शादी के लिए सही इंसान को परखने के आसान तरीके |FINDING THE BEST PARTNER FOR ARRANGE MARRIAGE|10 बातें
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Mujhe humesa se arrange 😢marriage k naam se hi dar lagta tha.pr aaj aapki baaton se mujhe thodi tasalli mili sayad me ab apne liye ek achha life partner dhoond paun jo mera achha dost bhi bn paaye😊
Madam, the youtuber himself had love marriage.
Same mai bhi yhi chahti hn do din phle hi ldke wale mujhse mile hai lade ke samne apni pdhai ki demand rakhi Maine Jo bhi mujhe lga unhone agree Kiya hai aur maine bol diya directly sadi ke liye ha nhi kr skti mujhe bat krni hai aapse phle Janna hai unlog thik bole because unlog mujhe psand kr liye hai bs mai unse Janna chahti hn meri family wale dat rhe the ye sb kyo kr rhi bharosha nhi hai humlog pe lekin Mera bhi hai ki mai bina jane kisi se sadi nhi kr skti bhale hi Rona pde ya dat sunna pde sb bol di jisko jo sochna hoga soche agr mera dil agree nhi krta hai to mai nhi kr skti wo Kam
Hi
10001 % tru......I am happy with my wife.......though she is down in colur bt always carring,help ful,and loving😊
Bhai baaki sab acha likha aapne...down in color kya hota hai???Nazar nazar ki baat hai....har wo rang acha jo dil ko bha jaye.No offences,just a thought.
Bhai stop saying about colour... 🙏 Agar aap happy ho to uski Kami mt dkho.. she will be sad.. please don't say.. :)
@@SN-ec1xiYssss ryttttt 😊
Aap to ese bol rahe ho k she is down color hoke bhi aap ne pasand karke upkaar kiya ho unpe....esa nhi hota apka saathi apka he sab kuch uska apka he or accha he..
रब ने बना दी जोड़ी
Anubhav bhai ek baat aapse share karna hai last year mei khud ek bohot beautiful looking girl ke sath relationship mei tha mei ek assistant professor hu University mei shayad isiliye usne khud mujhe proposed Kia phirr shadi k liye bhi pucha Maine kuch samay leke haa bol dia
Par jab uske khoobsurat chehre ke piche ka insaan samne aaya to mei samaj Gaya asli khoobsurati kya hoti hai
Dishonest cheating double game aur allegations na jane kya kya Kia usne wo mere liye kisi mental torture se kam nii thaa.........jiske baad maine usase khud break up kar liaa...
Mai ab shadishuda hu meri biwi ek insaan ke taur par mujhse bhi bohot Jada khoobsurat hai Insaniyat caring loyal aur ek strong personality hai sach mei apne Aaj Jo kaha wo 1000% sahi hai..❤
Jeevan ki thokren aur tumhari samajhdari tumhe sahi raah par le gayin :)
Shadi se pehle haar koi ladki disloyal rahti hai shadi ke baad loyalty hoti hai apki patni se pucho ki shadi se pehle uski kya mansikta thii woh batayegi nahi shadi se pehle ladkiyah yahi sochti hai handsome pati ho amir pati ho
Aapke 2 reason
Culture acceptance
And
Time after 30 years
Bahut khoob
Aapko sunn kar himmat bahut badh jaati hain jujhne ki aur nayaa perspective miljaata hain Jeevan me sudhaari ko lekar....❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏🇮🇳
मेरा भाई अनुभव भईया हमेंशा सेहतमंद सुखी जीवन बिताए किसीकी भी नजर ना लगे आपको जय श्रीराम जय हनुमान ❤❤
Shukriya :)
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शानदार सर 🙏🥰
Anubhav ji aap kaafi अनुभवी insan ho, bhutt clearly batate samjhate ho❤😊😊
Hii saritA
😮😮 एक दिन मै कैसे पता लगे
वस्तु हो या इंसान नया नया सब अच्छा लगता हकीकत तो इंसान की पुराने होने क बड़ हि पता चलेती है
Shi baat h bilkul
Haa is liya kisi our ko naa puch k khud ka dimag lagaa o in ko kya paisa mil raha hai. Bol nay kaa
Bhaiya aap sabse anmol daan kre hai... Gyaan ka daan. 😇😇iss kaliyug mai log... Reflect nhi krte... Wahi aap unko krwate ho. Best. 🙌
नमस्ते अनुभव भैया मैं आपकी सारी वीडियो देती हूं आप बहुत ही शानदार मोटिवेशनल वीडियो बनाते हो , आपकी बातों से मोटिवेटेड हो जाते हैं
Sir aap bht acche ho ...jo parents nhi smjhte wo aap smjhte ho
Absolutely right choti soch wale kabhi sudhar ni skte...will make your life hell...they dont know meaning of respect...i wish could have seen this video before marriage.
