I agree with your all points . But seriously arrange marriage me parents hume itna time dete hai ki hum smjh sake ye sari baate Jo aapne boli hai ki us ldke me ya ldki me hai ya nhi ? Arrange marriage me marriage fix hone se phle hmare paas limited time hota hai ki hum us person(to be future husband / wife) ko smjhne ke liye ,to us limited time me hum kaise koi decision le ki in future hume regret na ho.Because aapne Jo points btaye hai unme se mostly points hume shadi ke baad hi realise ho sakta hai like aapne bola ki ye dekho ki vo kisi ki saamne aapka majaak ya aggressive to nhi hota we all know ki jitna limited time hume milta hai arrange marriage me ye partner ko smjhne ke liye I think utne time me koi bhi person apne aap ko control kr sakta hai ki vo aggressive na ho majaak na bnaye. Ye sari cheeje to shadi ke baad hi pta chlti hai ki real me vo person kaise hai.
So true Buddy but iska solution kya ho sakta hai qki mai bhi esi point par akar har jata hu ki uss hone wale couple me ek lambi conversation start hoti hai after date fix hone ke bad
Iska ek hi solution h Ki aap ye dekhe Ki uska weak point ky h jaise public place me jb aap usse mile toh unko gussa dilane Ki koshish kre nd tab dekhe Ki vo aapke saath kaisa behave krta h….or hmesha apna self worth samjhe khud Ki lyf me achievements krte rhe taaki vo aapki na chaha kr b respect kre
💯 agree so the solution is hame jyda se jyda time milna chahiye ... Jisse ham samjh sake ek dusre ko .... But vo family wale Dena ni chahte ...... Bas jang jari h 😂
Last line such a heart touching ___अगर लड़का सुंदर है और उसमे ये quality नही है तो आपकी जिंदगी में रोने आ जायेगे....🙏🙏 😊किसी ने सच ही कहा है की इंसान की सूरत नही सिरत देख के पसंद करो 👍👍
0:14 - important to listen 2:05 He must be a competitive guy a dreamer. 3:08 Must be a gentleman - how he talks about or deal with someone he doesn’t like. 4:35 Person who is full of life is ready to explore / experiment (most important) ready to try new things not rigid and harsh 6:21 Boldness- takes his decision and is strong to take family’s decision-not mumma’s boy. 8:22 Looks
Agar aap ladki ho aur jyada sunder nahi to Aisa best ladka agar mil bhi Gaya to aapko pasand bhi karega ya nahi kya pata. Ladki ke looks bahot matter karte hai Indian Shaadi me 😢
I am going to marry with a guy....and after watching your video now i can say that yes i selected a right guy for my future.Thanks for the amazing guidance.You are such an wonderful coach..i have ever seen😊❤❤❤❤lots of blessings
@@YourVikas Hey Vikas... very nicely u explained girls perspective thank you so much......but what about boy perspective can u make a video on that as well....what qualities girls, women should also have to live a full of life Actually the scenario is like if a person finds a guy with all these qualities even though she can't handle it in a good way just because she doesn't know how to deal with this much good quality of man n vice- versa Because everything in this world will happen from both ends it's not only boys should have this n girls with empty things n vice versa
I love this video. I've seen so many other videos on this topic and none of them actually represented what a girl would actually love in a guy. You have summed it up in the best possible way. Thank you so much, because today I am sure I am going in the right direction, and that I should stick to my own opinions, instead of those hyper feministic views being imposed, that we don't need, and wouldn't suit everyone's lifestyle. 😊 Thank you so much, for keeping it so simple and less overwhelming!
