a B.ED degree, but I won't be able to study more especially after new responsibilities of a married life. They agreed. Then when the marriage got fixed, they pressurized for further studies and they canceled the marriage by accusing me of being rude. Why were not they clear in the very beginning? What's their psychology?
Don't bother someone better then then waiting for u girl
Paddd lo tooooo
Kash Aapne Yeh video pehle upload Kia Hota.... Abhi kafi jhelna padd raha h newly marriage h fir bhi pata nhi Aage kya hoga 🌸🌸🌸🌸
Meri bi shadi h 16 Feb ko..
Ap ki love merrage he ya arranged marriage plz reply
@@deepakpanwar692 3 sal ho gya kesi chal rahi h apki life
Anubhav sir your videos are so perfect....very soft spoken, very polite and perfection in each and every point.
Thank you sir for the valuable input.
According to me marraige should be done only if you are ready to start a new life .
Getting a good partner is your luck factor cannot say anything .
Sir for male what is best age to marry ?
30 to 35 is goodchoice for marraige
thanks ...........aap har cheej achhe se smjhte h..........aap jaisa smjhdar iss desh m har inshan ho to.....aaj baat alag ho.......
I feel this is by far the best explanation of what to ask and how to respond. I have seen some videos made by female where they were just advising wrong things.
Sir mai ladki ko pehle hi bol deta hu ki aap kisi relation mai to nahi ho koi
dawab to nahi dal raha lakin phir bhir bhi ladkiyo ke love affair samne ajate hai mai kya karo jisse pyar Kar te ho usse se shadi karo kisi dusre ka ghar kyo khrab karte hai yeh log
mujhe to yeh boyfriends and girlfriends system hi ganda lagta hai adhe se jyada jhgdo ke vajah yahi hai
Sahi bola jab bf/gf wala relation rakha to accept Karo batau prospect partner ko woh phir uski marji samjhegi samjhega to shadi karegi nahi to apne apne raste
आप के इस विडिओ देखने के बाद ये समझ आया की शादी से पहले मिलना जरूरी हि है नही तो मै मिलना जरूरी नही समझ रही ,,,आप का धन्यवाद भईया मुझे सही राह दिखाने लिए 🙏🙏
Thanks for guiding sir
Yes marraige is a big decision of life
Are you married?
Ap vergin h
2 dicsion bht soch ke krne cahiye
1 job
2 marriage
Agree with me
Many more questions are answered...family background, thought of living, education level, open minded...
Absolutely correct....look, feeling, attractive are temporary things..but only 2-3 meeting can't be enough...
First time , shaadi ki baat karne ke liye kisi ladki ke Ghar gaya . Ab navratri ke baad hotel me le Jane ka plan hai .. aaj tak college me ek bhi nahi patayi. Aur ab sidha shaadi ke liye baat karni hai . 😢 bahut nervous hu .. kaise usko impress Karu 😢
bro update?
Sahi h shadi honese pehle rishta todana mushkil nhi h... shadi ke bad bohot hi mushkil hai im struggling from 2 years and the situation like hell...
Be patient dear everything will be alright God blessu🙂
Kya aap mere friend banoge ji
Give him divorce and live happily
Bohot bekar situation hoti hai real me samjh hi nahi aata ki kya kare
Im scared
Mai ek wrestling addict hu
Kya ye bhi btaana chahiye??
Kyu ki Mai wo nhi choor skta
Pichle 17-18 saal se dekh rha hu
सर आपने तो मन का बोझ को हल्का दिए 👌👌👌👍😊
Shadi ho ya na ho, ye lessons life me bahut kaam ayenge.. thanks
Thank you for the video. These points are very informative and helpful for decision making and planning. ✔
Apke advice bahut real and useful hothe hai ..Thank you ..🙏🏻😊🌹🌸🌺
Sir make a second part of this.your video is very useful for the youths..
2 decison bht hi shanti mai kiye jane cahiye 1 naukri
2 shadi
Thanks Anubhav for such a simple and logical explanation..was going thru such mental pressure
Thank you for this ,much needed right now.
Sir Ap ne Dil ki baat kardi PAkistan mai bhi yahi issues hai jo same India mai hai very helpful
One of the most USEFUL VIDEO i have ever seen 🥰🥰THANK YOU BADE BHAI
Nicely said. Important thing is independent in doing daily house chores is bottom line . Wants everything in hand including parents.
Quora se seedha youtube pe. Wah Wah sir
Bhaiya..
M abhi Agarwal hu .
Meri shadi ki baat chal rahi hai..
Aur samne se 25 lakh ki baat hui.hai..aur m ye
Baat adjust nahi kar paa rahi hu.
Aur engineering field se hai ..