Dhany hai vo maa baap jinhone aapko janm diya .,bahut achha samjate ho bhaiya.❤
Thank you bhai :)
You are great Sir you are unique sir Hat's off to you Anubhav Sir ✌🙏🙌😊
भगवान महावीर की कृपा हमेशा आप पर बनी रहे .. जय जिनेंद्र 🎉🙏🙏
Anubhav g
Aapke pehle spiritual reason ne dil jeet liya
Good job sir
Ist time itna honest marriage adviser Mila h , hope log apko zaroor dekhe 👍
I'm being forced to get married, and I think after a year or two, I'll have to get married. And I always deny them because I couldn't find any girl in such modern era who has family and moral values with a down-to-earth and empathetic attitude. And I can never spend my life with someone who is arrogant and not-underatanding. It's been years I've never seen a girl that I wish to make my life partner. I'm not someone who wants a hot figure or beautiful face, but a beautiful heart.❤
All the best..aisi ladki jarur mile jaisi aap deserve karte ho
Kya likhe ho bhai. You are a very good person. Q ki itni acchi soch normal insaan ki ho hi nhi sakti. I wish ki aap zo chah rhe ha aapko wo mile. Radhe krishna
Bro u r right👍
I'm one of this type of girls and I think that who will accept me in this form but Everyone definitely finds their right partner, so keep patience
You'll get your right partner ✨✨🙌
Very nice 🥰🥰
Abb dekho mill jayegi jyada achhi nae par thori achhi,,, mushkil to h achha life partner choose karna 🥰🥰
विवाह उसी से करो,,, जो व्यवहार मे बड़िया मस्त हो स्वभाव अच्छा हो,, अपने विचार मिले एक दूसरे से,, एक शादी दोस्ती जैसा रिश्ता होना चाहिए अगर आपको ऐसा इंसान ना मिले तो अन्यथा ना करे 👍🙏🙏🙏🙏😊 किसी भी रिश्ते मे जल्दबाजी ना करे, please kuki mujhe भी एक इंसान की तलाश है😊😁
Yes very true 🙏
But both man& woman has to adjust n compromise looks are not so important but personality n other skills are very important in selection of spouse in marriage sirji 🙏
विवाह उसी से करो जिसे आपके और उसके आचार, विचार व्यवहार का मेल खाना जरूरी है
Ryt
😂😂😂 kya joking karte ho yaar
Aise bhi log hote hain
Arrange marriage m kaise pta chlega?
Thanks for this tip recently eshi Sunday ko ek ladki ne Muje reject kar diya sadhi k liye insult kar k ki me usse kam pada likha ta and delivery boy ki job karta hu 😢😓
Accha hai tum mukt hue, shaadi der se ho par aise insan se ho jo jeevan bhar saath nibhae, har paristhiti me saath khada ho.
@@AnubhavJainthanks sir I never give up 😭 ❤
@@AnubhavJain😢 Bhai der se nhi honi chahiye Shadi, wrna bohot suffer krna pdta Hai, I m 35 still searching, pehle bohot ache rishte aate the but greediness, beauty and bad decisions K Karan sb gwa diya
. Sahi kaha apne , mein b suffer krri hu , jb wqt bhot nikal jata h toh choice bhot kam hojati h , ya phr majboori hone lagty h hum ek aesa decision lene ko jo hum dil se nai chahaty situation ke chalty hme acpt krna pade ..
@@navyasingh6127 don't sad God bless u apko acha partner mil jayega sab kismat ka khel h mene to kismat pe chord diya sab jisko aana hoga life me aa jayega time pe apne
Your thoughts is very truth apke video se hume kafi sikh mile
Thank you so much sir. Jb v m pdesan hoti aapki video dekh kr bauth acchi decision le pati hu. 😊 Aap hmesha khush rho aise he hmlog ko acchi acchi baate btao❤
Kyu itna sara tension jelna hai...akele rakhiye...khush rahiye...focus on your career and own spiritual journey😊
I agree with you 😊
Bina Sadi kiye ho rahoge kya
sahi hay
Ye sab videoes watch hi kyu krte ya...auro ke liye bhalai Krna chahate ❤
Anubhav ji mein apka samman krti hoon lekin pehle wale example mein ho sakta hai ki ladki us ladke se yeah jannana chahti hoo ki khi vo ladka kal ko uski salary ko leke inferior feel toh nhi krega
Muskurahat masallah bahoot accha laga Aj bhaijaan😊 bahot dino baaad dekhne ko mila wo bhi shadi ke topic paar ye hi to hai muskil ghadi😅😊❤
Jaha decision le pana bahoot muskil hota hai
aap ki lambi umad ki kamna karta hoon❤❤❤
Bhai, Jay shree ram..