Shi kha pr loyalty aajke time pe tum kaise dekhoge apne parter mein control nhi hai ladkiyon ke pass khud ka.. koi bhi accha mila usko attract ho jati hai.. jo ladki shadi ke simple rehti hai jyada make-up kapde simple pehenti ho uske jyada chances nhi toh... Kuch bhi ho sakta hai... But khud ke upar control hoga toh loyalty ke chances jyada hai 💯
When i saw the thumbnail.. I thought it is something stupid i going to see.. But again.. Should not judge book by its cover... And i m completely agree with ur points... ❤
Hamare yahan to ladke se baat tab hoti hai jb engagement ho jati h...aur phir rishta todna bohot mushkil h...😢😢😢 Kash har ladki ko ye mouka milna chahiye ki vo atleast 3,4 months pahele baat kr le phir aage ka soche...😢
Bhaiya aisi bat kro jo practical ho arrange marriage me yaha to 1 bar dekhe usi 1 ghante me shadi final fir todne ka koi chance ni hota us ghante me kya khak pta karenge kaun kaisa hai Aur dusri bat chehra aur paisa hi dikhta hai us 1 ghante me us se jyda kya pta chalega isliye log yahi dono dekhte hai Aur arrange marriage me bat bhi tab start hoti hai jb engagement ho jaye uske bad rista todna mushkil hota hai aur itna time bhi ni rhta eng aur shadi ke bhich me ki kuch jan sake.... To sab raam bharose h arrange marriage me😂
And what do you bring to the table.do you know how to cook,do you earn the same as your man then yes you should expect what you mentioned in the comment or else you don't deserve a better man
God bless you too sir!! Mujhe bhi yahi lag raha ki ajkal shaadi karna thik nahi hai girls ko agar spni value girani hai tabhi unhe shaadi karni chahiye. jab tak sahi banda na mile tab tak nahi kariye shaadi ek to society me itni problem hai casticism etc. Ki kya hi kia jaye options hi bahut limited hain or arrange marriage mujhe pasand nahi ahi kuch samajh nahi ata I am 31 years old or shaadi ka man nahi bana paa rahi .
I love this video and the way you explain it is Simple yet so meaningful!❤ Unfortunately, I’m married and my partner doesn’t have any of these qualities and I know how much emotional & mental pain I go through every single day. Wish I had gotten this video earlier.
Where you can find these kind of gentleman?? Rarest of rarest with all mentioned qualities. In India it’s very difficult to find . Still boys get married on basis of their bank balances and degree. everyone is blind to see that as a person how he is? Is he ethically and morally right person with good family values?? Is he a family person?? Everyday living with him doesn’t feel like you are appearing for toughest exam? You are under constant fear and lack of empathy. You are not considered as human and treated just a thing with no feeling. Everyone in his family including him teams up and stand against a girl who feels helpless for her existence. This is very right video which can save many girls life and stops them to get involved in toxic relationship.
It's really so ture , such person with having such qualities is really hard to find. When men get married they treat their wives life their attendents and server. They rarely treat their wives as life partner in real sense . They think wife should be treated like tip of shoe. She should be stay under control. She doesn't have a right to live according to her wishes. It's better now to get married in this world for mental peace and self respect 👍
This is the very first time on TH-cam I watched something meaningful content after a long time I mean so very simple n meaningful Great job u are doing !!! Today’s youth need your guidance n support
Wonderful sir but i think it takes 3-5 months to know about that guy, in arranged marriage people dont give much time then my question us how we come to know about any guy in short duration in 1- 2 months... please reply
If They ask our expectations we can't tell them I want a gentleman. If you say that he starts pretending to be a gentleman to impress you. But in reality he is not a gentleman. It's a thing we need to observe.
Wow, absolutely right Vilas sir,I am 25+but I am single and I want this type of man in my life wo smart km h but ye qualities h usme to main usse sadi kr lungi agr aisa ldka milega to
Preliminary precautions If this is her second marriage, then be even more cautious. Often such girls have harassed their previous husbands with such laws and possibly extorted large sums of money from them. Check her divorce papers; seek information using RTI (Right to Information Act of 2005) from her local police station or court. Divorce papers not only mean “Divorce decree”. Please don’t forget to see MOU (Memorandum of Understanding) attached with it.