Muje kuch smj nahi aa rha .aur ye.. aur papa ko kuch nahi bol sakti hu ..bhut helpless feel ho rha hai
Ab tumhe sirf aadha ghnta lagega samjhane me agar nhi samjha pai to jindagi bhar bhugto,jao pahle bhai ya ma se bolo,mai khud ek bhai hu aur bhai achhe se samajh skate hai
25 lakh , sala itna jayada dahej le rhe hain sab , yakin nhi hota😬
@@MrGuru-ht1tb Ladkiya crores me alimony leti hai😂
@@Aish24X7 Bhai tumne to dra diya yaar , sadi v lottery ki tarah hai acha nikla to thek nhi to zindgi barbaad
बहुत ही अच्छी गाइडेन्स सर
me ek bar ek ldke se mili thi govt. job wala tha or handsome bhi bhot tha ,first glance me usse attract ho gyi thi
but jb hmari thodi bhot bate huyi to mujhe wo ldka bilkul acha nhi lga hmare thoughts bhi khi match nhi kr rhe the
so thoda difficult tha pr mene use mna kr diya tha
or ab mujhe apne us division pr naz h
Mere ek sawal hai pls kuch suggest jarur karna... Me ladki dekhne gaya tha mujhe achi lagi aur jabse meghar aya mujhe aise lagra hai ki uske bf reh chuke hoge kyoki vo 23 year ki hai...aur me 27ka aur meri koi gf nahi thi....to kya karna chahiye mujhe?
Thank you so much sir... mughe is time is topic par aapse salah lene ke bahut jarurat thi .... thank you sir help krne ke liye ..itne aache se btane ke liye
All the best :)
Ldki vergin hona chahiye
Short summary
1. Judge if it is forced marriage
2. Critical requirements
3. Where to stay/work requirements
4. Ways of spending
5. Way of living
6. Dressing requirements
7. Tell about occasional drinking/smoking if you do it
8. Way of talking if a person gets irritated while answering these questions
9. Observe behaviour
10. Be open minded, observe, listen and tell critical things
11. See if you can meet or talk again
12. Meet and have deep talks during the courtship period
Thank you very much anubhav sir. This short video had cleared all my doubts about arranged marriage. 🙏🙏
Are you comfortable for talks.
Is there any relationship in past?
Ask for dress sense.
Ask for primary hobbies.
Talking sense.
I have some female friends from my school life, is it okay?
That's sooooooooooo helpful and to the point.... I'm sure you are happy in your life ♥
Hello sir ,, Arrange marriage ki meeting me bhot kam log such bolte hai ,, especially agr past relationship k bare me pocho to .. mene mere husband se yahi question poocha tha uss time unhone mna kr diya tha ... baad me 8 month k baad pta chala unki girlfriend thi ..
Logo ko ek ya do meetings me pehchaan pana .. really challenging.
Thank you Anubhav Bhaiya!! Very well explained and briefly elaborated.
It's arranged marriage, marriage that is arranged by others. Not arrange marriage. Waise points achhe hain.
Hurrrrrrrrayyyyyy😊😊😊 mene backout kar liya hai sir. .... Wo ladki choti choti batt pe gussa karti hai kuch btane me. Ghar ka kam bhi nahi karegi madam ji😃
Sir what a man want from a marriage.. what they really want... is meain bhi ek video banado...
Bahut badhiya se samjhaye hai bahut bahut dhanywad
Thank you Mr. Anubhav for this. It's so confusing to select a partner. Hope your guidance will help me .
In my case all these things I do but his height is 2 inch less then my assumption and I'm pure veg and he is non veg but I tell clearly about this point then what I dicide??
Thanks a lot. Stay blessed 😊
Hii
Mere father mujhe bht koste hain sir jab mai bolti hun ki mere liye sirf paisa or looks matter ni krta.. He says I have low standard nd my mentality is like that... But I personally believe if my partner is hard working enough to built a stable life with me and is my support , loyal to me , then i don't bother his looks or how financially strong he is... 😑
You are mature but sadly age doesn't give maturity to most people, so people will judge you.
@@AnubhavJain 😑
@@shwetasachdeva2596 plz merry me....I am a govt teacher😊
@@rahulchoudhary4840 sahi he bro😂
You are enough mature. ......,best of luck. .......don't comparmise. .....with your thoughts. ......,koi bole v ki .....tum galat soch rahe ho ......to kabhi mat mano unki bat .....you are 200%right
Sir🙏 aapne himmat de diya🙏
Bahut achha samjhaya aapne.
Im going for arrange marriage, hope for the best 🙏
Thanks a tonnnn🙏
All the best :)
@@AnubhavJain thank you very much sir 🙏😇
Aaj kal 30-32 ki age mai shadi ho rahi , love kya bachega itne din Tak.