Aapki sari bate sahi hai par aisa ladka milna bohot hard hai..sabko to ladki achhi our sanskari chahiye fir wo chahe kaise ho.
Aap Sahi बोल रहे हैं लेकीन कुछ लोग शादी के कुछ साल बाद बदल जाते है 😢
बहुत अच्छी बातें बताई है आपने । धन्यवाद ❤
10:50
Point 8
. Vehemently I disagree with the forced futile efforts of equality being imposed.
Men and women are different
Their needs are different
❤❤Dil se pranam guruji ❤❤ love you bhaiya 🙏🙏
Bhaiya Thankyou so much ek achi advice dene ke liye🙏🙏🙏
Hello ji kya mujhe Sadi ke liye koi single ldki milegi kya jiska past me koi bf na ho ????😢
Aisi ladki se sadi karunga jo aapke video dekhti ho bas kam ban jaega❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
H , ye thik hai..😄😃
@@MadhuSinghaniya73073😂kahi aap wo to nhi ho😅
@@MadhuSinghaniya73073 Majak Kar rha hu serias mat Lena yar
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Today's relationships are materialistic. Marriage is a defunct institution. Stay single stay happy.
Right
@@rumana7753 👍Ours is a singles group for 40+, all never married and we all are very happy.
Bhaiya.aapka.video.bahut.acha.laga.mere.sath.bhi.ye.hota.hai.aapka.video.dekkar.mujhe.bahut.himmat.aaya.
बहुत ही सरहानीय ज्ञान है। 😮
Same situation thi 6th number wali..confusion. .double minded...zabardasti karni pad rahi thi....bhut pressure feel ho rha tha....finally naa kar diya...ab sukoon mila h...
Sach me zabardasti karne se Accha h single rhna....
Hi
Very very important thoughts sir🙏🙏
😊sir Aaj to pase wala ladka hi dekhte h sab esliye sayad mere Bhai ka rista hone me time lag raha h .jab ki sukhi parivar or Chhota parivar h humara
Sadi krna jruri h akele rho mst life jeo kyu khud hi gle m fasi ka fanda dal rhe ho
Sadi krna jruri h akele rho mst life jeo kyu khud hi gle m fasi ka fanda dal rhe ho
Dil se Guruji parnam ji ❤❤
Thanks for informative video 👌
Hi
Bhaiya bhut acha lgta h aapki bate❤❤
अरे भाई अनुभव जी आपने तो पानी छान छान कर ही पीया होगा। आपकी धर्म पतनी तो आप जैसी ही बहुत ही सुन्दर और संसकारी होगी भाई साहब जी
बहुत बेहतरीन बातें बताई है आपने 😊
आप बहुत परफेक्ट बात को बताते हैं
Point no.7,आओ तो welcome नहीं तो भीड़ कम
Plz aap un parents par bhi video banaye jinke bachhe shadi karne m kamm interest dikhate h...
Thank you so much bhaiya for this useful motivational video.🙏🙏
Arey bhaiya, ase arranged marriage nhi hota hai bahut sari bihar ke family mein, bus ladka ladki aur family mili, phir ho gya engagement. Aap ek video banao, maa baap ko tip do ki arranged marriage krwate kaise hai, kyuki ye apni conservative spch aur toxicity se bahar hi nhi aa paa rhe hai. Aur engagement tutta bhi nhi hai jaldi, kyuki izzat ka sawaal, engagement tutta hai bus agar ladke ki job fraud ho, banki behaviour pr toh ladki ki family ladki ko hi adjust krne bolti hai. Aap plz ek video banao, conservative families ke liye jo sirf photo aur bank balance dekh kr ladka pasand kr lete hai aur 4 relatives ka baat sun kr hi ki ladka aacha hai.
Bhai sadi se phle sb ache h or sadi k bad hi asli sachai pta chlti h kyuki sadi se phle mharani bna dete h or bad m bhikari
Hann. Mera bhi aisa he question hai. Like ek rishta aaya sb acha laga. Numbers exchange hue. Baat hue. Phir realise hua that we are not compatible. Tb toh Ghar pe bol skte hai ya nai? Ki yh rishta acha ni h. Dusra dekhte h. Phir toh aise kitno k sth numbers exchange karengey.. but m happy ki meri mom conservative type soch ni rakhti hai. I will ask her this question..