1. Competitive
2. Gentleman
3. Full of Life
4. Boldness
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Tq mera samay bachane k liye avi khana bnana chor k ye vdo dekhne aai thi 😅
@@sandhyajaiswal7877 It's fine 😊
Toh paise matter nahi karta hai
His financial position??😂
He provide me all comfort by his own effert
I agree with your all points . But seriously arrange marriage me parents hume itna time dete hai ki hum smjh sake ye sari baate Jo aapne boli hai ki us ldke me ya ldki me hai ya nhi ? Arrange marriage me marriage fix hone se phle hmare paas limited time hota hai ki hum us person(to be future husband / wife) ko smjhne ke liye ,to us limited time me hum kaise koi decision le ki in future hume regret na ho.Because aapne Jo points btaye hai unme se mostly points hume shadi ke baad hi realise ho sakta hai like aapne bola ki ye dekho ki vo kisi ki saamne aapka majaak ya aggressive to nhi hota we all know ki jitna limited time hume milta hai arrange marriage me ye partner ko smjhne ke liye I think utne time me koi bhi person apne aap ko control kr sakta hai ki vo aggressive na ho majaak na bnaye. Ye sari cheeje to shadi ke baad hi pta chlti hai ki real me vo person kaise hai.
It's true...
So true Buddy but iska solution kya ho sakta hai qki mai bhi esi point par akar har jata hu ki uss hone wale couple me ek lambi conversation start hoti hai after date fix hone ke bad
@@vikaskumargupta1170and tb tk we are late bcz chize toh fix ho chuki hai
Iska ek hi solution h Ki aap ye dekhe Ki uska weak point ky h jaise public place me jb aap usse mile toh unko gussa dilane Ki koshish kre nd tab dekhe Ki vo aapke saath kaisa behave krta h….or hmesha apna self worth samjhe khud Ki lyf me achievements krte rhe taaki vo aapki na chaha kr b respect kre
💯 agree so the solution is hame jyda se jyda time milna chahiye ... Jisse ham samjh sake ek dusre ko .... But vo family wale Dena ni chahte ...... Bas jang jari h 😂
Last line such a heart touching ___अगर लड़का सुंदर है और उसमे ये quality नही है तो आपकी जिंदगी में रोने आ जायेगे....🙏🙏
😊किसी ने सच ही कहा है की
इंसान की सूरत नही सिरत देख के पसंद करो 👍👍
Aare pr aajke time pe koi ladki bander jaise ko pehle hi reject kr deti hai bina koi baat kre..
@@himanshuwankhede2287sahi bat hai😂😂
Girls pehle status shakal hi dekhti hai
0:14 - important to listen
2:05 He must be a competitive guy a dreamer.
3:08 Must be a gentleman - how he talks about or deal with someone he doesn’t like.
4:35 Person who is full of life is ready to explore / experiment (most important)
ready to try new things not rigid and harsh
6:21 Boldness- takes his decision and is strong to take family’s decision-not mumma’s boy.
8:22 Looks
Agar aap ladki ho aur jyada sunder nahi to Aisa best ladka agar mil bhi Gaya to aapko pasand bhi karega ya nahi kya pata. Ladki ke looks bahot matter karte hai Indian Shaadi me 😢
Not only in Indian marriage but in all over world just like it matters the boys earning
@@sumitchahal3972 ya true
So true
Right
Ji maam sahi kaha apne
Vikas , you are a perfect guy which every girl would have dreamed off.quality of a true gentleman.
I am going to marry with a guy....and after watching your video now i can say that yes i selected a right guy for my future.Thanks for the amazing guidance.You are such an wonderful coach..i have ever seen😊❤❤❤❤lots of blessings
AAP to khubsurat ho..Bach Gaye aap...hum fas gaye😢
आजकल शादी ना करना ही बेहतर है।
haaa😅😅😅😢
😂😂😂😂😂
To lenge kiski 😂😂
@@abbunadiim बीवी क्या सिर्फ सेक्स के लिए होती है क्या?? शादी में बहुत जिम्मेदारियां भी होती हैं।
@@tanujpanwar7549 aajkal ladkiyon ko responsibility se dar lagta hai.. aur fir men's apni sexual desires ka kya kre..