Hamari society me aise open minded log nhi h jo past relationship ke baare m janne k baad shaadi karle .. Zindagi bhar single raho
Hain aise log
Isme open mind kese hua.. Priorities hai sabki... Jese logo ki marriage se pehle relationships sex karna etc hoti hai vese kisiko past wala nahi chahiye.
Right
Bro ise open minded nhi bolte stupid bolte hai!
Have some integrity & stay single
If you don't have any past relationship than you have right to know about past of your future spouse & if than it's your choice to marry with him/her.
Where the world is going!!!!
Sabko shadi se phele relationships rkhna hai & agar wo na chale to juth bolke ya baat ko chupa k kisi our se shadi krni hai!!!
Aapne ne bahot hi aacha advice Diya sirji Thank you much Sir ji 🙏🙏🙏
Arrange marriage is better than love marriage. Because marriage is not about sex and children,, it's more than that.
Love after marriage is far better than love before marriage.
Marriage = Legal HONEYTRAP to Loot ALIMONY 🤑 Maintenance 🤑 Property 🤑 Child Support 🤑
Thank you Anubhav bhaiya.🙏🙏
Ldki agr bol de ki mujhe ldka nhi psnd to bolte h apne mnn ki ho gai hai.😔😔😔😔😔😔
To accha hai naa har insaan ko apne man ka hi hona chahiye
@@AnubhavJain thanxxxx sir 👍
Bilkul sahi...bt ispe kavi kisi ka pressure nhi jhhelna chahiye
Life aapki hai to mnn bhi to aapkii hi honi chahiye , right?
Right
Thanku so much sir meri v shaadi ki baat chal rahi hai or bahut jald wo log aane v wale hai mujhe dekhne bhagwaan kare sab thik ho
Once again thanku so much sir for most important information 🙏🙏🙏
And haa sir mujhe ladka bahut pasand hai and mujhe unke past se koi matlab nhi main to bs itna chahti hu ki shaadi ke baad wo Mujhse loyal rahe, halaki mera v past tha par aab nhi or kabhi hoga v nhi only my husband so unhe v mere past se koi matlab nhi hona chahiye ,then itni acchi information ke liye thanku so much sir🙏🙏🙏
@@priyachoudhary5733 aur. Agar husband ka past na ho aur wo aapke k past k baare me puchna chaha tha hai toh wo bhi galat nahi hoga right as its hua choice , and no one. Means no one would judge him for that
@@priyachoudhary5733 sorry dear..
Apka past tha and aapko apke future husband pasnad hai koi fark ni padta..agar apke husband ka past ni hua to wo apke past ke bare mein pata lagega to wo rishte ke liye turant na bol dega seedhi baat hai..
Apko apke past se hi shadi krni chaiye thi..
Faltu mein us ladke ke life kharab karoge aap
Oh! I didnt know you have created a youtube channel. Reading your answers on Quora from a long time.
Thxx for suggestions... M
Your every vidio gives me positive energy, thank you so much sir.
All the best :)
Thanks Sir
Khatrnak acting sir 🙏🏻🙏🏻👌🏼👌🏻👍🏻😂😂
"Mai to daru Piyunga😂😂🤣🤣"
Thanks 4 this valuable info sir🙏🏻👌🏻👍🏻👌🏼👌🏼
😂😂 me usika wait kar raha tha
Thank you so much sir
You covered each and every point
Kaash mene pehle dekh lia hota
Aaj rona nhi pdhta 😭
thankfully maine phle dekh li
@@englishwithswati0151 destiny 😊
Thank you so much, I really feel so relieved watching this video🙏
Thanks sir best information dene ke liye 💯
Great work sir 👍👍👍
God bless u
Ap apna कीमती समय देकर लोगो को काफी गलत cheezo से बचा रहे है 🙏🙏🙏
जब लोग अपने मा बाप की भी नहीं सुनते तब बो ऐसे विडियोज देख कर बहुत कुछ सीख ले लेते है
थैंक्स sir बहुत बहुत धन्यवाद
Thank you Niharika, God bless you :)
Sir muje apse kuch advise chaiye pls give me sometimes?
Jisko lekr me bahut bahut confuse chal rhi hu 😣😖😖😖में अपनी लाइफ को कुछ फर्जी चीसो से बचाना चाहती हूं जो मुझे लगता है अब की आप मेरी हेल्प जरूर करेगे
ताकि में उस गलत fehmi se nikal saku
Sir pls bataiye kya ap muje apkaa कीमती समय देगे ? Sir I need ur help 🙏🙏🙏🙏
@@AnubhavJain sir ?