Sahi bat h sir apne delulu me jee rhe yaha to bus 5 min dete h Milne ko usme me na ni krna hota ladki ko ladka kr to chalega..
Uske 1 month bad eng aur 2 mnth me shadi ghanta pta chalega ladke k bare me..😅😅😅😅
Mostly arrange marriages aise hi hoti h metro cities me may be thoda liberal ho
शानदार सर🙏❤
Too good bhaiya.... 😊
Your videos helped me a lot.🙏🙏🙏🙏
Thankyou sir 💐! Nice explanation.
Hi😊
Hi😊
Timing bhut sahi h bhaiya😂
Jai Narayan.....Jai mata Lakshmi.....Jai mata Tulsi.....ji❤❤❤❤
10/10 Sirji👌
Thank you so much sir 🙏 😊
Sir sari bat ka saar samjh aagya ❤
Great video sir very useful videos ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Thank u bhai ji❤
Hi😊
Thanks bht chije clear ho gyi hai.. me dhyan rakhungi
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Thank you God love you so much....... universe
Hi😊
All singles taking notes including me 😂
Mera sab thik hai but in laws ke sath ni rahungi...in laws chik chik karte hai gulaam bana kar rakh dete hai
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😮😮 भौतिकत आ की चकाचोद मै सब कुछ नही दखता है
एक बात ओर शादी से पहले ईसान जतना सोचता है। वो सब अनुमान होता है लेकिन जब शादी हो जाति है उसके बाद वैसा कुछ नही होता जैसा पहले सौजा था इसे कहते है अनुभव
तीसरा जब कोई चीज हमारे पास नही होती है लेकिन जब वो चीज हमे मिल जाति है उसके बाद क्या वो चीज वैसी निकल पाती है जैसे हम सोचते है
नही ना यही फर्क होता है अनुमान और अनुभव मै।
Hello sir...Sir mere liye ek vedio bna dijiye....meri shaadi arrange marriage fix huyi thi 8 months sabkuch shi chala.....engagement k 1 month pahle mere father ko pta chala ki.....ladke k bde papa ko skin decease h ...gaw k log to kushth rog bol rhe h....per ladke ki family bol rhi h ki ulta sidha khane se hua h aur ladke k bde papa ko vitiligo yani safed daag h ... mere family bol rhi h ki shaadi ho Jane k baad mere ladki k bacho me v ye problem ho jayegi.....to isliye mere father vha shaadi ni krna chahte h ....lekin mai aur ladke ki family krna chahti thi.....papa ne ladke ki family ko v ab mna kar diya h ki vo ni krenge ab vha shaadi....lekin m chahti hu vhi shaadi krna....q ki ek skin decease ki vajah se shaadi ladke se na krna ye mujhe glt lag rha h ....problem ladke ya ladke k papa me to ni h na.....aur jis bde papa ko ye decease h unki maa dusri thi....ladke k daada ki 2 shaadi thi....1st dadi se bde papa h aur 2nd dadi se ladke k papa h ......m chahti hu ki kaise m apne family ko samjhau....aur kaise dono family me sabkuch pahle ki Tarah thk kr du....plz mere liye vedio bna dijiye....
I hv too leave my love bcz of ths deases 😢😢 bt it is not a contamination deases bt hamara samaz accept nhi kr pata....
Mujhe bhi arrange mrg se darr lagta hai..
Sahi kaha aapane
Sir u r really so superior
Just the channel I need
Wow ❤ thank you sir
Dhanyavad bhaiya ji 😊
I love you so much sir bohut logo ka jaan future galat raste se bacharehiho
Mujhe aisa pati chahiye jo sirf meri hi nahi sabhi ladies ki respect kare
Hi
Bhagwan kre ❤
Nice bhaiya 😊
Assets to dekhenge na sir hum..ghar ho to usme rah sakte hai nhi to kya tent lagakr rahe
Sir meri jo soch hai wo arrange marriage ke liye bani hi nhi hai. Lekin fir v prarabdha aisa hai ki ..muze arrange hi krni padegi..😢 to me kaise choose kru bcoz i cant choose person whom i don't know .
Sir aajkl jo boys job metro cities mae kr rahe h vo girl ko apne sath le kr ni jana chahate after marriage ye bahut badi prblm h..🤔
Matlab shadi apne maa baap ki seva ke liye karte hai bas
Sir looks ko kitna importance dena chsiye ?