He is a soldier and he is bravest man i ever find 🇮🇳my husband ❤thnx for this video
God bless you both ❤
@@YourVikas Hey Vikas... very nicely u explained girls perspective thank you so much......but what about boy perspective can u make a video on that as well....what qualities girls, women should also have to live a full of life
Actually the scenario is like if a person finds a guy with all these qualities even though she can't handle it in a good way just because she doesn't know how to deal with this much good quality of man n vice- versa
Because everything in this world will happen from both ends it's not only boys should have this n girls with empty things n vice versa
@@roshnimathankar2521 i can tell you boys perspective deeply if you want 🙂
I love this video. I've seen so many other videos on this topic and none of them actually represented what a girl would actually love in a guy. You have summed it up in the best possible way. Thank you so much, because today I am sure I am going in the right direction, and that I should stick to my own opinions, instead of those hyper feministic views being imposed, that we don't need, and wouldn't suit everyone's lifestyle. 😊 Thank you so much, for keeping it so simple and less overwhelming!
I am in my 30s and single... Looking for same quality in Man... You always give best advice... ❤
😂
I also in my 30's and I am also looking for a Girl for marriage,
@@MohitYadav-th7fz tumhe toh nhi milegi kyunki kuch naukri, kaam dhandhha hai nai tera
Tuh rehney deh baache
@@sosantoppo4229 to aap sabse khush ladki ho duniya ki, single rho aur enjoy kro agar family ka pressure na ho to🎉
@@jontyrhodes4155 main job karta hu Tera nalla nahi hu 😂😂,
Mera liya toh sabse badi quality loyalty hai.. loyalty na ho toh L lag jayega zindagi ka
Sahi bol rhe ho
Shi kha pr loyalty aajke time pe tum kaise dekhoge apne parter mein control nhi hai ladkiyon ke pass khud ka.. koi bhi accha mila usko attract ho jati hai.. jo ladki shadi ke simple rehti hai jyada make-up kapde simple pehenti ho uske jyada chances nhi toh... Kuch bhi ho sakta hai... But khud ke upar control hoga toh loyalty ke chances jyada hai 💯
@@himanshuwankhede2287ladke kaha khud ko control karte hai 😂
@@himanshuwankhede2287corporate affairs Delhi, saare mard 2 family set kar chuke hai
Loyalty aajkl bchi kha h yr
When i saw the thumbnail.. I thought it is something stupid i going to see.. But again.. Should not judge book by its cover... And i m completely agree with ur points... ❤
Hamare yahan to ladke se baat tab hoti hai jb engagement ho jati h...aur phir rishta todna bohot mushkil h...😢😢😢
Kash har ladki ko ye mouka milna chahiye ki vo atleast 3,4 months pahele baat kr le phir aage ka soche...😢
👍👍
Bhaiya aisi bat kro jo practical ho arrange marriage me yaha to 1 bar dekhe usi 1 ghante me shadi final fir todne ka koi chance ni hota us ghante me kya khak pta karenge kaun kaisa hai
Aur dusri bat chehra aur paisa hi dikhta hai us 1 ghante me us se jyda kya pta chalega isliye log yahi dono dekhte hai
Aur arrange marriage me bat bhi tab start hoti hai jb engagement ho jaye uske bad rista todna mushkil hota hai aur itna time bhi ni rhta eng aur shadi ke bhich me ki kuch jan sake....
To sab raam bharose h arrange marriage me😂
Thank you so much 🙏
Kehne ko to sirf 4points bataye apne but what u said is bang on perfect
so true❤ thank god I got all these qualities in my hubby🙏
I love the way you explain🥰
Thank you sir. Very informative video. God Krishna bless you always.
This vedio is made for me
Thanks a lot
😂😂😂😂
Very nice advice ..looks never matter ...the heart and the way he treats you that matters ...that importsnt ...
Exactly..
Ye kitni girls aisa karti hai
Very nice points.will surely give it to my daughter when her time will come
Buhaaaaaaaaaa❤❤❤
Thank God, I have these all properties, may be my future wife can also watch this video.😀
😄🙌
@@YourVikas p lol
Kya fayda fir bi single hai tu😂😂
Thank you so much for sharing these points.