Thank You Sir for guidance and explain about the topic 😊
Anubhav Bhaiya apne is topic ko bahut ache clarity ke saath cover kia minimum possible time me. tons of thanks. keep making such powerful videos. really helpful.
Thank you bhai, God bless you :)
Bahut achi video h... Apne bilkul shi kha... Courtship period me aur jda clarity milti h
Thanks a lot sir.......bcoz kl hi meri meeting fix hui h Kisi k sath,,,or Aapke iss video ko dekhne k baad Mai bhot confident feel kr rhi hu so thank u so so much🙏
All the best Rashi :)
@@AnubhavJain thank u sir❤️
apke yaha kulshreshta karna saxena bhatnagar in sab me shadi nhi hoti kya
BTW all the best rashi ji....jis trh cooker me se chane nikali thi waise hi us insaan ki puri details nikal dena
@@kshemendragourav3746 😂
Raashi are you married now??
kuchh jyada hi anubhav hai ,,,well explained sir
Arrange marriages be like aadhe ghante me faisla Karo isse shadi karna ha ya nhi.
Isse Jada time to log kapde kharidne me lagate ha. To basic si baat ha ki partner se jaada acche kapde hone wale he.
Sahi kaha
Thank You 🙏
This is a great video for all the 90's kid out there
Thanks for guiding these point is imp. For every relation need to know about. Other person thinking
best video for marriage😊🙌
Kya aap mere friend banoge ji
Hello sir , marrage se pehle ladka Ho ya ladki apni past life gf bf breakup life k bareme unhe share karna sahi hai ya galt please batayiye sir
Kuch log bata dete hai badme unhe kahi se pata chala toh gadbad hogi a soch k ... Kya sahi hai sir
Nahi Kabhi Share Nahi Karna Chaiye Kyunki Pata Nahi Aage Chalkar Ye Sab Relationship Mai Dararr La Sakta Hai Kyunki Aajkal Koi Sahi Nahi Hai Koi Guarantee Nahi Hai Ke Ladka Ya Ladki is Future Mai Bore Hone Ki Wajahse Iska Paryog Kare Hamesha Khiladi Bano Delete Your Social Media Account Permanently and Live Your Live and Loyal To Your Husband Same Rule To Husband as Well Hum Ladke Kabhi Nahi Batate Ke Hamari Past Life Kaisi Rahi
@@deepakmaan5023 ok sir , thanks for the advice , thank you so much sir
@@deepakmaan5023 ek dum correct bhai , past main kya kiya ye mayne nhi rakhta , present main bas apne husband ke sath loyal rhe ladki sab acha hoga
Hello Maine jeevansathi par apna profile banaya uspar ek bande ka request aaya Jo mujhe acha lga kuch din bàat hue or WhatsApp par contact karne ki baat ki Maine thik hai reply after that he didn't ask and i didn't gave after three days he declined me ....or mere do profile bne hue hai ek mere parents use karte....to kya mujhe parents ke account se use request bhejna chahiye???
Hello sir my age is too late for marriage and also I don't have feelings for marriage but i wanted to settle my life I am confused and unstable in this what I will do now and how
Same here..... :(
Arrange marriage mai ladke ko mana kaise kare ki vo khud mujhe reject karde bina mera naam liye ki ladki mana krrhi h.
First thing is... Looks of a person should be the last...
Second thing - Be completely open. Speak your hearts out...
Talk about the bad habits before anything else...
And Virginity... The thing is... girls compare. Women have this inbuilt sense of comparing things whether it is living, non-living or dead. Women compare the man with her previous relationship and she might agree to some things and gives a green signal for marriage. But there will be some points that she doesn't think are critical and thus she will not be completely satisfied in the marriage. She will drag it.
Girls will confidently say that they forgot their previous relationship and in most cases, this confidence will allow you to marry her. But be sure to keep an eye on her comfort level with you after the marriage.
Wait, what do you mean by backward living. Bro, you could say reserved. Ab aisa bhi mat bolo bhai... aadhe sse jyada log reserved hain...
great thanks for your information
aaisa genuine information.. thanks sir 👌 many many many many thanks
Welcome, God bless you :)
Love ho ya arrange, Relationship dono partners ki values par depend karti he...
Ye video mujhe recommendation video me Milla...maine aapke aur 2-3 videos dekhi... bahoot sahi direction de rahe ho sir aap..bilkul same opinion raha he mera bhi hamesha... thank you for guidance..and I will watch all videos..and definitely it will helpful to me...
Thank you :)
Very helpfull video. Must watch!
Thank you for bringing the word courtship, companionship this is important. Your views are good and helpful.
Ldki se yeh question puche ya nhi kya aapka koi boyfriend hai ya nhi ya pehle rha hai
No if u don’t care about it
Thank you sir.