Arrange marriage m nature kaise identify ho ?
Shadi krna h kyuki lonelyness b feel hoti h bt dar b lgta h kya kre ?kykui dar b bhut lgta h
Hi😊
Same yaar 😢
Masterlistic mindset:
-ve mindset :never search negitivity
Thanks for giving valuable info sir
Sir ji jiski sakal Surat normal h,ya dikhne me achha nahi h..vo insaan bhi life me bahut dukhi karta h... reality h ye...
Bhai skl se kya mtlb insan ke andar gun hote h ache bure
Mujhe lgta h hum sab ko pehli priority ladki ki achhi chal chalan hona chahiye uske bad shakal pe jao.
Esa idea kese apke mind pe ata hai ❤❤❤❤
All things mentioned in the video will definitely help you to choose a partner....only I doubt it is the time... you can't discuss all this in one meeting..
Agree , and one more thing we cannot able remember all the questions which we have to ask, I am too facing the same problems
@@navyasingh6127 yes... actually sometime luck also matter...we can't totally understand person in few meetings...
All this conversation has to be done in 2 3 meetings
@@vishwasmeshram9241 but hmre culture me ye h nai , mile bhi toh parents ke samne hi , jitna puchna ek meeting me hi puch skty h
@@navyasingh6127aap apne parents ko iss tarah ke shaadiyo ke nuksan ke baare mai btaoo... Apke culture kya har culture mai... Choti soch (narrow minded log) hote hai n broad minded log hote hai... Jo broad minded parivaar honge... Woh samay bhi denge milne ka... Broad minded parivaar se rishta jodo... Broad minded matlab... Expensive kapde.. N caro mai baithne wale nahi... Jo sabhaye... Samjhdar... Log ho... Jo economically independent ho... Pr zameeni log ho.
But sometimes at first meet..the person can pretend too .to possess all qualities that u r explaining...
Whi toh sbse bdi dikkat hai
Ho skta he wo shadi se phle har bat ke liye ha bole lkin shadi ke bad palat Jaye
@@poojayadav2442 like videos hoti hai ki chor se kese phone ko bachaye same chor bhi vo video dekh rha hota hai same here i ldke bhi ye videos se idea lete hain ki kese we have tobehave in front of a girl and her family . koi bhutshaatir ho toh vo coutship period mein bhi kuch bahar aane ni dega fir shadi k bhut time baad pta lge ki oh yeh kami thi then its too late yes divorce is an option but that too bhut diificult hota h conservative families mein toh esp
Hello sir agar kisi ladke soch na mile to kya usase sadi karna chahiye ya nahi karna chahiye
Bahut achha dhanyawad ji🙏🙏
Xcellant analysis ❤❤❤
Kyuki apko sunker achha feel hota h
Earlier I was in a relationship for 10 years but when his parents asked my parents for marriage then my parents refused...I met with a boy 8months ago and he is a good friend for me and he knows everything about my past and he proposed me for marriage but I don't love him he is just a good friend for me but he says that we are good friends and I am fulfilling your parents expectations so we should get married... I don't know my heart is not allowing me to do so ... At the same time Iam thinking that my parents will marry me to someone whom I don't know at all ....what should I do?
Life m har baat hmare hisab se nhn ho skti apko khud Tay Krna h agar wo ladka apko smjhta h apke beech bonding h then u should marry him kyuki aj ki date m apko smjhne wala mil Jaye thoda bhi to life aasan ho jati h
But ask him for sure that he will not judge you for the past. Right ???
He is not judging me about my past ... But he want me to say that I love him .. and I marry him but I am not ready I want time@@riaanand7961
Very nice 👌
Much needed 👍
Kaash ki aapki video me shadi se pahle dekhi hoti 😭😭😭😭
Very Motivational Video
Save Kar leti hoon.....jab meeting hogi,revise Kar loogi😇
Hehe
u are genius 🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂👌
Well done 😅😅
Thanku so much sir 🙏❤️🌹🌹
अगुआ भी सही इन्सान रहना चाहिए 😅
Hello sir plz couples height difference pr videos bna dijiye.ki height difference jayda me kya koi,problem h?
Hi
Muje ek acche larki chahe sadi ke lia im 25 good looking and good hearted and caring
bas ek video ya answer de dijiyega ji, agar kisi insan ne kuch galti ki ho, usko baad mein gusse ke waqt nahi sunayenge, galti ke liye accuse na karenge, aise insan ko kaise pehchane?