Thanku so much mai bahut preshan thi ab mai samjh gyi hu jo mere pas h wo khas h❤
His voice 👌👌👌👌his thoughts 🌏🌏❤❤❤🌏🌏
♥️😍
Wow.. very nice ..
Sach he bhai.. puri zindagi ka satyanash mat karo .. . .
Exactly 😄🤟
Sir how to find some one is bold enough for you ? Plz give me guidance on this topic
My priority in descending order :-
1) Boldness
2) Gentleman
3) No Nasha 🚫
4) Competitive
5) Full of life ❤
Main ne to drugs addict ki bhi gf dekhi hai 👍👍
Thank you Sir.. for your guidance.
Mere husband me ye sari qualities hai, and I am so lucky to have him❤❤❤ and vo smart bhi hai😊
Competitive
Gentlemen
Full of life - i want to explore life,
Boldness
And what do you bring to the table.do you know how to cook,do you earn the same as your man then yes you should expect what you mentioned in the comment or else you don't deserve a better man
Bahut helpful hogi ye tips...👍
God bless you too sir!! Mujhe bhi yahi lag raha ki ajkal shaadi karna thik nahi hai girls ko agar spni value girani hai tabhi unhe shaadi karni chahiye. jab tak sahi banda na mile tab tak nahi kariye shaadi ek to society me itni problem hai casticism etc. Ki kya hi kia jaye options hi bahut limited hain or arrange marriage mujhe pasand nahi ahi kuch samajh nahi ata I am 31 years old or shaadi ka man nahi bana paa rahi .
Aapko toh kaafi logo ne propose kiya hoga koi pasand nahi aaya kya,
Sahi bande girls chunti kahan hai 😇😇
We broke up for fourth point…thanks to god…feeling blessed♥️…if everything has to be improved by parents then but about physical relationships…
I love this video and the way you explain it is Simple yet so meaningful!❤
Unfortunately, I’m married and my partner doesn’t have any of these qualities and I know how much emotional & mental pain I go through every single day.
Wish I had gotten this video earlier.
Las line is..... absolutely right
I am totally agree with u
Thank you ❤
Completely agree with what you said but very difficult to find such guys
Girls bhi mushkil hai jaha ladki dosti bhi status dekhkar karti hai baaki chize to door ki baat hai
I agree with your all points🎉🎉🎉
You r right sir ji😊
The best advice I have heard.
Correct vikas bhai
Thank you Sagar bhai❤
Where you can find these kind of gentleman?? Rarest of rarest with all mentioned qualities. In India it’s very difficult to find . Still boys get married on basis of their bank balances and degree. everyone is blind to see that as a person how he is? Is he ethically and morally right person with good family values?? Is he a family person?? Everyday living with him doesn’t feel like you are appearing for toughest exam? You are under constant fear and lack of empathy. You are not considered as human and treated just a thing with no feeling. Everyone in his family including him teams up and stand against a girl who feels helpless for her existence. This is very right video which can save many girls life and stops them to get involved in toxic relationship.
It's really so ture , such person with having such qualities is really hard to find.
When men get married they treat their wives life their attendents and server.
They rarely treat their wives as life partner in real sense .
They think wife should be treated like tip of shoe.
She should be stay under control.
She doesn't have a right to live according to her wishes.
It's better now to get married in this world for mental peace and self respect 👍
Lovely session 👍
Badiya 1 hi chiz sikhni hai fir me bhi shadi k liye ready.. 😎 thanks bro
Yeah😄❤
Awesome video.......keep it up.........
Thanks bro❤
So good qualities explained❤
Thank you for your beautiful advice and guidance bhai❤
Nice lessons
This is the very first time on TH-cam I watched something meaningful content after a long time
I mean so very simple n meaningful
Great job u are doing !!! Today’s youth need your guidance n support
🙌🙌🙌 शानदार!!
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Thank you Vikas such a amazing person you are
Bhaiya aap ek video bnaiye ki Saadi se pehle hum relation ko aage badhane ke liye hum paiso ki priority jyada de ya fir hum relation ko pehle rakhe ??
Dono ko rakhe
May you flourish a lot more in life
Hello vikas bhaiya.. Bhaiya pls ladko ye liye bhi ek same video.. Nd I must day i am ur AC not fan 😁😍 u posted so much informative content..
Ek no..
Say *
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Very informative and amazing and very true lines..thank you so much for sharing...😊 keep up the good work..I loved your video.
Wish I know this wisdom twenty years back!
Very helpful video. Thank you for all the information sir. 👍🏻👍🏻
Sir apne bahut ache quality btaye h bt
SBI ek me hona possible ni h ..
Ambitious ho skte h but baki to. Mushkil h
Hii i m piyalee from delhi..aapki video bahut hi interesting hoti hai and knowledgeable hoti hai thanks
Wonderful sir but i think it takes 3-5 months to know about that guy, in arranged marriage people dont give much time then my question us how we come to know about any guy in short duration in 1- 2 months... please reply
Thank you Vikas
विकास, 3 A का तो जिक्र जरूरी है:
Affair, Arrogance, Addiction
ये कैसे पता करे कोई ??
If They ask our expectations we can't tell them I want a gentleman. If you say that he starts pretending to be a gentleman to impress you. But in reality he is not a gentleman. It's a thing we need to observe.
Thanks to you Sir...May all these things will help us 😊
♥️♥️
@@YourVikas 😍
I have seen these 4 qualities in my Lover😊
Thank u jeej 🙏
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Need more videos on this topic
I felt so safe after seeing this video, so thankeww for sharing such imp things.💛💛
yeah he is amazing 😍
4 nuber point accha laga ❤
Thanks
U r soo good. Thank you so much 💓. I needed this . I knew I wanted this but u made it into points 👉 thanks 😊🙏
God bless ♥️
He'llo Sir, how to check the person is loyal in arrange marriage?
Wow, absolutely right Vilas sir,I am 25+but I am single and I want this type of man in my life wo smart km h but ye qualities h usme to main usse sadi kr lungi agr aisa ldka milega to
Right..talk .... thank you ji
Thank you
Ye nazakat h kya in terms of a girl and a boy please explain
Last few lines were so true...I felt it....looks shouldn't matter.
Really nice 👍🏻👍🏻
Thank you ❤
*itna quality sirf movies Aur webseries may Hota hai 🤣*
Haan bhai ye faltu gyan de raha hai bold jo full of life abhe jab baccha hoga na tab bolio ye sab🤣🤣 baccho ki zomadari nahi pata hai essa bas abhi
Codependent ho kya?
Good videoooo sir ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Nice information sir... amazing
Perfect timing😍😍😍
Yeah😄❤
Mai apki bat se ittefaq rkhti hu
All points are nice but i think Marriage is like Lottery 😉 kisi ka kuch b nikal skta h
Right. Sir ji...👍. .
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Thank you 🙏sir
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I'm going to note it down❤️
Wow,, why not ❤❤😍
Absolutely right
Thank you ❤❤
Agar koi insaan shaki he to par uska baki swabhav accha hai to ye case me kya kare? Aage badhe ya wohi full stop lagaye?
Full stop
Thank you for the video 🙂
♥️
Preliminary precautions
If this is her second marriage, then be even more cautious. Often such girls have
harassed their previous husbands with such laws and possibly extorted large sums of
money from them. Check her divorce papers; seek information using RTI (Right to
Information Act of 2005) from her local police station or court. Divorce papers not only
mean “Divorce decree”. Please don’t forget to see MOU (Memorandum of
Understanding) attached with it.
Life is already so so difficult for those relationships
One like is not enough like it's really good such a channel exists to relax all confusions😇
♥️♥️
Tq bhaiya🥰
Usefull
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Superrrrrr💥💥💥💥💯💯✌️✌️
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Congratulations bhaiya 2k🥳
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